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  • čas přidán 27. 04. 2015
  • The NHS could save £27m a year by changing the way it deals with alcoholic patients, new research seen by the Victoria Derbyshire programme suggests. Alcohol abuse costs the NHS £3.8bn a year, £145 for each household in the UK - one in three of all A&E admissions are alcohol related, which can rise to 70% on a weekend. But patients who attend the emergency department or inpatient ward at a Manchester hospital in with issues related to alcohol abuse can now be sent to a specialist unit where they are treated for their addiction for a week. Some 75% of the people who come through the unit do not go back to hospital for at least the next three months. Independent analysis from John Moore's University found the unit saved the NHS £1.3m a year. If the same approach was taken across the country the researchers say it could save the NHS £27.5 m in England alone.
    Jim Reed reports.
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Komentáře • 2,1K

  • @ThornhamBoy
    @ThornhamBoy Před 4 lety +4057

    I did my detox in the place in the video. I spent 2 weeks in here.
    I was drinking 30+ cans of Stella a day.
    This place saved me. I was 34 when I went in there. 18 months sober now

    • @coyr2383
      @coyr2383 Před 4 lety +89

      Keep it up , one day at a time you'll get there in the end

    • @davidthomas9960
      @davidthomas9960 Před 4 lety +54

      Congrats buddy, keep it up

    • @fredsoda3034
      @fredsoda3034 Před 4 lety +14

      What is stella ?

    • @ThornhamBoy
      @ThornhamBoy Před 4 lety +48

      Fred Soda Loopy juice

    • @Sloooth
      @Sloooth Před 4 lety +12

      Keep it up! Rooting for you:)

  • @davym23
    @davym23 Před 4 lety +842

    8 days sober, hope i can keep going

    • @supertajnykana8146
      @supertajnykana8146 Před 4 lety +14

      Stay strong 💪 U can do it

    • @davym23
      @davym23 Před 4 lety +18

      @@supertajnykana8146 fucked it mate

    • @johnhewlett525
      @johnhewlett525 Před 3 lety +19

      8 days is still good...I've been clean for 10 months and it's so worth it..I have my life back..keep going ..1 day at a time...you will be surprised when 8 days turns into 8 weeks ..I had to detox in hospital and had hallucinations the lot..I'm never going there again ..good luck ..be strong ..8 days is brilliant well done

    • @deneseweatherby7378
      @deneseweatherby7378 Před 3 lety +1

      Congratulations!

    • @benp7885
      @benp7885 Před 3 lety +2

      Still sober?

  • @anthonywhite9912
    @anthonywhite9912 Před 3 lety +931

    Just clocked 1 year sober and don't intend to start drinking that poison for the rest of my life. One day at a time sure adds up quickly.

    • @howey935
      @howey935 Před 3 lety +32

      Well done man i stilk take it 1 day at a time and my last drink was in 1999

    • @ay8483
      @ay8483 Před 3 lety +2

      Well done, congrats 🎊

    • @tablettab3221
      @tablettab3221 Před 3 lety +5

      Congratulations well done iam an ex addict and know how hard life is so its just one day at a time an stay busy an dont worry about life, well done

    • @josiej89
      @josiej89 Před 3 lety +2

      Wonderful news, you’ve got this!!!

    • @saradavis1935
      @saradavis1935 Před 3 lety

      Wish I could do I drink a bottle of vodka a day and hide it from everyone I dare not ask for help but it's killing me

  • @brandonwilson2732
    @brandonwilson2732 Před 4 lety +1670

    Addiction is the only prison where the key is inside.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 Před 4 lety +22

      Brandon Wilson mental illness?

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 Před 4 lety +4

      S B ok 👍

    • @linzg9680
      @linzg9680 Před 4 lety +29

      That is such a sad but beautiful statement. ❤️

    • @georgiageorgia5772
      @georgiageorgia5772 Před 4 lety +11

      No, trauma is as well.

    • @iancote7258
      @iancote7258 Před 4 lety +21

      S B you’re disgusting. Some people can’t help it. Some people are born addicts. Some people can’t fit in and are pressured into drugs. Your parents probably handed you everything. You’ve never struggled you’ve never been there. You buddy are the type of people that should catch a round.

  • @pinklotus2443
    @pinklotus2443 Před 3 lety +742

    After two stints in detox, three A & E visits and many years of struggling, I've been sober for 3 years and I feel amazing. It took me til I was 34 to finally get myself sober but I'm so grateful I did it. I still smile to myself every morning when I wake up with no hangover, feeling healthy.

    • @Rick_Cleland
      @Rick_Cleland Před 3 lety +7

      👏👏👏👍👌

    • @onioncutter6847
      @onioncutter6847 Před 3 lety +15

      Keep going. I’m still drinking and it’s no good. Productive but still bad. Haven’t woken sober for 20 years. Doctor says liver is in trouble. You’re doing well, All the best.

    • @anthonywhite9912
      @anthonywhite9912 Před 3 lety +18

      Took me heaps of visits to And E, 4 rehabs, 2 jail terms and until I was 47 before I decided to stop drinking permanently.
      14 months sober and don't really miss anything about it.
      When I think about the way that I was drinking before, it scares me, can't believe I was so irresponsible with my life.....

    • @Rick_Cleland
      @Rick_Cleland Před 3 lety +9

      @@anthonywhite9912, Same thing here, countless stays in hospital, vomiting pure blood and the DT's.

    • @naelyneurkopfen9741
      @naelyneurkopfen9741 Před 3 lety +7

      @@onioncutter6847 I truly hope you find your way out of this.

  • @Jamie-ho1wg
    @Jamie-ho1wg Před 2 lety +289

    My mother is a alcoholic, I've seen her relapse many times but thankfully she's now 3 years clean. These places are a lifeline, everybody deserves a second chance

    • @RobertBoyle11
      @RobertBoyle11 Před 2 lety +6

      I'm so happy to read this, wishing you and your mother all the best!

    • @buskingkarma2503
      @buskingkarma2503 Před 2 lety +4

      God bless you 😢I'm finding myself wanting to apologies to you on behalf of all people with addictions!! I wish I could do more or offer you some red hot advice or something but I can't😢 all I can say is,,,the desire to be sober needs to come from your mum's heart and know one can put it there except her. I am fifty years old this year and in recovery because it's my last chance,please don't give me sympathy,,I honestly feel that sympathy is like a big chunk of chocolate that I'm sick of. You stay strong and the very best of luck with your mum😊

    • @Jamie-ho1wg
      @Jamie-ho1wg Před 2 lety +1

      @@RobertBoyle11 thank you 😊

    • @Jamie-ho1wg
      @Jamie-ho1wg Před 2 lety +1

      @@buskingkarma2503 no need for apologies, I made my peace with it a long time ago, and I understand about the sympathy thing, hope your ok 😊

    • @philipchurchill6508
      @philipchurchill6508 Před rokem +1

      wish my mum would have done this , she would be alive now , so happy that yours has done this though , on a long term basis it is addictive as heroin , by that I mean the mental addiction stays with you , respect too your mum Jaimie

  • @1mikemccabe
    @1mikemccabe Před 4 lety +420

    This place saved my life

    • @sjs7917
      @sjs7917 Před 4 lety +19

      Hope you are doing better. Sending you good energy.

    • @ThornhamBoy
      @ThornhamBoy Před 4 lety +13

      It saved my life to.

    • @caseydykes117
      @caseydykes117 Před 3 lety +3

      Proud of you!

    • @SB-yi9rb
      @SB-yi9rb Před 3 lety +4

      Keep going, so proud of you! If you ever need anyone to talk to about it, I've been close to the brink myself

    • @sketcharmslong6289
      @sketcharmslong6289 Před 3 lety +3

      Wow. Best of luck bud

  • @nickmarkland3680
    @nickmarkland3680 Před 3 lety +129

    This place saved my life and I've done 20 months now

  • @zan7466
    @zan7466 Před 3 lety +222

    The nurse at the beginning seems so empathic and caring.

