When You Decide to Run Away From Home
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- Crystal runs away from home leaving her mother to fear for the worst. Agustin visits the doctor to discuss a potentially life threatening surgery to fix a deformation in his face, but makes progress back at school dealing with his anger issues brought on by bullying from other kids.
On Chicago's West Side, there is a school for the city's most at-risk youth - the Moses Montefiore Academy. Most of the students at Montefiore have been kicked out of other schools for aggressive behavior, and many have been diagnosed with emotional disorders.
Last Chance High takes viewers inside Montefiore's classrooms and into the homes of students who are one mistake away from being locked up or committed to a mental hospital.
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VICE News ok send them to my countrys school they are gonna be angels when they come back bc they going to be beat everyday until they behave
Can u make a video on what she’s up to now
Yo what up with a follow up video vice
Do an update on where all the kids are now. Please I’m curious to see how many are still alive, did they turn their lives around, etc
i dont mean to be so offtopic but does someone know of a tool to log back into an instagram account?
I somehow forgot my password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me!
Augustin is the perfect example of a good kid in a bad city.
Poor kid man... Doesn't deserve that shit... He's already got it hard enough poor Lil Man...
Crystal acts that way because her mom doesn’t blame Crystal or herself for anything
@@matthewmiller1865 we weren't talking about her ass she's too far gone she won't change and since she's on probation until she's 19 she's going to stay this way cuz she'll be in and out of juvie and she'll keep this facade goin of being "hard". She ain't shit she's just a scared little girl yearnin for her father...
@@r4ng3k03r1 man I read somewhere that she was dead.
VoltGe good kid maad city -Kendrick Lamar
It hurts me to see kids sitting alone at lunch and then they start looking at the other kids wit all they friends 🥺🥺 Man I would be his friend
I know that kid
@Golf Wang Gae shit 😧
@Calla Antoinette I was that kid too. Except I'm not a model lol I didn't get bullied too often but was alone almost all the time.
@Calla Antoinette stfu no cares about modelling after having no friends
@Calla Antoinette same but Im not model
Awwww the second guy :) hes intelligent but just gets angry due to bullying. I hope the operation is successful and he moves back to the normal educational system
Hopefully
Debs B But what's your IG?
Debs B I agree with you juggs I mean Debs***..... hehe hi im Elvis ignore the profile that's just my dad I'm actually a basic none super hero soldier... you have an instagram... I would ask for Facebook but am a millennial
DreadfulControversy no way I asked the same thing.... any response?
Yeah I agree!
crystal needs therapy when children act like this they crying out for help. The mother also needs to get therapy for herself to deal with the stress and to learn the skills she needs to help her daughter.
She has an absent father so j think shes looking for attention there chicago Illinois and in that neighborhood has a lot of drug dealling absent fathers gun violence
therapy is expensive and by judging by the neighborhood they live, im not sure they can afford tht
The belt is free therapy
@@bigxdxx69 i canttttt pffft
therapy costs ALOT
The first mistake was naming her "crystal"
Nah, the first mistake was having a child
Crystal meth
@C exactly
C what’s wrong with u ppl
@@iloveyoubut735 how
Put that girl in boxing. Shed be a beast and get that aggression out.
shes dead. she died in a car crash with her 1 yo son.
MavocKM She’s not dead that’s a different crystal it says New Mexico
Imagine if she lost
DevilAriana slide the @
@@DevilAriana Whats her username?
Crystal's mom means well, but she is too soft and lets crystal walk all over her
More like to pushing
Max Is you know
Uh did u miss the part where she put her child in the hospital at 8 yrs old? She’s getting what she deserves. If she was better and raised her better she wouldn’t be in this situation. She’s letting her walk all over her probably as a result of guilt and remorse for how she was in the past.
I still can't believe she had another kid after Crystal.
Trying to act like a "friend" to your child rarely works. And it's not here. Being a parent is a different role, and a role above until the child has enough maturity. That should always be clear. (obviously not to an abusive point)
Otherwise this happens.
The second kids story is literally heartbreaking...how could anyone be mean to this kid he seems so nice
I refuse to believe that the second kids story is either about damaging a heart, or that it physically damages any heart.
Troubled teenagers tend to lack empathy and pick on kids like Agustin.
@@justsomerandombirdwithinte5896 You proud of urself?
@@justsomerandombirdwithinte5896 that’s quite pathetic , no joke. You wouldn’t have this energy in real life
They may see kindness as weakness. Some areas are that bad.
Why do they think putting aggressive kids with aggressive kids will make these kids calm..
So they would learn to interact and not pay attention to the other kids. If you know what I'm saying.
Josh Wesley I do. They have sure learned a lot about interaction judging by those bus tapes.
