When Loving Them Is Hard | Love Is | Part 7 | Jerry Flowers

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Komentáře • 213

  • @yahkar
    @yahkar Před rokem +206

    _Maturity doesn't mean you don't feel it; it means you know how to restrain it._ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Jaxmusicgal23
      @Jaxmusicgal23 Před rokem +2

      Amen!!

    • @deniselong6102
      @deniselong6102 Před 11 měsíci +1

      AMEN

    • @GodsGirl850
      @GodsGirl850 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Boy, Oh Boy, That's such a Battle for me. I need freedom right now as I speak! 😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @ginosmith506
      @ginosmith506 Před 7 měsíci

      Pastor Flowers.. this was a WORD. you cold wit it! Bless you brother. WeNeedJesus

  • @keitalong870
    @keitalong870 Před rokem +109

    "Stop letting your tongue loose when your heart is broken" 💔

    • @GodMade1012
      @GodMade1012 Před 11 měsíci +1

      FACTS

    • @hlengiwembata7045
      @hlengiwembata7045 Před 11 měsíci +8

      I need help with my tongue and how I process information when I'm angry

    • @nomvudukamabaleha7035
      @nomvudukamabaleha7035 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I need to promote self control and not letting my tongue loose

    • @tadalamponda1300
      @tadalamponda1300 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@hlengiwembata7045me too 😮cause yoh my mouth runs loose when I’m heartbroken 💔

    • @precious44
      @precious44 Před 7 měsíci

      You don’t get the miracle without the IMPOSSIBLE 🙏🏽

  • @Visionstovisuals
    @Visionstovisuals Před 5 měsíci +15

    "You pray for your enemies.. you know why?! .. because you don't want to."

  • @theopilane
    @theopilane Před 10 měsíci +22

    Culture tells us to match the energy but the word of God says Love them 😭 I was so convicted . Thank you God for using Mr Flowers !

  • @user-rl2ko7io2k
    @user-rl2ko7io2k Před 10 měsíci +14

    “Oversharing with the enemy”!! Now that’s a word!!

  • @paulaferguson1256
    @paulaferguson1256 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Just because it's hard, doesn't mean God is not using it!!!!!!!

    • @kyndracrump
      @kyndracrump Před 3 měsíci

      How did you do that emoji at the end?

  • @yahkar
    @yahkar Před rokem +67

    *FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!*

  • @TheJoyIsMyStrength
    @TheJoyIsMyStrength Před rokem +80

    "You are incarcerated to an apology that you may never get" Thank you God! I needed that word.

  • @patriciacampbell7296
    @patriciacampbell7296 Před rokem +34

    The way you treat God's people is married to your promise. That's a word right there🙏🏾❤

  • @user-bz7lj5ie3n
    @user-bz7lj5ie3n Před 11 měsíci +5

    Loving people that don't love you back... Agape!!

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Před 11 měsíci +12

    Be a kingdom representative for people who don’t love you back.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před rokem +29

    DON'T GO BACK TO THE CATERPILLAR PHASE FOR ANYONE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. ❤❤❤

  • @thekelliestark
    @thekelliestark Před rokem +12

    Maturity is when you out grow what you use to fit you!!

  • @yvettewaritay2654
    @yvettewaritay2654 Před rokem +38

    It's difficult for me to love certain people, however with God's help I can change.7/09/23🙏☮️❤️

  • @trishelleriley6756
    @trishelleriley6756 Před 5 měsíci +2

    FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS! HELP ME ALSO TO CONSUME YOUR WORDS OF CORRECTION, NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT, IN JESUS ALMIGHTY NAME, AMEN!

  • @thekelliestark
    @thekelliestark Před rokem +14

    Yes it’s difficult to love some people .. but I can feel God changing my heart toward loving difficult people. I have to see them through God’s eyes. Lord, teach me to love deep with your love. People deserve agape love 💕

  • @Miss_Tika1
    @Miss_Tika1 Před rokem +10

    I’m no longer interested in a lot of things I use to be interested in

    • @marquetta1992able
      @marquetta1992able Před rokem +4

      Amen💐👏🏽May Christ continue to create a clean heart mind and soul within you to love the Heavenly Father more in Jesus Name

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 Před rokem +2

      I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.