  • @keithMc35
    @keithMc35 Před 3 lety +148

    The nurses doing this kind of work are amazing people

  • @Chris-lz1fs
    @Chris-lz1fs Před 3 lety +202

    John Courtney is a lot like me when I was drinking. I was drinking about a litre of vodka a day as well, quite often without eating anything. I also had an accident during my last drinking session where I fell down the stairs at home into the wall in the hallway. I broke my back during that wee trip. I used to take seizures as well and I honestly don't know how many times I was hospitalized because of them. Things changed for me during my last drink as well, things I cannot explain. I knew deep down inside of me that was it, that was my last drink. I felt different and that's where the answer lies, deep down inside. That was nearly 12 years ago now and although life has been bumpy with lots of ups and downs since then, I haven't touched a drink.

    • @Mrs.TJTaylor
      @Mrs.TJTaylor Před 2 lety +7

      God bless and keep you! That’s quite a life story.

    • @MissOrchid12
      @MissOrchid12 Před 2 lety +2

      Good for you 🌈

    • @heatherholyland157
      @heatherholyland157 Před 2 lety +2

      Well done you ! Stay well

    • @itemushmush
      @itemushmush Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for detailing your experience. I am in the midst of stopping after about 20-25 units a day. Its hell but this time (8 years later) im GOING TO DO IT. It has ruined my finances, health and untold other things but your story plus the others in the comments and video are helping me cope

    • @heatherholyland157
      @heatherholyland157 Před 2 lety +2

      @@itemushmush stay strong 💪🏻

  • @wingleburt3146
    @wingleburt3146 Před 3 lety +178

    I was there!!! 29december too January 11 2021. It literally saved my life!!
    I'm 6 month clean this month next week.
    YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!!

    • @jamie_j0h
      @jamie_j0h Před 2 lety

      Well done mate! I hope you keep your head up

    • @vc23
      @vc23 Před 2 lety

      Great news, you’re smashing it. Did they arrange after care for you when you got out, I think that’s so important.

    • @adywolf8254
      @adywolf8254 Před 2 lety

      Congratulations

    • @karnkraftverk
      @karnkraftverk Před rokem +1

      How are you today?

  • @richtygart6855
    @richtygart6855 Před rokem +133

    Being put in a no way out situation makes quitting easier. I was a severe alcoholic in Thailand who went broke and went to stay with the Buddhist monks. I went thru the DTs and quit with no medication, alone. That was 12 years ago and I'm still sober.

  • @debrarashidi745
    @debrarashidi745 Před 2 lety +69

    12 years for me.. it was a tough year. I had a moment where I bought a bottle of rum in case I “had guests”. I never have guests. Who was I kidding? I thank god that I poured it down the drain.

    • @lk4543
      @lk4543 Před 2 lety +7

      Well done for pouring it away, amazing! And if you do have guests, they should respect you and not drink near you, or not expect alcohol when visiting. 🙂

    • @alexanderorr2528
      @alexanderorr2528 Před 2 lety +1

      Proud of you for pouring that bottle Debra you did the right thing. Keep on moving forward you can do it, just remember how awful you felt from hangovers or withdrawal when using that's what keeps me straight.

    • @SarafinaSummers
      @SarafinaSummers Před rokem

      I'm so proud of you. Every sober breath is worth the struggle, my friend. You've got this!

  • @maxwellmc9734
    @maxwellmc9734 Před 4 lety +105

    I'm still alive today, thanks to the compassion the NHS and Aquarius
    showed me !!
    When I was in the worst place in life .. 🙏☕🤗

  • @jenniedevereaux2696
    @jenniedevereaux2696 Před 3 lety +253

    Soo sad that these detox centre's arent in every city and towns. The billion pound alcohol industry should help fund these centres as their critically needed.

    • @butterb7925
      @butterb7925 Před 3 lety +2

      Why tho it goes against customers

    • @johnnylebay2059
      @johnnylebay2059 Před 3 lety +9

      Honestly I never blamed the alcohol industry for my addiction. I just don't think it's their fault. Alcohol shouldn't be prohibited but it should be drank only in moderation.

    • @utopianfurbiscuit
      @utopianfurbiscuit Před 3 lety +1

      @@johnnylebay2059
      Exactly.. EVERYTHING IN MODERATION, 100% ...you can become severely unhealthy and become hospitalized due to eating too many unhealthy foods.. doesn’t mean it should be illegal ..

    • @imalittletoxicjustalittle
      @imalittletoxicjustalittle Před 3 lety +1

      erm no? stealing money from businesses to pay for a societal issue is madness, its like asking car company's to pay for car accidents it makes 0 sense. people need help sometimes and these places are good but communistic stealing is not the answer when we spend 3 billion on people from other countries coming over using our NHS and not paying

    • @alexrobinson4821
      @alexrobinson4821 Před 2 lety

      No they would never do that especially in the United States

  • @junior29557
    @junior29557 Před 2 lety +99

    For all those in the comments who are fighting to stay sober or help someone dealing with alcoholism, I know it’s really tough by you are doing the right thing. Keep going, it will get better! And congratulations to those who freed themselves from it, great job!

  • @ryancadiz5688
    @ryancadiz5688 Před 2 lety +200

    It breaks my heart watching this because I’ve been through it, I’ve currently hit a relapse and I’m trying my hardest to fight it, I don’t wish addiction on my worst enemy, it’s the devil, I pray everyone gets the help they need.

    • @ladyofthecreek279
      @ladyofthecreek279 Před 2 lety +15

      Relapses happen. Please don't get down on yourself, your life isn't over. You can do this, my friend. 👍🏼👌🏼🌻

    • @inciMoawad
      @inciMoawad Před 2 lety +7

      Hi there I stopped drinking many times and relapse again. I hope I can't get rid of this addiction completely 😞

    • @ladyofthecreek279
      @ladyofthecreek279 Před 2 lety +7

      @@inciMoawad you can do it. I was addicted to opioids because of chronic pain. It took many attempts to kick it. Putting pressure on yourself makes it more difficult. Keep trying, but be kind to yourself.

    • @ryancadiz5688
      @ryancadiz5688 Před 2 lety +5

      @@inciMoawad keep fighting and don’t give up, don’t be too hard on yourself if you relapse, just get control of it and fight fight fight, that’s all we can do, I hope and pray everyone that has an addiction can fight against it and live a better life

    • @inciMoawad
      @inciMoawad Před 2 lety +3

      @@ladyofthecreek279 i was also addicted to Tilidin and the withdrawal was awful tbh. It's almost 10 years ago but you know i found it "easier" because it wasn't available for me anymore after my rehab but with alcohol, it's hard it's almost everywhere here in Germany and I noticed people are reacting weird when you tell them "no" to drink. I lost my mom because of alcohol and I got two beautiful kids...alone this is worth it to try and try again 💪🏻

  • @capitanvonchickenpants8492
    @capitanvonchickenpants8492 Před 6 lety +515

    There should be warnings on cans and bottles just like cigarettes

    • @benkramer9176
      @benkramer9176 Před 5 lety +2

      There are

    • @SwagmasterShamwow
      @SwagmasterShamwow Před 5 lety +8

      warnings do nothing if you still wanna smoke you're gonna smoke no matter what

    • @DaisyAnnabelle65
      @DaisyAnnabelle65 Před 5 lety +2

      I’m so sorry that you were treated badly! Not all nurses treat those with addictions badly! We are trained and have the compassion to help you to recover.

    • @MakeKrylonGreatAgain
      @MakeKrylonGreatAgain Před 5 lety +3

      Everyone should have a tattoo warning them to wear shoes, that way you don't stub your toe.

