How To Truly Forgive | Joyce Meyer's Talk It Out Podcast | Episode 72
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- Who are you fighting to forgive? Whether it’s an ex, someone you used to call a friend, a parent, or even a person you’re doing life with, forgiveness is a hard thing-but thank God He’s willing to help us through the process! Listen as Joyce joins the girls and they unpack the steps you can take every day to let go of offenses, respond with grace to frustrating situations, and even forgive the people who’ve caused some of your deepest wounds. As you work with Him through the process, He’ll meet you right where you are and heal you in every place where you’ve been broken.
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Joyce Meyer, one of the world’s leading practical Bible teachers and New York Times best-selling author, shares encouragement and advice to help us enjoy our daily lives.
With a heart to share Christ and love people, Joyce’s messages help people in all walks of life to grow in their faith, learn to study the Bible, find healing from the wounds of life, get answers to life’s questions and encounter the love of God in a powerful way.
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"Do not EARNESTLY remember the past things"...that has literally liberated me. Thank you.
Forgive. Get deliverance. Be set free!
You always imagine that those who hurt you are doing so well and having the time of their life. In reality, offenders live in the same difficult world that we all do. When I let go and let God take the reigns in those situations, He does. As time passes, you will find that all is not - was not - so well for those who offended you. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord. Our only job to do is love them and showing kindness. Rest with that knowledge.
Wow that was really big of Jay for what she did. And like Joyce said, more importantly she did want God wanted her to and will keep a positive relationship with her daughter. From one divorced mom to another, it does get better. God bless Joyce, the Talk it Out Cast, and everyone reading this post. 🙏🏾❤️
I have forgiven. I recently realized I have let it all go. Praise the LORD God in Jesus' name, amen 🙏 🙌 . Hugs
Jay when you said you congratulated your ex-husband even having your daughter in their wedding I felt so proud of you! How incredibly strong woman God helped you to be. You are amazing woman! Anyway I cried so many times during all the conversation. Thank you all for sharing your life with us!
This episode is the single most important message I’ve heard in forgiveness and the part about being judge for our actions and not what someone else’s done put everything into proper perspective for me when it comes to forgiveness. No matter what someone’s done, God still expects me to do the right things always; that’s how I’ll be judged.
We're so glad to hear that this episode was a blessing to you! 🙏 -Team JMM
Jay, you're so precious! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Love you, praying for your heart 💛
Thank you for your prayers! We are so grateful for you! -Team JMM
Her story totally changed my life. Thank you for letting God use you in changing lives. I am forever grateful for your love and sacrifice to humanity. Love you Joyce meyer!
I'm alway in pain I don't know how you dealt with you pain
Jay has blossomed so much and it’s encouraging to me as I’m dealing with life post-divorce. I’m angry with my ex but god is walking me through this.
Love these ladies. Refreshing to see the goodness and bravery and wisdom and honesty. Thank you Jesus.
Jay, you're an inspiration. Your story made me cry. That's so beautiful. Thank you for sharing💕🙏
Thank you for your kind words! We are so glad to hear that this episode blessed you! -Team JMM
J you are strong and I pray beauty for ashes and all your pain. Thanks all for the conversation. Always a blessing
I pray for Sylvester in the heavenly realms and in the spiritual that she is given wisdom and discernment and also,she is given peace she needs peace help me and her in our minds help our minds to be renewed now in christ Jesus name I pray amen
Amen 🙏
I had to forgive the person for abusing me and so many other people I thank God for you love you Joyce in Jesus name
Thank you four all the talk it out programs. It’s help me so much because of the honest Conversations💕 big hug from Norway 😀
Hi Ellen! We're so grateful to hear that the Talk It Out podcast has been a blessing to you!! 🤗😊 -Team JMM
Jay and everyone thank you for being so honest. This is so liberating to know my emotions do not always agree, but I am able to walk in forgiveness. I have been beating myself up for how I feel.
I love how she clarifies and says she doesn't want to be aloof to things but she wants them to roll off 💖 I struggle sometimes thinking of forgiveness and moving on and I say "well I don't want to be naive" but yes I really do so badly want to genuinely forgive while looking at the world honestly. This is my prayer 🙏
Thank you ladies. I hear my story in yours. Forgiveness is a decision I must make every day. Anger and bitterness is such a burden to carry.