I think the purpose is not to show them to interact, they are simply together because their is no other school that will accept them and to keep them away from the "good kids"; its like asking how putting criminal with other criminals on a jail help them change
Blazerelf I can understand a murderer with a murderer, people that far into hell won't change for anyone. A kid is still morph-able though, they should be given one on one education until they're inner demons are subdued and can re-enter public school.
I would much rather them being put together than them being in a normal school ruining normal kids' time at school
VICE should do an update on these kids maybe even one on the school like if you agree so they can see this.
Bbfishman that's not positive maybe these kids learned and aren't as bad as they were but saying they're dead? That's messed up
Bbfishman Grow up a little. You're not funny or cool and I dont care if "you werent trying to be funny"
keeblerelmcookies i agree because if this school dose manage to help this kids would be a good exapmple to 3rd world countries its a good example...sorry if my english is bad
Definitly
Thomas Harlovic you encourage strangers on the internet to commit suicide, and then question my character. Take a peek in the mirror my friend.
I'm so blessed that I was raised in a good neighbour hood with parents who care about me & my education
thepaystation my mom will call me stupid when I would fail class
Some of these kids parent do care. The problem is that their kids don’t. Take crystals mom for example, I can tell she cares about her kid but Crystal is just unfortunately really disrespectful, disobedient, and careless.
Snya Hill actually some parents are rude for no reason just strict rude and mean calling you names; stupid, fat and annoying crystals mom literally just shamed her daughter everyday no wonder she left then the family ALWAYS gets angry when you don’t like them and always wonder why you don’t like them after they bully you even just verbally still effects the child as well as physically but some how they never see why your always so “*RuDe*!” And “*AnNoOyInG*!” And blame *YOU* for everything even if your sibling is the one who should be punished *EVERYDAY* you my friend were just raised correctly good parents, good friends/classmates and family. Others aren’t as fortunate.
thepaystation IM THE OPPOSITE
thepaystation what a white boy
Bruh I'm 19 y/o and even I can see that Crystal is crying inside when she's talking about her defiance to her mom. All she needs is for her mother to sit down with her and tell her from the bottom of her heart how much she loves her, trusts her and wishes to help her with anything she needs. Crystal is broken.
She needs to be torn down and rebuilt with some respect for herself and those around her.
That’s bullshit honestly she can say whatever to her daughter , but it’s the actions that prove it .
Maybe mom herself is tired and already tried
Crystals mom is the reason why her daughter is the way she is.
Also not having her father in the picture plays a part too.
She's definitely the "Time out" type of mom
slayadidanca kids from single mothers spend more time in prison, less likely to finish college, less likely to get married. These are facts. Look them up.
Me too
A little late out, but its mostly because the father is giving dicipline(In almost all cases). Like i get scared shitless if my father is angry. My mother is angry often so its not that hard to get oversomething that results in her wrath. But with the case of my stepfather(my true fatherfigure in my whole life), i would get traumatised and never doing the thing i did to upset him.
Crystals mom needs to be less concerned about her own image and more about her daughter.
Steven Unger damn right exactly what I was ty
I said literally tha same thing, her mom's horrible, someone needs tell her
though the mom does have a point, just using it and expressing it wrong. I’ve been told by my own parents back when I was growing up that I had to be “composed and top in class cause that’s what people look at”. Never understood what it meant until I was in HS and University but it did work on me.
No! The first mistake was naming her Crystal. I know she’s caring about her own image but the first mistake was naming her Crystal.
I’m tripping off why she named her Crystal. That’s what I’m tripping off on too.
The little sister is gonna turn out the same way as crystal, unless the mother tightens up.
AppleBottemGs what can her mom do? Parents can’t stop you from misbehaving
@@ohsweatbret It is simple to stop them misbehaving
Swift Rex ツ how? Please enlighten me, because short of turning their bedroom into a prison cell or sending them to some facility, they are going to figure out a way around whatever rules you try to enforce. You can’t watch a kid 24/7 365, especially when the only parent is working 40+ hours a week...
A Person it’s called good parenting parents can research about it it’s very easy once your child respects you they don’t misbehave. Simple
Katrina Blackwood lol okay Dr. Benjamin Spock. I love all these arm chair parents saying “They just need to be better parents.” This is a social problem not some lack of parenting skills. If it’s so easy, go write the book on how to do it or get your own “Child Whisperer” TV show. You’ll make a killing and single handedly destroy the need for a juvenile justice system because kids will “just listen” and “behave.” It’s pretty easy to judge someone’s parenting and mistakes with this jerry springer-esque “My Kid is Out of Control” bullshit, but the reality is we don’t know 1% of what goes on in their day to day lives.
