So true. Too bad we are nurtured all our lives to “say the things the other person wants to hear”, and not what we really want to say. No wonder most conversations before marriage don’t yield the intended results.
No matter how much you talk, people will change according to situations and time. Nobody is good or bad, people are in between. Also relations only last due to dependency, if women have lower income or own cheaper properties in cheap areas. Arbaaz Khan/Hrithik will be so unhappy as the lower level low quality woman he married will oppress him after he gets older when he will have no options left. First the husband oppressed low quality wife then the low quality wife will oppress that same husband later on, it is karma from God as God will favor the situations for the oppressed lower quality wife then that low quality wife will change as per situations and will start to take revenge secretly. Nobody in this world is good or bad, everyone is in between so people change depending on situations and time. Suzanne divorced Hrithik before he met Saba. You are a fool. What a bad cheap mentality you have. Marriage and divorce is respectable and allowed in Islam for a wealthy woman who can afford her own luxury she will have the power to divorce. This haraam live in relationship and boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is prostitution, no touching is allowed before marriage. Also poor middle class women have a bad mentality as they have lower income and own properties in cheap areas so are dependent on husband for a better life so these women tolerate being a free maid or free slave to husband but never divorce. A wealthy woman who can afford luxury home in best expensive area, luxury transportation and all other expensive costs of life with a supportive family has the power to divorce a man due to arguments or sudden bad mentality from man. She can marry a better man next time or stay single happily after divorce. Saba is a low quality servant woman who is a girlfriend toy of an old man for money, then after some years when he is too much older he will have no options left and that time these low quality girls will torture him by oppressing and he can not even complain. Every single marriage has hidden struggles, compromises and hardships. Previous generation women tolerated worst things and were too weak and no income or low income. Still now most women have lower income and properties in cheaper areas so will tolerate anything for a better life. A woman has to have the intelligence to also manage money along with high income and how to invest money to create more wealth. Also looks and other qualities are a factor too. With all qualities then a woman can have courage to divorce a man with a sudden bad mentality to get a better man or stay single happily. At the end of the day Saba is a loser too, all of Hrithik’s main love, care and money will be dedicated to all his children from first wife. A lower quality woman is a punishment to the man as you can not oppress a lower quality person with less beauty, less money, lower family background for long time because she will take revenge later on and that time he will have to tolerate her secret revenge. In all long term marriages, first the lower level women with lower income are oppressed and then later on they oppress their husbands after many years when children are older. So it is karma and unhappiness in those long term marriages. Saba is a big punishment to Hrithik which fools do not realize. Suzanne divorced him before he met Saba.
The other person is not the ordinary person he is ur husband remember it aur chalo lai li divorce ab kya future hai khuch dramay films phir nothing abhi sa face pr age agye hai aur body language tu boht abnormal si ur not going right path sooner or later u will realise
@@luckyrose105 so true. Sadly our generation is so much into themselves they forget in a relationship it's not about just "me", it's "us". How can they break these relationships so easily! Just like the girl here said "it's just a part of your life" ,as if it's not that valuable ek gaya toh ek aur ayega.. why is this sort of mentality so common nowadays? I just feel so sad!
As a muslim and according to islamic teachings,there is nothing more important than your husband except those that islam had taught us such as Allah and his prophets etc. Letting your wife free to do as she wishes, results in nothing but just divorce and I am pathan and Alhamdulillah in our families,a single wife spends her 50-60 years of her entire life with just a single husband.And if Islam prohibits of letting your wives and women free then why Allah has send so much ayahs in Quran?Why prophet Muhammad PBUH had taught us so much about women,their role,their rank in Islam,their way of living and as a muslim I believe that Islam is the most perfect religion in the world then how can Islam be cruel to women?If Islam bounds women in a closed circle then of course there will be advantages of it that we can't even think about them but Allah has more knowledge than us and he keeps us away from evil or whatever is harmful for us.😊So don't be a feminist.If Islam doesn't allow women for their free will and every part and im every situation then plz don't try to stand against Islam and it's teachings
@@OzzyApridi or har insan Muslim nahi hota har baat ko Islam k nazriye se judge na kre .. non Muslims b hoty hai dunya me . Ab wo b Zindagi Islam k mutabiq guzary kya
@@AhmedAli-fr8kr but insaan achievements ke Bina reh sakta hai. Zindagi ruk nahi jaati lekin mohobbat ke bina zindagi ka koi matlab hi nahi hai . Kyun sab kuch achieve karke koi share karne wala nahi ho toh kuch matlab nahi hai uska
Jub hamarei pyarei nabi nei keh dia kei kei aurat ka asal char divari kei ander rehna aur shoher ki bat manna hei to peechei kia reh gia Even kei ibadat ka sawab bhi double ho jata hei
Fakhar Zahoor. Dear, Hamaray pyaray Nabi ne ye bhi Farmaya tha k " Ilm ka hasul hr Muslim oar muslema pr farz hey.". Mgr Afsos musalmano ne Farman e Rasul.S pr amal na kya. Apni lakrhiyan ghr bithaey rakhin. Goron ne parha din. Oar ham se Kai so saal agey nikal gary. Agr ham bhi parha detay to pehli sadi Hijri me dunya me Inqelab aa jata. Musalman larhkiyan bhi doctor ,engineer, scientists,economists, professors, mathematicians journalists, politicians, phelosofers, religious scholars etc ban jatin. Society me mannerism bhi aa jata. Oar sab aik dusray k haquq o fraiz oar hadd o qiyud ka bhi khyal rakhtay. Mgr esa na ho saka. 😢
ap pakistani jahilo ka yehi to masla ha na k islam ko ghalat triky se link krte ho apni zindagiyo ma. isi liye poori dunya hansti ha ap logo pe. Nabi(SAW) ne kbi ye nhi kaha k orat ghar ma qaid rhy aur shohar ke har jaiz na jaiz baat maany, ye apki khud ke soch ha islam nhi ha ye. is tarha to wo depression ka shikar ho jaye gi ESPECIALLY aj kl k dor ma. kabhi Quran hadees ko sahi se parh k samjha ha kia??? Mard orat dono k barabr haqooq hen. dono he apny shariat k dayere ma reh kr apny profession choose kr skte hen . A woman can be a business person, a traveller, a doctor etc, both the genders have to be in their limits defined by islam, that's it! and both man and woman have to divide their responsibilities equally. None of them should be overburdened. This is islam..! lekin nhi ap pakistaneo ka islam to shalwar, kameez, daarhi or orto se shru ho kr unhi pe khatm ho jata ha, baki jitna marzi 2 number kam kr len na us se koi frq nhi parta.
@@anjalisaha9685 Men and woman are different, they don’t age like women . There fertility doesn’t decline. When a man is old if he is financially stable and in shape and can still reproduce he has no problem finding women. However when a woman gets old. She tends to lose shape, fertility declines, loses attractiveness too. So they are very different. Literally after 30 ur fertility declines as a woman whereas men they can still reproduce up to 70.
@@Hahahaha-7 sad to see that you see women only as a baby producing factory.. please go out and see there are women who are happy and single...shaadi and bacche shouldn't be the only priority...maybe you have not seen such women.... but from where i come i have seen all kinds of women.... Women who are happy being housewives. Women who are successfully married and have a nice career. Women who are single and financially independent. Yes men don't have problem even after 50...there are men out there who are successfully and rich and in their 50's and marrying someone their daughter's age and it's so disgusting... But a successful rich women in her 50's finds it hard because society judges and degrades .... society meaning people like you.... people like you degrade women and think a women's job is only to produce babies.....it doesn't me anger...rather it makes me sad that people in 2023 still think like this.