  • @jvdh1887
    @jvdh1887 Před rokem +7

    People always try to criticize assignments they don't understand!!!! Word right there Pastor Jerry

  • @AstrineCovington
    @AstrineCovington Před 10 dny

    Here listening for the 3rd time 🫠🥴 Holy Spirit please help me to be a doer and not a hearer of the word 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😭

  • @GodMade1012
    @GodMade1012 Před 11 měsíci +5

    People always criticize assignments they don’t understand.🔥🔥🔥

  • @BlessedLife291
    @BlessedLife291 Před rokem +25

    I needed to hear this message God seriously please open my heart and see this person from your perspective because I really do not like this person, but I know deep down they need love.

  • @TheComposerRell
    @TheComposerRell Před 11 měsíci +2

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY & MY LOVE. I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Před 11 měsíci +8

    The enemy hates when your focused on growing up.

  • @Midnight_manna
    @Midnight_manna Před 9 měsíci +2

    "You don't get the miracle without the impossible."

  • @nataliemontgomery6979
    @nataliemontgomery6979 Před měsícem

    This was so good!
    Lord help my maturity & discipline 😢 growth!!!

  • @brittneytollison1760
    @brittneytollison1760 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you father, in Jesus mighty name Amen 💛🙏

  • @Chinaecuatoriana1590
    @Chinaecuatoriana1590 Před 11 měsíci +2

    FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE. I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.

  • @openingup6762
    @openingup6762 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective witness in Jesus name Amen

  • @blackbutterfly271
    @blackbutterfly271 Před rokem +6

    Praying for God to change my heart. There are some people that are hard for me to love the way God has called me to. I am praying and working on changing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Godprovides369
    @Godprovides369 Před 11 měsíci

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS

  • @35tshone
    @35tshone Před 11 měsíci +5

    Might gotta listen to this again!!!! Thank you God!!!!

  • @joi5787
    @joi5787 Před rokem +6

    Father increase my maturity and my love. I want to be an effective witness! Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @gloriafigueroa7013
    @gloriafigueroa7013 Před rokem +5

    Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective witness ❤🙏🏽

  • @shaymason8415
    @shaymason8415 Před 7 měsíci

    I don’t fight for free🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
    Don’t miss manage the promotion 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
    Adversaries are married to promotion

  • @hunnycup2008
    @hunnycup2008 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You don’t want fans! You want the people God sends you!

  • @virtuouslyQuiet
    @virtuouslyQuiet Před 7 měsíci +1

    You hit me hard with the cut off game 😫 Thank you❤

  • @munchkinm6929
    @munchkinm6929 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Lol, Why he hit me straight in the heart with the cut-off game. God is so good. Thank you Jesus, for maturity.

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Před 11 měsíci +1

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS.

  • @glendabartholomew8210
    @glendabartholomew8210 Před rokem +5

    FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE; I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!!! Thank you Jesus!!!

  • @Tainiecko
    @Tainiecko Před 8 měsíci +1

    Oh this message convicted me right away. Thanks for the confirmation. I hear you Father dang 😂

  • @lizo8386
    @lizo8386 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Father increase my maturity and my love. I want to be an effective witness!! ♥️

  • @user-mf9uw1vg4w
    @user-mf9uw1vg4w Před 4 měsíci +1

    Lord, thank you Jesus for the illumination and freedom found I. This word! Lord, please help me to grow in emotional and spiritual maturity so I can reflect the goodness and mercy of God. Help us all to be less of us and more of you in Jesus name Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Pitbullover2814
    @Pitbullover2814 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thanks!

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Před 11 měsíci +1

    We should be mirrors of Christ.

  • @FOG_Fitness
    @FOG_Fitness Před rokem +6

    man I can't even quote bc it would be a transcription of the whole video. so blessed by this ministry and can't wait to go in person. may move to Texas for this ministry. every, single, word was an echo of what I've said, journaled and typed yesterday. so good 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ebaby2194
    @ebaby2194 Před rokem +2

    No more will I be Trapped by a Apology I never gotten or will Get !

  • @scottieearl7819
    @scottieearl7819 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you pastor Jerry! You opened my eyes today. I will play this again🙌🙏🏽🔥

  • @prophetess.carmen.777
    @prophetess.carmen.777 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Cutting people off for me is a protective mechanism, not to be selfish. Boundaries you know.