    • @dabiphobia.9797
      @dabiphobia.9797 Před 5 lety

      capitan von chicken pants in Scotland about 70% of junkies are sent to A&E from alcohol problems

  • @kneetrembler3249
    @kneetrembler3249 Před 3 lety +189

    6 weeks sober now and feel great. Shows what a nasty cheap drug alcohol really is.

    • @riordanparata4339
      @riordanparata4339 Před 2 lety +1

      Alcohol is definitely not a “cheap” drug in New Zealand I’m pretty sure you can get heroin from a drug dealer for cheaper

    • @starsandlightning2472
      @starsandlightning2472 Před 2 lety +1

      It's the worst drug there is, unlike things like heroin etc alcohol cravings will NEVER go away. I don't touch it

    • @G2020-
      @G2020- Před 2 lety

      @@starsandlightning2472 alcohol is not worse than heroin. Get real.

    • @starsandlightning2472
      @starsandlightning2472 Před 2 lety +15

      @@G2020- no its actually worse to come off...... do your research

    • @chubloons7960
      @chubloons7960 Před 2 lety

      @@starsandlightning2472 ive done both heroins worse mate fuck ur statistics

  • @iriskenny1747
    @iriskenny1747 Před 3 lety +160

    1 week 1 day sober. I do one day at a time. Hopefully this time next year, I’ll be able to say 1 year sober 😃

  • @L.C.Sweeney
    @L.C.Sweeney Před 2 lety +62

    75% in three months seems like a really great outcome. Hats off to the team

  • @peterevans3504
    @peterevans3504 Před 3 lety +60

    I was homeless at 16 due to family problems I never drunk or taken drugs but the horrible sights I saw when I walked them streets gives me nightmares today. I applaud those willing to take steps to change there lives it's a horrible and dangerous world out there. From a once young kid belive me it's a world unseen by many and a world you do not want to see god bless those trying to change there lifes

    • @em945
      @em945 Před 2 lety

      Take care, Peter😊

    • @karenhendry7686
      @karenhendry7686 Před 2 lety

      I hope you're safe, well, happy and surrounded by people who love and support you 💕

    • @BigBodyBiggolo
      @BigBodyBiggolo Před 2 lety +3

      You were homeless at 16 and never did drugs? That is an impressive feature

    • @meshezza
      @meshezza Před rokem +1

      Oh Peter that is awful. I can only imagine what your innocent eyes seem, there’s no way you wouldn’t be traumatised from that experience. I hope you have a lot joy in your life right now and you are loved and cared for x

  • @torybootlicker9770
    @torybootlicker9770 Před 2 lety +92

    Our culture really needs a shake up.
    The way alcohol drinking is encouraged astounds me. It begins with your parents, encouraging you to try wine or beer at a very young age. We constantly bash cigarettes, sugar and food yet this poison is more destructive than any substance I've listed above. And not only to users themselves.
    People work hard and are allowed a drink, i don't want to take that liberty from anyone. But we need a serious reform on education and how we look at alcohol.

    • @emmawood1232
      @emmawood1232 Před 2 lety +8

      My parents never encourage me to try drinking from a younge age that's just bad parenting wtf?

    • @douglasstewart3889
      @douglasstewart3889 Před 2 lety +2

      Drink is cheaper and more accessible than ever before in the U.K. All retailers and manufacturers should have that £3.4 billion in healthcare costs between them. Every year. Maybe then drink won’t be sold as a loss leader in supermarkets.

    • @darrenmcintosh8471
      @darrenmcintosh8471 Před 2 lety +3

      its accepted as a norm as they want people dumb down this is why alcohol was invented in the first place they want a world full of disharmony and people with addictions bring about this it feeds the unseen forces of the darkness that govern rain over this world everything in this simulated world is put in place to serve there objectives this is why everything in this world is a joke by design

    • @j.c7719
      @j.c7719 Před 2 lety +1

      A lot of parents do allow kids to drink, I was drinking smirnoff ice and WKD from about 5 years old

    • @brettmitchell8014
      @brettmitchell8014 Před 2 lety

      I agree. Alcohol is a horrible drug. It has zero medical benefits like crack cocaine or heroin, so I can't believe it's even legal. Marijuana at least has medical benefits.

  • @vc23
    @vc23 Před 2 lety +160

    Great documentary and well done to everyone that are recovering.
    I’m a nurse on a drug and alcohol team in an acute hospital. I love my job and I love helping people. People with substance misuse issues come from all walks of life. Unfortunately I have witnessed some utterly dreadful medical care towards these people from both nursing staff and doctors, they’re human beings and deserve to be treated with respect. Alcoholism is an illness and it’s not their fault, something happened in their lives for this to happen.
    To everyone that’s recovering, well done and keep going. To everyone that’s still drinking, everyday is a new day and people do care

    • @MissOrchid12
      @MissOrchid12 Před 2 lety +8

      Bless you always 🤗🤗

    • @vc23
      @vc23 Před 2 lety +7

      @@MissOrchid12 Thank you ❤️
      It’s sad seeing a lot of them coming in repeatedly. Then they apologise as they feel guilty, but I just sit, talk and listen and help in anyway I can. Unfortunately there are not that many rehab centres in the UK and due to the high cost, it’s hard to get the funding. We’ve had success stories from some of our clients.

    • @vc23
      @vc23 Před 2 lety +4

      @@leonk3011 You’re doing great Leon. Unfortunately some “professionals” display inexcusable behaviour. Everyone has a story to tell, I find if you take time to listen, you can understand. Nobody wakes up in the morning and decided that they’re going to be an alcoholic or a drug addict. I’ve also worked in prison and some were the most polite people I’ve ever met.

    • @vc23
      @vc23 Před 2 lety +2

      @@leonk3011 It’s true, that was one of the first things my colleague ever said to me & it’s stuck in my head. We all have issues in one way or another and anyone that says anything different is lying!

    • @itemushmush
      @itemushmush Před 2 lety +2

      @@vc23 this! i have stopped going to my GP because I keep on getting reprimanded by her for just not stopping. she just doesnt understand at all, which is fine but show some empathy towardss us. I am currently taking the initiative and going outside of the medical system for support. its only recently that this has switched in my head after 8 years

  • @JamesCarmichael
    @JamesCarmichael Před 6 lety +415

    My god that's depressing. I tend to binge drink myself once a week typically on the weekend and am actually starting to get a bit sick of the hangovers and money wasted.

    • @foxtrot7851
      @foxtrot7851 Před 5 lety +8

      Ask your dr about naltrexone - it helps reduce binge drinking. Peace ✌

    • @janedoex1398
      @janedoex1398 Před 5 lety +4

      @@foxtrot7851 isn't that an opiate antagonist ?

    • @howey935
      @howey935 Před 4 lety +32

      I had my last alcoholic drink new years eve 1999. I only missed it for about 6 weeks now i couldnt imagine going out and blowing a load of money to feel like shit the next day.

    • @georgebrown2190
      @georgebrown2190 Před 4 lety +3

      @@foxtrot7851
      What is naltrexone used for?
      Naltrexone belongs to a class of drugs known as opiate antagonists. It works in the brain to prevent opiate effects (e.g., feelings of well-being, pain relief). It also decreases the desire to take opiates.

    • @forestdenizen6497
      @forestdenizen6497 Před 4 lety +2

      @@georgebrown2190 Naltrexone is also used for alcoholism. Had been FDA approved in the USA for 20 years.
      Makes sense as it is an opioid agonist and opioids relieve anxiety and depression, which is what most alcoholics are trying to achieve. So the alcohol becomes unnecessary and is naturally quit.
      Ofc they won't tell you that, they will just say that the "medicine" treats the "disease" of alcoholism.