@@Hahahaha-7 i can proudly say that fortunately there are men...who are so good and not like you....there are men who don't think like this... they don't see their shape size and fertility 😂😂🤡🤡
اللّٰه پاک نے حلال اور حرام میں فرق رکھا ہے نکاح ایک حلال اور باعزت فعل ہے جو کہ رب نے پسند کیا ہے جب آپ کسی سے نکاح کرتے ہو تو سب سے پہلے عزت، فرائض و حقوق کو اہمیت دو دنیاوی خواب و خواہشات اپنے حلال رشتے کو ساتھ لے کر چلے اور محبت کے ساتھ رشتہ نبھایا جاۓ تو بہت خوبصورت ہوجاتی ہے زندگی دنیا بھی اور آخرت بھی لیکن جوزندگی شوبزنس کے لوگ جینا چاہتے ہیں اللّٰہ کو ناپسند ہے سب رہ جائے گا یہ فحاشی کی اور نام نہاد شوشا والی زندگی بس آخرت کا سوچ کے حلال زندگی جیو
نکاح ایک حلال فعل ضرور ھے مگر باعزت نہیں؟ یہ صرف اور صرف عورت کے لیے ایک جال ھے۔ پتہ نہیں اللہ نے سب جانتے بوجھتے کیسے طلاق کو ناپسندیدہ فعل کہا ھے؟!؟!؟ اگر اللہ کو اللہ معاف کرے ہمارے مسلمان خاص کر پاکستانی مردواں کے ساتھ ایک مہینہ رہنا پڑ جاتا تو طلاق کو سب سے پسندیدہ امر قرار دیتے اور عورت کو طلاق دینے کا حق ھوتا۔
@@AyeshaKhan-si1tzAllah ne talaq ko napasand nahi kia. Allah ne aurat ko khula ka haq dia hai or use istamal krna jaiz hai. Koi na pasandidgi nai halal hai. Bus koi jaiz waja honi chahiye.
Jaruri nhi h har bar ladki apne sapno ki qurbaani de Or koi stand le le to wo galat h 😏 ahad best h lekin hum kisi ke personal life ke baare me nhi jante glti humesha dono side ki hoti h isliye kuch baato se kisi ko judge mtt kro 🙁
Madam these women have no shortage of money that's why women like them have choices to be alone or crowded but I dead sure you don't have that kind of privileges
Shadi k baghyer life mien kya goal hien life mien. Aurat ko Allah nien nasal barhany aur uski achi tarbiyat kerny ki zimadaari di hy. Na k na mehram logon k saath drama ya film ki ijazat di hy.
Guys neither men or woman in Islam are allowed to do that with a nah man ram. It’s just that. Men and woman re different . Once she is 30 or older she’ll realise how marriage and kids are so important.
What a ridiculous comment 😂😂😂 what about women who can't bear a child or are unable to get married??? Unki zindagi bekar haii??? They are useless according to ur statement. Dream big sis... Afsos apki soch pr.
@@Hahahaha-7 I guess she's already 30 and if you barely try to understand she's exactly saying that it's important to get married and have kids but should always work on our personal goals and achievements.
Half of deen is marriage and jannah is beneth feet of mother not the working woman who is uarried and does not have children we are muslim not foriegner that you are trying to copy !!! Portray you own relegion and culture !!!
Jab sab dreams pure hone ke baad agr pichhe dekho to tumhe apne sath koi nii milega thik h..... But relationship ko break krke dreams pure krna it's not good
usne nikaah ko galat nahi kaha ..she said that life is not all about shaadi....it's just a part...i can under tumhe samajh ne mein dikkat hui hogi tabhi faaltu kaa bol rahe ho
actually right now she is on peak. but she doesnt know the downside of this. she will realise when suddenly everything will happening in the wrong direction and no one will support her. then she will remember those beautiful days with a lifepartner. caring loving sitting together sharing ideas for teh future. kids. everything... but that time it became too late... 100% she will suffer... What she did it will come one day in front of her... Wait and watch
Nah bro, she's absolutely right, but yeah it depends on the person to, In my perspective what she said totally made sense, relationship shouldn't become you're life, it's a part of it, a beautiful one
She thinks being in a marriage is just being together and having kids, she thought that she wouldn’t get to have any fun time anymore. Or explore and travel instead would be in the same routine every day. Idk what to say. That’s part of life it’s the most important thing in a woman life though. Getting married and having kids, it’s literally the purpose and to worship god.
She succeeded in all things except her relationship…So “one should never take relationship advice from such people (who just want duniya God made relationships/marriage to help each other out in any circumstance not to be like tum tumhari life jiyo mai meri that’s not a relationship… Man should be the man in a relationship and woman should be a woman in a relationship that’s the only way you are going to be happy/succeed in a relationship but today’s world see it as degrading idk why. After the relationship with God there’s nothing powerful/meaningful than the relationship with ur spouse and she knowingly and unknowingly failed in it whatever maybe her reasons and she got the wrong perspective about it) So stop taking advices of people from failed marriages. Just remember why we are in the duniya (for muslims)first not to fulfill our dreams or live life however we want…we are here to obey Allah S.W.T.
She is absolutely right . Takleef deh relationship se behter hey alag hojana ye Islam me haram nahi hey . Why people all the time blame to women. It’s not right aap ko kisi ka Kia pata.
if someone research Quran u know what happens? 🤨 h/she becomes a celibate,philosopher,scientist,educator ,spiritualist,and philanthropist . Quran taught us ethics,education,knowledge inner wisdom 🤨. it is not about marriages and divorces ,marriages are just a way of legal relationship and divorce is a legal way of breaking that relationship . people should follow iqra which is fard to observe .
Its useless to say anything on a matter you know nothing about...nobody knows the reason they kept it private and Sajal is an amazing human being who always gets praised everywhere i.e Hollywood, Bollywood, Lollywood
You know very well? Ap ghr mai rehte thy usko? Like seriously hame nh pta k kiski glti thi, jo jesa dikhta hai na wo zyada tar wesa huta nh hai or showbiz pe tu sab hi acha banne ki koshish krte hein, so no one lost no one Allah hi janta hai kon theek tha kon glt tu ap zyada andaze na lagaye Q k agr ahad ki glti hui tu isme apko gunah milega
Thats why ab sajal woh sajal nahi rahi. She has lost something from her own-self. Na ab woh dikhney me wesi lugti hai naa kaam me. Iqra bhi to hai …. How well she is managing all. Sajal has lost her charisma.
Lost diamond ,beshak diamond kha ke mar jandi, chorti na,oh Bhai zindagi zayada zarori hai ,jis diamond ke sath app ko khushi ,sukoon nahi mila, to hell with that diamond. She's right, everyone knows ones decisions better than anyone in the world.
@@shakiramaqbool5516 you never know what going in someone’s personal life so it’s better we don’t judge, only Allah knows so leave the judgement to him
I truly hope all women find husbands who not only support her dreams and ambjtion but encourage her to pursue them! That’s what truly accounts for a healthy and happy relationship..
@@majidparihar9647 syd aapne suna nhi sajal ne kya kaha ek chiz ke liye bandh nhi skhte khawatin ko v hakk h smjhe or agr wo dono ko importance deti h to glt kya h main ye nhi keh rhi ki ahad glt h but aap kisi ko dreaming karne se nhi rok skte
Sometime kuch special logo r beautiful relationship k lea kuch restrictions ko accept kr lna chahey kea jata hai then life also become beautiful 🥰🥰 for love, 🥰
@@anjalisaha9685 I am not answerable to anyone. I commented on what my opinion was. you give yours if you think so If you think she is right, then comment accordingly.
She’s one of my favorite actors yet she’s not absolutely 💯 right while discussing the subject of marriage….she’s living the limelight life a busy one ,hopefully she’ll set priorities before it’s too late for her
@@creativeminds5405 Hmmm 🤔. Marilyn Monroe’s name springs to mind . She sacrificed her first marriage to become a star . Her subsequent marriages failed BECAUSE she was a star . Then for years she was used by two brothers in the highest office of the county . She died a very sad and lonely death . Being a homemaker and a mother is the biggest honour Allah has bestowed on a woman .
@@creativeminds5405 agree but all actreCess have to give some time of their career to their marriage india pakistan dono mai bohat c han jin k baccha bhe han co stars ki wives but living happily then y cant she or ahad get along well??
@@maryamnazir512 Maybe Ahad is not a good husband? Why blame the girl always? I have also noticed that in the beginning of his career Ahad was a very shy and charming dude but the fame got to his head. He seems oftentimes very arrogant and rude. So maybe he is at fault and not Sajal we dont know.
