Erica Mena & Safaree Reflect On Their Divorce 💔 Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta

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  • From divorce to child support woes, Erica & Safaree recall their journey this season. #LHHReunion
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  • @jontaedouglas7244
    @jontaedouglas7244 Pƙed rokem +7303

    Erica literally looks like skin and bones đŸ„șđŸ„șthe stress has literally stripped her of so much

    • @kialew255
      @kialew255 Pƙed rokem +306

      That's exactly how I looked during my divorce ... It's sad I'm sorry for her yes she has a stink attitude but we all have it at times but noooo one deserves that.... I wish I could give her a longgggg hugggggg... ....n let her know it will all get better with time ...

    • @mdalready1
      @mdalready1 Pƙed rokem +42

      GOOD

    • @lareinanueva
      @lareinanueva Pƙed rokem +228

      Man when they say stress will kill you QUICKER. I'm proof of that as well. But at this point in my life a ninja could NEVER get that from me. Imma eat through any and every thing with a smile on my face and a "mhmm okay". 😂

    • @faithshaw5992
      @faithshaw5992 Pƙed rokem +3

      Hell she died trying to get rich and wanted to replace Nicki Minaj

    • @arnediawebb4119
      @arnediawebb4119 Pƙed rokem +9

      Yes!!!!

  • @akamau11
    @akamau11 Pƙed rokem +2003

    I'm sorry but Safaree throwing that chair and it coming back and hitting him is funny AF😂😂😂

  • @okay3846
    @okay3846 Pƙed rokem +10943

    You can see the toll it’s taken on Erica’s physical appearance.

    • @shenikadevine3887
      @shenikadevine3887 Pƙed rokem +345

      Erica had a son before these two kids so people acting like she a new mom she thought she was going to control and be disrespectful and safari was going to stay with her

    • @pamelagilmore7222
      @pamelagilmore7222 Pƙed rokem +12

      @@shenikadevine3887 did you watch the show? He treated her like the scum of the earth but I see where you coming from because prior to him she treated people bad so I guess what goes around comes around.

    • @Heyyallhey1111
      @Heyyallhey1111 Pƙed rokem +56

      I’m not

    • @jennaebradshaw1308
      @jennaebradshaw1308 Pƙed rokem +134

      @@shenikadevine3887 they were both the same can’t blame one or the other

    • @jasminegreene8159
      @jasminegreene8159 Pƙed rokem +254

      @@shenikadevine3887 Safaree is a grown man. He could’ve said how he felt and left her. But he didnt do that. He got her pregnant twice then stopped being a father. Men lead their households but he just sat back and let his go up in flames.

  • @irisbrown7267
    @irisbrown7267 Pƙed rokem +203

    4:11 That chair said You're not throwing me!!" 😂😂😂

    • @rebeccapetty1k390
      @rebeccapetty1k390 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +7

      @irisbrown7267 yup that chair said ‘ nope that’s not how it goes , I am coming right back at ya boy ! Bomboclaatttt !’

  • @shannacollins8371
    @shannacollins8371 Pƙed rokem +4348

    I don’t care how people feel about Erica and her past relationships. There is no justification for Safaree leaving her in a hospital during a life-threatening pregnancy. None.
    EDIT: The question of karma is a complex one. Bad people in power do terrible things all the time, and never see a negative result. Also, people can change and expecting people to “pay” for something in the past when they’re trying to change their behavior isn’t necessarily something I agree with.

    • @sheliajones7803
      @sheliajones7803 Pƙed rokem +152

      Exactly, that was beyond cruel 😱

    • @MelishMarie_
      @MelishMarie_ Pƙed rokem +93

      Yes it is look back at an ex and how he did you or that ex friend or family member and look how they getting what they did to you back. Just because she is famous doesn’t mean she gets a pass. What you water grows and the intentions grows.

    • @ByNature15
      @ByNature15 Pƙed rokem +39

      Yeah people have no sensitivity at all

    • @trfrierson
      @trfrierson Pƙed rokem +76

      I don't wish bad on people. It's just reminds me to do my best to treat people well because you don't want the energy back coming back in the way that would hurt you.

    • @selenamartinez2493
      @selenamartinez2493 Pƙed rokem +39

      But
 when it comes down to the well being of a mother and her child during pregnancy
 shit is scary. He shouldn’t have left her regardless of what they’re going through. His son was in her belly, what if something went wrong?

  • @LadyMillenial
    @LadyMillenial Pƙed rokem +2297

    The most important thing Erica said “there is no substance there”
    That phrase speaks volumes. She married him out of love that flourished from infatuation and physical attraction. But a marriage will test the depth of your connection and the foundation of the relationship, and she found out their foundation was not strong enough and he was not the man she thought he was, but really, there was no man there, just a shallow cold hole.
    I wish her the best

    • @SimSetSoPalestine
      @SimSetSoPalestine Pƙed rokem +38

      They were mutally inlove . He even got her healthy stop drinking ..lived with her son . Then Bam. Safaree got something to say but he cant say it.

    • @supreme_vida
      @supreme_vida Pƙed rokem +12

      @@SimSetSoPalestine like most good men they don’t really care about their just users

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 Pƙed rokem +7

      SHE WAS TRULY!!! PROJECTING!!!...

    • @jayce2388
      @jayce2388 Pƙed rokem +2

      Like my mom always told me,if a mf wonna leave show them the door and lock it soon as they exit, I guess I just have zero tolerance for bullshit, I'll let a mf go with the quickness, ain't finna throw my scales off balance ♎ period.....If they show u that ur a option show them that u got plenty of them ✌✌✌.

    • @choosenone20901
      @choosenone20901 Pƙed rokem +23

      As a man, I believe safaree is wrong in the way he handle erica during pregnancy. However, Because I am not on inside their home I can't give safaree all the blame or say he's truly a bad man, because erica has her own faults and who knows how her treatment or not listening to safaree is truly like inside their home. It's clear he's a man that shuts down during argument or too mich confrontation and maybe she needs to find the proper way to communicate with him. If she did not know how to communicate with safaree then she should javelin never had his baby or married him in the first place. So she has to hold herself accountable for that. Just like safaree has to take accountability for choosing her as his baby mother at his big age 😆. I know most woman are going to look at safaree as the villain in this story, but there's always 3 sides to a story and we won't know because we are truly not in their house

  • @realiteaparody9198
    @realiteaparody9198 Pƙed rokem +1319

    Safaree knocking himself out with that chair is a metaphor for how he’s moving through life. I don’t understand how someone can see the mother of their child in so much pain and literally pay her dust.

    • @tianahaley9913
      @tianahaley9913 Pƙed rokem +9

      đŸ˜©

    • @steviejay868
      @steviejay868 Pƙed rokem +50

      Maybe she should try fixing her attitude

    • @chrishall6617
      @chrishall6617 Pƙed rokem +8

      Safaree throwing chairs at like himself he need cool down don't be like him one reason

    • @jasminerice5857
      @jasminerice5857 Pƙed rokem +43

      It almost seems like he enjoys playing In Her pain !

    • @growthcountry
      @growthcountry Pƙed rokem +5

      I like this scene. Powerful stuff. 👍

  • @mbm9907
    @mbm9907 Pƙed rokem +748

    Looking at Erica really does make me empathetic but I will never forget how she treated Cyn.

    • @mmathapelomoagi6425
      @mmathapelomoagi6425 Pƙed rokem +7

      How did she treat Cyn?

    • @chevonne24
      @chevonne24 Pƙed rokem +46

      yes, I was not a super fan of Cyn's but I felt for her when Erica finally turned on her and had the gall to say that was what she does. I feel for Erica here but I cannot help but see it as her experiencing to some extent what she put Cyn through times 100

    • @stormyjay5317
      @stormyjay5317 Pƙed rokem +60

      Girl Cyn wasn’t the only one but I’m with you
 Erica been on there in them streets fucking up marriages
. Karma is real fr

    • @nae7379
      @nae7379 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

      Thank You

    • @cakesdavila1688
      @cakesdavila1688 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      Yea me either .

  • @theblxcarriebradshaw205
    @theblxcarriebradshaw205 Pƙed rokem +2971

    Best thing Erica can do is pray, focus on herself & her children. No amount of begging, crying , & comprising will make that đŸ„· do right by their kids. She’s gonna drive herself crazy waiting for that man to humble himself , & prioritize the kids he helped create. Move on with grace girl, hard times don’t last forever.

    • @stephaniejackson8748
      @stephaniejackson8748 Pƙed rokem +17

      Wys... amen.

    • @triannabates8902
      @triannabates8902 Pƙed rokem +13

      Amen

    • @shaylaroman1475
      @shaylaroman1475 Pƙed rokem

      @@stephaniejackson8748 it o😅i😅 oo😅o😅o😅i😅o😅io😅iio😅oo😅o😅o😅o😅o😅oo😅o😅o😅ooo😅o😅ooo😅o😅oo😅o😅oooo😅oo😅o😅ok😅o😅ooooo

    • @BreonTheSinger
      @BreonTheSinger Pƙed rokem +7

      You must be a new watcher lmfao

    • @RoseRamis718
      @RoseRamis718 Pƙed rokem +9

      She ain't waiting for him

  • @JustDeJane
    @JustDeJane Pƙed rokem +3197

    I’m not a fan of Erica but I can’t imagine someone leaving me for dead when I’m giving birth to their child. That’s sick and traumatic. Good for Erica for getting therapy and picking herself back up. I can’t wait for her to move on and flourish.

    • @markferguson3477
      @markferguson3477 Pƙed rokem +37

      It's not about Erica alone, what about the man point aview?

    • @princejudah3789
      @princejudah3789 Pƙed rokem +61

      She's was horrible FROM the jump and she's still playing the blame game 🎯 she did it with rich and all the others and she has other kids from other men sooo I think she's the problem

    • @cecilyabrailsford5815
      @cecilyabrailsford5815 Pƙed rokem +14

      I agree with everything’s that everyone is saying but you can t use straight feminism for this situation because yes Erica been around but when it comes down to her kids of course she has to take care of them because it’s her real not saying it’s not his as well. But men need to take care his kids and women need to let the men see they kids and men need to be around to make sure they have they own relationships with they kids not apart because they can cause trauma on kids.