Agustin seems really mature for a 12 year old. like not just looking mature, it's his manner of speaking, and how he handles himself is much like an adult.
Yeah fr
God bless you all 💕
He probably was forced to grow up quickly.
And his voice too
4-5 years later, watching in 2019, honestly I wonder how some of these kids are shaping up in the world now
Levi Christopher No, she’s dead. Y’all are so quick to talk down on that girl who clearly was hurting. Y’all didn’t even care about her mom putting her in the hospital at the age of 8 YEARS OLD.
@@fairouz894 That ain't her man
Jelly Bean she is not dead that’s a different crystal the one that died in the car crash is from New Mexico not Chicago don’t be quick to assume
RTG Chiraq she went missing in 2014 and was never found again. Wince she’s from Chicago, she sounds pretty dead to me. Don’t be quick to assume.
Delta fr? Thank god honestly.
What is Agustin doing in this school?!?!? He seems like a really, really, kind guy and has a heart. His grades are pretty good too compared to the other students at the school. He should've went to a regular school
Spinkicker right
Omar Ramirez well take him to a therapist or something less extreme. He's like nothing compared to everyone else at that school
Introvirt Cuz they broke so they have to live in a bad broke neighborhood. It’s simple , money rules (ruins) everything. Savage capitalism.
AzazelTheOne Yeah because socialism/communism works so well. Maybe you should go live in Venezuela and ask them how that’s working for them. Capitalism is a good thing. You get in life, what you put in!
like public school is that much better
Put her on *Beyond Scared Straight*
YES SIR-REEE
All the kids in that school need to go to scared straight
@Malcolm Rojo (714malrojo) for kids who ain't wannabes they need to have fear inside of them and discipline for them not to behave reckless in the real world it all starts at home.
They should let teachers and principals whoop no cap
Norissa XD she seems like them white girls who try to act hood... IN THE HOOD or just a nice girl in a bad city
I was honestly so moved the way Augustin said how the school helped him a lot with his anger, and when people make fun of him he just lets that go now, hard to believe he’s just a kid, he speaks so well
he's currently in jail for assault and battery, sucks to see :/
@@vo1dmystic616source?
@@vo1dmystic616ain’t no way
Poor kid he has to go through surgery with a risk of dying plus on the side had to go through bullying 1 like equals respect for that kid
Wtf kind of a pic is that... Why would you have that??!
Why
Ikkon Ik618 The Doctor literally said the risk of dying is low. Pay attention.
The doctors said the chance of dying is very low
@iM HaZY how's he trying to get likes
you really cant blame crystal for resenting her mom so much. her mom cares more about looking like a good mom for the cameras and in front of the teachers than she does about her own daughter. the fact that she was so shocked just from hearing kids curse on the bus goes to show just how little she knows or cares about what goes on in her daughters life. she doesnt deserve to have the kids that she does
Agree
Agree
Agreed. The mom only cares about her appearance.
I'm so happy people are seeing right through the mother's manipulation. I thought the comments were gonna be like "Poor momma, she's trying her best, she doesn't deserve such an ungrateful daughter". She's faking her concern for the camera, kids don't turn out like this for no reason. I believe Crystal when she says her mom was abusive. I hope she's safe wherever she is these days now that she's grown.
Does anyone deserve to have "crystal" as a daughter? 😂😂😂
The boy that had to have surgery his story made me cry i hope his surgery went fine and i hope him and his mom are both happy and blessed
Shedding tears myself praying he has a chance. Anyone bullying him can get hit.
You guys are judging crystal. Who knowd the mother may act nice and caring on camera but who knows what happens behind closed doors
I know right people keep talking about crystal
ong my momma beatin on me all day when we in the car n when we pull up to a drive thru she ask me if i want sum to sound like she nice lmao
@@2kbrando314 same tbh, my mom abuses me verbally and physically and when people are around she acts so nice.
Yes !
Yes,she could be abused
You know your setting up your daughter for success when you give her a strippers name.
EDIT: I left this comment 6 years ago as a kid and since know better than to make such remarks.
You're.
+Belethor her dad too so it's a choice of both of them.
+FaZe Jev But i'm not a rapper!
+George Gardner You know you're setting up your child for success when you give the most bland white person name
Cmere molly.......
PERCOCET MOLLY PERCOCET
"This is where I feel like I dont have control over my child" you never did have control.
it's probably her trying to control crystal that makes crystal show have badly she wants control.
Say that! The first real first mistake was naming her Crystal.
People need to hold the record for when they name their kids Crystal
Well Crystal did say the first time she started disrespecting her mom was when she was 8 years old when she put her in the hospital. So she probably did have control until 8 or 9 years of age.
