We Had Our Home Checked By A Social Worker... | Adoption Journey 🌈

We Had Our Home Checked By A Social Worker... | Adoption Journey
We really hope this helps anyone else thinking of adopting or who is on their adoption journey. We wanted to document some of the key parts of our experience going through adoption in the UK. This was our first home visit, where the adoption worker came to check and advise on how we can keep our home as safe and child proof as possible. Comment any questions, loads of love! xxx
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▬▬ Contents of this video ▬▬
0:00 - Intro/Adoption Journey so far
1:15 - Why the social worker is visiting?
3:02 - Our home is a MESS
4:13 - What has stage 1 been like?
7:06 - House transformation
8:42 - Our biggest visit worries
12:13 - After the visit...
13:30 - Main recommendations
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[@haleighmclean3731]

I'll probably be attacked for this but I love watching you both. You are going to be amazing parents. But please please don't make the mistake of having your babies lives recorded. We all love you both and we will still love you if you don't record them. It is obviously your lives and videos and I can't stop you from doing it but please take it into consideration. I want to wish you good luck with your future. Keep shining❤

[@k-06-11]

It’s amazing how cautious you are and how much you care. It shows you’ll be great dads ❤

[@Lily-wo1py]

You guys will be amazing dads ❤❤

[@mossy-uq2dt]

you guys will be amazing dads sending much love from london ealing
😃

[@shanellecauchi6037]

You are both going to make such fun and wonderful parents ❤

[@Shane2009]

Another Shane lol

[@estherm7070]

Hey guys 👋🏼 I bet it was a bit of a relief that the home visit was over with 😅. Sending much love ❤️ from California USA 🇺🇸

[@MatthewandRyan]

Honestly so happy to have it ticked off 😂😂😂

[@destryjorg6944]

Amazing what you guys are doing!! Adoption is a special journey to take and it helps kids find a forever home. Wishing you luck on your amazing journey

[@LucysWorld11]

Still cannot believe yous could be parents before the end of the year!!!!! 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤

[@MatthewandRyan]

Aww Lucy! Literally so weird to think this Christmas we could have a little one! Hope you’re well! ❤️

[@louisesulley8049]

Hi I am a fun love you as a fun you will be a nice perents are you having a girl or a boy 🎉

[@monicacantu5427]

❤❤❤ love you guys so much!!! I feel like I’m there with you.

[@user-uh8hu4pb2k]

I'm so proud of you two I hope you two have a great child 😊❤😂🎉

[@Peyyyyyyyy941]

Your going to be amazing dads ❤

[@phoenixwalkeroleary5559]

Is it boy or girl

[@Heartstopperaddict.o.]

@@phoenixwalkeroleary5559I don’t think that we know the gender yet-

[@Peyyyyyyyy941]

They don’t know the gender yet

[@chloeaguilera7544]

You guys are going to be great dads and daddys! Whoever becomes your kid will be so lucky to have you!

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so so much 🥹❤️

[@lucasparks124]

​@@MatthewandRyanI thought U ain't gay but Its ok and u are going to be great dads 😊😊😊

[@joannjoki2266]

​@@MatthewandRyandoes not deserve life😂😂😂

[@ryanknight6008]

Congrats you two! So happy for you guys and hope it turns out well!❤

[@AmeliaRose-tf2xu]

Prank idea: tell Ryan u don’t want to adopt anymore and u only want him in his life

[@joannearvai8777]

Don’t be mean

[@Moona_on_pawzzz]

@@joannearvai8777it’s a prank idea💀

[@John-xq1dk]

Ryans use the comments to

[@user-xu7wb6rk2d]

Its a prank read the whole thing ​@@joannearvai8777

[@MermaidMaker]

Yes Ryan uses the comments to and he could see it and not like the idea

[@tashsims507]

Im soooo happy u allmost done .I’m hoping you are going to get a little boy or girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. I agree getting a lock on the make up/getting ready room having a loch on the door.😊❤😊❤. You 2 are going to be the best dads who ever is your future child or kids will love you guys so much are will be so lucky to have you 2 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@brooklynfarley7071]

Congratulats hope things go well i wish you pray and luck for your guys adoption journey

[@traceyjordan9284]

You will be great dad's. Its a pity that everyone doesn't have to have checks before they become parents. Good luck lovelies x

[@ligitamary4682]

I love you all!❤️

[@CharisRuane]

"IdK SwAlLoW CoNcAlAr" 😂

[@user-gn7zv7vg3t]

I loveeee your vid ❤❤❤❤

[@AliciadanelleJackson]

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@millsdoglover720]

So excited ❤❤

[@Swiftie_drinks_tea]

8:41 when ryan was sinign vlean the toilet got me rolling

[@peggycrain532]

That’s great! One other thing that I didn’t hear mentioned covers for any low electrical outlets.

