How to handle an Argument | Buddhism In English

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Komentáře • 419

  • @raquelparcon4334
    @raquelparcon4334 Před 2 lety +150

    Hi... Im a filipina a catholic. Im so inspired by your message. Everyday ikeep on following yourmessage ihave my ballpen and a note book then ijot it down. Then i share it to some of my friends. They like it too. Thank s for those inspirable message. God bless.....

    • @wizards8882000
      @wizards8882000 Před 2 lety +2

      Aq din po… nakaka tulong mga teachings nya..

    • @anojagallage5845
      @anojagallage5845 Před 2 lety +1

      Great job 👌

    • @jocelynpinatang2665
      @jocelynpinatang2665 Před 2 lety +1

      me too

    • @formycountry373
      @formycountry373 Před rokem +4

      Dear
      you should think of taking some lessons about Buddhism
      when you learn more you will love Buddhism
      truth comes only from Buddhism

    • @urmila16
      @urmila16 Před rokem

      True wisdom is universal. Jesus Buddha Krishna Krishna Mohammedall came to earth to teach us wisdom and skilful compassionate living.

  • @kellyli7520
    @kellyli7520 Před 2 lety +98

    I have been studying Buddhism since 1990. It really helped me overcome a lot of difficulties and enlighten me everyday. I become a very calm and positive person. I watch you everyday now. Really appreciate your teach(开示)🙏🙏🙏

  • @sakuta5868
    @sakuta5868 Před 2 lety +22

    Most peacfull religion.Buddhism indeed. 😇😇 bless you all Buddhist.🙏

  • @chonazagala63
    @chonazagala63 Před 2 lety +119

    Thankyou for inspirable message ..I am a christian catholic but I like and keep listening all the inspirable message from you...🙏🙏🙏

  • @shyam9136
    @shyam9136 Před rokem +9

    You bring me real buddism. Thank you

  • @catherinenemoto2605
    @catherinenemoto2605 Před 2 lety +36

    Hello I’m a Filipina and half Japanese living in Tokyo ,I really love your inspirational advices and I’m always following you.

  • @bobbitt8165
    @bobbitt8165 Před rokem +9

    I love to listen my suprime Buddha's teachings 😇

  • @itsmemahesh9451
    @itsmemahesh9451 Před rokem +14

    Well said, I argued with one of my friends later that argument turned into a fight now we both are not speaking. If I could have seen this video one month back I could have handled the situation very well. I will follow the methods which have been taught in this video in all situations. Thank you so much for this video 😊

  • @thilinianuruddhikajayasing3678

    Reverent sir, may you have the noble bliss of supreme buddha!!! නමෝ බුද්ධාය!!! තෙරුවන් සරණයි!!! සාදු! සාදු!! සාදු!!!

  • @jayshriathawale6527
    @jayshriathawale6527 Před 2 lety +38

    🙏Nmo Buddhay 🙏 it's very diffcult to keep calm ourself when someone makes arguments with you by making excuses .but I try to control myself and I don't say something to that person ,let him happy ,let him win,Lord Buddha says , truth can never hide.

  • @anushkavinoop7b662
    @anushkavinoop7b662 Před rokem +4

    Nmo buddhay 🙏 i want to adopt buddhism, when I grow up i want to become a monk like you. I love to stay patient and calm . Supreme Buddha's words are really inspiring.

  • @vikterathnayaka
    @vikterathnayaka Před 2 lety +7

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏🙏🙏

  • @satheeshaprethibhani56
    @satheeshaprethibhani56 Před 2 lety +7

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය තෙරුවන් සරණයි ස්වාමින්වහන්ස 🙏🙏🙏

  • @happinessofdhamma7933
    @happinessofdhamma7933 Před 2 lety +9

    Triple gem bless you monk may you attain the supreme bliss of nibbana🙏🙏🙏

  • @musungafuture7135
    @musungafuture7135 Před 2 lety +5

    I just need to sit next to you and listen to your wise words 🙏🏻

  • @lidiadimitrijevic7708
    @lidiadimitrijevic7708 Před rokem +6

    Hvala puno izgovorenim recima . Negde duboko u sebi otkrivam da verujem u ono sto govorite i da me motivisete uvek kad je ispred mene dva puta a ja nisam sigurna koji mene vodi do mog mira.