The weird thing about crystals mom is that she doesn't really express any emotion. She has the same face for everything she says, even when she says shes concerned about her kid.
You need to understand what she deals in the daily basis as in work, life and ultimately Cell. I'm pretty sure her attitude is the point of true despair.
Arnold K agreed. going numb and still trying is the worst. some people jst let out long sighs and say ok ill keep trying.
***** shes trying to look good on camera
It seems like she puts in on for the camera.
she is probaly dead inside. her older child is probably a lost cause.
Crystal is the definition of a ”hot cheeto girl”
No she not
@@bawskeeyeet7480 u got sum good music taste
@@goodpuss ik
@Meldrop nah bro its just so obvious everybody be sayin it
No Crystal Sanchez is the definition of a teenage Runaway who is not a good person. The name crystal should be banned in Chicago.
first thing I noticed with Crystal's mom, even with the little girl its more like she's begging her to please please behave. Puhlease! my parents never asked me. They TOLD me and i had 2.5 seconds to correct myself or else that hand, belt, spoon, hanger, etc. was coming....needless to say my parents raised 4 kids and ALWAYS got compliments from strangers and teachers about how well behaved we were
my parents were the same. they teached me to respect them and others, to be educated and study hard. when i was a child i was a bit anry with them because they were giving me responsabilities, but now i can't thank them inaf.
same except I only had my momma
same here.. always been disciplined since I came out the womb. my daddy was a Sargent in the military.. he never played that. neither did my mom.
Crystals mom is legit a horrible parent.. no back bone what so ever
Annette W. relatable..
how is a hand, belt, spoon or hanger scary? im genuinely confused. am i not getting something?
Are y’all sure her name is Crystal Sanchez and not Daniel Hernandez ? 😂
xxxtemptation 😂
Lmfao
Ong
xd
You mean crystal Herdandez sixnine’s daughter
put her in beyond SCARED STRAIGHT 😂😂😂
+Angel Caba He knows.
+Kex Kashiers but the show is fake
DO IT
I miss that show soooo much bro 😂
Kex Kashiers bss is fake
I feel so bad. Physically things are against him, and he gets attacked by other kids for it. Really a good kid too smh 🤦🏾♂️
He is in jail now for assault and battery I have the link if you want to see it.
@@kaylontoler3304 yes
@@kaylontoler3304 who?
I would have homeschooled
And put him extra curricular activities
We don’t have to put our children through that
Didn't crystal state her mom put her in a hospital at age 8?
Jackie Wilhelmy why she put her in the hospital?
That’s what she said. 🤷🏾♀️
Behavior, it was most likely one of those mental health for kid places
tboogiewitdabun B ohhh
God she probably beat her ass
5:20
She didn't let you sign her up for YMCA? I never knew Crystal was the parent. This is why Crystal is the way she is. She believes she is the boss because her mom won't stand up to her. When I younger I always wanted to talk back. I had 2.5 seconds to get my act together or else she'd get the belt. All you have to do is show who's boss.
Serpent StyleXXVII true
Exactly, teach kids that non-cooperation results in physical assault. What a grand message for the youth. You reap what you sew.
My therapist is useless so give us another solution? i’m actually intrigued how you would react
Saladbar true
No she will become more resentful and she big enough to we're she could and probably will seriously hurt her mom
That girl seems spoiled, no real emotional issues. Just spoiled and disrespectful.
She has emotional disorder I think
+Butter Lol how do you spoil someone in the ghetto?
calohtar
What do you mean? She's gotten everything she wants says the mom. Just cause she lives in a certain area doesn't mean she can't be spoiled.
Butter Does her mom seem like she has it together? A lot of these parents aren't in control of their own lives/emotions, and the children can tell.
You have a point, but if someone already has close to nothing, I just have a hard time wrapping my head around the idea that they can be spoiled.
+calohtar Very true. Perhaps I should rephrase when I said she was spoiled and had no emotional issues. What I meant was that her mother has no control of her daughter, and does not discipline her accordingly. She doesn't command her daughter to do whats right and teach her how to be respectful. Therefore, her behavior towards her mom is the result of her lack of parenting.
Crystal’s mom seems like the type of mother who only cares about her image than her child’s actual well being
Agustin dosent belong in that school, the people who make fun of the kid do.
Plus the Hemophilia and the rate of violence in that school dosent sound like a good combination.
On a Serious Note, there is no reason for Agustin to be at that school in his condition.
True, I would have to agree with you.
I think he was put there because of his angry issues. They mentioned it few times in the video. But yeah, now it seems like he learned his lesson and can be brought back in "normal school" where he will find better and more stimulating environment.
