Difficult times in our relationship, things we argue about, 2nd trimester, 2 babies under 2?? 😅 Q&A

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  • Difficult times in our relationship, things we argue about, 2nd trimester, 2 babies under 2?? 😅 Q&A!
    In this Q&A we talk all about the strains of our relationship when we had our first baby and answer all your second trimester questions and talk all about how we feel having two babies under 2!! Hope you love this real and honest husband and wife chat! Love you angels xxx
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  • @rachelpascoe2904
    @rachelpascoe2904 Pƙed rokem

    I get mum guilt but stop worrying so much, everything will be fine❀
    Watching your girls together will be so rewarding! It’s going to be amazing, really amazing! Those two girls have chose you be their mum, it’s beautiful x

  • @jordantaylor8614
    @jordantaylor8614 Pƙed rokem

    So excited for you guys! Sweet girls with loving parents ❀

  • @oliviajohnson4938
    @oliviajohnson4938 Pƙed rokem +3

    I have 2 under 2 and when my second boy came along I had daily guilt on how I was splitting my time between both. But after few weeks it all falls into place and it just works! It’s all meant to be and falls into place how it should. Don’t stress a mothers love and attention is endless ❀

    • @Imogenhorton.
      @Imogenhorton.  Pƙed rokem +1

      You’re amazing, thanks so much! I will remember this message! Xxx

  • @jessicarose279
    @jessicarose279 Pƙed rokem +4

    Love this setup. Nice and bright ✹ x

  • @MrMaddie1999
    @MrMaddie1999 Pƙed rokem +11

    I wasn’t so close to my sisters when small as there was a lot of sibling jealousy however now I am 24, my elder sister is 29 and my little sister 18 and we are SO close, I tell my sister everything !!!

    • @elliemae3468
      @elliemae3468 Pƙed rokem +2

      Me and my sister are literally just under 2 yrs apart, when we were younger there was some sibling jealousy and argument (of course 😅) but honestly since becoming teens we have been best mates and it’s such a blessing having a sister so close in age to me we’re 22 and 24 now 😊 X

    • @Imogenhorton.
      @Imogenhorton.  Pƙed rokem +1

      Oh this makes me so happy! Siblings are everything ❀❀❀

  • @irisdanagher
    @irisdanagher Pƙed rokem +1

    Spencer is great being so involved! He is a good egg. ❀

  • @kayceewoodbridge
    @kayceewoodbridge Pƙed rokem

    loved this video! xx

  • @amymurray5623
    @amymurray5623 Pƙed rokem

    2 kids is absolutely wild. But I think what will help is just tell yourself that some of the things your worried about WILL happen sometimes. You do get that guilt of splitting yourself between them both because there is times where you can’t. You just can’t and that’s okay. They won’t remember it’s us it effects the most I think! It’s hard, overwhelming, over stimulating, stressful but it genuinely is so worth it. When the second gets to that age where they’re more aware and start interacting with the older one.. wow it’s incredible ❀

  • @kimmymayxo9495
    @kimmymayxo9495 Pƙed rokem

    There is 13 months between my 2. I was so worried how it would all work out, but it all came together and a good routine is the best advice I can give you!! My kids are now 9 & 10 . I’ve found out im pregnant again I’m now nervous about the big age gap and doing it all over again 😂😂😂

  • @fozibear2281
    @fozibear2281 Pƙed rokem

    Aww Imogen you think of everything when it comes to yr children . You’ll both make such good parents and little Renaelia is lucky to hv u both .

  • @sattibhatti4172
    @sattibhatti4172 Pƙed rokem

    Love your videos wish you could upload everyday I've been following from ur first video ❀❀❀❀

  • @katrinalee5281
    @katrinalee5281 Pƙed rokem +1

    I was in a phase of two under two, for what seemed like forever at the time. But remember the days are long but the years are short. My two are now 6 and 7 and the baby is 1. And maybe one day I’ll get a date night with my hubby. We even try to sneaky a take away in but kids smell food from down the street lol ❀❀❀

  • @LisaBlevins00
    @LisaBlevins00 Pƙed rokem

    I love you guys so much , my hubby and I have been married 27 yrs and we have always worked together.
    We bicker too but I totally feel like we have learned from it .
    We are both opinionated so there’s that 😂
    But truly more in love than ever đŸ„°

  • @born_confused
    @born_confused Pƙed rokem

    Just loads and loads of praise and you're a big girl works wonders weaning. Just positive reinforcement and telling her she's a big strong girl like mumma and doesn't need the boob any more.