    • @Faith459
      @Faith459 Před 11 měsíci

      Amen I agree.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Před 5 měsíci +1

      As long as we are taking it to God in prayer. There are seasons we need to do that. Just so long as we aren't doing it in the flesh.
      If God gives us the instruction to let people go, it's no ones business but us and God. Some people need to be loved from a far. We must ask God to have people in our lives who will help us grow, and aren't toxic. It's tricky, but God gives us grace and clarity. Even in church it's hard because we are all sinners and the body of Christ. But we need to be careful about how we treat people

    • @prophetess.carmen.777
      @prophetess.carmen.777 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@abeekuworldchanger380 I love everything you stated! That is correct I always ask ABBA Father to show me what to do concerning each person! He always shows me! Most times it’s to let go and I am so grateful to listen. If not before God will always show me confirmation of why I needed to “let go.”

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Před 5 měsíci

      @@prophetess.carmen.777 yes! And whatever God says, be obedient to his instructions. He will honor your yes and loyalty when you are trusting him with what he is revealing to you.
      It's tricky with relationships because some people like an older version of you that they liked, so the new version of you is not something they can align with or lack the depth to go deeper. Some people need to be released not because they're evil, but because they're not going to be able to handle the calling God has for our destiny. Leave it to Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr teachings to always hit hard. I'm watching his playlists and revisiting sermons because he keeps it real and biblical and raw. Very hard to find that in ministers these days. He strikes amazing balance in his teachings

  • @720rlara
    @720rlara Před 10 měsíci +1

    🔥🔥 love this!! Time to grow up 🙌🏻

  • @jelicianorwood24
    @jelicianorwood24 Před rokem +2

    Yeah you right. I didn't like being attacked and didn't like spiritual warfare. I need to mature so that I can handle when things happen.

  • @porsha6883
    @porsha6883 Před rokem +3

    Thank you , learning to accept people for who they are & keep evolving.

  • @user-sg8hb2lb9j
    @user-sg8hb2lb9j Před 4 měsíci

    The reward for loving our enemies is God calling us sons of the Most High!

  • @35tshone
    @35tshone Před rokem +1

    Anger is pain pretending to be powerful!!! Jesus!!!

  • @LadyDoe111
    @LadyDoe111 Před rokem +3

    Pastor, Thank you so much for this powerful and much needed teaching.

  • @sheraycarey4661
    @sheraycarey4661 Před 26 dny

    Yes amen 🙏🏾

  • @chloestarr60
    @chloestarr60 Před 11 měsíci

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @beekreative6217
    @beekreative6217 Před 11 měsíci

    41:14 that’s good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jpoindexter6967
    @jpoindexter6967 Před rokem +2

    My Lord! I cringe so hard when you do the declarations bc I know we asking the Lord to do a mighty HUMBLING work! Thank you so much for your obedience this whole series has been so on time! May God bless you to continue doing His work!

  • @rondahubbard80
    @rondahubbard80 Před rokem +2

    People always criticize what they don't understand the assignment!!! This message is a true blessing!!!🙌🙌🙌💞💞💞🛐🛐🛐

  • @MyChosenChild
    @MyChosenChild Před 4 měsíci

    Hallelujah ❤

  • @lizo8386
    @lizo8386 Před 8 měsíci

    Amen!!!

  • @shielasabaria5420
    @shielasabaria5420 Před 2 měsíci

    ok first of all the timing of this video to pop up on my feed 😩😩

  • @hlengiwembata7045
    @hlengiwembata7045 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Fresh start ❤

  • @_whatnowofficial
    @_whatnowofficial Před rokem +2

    Maturity!!!!

  • @prophetess.carmen.777
    @prophetess.carmen.777 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Yes, God has shown me Exodus 14:14, to be still and know! Sometimes you do have be still and let God fight for you. Jerry good word, God brought me back to your sermons full circle ! I am thankful.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před rokem +1

    COME ON HOLY SPIRIT. HAVE YOUR WAY. AMEN. HALLELUJAH.

  • @RhenaLoveTarot
    @RhenaLoveTarot Před 5 dny

    Jesus die for those who persecuted him and betray him..

  • @Happybellyhappybrain
    @Happybellyhappybrain Před rokem +1

    Here we grow !