  • @manjulaniroshinie5257
    @manjulaniroshinie5257 Před rokem +6

    I really appreciate ur efforts of teaching Buddhism in this manner.its easy simple language style that even children can understand easily.👍
    Explaining every scripture quotes of Sanskrit is so interestingly done.
    I suggest this kind of sermons should be done in schools during poya programs.
    It's so interesting to listen and we fall in to it magically to listen more and more .
    Theruwan saranai hamuduruwane 🙏🙏🙏
    May u receive more courage to get the people out of the ditch .🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jyotivyas9286
    @jyotivyas9286 Před 2 lety +11

    Beautiful Advice By Great Sant And Rishi Sariputta ✌🏼🕉️🙏🏻Namoh Buddhay ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼🕉️🙏🏻❤️💐🌞
    Thank you Dear Respectfull Gurujee 🕉️🙏🏻🕉️✌🏼🌞 Aabhar

  • @j.a.damayanthiperera5143
    @j.a.damayanthiperera5143 Před 2 lety +5

    Teruvan saranai saddu sadu sadu

  • @carmenfonseca6603
    @carmenfonseca6603 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm really trying hard to rewire my mind to stay cool.

  • @prembikash9948
    @prembikash9948 Před 2 lety +19

    I am motivating myself by listening your great advice. I bow down my head to you with full of reverence

  • @faridachitoe7973
    @faridachitoe7973 Před rokem +3

    Thank you brother.
    You are to cool.
    Your voice brings so much peace.

  • @SomosLaNuevaEra
    @SomosLaNuevaEra Před 2 lety +38

    Whoever is listening this: May your heart be blessed Whoever is listening this: May your heart be blessed ❤

  • @k-stark-star2724
    @k-stark-star2724 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Namoo buddhaya. !!!! I am listening your vedios every morning. Very useful for our lives. Really appreciate the way that your explain as every single word touching our heart. තෙරුවන් සරනයි ඔබවහන්සේට නීරෝගීබව, දීර්ඝ ආයුශ ලැබේවා !!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @nishanbarua348
    @nishanbarua348 Před 2 lety +4

    'Namo Buddhaya" 🙏🙏🙏 love from Bangladesh.

  • @Manike-ub2nw
    @Manike-ub2nw Před 8 měsíci +1

    I will remember these 2 points, thank you. I had a problem with anger but I have controlled it with loving kindness meditation. Namo buddhaya 🙏

  • @okblve4102
    @okblve4102 Před 2 lety +5

    Be cool
    Be Truthful
    Thank you for this!

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 Před 2 lety +12

    Vandami Bhanteji 🙏🌷 nice dhamma desana . I do agree . I did masters in Clinical Psychology & post graduation in mental health and Counseling as well as post graduation in Buddha's psychology and psychotherapy .... Doing Vipassana meditation since 2017 twice in a day for one hour each ... Doing PhD on topic with alignment of clinical psychology with abhidhamma ... Your all discourses are really to the point , need is application by people to save themselves & others from suffering. Lots of METTA to all kind people

  • @christinemaddy6164
    @christinemaddy6164 Před rokem +3

    I've experience that family members even accused you for the thing you did not do
    So here, thank you Amitofo for sharing😘🙏

  • @andrewd1885
    @andrewd1885 Před rokem +4

    I am grateful for these wise and succinct videos. I feel they bring the teachings of Buddhism to a practical and understandable level. Thank you.

  • @janakachandrasekera39
    @janakachandrasekera39 Před rokem +1

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය .
    Venerable Thero,
    May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation.
    තෙරුවන් සරණයි!

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Před rokem +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @kanchanaranathunga9750
    @kanchanaranathunga9750 Před rokem +2

    Marvellous advice. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏

  • @kavindunuwan
    @kavindunuwan Před 2 lety +6

    Namo Buddhaya...!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sapumalwimalasiri4013
    @sapumalwimalasiri4013 Před 2 lety +6

    Venerable Sir I appreciate the way you interpret Lord Buddhas message the way people can practice .
    නමෝ බුද්ඨාය,
    තෙරැවන් සරණයි !

  • @hasipin6340
    @hasipin6340 Před 2 lety +4

    May the tripple Gem bless you venerable thero 🙏🙏🙏

  • @armiroseserioso4820
    @armiroseserioso4820 Před 17 dny

    Im a catholic frm Philippines,im always watching ur video

  • @roscross
    @roscross Před rokem +2

    Thankyou for your writeings about arguments, i like to stay quiet and calm when my friend tries to argue with me, i am a peaseful mind, so i listen and say nothing, i find it the best way,thankou, rose

  • @pavithraprasadanee3316
    @pavithraprasadanee3316 Před 2 lety +4

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය ...!🙏🙏🙏

  • @rogercanik1925
    @rogercanik1925 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you Venerable for sharing your profound Dharma talk in English. I’m so grateful 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maddalaashokkumar5197
    @maddalaashokkumar5197 Před rokem +2

    Anger is failure.. Anger Is a fault.. People are angry always are weak 🙏🙏🙏its true nice words guruji

  • @anilmallawarachchi9978
    @anilmallawarachchi9978 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you.
    Theruwan Saranai hamuduruwane 🙏🏻

  • @krishnagurung8408
    @krishnagurung8408 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’m Buddhist I followed exactly as videos I have never regrets in my life but remember there is few people in this world and lots of people talking advantage. So I’m quite person.