I think its best if were all homeschooled... I'm in grade 11 now and theres way to many rude people... Groupies are the worst. They'll make fun of you whenever, hit you whenever, do whatever whenever, it's fucked up and rude.And school has bullies and they will take the opportunity to crush you and humiliate you whenever.
crystal gets this all from her mother.. mom is arrogant for no reason so is her daughter.. mom blames everyone else for her problems so does crystal... and GOD knows what ther other daughter is gonna turn out like.
I agree
Only comment I’ve agreed with. I’m glad you aren’t promoting basically abusing a kid. Being a person who has been hit? Yeah I’m not bad. I’m not doing anything crazy like Crystal, you know? And I don’t wish to do that. But being in a position of no power in front of your parents, yeah it does make you quiet and reserved. Which can be good behavior but there’s also other struggles. I’m glad I’m not out in the streets but people who get hit shouldn’t promote that kind of stuff like it’s sad really.
Wtf how? How can you blame the mother here
The little baby is already misbehaving
My heart breaks for that poor kid who was crying being told he could die during surgery. Damn
Mad love to Augustine
God bless him.
@Papi Mike Who
He's a strong kid, I would be his freind
The doctor said the risk of death was low. It is strange because that is his only worry, as if the only thing that scares him is death.
@@mrnarason Still a teenager doesn't really understand that. Even if it's a small risk it's probably terrifying to hear at a young age
The only ones I care for is Agustin and spanky
Kind of Cortez too
Bbfishman these are children you're talking about not dogs or characters in a movie. Have some decency.
Bbfishman did you see him meet his father? That was heavy.
Bbfishman I hope I don't sound confrontational but I see how that is an easy conclusion to make considering the horrible shit that kid does. But keep in mind that the world has shown him nothing but death, pain, and more pain (Brother shot dead, murderer of a dad, baby sister beaten to death). The kid has nothing to live for, and nothing to lose. To be honest, he'd be abnormal for acting any different.
Nas Sabrie doesnt change the fact that his actions show him to be a piece of shit. Idc if he has the ability to change or shows promise....if he still acts like a scumbag, then hes a scumbag. I can talk and pretend to be a good person, but until my actions prove myself to be a good person, then im still a scumbag right? So because hes a kid, we just ignore the fact that hes a piece of shit?
Why does Crystal even have a phone. Obvious she does not deserve it.
Her mother is already scared because she runs away all the time. Taking away her phone is just giving her an excuse to run away more because you've given her an alibi. Nah that girl needs a phone, a tracking device, a pager, and a two sets of eyes on her at all times. Besides, if you had a daughter in that kind of neighborhood, wouldn't you want her to have a phone for safety reasons?
She doesnt use it for safety reasons as the video shows, She abuses it to go hang out with people of a shady background.
Not saying she doesn't. But is that reason enough to take it given the benefits to her safety and such?
She needs a phone that can only dial a limited number of people and has GPD trackng on it. That way she can be found easily.
She's too dumb to know how she's being tracked.
Crystal lowkey look like 6ix9ine 😭😭
EDIT:OMG THANKS FOR DA LIKESSS❤️
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THINKING THAT
omggg i’m dead😂
That is what I was thinking
😂😂😂😂 Ik I was like hold on
Mari .T lmaooo
Id love to hear a parent say "Im sorry for my child's behavior and Im going to try harder as a parent."
Will Camick amen thank you
agree
You and every teacher, coach, aide, religious teacher...
really hope spanky, cortez and agustin get on in life and that agustins operation succeeds...made me really sad watching that
you can find them on facebook... cortez not in school anymore it doesnt look like and is just on the streets all the time
James Gilmore please tell me how you find them
Made me almost cry when I saw him alone sitting at the table
Cortez in jail
@@NFSMAN50 Wait what
Agustin seems like a nice kid! I like him. Hope all goes well with him. God bless him
I felt so bad for him.
The mom at the beginning seems too laid back..there wouldn't be a 2nd "turn that off", my mom would've smacked the shit outta me
bruh I swear
Their mom:"turn that off....turn that off"
My mom:"turn that off.....*silence* RIP My life
***** obviously she's like that without being on camera too considering how her daughter is the way she is..you can just tell she's the "Time out" type of mom
Smacking the shit out of your kid because they wont turn that off is not good parenting.
There is clearly a better option than that or when your kid wont listen to you and a better way than to just repeat the same thing when they dont care.
Splash ikr
All hood mothers are like that, how did it turn out for them
It's so weird to see this because I actually knew Augustin during my Sophomore and Junior year of high school, which he was blind in his eye by then. He was pretty cool with whomever he was cool with. Not gonna lie, worst part about it is he was judged by appearance, but other than that, real cool guy.
Damn
He’s literally been arrested for battery
@@susanq6030 link?