    • @DiamondTheGameChanger
      @DiamondTheGameChanger Pƙed rokem +45

      I do agree but it’s not really Safari fault he did tell her before having babies that he wasn’t ready for kids and she stopped taking the birth control and basically surprised him with the pregnancy

    • @markferguson3477
      @markferguson3477 Pƙed rokem +5

      @@DiamondTheGameChanger word

  • @seemenow8603
    @seemenow8603 Pƙed rokem +216

    All these grown ass people justifying this man's behavior and not making him take any accountability for the shit he did is messed up beyond repair. It's absolutely heartbreaking to watch Erica say he doesn't care (we can clearly see that by his attitude), and people still dismissed her like what she said ain't the truth.

    • @likhwezititus
      @likhwezititus Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +9

      they're babying him

    • @vonderajenkins7989
      @vonderajenkins7989 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +4

      A black man not taking accountability? Never 🙄

    • @brandonwilliams5526
      @brandonwilliams5526 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      Facts.😂

    • @brandonwilliams5526
      @brandonwilliams5526 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      ​@vonderajenkins7989 Narcissist men or women will take no ownership accountability or responsibility for there wrongful actions and all they do try to gaslight there wrong doings by trying to save face.😂

    • @brandonwilliams5526
      @brandonwilliams5526 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Shekinah Saya you can cuss me out I'm cool with it lol love the way she's so unbothered.😂

  • @rizikrizik1395
    @rizikrizik1395 Pƙed rokem +5282

    Erica looks so bad. I really feel for her but can’t even be surprised. She treated people horribly before safaree

    • @bethmaharaj9047
      @bethmaharaj9047 Pƙed rokem +463

      Shame she really has aged drastically

    • @melostone385
      @melostone385 Pƙed rokem +154

      She still does lol

    • @Tlenee5418
      @Tlenee5418 Pƙed rokem +259

      Yes she did... karma is real 💯

    • @dambaadeyemi3233
      @dambaadeyemi3233 Pƙed rokem +8

      She definitely ain't as fine as she use to be and she TOXIC ASF

    • @shannacollins8371
      @shannacollins8371 Pƙed rokem +256

      She looks weathered because Safaree broke her down.

  • @DOUBLEJOE850
    @DOUBLEJOE850 Pƙed rokem +982

    “Speak, bro, cause they’re somebody out there like you. So you gotta speak.”
    Facts. Scrappy is absolutely right. Men have feelings too and we can’t always be like “just suck it up” or “man up.” But we got things that we need to get off our chest too. But I’m not justifying the way he treated Erica though.

    • @ChasidyYasmine
      @ChasidyYasmine Pƙed rokem +24

      Mannnn she deserve all that stress she ain't innocent.

    • @Katierenee_10
      @Katierenee_10 Pƙed rokem +39

      I love scrappy fr he’s one of my favorites

    • @whittytarot6064
      @whittytarot6064 Pƙed rokem +56

      He left her in the hostpital during a life threatening pregnancy ur right men do have feelings but dose t hide how weak this man is for that like weak

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +2

      Stfu this wat I hate about black ninjas like y’all who ask tf criminal how do u feel after murder or robing the store lol only y’all make y’all the victim of everything even with tf knife n y’all hand y’all will make away to blame everyone but ureself bunch a grown ass boys uggh

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +8

      @@ChasidyYasmine n count ure days Lil girl

  • @jasminetassara7286
    @jasminetassara7286 Pƙed rokem +670

    Erica looking so fragile, on the outside and hurt in the inside. I’m tearing up just looking at her. Prayers for her strength.

  • @forever_empress_marie8967
    @forever_empress_marie8967 Pƙed rokem +60

    Not safaree hitting himself with the chair 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @prettybrown6247
    @prettybrown6247 Pƙed rokem +1887

    This is the worst I’ve ever seen Erica look. She’s so beautiful but you can tell Safaree has stressed her out. He’s so emotionally unavailable and acts like he doesn’t even care about her pain. We gotta stop going out sad behind these men. They’re so not worth it.

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Pƙed rokem +65

      I think it’s a lot of surgical ramifications too.

    • @prettybrown6247
      @prettybrown6247 Pƙed rokem +54

      @@Burlykim13 I noticed. She didn’t need the facial work or lip injections. Just saw her on Chris Brown’s “Yo Excuse me miss” video and she was so pretty without all of it:

    • @Kalifornia_Dreaming
      @Kalifornia_Dreaming Pƙed rokem +42

      @Burlykim13 No that's stress. I think she had work done to correct the aging

    • @TheSarahIR
      @TheSarahIR Pƙed rokem +31

      Exactly! The moment she speaks less about it and is truly unbothered and forgives and moves on, she will be set free from his immature ways, she has to let go completely of the trauma and let God. I know, I went through it, with more kids than her. But God is good!

    • @notfortvmedia7333
      @notfortvmedia7333 Pƙed rokem +15

      Don’t put that little boy on us men we are not the same.

  • @christinadumont458
    @christinadumont458 Pƙed rokem +552

    *Shekinah: "GROW UUUP!"*
    *Safaree: "SHUT TF UP!!!"*
    *Shekinah: "You Can Cuss Me Out, I'm Cool With It..." Lmao! She STAYS Putting Safaree's Feet To The Fire And I LOVE It!!* đŸ€ŁđŸ’€đŸ˜­đŸ’Ż

    • @MsTrueTy
      @MsTrueTy Pƙed rokem +11

      Safaree is a Narcissist. And they don't like people that see through them. Shekinah is not letting up that's why she said cus me out that's okay. She staying on his ass cause she actually cares about him and Erica. that's why she keep dragging him. She is holding him accountable. Safaree remained silent as a level of control. Cancer people when they shutdown that's it. Add narc behavior to the mix and you gotta mess. But the kicker is Erica is a Narcissist too. Or atleast shows behavior of one. So in a way they both were each other's karma for people they did this too. And I hope they learn their lessons....but from the looks of it no.

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite Pƙed rokem +34

      That’s annoying fr lol They only champion her behavior when she’s on their side. Like everybody said on part 1 of the reunion, Shekinah is in everybody else’s business but nobody knows anything about her đŸ„Ž

    • @theehoodaphrodite
      @theehoodaphrodite Pƙed rokem

      @@nik-at-nite fr like sometimes she does needs to stfu

    • @Amanda-be7eq
      @Amanda-be7eq Pƙed rokem +5

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @Amanda-be7eq
      @Amanda-be7eq Pƙed rokem +22

      They're like siblingsđŸ€Ł

  • @deandraholloman364
    @deandraholloman364 Pƙed rokem +1713

    The fact that she could say that she made mistakes too is growth and the fact that she said he owes her nothing just his kids is strength. I pray that Erica finds her happiness and continues to be that strong women she is

    • @kanyebreast6072
      @kanyebreast6072 Pƙed rokem +52

      But she's clearly just saying those words, she doesn't actually mean them. She obviously is still feeling extremely bitter about the divorce. She hasn't moved on, the therapy hasn't helped. There is still so much hatred and hurt there. But she knows she will sound good by saying the things she did. She doesnt mean a word of it

    • @deandraholloman364
      @deandraholloman364 Pƙed rokem +27

      @@kanyebreast6072 no I totally feel that she is Sincere I lost my husband so now I am a single mother of two beautiful children and even though it's the most rewarding thing in the world it is very hard to do it on your own. And what makes it worse for them is the fact that he's fully capable of being a present father and his choosing not to. That would cause someone to hate Or Despise. At the end of the day she will be fine but those kids need their father. Whatever issues he has with her needs to be put aside for his children. No one should have to tell you to come spend time with your children

    • @optacianaramos8573
      @optacianaramos8573 Pƙed rokem +10

      @@kanyebreast6072 right and I feel like he's not saying something she did out of respect for her because she is his childrens mother and I feel he's jus quiet like you really sitting here making everyone feel sorry for you

    • @aprilkatie1134
      @aprilkatie1134 Pƙed rokem +6

      It’s karma. But, I get it.

    • @deandraholloman364
      @deandraholloman364 Pƙed rokem +10

      @@aprilkatie1134 this is true too Erica has been shitty over these past few years

  • @Chellooo__
    @Chellooo__ Pƙed rokem +205

    It’s so sad how a relationship can ruin you physically and mentally 😭😟 Praying đŸ™đŸŒ

    • @missvegan1967
      @missvegan1967 Pƙed 19 dny

      If you let it! Take the experience/experiences talk to a therapist and keep it moving.

  • @syrenxo
    @syrenxo Pƙed rokem +2118

    When she said “for the 1st time, I thought I was safe” “I’ve fought through some dark times, days I could not eat” “he knows my trauma from being a single mother once just turn around and make me a single mother twice” I REALLY felt for her. Her spirit is so fragile right now & honestly, as a woman I wouldn’t want that for any other woman. I am happy she hasn’t harmed herself. To wake everyday going through that along with 2 children while you feel like you’re going to break is strength fr & they will grow up and appreciate that on so many levels. She’s their hero if anything. I hope she truly begins the process of healing ❀‍đŸ©č bc truth be told, she owes it to herself to be happy, to have peace of mind & to live a healthy happy life with her children. I wish a better quality life of pure love & happiness for Erica & her kids & any woman who relates to this.

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r Pƙed rokem +66

      I felt that. I couldn’t bond with my baby at first from the trauma my ex did . He left me pregnant and now to this day tries pop up in and out . I get when she said she tried to make it up. I’m that way I buy him soooo much and he’s only 5 he literally has a game room . I spoil him so much because the first two years I couldn’t bond with him I had to heal myself

    • @amirahgood8033
      @amirahgood8033 Pƙed rokem +42

      I don't know the details of her past, but I can say as a single mother of 4...I felt that to my core.

    • @FaCeSays
      @FaCeSays Pƙed rokem +45

      This happened to me. When j met the narcissist I thought he saved me. In actuality he was the one that killed me.