Why do girls always have to choose between marriage or dreams? Cant a little support of spouse and inlaws make out a solution? Agr har koi apni zimedari samjhy aur thora bardasht kar k aik dosry ko support karen so every girl can make out a best life by being herself and having a best marriage life
Bcuz this is Pakistan meri jaan, over here spouse or in-laws aren’t that supportive. It’s very rare to find such a spouse and if you get one then the in-laws create problems so it’s better to be independent than dependent on someone giving them a reason to control you
Jb hm individual soch hi rkhen or hamara culture collective he to yhi hota he... Group ethics b hme sikhna chahye.. Wrna agay b jaaky is trh only and lonely life guzarni paregi...
Very good comment. Bilkul sahi. Susral ya mian thoda flexible kyoun nahi ho saktey k do or die wali situation creat ho jaey. Admiyiun ko kuch adjust nahi kerna perta
She is kind of wrong and kind of right. 50 50. But yeah she lost a diamond. I still wish that they are together, and not divorced and again come up together. May Allah guide her and Ahad both.
Start ma agr stop kr dyna.... Stop even dreaming ..only dream n enjoy yr newly married life n leave all for making hom ....as birds who make nest and lay eggs n grow kids n after then thay can flay with kids too ........ Enjoy too....... Start ma qurbanya hmasha rung latee....n agr sajall if u love Ahadd ..to take example with sahiba ...who left all for remboo...n make hom n kids ...now wo dono working happilly and enjoyg ....ya soch apki wrong hyy n U did wrong.......📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢
Once you are married it is a commitment and that is a very important part of your life , it does not stop you from achieving your goals. It all depends how strong you are .
Acting sab kuch nhi ap dunia main acting krney nhi aaye balkey doosrey aur bht maqaasid leker aaye hain, ap bolyeood ki sana khan ko hee le lain aj kitni pursakoon zindagi guzar rahi hain.
After getting advises from People who's relationship failed people are saying she's right no guys there is different between adjusting yourself compromise yourself and Understanding between each other first you has to decide in which situation you are is that is toxic relationship or you having understanding problems 💔 I pray All couple understand each other and think for each other and there relationship will be fulfilled with love and respect
What do you mean ? What can we expect from Indians ? Where western culture is common? We have different values than yours , respect other people opinions and culture
@@user-ee1rs8ed2x exactly that what I said...even after staying in such regressive country she has such high level of thinking.hats off to her. My culture is different than yours. Wanna see what my culture is ? Google how many muslims in india participate in Ram Leela. U will understand our culture very much.
@@juthikamazumdar3258 lol, typical indian, we are better than you 😂😂 what is special in them ,did you know about their latest scandel? Alhumdulillah we don't need role model like them , we are happy holding our values , we know how difficult it is to be girl in india , because india is among unsafe countries for women to live , so don't brag about your india
@@juthikamazumdar3258and you will know the meaning of everything when you will die But unfortunately it’s Tooo late to know…! We Muslims live for the life after death called “Hereafter” running after this material world and one’s desires ( calling it dreams ) makes this life tiring, meaningless and life after death, Complete Failure, unimaginably painful and Total Loss. Our showbiz is full of such people Because they are away from Religion. Whoever gets closer to religion, leaves that life IMMEDIATELY. Late Junaid Jamshed is the greatest example of that who was the most loved celebrity in Pakistan..!!! And in your country the most recent Example is Sana khan!
But I think she is quite wrong....if you really love someone they will became your life and as Islamic call marriage doesn't stop you from your dreams.....it just makes your life so much more beautiful.
Yeh sab chamak damak kuch time ki hae.kuch saal baad feel ho ga ke ek decent aur khoobsoorat family life ki kia importance hoti hae aurat ki life mein.jab sab chor dete haen tab ek sincere partner ki zaroorat hoti hae jo har mushkil mein support kare.majority film actresses ko jab is ka ihsas hota hae us waqt buhat der ho chuki hoti hae.
Totally agree with her shadi is a part of life shadi is not life you should never compromise on your goals and dreams and if your partner cannot support you in this he is not much of a partner then happy with her desicion 👍
No it's not right . If u have some goals that you can't achieve in marriage life so you should not got marriage because married life has its own important goals that can't be ignored . And after marriage , marriage's goals must become the priority
Marriage is life and everything else is part of it. You will get retirement from work but your family, your in laws will be with you until last day of your life.even after death people will call me ….. ‘s wife.
@@nargis2201 your mentality wow! You mean k ek lrki ko apne sab dreams chor k in laws ki khidmat krni chahiye take marne k baad log usse ..... ki wife kehke bulaye, are u serious? What if ap in laws achy nh hein and apko beti ki trh nahi maid ki trh treat krte hein? Tab bhi yehi bolengi aap
Shadi aur family k sath b sab kuch achieve kiya ja skta ha, but ap jesi kuch ladies ki priority shadi nhi hoti apko baqi sab cheze ziyada attract krti ha, at the end everyone needs warmth of family
اسلام علئیکم سجل علی کو مشورہ ہے کہ پلیز اپنی اتنی اچھی عزت کو مت ختم کرو۔ نہگے بدن سے اللہ بھی ناراض اور سپوٹر بھی ناراض ہوتے اپنے آپ کوفل کور کیا کرو I feel embarrassing تم پاکستانی ہو تو تمھاری عزت ہماری عزت ہے یہ صرف سجل ہی کو نہیں تمام پاکستانی ایکٹرس کو مشورہ ہے
For the one ,who you claimed to be in love with, if you have to agree what he wants from you that's ok. This is what love is! What is love then ? If there is no sacrifice, no patience. When you say me me ne. It means no love.and this sacrifice comes from female.
Hamara deen ghr banane r basane ki bat krta hy.. yes you can be financially independent as a women.. islam gives u right bt that is secondary!! Our primary goal is family life and family system!! R apnay lye to janwer b jee lete hain.. hy zindagi ka maqsad auru k kam ana!!
Who are we to judge others.Our life is for us to live as we wish to That right is God given .If one isnt happy oneself.how can she or he make others happy. I am happy that she made a choice and is happy about it .what is the poine to stay in a marriage where both partners are unhappy .Times are changing and one have to accept that .
My dear boys & girls , achievement is important but , married life is more important. You can't stop the hands of a Clock . Set priorities of life and put family life , on the top of it .
@@daliakarmakar5123when I was in my early teens I had same opinion about marriage but once I got married, the relief i felt on the day of my Nikah after saying Qabol. I wish everyone girl and boy to experience the beauty of Halal relationship.
Marriage is not only a relationship between man and woman but it is a foundation of an institution for upcoming kids the most precious assets and gift of Allah subhano ta'ala. So I think before marriage a woman and man should be ready to take their priority only and all of their interest, investments both time and money , should only be the core goal. And it is the biggest achievement.
She is absolutely right ! People who are going against her need to understand that there is a fine line between a healthy and toxic marriage. Islam doesn’t Promote any toxic relationships ,where there is a threat to your physical and mental health. I wish people could understand and digest this truth. Marriage is part of life and not life itself , if you’re not married or if your marriage wasn’t successful, that doesn’t make you less as a human or an unhappy individual . Peace is more important and marriage doesn’t guarantee peace and if you find peace and happiness in your marriage that’s amazing but if you don’t then staying in that marriage is pointless !
