Is ABUSE Biblical grounds for divorce?

We know that God is a god of marriage, not divorce. But we’ve all wondered: Are there exceptions to this? Are there biblical examples? Should I stay in an abusive, unsafe marriage for the sake of “sticking it out”? 💔 There is a big debate here, so we’re trying to be as careful as possible. We received this anonymous question from a follower via our SPEAK Pipe (linked below). Tune in to hear our response.
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[@daniellesjerven6593]

My ex husband was emotionally abusive to me and while we were separated he was looking at things that were inappropriate and he did traumatic things to our 2 daughters. Long story short I have been divorced now for 4.5 years. My parents are helping me raise my children 👧.

[@simplypositiveme]

I've been haunted by abuse and neglect my whole life. Pushing is domestic violence

[@clee266]

What do i do when my spouse put her parents first and decide to gaslight me? I have been seperated for 14 months. I praying she will return and i did all i can without forcing her. But i dont know what to do.

[@davidjamespoissant3448]

Pushing is abuse. Period. Full stop. It starts with pushing. Someone who can't control their body and violent tendencies is unsafe. End of story. Get out.

[@kaylamejia3280]

I have been separated from my husband for almost 3 months. I have suffered from extreme physical abuse from 1 week after we married. I was also pregnant with my son. It has been about 6 months since he put his hands put his hands on me. He says he is sorry and that I need to forgive and move on. But also blames me for his abuse. I feel like there is also a lot of mental abuse. I have also seen inappropriate images/videos that he has seen on his phone but he denies it. He has called me a bad mom and wife and tears me down with his words. I am at loss if I should end our marriage or if I should risk coming home.

[@ForwardTalk]

Good episode.

[@oreally8605]

Friend of mine. She's verbally and near physically abused for 22 years. Its down to threatening her life now. Problem is they're both lost and don't know Christ. Should she divorce?

[@wandabennett5610]

If there is no reconciliation and she gets divorced, is she biblical eligible to get remarried?

[@simplypositiveme]

I would like to learn that too

[@Awakening432]

Hi,
First time here, so I am a wife and a mother of 10 children, ages(8-24). I have been together and married for 20 years. I say my husband has abused me mentally, psychologically, emotionally and financially. He has a drinking problem since we've been together, he stays out for days at a time and comes home like it's nothing, he was hanging out with someone from his past back in 2018, I found out in 2019, he claimed nothing happened but my daughter saw a picture of them kissing and he says" she kissed him", and to say this person and I fought when my husband and I got together, that's betrayal. There's so much more but I don't want to take up the feed.

[@ydasda4210]

Adultery? Get out. To the first question, HE WILL NOT CHANGE. Get out.

[@Me-hf4ii]

If you look at what the Bible says about loving your wife, being Christlike to her, willing to die for her, etc, as well as all the things the Bible says about God hating violence and requiring men to be gentle and loving - a man who is abusing is wife is breaking God’s command. He has violated their sacred bond. He has destroyed what God sought to bring together. The wife leaving, seeking safety, and remarrying a man who WILL move her as Christ commanded so that she can be safe enough to be the wife Christ wants her to he is biblical.
It wasn’t necessary for Christ to overtly say “if you husband beats you to a blood pulp and screams at you and threatens you day in and day out, you are free to divorce” because at that point it is the husband that has committed the divorce. He has been unfaithful. He has broken the covenant. He has committed “pornea” in that he has committed immorality against the person who is supposed to be able to trust him completely in the sexual realm.
In God’s eyes, that marriage has been ended by the husband - and in His eyes, it probably didn’t ever exist.