    • @syrenxo
      @syrenxo Pƙed rokem +24

      @@FaCeSays đŸ„șWow. I love that you are now aware of the ways of a narcissist because that’ll be conducive for your life moving forward. Now, you will see those signs & know what you’ll never tolerate again. You’re going to blossom from all your pain & I love that for you because a better quality life is already aligned for you. You’ve gained wisdom from your pain & I’m genuinely sorry that you went through that, my heart goes out to you, but it’s your time now. Sending you love and hugs 💕👑 & I suggest getting into some meditation. Learn of chakra balancing, & continue learning / healing yourself. Watch how life unfolds for you.

    • @syrenxo
      @syrenxo Pƙed rokem +19

      @@amirahgood8033 Mother of 4? Ok miss superwoman 😍 getting up everyday to take care of your kids, doing it alone, I can only imagine how hard that may be but you’re not alone. If you ever need someone to check in on you, & those little ones? I got you. We are all we have here on this earth. A little love goes a long way. 💕💗 also, I recommend some meditation. Maybe even teaching it to your babies. It’ll be fun for you guys and helps you become a magnet for so many great things. You’re divinely protected and you’re loved. Proud of you for doing it on your own without folding.

  • @sayitaintsotv299
    @sayitaintsotv299 Pƙed rokem +293

    Never seen a man throw a chair at himself until today 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mandisasolomane9843
      @mandisasolomane9843 Pƙed rokem +6

      đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @prettyjay209
      @prettyjay209 Pƙed rokem +7

      đŸ€Ł i cant take that part seriously

    • @blane6592
      @blane6592 Pƙed rokem +2

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @sistasoldier7774
      @sistasoldier7774 Pƙed rokem +7

      He meant to throw it at the wall and the universe threw that Uno reverse card 😂

    • @blane6592
      @blane6592 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@sistasoldier7774 đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁTRUUU!!!

  • @yjvs1009
    @yjvs1009 Pƙed rokem +1601

    Omg...I can't believe how Erica looks. She needs help. This situation is KILLING her. She looks like she's just at her breaking point. I pray for her and her children. This hurts my heart. As a single Mom...l know what it can do to you. It HURTS feeling ALONE. 💔

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +13

      Felt this đŸ™đŸœđŸ™đŸœđŸ™đŸœđŸ’”đŸ„ș

    • @bbyphathoneei
      @bbyphathoneei Pƙed rokem +4

      She was literally being eaten from the inside out. She’s skin and bones and noticeably droopy & tired in the face.

    • @nasakachumz3274
      @nasakachumz3274 Pƙed rokem +20

      the face is the plastic surgery

    • @loves3965
      @loves3965 Pƙed rokem +13

      In previous clips it was worse I think she slowly getting better. Plus having two kids back to back get make malnourished

    • @karries6342
      @karries6342 Pƙed rokem +16

      I noticed that too. A long time ago. Her looks are deteriorating

  • @lilahmarie5846
    @lilahmarie5846 Pƙed rokem +775

    I love seeing the men encouraging him to express his emotionsđŸ’ȘđŸœâ€ïž

    • @co0ki3M0NstAr
      @co0ki3M0NstAr Pƙed rokem +11

      Right! man baby steps but the future is looking better

    • @videofan1010
      @videofan1010 Pƙed rokem

      Safaree is a narcissist.

    • @ucheok4562
      @ucheok4562 Pƙed rokem +3

      Me too! There’s progressâ€ŠđŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸ

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +24

      That’s a grown ass boy but fully aware of everything he’s done but like she said no accountability

    • @baybeetricia
      @baybeetricia Pƙed rokem +12

      He does not feel safe in this group cause they jumped down his throat, on her behalf, during filming. It's one day for her to do it but his friends too? Nah....

  • @lariahmays9286
    @lariahmays9286 Pƙed rokem +26

    Shekinah had me weak asf “Grow Up” 😭😭

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one Pƙed rokem +1099

    Never thought I would say this but you can clearly see how hurt Erica has been. Being pregnant and in love with your husband’s child and he abandoned you at the moment you needed him the most is life changing.

    • @Pbbbb
      @Pbbbb Pƙed rokem +20

      She should’ve chose better 😂😂😂

    • @latandakennedy5892
      @latandakennedy5892 Pƙed rokem +36

      Chose better ? Did you not see how he was on social media and tv talking about how bad he wanted to be a father and that he would be the best literally trying his hardest to be a father to do this to his wife and child ? Do you know men pretend to be ppl they aren’t until the baby comes you can say this about a man who has kids and didn’t care for them but not a many who doesn’t and is selling you a dream and the narrative changes when the child gets here they were perfecto until the baby dropped

    • @cassieleonarda3905
      @cassieleonarda3905 Pƙed rokem

      @@latandakennedy5892 ain’t nobody looking at Safaree like he was a goodie two shoes before the babies came. Especially not after the Nicki Minaj fiasco. There’s a gazillion men out there that would never do that, and would’ve loooved to get with Erica Mena.
      Her dumbass CHOSE Safaree out of all those men and now she out here trying to play the victim. Sigh I cant

    • @renzopeterson153
      @renzopeterson153 Pƙed rokem +4

      She chose that

    • @AfTyson7
      @AfTyson7 Pƙed rokem +1

      Lmao she can go cry in the corner. Karma always comes back and she deserve all of this.

  • @arireadsstuff
    @arireadsstuff Pƙed rokem +616

    Erica has grown a lot. She even acknowledged how her past behavior may have led to her attracting negative/ bad energy. I hope she's able to move fully past this and refind herself and find love again.
    Safaree is the epitome of a man who is stuck in a child state. He will never fully accept his role in breaking Erica down.

    • @opinionsandthoughts9820
      @opinionsandthoughts9820 Pƙed rokem +27

      She has not grown not one bit. Tell her apologize to cyn. Until then nahhh.

    • @growthcountry
      @growthcountry Pƙed rokem

      Exactly. This was well put together. 😄

    • @christinesealy463
      @christinesealy463 Pƙed rokem

      You are correct

    • @saeedaabdulkhaliq76
      @saeedaabdulkhaliq76 Pƙed rokem +4

      She’s grown a bit but still has a lot of work to do with herself and a lot of healing.

    • @BluMoonFiction
      @BluMoonFiction Pƙed rokem +3

      Erica and Safaree could literally be me and my ex, I just pray sis find some peace and bounce back. Cuz lord knows it's a struggle not to let that shit make u bitter.

  • @InfinitiEmpress
    @InfinitiEmpress Pƙed rokem +1474

    The saddest part is. Erica looks like what she been through
    She has so much she still wants to say

    • @Muffinga
      @Muffinga Pƙed rokem +36

      No what the absolute saddest part is... is that Erica unknowingly predicted this whole outcome. She told Safaree after he threw a temper tantrum over a prenup, that she didn't want to end up a single mother and being cheated on while married which ultimately happened to her.

    • @jasmineb.3122
      @jasmineb.3122 Pƙed rokem +3

      ​@@Muffingaoh wow

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n Pƙed rokem +8

      @@Muffinga she must of knew deep down what it was.

    • @luxurygurlluxurygurl2311
      @luxurygurlluxurygurl2311 Pƙed rokem +2

      I know ! Safari as well wanted to Lay is card on the table too ! But MisS Erica wouldn’t let him catch a break to speak ! Can marriage ever works in a toxic Situation? Anyway this is just my Personal opinion’ that SituationShip has a Dent when she had take safari blind to her lawyer and lay down her prenup on the table without discussing it with him before she even dragged him down town lol It started to give Mix feelings then ! Why so ? Because she should’ve at least let him know what she was doing before taking him there !! Breach of trust Erica! So why u think he’s gonna take you seriously with u running Secret Circles like that around any partner! Doesn’t have to be just safari but anyone men or women!
      You lay up together and discuss these steps first before giving your partner a surprise! Feel like you’re running CIRCLES ⭕ it do comes off as if you’re not being genuine

    • @Mrtargetlocked
      @Mrtargetlocked Pƙed rokem

      @@luxurygurlluxurygurl2311 He should be lucky he got to tap her. she is fine af

  • @Jayeeda_
    @Jayeeda_ Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +19

    he was soooo quick to answer shekinah 😒 bt couldnt immediately answer when the mother of his children jus shared what he did to her

  • @ciaraw8836
    @ciaraw8836 Pƙed rokem +931

    As a single mother due to a pending divorce, I know exactly what Erica is feeling. Our last child ended up in the NICU & I was left alone at the hospital to deal with the emotional trauma. Yes, she may have treated others in her past wrong but we all have a past. No mother
hell no parent deserves to feel this way! It has taken a toll on her physically & she’s still not completely healed. It’s also clear that he has some feelings that he’s not willing to embrace. And until he does the hard work of healing the boy inside of him He will never be able to love a woman or his children properly. Prayers up for both of themđŸ™đŸŸ

    • @christine2952
      @christine2952 Pƙed rokem +41

      Exactly ! People are so hard on her! She is human and we all learn through experience. As a mother I have empathy, I don’t understand how any mother wouldn’t.

    • @193122090
      @193122090 Pƙed rokem +5

      Well said đŸ‘đŸŒđŸ‘đŸŒ

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +8

      I felt this

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +5

      @@christine2952 this part 😱right here real women humans have empathy

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me Pƙed rokem +1

      When will women realize MEN DO NOT CARE! They act like they do to get what they want. Children or no children, they do not care!!!!

  • @sugarhoneybunch08
    @sugarhoneybunch08 Pƙed rokem +1120

    Shame on everyone trying to justify Safaree's "hurt." He's shown no regard for anyone. He doesn't "love her deep down." And comments like that don't show him compassion, they only invalidate the very real trauma he's brought into Erica and his children's lives. You don't get to start a family, then numb yourself cause it's just sooo overwhelming dealing with the consequences of your actions.

    • @pink1237480
      @pink1237480 Pƙed rokem +45

      I know it's really shocking and disgusting to see that too.

    • @myunwantedopinionpodcast9579
      @myunwantedopinionpodcast9579 Pƙed rokem +59

      Yes!! He's a grown A** man WITH KIDS acting like this and they're making excuses for him smh. Sitting there like he can't speak. Shame like you said. Actions will always speak louder than words and he doesn't even have that!