Totally agreed !! Spcly ajkal ek bharose wala partner kitno ko milta hain ?!! Apni khudki individual life banana bht important hain !! Khudke liye Jeena bhi zaruri ...bacche chhor jate h partner chhor jate h ajkal k. Time me !! So live yourself first !!
so proud of SAJAL ALY ....she dared to separate herself from a bad relationship....not all women have guts to do this...she did it...and people are jealous of her...and saying bad things about her... but she's focused and building herself...she's independent...and people can't tolerate this... they want to pull her down.....she's the best actress of the industry after Mahira khan... she's so versatile...and famous before AHAD....love you SAJAL ALY ♥️🤩
True love is when you wholly solely belong to that one person and your life surrounds around that one person who is also your husband..you may be whatever else in life but love holds you together..sadly you have never been in true love. If that ever happened you will then understand. Both my husband and I are doctors. V enjoy our work and we are v v busy from morning till night still our thoughts are together. I cant think of life with out my husband.
jb shadi nakam hojaey to shadi ko dubara try kr lena chahye bhtr learning k sath....shadi ki jga or chezon ko nhi de ja skti...iski apni aik ehm jga hy...life me...tqrebn frst nhi to second important
Very true dear.. after marriage if husband can let work continue than no one wants divorce they can manage family life whoever successful in tv industry those husband support them I very sorry Sajal very beautiful & talented girl stay blessed ❤
When someone didn't idea purpose of life,then mismanagement takeover and ruined their life. When Carrier, Celebrity, Money become purpose of life,so our sympathy for you.
What I don't understand is that they don't come to the main point. Life is definitely not about ONLY marriage. What is life about? Worshipping Allah swt and doing good works. Yeh sab realization Qiyamat ke din hogi kya? Abhi se hi hosh mein aana chahiye aur wohi krna chahiye jo Allah pak ne humaray liye behtr samjha hai. We won't go to Jannah based on our good works but only and only through Allah swts mercy. Issi ko achievement banao. Let's make ourselves worthy to earn Allah swts mercy.
Sahi kaha ha kisi ne, "aurat hi aurat ki dushman". Iss comment section me saaf nazar araha ha ye. Jo log is parr apni jahilana jesi soch liye akar tanqeed kar rahe hain srf is liye q k wo actress ha shyd pata nae in logo ko k hamare iss bekaar muashre me domeatic aurat ko jis tarah zaleel o khwaar kiya jata ha shyd he kahi kiya jata ho. Woh ghalt nahi keh rahi ye keh kar ke shaadi karne k baad sab kuch khtm nae hojata, she is right. Shaadi part of life ha not complete life k bss isi k ird gird gumti rahe or jeena chordo. Doosri baat jo log ye comment kar rae ha naa k she lost Ahad, ya shohar ki nafarmani etc etc..bhai apko kya pata kisi k situation ka, ap log sath rehte ho kya?kisne kisko cheat kiya, kiska salook kesa tha, kon loyal tha ya nae. Fazool k blames/assumptions in par lagane se acha apni life par dihan do. Ajate ha bare deeni bann kar
Being honest ....couples should talk about their goals in life before marriage and marry according to their interests...
So true. Too bad we are nurtured all our lives to “say the things the other person wants to hear”, and not what we really want to say.
No wonder most conversations before marriage don’t yield the intended results.
No matter how much you talk, people will change according to situations and time. Nobody is good or bad, people are in between. Also relations only last due to dependency, if women have lower income or own cheaper properties in cheap areas. Arbaaz Khan/Hrithik will be so unhappy as the lower level low quality woman he married will oppress him after he gets older when he will have no options left. First the husband oppressed low quality wife then the low quality wife will oppress that same husband later on, it is karma from God as God will favor the situations for the oppressed lower quality wife then that low quality wife will change as per situations and will start to take revenge secretly. Nobody in this world is good or bad, everyone is in between so people change depending on situations and time. Suzanne divorced Hrithik before he met Saba. You are a fool. What a bad cheap mentality you have. Marriage and divorce is respectable and allowed in Islam for a wealthy woman who can afford her own luxury she will have the power to divorce. This haraam live in relationship and boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is prostitution, no touching is allowed before marriage. Also poor middle class women have a bad mentality as they have lower income and own properties in cheap areas so are dependent on husband for a better life so these women tolerate being a free maid or free slave to husband but never divorce. A wealthy woman who can afford luxury home in best expensive area, luxury transportation and all other expensive costs of life with a supportive family has the power to divorce a man due to arguments or sudden bad mentality from man. She can marry a better man next time or stay single happily after divorce. Saba is a low quality servant woman who is a girlfriend toy of an old man for money, then after some years when he is too much older he will have no options left and that time these low quality girls will torture him by oppressing and he can not even complain. Every single marriage has hidden struggles, compromises and hardships. Previous generation women tolerated worst things and were too weak and no income or low income. Still now most women have lower income and properties in cheaper areas so will tolerate anything for a better life. A woman has to have the intelligence to also manage money along with high income and how to invest money to create more wealth. Also looks and other qualities are a factor too. With all qualities then a woman can have courage to divorce a man with a sudden bad mentality to get a better man or stay single happily. At the end of the day Saba is a loser too, all of Hrithik’s main love, care and money will be dedicated to all his children from first wife. A lower quality woman is a punishment to the man as you can not oppress a lower quality person with less beauty, less money, lower family background for long time because she will take revenge later on and that time he will have to tolerate her secret revenge. In all long term marriages, first the lower level women with lower income are oppressed and then later on they oppress their husbands after many years when children are older. So it is karma and unhappiness in those long term marriages. Saba is a big punishment to Hrithik which fools do not realize. Suzanne divorced him before he met Saba.
The other person is not the ordinary person he is ur husband remember it aur chalo lai li divorce ab kya future hai khuch dramay films phir nothing abhi sa face pr age agye hai aur body language tu boht abnormal si ur not going right path sooner or later u will realise
@@luckyrose105 so true. Sadly our generation is so much into themselves they forget in a relationship it's not about just "me", it's "us". How can they break these relationships so easily! Just like the girl here said "it's just a part of your life" ,as if it's not that valuable ek gaya toh ek aur ayega.. why is this sort of mentality so common nowadays? I just feel so sad!
@@abshaar13 jigar chaihye shadi nibhany ka liya 😃
She is right. Marriage is a beautiful part of life .. but there are much more in life beyond marriage..
3some😳
As a muslim and according to islamic teachings,there is nothing more important than your husband except those that islam had taught us such as Allah and his prophets etc.
Letting your wife free to do as she wishes, results in nothing but just divorce and I am pathan and Alhamdulillah in our families,a single wife spends her 50-60 years of her entire life with just a single husband.And if Islam prohibits of letting your wives and women free then why Allah has send so much ayahs in Quran?Why prophet Muhammad PBUH had taught us so much about women,their role,their rank in Islam,their way of living and as a muslim I believe that Islam is the most perfect religion in the world then how can Islam be cruel to women?If Islam bounds women in a closed circle then of course there will be advantages of it that we can't even think about them but Allah has more knowledge than us and he keeps us away from evil or whatever is harmful for us.😊So don't be a feminist.If Islam doesn't allow women for their free will and every part and im every situation then plz don't try to stand against Islam and it's teachings
@@OzzyApridi Kya kre ab agr talaq hogai hai to wo mar jaye ab????
@@OzzyApridi ab har wakht roti dhoti rahy .. Bai us ne move on kr liya hai wo khush hai to let her be
@@OzzyApridi or har insan Muslim nahi hota har baat ko Islam k nazriye se judge na kre .. non Muslims b hoty hai dunya me . Ab wo b Zindagi Islam k mutabiq guzary kya
Every woman who is divorced talks like that.. but In life you need love more than achievements and dreams
priorities matter...