Being triggered and pulled back. The hurdles can seem immense. But I too must be forgiven by God everyday.
Forgiveness is a gift I must give myself to soften my heart and love again. To Take a leap of faith and trust again, to truly live.
God is calling me to forgive. ❤️
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Don’t get talked out of your dreams; switch over to “I still believe.” I still believe means the disappointment is not going to cause you to get discouraged. The negative chatter and people who don’t believe in you are not going to dampen your faith. How long it’s taking, who did you wrong, the environment you were raised in, is not going to stop your destiny. Pass the test. God is on the throne.
I love your show❤️❤️. I religiously watch every episode. Fifteen years ago I became a paraplegic incomplete, due to a spine surgery. I live lively with the joy of the Lord in chronic pain and walking challenges.
I would love for you to perhaps include a woman on your show who lives with a physical disability to help model women in a blessed reality of living, for those like me. 😃
I pray that one day the ladies will speak on the subject of strongholds. How do we go about dealing with personal problems that have been in our life for years. Especially something that no one else knows about and you have prayed over and over again asking God to do whatever needs to be done to help you get rid of the stronghold. And every time it seems like you're making progress you fall right back into the Trap / sin. I'm 40 and I personally have been dealing with a stronghold since I was a very small child around 5 years old. Not every stronghold comes around when you're a teenager or a young adult. And it's even more scary when you've had the issue since you were a small innocent child like I was.
Don’t forget that we can only do it through Christ and I know it’s not easy but know that God knows your hart and that you want to change that. Pray for strength from Him and listen to sermons about strongholds or spiritual warfare. Also read Battle Field of the mind. I love Paul Washer, maybe look to see if he has anything that can help. I will be praying for you too. Have a blessed day
I'm in agreement with a talk on strongho...until I heard a teaching on it I didn't quite grasp what and how to deal...I too hv things ..strongholds since age 3 where it began ..I had to stop sharing with family because they didn't wanna hear it...im better but some things are still there that cause me to trust anyone
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Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We’re sorry to hear about the difficulties you’re facing in this season. Know that the Lord is with you now and always. With His help, you can overcome any stronghold. When you’re hurting, in trouble, or waiting for answers in your life, believe that your help has been sent out from heaven and it is on the way. We encourage you to check out bit.ly/2XWWFFj and bit.ly/2xHvErV. We are praying for you! -Team JMM
The best way to deal with is cast it to God and find two people that you can shared it with preference to someone outside your daily life and not emotional attached to you and someone you can pray with after sharing it 🙏 that can be the start to stop thinking about it very often.
Such an excellent suggestion. Thinking there are many of us dealing with strongholds. I only recently found out what they were. I am sorry you have been struggling with yours since you were a small child. You will be in my prayers faznout.
Hi ladies, I’ve learnt earlier on from Pastor Joyce Myers to forgive because it’s for, Pray for them and ask God to help them to see what they are doing and help them to change their ways Amen. Love you all and all those in the 🌍.
A real blessing - cried per usual, not even sure why. I don’t agree with not embracing the pain though. You don’t want to dwell on it but if you don’t feel & process the pain, the intensity pervades. Grieving and working through pain is complicated and can go on for decades - there are layers upon layers but yes, always forgive and pray for the people that have hurt you or you will remain stuck.
I've appreciated and learned so much from every Talk It Out lesson I've watched. This one was probably my favorite. I'm sharing on Facebook. God bless you Sisters!!!🦋💕
Oh yes! Saying this helps me: I forgive; I let go of lies behind; I work so hard on improving myself that I have no time to criticize others.
Sorry is only as good as the actions taken to change the behavior that caused the hurt.
Everyone can be forgiven with God’s strength in our hearts and minds. Even one’s self!