@@susanq6030 link?
And I bet you also joined all the kids in ignoring Augustin
The second boy melted my heart ❤️ May god bless him and keep him humble 🙌🏾
nomar Dinkleberg your an asshole !
Lmao "SHe used her middle finger to turn it off I cant believe her" XDXDXDXDXD
Elysi normie
Lmmfao 😂😂😂😂😂
BAHHAHA
She died
Its the middle one 😁😁😁 be smart
Agustin is a true inspiration. What an incredibly brave and honorable young man.
TRUE
She’s parenting her kids wrong stop blaming it on the child don’t get me wrong that girl knows what she is doing is wrong but nobody is stopping her
I don’t know why she named her that name.
Agustin & Montreal are the only two that I can show my love to.
They don't deserve to be at an alternative school where there are disgraceful pests bullying them.
Dude augustine is a bright and intelligent kid it would be better if he gets out of this school.......
"You don't want to come to this school you'd have to see him every day." Damn Crystals mum tell him what you really think.
Well, we see the problem. She’s so hostile towards her children, it isn’t a healthy dynamic.
Who was too hostile? The parents didn’t seem hostile at all it just seemed too easygoing
you notice the beginning of the video, the mom sits there with no control ASKING her daughter to please turn the radio off. Get the fuck up and turn it off yourself and show her that her behavior in that moment is unacceptable and that shit isnt going to go that way. "She knows the rules and she has broken my rules"....fucking force her to act the right way, dont sit back and politely ask her if she wouldnt mind following your rules to teach her right or wrong. You can see the way she deals with the younger daughter as well, she whines to the kid and says "come on, you're misbehaving and giving me a hard time right now do you see that?" Thats not the way you deal with kids. You speak sternly and tell them to stop acting like that, if they want to continue then you take away somethin they care about until they behave properly. Tell her she has to go to bed early tonight if she doesnt stop, tell her she wont have ice cream this week if she doesnt stop, tell her you're not going to buy her a book that she wants etc....You have to use leverage with these kids, they're not rational...you cant just reason with them and tell them that acting a certain way is a good thing that they should do all the time. They're kids and they want to mess around and have fun, you have to give them an incentive to behave properly. Her approach is absolutely wayyyy to lax and not assertive enough. She allows the kids to walk all over her and she doesnt take control the way she needs to. That leads to the kids being sociopathic and thinking that they are allowed to make the rules and do things the way they want because thats how its always been for them their whole lives. The rules were always there, but they were following them the way that they wanted to because the mother was too weak to enforce the rules exactly the way she wants them. She bends and compromises for the kids and then they take that mentality with them to the school and the real world, she wants things her way and she will always try because thats how the mom let her act her whole life. I think a big part of these kids issues are parents that are either too weak to enforce the rules and disciplines they need to, or the parents dont know what to do for their kids, or im sure some of them simply dont give a shit about their kids.
Lettie Gonzales so kick their ass one time (within reason) and show them whos the one in the position of power. Use a small amount of force just to prove dominance if all else has failed. Be a fucking adult and raise a child that will be a productive member of society if the parent feels like theyre being held hostage. They're making themselves the hostage by playing the victim in the situation, rather than playing the role of the dominant. Take back control....
I absolutely agree with you %100. I've studies marriages and families and community in school and theology courses about it . I'm also studying child development and its all very true. Your words are correct .
I just want to hug the boy he’s brave and been through so much 😕
I'm so sick and tired of these old ass baby boomer women and mother's always thinking the child is just bad and they don't know why? they have had traumatic thing's happen to them hurtful thing's and until these elders stop blaming these children nothing will change. I don't believe a child is born bad crystal is simply a product of her own dysfunctional environment.
I agree
They just believe that they're born "evil" or someshit and can't just admit thier bad parenting.
I hope Augustine knows that most people wouldn’t make fun of him and would actually support him. This school doesn’t speak for the rest of us normal kids who have empathy for eachother
Make jokes all you want telling people "at least I have a father/mother"... pray for all the kids who grow and grew up without both parents, it builds up so much anger in people and it saddens me
true
Once Crystal runs away and or ends up in prison she'll realise how much of a bitch she was. Once she has nothing and ends up on the street's she'll realise how hard her mother worked to put food on the table for her.
Wise words coming from a communist dictator.
jayshaun16 shut the fuck up
Mean words coming from a communist dictator.
Damn, Kim. You're not such a bad guy, after all.
Raynor Arkenbout LMAO
Augustin, I'm truly sorry for what you have and that the surgeons could do something. Let me tell you this: Get out of that area, school, and environment and move somewhere safer where people can inspire you and treasure you the way you are.. thank them and give them as much care as they do to you.