Totally agree
Insan ko muhabat k sath dreams ko poora krna b chye hota hai. Na is se zeada na kam. Just barabr chye
@@AhmedAli-fr8kr but insaan achievements ke Bina reh sakta hai. Zindagi ruk nahi jaati lekin mohobbat ke bina zindagi ka koi matlab hi nahi hai . Kyun sab kuch achieve karke koi share karne wala nahi ho toh kuch matlab nahi hai uska
@@staygold1285BILKUL G SEHI keha ap ne
Jub hamarei pyarei nabi nei keh dia kei kei aurat ka asal char divari kei ander rehna aur shoher ki bat manna hei to peechei kia reh gia
Even kei ibadat ka sawab bhi double ho jata hei
Nabi ki biwi b business woman thin hazrat Khadija you misogynistic
Fakhar Zahoor. Dear, Hamaray pyaray Nabi ne ye bhi Farmaya tha k " Ilm ka hasul hr Muslim oar muslema pr farz hey.". Mgr Afsos musalmano ne Farman e Rasul.S pr amal na kya. Apni lakrhiyan ghr bithaey rakhin. Goron ne parha din. Oar ham se Kai so saal agey nikal gary. Agr ham bhi parha detay to pehli sadi Hijri me dunya me Inqelab aa jata. Musalman larhkiyan bhi doctor ,engineer, scientists,economists, professors, mathematicians journalists, politicians, phelosofers, religious scholars etc ban jatin. Society me mannerism bhi aa jata. Oar sab aik dusray k haquq o fraiz oar hadd o qiyud ka bhi khyal rakhtay. Mgr esa na ho saka. 😢
Agreed
ap pakistani jahilo ka yehi to masla ha na k islam ko ghalat triky se link krte ho apni zindagiyo ma. isi liye poori dunya hansti ha ap logo pe. Nabi(SAW) ne kbi ye nhi kaha k orat ghar ma qaid rhy aur shohar ke har jaiz na jaiz baat maany, ye apki khud ke soch ha islam nhi ha ye. is tarha to wo depression ka shikar ho jaye gi ESPECIALLY aj kl k dor ma. kabhi Quran hadees ko sahi se parh k samjha ha kia??? Mard orat dono k barabr haqooq hen. dono he apny shariat k dayere ma reh kr apny profession choose kr skte hen . A woman can be a business person, a traveller, a doctor etc, both the genders have to be in their limits defined by islam, that's it! and both man and woman have to divide their responsibilities equally. None of them should be overburdened. This is islam..!
lekin nhi ap pakistaneo ka islam to shalwar, kameez, daarhi or orto se shru ho kr unhi pe khatm ho jata ha, baki jitna marzi 2 number kam kr len na us se koi frq nhi parta.
100% right
10 saal baad sab pata chalega...actresses jawani me aise hi sochti phir khali hath rah jaati hai
aur male actors kya karte hain?
@@anjalisaha9685 Men and woman are different, they don’t age like women . There fertility doesn’t decline. When a man is old if he is financially stable and in shape and can still reproduce he has no problem finding women. However when a woman gets old. She tends to lose shape, fertility declines, loses attractiveness too. So they are very different. Literally after 30 ur fertility declines as a woman whereas men they can still reproduce up to 70.
Kea khali kea koi Behan Bhai relative friend koi nhi hota.
@@Hahahaha-7 sad to see that you see women only as a baby producing factory.. please go out and see there are women who are happy and single...shaadi and bacche shouldn't be the only priority...maybe you have not seen such women.... but from where i come i have seen all kinds of women....
Women who are happy being housewives.
Women who are successfully married and have a nice career.
Women who are single and financially independent.
Yes men don't have problem even after 50...there are men out there who are successfully and rich and in their 50's and marrying someone their daughter's age and it's so disgusting...
But a successful rich women in her 50's finds it hard because society judges and degrades .... society meaning people like you.... people like you degrade women and think a women's job is only to produce babies.....it doesn't me anger...rather it makes me sad that people in 2023 still think like this.
@@Hahahaha-7 i can proudly say that fortunately there are men...who are so good and not like you....there are men who don't think like this... they don't see their shape size and fertility 😂😂🤡🤡
اللّٰه پاک نے حلال اور حرام میں فرق رکھا ہے نکاح ایک حلال اور باعزت فعل ہے جو کہ رب نے پسند کیا ہے جب آپ کسی سے نکاح کرتے ہو تو سب سے پہلے عزت، فرائض و حقوق کو اہمیت دو دنیاوی خواب و خواہشات اپنے حلال رشتے کو ساتھ لے کر چلے اور محبت کے ساتھ رشتہ نبھایا جاۓ تو بہت خوبصورت ہوجاتی ہے زندگی دنیا بھی اور آخرت بھی لیکن جوزندگی شوبزنس کے لوگ جینا چاہتے ہیں اللّٰہ کو ناپسند ہے سب رہ جائے گا یہ فحاشی کی اور نام نہاد شوشا والی زندگی بس آخرت کا سوچ کے حلال زندگی جیو
Bilkul thek kaha ap ne .same my words . Ye lol aakhrat me yehi jawab den he k hum ne carear ko importance di . what rabish
Are Bhai Sajal or Ahad Molvi or Mulani nahi hain,Actor and actress hain ,bhains
Ke age been nahi bajate Sahab,😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏
نکاح ایک حلال فعل ضرور ھے مگر باعزت نہیں؟ یہ صرف اور صرف عورت کے لیے ایک جال ھے۔ پتہ نہیں اللہ نے سب جانتے بوجھتے کیسے طلاق کو ناپسندیدہ فعل کہا ھے؟!؟!؟ اگر اللہ کو اللہ معاف کرے ہمارے مسلمان خاص کر پاکستانی مردواں کے ساتھ ایک مہینہ رہنا پڑ جاتا تو طلاق کو سب سے پسندیدہ امر قرار دیتے اور عورت کو طلاق دینے کا حق ھوتا۔
@@AyeshaKhan-si1tz ALLAH ki maqlooq wahi behtar faisla karne wala hy.
@@AyeshaKhan-si1tzAllah ne talaq ko napasand nahi kia. Allah ne aurat ko khula ka haq dia hai or use istamal krna jaiz hai. Koi na pasandidgi nai halal hai. Bus koi jaiz waja honi chahiye.
Married life is more important than her opinion and adventure
Each to there own some people are ok being single and others want family
Mental peace is most important
This is very thinking which made the cause of divorce..
Jaruri nhi h har bar ladki apne sapno ki qurbaani de Or koi stand le le to wo galat h 😏 ahad best h lekin hum kisi ke personal life ke baare me nhi jante glti humesha dono side ki hoti h isliye kuch baato se kisi ko judge mtt kro 🙁
Madam these women have no shortage of money that's why women like them have choices to be alone or crowded but I dead sure you don't have that kind of privileges
Yes when you will cross 40 your regret will start. Just like Resham and Saba.
Even animals need family.
V TRUE THEN LIKE RASHUM RUNS AFTER CETAIN BIG PEOLE
She is talking about if there's problem then move ahead
Saba kon ?? 🤔
Wo to reh hi ly .Lkin ap jaisy neg log nhi jeenay dengy isy.
Agreed
Shadi k baghyer life mien kya goal hien life mien. Aurat ko Allah nien nasal barhany aur uski achi tarbiyat kerny ki zimadaari di hy. Na k na mehram logon k saath drama ya film ki ijazat di hy.
Mard ko to na-mehram aurton k saath poori ijaazat hay na dramo aur filmo main kaam karnay ki, koi gunah nahin, koi saza nahin.
mard ko kisne di ijazat drama mein kaam karne ki? 😂 and ladki ka asli goal shaadi nahi hota...it's just a part of it.
Guys neither men or woman in Islam are allowed to do that with a nah man ram. It’s just that. Men and woman re different . Once she is 30 or older she’ll realise how marriage and kids are so important.
What a ridiculous comment 😂😂😂 what about women who can't bear a child or are unable to get married??? Unki zindagi bekar haii??? They are useless according to ur statement. Dream big sis... Afsos apki soch pr.
@@Hahahaha-7 I guess she's already 30 and if you barely try to understand she's exactly saying that it's important to get married and have kids but should always work on our personal goals and achievements.
Iam sorry sajal not all women thinks like u most women dreams are to have husband and beautiful kids being young and beautiful dose not stay with u 👈🏼
Life is not just about marriage, do better in career. Not everyone has a marriage that uplifts you
Half of deen is marriage and jannah is beneth feet of mother not the working woman who is uarried and does not have children we are muslim not foriegner that you are trying to copy !!! Portray you own relegion and culture !!!
Everyone doesn't think the same
Not me I want to have my own life
@@user-kh7wr7en5o if not about marriage where u came from 🤔
There is nothing like tht..ap is rishty may apny ap ko bandna nai chatay to boltay han k ye part of life hy..ye all about hi hay.❤
Jab sab dreams pure hone ke baad agr pichhe dekho to tumhe apne sath koi nii milega thik h..... But relationship ko break krke dreams pure krna it's not good
i agree 💯👍
Thats true.