    • @petrinamayanwilliams5244
      @petrinamayanwilliams5244 Pƙed rokem +4

      So true

    • @johnsmith-qp2dv
      @johnsmith-qp2dv Pƙed rokem +6

      Why is any surprised..I wasn't a watcher of the show,but from what I saw ,the guy kept kicking her in the teeth and she kept going back. Stupidity

    • @hermosareacts8288
      @hermosareacts8288 Pƙed rokem +2

      Speak đŸ—Łïž đŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸ

  • @rs0litaa
    @rs0litaa Pƙed rokem +366

    he told shikana to stfu but stayed quiet when scrappy told him sum 😂😭

    • @shannenluevelle7331
      @shannenluevelle7331 Pƙed rokem +56

      Exactly!! Meaning he knows what he’s doing 😑


    • @cassieleonarda3905
      @cassieleonarda3905 Pƙed rokem +15

      Both of them need to stay out of that family’s business.

    • @AmanBailBonds
      @AmanBailBonds Pƙed rokem +12

      Nah, Tho the Chair đŸȘ‘.. Safaree threw the chair and it hit himself 😂😂😂

    • @michelledaffin
      @michelledaffin Pƙed rokem +36

      Cause he doesn't respect women

    • @SB-gq7fp
      @SB-gq7fp Pƙed rokem +21

      Sounds like a man who prolly ain't got a daddy at home. Quick to man up to a woman but a man say some shit and he scared and quiet

  • @nickimillennium
    @nickimillennium Pƙed rokem +96

    Erica met her narcissistic march and couldn’t take it. I never cared and never felt sorry for her because she was evil and violent. Flash forward to 2023 and my feelings about her have been vindicated.

  • @nip1766
    @nip1766 Pƙed rokem +1103

    This is what stress looks like. I've been there my heart goes out to her.

    • @gracemat9474
      @gracemat9474 Pƙed rokem +23

      For her to say there were time she couldn’t get out of bed. I totally get it because I’ve been there. Praying for her strength đŸ™đŸŸ

    • @reasonali
      @reasonali Pƙed rokem +13

      Drugs too.

    • @TeeNicole10
      @TeeNicole10 Pƙed rokem

      You so right sisđŸ˜”đŸ™ŒđŸżđŸ™đŸ»

    • @ericacoleman459
      @ericacoleman459 Pƙed rokem +2

      Erica I have been there with I could give u a hug u going to be ok

    • @fparker8088
      @fparker8088 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@reasonaliWHAT DRUGS!!! YOU DONT KNOW THAT FOR REAL!!!

  • @lexisbrown3368
    @lexisbrown3368 Pƙed rokem +156

    This why people gotta think long and hard about Marriage. Get to know the person, not just off lust

    • @labelmeposh
      @labelmeposh Pƙed rokem +1

      People change even after dating and marriage..compatibility doesn't last forever because all people change. The true test comes in after the compatibility fades.

  • @daeross7759
    @daeross7759 Pƙed rokem +702

    This is so toxic. He doesn’t care about her at all and they’re forcing her to sit there and watch him be a narcissist and gaslight her. Bro

    • @theblackcosmonaut2482
      @theblackcosmonaut2482 Pƙed rokem +37

      I'm glad he was in that energy. She was incredibly rude and disrespectful The entire time. I'm glad she got what she deserved. Be kind and you will get that in return

    • @PamPooh1111
      @PamPooh1111 Pƙed rokem

      Facts

    • @taeshawnwilson6853
      @taeshawnwilson6853 Pƙed rokem +10

      It's called karma folks

    • @Pineapplezar
      @Pineapplezar Pƙed rokem

      Tf he didn’t say anything she wouldn’t shut the fuck up putting words in his mouth

    • @theblackcosmonaut2482
      @theblackcosmonaut2482 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@Pineapplezar She did that the entire time. But none of these ladys seemed to have a problem with her nasty azz behavior. She got the divorce so wtf is she still so mad for. Its because she wanted to stay with him lol But he's a playaaaaa lmao

  • @heritageolatunji6147
    @heritageolatunji6147 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +17

    I’m here for the chair throwđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł Scrappy got me 😂😂😂

  • @ashleyrodriguez8143
    @ashleyrodriguez8143 Pƙed rokem +586

    I feel for her. I know what it’s like having to force yourself out of bed and force yourself to eat. That’s how I developed an eating disorder. My prayers go out to her.

    • @stinabby
      @stinabby Pƙed rokem +3

      me too girl
. it’s a very dark demon to battle with. May God bless her and you ❀

    • @ashleyrodriguez8143
      @ashleyrodriguez8143 Pƙed rokem

      @@stinabby thank you love my prayers and blessings go out to you too. ❀ I am now currently attending an outpatient program. If you ever need pointers or someone to talk to I will send you my email. It’s not every day that we meet people like us. A sisterhood is very important.

    • @mdalready1
      @mdalready1 Pƙed rokem +2

      I don't

    • @terrellrobertson2258
      @terrellrobertson2258 Pƙed rokem

      80s

  • @fortruth7681
    @fortruth7681 Pƙed rokem +1395

    I feel her pain. After my divorce, it was so hard on me physically and mentally. I became a single mother and he became a single man.

    • @fortruth7681
      @fortruth7681 Pƙed rokem +11

      @Belltown Daisy yes, yes!

    • @TheForeverking100
      @TheForeverking100 Pƙed rokem +17

      That’s real 💯

    • @_belloty1394
      @_belloty1394 Pƙed rokem +43

      Damn
. That’s A good quote đŸ„Ž but I am sorry you went through that

    • @thepinkonesoterrify623
      @thepinkonesoterrify623 Pƙed rokem +5

      sorry you went through that❀

    • @pink1237480
      @pink1237480 Pƙed rokem

      That's why I don't have kids. Because I don't trust a man 100% like that. I don't think I ever will either

  • @saharaball2227
    @saharaball2227 Pƙed rokem +632

    Having a kid at 36 has REALLY changed my opinion on A LOT of things. I am not a fan of Erica BUT as a mother I can totally feel her pain!!!! The fact that everyone is sitting up there trying to talk for him annoys my soul!!!! That man is selfish!!!!!!!!! GROW UP!!!!!! I’m so happy that Erica is taking steps to better herself for her kids. She is not with the crap and I feel her!!!!!!

    • @familyfirst1364
      @familyfirst1364 Pƙed rokem +7

      Please don’t let it annoy your soul You need to ask why they are doing that. I seen the entire divorce decree on TLA you tube channel ERICA IS TRASH

    • @familyfirst1364
      @familyfirst1364 Pƙed rokem +12

      Secondly ERICA has another child she neverrrrrrrrr brings up . But that’s how she actually got famous , fighting and Kicking her baby daddy and being violent . She’s screwed a lot of women and men over. Safari makes 61 k and she makes 34K a month and he pays 4k for the kids they both asked for joint and she won primary which most of us do get it as mothers

    • @leely577
      @leely577 Pƙed rokem +5

      He is definitely wrong for what happened to his marriage. He was dishonest and expected his wide to simply accept it. Now he wants to be hurt. Now he wants someone to be sensitive to his feelings. He needs to grow up.

    • @trapstar_1386
      @trapstar_1386 Pƙed rokem +5

      @@leely577 I just want to know why her first son doesn’t live with her now? He’s old enough where he can help her with he’s little brother and sister. And I believe her first born never lived with her. He lived with he’s grandma the whole time. And safaree even blasted her and said you call me a deadbeat but I only seen your first son once and I been with you for years yikez

    • @patsywilliams.2823
      @patsywilliams.2823 Pƙed rokem +3

      I understand where you're coming from I think safari is always giving it the big iam but deep down I think he's hurting from something thing but don't know how to explain himself so instead he tens to lash out

  • @jerseyygirl143
    @jerseyygirl143 Pƙed rokem +113

    Listening to her talk about how she had to pull herself out of a dark place and I’m crying
.I’ve been there 😱

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +3

      I think everyone who's ever been in a serious relationship with a narcissist has unfortunately been there. đŸ™đŸœ

  • @LotsofLisa
    @LotsofLisa Pƙed rokem +818

    Shekina turned out to be the MVP of this show! “
 He’s not living his best life!
He went out and got a girl look just like Erica, that ain’t his best life
” 😂😂😂
    As easy as it is to talk about the disaster known as Erica, she’s right, there is no “substance” to Safaree, he’s a whole child. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man get that tired of his family that damn fast
 he’s a weirdo!

    • @ChristianMosi
      @ChristianMosi Pƙed rokem +10

      Well said

    • @queennubian2573
      @queennubian2573 Pƙed rokem +20

      She stay in that man's widpipe. Love it!

    • @arlainastarks0503
      @arlainastarks0503 Pƙed rokem +18

      Right. He even admitted to being a child on IG a few weeks ago

    • @renenacia2686
      @renenacia2686 Pƙed rokem

      For REAL!!! WELL STATED!!!

    • @msladylibra8373
      @msladylibra8373 Pƙed rokem +11

      💯💯🎯 can't support anything Safaree ever after watching fm the beginning of him and Erica to the end

  • @flowerinbloom1731
    @flowerinbloom1731 Pƙed rokem +1145

    Y’all please learn this lesson from Erica
never confess your trauma to a man. He will see your weakness and use it against you!

    • @tobiisiba1641
      @tobiisiba1641 Pƙed rokem +101

      This is wrong you,can say the same about women,just stay away from toxic people if you find yourself in a toxic relationship gather strength and walk away.

    • @cherishwilson2156
      @cherishwilson2156 Pƙed rokem +54

      Facts, happened to me. Men really don't care.

    • @sandycheeks3473
      @sandycheeks3473 Pƙed rokem +6

      @@tobiisiba1641 I agree 💯

    • @Estera2698
      @Estera2698 Pƙed rokem

      He’s a narcissist, he doesnt give a fuck


    • @samarrablizz6446
      @samarrablizz6446 Pƙed rokem +5

      Yes definitely I had to learn the hard way

  • @RealTalkwithLynn
    @RealTalkwithLynn Pƙed rokem +40

    He threw the chair and Karma was like nope nope, right back at you 😂😂

  • @elisest.george8245
    @elisest.george8245 Pƙed rokem +91

    One thing I love in this moment is her level of accountability...she said "I attracted this energy"
    You did sis, but it's ok...you live and you learn and move on.