Hopefully in the future he can, but being in an environment like this it's hard to get out if you don't do good enough in school to get a scholarship. The only other choice is to somehow find a job and place to live in another city.
iriemindz I may agree with you're statement, and it would be better for him to live..probably in West Virginia.
Agustin seems like a really good kid. He’s got a bright future ahead of him. His heart is in the right place
Stay with your parents as long as you can...it's tough out there
I don't think that's sound advice for someone like spanky
Im think about running away because I hate my parents, im being bullied, mentally abused, hurt, and they refuse to get me therapy because they say there gonna drug me or whatever... And I was gonna do it a few months ago but my “best friend” ratted me out, So im just saying... if you need to run away then you can. But its a hard choice to make.
Am planning on running away cuz my parents are homphobic mentality and emotially abusive(mainy my dad) and my older brother sexually abuses me.(and they believe in incest) so yea am gonna run away soon
some Body im so sorry
@@someBody-bp1vc run nigga run
Truth be told, I have an issue with the mom. If your kid is doing bad at school, why would you let her out? Also, her view of "what would they think of me?" is troubling. The mother needs to focus more on the child and the needs of her, how to properly disiplne and so on. I am a parent, and I also have two younger sisters 14 and 6 who I helped raise, so I am perfectly well aware of the issues to say that the parenting is more than half the problem.
69’s daughter frfr💀
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xxx 1k lol
The dignity that poor kid is displaying is so incredibly inspiring. I only hope that I face adversity in my life with his courage.
I have the out most respect for that last kid with the eye problem. He has come from the worst situation any one can come from in not just one but two ways and he seems like he has already not only accepted it, but started to grow from it. Good luck kid!
1:45 he didn't even let her hands go, it feels like it means something emotionally
the kid with hemophilia is so sweet
Crystal’s mom is playing the victim way too much that it gets really irritating.
u should be worried more bout what ur child thinks of u instead of worrying bout what other people think .
Augustin is a Very Well Spoken & Intelligent Young King! He's Blessed💖
why are u capitalizing almost every word?
@@lilbun3893 I was Overly emphasizing my appreciation and appraisal of this young man's journey and wanted my Words to Convey that to Him, if & When he Ever comes across my comment😊
shondell brown he’s in jail
@@peytonlove2598Thanks for the update👍
@@shondellbrown9776 he wasn’t very intelligent to commit assault and battery
Prayers go out to Augustin...and a belt and a backbone for Crystal's mom
I'd say that girl is going to be strippin. She will probably come back home after she got a belly. I don't have kids nor do I married but if I were her mother, when she came back with a belly I'd just treat her normally like nothing happened just make her feel all guilty inside.
I remember being a teenager like her saying similiar things about not caring about my mother, now im an adult with 3 children and i cant explain the level of empathy i have for my parents now. I cannot imagine the day i have to walk this earth without their presence. Nobody will ever love you like your mother.
I don't understand how kids like spanky and agustine is in a school like that smh. get them out of there!!
Spanky almost killed his sisters in a house fire. His mom said hes a psychopath in the previous episode. I dont know if he should be in any school.
Its probably the only option they have sadly
That person shouldn't be called a mother. Don't know how to raised kids and put them at risk by been in a relation with his father. Don't have means to give them a good future and keeps poppin out kids.
@6Laxx Of course they’re wrong, it was an accident and Montreal doesn’t seem to be the type of kid to kill his sisters, as we saw him playing and laughing with them. It was an accident.
Augustin im hugging you through the internet
Agustin seems like a good kid. It's good he can ignore people when they fuck with him.
I think this is 69 daughter. That is why she doesn’t have a dad. Cause he wanted to be a rapper
Lmfaoo
I didn’t know tekashi was boinking when he was a kid
Lol 😂 she does look like him!
this video makes me feel so fortunate about my school and life
timber gleeson Amen!
This is the result of unproper parenting. My father abused my mom so she left him and raised me and my siblings alone, we didnt turn out like these people because she didnt allow it.
Anyone still got that love for spanky.
hunter blansett yessss!!!!
hunter blansett Me!
I know a dude like spanky, like they have the same vibe, he is funny as shit and we all call him ice cube
I also had a guy in my grade who was addressed to as “ice cube” for a certain period of time.
The elephant that's always in the room. No father in the home.
True.
spot on 🖐🏿
Shut up!!! You don’t know anything.
@@ladygee9775 chill lmao
Yeah but from the looks of it, their biological fathers didn’t need to be in the picture. Cortez dad in jail for murder & Spanky’s dead beat the family... I get when people say no father in the house but I prefer Male Role Model 🤷🏽♀️
Crystal needs her get her ass on Beyond Scared Straight or something. One day, God forbid, she's going to stay over the wrong persons house and never come home. Bet you then she'll "love her mom like that".
lol that already happened, she was on the news and been missing for weeks
J Briggs welp She's probably dead.....