Her regret will start after 35-40. Right now she is 29.
correct
that’s what happened to her…She succeeded in all things except her relationship…So one never should take relationship advice from them
Ye jawani sirf 4 din ki hai sis..agar 1 shadi kamiyab nahi hoi to bhi nikkah ko ghalat nahi keh sakte.
usne nikaah ko galat nahi kaha ..she said that life is not all about shaadi....it's just a part...i can under tumhe samajh ne mein dikkat hui hogi tabhi faaltu kaa bol rahe ho
G bilkul Allah Tallah nai Yai hi fermaya hai k apni ollad k jawaan honai k sath nikkah ker deya jaiy Allah Tallah hadait dai innko
actually right now she is on peak. but she doesnt know the downside of this. she will realise when suddenly everything will happening in the wrong direction and no one will support her. then she will remember those beautiful days with a lifepartner. caring loving sitting together sharing ideas for teh future. kids. everything... but that time it became too late... 100% she will suffer... What she did it will come one day in front of her... Wait and watch
Learn from Ayiza khan balance between house and work,but women should have first preference family
Tell this to Feroze Khan
She is absolutely wrong
Nah bro, she's absolutely right, but yeah it depends on the person to, In my perspective what she said totally made sense, relationship shouldn't become you're life, it's a part of it, a beautiful one
Nope, she's right. Shaadi is not a goal to be achieved n stop living at
True.
She thinks being in a marriage is just being together and having kids, she thought that she wouldn’t get to have any fun time anymore. Or explore and travel instead would be in the same routine every day. Idk what to say. That’s part of life it’s the most important thing in a woman life though. Getting married and having kids, it’s literally the purpose and to worship god.
@@missm6626if you think living stops at marriage then ur in the wrong marriage. 😂
ایک مسلمان کی طرح زندگی گزارنے کیلئے اسلام کے مطابق چلنا ضروری ہے یہ میڈیا فلمی اور ڈرامے والوں ہی کی طلاقیں زیادہ کیوں ہوتی ہیں
She succeeded in all things except her relationship…So “one should never take relationship advice from such people (who just want duniya God made relationships/marriage to help each other out in any circumstance not to be like tum tumhari life jiyo mai meri that’s not a relationship… Man should be the man in a relationship and woman should be a woman in a relationship that’s the only way you are going to be happy/succeed in a relationship but today’s world see it as degrading idk why. After the relationship with God there’s nothing powerful/meaningful than the relationship with ur spouse and she knowingly and unknowingly failed in it whatever maybe her reasons and she got the wrong perspective about it) So stop taking advices of people from failed marriages. Just remember why we are in the duniya (for muslims)first not to fulfill our dreams or live life however we want…we are here to obey Allah S.W.T.
Well said
May Allah the all guidance guide them both and us to the straight path ❤ameen Yaa raabil aalameen
She is absolutely right . Takleef deh relationship se behter hey alag hojana ye Islam me haram nahi hey . Why people all the time blame to women. It’s not right aap ko kisi ka Kia pata.
She's saying that we should be sucessful before having any kind of relationship so that u won't have to depend on anybody
What's wrong in that?
Beautifully said ❤
U r 10000 percent right
She need some religious counselling
She should understand Quran with meanings...Tafseer..
She is distracted from her Path
Yes.. Working in showbiz is not good for iman
You are the one who should understand Quran with Tafseer.
if someone research Quran u know what happens? 🤨 h/she becomes a celibate,philosopher,scientist,educator ,spiritualist,and philanthropist . Quran taught us ethics,education,knowledge inner wisdom 🤨. it is not about marriages and divorces ,marriages are just a way of legal relationship and divorce is a legal way of breaking that relationship . people should follow iqra which is fard to observe .
excuse me- Many women just forget about their ambitions after marriage she is just telling them not to do that. Don't drag religion into everything.
Sajal starts a convo like "u know, yeah... u know... u know right???"🙂
English language ki classes lee hoti , kash 😂
@@bushra7039 then "you know" bolke baat khatam🐸😂 baki sab apko khudh e samajh leni padhegi
Reema ki terhan is ne b English language course ker liya hy ..note kro sub k aj se pehle ye kabi English nae bolti thi..😅
😂😅
May be gained confidence to speak with time.
Mujhe b aise hi lagta hai
Ahad and family se bhe seekhi Hoge Kuch English qk wo sb boht polished Hein.
English is just a language like other languages . One can learn any time at any age. Not a big deal 😊
Ahad is love ♥️ __
He is always true Nd kind hearted ..
I don't know what the truth is ...
But sajal has lost a diamond (Ahad)
Its useless to say anything on a matter you know nothing about...nobody knows the reason they kept it private and Sajal is an amazing human being who always gets praised everywhere i.e Hollywood, Bollywood, Lollywood
@@laibaicc099.10 is ko azaadi chahye thi mil gai bss
and surely ahad also lost a diamond
Who’s ahad???😂
Ahad losts Diamond🙂
Sajal is pretty+ more popular than him
Really sajal lost diamond (Ahad)
You know very well? Ap ghr mai rehte thy usko? Like seriously hame nh pta k kiski glti thi, jo jesa dikhta hai na wo zyada tar wesa huta nh hai or showbiz pe tu sab hi acha banne ki koshish krte hein, so no one lost no one Allah hi janta hai kon theek tha kon glt tu ap zyada andaze na lagaye Q k agr ahad ki glti hui tu isme apko gunah milega
Thats why ab sajal woh sajal nahi rahi. She has lost something from her own-self.
Na ab woh dikhney me wesi lugti hai naa kaam me.
Iqra bhi to hai …. How well she is managing all.
Sajal has lost her charisma.
Lost diamond ,beshak diamond kha ke mar jandi, chorti na,oh Bhai zindagi zayada zarori hai ,jis diamond ke sath app ko khushi ,sukoon nahi mila, to hell with that diamond. She's right, everyone knows ones decisions better than anyone in the world.
Iski baatein Sunn k iski soch bhe pata chal Gai .yehi ghuroor aur jawani iss larki ke tabahi aur brbaadi ke waja bngai 😢
not really. she freed herself frm a monster
Why did you got married that quick??
When A person is 0ut of Religion
This kind of thinking takes place..
Shut up
Ok so a girl thinking about her success is out of religion? Excuse me
@@d_danny8407its not success. Aj aik hero ki baanho me kal dusray k sath thumkay
@@shakiramaqbool5516 you never know what going in someone’s personal life so it’s better we don’t judge, only Allah knows so leave the judgement to him
@@d_danny8407 here we clearly know her goals and dreams for which she is so enthusiastic. When the goal is haram whats the point of struggle
This is wt I want after marriage ,I want to full fill my dreams ,n live a life to its fullest
I truly hope all women find husbands who not only support her dreams and ambjtion but encourage her to pursue them! That’s what truly accounts for a healthy and happy relationship..
Ab smjha ahad ko isii ne choraa tha definitely
Jaruri nhi h har bar ladki apne sapno ki qurbaani de Or koi stand le le to wo galat h 😏
@@sadiyatahsin4309 isme spno ki qurbani kha se aagyi ... mtlb kr jgh feminism kuch bhi
@@majidparihar9647 syd aapne suna nhi sajal ne kya kaha ek chiz ke liye bandh nhi skhte khawatin ko v hakk h smjhe or agr wo dono ko importance deti h to glt kya h main ye nhi keh rhi ki ahad glt h but aap kisi ko dreaming karne se nhi rok skte
Allah behtar janta hai k kiski glti thi.
@@maheenjaved8406 jii beshak Allah knows everything 😇
If you had so many plans beyond shaddi why u opted for shaddi and destroyed other persons life
ye actresses jb apna career nhi chor sktin yo shadi he nhi krni chahiey inhy
Sometime kuch special logo r beautiful relationship k lea kuch restrictions ko accept kr lna chahey kea jata hai then life also become beautiful 🥰🥰 for love, 🥰
😂
What sort of thinking she has. She doesn't deserve to be a wife of anyone. Ahad Raza feeling sorry for you
do you know them personally?