  • @blackbeauty2819
    @blackbeauty2819 Před 11 měsíci

    LISTENNNNN!!!!!

  • @precious44
    @precious44 Před 7 měsíci

    THIS RIGHT HERE 🙏🏽

  • @shaymason8415
    @shaymason8415 Před 7 měsíci

    It’s not selfish to steward your sanity

  • @kalelahardin9569
    @kalelahardin9569 Před 8 měsíci

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE!!!! I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @NiyaBlank
    @NiyaBlank Před rokem +1

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY and my love. I want to be an effective witness!!

  • @alcaliste2519
    @alcaliste2519 Před 11 měsíci

    Stop letting your tongue loose when your heart is you would just end up over sharing enemy or fighting an enemy

  • @nickloshenderson6968
    @nickloshenderson6968 Před 11 měsíci

    Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be ineffective Witness

  • @dorothyhenderson6515
    @dorothyhenderson6515 Před 6 měsíci

    Amen good word

  • @TheLolo7806
    @TheLolo7806 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Father, increase my maturity and my love. I want to be effective in the Kingdom

  • @Salena_salena
    @Salena_salena Před 4 měsíci

    I needed this word

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před rokem +1

    👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿

  • @IAMKAFFY
    @IAMKAFFY Před rokem +2

    Thank you Lord for speaking to me through this sermon.

  • @nomvudukamabaleha7035
    @nomvudukamabaleha7035 Před 11 měsíci

    It's not selfish for you to steward your sanity

  • @mbalosendhlovu6815
    @mbalosendhlovu6815 Před 11 měsíci +1

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE, I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS 🙏🏾

  • @FrankquanekLaing
    @FrankquanekLaing Před 4 měsíci

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @heartrenewed-byfaith
    @heartrenewed-byfaith Před 10 měsíci

    FATHER, INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE, I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS. in Jesus name. Amen

  • @nikkikibbe
    @nikkikibbe Před 11 měsíci +1

    If your emotions have Management!! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽

  • @amandadugger7290
    @amandadugger7290 Před 9 měsíci

    28:34 I felt that 😂 I’ve been driving a truck for 8 years now & I had let my mouth get so bad. Birds be flying at the drop of a hat if someone cut me off. I won’t even say what I HAD BEEN calling some of y’all’s grand mamas & papa’s..driving 52 in a 70. My mouth has definitely been in my top 3 challenging things I’ve been working on changing

  • @shanellferrell6051
    @shanellferrell6051 Před 11 měsíci +1

    OMG!!! Give all of the TRUTH Pastor!!! AMAZING word🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @MsBuffalo
    @MsBuffalo Před rokem +3

    Praise be to God ❤👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 your words are True and Living. I receive Father, Thank you Jesus!!!

  • @Midnight_manna
    @Midnight_manna Před 9 měsíci

    This is so good.

  • @beekreative6217
    @beekreative6217 Před 11 měsíci

    Whew Pastor on that neck today!!! Amen though 💯 our generation requires real 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @chrissy1232
    @chrissy1232 Před 6 měsíci

    This is good

  • @pracs3377
    @pracs3377 Před rokem +1

    Amen. Thank you for this word. 🙏🏾💚👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jestremera29
    @jestremera29 Před rokem +2

    Amen God bless

  • @merriamsedumedi6743
    @merriamsedumedi6743 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Am in awe of my God,His ways are Perfect🤯🔥🔥🔥💃heavenly Father thank you for Who You Are😭wow,thank You for using Mr Flowers in times as these🙏

  • @dthomas112993
    @dthomas112993 Před rokem +1

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE, I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @msvanessa8640
    @msvanessa8640 Před 11 měsíci

    FATHER INCREASE MY MATURITY AND MY LOVE I WANT TO BE AN EFFECTIVE WITNESS!

  • @SheenaMarie05
    @SheenaMarie05 Před rokem +3

    My God! Jesus… This word was SOOO good pastor Jerry! 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @zennyvelez146
    @zennyvelez146 Před 11 měsíci

    Father increase my maturity and my love I want to be an effective Christian

  • @thekelliestark
    @thekelliestark Před rokem +1

    Oh taste & see .. a Chef perspective that God is good

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Jesus for this changing word today and also for your obedience pastor to do what God has called you to do may God continue to bless you and your family 😊❤