I literally cried when I heard what Jay did in regards to the affair of her husband and blessing his new marriage. I could totally feel the pain with her in that moment! I know the world says no Justice no peace… But I know the prince of peace brings justice and it was paid for on the cross. God bless her and this group of ladies! REALLY needed this today. Love you ladies so much.❤️💯🙏🏽
So HELPFUL! Forgiveness isn’t a feelings it’s a choice of doing right, by the way I treat the person. I can do that. So helpful!
This was God'Club! Amen!
Jai, your obedience to God inspires me. You are a good role model.
Jesus what great a love bound you to that cross. You destroyed death and rose from the grave so we can too. Thank you for your act of sacrificial love and your promise of everlasting life for all who will believe in you. 🙏
Needed this thank you Joyce! Love these talk ut out podcasts very edifying 😃💙
We're glad to hear that this episode was a blessing to you! 😊 -Team JMM
I truly look forward to these videos and get so excited when they come out! Also this is just the message I needed to hear today. Thank you for these videos!!!
Me too!!
Thank you for reaching out and sharing that! God bless you, Sydney! -Team JMM
I prob-up this pod-cast up onto my tv 📺 and we watch as family❤️❤️🩹
Blessings 💕
That's so great! God bless you and your family! -Team JMM
I totally LOVE THIS PROGRAM 😀, is so real, Thank God and thank you For making this program, As a Christian woman I feel so happy to hear that I'm not the only person going through this unforgiving process, I'm happy For a Real Christian program. Thank you 😊
Joyce God chose Dave for you your strength and the loveyou have for God is such a testimony I admire u both
Such an important conversation and so helpful, life changing. Thank you beautiful ladies for sharing your stories. Thank you my beautiful Joyce. Love y'all.😊😘💕💕💕👏
Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, who's smooth Holy Spirit move.
I THANK 👑 GOD FOR THIS VIDEO. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU! I NEEDED THIS! ❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹
Hi ladies.I love this show.We all have to forgive and forget for the Lord to work more powerful in the sitiustion.
Praise the Lord! Prayerfully you all see this comment. Something the Lord put on my heart for my sister who experienced the divorce is that the best thin you could do is detach yourself from the situation; you don't have to heal holding on to, accepting, or engraving yourself into the situation. You can let go & heal without making your involvement in the situation, hurt, pro pain as apart of the forgiveness journey. The Lord will help you with this! Praying for the BEST outcome as I know God is not done with you yet; He's doing a beautiful work in you
I love Joyce Mayer
We are so proud of you Jai
Thank you for your kind words! God bless you! -Team JMM
All the questions i had about forgiveness got answered here. Glory to lord❤
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I love listening to podcast like learning how to forgive people who hurt me so bad. I ask God to help me because I have a situation where I don't have the best relationship with my mom and I have been mad with her for along time. For the things she put me through but it taking time for me to forgive her. So it a working process.
I get my spiritual food anytime Joyce opens her mouth. Joyce the word you speak, confirm with the word of God I read every day and season of my life. This makes me shares tears of joy and ask who I am that He is mindful of me. Thank you for availing yourself to God.
Love this when joyce is there....she has helped me so much...she is so honest and real.....she helps me to have courage to let God help me change xxx
Thank you for reaching out and sharing that with us! We're happy to hear that you have been blessed by Joyce's ministry! God bless you! -Team JMM
Amen🛐
I needed this
We're grateful to hear that this blessed you today! -Team JMM
This was so good!!! Thought I forgave my sister, but when O ppurtunity comes, I will tell what they did to me!! But I really thought I loved her and forgave her, but when I say anything, I always see my ugly!! Disgusting is me who has not forgiven a beautiful flower God made. We are all beautiful in His sight, no matter how we have all failed Him.!
We are praying for you, Jenni! We so grateful to hear that this episode was a blessing to you! -Team JMM
I love you ladies!! Thank you for being genuine!! 💝
I forgive my enemies however sometimes I don't feel God's protection. Please pray for my eyes to see the Father's love.
An amazing podcast happy birthday Joyce you look amazing for 80, you have given me inspiration to go on after loosing my husband in August 2022 thank you!!