@@anjalisaha9685 do you know her personally ? Do you know why I commented on this? When you don't know anything why are you asking. I me.
@@kookie229 then enlighten us please why you made such remarks
@@anjalisaha9685 I am not answerable to anyone. I commented on what my opinion was. you give yours if you think so If you think she is right, then comment accordingly.
@@kookie229 stop shitting
She’s one of my favorite actors yet she’s not absolutely 💯 right while discussing the subject of marriage….she’s living the limelight life a busy one ,hopefully she’ll set priorities before it’s too late for her
So basically she didn’t compromise for her career and sacrificed her marriage for a movie . Sad … Islam honors the status of a wife and mother
Well what was that dude expecting??? Marrying a huge actress to make her his house wife? Is he stupid?
@@creativeminds5405 Hmmm 🤔. Marilyn Monroe’s name springs to mind . She sacrificed her first marriage to become a star . Her subsequent marriages failed BECAUSE she was a star . Then for years she was used by two brothers in the highest office of the county . She died a very sad and lonely death . Being a homemaker and a mother is the biggest honour Allah has bestowed on a woman .
@@creativeminds5405 agree but all actreCess have to give some time of their career to their marriage india pakistan dono mai bohat c han jin k baccha bhe han co stars ki wives but living happily then y cant she or ahad get along well??
@@maryamnazir512 Maybe Ahad is not a good husband? Why blame the girl always? I have also noticed that in the beginning of his career Ahad was a very shy and charming dude but the fame got to his head. He seems oftentimes very arrogant and rude. So maybe he is at fault and not Sajal we dont know.
@@creativeminds5405I was gonna say the same how you gonna marry a actress and tell her to stop working? And cook lool😂
There are lots of examples of women who achieved great goals after marriage...surprisingly..almost none of them were actresses! One can wonder why!!
Sajal 😘😘😘
Why do girls always have to choose between marriage or dreams? Cant a little support of spouse and inlaws make out a solution? Agr har koi apni zimedari samjhy aur thora bardasht kar k aik dosry ko support karen so every girl can make out a best life by being herself and having a best marriage life
Bcuz this is Pakistan meri jaan, over here spouse or in-laws aren’t that supportive. It’s very rare to find such a spouse and if you get one then the in-laws create problems so it’s better to be independent than dependent on someone giving them a reason to control you
@@d_danny8407 yeah true!
Jb hm individual soch hi rkhen or hamara culture collective he to yhi hota he... Group ethics b hme sikhna chahye.. Wrna agay b jaaky is trh only and lonely life guzarni paregi...
@@nafisazaib845 it’s better to live an alone life rather than living in pain
Very good comment. Bilkul sahi. Susral ya mian thoda flexible kyoun nahi ho saktey k do or die wali situation creat ho jaey.
Admiyiun ko kuch adjust nahi kerna perta
She is kind of wrong and kind of right. 50 50.
But yeah she lost a diamond. I still wish that they are together, and not divorced and again come up together.
May Allah guide her and Ahad both.
Start ma agr stop kr dyna.... Stop even dreaming ..only dream n enjoy yr newly married life n leave all for making hom ....as birds who make nest and lay eggs n grow kids n after then thay can flay with kids too ........ Enjoy too....... Start ma qurbanya hmasha rung latee....n agr sajall if u love Ahadd ..to take example with sahiba ...who left all for remboo...n make hom n kids ...now wo dono working happilly and enjoyg ....ya soch apki wrong hyy n U did wrong.......📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢
Once you are married it is a commitment and that is a very important part of your life , it does not stop you from achieving your goals. It all depends how strong you are .
Maa bannay k bad apki life apka sb kch apka becha r husband hota hy... yahi dream life hy.... ❤❤yahi islam hy.... b a muslim woman....
Acting sab kuch nhi ap dunia main acting krney nhi aaye balkey doosrey aur bht maqaasid leker aaye hain, ap bolyeood ki sana khan ko hee le lain aj kitni pursakoon zindagi guzar rahi hain.
After getting advises from People who's relationship failed people are saying she's right no guys there is different between adjusting yourself compromise yourself and Understanding between each other first you has to decide in which situation you are is that is toxic relationship or you having understanding problems 💔 I pray All couple understand each other and think for each other and there relationship will be fulfilled with love and respect
Wow pakistan mein rehkar she has such high level thinking. Sajal deserves applaud for saying this.
What do you mean ? What can we expect from Indians ? Where western culture is common? We have different values than yours , respect other people opinions and culture
@@user-ee1rs8ed2x exactly that what I said...even after staying in such regressive country she has such high level of thinking.hats off to her. My culture is different than yours. Wanna see what my culture is ? Google how many muslims in india participate in Ram Leela. U will understand our culture very much.
@@user-ee1rs8ed2xbeing Sajal Ali and Mahira Khan in Pakistan is not easy. I hope u understand the indepth meaning of this statement
@@juthikamazumdar3258 lol, typical indian, we are better than you 😂😂 what is special in them ,did you know about their latest scandel? Alhumdulillah we don't need role model like them , we are happy holding our values , we know how difficult it is to be girl in india , because india is among unsafe countries for women to live , so don't brag about your india
@@juthikamazumdar3258and you will know the meaning of everything when you will die But unfortunately it’s Tooo late to know…! We Muslims live for the life after death called “Hereafter” running after this material world and one’s desires ( calling it dreams ) makes this life tiring, meaningless and life after death, Complete Failure, unimaginably painful and Total Loss. Our showbiz is full of such people Because they are away from Religion. Whoever gets closer to religion, leaves that life IMMEDIATELY. Late Junaid Jamshed is the greatest example of that who was the most loved celebrity in Pakistan..!!! And in your country the most recent Example is Sana khan!
But I think she is quite wrong....if you really love someone they will became your life and as Islamic call marriage doesn't stop you from your dreams.....it just makes your life so much more beautiful.
Yeh sab chamak damak kuch time ki hae.kuch saal baad feel ho ga ke ek decent aur khoobsoorat family life ki kia importance hoti hae aurat ki life mein.jab sab chor dete haen tab ek sincere partner ki zaroorat hoti hae jo har mushkil mein support kare.majority film actresses ko jab is ka ihsas hota hae us waqt buhat der ho chuki hoti hae.
Totally agree with her shadi is a part of life shadi is not life you should never compromise on your goals and dreams and if your partner cannot support you in this he is not much of a partner then happy with her desicion 👍
Married life very important then ur carrier...
Hn sirf apny shohr ko khosh nhi rakho subky shohro ko khosh rakho😁
No it's not right . If u have some goals that you can't achieve in marriage life so you should not got marriage because married life has its own important goals that can't be ignored . And after marriage , marriage's goals must become the priority
Absolutely right ❤
In logon ko waisay hi izzat raas nahin ati
Thank you ALLAH 🤲💚✨🌱🌷
Yes she is right.... marriage is not life actually it's a part of life
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Marriage is life and everything else is part of it. You will get retirement from work but your family, your in laws will be with you until last day of your life.even after death people will call me ….. ‘s wife.
@@nargis2201 your mentality wow! You mean k ek lrki ko apne sab dreams chor k in laws ki khidmat krni chahiye take marne k baad log usse ..... ki wife kehke bulaye, are u serious? What if ap in laws achy nh hein and apko beti ki trh nahi maid ki trh treat krte hein? Tab bhi yehi bolengi aap
@@nargis2201 marriage is not life! Your goals should be your first priority
I agree❤💯
Shadi aur family k sath b sab kuch achieve kiya ja skta ha, but ap jesi kuch ladies ki priority shadi nhi hoti apko baqi sab cheze ziyada attract krti ha, at the end everyone needs warmth of family
G bilkul ap ki tarah apna career banaen or husband ko kick out kr dain, kitni achchi advice di hy ap ny😮
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Is RUN-D ki baat sun kr mujhy indian movie aitraz ki priyanka chopra ka role yaad aagya.......
life is not about living for your own self....