  • @jennamaginn5670
    @jennamaginn5670 Pƙed rokem

    God I remember the 2nd child guilt sooo much! Honeslty it gets tough but after a few weeks it all just fell into place for us. I'm not gonna sugar coat it and say its all gonna be a breeze but my god its soooo worthit!!!! X

  • @catfleur4012
    @catfleur4012 Pƙed rokem

    I had 2 under 15 months, you're in for a WILD but magical ride đŸ„°

  • @embowden9291
    @embowden9291 Pƙed rokem +1

    I'm currently 23 weeks pregnant. We only completed on the purchase on a new house last week so understand the rush of having lots to sort before baby as we also get married in 3 weeks 😆

  • @fhanson2562
    @fhanson2562 Pƙed rokem +1

    Something that I saw somebody say on CZcams was to say to the baby, that you’re going to be spending time with the toddler (name) now, and vice versa. So that the older sibling doesn’t get so jealous of the new baby, and then they’re hearing you tell the baby that it’s not their time at the moment. I thought this was a great idea, to help them understand that time has to be spread between them.
    If you’re worried, then I think this may help ❀❀ xxx

  • @esmeraldas_exclusives_
    @esmeraldas_exclusives_ Pƙed rokem

    PLEASE WILL YOU LET ME KNOW WHERE YOU GOT THAT BEAUTIFUL DRESS❀â˜șđŸ„°I absolutely love it! You look so stunning Imogen ❀❀❀

    • @Imogenhorton.
      @Imogenhorton.  Pƙed rokem

      H&M angel! ive linked it in one of the comments, thanks so much love you! xxxx

  • @nickysmith5406
    @nickysmith5406 Pƙed rokem

    U will both do fine, there is 2yr difference with mine who r now older , but my youngest was diagnosed with Autism and even though it was hard i managed on my own with some help from my mum at times.

  • @Dalilymoll
    @Dalilymoll Pƙed rokem

    It's totally normal, with each baby your bump gets bigger. On my third I was huge đŸ€ŁđŸ€Łâ€

  • @sandrabright3346
    @sandrabright3346 Pƙed rokem

    Hello sweet girl, loved the video as usual, you and Spencer are a lovely couple and great parents, you look amazing, love your dressđŸ˜ŠđŸ„° xxx

  • @TrionaORegan-qu5hm
    @TrionaORegan-qu5hm Pƙed rokem

    I think Renialia will just go with the flow and it will be so great for her! Ina Dotey way don't take this the wrong way but... I think she will be so calm

  • @93Laurennnn
    @93Laurennnn Pƙed rokem +1

    I'm starting to feel little kicks at 15 weeks! When was Spencer able to feel the kicks?

  • @decembersfeatherx578
    @decembersfeatherx578 Pƙed rokem

    You look so beautiful imogen!

  • @aimeesharp2
    @aimeesharp2 Pƙed rokem

    I am a mother of 3 boys.
    My 1st two boys are now 7 and 8.
    They are 18.5 months apart.
    Yes, there are days when they push each others buttons, BUT they are tied at the hip! They are obsessed with each other and my eldest doesn't remember life before his brother.
    We had dome infertility and finally had our last. He is now 2 years old, now watching the big boys with their little brother is incredible. They are learning together as although my eldest has done this before, he doesn't remember it as to him it's always been them two ❀
    Good luck with everything you are going to be incredible ❀

  • @bentomble7561
    @bentomble7561 Pƙed rokem

    How did you and Spencer meet?❀

  • @kooelwong
    @kooelwong Pƙed rokem

    hey Imogen! Can you tell us where your gorgeous dress is from? :) love!

    • @Imogenhorton.
      @Imogenhorton.  Pƙed rokem +1

      www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1170260001.html here angel xx

    • @kooelwong
      @kooelwong Pƙed rokem

      @@Imogenhorton. thank you soooo much!

  • @starryeyeskg
    @starryeyeskg Pƙed rokem

    I got my eldest daughter a present from her baby sister which worked really well :) theres 6.5 years between them so i was worried about age gap but she doted on her. Of course now aged 10 and 4 , they fight on the daily đŸ™„đŸ€Ł

  • @karimskitchen3666
    @karimskitchen3666 Pƙed rokem

    Could you please link your dress. Its stunning on you😍

    • @Imogenhorton.
      @Imogenhorton.  Pƙed rokem

      www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1170260001.html here angel xxx

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 Pƙed rokem

    Hello xx

  • @ForeverChloe97
    @ForeverChloe97 Pƙed rokem

    where your dress from lovely

  • @born_confused
    @born_confused Pƙed rokem

    Weird question but what height are you Imogen? I love your h&m dress but im 5' 9 and I'm not sure how the length and sleeves will look ❀