  • @jerusalem5159
    @jerusalem5159 Pƙed rokem +803

    I feel so bad for Erica nobody deserves lying betrayal and abandoning the family smh 😱

    • @bohkhuj9247
      @bohkhuj9247 Pƙed rokem +33

      That’s karma . Erika was a proud side chick and tried to destroy a marriage.

    • @emmarsha
      @emmarsha Pƙed rokem +13

      @@bohkhuj9247 Bingo why these ppl for getting this lol karma is something else lol

    • @193122090
      @193122090 Pƙed rokem +3

      Always remember there are 2 sides to a coin.

    • @leonorawilliams1916
      @leonorawilliams1916 Pƙed rokem +2

      They got in it for the wrong reason. Erica said he left days after she had her son. So ok why would you still be trying to make that work?? Erica has been around and Seafarer being Jamaican man wasn't in that for the long term. These women have better realize that you can't change a man; he has to come already with that mindset.

    • @pendejo6466
      @pendejo6466 Pƙed rokem

      What did these girls think would happen when they married rappers and those in the industry? Maybe she doesn't deserve what she received, but no one should be surprised.

  • @iman6141
    @iman6141 Pƙed rokem +833

    One thing about Erica she articulates her emotions very well. & it hits where it needs to hit. She is too real for a passive aggressive man like safaree. I’m glad she is in therapy, because this took a toll on her. She looks so unreal sitting there.

    • @mrgartrellofficial
      @mrgartrellofficial Pƙed rokem +11

      WHAT IS he suppose to say?...SHE KEEPS talking over him....THE WAY a man should deal with this kind of confrontation is give SILENCE....DO NOT FEED INTO a woman's emotions....then the other women talking over him too....GUYS, this is the perfect way to handle these type of people..,ONLY THING these women will do is attack you and try to talk over you...THEY can't hurt you physically so they try to use their words...THEIR words MUST BE MEANINGLESS to you...GIVE them SILENCE and do not try to go back and forth with them in a emotional way because they want you to get emotional....AND BIGGEST THING is do not listen to these women with their insults and shaming because thats all they can go to....remember, they can't phyically hurt you, so give them SILENCE

    • @iman6141
      @iman6141 Pƙed rokem +27

      @@mrgartrellofficial 1st off, Self-Actualized MEN don’t have these types of issues. They don’t run from responsibility. They don’t move in these streets as if they’ve “missed out” a phase in their life. They don’t have to have other grown people put their feelings into perspective. They don’t put women through shit like this period. In this video Safaree is proving his inability to lead as a man. He has no substance like Erica said. There is none there because he refuses to mature. His apologies are empty & she is over listening to them. Secondly, you must be the type of man that have these issues you speak of. If you do, you have to look within & see what it is about YOU that women isnt responding to & therefore not respecting. A woman will never verbally annihilate a man that they respect. Thirdly, there are men in their graves because a woman put them there. It’s a little absurd to think a woman can’t physically hurt a man đŸ„Ž

    • @mrgartrellofficial
      @mrgartrellofficial Pƙed rokem +6

      @@iman6141 no 
you are talking some sucker stuff
GIVE PEOPLE SILENCE
just as that one woman tried to disrespect him he had to tell her to shut up
That’s what women do, you start talking, THEY ARE NOT going to listen, they will try to talk over him JUST LIKE Erica mena is doing
Proof is in the pudding
GUYS should learn, APOLOGIZE one time, and then give these women silence
DONT GROVEL, do not give in to their emotional energy
all the woman on that panel and the women in the comment section are just going to bash him no matter what he says
SO GIVE THEM SILENCE
and don’t let women Shame you will lines telling what a man is, BC WOMEN CANNOT tell a man what a real man is
IF ERICA MENA was so big and bad, she wouldn’t be crying about her child support
Safaree did the right thing, dismiss what these women say and give them silence, and do not listen to their shaming language at all bc their shaming language and insults are the only power they have

    • @sindanoamutenya9808
      @sindanoamutenya9808 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@mrgartrellofficial🙄🙄🙄

    • @br00klynnative58
      @br00klynnative58 Pƙed rokem +3

      ​@@mrgartrellofficial I wish y'all would give us silence always... Hate men

  • @brooklynbuglet
    @brooklynbuglet Pƙed rokem +326

    The silence from Safaree is shocking. Especially after he said he numbs himself so he won't feel anything. Clearly there's some darkness, some trauma that caused that to be the person he is. Not excusing anything he's done to his wife and children, but damn he needs some therapy. Also so proud of Scrappy and his growth, it really sounds like him and Bambi have been getting counseling and healing their wounds. Love that for them

    • @epic7224
      @epic7224 Pƙed rokem +7

      Ikr I was wondering why no one else was mentioning this

    • @shyannefuller6458
      @shyannefuller6458 Pƙed rokem +27

      When people gonna realize, this man does not care, he is a narcissist, he's cold and dark and that's what I see.

    • @Rose-mo3lp
      @Rose-mo3lp Pƙed rokem +5

      He loves nicki minaj. He lost her and thought he could move on. Once he did with Erica he realized that he made the biggest mistake. He wish the life he had with Erica is really with nick

    • @sagittariusque8932
      @sagittariusque8932 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@shyannefuller6458 exactly nothings shocking. She needs to let him be and try her best to move on but it hurts because she see that he's seeming unbothered and she needs karma to get him and it hasn't. Maybe if it did it would make her feel better

    • @kitteekittee4010
      @kitteekittee4010 Pƙed rokem +6

      @@shyannefuller6458 100 percent with you, he's only saying that to appear hurt. He actually doesn't give a single fuck

  • @ThetrueTeddyB
    @ThetrueTeddyB Pƙed rokem +29

    When he told big girl to STFU! I was cryingđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @lelee115
    @lelee115 Pƙed rokem +319

    What hurts me the most is the fact Erica thought that Safaree was sent to her from her deceased father and that wasnt the case at all. I really hope that Erica recovers soon🙏

    • @bbyphathoneei
      @bbyphathoneei Pƙed rokem +14

      Yea, you can tell she still has trauma from her father passing they were close when she was growing up, he and her mom never had a great relationship.

    • @pendejo6466
      @pendejo6466 Pƙed rokem +4

      Yes, people believe the stupidest things, don't they?

    • @boogieoogie1727
      @boogieoogie1727 Pƙed rokem +1

      He’s straight from the devil

    • @EricaExploreIslandTours
      @EricaExploreIslandTours Pƙed rokem +1

      I remember he bought her something that had something to do with her father's photo in it or something having to do with what her father liked

    • @sulimigra23
      @sulimigra23 Pƙed rokem +11

      He was sent by Nicki kicking his cheating butt to the curb.

  • @LUCIANALOVESGOD
    @LUCIANALOVESGOD Pƙed rokem +59

    Scrappy looks like he wants to beat Safaree up LOL

    • @AtimTimLives
      @AtimTimLives Pƙed rokem +11

      Like! If Dissapointed had a face! He is so ashamed of the man Safaree did NOT become....đŸ€­

    • @TH-ue7lj
      @TH-ue7lj Pƙed rokem

      not to me

    • @SleepyBuoy-xh3id
      @SleepyBuoy-xh3id Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@AtimTimLiveswell not every man is gonna be tbe same

  • @RyahVbby
    @RyahVbby Pƙed rokem +348

    I'm seriously so proud of scrappy. To see the strength, light, and growth in him.... it's a beautiful thing.

  • @newterms3572
    @newterms3572 Pƙed rokem +8

    😂Damn im surprised that chair didn't knock his ass out when it came back to his head like a boomerang.

  • @kellyannemakeup8296
    @kellyannemakeup8296 Pƙed rokem +554

    Erica looks like a shell of her formal self, I hope she regains her strength

    • @tiefblau2780
      @tiefblau2780 Pƙed rokem

      Great now it is a size 4, good business for initiating 70% divorce.
      I see its a good hunting season, what you dont hunt in your finest? You losing out.... watch out after 30+ Single isnt far fetch.

    • @AuraMarie
      @AuraMarie Pƙed rokem +2

      Man, am so sorry

    • @xo_.musicloverxo
      @xo_.musicloverxo Pƙed rokem

      But she did this to herself though

    • @rickyo7061
      @rickyo7061 Pƙed rokem +2

      ​​ @xo_.MuÍ„siÍŁcÍ«loveRxo true, but this relationship was trash even before it started. Two people with inflated egos

    • @tanisha.r.thomas
      @tanisha.r.thomas Pƙed rokem +4

      Someone is wearing Erica's skin right now

  • @abigailngeleka5436
    @abigailngeleka5436 Pƙed rokem +700

    I feel for Erica. You can tell she’s suffered. Physically and emotionally. You can see it in her eyes.

    • @Astro.babyyy
      @Astro.babyyy Pƙed rokem

      She’s been in these streets fucking up marriages
 karma is a bitch.

    • @chrisybeautytv1298
      @chrisybeautytv1298 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      A man will really ruin you Erica mena lost herself and looks over a man 😱

    • @LsgNyembe
      @LsgNyembe Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      it breaks my heart to see another woman go through this much pain

    • @vanesaterry1632
      @vanesaterry1632 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Karma

  • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
    @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Pƙed rokem +335

    Erica look so stress and not healthy I feel so bad for her and their kids.
    Bambi and Kirk shutup. I'm sorry but that chair hitting Safaree đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł#karma

    • @LUCIANALOVESGOD
      @LUCIANALOVESGOD Pƙed rokem +4

      LOL 😂😂😂

    • @youngcity4241
      @youngcity4241 Pƙed rokem +4

      That’s coke

    • @neridarivera8818
      @neridarivera8818 Pƙed rokem +18

      I'm surprised that no1 got in Kirk's face and tell him 2 stfu because he also did wrong 2 Rasheeda l

    • @LUCIANALOVESGOD
      @LUCIANALOVESGOD Pƙed rokem +8

      @@neridarivera8818 and still does lol 😂

    • @prettymek3299
      @prettymek3299 Pƙed rokem +1

      I know I was saying Kirk need to shut up lol đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚ look what he did to Rasheeda!!