Sajal you are great woman and you are saying the truth. Keep it up
She is satisfying herself by saying all this but we pray for her may Allah give her happiness in her rest of her life.
Happiness is not just having a man. Happiness comes from inside your soul. So chill
اسلام علئیکم سجل علی کو مشورہ ہے کہ پلیز اپنی اتنی اچھی عزت کو مت ختم کرو۔ نہگے بدن سے اللہ بھی ناراض اور سپوٹر بھی ناراض ہوتے اپنے آپ کوفل کور کیا کرو I feel embarrassing تم پاکستانی ہو تو تمھاری عزت ہماری عزت ہے یہ صرف سجل ہی کو نہیں تمام پاکستانی ایکٹرس کو مشورہ ہے
And speak urdu too we know u r educated
For the one ,who you claimed to be in love with, if you have to agree what he wants from you that's ok. This is what love is! What is love then ? If there is no sacrifice, no patience. When you say me me ne. It means no love.and this sacrifice comes from female.
And love can be for yourself as well
And sometimes you even be patient and wait adn sacrifice but still get just worse out of it so better to make your self strong and stay for yourself
I know female do more sacrifices but not ever woman are like that man should also do that ..really our culture and society are very cruel
Hamara deen ghr banane r basane ki bat krta hy.. yes you can be financially independent as a women.. islam gives u right bt that is secondary!!
Our primary goal is family life and family system!!
R apnay lye to janwer b jee lete hain.. hy zindagi ka maqsad auru k kam ana!!
Every one is different so you can't preach this
Who are we to judge others.Our life is for us to live as we wish to That right is God given .If one isnt happy oneself.how can she or he make others happy.
I am happy that she made a choice and is happy about it .what is the poine to stay in a marriage where both partners are unhappy .Times are changing and one have to accept that .
My dear boys & girls , achievement is important but , married life is more important.
You can't stop the hands of a
Clock . Set priorities of life and
put family life , on the top of it .
Marriage is life everything else is part of it. ❤
Not really.... Marriage is part of life.
@@daliakarmakar5123when I was in my early teens I had same opinion about marriage but once I got married, the relief i felt on the day of my Nikah after saying Qabol. I wish everyone girl and boy to experience the beauty of Halal relationship.
@@daliakarmakar5123marriage is the biggest part of life and kids and god.
Has anyone noticed the background music?
Absolutely very well said... bus BALANCE ka khayal rakhna chahye har cheez mein
good point
چند سال بعد آپ ترسو گی شادی کے لیے لیکن اداکارہ میرا جی کی طرح آپ کے نزدیک کوئی نہیں آئے گا ، فی الحال جوانی ، مستانی ۔ یو انجوائے اٹ
Absolutely right inki baten sun na fuzool hy
Tum log apne kam se kam rakho. Khud he na tarasna parry. Lambi zabano ki pakarh hoti hai
Marriage is not only a relationship between man and woman but it is a foundation of an institution for upcoming kids the most precious assets and gift of Allah subhano ta'ala. So I think before marriage a woman and man should be ready to take their priority only and all of their interest, investments both time and money , should only be the core goal. And it is the biggest achievement.
She is absolutely right !
People who are going against her need to understand that there is a fine line between a healthy and toxic marriage. Islam doesn’t
Promote any toxic relationships ,where there is a threat to your physical and mental health.
I wish people could understand and digest this truth. Marriage is part of life and not life itself , if you’re not married or if your marriage wasn’t successful, that doesn’t make you less as a human or an unhappy individual .
Peace is more important and marriage doesn’t guarantee peace and if you find peace and happiness in your marriage that’s amazing but if you don’t then staying in that marriage is pointless !
That’s not a point because there was no threat to her mental or physical health. Do u know the details.
she trying too hard, is she copying someone? dont know but she has lost her charm as in she is looking fake now
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Totally agreed !! Spcly ajkal ek bharose wala partner kitno ko milta hain ?!! Apni khudki individual life banana bht important hain !! Khudke liye Jeena bhi zaruri ...bacche chhor jate h partner chhor jate h ajkal k. Time me !! So live yourself first !!
so proud of SAJAL ALY ....she dared to separate herself from a bad relationship....not all women have guts to do this...she did it...and people are jealous of her...and saying bad things about her... but she's focused and building herself...she's independent...and people can't tolerate this... they want to pull her down.....she's the best actress of the industry after Mahira khan... she's so versatile...and famous before AHAD....love you SAJAL ALY ♥️🤩
Yes she is absolutely wrong jab budhape mei ayegui tab yeh shaadi aur bacche yaad ayenge mark my words
and aaj jal bacche hi property k chakkar mein maa baap ko chor dete hain 😂
She gained so much
you destroy ahad just because u dont want to adjust.. you are wrong and you will realize it soon.
Kitny itmynan sy gult bat ko justify krny ki koshsh kar rahi ...but kar nai pa rahi r na hi kar skti hai kbi
Love sajal aly
Sajal shadi Kur layn ye hi behtar h, shadi aur buchay ye baqi dreams se ziyada bara dream hota h
look at all indian actresses .they had kids and raising kids with values. look at madhoori joohi,bipasha,Alia bhut,hema malini
Allah ki ebadat aur us ka bataya gaya raasta,yehi zindagi hona chaye
True love is when you wholly solely belong to that one person and your life surrounds around that one person who is also your husband..you may be whatever else in life but love holds you together..sadly you have never been in true love. If that ever happened you will then understand. Both my husband and I are doctors. V enjoy our work and we are v v busy from morning till night still our thoughts are together. I cant think of life with out my husband.
jb shadi nakam hojaey to shadi ko dubara try kr lena chahye bhtr learning k sath....shadi ki jga or chezon ko nhi de ja skti...iski apni aik ehm jga hy...life me...tqrebn frst nhi to second important
This woman was never meant to be a wife.
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Very true dear.. after marriage if husband can let work continue than no one wants divorce they can manage family life whoever successful in tv industry those husband support them I very sorry Sajal very beautiful & talented girl stay blessed ❤
When someone didn't idea purpose of life,then mismanagement takeover and ruined their life.
When Carrier, Celebrity, Money become purpose of life,so our sympathy for you.
She lost her innocent loke
I am from india 😊
Sajal my fevorite actress😊
What I don't understand is that they don't come to the main point. Life is definitely not about ONLY marriage. What is life about? Worshipping Allah swt and doing good works.
Yeh sab realization Qiyamat ke din hogi kya? Abhi se hi hosh mein aana chahiye aur wohi krna chahiye jo Allah pak ne humaray liye behtr samjha hai.
We won't go to Jannah based on our good works but only and only through Allah swts mercy. Issi ko achievement banao. Let's make ourselves worthy to earn Allah swts mercy.
Shojol 💯 right
Carry on... Allah bless you 🙏
Ap pm ak ki sab sa beautiful actoress hai ❤
غزہ فلسطین میں جا کر رہو پتا چل جائے گا زندگی
کا مقصد
Shadi insan ka adah deen mukamal karti hai bibi socho akal karo
Sahi kaha ha kisi ne, "aurat hi aurat ki dushman". Iss comment section me saaf nazar araha ha ye. Jo log is parr apni jahilana jesi soch liye akar tanqeed kar rahe hain srf is liye q k wo actress ha shyd pata nae in logo ko k hamare iss bekaar muashre me domeatic aurat ko jis tarah zaleel o khwaar kiya jata ha shyd he kahi kiya jata ho. Woh ghalt nahi keh rahi ye keh kar ke shaadi karne k baad sab kuch khtm nae hojata, she is right. Shaadi part of life ha not complete life k bss isi k ird gird gumti rahe or jeena chordo. Doosri baat jo log ye comment kar rae ha naa k she lost Ahad, ya shohar ki nafarmani etc etc..bhai apko kya pata kisi k situation ka, ap log sath rehte ho kya?kisne kisko cheat kiya, kiska salook kesa tha, kon loyal tha ya nae. Fazool k blames/assumptions in par lagane se acha apni life par dihan do. Ajate ha bare deeni bann kar