  • @ProperoMusic
    @ProperoMusic Před 3 lety +25

    1 month sober today, places like this have saved my life many times and this time its for good. ❤️

  • @jessicaraynor1431
    @jessicaraynor1431 Před 2 lety +32

    I worked in recovery for 8 yrs, I have 13 years clean from drugs and went to a state run facility. I was a horror but I have never relapse and kept moving forward. The pain of withdrawal is worth the life you can have 💜

  • @utahboxergirl11
    @utahboxergirl11 Před 6 lety +115

    I did a 5 1/2 day detox and I've been sober for almost 4 years. But I'm here in the states

  • @Fishingadventureuk
    @Fishingadventureuk Před 4 lety +84

    I was treated here I've been abstinent now for 3 years

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 Před 3 lety +41

    Damn education board need to educate young children about the effects of alcoholism. Just because it’s a social norm doesn’t mean you should give into it and destroy your health happiness and sanity

    • @piqueny8872
      @piqueny8872 Před 3 lety +2

      @Speaking Truth they need to tell the truth about addiction show actually people who’s lives have been destroyed. Traumatise the kids early so they don’t ever start
      My uncles marriage of 30+ ended badly in divorce losing his home kids and now he’s homeless all because society and peer pressure caused lead him to that path at an early age. His life is destroyed

    • @emilyday3211
      @emilyday3211 Před 3 lety

      @@piqueny8872 research has shown that shock tatics dont work and in many cases have the opposite effect. It isn't about scarring people it's about providing support and addressing the factors that lead people to drink addiction is about so much more than the substance itself.

  • @jasontroy4723
    @jasontroy4723 Před 4 lety +108

    I woke up one day and realized I was an alcoholic . Its scared the piss out me like how did I end up here ? Not recommend but I went cold turkey after drinking 6 / 10 cans daily over 11 plus years solid . Now I'm not the same person I feel so much better mind , body and soul . I did it for me as nobody in my family ever said ( hey buddy what's happened to you ? Your drinking too much ) And if they did it may not have stopped me . Good luck to ya all I wish you all well in all future endeavors .

    • @stephenedwards7995
      @stephenedwards7995 Před 4 lety +2

      Good for you.

    • @maggiewestern7550
      @maggiewestern7550 Před 3 lety

      You know you can die going cold turkey? Good for you though was sober for 5 years and fell back into again last year

    • @AutraxD
      @AutraxD Před 3 lety +1

      @@maggiewestern7550 exactly. Glad he's ok but this is extremely dangerous. If you are quitting, get professional help!!!!!

    • @antonydyatlov5651
      @antonydyatlov5651 Před 3 lety

      It can be fatal to quit alcohol cold turkey, but very uncommon at this level. That being said, it is best to get advice to be on the safe side

    • @fuckleberryhinnhandsomehob691
      @fuckleberryhinnhandsomehob691 Před 3 lety

      6-10 cans? Lol.
      Go back to bed Lil guy

  • @stephenedwards7995
    @stephenedwards7995 Před 4 lety +23

    This place is a lifesaver for people. More of these hospitals are needed.

  • @eileenlocke7877
    @eileenlocke7877 Před 3 lety +79

    I been sober now thirteen and a half years now could never go bk to that hell of drinking into obliveon

  • @martinquinn7804
    @martinquinn7804 Před 4 lety +35

    These NHS staff are Angel's helping these people on the road to new lives also all the individuals on the program have been brave to get the help they deserve ❤

  • @RocioPerez-rd3pl
    @RocioPerez-rd3pl Před 3 lety +21

    It breaks my heart to see people going through the hell that addiction is. Hope all people could get the help and support to overcome it

  • @soundbite290
    @soundbite290 Před 6 lety +139

    There is a drinking culture in the North especially. It's very difficult to be t-total, yet still have a social life. A lot of pressure, "go one, just have one," "you can have one,etc." Its like getting you to drink relieves their anxiety!
    I wish people would just respect each others choices, and leave it at that. Instead of trying to make people feel as if their is something wrong with them, because they're choosing a healthier lifestyle. If anyone can stop drinking up north, then they are a very strong person!

    • @howey935
      @howey935 Před 3 lety +6

      I live in county durham and havent had any alcohol since 1999 and it hasnt effected my social life.

    • @joebloggs416
      @joebloggs416 Před 3 lety +8

      You need to change your environment. I live in the north, but cycle , volunteer, exercise. If you’re around drinkers they’ll want to drink. But not everyone up north is a drinker ........ there’ll always be an excuse

    • @anthonywhite9912
      @anthonywhite9912 Před 3 lety +10

      It's just their guilt of drinking and they don't want to be reminded of it, so they try to make you drink to relieve their guilt. Once you get used to the reasons of their pressure, it becomes pathetic and easy to deal with, because secretly there wishing that they were not drinking too.

    • @mattstocks4749
      @mattstocks4749 Před 3 lety +4

      I’ve never had much pressure but if someone does try to I just tell them I’m an alcoholic - they quickly change their tune then! Don’t put up with peer pressure mate - are the people you’re hanging out with adults? I don’t know any adults with any life experience who would ever pressure someone to drink - were not in high school ffs! Sad that’s happening to you tho. Im guessing the people doing it must have problems with t themselves otherwise they wouldn’t care if you drink or not

    • @thetruthk5138
      @thetruthk5138 Před 3 lety +1

      That might be true but to have a good life and happier life without all the problems that drinking/alcoholism can bring along with anxiety anxiousness family problems work if we are fortunate to have employment and all the other problems with this highly addictive substance . That's why many of us make the decision to STOP no matter where we live. Go to the rooms of AA it's available near you try it, it can change your life God Bless.

  • @barihanthorne4993
    @barihanthorne4993 Před 3 lety +24

    I pray they all stay sober for life 🤞

  • @DaisyAnnabelle65
    @DaisyAnnabelle65 Před 5 lety +60

    Angels work there! And those that go there for help are angels that need angels help❤️

    • @ritahorvath8207
      @ritahorvath8207 Před 3 lety +2

      You are so right. I lost the love of my life to alcohol. He could'nt stop drinking ... he was an angel ...

    • @njorogesamson5488
      @njorogesamson5488 Před 3 lety +1

      So sorry,I stopped drinking 3days ago,I used to drink 500ml vodka a day.

  • @fruitsap1587
    @fruitsap1587 Před 4 lety +35

    Seeing someone destroying themselves is one off the most painful things to deal with i’ve never had a father it hurts

    • @rustynuts4426
      @rustynuts4426 Před 2 lety

      I've never had a father or mother and I just wanted to say that I share your pain. Pain shared is pain halved

  • @annacats5240
    @annacats5240 Před 3 lety +22

    15 years sober. Can never go near a alcohol drink again.
    I had hit my rock bottom. Woke up one morning still hung over but with such depression. Visited 2 x AA meetings that day.Didnt need to go to another AA meeting again. Didn't want a drink that day or day after or since.
    Instead of staying in drinking alone hiding away at weekends i now get dressed up and go out. Drink cola or energy drinks. My mum was an alcoholic and died aged 33

  • @eriomnyc6073
    @eriomnyc6073 Před rokem +63

    What people don’t understand is that addiction is not a choice - as someone else said I would not wish it on my worst enemy - it really is the devil and I have such respect for any addict who had this disease , and for any one that tried to overcome and heal from it ❤

    • @maltezz
      @maltezz Před rokem +10

      its not a choice to have the disease, but its a choice to drink or not. don't surrender your power over your own actions, its ALWAYS a choice.

    • @eriomnyc6073
      @eriomnyc6073 Před rokem +12

      @@maltezz unfortunately it isn’t always that simple - that’s why people die daily from this horrible disease - sometimes the compulsion is so strong it has such a grip , that without the proper support or help , etc, it just isn’t possible not to pick up. That’s what makes it so terrifying, and misunderstood. If it was as simple as a choice, a lot of people wouldn’t be addicts in the first place. I get what you’re saying, I used to think the same thing …… it’s just not that easy

    • @maltezz
      @maltezz Před rokem +13

      @@eriomnyc6073 i have the disease. it is a choice you have the power to say NO. So far i have said no for 13 months.