  • @inahbaxter6964
    @inahbaxter6964 Pƙed rokem +3

    The fact he threw a chair and it hitted him made me weak 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the chair was like RIGHT BACK AT YA

  • @thatssoe1269
    @thatssoe1269 Pƙed rokem +163

    You can see the emotions in Scrappy face, he’s a father & wouldn’t want to be leave his family. I see the growth in Scrappy God bless Erica & Safaee. I pray that they’ll both find peace & make sure that the kids are good regardless of their situation.

    • @cmac3764
      @cmac3764 Pƙed rokem +4

      Right, even Scrappy is speechless at how cold Safaree is being and we know the background/environment Scrap had to fight to overcome. He tried to help him, but like a fool, Safaree’s prideful and stubborn ways wouldn’t let him simply acknowledge plus apologize to Erica. Safaree is the type of guy that needs to be abandoned and stripped of money/opportunities for an extended time to really change. He’s too comfortable right now being heartless but still somehow managing to thrive otherwise.

  • @stephaniej.stanley2141
    @stephaniej.stanley2141 Pƙed rokem +320

    They were both broken when entering this relationship. He’s was emotionally unavailable prior to her. She had and has serious anger issues prior to him. Seeing how she handles disagreements would make me want to walk away too. I can just imagine what those arguments looked like behind closed doors. Getting aggressive with an emotionally unavailable person will cause that person (safaree) to shut down even more! You will not get anything out of them. They need therapy!

    • @disneydreamer8147
      @disneydreamer8147 Pƙed rokem +20

      You're absolutely right â˜ș

    • @trish6541
      @trish6541 Pƙed rokem +5

      He always wanted Nikki....period

    • @kelliew.4285
      @kelliew.4285 Pƙed rokem +34

      Emotionally unavailable my butt. Safaree deserves more than what Erica is giving him based on his treatment of her. He chooses to hide behind this "I'm hurt" veil while not taking any real accountability. I have seen Safaree's behavior in a lot of Jamaican men who have the mindset that women should just take what a man gives them without getting upset. Very egotistical.

    • @nmorto2013
      @nmorto2013 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@kelliew.4285 girl yes everything u said ok.

    • @NurseMidwifeBAE
      @NurseMidwifeBAE Pƙed rokem +16

      Exactly!! That man is tired of all the explosive anger- he keeps getting shut down by her so why would he speak. I’m tired of the ‘poor Erica’ narrative. It’s not always the man, sometimes it’s the woman.

  • @ladycalderon2388
    @ladycalderon2388 Pƙed rokem +511

    Safaree taking off his glasses because he “started to tear” instead of keeping them on, to me, says a lot. He’s a lost cause and needs God desperately.

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 Pƙed rokem +11

      Yesssss

    • @jaquelinxochiltruiz4270
      @jaquelinxochiltruiz4270 Pƙed rokem +76

      I thought that seemed odd, like he wanted to prove to the world he’s hurt, look at these tears. This whole situation is fucked up.

    • @christinacabrera7799
      @christinacabrera7799 Pƙed rokem +23

      It’s like look at me and my tears !!

    • @christinadumont458
      @christinadumont458 Pƙed rokem

      I Know Right... Like What In The Actual Fuck Is Wrong With This Dude Lol. That Was Beyond Cringey...

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Pƙed rokem +10

      A lost cause? For someone who believes in god that’s pretty fd up to say

  • @shelbyirons9290
    @shelbyirons9290 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +12

    I feel like antagonizing, belittling, and attacking your partner over and over is just not necessary and I think that’s where Erica loses with Safaree each time. It’s nothing wrong with conveying your hurt. Stand on when you stood up for yourself and know that’s enough. You don’t need to throw it in someone’s face a million times. It doesn’t make them want to be better or regret it more. All the anger she lets off separates them more than his absence and disregard.

  • @joyajohnson2216
    @joyajohnson2216 Pƙed rokem +326

    My goodness, poor Erica. She looks totally and completely drained. We gotta stop letting these men break us like this. This poor woman.

    • @ftwdamfseyg
      @ftwdamfseyg Pƙed rokem +10

      Cocaine is a hell of a drug,,

    • @laurenaasheart3886
      @laurenaasheart3886 Pƙed rokem +20

      @@ftwdamfseyg oh please cry me a River, wat proof, stop dragging women that r already down.

    • @kennethgregory8764
      @kennethgregory8764 Pƙed rokem +3

      Y'all break hearts too

    • @laurenaasheart3886
      @laurenaasheart3886 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@kennethgregory8764 who is talking about woman vs man broke heart, we are talking about this specific case
 stop projecting

    • @ftwdamfseyg
      @ftwdamfseyg Pƙed rokem

      @@laurenaasheart3886 there is something called karma and with the combination of cocaine that's a bad outcome . This girl was out there fucking married men , and everything now she's some angel? She only settled down with safaree because she was ran thru and washed up and NOBODY else would wife her...

  • @keitrawilson9585
    @keitrawilson9585 Pƙed rokem +178

    Érica feels the rage we all know too well after realizing the narcissist has won any part of you.

    • @iamblvckivi
      @iamblvckivi Pƙed rokem +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯this needs more likes wen she get a routine

    • @ChimangoMwandira
      @ChimangoMwandira Pƙed rokem +2

      Safraree is a Narc. And only those that have been on a similar situation can get what erica is going through

    • @classyandsassy765
      @classyandsassy765 Pƙed rokem

      😞 I just wish more women would recognize the signs of these narcissistic men. I can recognize the signs from a mile away. I picked up on it immediately when safaree first came on the scene. Almost every woman was so infatuated with him because of his 🍆 but I saw deeper than that. I never liked him

    • @christinad374
      @christinad374 Pƙed rokem

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @zeezee5740
    @zeezee5740 Pƙed rokem +103

    I remember my baby being in the nicu sick for three weeks and the father only seen him once because he was out chasing women , I wouldn’t wish this on anyone honestly

    • @susuu_3
      @susuu_3 Pƙed rokem +14

      Wowww, I’m so sorry you went thorough that..💔

    • @tanisha.r.thomas
      @tanisha.r.thomas Pƙed rokem +1

      I am so sorry. God will bless you for being the roxk your child needs. Sometimes their absence is the best thing...
      I aint seen mine in 20 years and my child is about to graduate college on my strength.

  • @mrnonononono
    @mrnonononono Pƙed rokem +14

    She’s the kind of woman we are warned about in Proverbs. If you’ve ever dealt with a woman like this, you know how those interactions go behind closed doors. You know. Reactions are caused by actions. And I know that spirit. God be with those kids

    • @lifeof.jariya3307
      @lifeof.jariya3307 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +3

      that's sad if you think this whole thing is her fault

    • @user-ts5wo5bd8t
      @user-ts5wo5bd8t Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Absolutely. Her reactions were caused by HIS actions.

  • @keema7029
    @keema7029 Pƙed rokem +374

    I know this pain! Being a single mother is not easy but the reward of the dedication, sacrifice and unconditional love is worth it. Don’t focus on the end result and respect your journey. Your kids are watching.
    Keep going đŸ’ȘđŸŸđŸ’ȘđŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸđŸ‘đŸŸ
    You got this!!

    • @TheForgivenman
      @TheForgivenman Pƙed rokem +17

      Naah... Tell the ones who aren't single moms that it sucks and they better make better choices. It's not something to celebrate. You made a poor decision

    • @vybezvybin4081
      @vybezvybin4081 Pƙed rokem +9

      You literally advocated benefits for being a single mother when the bad outweighs whatever benefits you can come up with. There are a lot of poor examples of men out there. But you know what most of those men say? They tell you “don’t be me”. Women refuse to take accountability for anything. But I digress because I’d be better off talking to a brick wall. You are too far gone for common sense and reasoning. You’ve never had it if you are a single mother by poor choices.

    • @keema7029
      @keema7029 Pƙed rokem +6

      Absolutely. I’m not advocating for women or men to be single parents. I’m speaking reality of some. I didn’t make a poor choice the father of my children did. But my decision after is what’s important. To me that is!

    • @feefs2139
      @feefs2139 Pƙed rokem

      @@TheForgivenman How are you going to tell someone they made a poor decision.. you have no clue about their life. Easy to judge over the internet but I'm sure you've made probably some of the worst piss poor decisions so stop the cap and grow up.

    • @ms.feisty456
      @ms.feisty456 Pƙed rokem +3

      I'm a single mother too. Our children need us more than anything and kids give unconditional love. No love like a child love to their parents. Recently I was sick and wanted to quarantine by myself. Doctor said it's flu season and a lot of people are getting sick. My son wouldn't leave my side and I got mad telling him to sleep in his own room because I don't want him sick. He responded "I want to make sure you are ok" When he said that I started to cry because it really choked me up with tears. A child's love is the best ❀. My son is 12 and he always ask me if I'm ok. He doesn't like me to leave the house if he doesn't know where I am going LMAO. He is my son but he thinks he is my dad. No love better than the love of a child and a parent. As a single mother my son is my family and I do the best I can to provide for him. Our children give us strength too.

  • @johariaissufo7669
    @johariaissufo7669 Pƙed rokem +682

    I feel so sorry for Erica! Nobody deserves what she is going through! I will definitely include her on my prayers!

  • @ShesLifted
    @ShesLifted Pƙed rokem +160

    I’ve been going through a lot myself and I’ve been noticing how my looks are changing not for the better. After seeing this video I realize I have to remove myself from toxicity before it kills me. Prayers to Erica I really hope she finds clarification and happiness soon.

    • @ferraribuissereth9118
      @ferraribuissereth9118 Pƙed rokem +4

      Well said .. and truth behind this 😱!

    • @BeautyfullSunrize
      @BeautyfullSunrize Pƙed rokem +6

      I pray 🙏 you find peace, happiness and each day you learn to let some of that hurt. And pain go because it doesn’t do anything but cause you turmoil. I’m in the same situation my health has even declined because I have put myself under so much stress trying to hold onto. Everyone else’s problem sending you positive vibes, love and positive energy. We got this sis one day at a time.

    • @Jenjenn1111
      @Jenjenn1111 Pƙed rokem +3

      Yes, bad relationships have definitely declined my overall health and appearance
it is not worth it!

    • @mazuegibson4666
      @mazuegibson4666 Pƙed rokem +1

      Will pray for you.