I am learning to forgive now , I am in the process. IGod is Not done with me yet . Thank you So much . God is healing me From So much unforgivnes and a very very Bitter angry Spirit i have had For just about all my life . Thank you So much for this Joyce Meyer and All the woman on here. Praise God !!! 🙏 🙏 💕
Amen thank you for this message❤
Thank you Joyce for another amazing episode!! 😃😃
Blessings to you, Kaitlin! -Team JMM
That is huge Jay!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I had to go back and repent to my child concerning her father. Jai we are walking a similar journey. I have more children though ❤😂. Honey the heaviness of forgiveness always gets me bc I’m like Lord I don’t want you to forgive me the way I forgive. So I’m choosing to forgive in spite of. Though he slay me yet will I trust him. ❤️ Thank you ladies. This is a daily journey for us all.
Love you ladies I enjoyed this video my favorite lady in the whole wide world Joyce Meyers God has used you so much to keep me on my toes about my whole life and everything I’ve been through as she has most of foremost is forgiveness for me ! 💯❤️🙌
Thank you Holy Spirit for giving me the grace to forgive.
Thank you Jai, Ginger, Erin, and Joyce. You are not only a friend to me but a family. I love you.
God bless you Jayi for reaching out to your ex husband new wife, you are the better person for it and I wish Joyce wasn't abused by her father but I wouldn't be a better person because I can relate to her and I'm not upset with anyone now because of her. God bless you all and think the world of all of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful, powerful, thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing your stories today on this podcast, ladies!! Your strength and honesty is so inspiring!! Many blessings to you all 💚🙏🦋
Blessings to you as well, Amanda! We're so glad to hear that this episode encouraged you today! -Team JMM
Wow, such kairos timing. This video popped into my feed just when I needed it. I feel like I empathize with you all, all the way from Singapore! So eye-opening on the topic of forgiveness.
Yes we can ask God to erase the negative emotion/pain attached to those memories , thank you ladies and thank you to our lord and savior for loving us so much
These podcast are so helpful. Thank you ladies. ❤
I really needed to see this today! I have been having a hard time forgiving someone recently that's hurt me and my son, but after hearing what Joyce had to say on this episode I understand I don't have to like her, I will love her as God does, and do right and pray for her and do what God ask me to do. I have been struggling with this for awhile and that is blocking my blessings from God. I forgive her for breaking my family up may God bless her and their new baby coming soon, may nothing be wrong with the baby ..
They are cousins and having a baby. Family with family is a sin? But I forgive him and her. I will be praying and talking to Jesus about all of this when I get off here.
I LOVE this podcast! It is the best. I love Joyce Meyer and all that she does for us. Thank you God for her and people like her❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏
❤️❤️Thank you ladies,what an incredible conversation ❤️🙏
Jay, I’m so proud of you!!
I wish I was there to give you a big hug because your growth through this hardship has been a blessing to watch. The more we make God the focus, he has such power to change our lives for the better.😘
Thank you for your kind words, Jacqueline!! God bless you! -Team JMM
Great episode. "Forgive and Walk in Love"
We're happy to hear that this episode blessed you today!! -Team JMM
An amazing word. I needed this.
Great Talk Ladies❤ Saying even to myself or close friends I forgive you takes a lot not to keep thinking about the offense when something triggers it. I love what you all said that we are forgiving others because Christ forgave us first. I may have to put a reminder on my front door so when I'm still hurting I can turn to the best source Ever.
Thank you ladies!!!
What a blessing to work with such beautiful 😍 Let's remove the word "hate " from our vocabulary. We can "dislike" with much less pain and hurt. Blessings for all 😇🙏
Hurt me all you want. I can let that go. But hurt my kids and I struggle hard with forgiveness.
Forgiveness is truly powerful!! Thanks! Don't earnestly remember!
thank you for doing the word so well
GREAT episode. This is a really important thing that we all need to be reminded of. Forgive and walk in LOVE!
God bless you girls!!! can´t wait for next episode!!
We're so glad to hear that this episode blessed you! 🤗 God bless! -Team JMM
Very powerful. TY, ladies.
Great conversation ladies it takes a lot to share the most intimate details of your life in order to help others. I came away from this with a new perspective on forgiveness that it is a process to be taken with Spirit you don’t need to do it alone. Friends help but Spirit will move us past the hurt to forgiveness and it may take us years but the freedom to not carry the burden of anger is freeing us up for a better life.