    • @eriomnyc6073
      @eriomnyc6073 Před rokem +2

      @@maltezz I’m really happy for you that has been your experience ♥️ congrats :)

    • @mrdeafa25
      @mrdeafa25 Před rokem +7

      Absolute myth. Every alcoholic makes the choice. Every day.

  • @rfcalm
    @rfcalm Před 11 měsíci +6

    I am so inspired by anyone who is beating addiction each day. There is a level of bravery, commitment, determination and grit involved that is highly commendable by absolutely anyone's standards. Sadly, some are pre-disposed to not have the ability and/or the opportunity to display this level of human spirit. I spend a moment often, to think of those who were not afforded these gifts. I am grateful for my sobriety each day.

    • @user-te7wc7lh4r
      @user-te7wc7lh4r Před 8 měsíci

      Perfect. Grateful for the sobriety. I hear you.

  • @j.d.contreras392
    @j.d.contreras392 Před 2 lety +46

    This is so sad. I'm going through this myself and I can't even sleep at night due to withdrawals. Due to the pandemic things have been worse because of a shortage of health care workers quitting. Alcohol is no joke and it will kill you. I hope people understand that this is a real serious disease. I pray people can find the help they need.

    • @ashleymoon2969
      @ashleymoon2969 Před 2 lety +5

      I'm sending my love to you ❤

    • @oliviaoldaker
      @oliviaoldaker Před 2 lety +2

      I think I just lost my job from drinking

    • @mikeybenson73
      @mikeybenson73 Před rokem +5

      The devil’s juice. “At first you take a drink, then the drink takes you”

    • @AirOfficalz
      @AirOfficalz Před rokem +2

      @@oliviaoldaker are you trying to quit?

  • @heatherholyland157
    @heatherholyland157 Před 2 lety +17

    Such a sad thing , easy to fall into alcoholism , go from having a drink , to wanting a drink, to needing a drink .. hope everyone battling this disease can find sobriety 💖

  • @DaisyAnnabelle65
    @DaisyAnnabelle65 Před 5 lety +50

    We need these centers. They are vital to help people with this disease process and to help them with coping skills .

  • @philbateman1989
    @philbateman1989 Před 3 lety +12

    Alcohol abuse is INCREDIBLY hard to break as a cycle. It took me 3+ visits to A+E for severe dehydration (I was never a violent or reckless drunk, thankfully) before I finally managed to get sober. I detoxed at home, personally, but I had strict advice from my doctor on what to do, and family around me to monitor me. Not everyone has that.
    What was it that finally brought me around and broke the cycle? I can tell you the exact moment. It was the last time I was in A+E. The doctor discharging me after treatment said something to me that just stuck with me in a profound way. She said "You have so many years left to live a good life." I was in a place where the future wasn't something I could even conceive of. I just didn't have one as far as I was concerned. Her saying that one sentence which I doubt she even remembers saying changed the world for me. I did have a future, I DO have a future, and I could still turn things around.
    Crazy part is that doctor literally saved my life in that moment, and she doesn't even know it. Sad part is I've since tried to track her down to thank her, but been unsuccessful.

    • @user-te7wc7lh4r
      @user-te7wc7lh4r Před 8 měsíci +1

      I wish you the best. I agree its crazy how a kind word can turn it all around
      Even something relatively tame

  • @anthonywhite9912
    @anthonywhite9912 Před 3 lety +22

    The Last guy nailed it, alcohol is a poison, it is.

    • @blindwatchmaker2345
      @blindwatchmaker2345 Před 3 lety +1

      Alcohol is a drug, we are ppl with the disease of addiction who need to abstain from ALL drugs in order to recover! ❤️

  • @hightreegarden
    @hightreegarden Před 2 lety +19

    This video is leaving a big part of this process out: what the NHS workers actually have to deal with themselves with some patients who abuse alcohol. NHS staff have to regularly suffer from verbal and physical abuse by people who do not want to change, or at least, aren't ready to make the changes in order to improve. The people in this video and people similar who want to change should absolutely get help and support where it is needed, but the people who are brought into A&E by ambulance and want to self discharge straight away without any support and regularly keep coming into hospital are a drain on the NHS, the tax payer and the country. A colleague of mine has been hospitalised themselves when dealing with these patients because they were hit so hard they loss contiousness.
    It's important to show that this process isn't as easy and 'nice' as this video makes it out to be. If all alcoholics wanted support and were not abusing NHS staff then this process would be so much easier and a lot more people would get behind it, but I've seen first hand that a lot of people getting admitted to hospitals do not want to be there, and will continue to abuse NHS staff to get what they want.
    I know this is probably going to get me a lot of hate, but it's just my personal opinion and I'm sorry if I have offended anyone. I really hope that all patients suffering from alcohol dependency recover, but some patients just do not want to change, and will hurt people trying to support them if they do not get what they want.

    • @vanderbam2741
      @vanderbam2741 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes that is the tragedy of addiction. Unfortunately most addicts will die of their disease or related conditions because they don't 'want' to recover (I know it isn't really as simple as wanting to). My partner is police and we have a serious problem with alcohol abuse in New Zealand. Often police and A&E staff have to work together to dance around these aggressive patients who just refuse to stay at the hospital or access help and end up being arrested again few hours later, because they've seriously assaulted someone or similar.

    • @andria989
      @andria989 Před 2 lety +2

      I’m a gastro nurse and this comment is true. There is a lot of abuse we go through weekly. Those who are willing to change they accept the detox help. The others that are still fighting the mental battles will be back be problematic get detox then back and by the end of the year or 2 have end stage liver failure and have about 3-4 months left and I’ve witnessed very severe consequences and painful deaths that alcoholic liver disease has caused. It’s very traumatic for the staff dealing with theses patients. And sad for the relatives some of these people are so young.

  • @Jay-iq6yh
    @Jay-iq6yh Před 2 lety +11

    My Father was an alcoholic, my Brother was an alcoholic and my Sister was also an alcoholic and they all died early. I think part of being an alcoholic is hereditary !

  • @cc3184
    @cc3184 Před 3 lety +22

    I wish we had that in Canada. Ability to go straight from ER to addiction care.

    • @scottaldridge3991
      @scottaldridge3991 Před 3 lety +1

      They do you just have to pay for it.

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 Před 2 lety +2

      This place is pretty rare, I always just go home to finish the detox when I get out of hospital

    • @glitterbitesback
      @glitterbitesback Před 5 měsíci

      They do if you’re really bad and in the hospital for a while. When I went to treatment, most of the patients I was with had come straight from the hospital. They wouldn’t have survived having to be on the wait list while out of the hospital.

  • @MrOshguy
    @MrOshguy Před 4 lety +30

    How about getting the alcohol makers to help pay the bill???...

    • @joecox1074
      @joecox1074 Před 3 lety +2

      We do... We tax alcohol.

    • @djcheckmate1
      @djcheckmate1 Před 3 lety

      Everything is fine in moderation, if you abuse anything it’s bad for you.

    • @davidlynch9049
      @davidlynch9049 Před 3 lety +1

      Are you American? In Europe, UK, Canada...it's taxed for that reason.

  • @willjb89
    @willjb89 Před 4 lety +7

    Love that this place exist. It’s not a choice, I discovered that when i was able to quit smoking cigarettes after 7 years and didn’t crave them at all. When i tried quitting alcohol, it was hell. I’m sober now but access to a detox facility was a struggle here in the US

  • @stansmith8206
    @stansmith8206 Před rokem +3

    American here. I can't believe how nice these detox places are. The food looks much better too. You folks seem very lucky.