    • @oliviawood3976
      @oliviawood3976 Pƙed rokem +2

      I was in a toxic abusive relationship for 5years I went down to a size zero one day I looked at myself Nd I was like what am I doing to myself I'm a beautiful woman and I deserve to be treated with respect and to respect myself in not allowing a man to abuse me and make me mentally ill I cut him off it's been 2years I've never spoke to him again I'm now in such a beautiful loving relationship and we have a son together ❀ you can heal you deserve it not for another relationship but for yourself your worth is so much more

  • @Reneecakes
    @Reneecakes Pƙed rokem +17

    😱 I feel for her. Speaking on it while still feeling that hurt and abandonment. There’s nothing to compare it to; to be breaking completely on the inside and having to still be a mother and a good mother. A present mother without being angry or upset around the kids because then you have to explain and it’s just not a talk you ever want to have with your kids

  • @josephinearthur9382
    @josephinearthur9382 Pƙed rokem +123

    Safari done ruined Erica's beauty, Omg!😱I'm not a fan of Erica but as a woman, i put myself in her shoes..i never wish this for my worse enemy, i pray for her peace🙏💔

    • @bohkhuj9247
      @bohkhuj9247 Pƙed rokem +7

      That’s on Erika not safaree

    • @lenah4160
      @lenah4160 Pƙed rokem +7

      She will heal from this and start to look like herself again. In Jesus Name

    • @pendejo6466
      @pendejo6466 Pƙed rokem +4

      The surgeries and constant anger ruined her.

    • @RR-bq7tm
      @RR-bq7tm Pƙed rokem +3

      @@bohkhuj9247 she just need to eat and be less stressed out she will get back on track

    • @pamelasmart4968
      @pamelasmart4968 Pƙed rokem

      Erica played apart.
      It takes two to tangle.
      The dysfunction belong neither to the two, but the interaction between the two.
      Ase'

  • @iammocharenee1230
    @iammocharenee1230 Pƙed rokem +112

    Erica is going through it. I know how it takes a toll on you on so many levels.

  • @divinerae4966
    @divinerae4966 Pƙed rokem +170

    Sometimes we go through certain things, for us to learn and grow. I see so much maturity in Erica and I pray she continues to grow as she goes along. Safaree will never change and he needs to be alone. He''s still a child and needs to deal with his issues mess.

  • @bdixie3290
    @bdixie3290 Pƙed rokem +5

    Erica had red flags with her first child with sarafee . She literally said he wasn’t supportive , yet she willingly got pregnant again . Us as women need to stop thinking babies will fix a broken relationship.

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 Pƙed 20 dny

      At least the kids are close in age and will have each other as playmates.

  • @lifewithprettyb.8513
    @lifewithprettyb.8513 Pƙed rokem +88

    erica looks beyond tired, i really feel for her, safaree is literally a little boy in a grown man body. i know his mother is really disappointed, she knows she did not raise him like that & he knows that too.

    • @pendejo6466
      @pendejo6466 Pƙed rokem +4

      Erica is just as irresponsible, reckless, and fantasy-prone as Safaree, which led to unrealistic expectations.

    • @SleepyBuoy-xh3id
      @SleepyBuoy-xh3id Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      Then who did probably his Father

  • @haylleywest1487
    @haylleywest1487 Pƙed rokem +120

    You can see the physical effects of how bad this relationship and divorce hurt her wow look what a man can do to a woman like I’ve been there before and once I took my power back I’ve been lit ever since now I have a real man đŸ˜ąâ€I wish her the best and hoped that she finds real love

  • @MarciIsRenee
    @MarciIsRenee Pƙed rokem +45

    One thing that’s not okay is how he’s super quick to tell a woman to stfu but extremely slow to do a man the same way.

    • @ibpr4170
      @ibpr4170 Pƙed rokem +4

      Shows a lot about a man who does that đŸ€ŠđŸœâ€â™€ïž

    • @iammanukahoney
      @iammanukahoney Pƙed rokem +1

      Exactly! Remember when he was running away from Meek Mill when he pulled up?

    • @justdatguy29
      @justdatguy29 Pƙed rokem +1

      No man I’ve seen in the show has said anything to him tho or to belittle him like her y’all he tryna make shit a thing and it isn’t Shikana been very rude to that man I would’ve told her to stfu too

    • @MarciIsRenee
      @MarciIsRenee Pƙed rokem +1

      @@iammanukahoney Right! And if Erica wasn’t with the shits, I don’t doubt that he would’ve been physically abusive.

    • @cmac3764
      @cmac3764 Pƙed rokem +1

      Oh he’s definitely the type to at least get up in her face aggressively, make slick verbal threats, and even throw things...at the minimum. I wouldn’t put physical abuse beyond him. We even see his anger issues when he randomly threw an entire chair in a room full of grown men, in this clip. Certainly no one would be in his home to stop him from similar outbursts at home with a woman and helpless kids.

  • @nyamariee4877
    @nyamariee4877 Pƙed rokem +7

    The way he threw the chair on himself😂😂😂

  • @jamiaiahcrawford1506
    @jamiaiahcrawford1506 Pƙed rokem +825

    This is disgusting. I pray I never let a man do this to me.

    • @toniwills4220
      @toniwills4220 Pƙed rokem +23

      Just get a narcissist (and sometimes you don’t know that they are until you are married to them) and they will suck the life out of you.

    • @cassieleonarda3905
      @cassieleonarda3905 Pƙed rokem +24

      Just choose better Shawty. Nobody forced Erica to get with Safaree. It was her decision

    • @chronicxdzed2693
      @chronicxdzed2693 Pƙed rokem

      If you let the Leah Lipps phenotype suck you up you will become aware

    • @ehmrahq1548
      @ehmrahq1548 Pƙed rokem +27

      A man who doesn't know how to communicate is the worst kinda of man to get with. Nothing will ever get resolved or worked out because they don't know how to express or admit they been hurt.

    • @BangBang-kq1kf
      @BangBang-kq1kf Pƙed rokem

      She deserves itđŸ€Ł

  • @crystaltatchell2576
    @crystaltatchell2576 Pƙed rokem +313

    Erica is right Safaree just doesn't care what he has put Erica through. Poor Erica

    • @193122090
      @193122090 Pƙed rokem +30

      Poor Erica....lol.......its unfortunate...but Women like Erica will always cry victim. ITs so sad that MEN always have to swallow their pain and be the bad guy when dealing with TOXIC Women..........Erica has always been extra...and I hope she can heal herself first.. Wish them both the best and hope they can be adults for the kids.

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 Pƙed rokem +20

      @@193122090 she’s just telling her side, not playing victim. They are begging Safaree to talk.

    • @shenikadevine3887
      @shenikadevine3887 Pƙed rokem +26

      @@icyunvme2400 he doesn't want to talk because she interrupts him so he think it's pointless

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite Pƙed rokem +28

      @@icyunvme2400 Erica is begging him to talk but is also shutting him down as soon as he opens his mouth. It’s too the point where her castmates told her to chill and let him talk. Bambi was right. If it’s not a safe space, he’s not going to talk and genuinely open up like how Erica wants. Erica wants to yell, curse, berate, and emasculate men and expect them respect, love, and admire her afterwards. It doesn’t work like that.

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 Pƙed rokem +8

      @@shenikadevine3887 He doesn’t even talk about it when she’s not around. No one is forcing him to shut up. If you got something to say, you better say it💀

  • @christinacabrera7799
    @christinacabrera7799 Pƙed rokem +353

    He literally is stripping her of everything. Her looks, her mind, her mental. It’s so sad when you are familiar with this kind of toxicity. I hope and pray one day soon Erica can look back on this and see herself in the process of shedding into who she’s supposed to really be. Sometimes it takes years, but it’s for the better! Focus on you girl !

    • @testedtried1233
      @testedtried1233 Pƙed rokem +14

      I disagree. Erika is her own worst enemy. He has not said 1 foul thing he takes it in silence. She is pushing him further away and some of them see it and know the truth.

    • @testedtried1233
      @testedtried1233 Pƙed rokem +3

      I disagree. Erica is her own worst enemy. No one comes before the all mighty,

    • @hawadiaby506
      @hawadiaby506 Pƙed rokem +6

      She is giving him too much power....

    • @coreythomas3633
      @coreythomas3633 Pƙed rokem

      Huh you mean her

    • @coreythomas3633
      @coreythomas3633 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@hawadiaby506 how?

  • @josephhitchin7884
    @josephhitchin7884 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +4

    All this because he won’t pay you more money. He done the right thing by not saying anything.

  • @diamcole
    @diamcole Pƙed rokem +98

    Really praying for Erica's health. I've always held the stance that the energy you put out is the energy you get back but I genuinely believe the lesson has been learned and I hope she can move on. She deserves healing and happiness.

  • @nicolesakwe1973
    @nicolesakwe1973 Pƙed rokem +136

    There’s one thing Erica needs to know is that there’s nothing she cannot overcome. Safaree is not sorry, he will never take accountability. His true colors came out and just doesn’t know how to pretend that he’s not this.

    • @gee9259
      @gee9259 Pƙed rokem +2

      This đŸ‘đŸ»

    • @Sofia-fc5nj
      @Sofia-fc5nj Pƙed rokem

      Wrong but u go head and lie to urself

    • @nicolesakwe1973
      @nicolesakwe1973 Pƙed rokem

      @@Sofia-fc5nj oh đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @dougedoug2105
      @dougedoug2105 Pƙed rokem

      Why does he have on a tank? Bro you need muscle tone to wear that

  • @cassandrarenee4660
    @cassandrarenee4660 Pƙed rokem +75

    He literally just said that “that’s why I don’t talk” she cuts him off n never let him speak

    • @spicednsauced
      @spicednsauced Pƙed rokem +19

      exactly. it's obvious why he shuts down. she's verbally abusive & probably reminds him of his ex

    • @cicigetthat07
      @cicigetthat07 Pƙed rokem +3

      Agreeeeee

    • @may8043
      @may8043 Pƙed rokem +6

      She cuts him off because he lies and she gets angry. Whatever he has to say won't excuse his ACTIONS, which speak volumes.