Thanks for this sharing about forgiving. It really helps me move forward and let the past in the past. God bless you
I have recently forgiven someone who cussed at me. Thank you for commenting on Ephesians 4:32. The person has not apologized and I am now able because of your talk,able to move forward.
Ginger thank you for the tenacity to bring an idea, a dream, albeit a vision from God, to the reality of being ANOTHER world wide blessing of Joyce Meyer Ministries. God bless and keep you all. Love brings life🙏👍🙂
I now understand that forgiveness doesn’t excuse the offense, but you free yourself from harboring the pain from it. I also know you can set boundaries and are not required to be a doormat or be Taken for granted by the person you forgave. Continue to pray God’s blessings because God has Continuous mercy and grace for us all.🙏
Thank you...such a good subject.
Depends on what kind of mood I'm in. I want to Harbor it for whatever reason, there's a deeper reason. When one is hurt, 1 hurts back. Sometimes until the word takes that too.😅❤❤🎉🎉
Thanks for being authentic, ladies! Really appreciate you.
We appreciate you as well, Laina!! God bless you! -Team JMM
Father i have sinned forgive me i look to the government&others see the ugliness evil they do but fail to accept my ugliness/evil. Help me father to see my ugliness/my sins, recognize & accept the sins i commit in all of my life heart& soul. Thank you father for your wisdom& requests that you have changed me. Thank you for the wisdom & use of Joyce Meyer in her llife&everyones life for glory of you . almighty wonderful counselor king of kings.thank you Joyce&family. staff. volunteers. Peace joy love to you all. Thank you for your thoughts. Requests inmmy life & others. Asking God thru others & self is so powerful&Gods miracles in r lives. I am so blessed.
This has really helped me learn to forgive❤ thank you ladies
I struggle with this but we have to think about people we hurt just forgive and mean it God 🙏
Forgiveness is not all God is good Amen
I needed to hear everything said today. This very morning at 4:22 AM! I had so many perplexing questions about forgiving those who hurt/ mistreated without apology, that it was eating me up and blocking my progress. I've been seeking God for deliverance in this area because they seem to be fine even though I'm not. I've decided to take my life back and live the way God has always wanted me to live and that is in peace and abundance. Thank you lady so much for taking the time to share your stories and to help all of us out here who are dealing with this issue of forgiveness and some type of way. Thank you for the clarity the scriptures and the real talk about real issues that we all go through and don't have a really good platform that is honest and open about this type of thing.
Wow this message is so deep .....I really learn a lot from JMM and the way you are so open with your life it really helps coz most of us are going the same issues. Good job to JMM ..love you.
Please keep these talks coming..it's truly helping me😢😢💜🙌🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you for this programn❤
One of my favorite episodes❤️ amazing women of god thank you!
Thank you Mama Joyce. As a young believer, your teachings were my church. So so blessed by the work of your hands. God bless you and the team. This teaching is awesome!
He said to his law in I'll never change today tomorrow yesterday Will never change always same
This is an AMAZING teaching. I so needed this. Joyce explained forgiveness in a way that I never have heard. People often say your emotions are the things that determine whether you have forgiven. Help me/us LORD
Forgiveness is taking back your power in a painful cunfuseing situation in are life pain suffering brings about learning growth truth honesty haveing faith in thy unknown unseen trusting god in all aspects of our lives never give up stand steadfast in perseverance an faith god has it covered no worries ❤️🙏🏽🌹love y’all 👑👑s
These talks have helped me tremendously. Thank you, thank you, thank you
We're so blessed to hear that, Lori! -Team JMM
I could only do the best that I could do. You mentioned it so casually but it speaks volumes to me. I’ve had traumatic brain injury since 1968 and people who don’t understand brain injury are very critical in my areas of struggle. I first blamed me but when I was properly diagnosed and treated I tried to explain myself to others and when they really don’t care to know what I deal with every moment of my life, I blame them. I then have to forgive them, over and over again. It’s exhausting and, frankly, it’s so much easier to hermit but I don’t think God wants that for me.