J Briggs Are you serious? wow
J Briggs More than weeks shes been missing since November.
I don't think you should of said lol...
As a counselor working with troubled inner city youth, these episodes are some of the most compelling documentaries I've ever seen. The filmmakers really capture the stories of these kids and the adults around them. Very, very well done.
When I was a child I never in my life would make fun of someone’s handicap or laugh like all the rest of the kids in my class 💔
Good for u?
@@ovy830 it’s nobody else’s fault but yours, that your life sucks 😅
??? why do we need to know this. we flexing the bare minimum now
@@somegurl8488 hun thus was 2 years ago
3:45 Poor guy just tryna do his job and a random woman calls him ugly
Ohhhhh I get it Augustin pops off because he gets bullied!
#STOPBULLYING
The same people saying this be bullying crystal tho
#SHUTTHEFUCKUP
Yes
Eks DarkNite why are you mad
Omar Gonzalez No one is mad it’s just a tag and your late btw
Agustin seems like a nice kid, I wonder why exactly he's in that school.
i think he said something about anger issues near the end. im not sure though
He gets mad when people make fun off his illness.
Garytt Girardi I can't blame him for any anger issues. I'm sure he's had a lot of fucking assholes be fucking assholes to him. Also I'm sure when you've had a deformity from birth you can be quite bitter. I still don't think he should be in a school like that. I went to an alternative high school but we weren't like the majority of these students. There really should be a better fit for someone in his situation. Getting tied up with a bunch of really fucked up kids isn't going to help him.
I don't know how the schooling system is in the US though. Seems fucked imo.
Same goes for Montreal? I personally think that people who have to get to schools like that, should have to get mandatory Psych evaluations to try and weed out the people who don't belong. But with the state of mental healthcare in the US right now, that's impossible.
HandicapMafia
Well, like he said the school helped him a lot, so maybe he grew up a bit and is now more ready to move on to the next chapter in his life than he would be if he were in a big school, which is probably where he came from. Also, I'm assuming there aren't a whole lot of other options. Kids get lumped in together is a less than perfect situation, but at least he gets a bit more support from adults, even if he does have to deal with these other kids.
I just wish kids that are really spoiled and whiny that live in my area, should be happy of what they have that these kids don't. It just makes me sad of all the hard times they go through.
preach it, i aint rich, i pay a very small fraction of the tuition to got to my private school, but to hear these rich people problems everyday, just makes me shake my head. I think, get over urself.
haha listen you haven't seen the kids that go to my school or live in my area and they whine all the time if they don't get one little thing, that's why I get annoyed.
this is why there is discipline and punishments.
I doubt their parents give them punishments
yeah i know
Mom: "This is the ghetto"
Me:rattatattataaaa
Darealz. Yannie 😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t get it
Lando TikTok
Ian Varughese ew
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8:40 finally a kid who actually values life more than anything
"stop acting like you're all ghettofied" - BAAAAhhhhhhhh little late ma! what a joke
Augustin is a awesome dude! I wish him the best and Im sure he will reach all the things he truly wants.
The second kid seems so nice and mature for his age! I hope he’s doing okay! Beautiful soul
Omg i truly feel bad for agustine i want to be his friend and he looks perfectly fine.
U K i agree, down to earth and deserves way more attention for his bravery instead his appearance
I mean, he may be a *"bit"* different, but he's still a good guy👍
Hes in jail
@@iceeyou5538 really proof and why
@@brebre561 assault and battery
Kids need a dad.
some not all. most mother can raise there kids just fine with no problems at all.
Most mothers can't. Most dads can't raise a kid by themselves either. To correct myself, kids don't need just a dad, but at least two people to be there for financial, and emotional support. It doesn't matter whether it's two dads, two moms, a dad and a nanny, a mom and a nanny, or a dad and a mom. What you're saying is complete bullshit, but I don't blame you because a lot of different media put single mothers on pedestals.
Andrew mackey I usually refrain from calling people names online, but you're making it incredibly hard - ALL children benefit greatly when they have a mother & *father* in their life in some form of a healthy relationship. There's a reason why women can't procreate on their own & vice versa.
There are obviously single mothers who are able to successfully raise healthy, stable children into productive young adults but the probability of such a thing happening increases dramatically when there's dual parenting involved.
well I turned out fine lol :p
Andrew mackey
You know what he is trying to say, please don't invalidate his statement by making an unnecessary one.
Man, I teared up listening to the dangers Augustin faces with his problems. I hope he's doing fine now..