  • @mikeromo2414
    @mikeromo2414 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow this is a great thing the Dr's nurses all the volunteers are doing for people who suffering from this disease. I really applaud all of you. Lets people like my self that has suffered from this disease for a long time and know so many people suffering from it. THAT THEIR IS HOPE. THANK GOD.

  • @robbo03
    @robbo03 Před rokem +6

    This is what supporting Everton does to a man

  • @oscargustaverejlander.
    @oscargustaverejlander. Před 2 lety +37

    My dad died of alcoholism in March 2016, age 53. It is such a damaging and almost pointless drug. Yet psychedelics, which are mind-expanding and almost completely safe in terms of toxicity and have peer-reviewed studies to back up their healing properties regarding addiction are illegal. Our society is detrimental and we have really done a huge disservice to ourselves.

    • @miguelkeeno3403
      @miguelkeeno3403 Před rokem +4

      It’s all about the money

    • @Nadiesalevivo
      @Nadiesalevivo Před rokem

      Psychichedelics make people go from zero issues to mental illness, so NO, they're not safe no matter what scientists or the pope says about it.

    • @richlee509
      @richlee509 Před rokem +1

      Spot on man

    • @Grimmtht
      @Grimmtht Před 7 měsíci

      Alcohol is worse than tobacco, yet when is the last time you've seen a stop drinking ad?

    • @bravebeard6225
      @bravebeard6225 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@GrimmthtI saw a stop drinking at about 5 minutes ago, what point are you trying to make.

  • @kantiashokkumar5304
    @kantiashokkumar5304 Před 3 lety +11

    6o hours sober

  • @silviarocha8582
    @silviarocha8582 Před 2 lety +12

    My dad died a few months ago from drinking, cirrhosis, one day his liver just gave up. These services are so important. I know it can’t save everyone but it can be life saving to so many others.

    • @brendadrumm9451
      @brendadrumm9451 Před 2 lety +1

      I've lost my daughter and son my son got a rehab for a wk in Manchester where addicts were knocking on the door to his room asking him if he had a can for them

    • @moshedayan2810
      @moshedayan2810 Před rokem

      Please accept My condolences..

    • @joannethomas5919
      @joannethomas5919 Před rokem

      Sorry to hear that, what other symptoms did he have I'm worried about my health

    • @moshedayan2810
      @moshedayan2810 Před rokem

      @@brendadrumm9451 😢

    • @markdickens968
      @markdickens968 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Lost my brother 2018 cirrhosis of the liver he was only 46

  • @hawaiiflowers7066
    @hawaiiflowers7066 Před 2 lety +8

    Many come from abusive homes. Physical, sexual and emotional abuse many times effect the person their whole life until they address the issue.

  • @mw8416
    @mw8416 Před rokem +7

    My mother was an alcoholic. I say was as the drink killed her in 2018. We tried so hard to help her, paid thousands to put her through rehab, she was imprisoned, she was told time and time again that the next drink would kill her.. it just didn’t work. I wish she could’ve gotten help like that.

    • @caseyhill636
      @caseyhill636 Před 2 měsíci

      Same with my mom. She was drunk the day she left rehab. She passed 5 moths later. Nothing can make them stop.😢

    • @caseyhill636
      @caseyhill636 Před 2 měsíci

      Same with my mom. She was drunk the day she left rehab. She passed 5 moths later. Nothing can make them stop.😢

  • @darrinpennington
    @darrinpennington Před 10 měsíci +6

    Derek seems like a nice very likeable guy. I hope he finds the peace he deserves.

  • @zoer144
    @zoer144 Před 4 lety +18

    Detox’s on their own isn’t the answer without some intensive after-care, peer-to-peer support & the structure of a recovery community.

    • @alienresearchlab
      @alienresearchlab Před 2 lety

      Yes - if you detox and you leave feeling great but don't do any after care (AA, SMART Recovery, group or one on one support) your chances of relapse are high. Detox is just getting you back to normal. Trying to stay there is the hard part especially when drinking is so socially acceptable everywhere you go. Try taking a vacation to Hawaii with everyone on vacation drinking around you all day long by the pool and not want to join in. It's tough.

  • @Johnphilips1234
    @Johnphilips1234 Před 7 lety +188

    We live in a culture in the uk where drink is aggressively promoted not just by advertisers but by people! How many times have you head people say 'go on, have a drink!' And look at you funny if you order a Diet Coke at the bar. Until this societal promotion and pressure to drink changes I think it's only right the taxpayer picks up the pieces for the casualties of this dangerous drug although I also believe alcohol companies should be taxed higher.

    • @tombartner7646
      @tombartner7646 Před 7 lety +10

      Matt Stocks I am an ex alcy and I get this ALL the time. Well said brother.

    • @pinklotus2443
      @pinklotus2443 Před 7 lety +12

      exactly.... im australian and its the same here, i been to detox twice and both times my main concern was 'what will ppl think if dont drink wen i go out??' its a problem as a society.

    • @Mzungu_matt
      @Mzungu_matt Před 7 lety +6

      Matt Stocks I watched a family members life crash, after breaking up with his babies mother, where he started hanging in a pub and staying up all night, which progressed to cocaine then debt, lack of paying child support and hiding away from people. I am not saying that that is true to all but just an example of the most lethal legal drug out there (alcohol)!

    • @xyg6543
      @xyg6543 Před 7 lety +8

      Well said and totally agree. As much as I miss the UK (I live elsewhere now) I don't miss this side of British culture. There is also the attitude that if you do seek help you're seen as somehow weak. Bullshit, it takes A LOT of balls to seek help as your life will be forever changed!

    • @bell6012
      @bell6012 Před 7 lety +5

      Matt Stocks same in australia

  • @JulianDale94
    @JulianDale94 Před 2 lety +6

    Watching stuff like this keeps me determined. I had my last drink almost 18 months ago

  • @007nadineL
    @007nadineL Před 3 lety +9

    My relative was an alcoholic and heavy smoker. He had liver disease starting in. He fell down the stairs and got a back head brain injury and bleed to raccoon eyes. He mentally quit booze and nicotine easily in hospital with no understanding nor physical pain. It was so weird to sit with him when he's sober and not stinking bad from smokes for the first time in decades. His Dr. gave him 2 nicotine patches a week after his fall.

  • @rossmacdonald7751
    @rossmacdonald7751 Před rokem +5

    I’m currently on day 26 after last probably 10-15 years of 10-20 cans/pints of cider every day without fail. Started as a few after work, which turned into 8 pints every night after work, then drinking at home all weekend. Felt like crap every day, workmates calling me a raving alcoholic. So I just stopped. Haven’t had any side effects except for a pounding headache most days but that’s starting to stop now. Feels weird being sober I can’t even remember what it’s like as I used to abuse recreational drugs before I started drinking. Managed to hold down a really good well paid job throughout which I love and have no intention of losing. I actually like myself again and honestly don’t think I’ll ever touch another drop. As in the other comments no one ever said “hey, you ok? We think your drinking too much” doing it by myself, FOR myself. Good luck to everyone in the same situation 🙌

  • @charlottes111
    @charlottes111 Před 3 lety +8

    My parents are alcoholics. They destroyed my childhood and their own life because of it. I’ve never had a drink,I’m 25 and I’m not planning on ever trying. It put me off so much,all these bottles of alcohol,I can’t stand the smell.

  • @lynncoyle7343
    @lynncoyle7343 Před 3 lety +6

    This is a brilliant place well done to the staff they all came over nice and are not judging

  • @AllansStation
    @AllansStation Před rokem +4

    I started drinking when l joined the Royal Navy aged 17, and spent the 40 years going through the whole horrible gambit of very heavy drinking. At the funeral of a very dear nephew, l made a vow that, this was it l was finished with alcohol. I had made many such vowa over the years and none of them lasted. This time it did, Stopped when I was 57, l am now 91,and in perfect health aged 91 and on no medication. Never even think about alcohol. It can be done.