    • @spicednsauced
      @spicednsauced Pƙed rokem +13

      @@may8043 i disagree. he barely said two words before she jumped in to tell him how he feels which is crazy. she also seems to behave this way with all her exes so i stand by what i said

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 Pƙed rokem +1

      Bam:okay, okay, okay
      Lol

  • @1QueenPlatinum
    @1QueenPlatinum Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

    Safaree is deeply hurt but he holds it inside
.. something isn’t 100 with him but ppl don’t understand hope he gets help thou

  • @reynamc8880
    @reynamc8880 Pƙed rokem +71

    I went threw a divorce 2 years after I got married and it is really traumatic. It feels like your future was ripped away from you before you even knew it. It feels like you finally thought you could relax and your finally safe and just like that your abandoned. What bothered me the most is that they didn’t even try for you and didn’t try for your marriage. Two years is nowhere near enough time to say you tried. It felt like what even was the point to bring me this far just to throw me away. Why give me everything I asked for just to take it back? No matter what erica has done in the past she is truly hurt and it’s going to be a while before you heal. I had been divorced 2 years now and I don’t know when I’ll ever feel safe enough to try again. I’m really sorry that happen I’m just thankful we didn’t have any kids I can only imagine that would be 100 times harder. Trying to be a mother when your hurting I couldn’t imagine. We stand with you Erica you are not alone your pain is real and valid.

    • @misskayda
      @misskayda Pƙed rokem +2

      It’s so incredibly heavy 💔

    • @pendejo6466
      @pendejo6466 Pƙed rokem +2

      There was no way those two explosive personalities could be together.

    • @yazzh7776
      @yazzh7776 Pƙed rokem +1

      Right idc what ppl say. Divorce is hard ESPECIALLY when the other partner files. It’s only been a year for me and I’m STILL traumatized

    • @marieajackson1148
      @marieajackson1148 Pƙed rokem +1

      Being Wed is not the same as "married"...the commitment is just not there. This is why it's imperative that couples receive proven spiritual pre -marriage counseling to understand the very real dynamics and sacrifices involved and to honestly consider them all..

    • @aleciadaniel335
      @aleciadaniel335 Pƙed rokem +1

      Dealing with this now and I appreciate the way you worded your comment. So accurate.

  • @TheIfunanyaEffect
    @TheIfunanyaEffect Pƙed rokem +87

    I’m not really a fan of Bambi but I respect her for helping Erica and understanding the situation ❀

  • @mr.positive7510
    @mr.positive7510 Pƙed rokem +330

    He has destroyed this woman and he has enjoyed every minute of it. This guy is a bona fide narcissist! He is the epitome of how gross narcissism is and how it kills the soul and spirit of others.

    • @jsn3221
      @jsn3221 Pƙed rokem +2

      Agreed

    • @justice8253
      @justice8253 Pƙed rokem

      ​@Mr best it'd a TV show😂

    • @sergicalcantara
      @sergicalcantara Pƙed rokem +4

      She’s disgusting asf too. She treated ppl HORRIBLY. You don’t say that though 😂

    • @colingriffin4463
      @colingriffin4463 Pƙed rokem +3

      Im enjoying everything shes going through, gold digggga

    • @msanm0986
      @msanm0986 Pƙed rokem +2

      They are both narcissists. She would gaslight Cyn all of the time on the show.

  • @jesusalfaro3155
    @jesusalfaro3155 Pƙed rokem +3

    It was so funny when she found out how much money she would be getting lol.

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch Pƙed rokem +79

    Shekinah has GROWN so much. Her peace and calm around her is so beautiful to see.

  • @Browneyezish
    @Browneyezish Pƙed rokem +153

    I can understand her pain! I was sooo sick last year. I could barely walk, eat etc
 I was alone with my 13 year old. I was sooo afraid .. but had too be strong đŸ’ȘđŸœ for her! Thank God đŸ™đŸœ we stuck together and made it through ❀.

    • @nahhhbruhhh
      @nahhhbruhhh Pƙed rokem +6

      Sending love your way ❀

    • @jessiemac4970
      @jessiemac4970 Pƙed rokem +4

      Glad you made it 💙

    • @BRENDAIDAIL
      @BRENDAIDAIL Pƙed rokem

      Congratulations Shavone! You are so much stronger than you thought. You've made it through the hardest part...now enjoy the rest of your fabulous life! Sending love and light â€ïžđŸ™đŸŸ

    • @NkNk-vg8fc
      @NkNk-vg8fc Pƙed rokem +1

      Stay strong and be their for her she’s what keeps you going.â€ïžđŸŠŸ

    • @kierragrant4291
      @kierragrant4291 Pƙed rokem

      You better go girl!💜💜💜

  • @brittanyezell737
    @brittanyezell737 Pƙed rokem +174

    I feel bad for both of them and the kids. Going through this on television is stressful and it’s going to be re-traumatizing when the kids are old enough to watch this back and see how much pain their parents put each other in. I just hope Erica and Safaree can somehow find forgiveness so that they can coparent effectively because if not, their kids are bound to repeat the same cycle.

  • @PrettyYunTy
    @PrettyYunTy Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +5

    That’s crazy, I hope Eric keeps prayers in her hands❀

  • @Melissaclarke28
    @Melissaclarke28 Pƙed rokem +417

    I can see how this relationship went. Erica is a very confrontational person, Safaree is a runner. These two people will never work because they would have to change who they are in order to fix what’s wrong. Safaree would have to stop running and deal with his situations and Erica would need to be less confrontational and more patient and willing to listen. Neither will do that so they will always clash.

    • @NkNk-vg8fc
      @NkNk-vg8fc Pƙed rokem +28

      Yesss. 2 different approaches towards life. He needs to just work on the kids and that’s it.

    • @gladtidings2166
      @gladtidings2166 Pƙed rokem +14

      Yep their attachment styles are too different

    • @TheWangaGutz
      @TheWangaGutz Pƙed rokem +8

      Best comment

    • @ndalooscar537
      @ndalooscar537 Pƙed rokem +11

      I wish everyone sees it in this context

    • @patsynelson8459
      @patsynelson8459 Pƙed rokem +7

      100% agree with you Melissa! If they had recognised this from the outset and were willing to seek relationship guidance their marriage may have stood a chance.
      I just pray they can both put their differences to one side now for the sake of the babies. However looking at Erica's pain it may be a while before we see this happen 😞
      There are so many lessons to be learnt here but moving forward I wish them both peace and happiness with the 'right' person who will provide them with the love they both so desperately need and deserve. God bless đŸ™đŸœđŸ’™â€

  • @LaDominicana33
    @LaDominicana33 Pƙed rokem +45

    Safaree is an absolute child. How he has treated his wife and especially his kids is unreal.

  • @K1NGW0LF
    @K1NGW0LF Pƙed rokem +37

    Damn that man is the true definition of a boy in a man body. His brain development is still stuck at like 13 or 14 years old. What's sad is that there's many men out there just like him.

  • @mercedesstjohn5056
    @mercedesstjohn5056 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +3

    Safarre really is terrible you can literally see he was trying to think of the saddest moment he had so he could produce a tear but he just couldn't what a joke literally I'm glad Erica dodged this bullet and hope she is healing!

  • @lukejoseph8024
    @lukejoseph8024 Pƙed rokem +52

    This is where living a "hip hop" life gets you. Broken homes and non stop drama.

    • @lovelygirl7123
      @lovelygirl7123 Pƙed rokem +1

      Say It louder for the people in the back
.cardi b need to hear this as well


  • @kyngapeshyt8863
    @kyngapeshyt8863 Pƙed rokem +568

    The energy you put out... comes back around to you tenfold. Hope she can make it thru her pain 🙏

    • @Giselle_Glam594
      @Giselle_Glam594 Pƙed rokem +49

      It's KARMA 4 how she did EVERYBODY

    • @rodericksutton2983
      @rodericksutton2983 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@Giselle_Glam594 Hope you get your karma

    • @tiefblau2780
      @tiefblau2780 Pƙed rokem +3

      Well.... Arent you Fiends going to Help Erica, my dog step on a BEE......
      Are there no Heroic going to *STEP* *ON* *A* *BEE* to help *ERICA?* She is *SAD* *N* *TRAGIC* can you see *She* *is* *in* *PAIN.* *SUFFERING*
      *Do* *NONE* *of* *you* *have* *any* *HEARTS* *in* *YOUR* *SOULS,* *to* *help* *A* *SKUNK* *in* *distress?* *How* *HeartLESS*
      Are you not ashame of yourself? Where is the *MAN* in you? Where are all the *good* *MEN?*

    • @ducks_inarow5479
      @ducks_inarow5479 Pƙed rokem +17

      Big FACTSSS!!!.. guaranteed she HUMBLED now!!

    • @peachesandpoets
      @peachesandpoets Pƙed rokem +9

      And here you go. May you receive all the judgment you cast on others through their growth.

  • @mymyinspiration9582
    @mymyinspiration9582 Pƙed rokem +63

    I’m 43 years old and I started all over again. My oldest twin daughters are 26 and my youngest daughter is 4. I worked on my career graduated college at 41 and hoped my life would prosper. However my youngest daughters father wasn’t mature enough, cheated on me and became abusive and manic. I moved on his a$$ in the middle of the night while he was away. It’s been tough since being a single mom, but I’m much more peaceful and thankful to remove my daughter out the toxic cycle. Erica I pray you find peace.

    • @scultronabrown73
      @scultronabrown73 Pƙed rokem +2

      Never too late to start over 🇯đŸ‡Č🇯đŸ‡Č🇯đŸ‡Č🇯đŸ‡Č. Never too late

    • @natashajohnson2023
      @natashajohnson2023 Pƙed rokem +1

      Amen! Glad you and your child made it out safe. A lot of people are not able to tell their story because they didn’t make it out. I pray that god give you the strength and healing that you need. I know it isn’t easy but stay strong.

    • @mymyinspiration9582
      @mymyinspiration9582 Pƙed rokem

      @@natashajohnson2023 thank you

    • @deebunny178
      @deebunny178 Pƙed rokem

      I’m glad you made it out safely.

  • @MariamOdupolu
    @MariamOdupolu Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +3

    If you guys watch the video when their first child was one. He said the fact that he was tired of starting over to raise another child.