[@samanthahughes864]

So happy for you x

[@Harrison_PlaysR]

Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Someonebestie]

I have been watching u for years on TikTok I didn’t think u would get to adopt a child but good luck I hope the best❤

[@artemisgkelndi3152]

My dear sweet boys, congratulations and may you have your little angel home the soonest possible!
I am single mama of 3 angels-devils 😂
Trust me when I say that love, love and love (and patience ... Still working on that... hahahaha) is what children need and you have loooooot of it! You'll be great dads!!!
My very best wishes!❤❤❤

[@manseljenkins499]

You’re gonna be the best friends in the world, I just know it, I just know good luck and you’re gonna be the best parents in the world go Matthew and Ryan

[@IsabelleTurner19]

I love your videos so much I love the journey you are going on

[@verneshaminto2976]

They are going to raise a nice baby and the baby is going to be safe❤

[@That1Brunette02]

“yOuR fAcE iS mAnIfEsTiNg A fAmIly” had me dying

[@briannablackwood4664]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-ir5er3xu3y]

I am so happy for you guys and maybe you can strat a family channel we love you Mathew and Ryan

[@Lucyandme]

You guys will be amazing parents and the baby boy or girl will love you soo much ❤️

[@noel_tallulah4834]

I'm so happy , I love you guys ..that child is going to be loving life with you two as parents. By the way random question, what is the colour paint you have in your living room ? It's gorgeous Xx

[@XOXO_rose_the_all_fours]

Uhm mum...

[@noel_tallulah4834]

@@XOXO_rose_the_all_fours Dahlea....

[@noel_tallulah4834]

Dahlea...

[@XOXO_rose_the_all_fours]

Lol

[@AsiyahStorer]

i am so happy for u guys 💍 and you care for each other and you will be amazing parents

[@charlie-annewilliamson]

Congrats guys so happy for u. 😊😊

[@kaylajade125]

Im from the UK and love your channel

[@sammyputnam665]

I am so happy for you
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@anuarvonen]

LovelyOnes!!!! Always!!!!

[@marieward9347]

You guys are amazing

[@stacypalmer1985]

I'm so happy for u 😊😊😊

[@duanecurley5608]

I love guys

[@sophieedwards3813]

Keep making videos for us and we can’t wait to watch it right now I love you ❤❤

[@catherinebaldry5907]

I support ur adoption and ur gayism so much you guys slaaaaayyyyy soooo much🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@user-ww4dp9dp1b]

I think having a baby is a great idea I mean like growing your family and as they grow they will love you

[@Itsurbestie928]

Ur going to be great father ❤

[@MatthewandRyan]

🫶

[@miriamkozlova5824]

@itsurbestie928 u mean fathers

[@maddiepe5pennell8]

Your going to be great dads

[@maddiepe5pennell8]

Thx Matthew and ryan

[@maddiepe5pennell8]

Thx

[@mildapriestley1869]

Love watching you guys ( good luck with the adoption) would love a reply it would make my day

[@MatthewandRyan]

Thank you so much for the love 🫶

[@amygray1861]

Amazing ❤❤❤❤❤

[@carlstephenson9644]

You will be the best parents in the world I love your challen

[@babyshea89]

No hate at all!! This is just my opinion!! First off I’d like to say that I absolutely love you guys and you’re going to be amazing daddies!!!!❤❤ and this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with you guys, but I feel like what the social worker said about the house like I am a single mother of 3 beautiful girl that are 17, 15 & 7 going to be 8 in May..anyways I understand that there is a lot of things you have to go threw with adoption and what she said about certain things I kinda just don’t really actually see a problem with some of the things she said you needed to do….like usually when someone has a baby there is ALOT of things that haven’t been done or even thought of yet, and you should also have just the knowledge and common sense to know what is safe and not with a new baby and threw all their stages you grow and learn with them ❤ and like I already said those things she said that needed to be done I’m SURE you both would of figured it out and or already kinda knew and thought about it!!! And it is also very good advice and helpful to share her thoughts about it, but I also think you should just live like you do and enjoy everything happening and just go with the flow ❤❤❤❤❤ sorry for the long comment also ❤❤❤❤

[@Felix._.the._.therian11]

HIIIIIII FIRST I LOVE YOUR VIDSSS

[@toraaxxx]

I’m first not u

[@Felix._.the._.therian11]

Nah this was 5 mins ago yours was 4 it says that check

[@toraaxxx]

@@Felix._.the._.therian11 o

[@Felix._.the._.therian11]

@@toraaxxx I'm not trying to be rude but sorry

[@traceyjordan9284]

Just watched your engagement video. I was in tears. It was beautiful x

[@Avarose5847]

I swear when u said we have to destroy the house I was like ok cya

[@allendudashworld7752]

Good luck

[@TheO.G.Lariz906]

I was here before 1000 likes on the video

[@LittleCherubNashey]

Those children (because I have a feeling you’ll have more than one) are going to absolutely adore you both! You are going to be fantastic dads don’t worry! 🥹

[@Marksimpson1]

Yessss I’m so glad that you’re both ready and you’re gonna be excellent parents!!! ❤

[@Shane2009]

My only concern is . Why would u need to lock absolutely everything. It’s just like. Put a baby gate on ur stairs. Like my baby sister doesn’t start opening cupboards. But it makes sense if it were a child with problems. Idk what does everyone else think

[@monicacantu5427]

I’ll be having a bad day and you both are always so happy it brightens my day. Really helps me with my depression.