  • @ciararatcliff96
    @ciararatcliff96 Před 2 lety +8

    I seriously think we need to re think the laws around alcohol and even the substance it’s self. I don’t mind a drink now and then but I believe the fact it is sooooo widely available and ingrained in our culture is the reason it has become such a problem.

  • @drstew1
    @drstew1 Před 3 lety +7

    What kinds of people work in places like this? The very best kinds of human beings work in places like this. Life savers . Angels. Can’t thank them enough. Godbless them all! They understand ,these people are vulnerable,mental health. Addiction. Etc. The government MUST stop closing theses places down

  • @Gunzee
    @Gunzee Před 3 lety +11

    4:57 she's absolutely correct, the majority of people can't understand why place so many recourses into what is basically a black hole. The level off compassion, patience and understanding is beyond what the common person can imagine.
    I type that as an addict off over 30 years or 3/4 off my life. I know how futile recovery can be. I'm only clean thanks to methadone but recently I've been drinking like crazy. I'll even significantly cut back on the meth before a major binge, getting a slight excitement which builds before drinking. It gets so bad my hands will be trembling and I'll down 3 pints within a few minutes.
    Last night I went through 25-30 units in a 12 hour period. I woke up feeling horrible but at 8pm today (boxing Day) I was back at it. I don't even get drunk, I'll just feel a little better then as time goes on a little more depressed.
    PS: off topic but I always found it funny how drinkers looked down on drug users. My CDU used to separate us. They'd often get verbal, on the odd occasion physical but they couldn't do much with that coordination.

    • @homer88100
      @homer88100 Před rokem +1

      Try and get yourself some more help fella

  • @TheWorldFromFerg
    @TheWorldFromFerg Před 8 lety +30

    It's a shame what they have to go through.

  • @andrewbatts7678
    @andrewbatts7678 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I was in the hospital for alcohol withdrawal years ago. I had 10 mg of Ativan in my IV and was still shaking and tachycardial. Went in an induced coma for 3 weeks. After then i needed 6 months in a rehabilitation facility to kind of relearn how to do everything. When i got there i could not feed myself, bathe myself or even wipe my own ass. I was a 26 year old man who had to wear diapers for almost my first 2 months. Once i walked out on my own i was so happy and vowed to never again take my independence for granted

  • @robertcain3426
    @robertcain3426 Před 2 lety +9

    The 'end of the line' is a good place to be.

  • @grimlund
    @grimlund Před 7 lety +31

    The first time I was in detox I felt so much shame. I barely dared to ask the nurses for help.
    In Sweden women and men are not splitted. They eat and live together.

    • @jonashby3425
      @jonashby3425 Před 7 lety +11

      grimlund never feel shamed 👍🏻👌🏻💪🏻😚

    • @pinklotus2443
      @pinklotus2443 Před 7 lety +2

      i was in with men and woman too, it was a public system. the first time i said to my dad 'omg im NOT staying here' and he said 'hell yes u are' ughhhhh

    • @grimlund
      @grimlund Před 7 lety +7

      I think that the shame goes hand in hand with the whole addiction thing. Especialy the first time you end up on detox. You realy feel like an alien but after a while you realize that there are plenty of people sitting in the same boat.

    • @sofiafofikou2865
      @sofiafofikou2865 Před 6 lety +1

      grimlund ςαι

    • @nicke1903
      @nicke1903 Před 5 lety +1

      Shit no shame,I hope you all are doing well!

  • @kellysmith3581
    @kellysmith3581 Před 3 lety +9

    Alcohol is a depressant it causes very high anxiety panic and confusion when you have drank too much but much more needs to be done to make people aware of this .

    • @caitdriscoll6790
      @caitdriscoll6790 Před 2 lety

      No, that's not right. They label it a depressant because it depresses your GABA system in your brain.

  • @natahliak7691
    @natahliak7691 Před 3 lety +3

    I am addicted to pain pills because of chronic pain. I found myself increasing my dose every day and my pain levels hadn't changed. Thats when I realised I wasn't taking them for physical pain anymore. I was just numbing myself from the rest of the world. A friend of mine said to start drinking as it helps withdrawal from opiates.
    I said No way will I become alcohol dependent as well. I went to my Dr and spilled my guts to him. He has percribed me a combo of meds to help withdrawal symptoms and sent me to a psychiatrist and addiction counsellor. I am currently going through withdrawal but it's manageable and I am starting to feel human again 1 step at a time.
    Now if I was addicted to alcohol I don't think I could get off it simply because it is way to accessible. It's EVERYWHERE!
    My hat truly go's off to all that are struggling and yet trying to get themselves on track.
    You're all the strongest people I know.
    Please keep trying. We are all worth it.

  • @ryanwebb9710
    @ryanwebb9710 Před 3 lety +12

    This is amazing I don’t have drinking issues but can imagine being addicted to drink and guess something bad led them to this this . Everybody needs help .It’s saves lives and yes it saves money for nhs but saving lives is what matters . Good luck to everyone

    • @1superocky1
      @1superocky1 Před 3 lety

      Nice words words Ryan all the very best to you allso , regards r.

  • @kaliyuga4133
    @kaliyuga4133 Před 3 lety +31

    I’m 21 beeen drinking since I was 12 going to detox today I’m so scared but I know it’ll be worth it

    • @kaliyuga4133
      @kaliyuga4133 Před 3 lety +8

      Best decison I’ve made in years

    • @kaliyuga4133
      @kaliyuga4133 Před 3 lety +7

      @Artez Conciquider I almost drank myself to death at 12 bc I thought it’d be fun to see how much I could drink before I got sick.. I guess u could say I was fookin crazy (and ignorant) haha sober 40 days now tho!

    • @Gr33nbayfreak187
      @Gr33nbayfreak187 Před 3 lety +2

      Been a month sober for me, no withdrawals or anything serious but just tired of the hangovers, night terrors, being broke after a binder, and this is embarrassing but always pissing myself lol so I feel you and you can do it 👍👍👍

    • @mikenewland6861
      @mikenewland6861 Před 3 lety

      So how was the first few days, and first week of u dnt mind answering

    • @kaliyuga4133
      @kaliyuga4133 Před 3 lety +3

      @@mikenewland6861 it was the hardest mentally just not wanting to be there but they gave me meds to help with the physical withdrawal which made it a LOT easier than when I had tried quitting at home myself which would make me sick. I literally just slept most of the time. I’m 110 days sober today going strong!! Going is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made

  • @hankbellamy
    @hankbellamy Před 3 lety +17

    Currently up at 2 am with the deririum tremens night terrors and shaking time to quit not worth it

    • @caseydykes117
      @caseydykes117 Před 3 lety

      I wish you the absolutely best of luck. It's not easy and don't be too hard on yourself! It might feel hopeless and alone sometimes but you aren't and never forget it

    • @hankbellamy
      @hankbellamy Před 3 lety +1

      @@caseydykes117 Thanks for such a kind reply Casey I am slowly getting the help my self needs not completely free yet but day by day! Appreciate the kindness from AUS :))

    • @watermelonineasterhay
      @watermelonineasterhay Před 3 lety

      Do get medical help with this, withdrawal can be fatal. Hope you get sober

    • @lauralawler8385
      @lauralawler8385 Před 3 lety

      Best wishes

    • @angusroewl7206
      @angusroewl7206 Před 3 lety +1

      Hope you are doing a little better, everyday is progress brother, we've all got our demons - best of luck x

  • @maryfisher6848
    @maryfisher6848 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you

  • @mackemcabbie
    @mackemcabbie Před rokem +1

    Ive now been sober 16 years. God bless you all

  • @koffietafel
    @koffietafel Před 9 měsíci +3

    How is it possible to drink 30 pints daily and not be obese? The amount of calories is insane.

    • @WizzardJC
      @WizzardJC Před 8 měsíci +1

      I drink about 24 pints daily, but I’m 6’4” and don’t really eat, plus I walk all day so you can feel my ribs and collarbone, it’s your only intake after a while

  • @YoutubeManiac-mx9xf
    @YoutubeManiac-mx9xf Před 3 lety +18

    People who havent been through hell with the drink & alcoholism, depression etc would say "bloody drunks" & think a place like this is a waste of tax payers money. But them people haven't experienced what the drink can do to people.

  • @dml8379
    @dml8379 Před 8 měsíci +2

    To everyone watching this, you are not alone!

  • @robtalbot8060
    @robtalbot8060 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I remember watching this when it was on tv a few years back. I tried to find out what happened to Derek, sadly it would appear he passed away in 2016. Alcohol is a terrible drug. RIP Derek. 😔

  • @randomiseit
    @randomiseit Před 3 lety +9

    Addiction has a positive feedback loop system. like a microphone at a gig for example. The sound going into the microphone heads to the amp, the microphone then picks up the sound again and cycles round, getting louder until it is a complete mess. Similar to addiction you use to mask problems/pain in your life but the next day always comes round and if nothing changes you repeat the same cycle but the problem is getting slightly larger each day until it is out of control. Everything good about you is slightly dimmed each time and everything bad is amplified. Hope that makes sense and wish everyone well on their journey.

    • @mikeerivera3195
      @mikeerivera3195 Před rokem

      Woww. Speechless man. What a very well put reference with the audio System. This hit me as a musician. I know exactly how it works. I'm on day 3. Trying completely stop or just occasionally but with control. Gotta stay strong. Wish me luck. 🙏

  • @Hayley_7426
    @Hayley_7426 Před 2 lety +3

    I used to work in a blood transfusion lab - most of my major haemorrhage patients (~70%) were alcoholics, some as young as 22. Half of them couldn't be saved.

  • @thomasulewabutere8359
    @thomasulewabutere8359 Před 2 lety +2

    Am kenyan I lived in Birmingham England for 8yrs and the way Brits love their drinks it's out of this world

  • @chelisakearney338
    @chelisakearney338 Před 2 lety +2

    My mother died of a drug overdose in July. Before she passed I had been struggling with a demanding and difficult relationship that has acquired 7yrs wasted and 3 blessings. After she passed I have unfortunately found myself steadily drinking beer, or wine everyday. I am trying hard to stay afloat but it is hard. I am a strong women for me and my family but when it comes to dealing with stress I would JUST rather NOT. Pray for everyone who is distressed and needing help!! I AM ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE!! 🙏💯💁🏽‍♀️❤️

    • @Rhi915
      @Rhi915 Před 2 lety +3

      Sending you so much love and positivity. You got this! X

  • @yvonneanderson2518
    @yvonneanderson2518 Před 7 lety +56

    R.i.p derek pilling you fought so hard to battle your demons but unfortunately succumbed to them 😔 drink is a taker & has now robbed you of what should have been a bright future for you .... you were one of the nicest fellas i was ever fortunate to meet 😪 taken to soon love yeah kidda ️xxx

    • @jwalt8019
      @jwalt8019 Před 7 lety +4

      Wow, I am very sorry to hear that. May he rest in peace.

    • @yvonneanderson2518
      @yvonneanderson2518 Před 7 lety +3

      Ninja manatee he passed away last year .. it's not for me to go into details

    • @rossharling7335
      @rossharling7335 Před 6 lety +4

      Yvonne Anderson see your a true friend sorry to hear he's gone proper sad x

    • @foxylady9110
      @foxylady9110 Před 6 lety +5

      Yvonne Anderson I'm so sorry to hear that, he seemed a really nice bloke, may he rest peacefully

    • @watermelonineasterhay
      @watermelonineasterhay Před 5 lety

      He died?? Oh how awful :( Just when I thought he'd beaten it. He seemed to try so hard. RIP. May I ask how you know he died?

  • @happylife4929
    @happylife4929 Před 4 lety +36

    Bloody hell people..... Have a bit of sympathy👍🏽addiction is horrific, whether certain drugs or alcohol. It is hard either way to stop and unfortunately kills too many people. Addiction is a chronic disease and even having children can't stop them. Love to all and keep trying🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @AppleBottomJ
      @AppleBottomJ Před 4 lety +1

      Happy Life amen! It’s hereditary too

  • @larswillsen
    @larswillsen Před měsícem +1

    I grew up witnessing the extreme ways in which alcohol can devastate individuals and societies-my family included, suffering from its violence, abuse, and neglect. Throughout my adult life, I have observed Britain's significant challenges with these issues. Being from Greenland, I can attest that the problems are similar; it’s heartbreaking to watch someone deteriorate. Previously, resources were scarce. Today, it's reassuring to know that institutions exist to support those in need. Now at 61, I have avoided the 'party that never ended,' a trap many of my friends fell into and recently died from. I've lost most of my friends to alcohol, violence, and suicide. Sitting here as the last man standing can be hard; I tried earnestly to help and understand those who were trapped. I've witnessed the grim reality firsthand when people take their own lives as a last resort to escape their torment. Remember, it’s not just the alcoholic who suffers-it’s everyone around them. Seek help, don’t be ashamed. There is hope beyond a life of turmoil.

  • @joanberry2143
    @joanberry2143 Před 4 lety +40

    Addiction is so very cruel and hard to control!

    • @brettmitchell8014
      @brettmitchell8014 Před 2 lety +1

      People don't realize how bad of a drug that alcohol is.

    • @BigBodyBiggolo
      @BigBodyBiggolo Před 2 lety +1

      @@brettmitchell8014 alcohol together with benzodiazepines/barbiturates or other Gabaergic drugs are the only drugs that will actually kill you if you quit cold turkey, even if youre healthy.
      Not even fentanyl does that(if youre healthy)
      Its crazy

    • @brettmitchell8014
      @brettmitchell8014 Před 2 lety +1

      @@BigBodyBiggolo 👌

  • @lima1394
    @lima1394 Před 3 lety +5

    It's a tough journey and thank god for the NHS. I was hospitalised a cpl of times too many and they were amazing...... Although it was myself that finally said enough was enough and detoxed myself and have been sober 20mths. That may not seem alot but to me it's a lifetime, after drinking for 20yrs more or less everyday. I am really proud of myself and continue to thrive as a recovering alcoholic. It is a very important thing for people to know that it's hard, really hard especially if your support system is not that good. I look forward to each day now, not feel sick to my stomach knowing I'd woke up..... I wish nothing but the best for anyone dealing with this disease and look forward to march the 1st 2021 when I can say "I've been sober for 2yrs"..... Its the little things isn't it....X

  • @1murshroom214
    @1murshroom214 Před 3 lety +21

    My dads been taken over by alcohol, hes never been the same since it started. Hes now taken on smoking and god knows whats next..
    Please..I want my dad back..

  • @ventilator98
    @ventilator98 Před 4 lety +2

    Do you guys keep a patient monitor inside a detox room? Like for monitoring ECG, Blood Pressure, Oxygen Levels, and Respiratory Rate?

    • @ThornhamBoy
      @ThornhamBoy Před 4 lety +1

      Peter Foster - the nurses come and take observations every 15 minutes on your arrival and the first few critical days.

    • @ventilator98
      @ventilator98 Před 4 lety

      Chopper Lyons that’s good!

    • @debdennis5373
      @debdennis5373 Před 4 lety

      What, are You shopping around?

  • @ibraheemahmedahmed8951
    @ibraheemahmedahmed8951 Před 3 lety +6

    Hope this is still open now during the lockdown to help people