[@briartinkerbell]

So happy for you guys!!!! Wishing you both the best of luck! ❤you will both make great dads! 💖

[@MatthewandRyan]

❤️🫶

[@Preppy-E-]

Your going to be amazing dads❤ who is gonna be daddy 😂 is there a real baby in the nursery training thing

[@ReinaColemanFansROCK]

HEY, MATTHEW AND RYAN!!!!! 🤗🤩😍👋❤❤
I have a question for you two : "When you come to visit me, here in Buckeye, Arizona, USA, I CHALLENGE BOTH OF YOU, TO A DANCE BATTLE CONTEST!!!! 😁💪💃🕺🏆❤ Do you accept my challenge, Matthew and Ryan?" 🤔😁👍👎❓️
❤ Your BIGGEST SUPPORTER, Reina Coleman. 👑✨️❤

[@gabrielle4]

Congratulations 🎉 you 2 will be such great parents! ❤

[@mahmoudmoussawel2670]

When you have kids
🎉😊

[@John-xq1dk]

Tip from a pro child as long as you feed it clean it and what I have screen time and play with it and take it to the park. Invite McDonald’s you’re gonna be there favorite foster home ever

[@JessicaVirgin-lf2jg]

Are you guys getting a boy or girl?
And will you adopt more?

[@user-rp8ne1qn9z]

You guys are so are going to be fantastic dads, whoever becomes you child will be lucky to have you ❤ I’m, so happy for you two ❤

[@sophierussell4059]

You will be brilliant fathers but quick question is the child gonna be in vids or not

[@Jamie-727]

how exactly

[@Jamie-727]

I I meant exciting

[@JessicaVirgin-lf2jg]

You guys will be the best dads ever hope you have a good journey love you !❤

[@Zoeybear123]

Wait how is it 14:57

[@kingofftheroad]

I I love the videos and I i am so happy you are a adopting can u get twins I love the house and tulips

[@ProFriend]

If you get a kid, PLEASE don't put them on You Tube as part of your channel. That would be a very bad look.

[@Neve-2012NRH]

agreed ❤

[@sophiebowman9604]

Hi

[@melissaburbulea]

Girl dad

[@LivJackson-mp3dk]

Btw I just subscribed to u

[@florence2350]

First plsss tag me your going to be great dads ❤❤

[@Swiftie_drinks_tea]

No

[@Githe-MariBarkhuizen-mf8jr]

Your both going to be great perents ❤

[@fahimarahman9903]

You are so cute

[@wolfstriker7679]

What is next Now's baby proofing slash childproofing I am so excited for you too❤❤❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧💙💙💙💖💖💖

[@davidthompson332]

Lol

[@nh0804]

I think you should get a boy so then it is a house of boys 😊

[@joannjoki2266]

The CEO of "pretend you actually gave birth"😂😂😂
I bet your father left you before you were born😂😂😂😂😂
Even your adoptive child will run away in seconds time😂

[@Orphanson]

L SOMEONE NEEDS A MOM L

[@Maws_On_PawZ]

you’re names orphanson-

[@Kian93]

lol so true 🌈 = 🤢🤮

[@sebastiandavis7815]

Good morning Matthew and Ryan how are you today that’s awesome bro are you ready for Friday good morning 🌞 don’t tell laxybox

[@florence2350]

What😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lenastewart641]

855 to like

[@user-sr4hm2xx7q]

First 17 seconds

[@Swiftie_drinks_tea]

No

[@user-sr4hm2xx7q]

YES

[@aisha.amador]

🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

[@nh0804]

Do you want to adopt a baby or teen or child
You are going to be amazing dads

[@mr.topphatguy9747]

Dont become vlogger parents for the love of god please dont be vlogger parent being parents fine being vloggers fine not both.

[@karl_ambler]

Poor kid

[@Geidi174]

Ryan and Matt are what we in the gay community call embarrassing

[@karl_ambler]

Fuck no

[@louisemcallister1719]

ɯԋαƚ ƈσυɳƚɾყ ԃσ ყσυ ʅιʋҽ ιɳ

[@Ava_playzroblox]

𝒢ℴℴ𝒹 𝓁𝓊𝒸𝓀

[@elaina000]

OMG I'm so early Ive been following u for a while now 🫶🏼 I'm so happy for you guys honestly. Can't wait I'm even nervous for u . 😬🫶🏼

[@MatthewandRyan]

Aww thank you so much for the love!! 🥹❤️

[@toraaxxx]

Congrats!! First.please pin