  • @ucheuguru4084
    @ucheuguru4084 Před rokem +2

    You're helping me a lot. I was feeling down in the past but your videos are uplifting. Thank you so much

  • @cindypen3426
    @cindypen3426 Před rokem +1

    Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹thank you for teaching us

  • @Abeysinghe6
    @Abeysinghe6 Před 2 lety +6

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jeyanthishanmugam2447
    @jeyanthishanmugam2447 Před rokem +1

    Right from my childhood onwards I love Buddha's preaching which I studied in Social science subject

  • @diluweragoda3848
    @diluweragoda3848 Před rokem +7

    Venerable sir, so glad to hear your explanations. I would be grateful if you could tell me how to deal with a person who is acussing continously for about years for some thing i didn't do. I am tried of listening to those things. Can't even go away from him . Please explain this .

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 Před rokem

      What people do or say to us is none of our business❤🙏🏽

  • @antonietamariainaciagomes4230

    God bless you dear Buddha 🙏 for the lovely quotes 🙏 ❤️

  • @uvsourcing2251
    @uvsourcing2251 Před 2 lety +4

    🙏 most valuable lesson for my life

  • @kirtirazsolanki984
    @kirtirazsolanki984 Před 2 lety +7

    🙏☸️NAMO BHUDHAI 🙏☸️

  • @murthyds5878
    @murthyds5878 Před 2 lety +2

    I have seen people who are very calm in an argument, but they bluff and have their way. Hence, the second tip is an important learning in this. Thank you bhante

  • @sujatashroff6385
    @sujatashroff6385 Před 2 lety +2

    Just love your voice and the way you say it. You are very very coooool. And sweet. ❤️💗😀

  • @kalwantkaur4802
    @kalwantkaur4802 Před 2 lety +5

    Awesome thanks for beautiful advice well said keep inspiring all of us God bless you always

  • @marinasharma782
    @marinasharma782 Před 2 lety +7

    O LEARNED ONE Sometimes i argue to save my child from beating
    And in the bargain i hurt myself i hear harsh words and cry all to myself
    Yes i do that very often at time yes i feel hurt i lied to my husband
    I REGRET LATER and repent as well thankyou thankyou thankyou God bless you

  • @lisadeker6489
    @lisadeker6489 Před rokem +1

    Great thoughts/insights. No music needed.

  • @AC-gn9vn
    @AC-gn9vn Před 2 lety +3

    You have such a peaceful face,your parents must be so proud of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @maryoconnell4698
    @maryoconnell4698 Před 2 lety +20

    Excellent advice and wisdom! I so feel benefitted from listening to you!

  • @dilukamadusanka
    @dilukamadusanka Před rokem +1

    පින්වත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා !

  • @eleanortan3366
    @eleanortan3366 Před 6 měsíci

    My new year resolution . listening to ur teaching .This is to improve myself. I felt I need to change my persona after listening to ur teaching . I have full of anger and blaming g others. Thank you for ur teaching .

  • @daisydaruwalla4189
    @daisydaruwalla4189 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you for the inspiring messages. I am not a Catholic or a Christian but I still get a great deal of inspiration from these messages. They teach us the true facts about life amd the correct way of living it. Thanks you once again.

  • @parvathiiyer9759
    @parvathiiyer9759 Před 2 lety +4

    What a great explanation ji 🙏

  • @johnpanakaldominic7009
    @johnpanakaldominic7009 Před rokem +1

    Very useful in every ones daily life. Thank you so much for your wonderful message

  • @gayatrimohapatra1203
    @gayatrimohapatra1203 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you sir for sharing this noble message

  • @KVVijay-ol8oy
    @KVVijay-ol8oy Před 2 lety +3

    Very true .Thanks a lot for the message.

  • @happycorner850
    @happycorner850 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for your valuable words. 🌸

  • @latharajan8132
    @latharajan8132 Před 2 lety +3

    Thankyou for your message really it's very essential now for me i m with full stressed with family problems so inspiring messages brother i once thankyou for your message

  • @hindipatang8204
    @hindipatang8204 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for these inspirational video and tips. Thank you

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Před rokem +1

    THANK YOU. I NEED TO HEAR THIS NOW ..🙏🙏🌹❤️🤗

  • @prempehama
    @prempehama Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you great Teacher 🙏🏽

  • @JB-ox7ib
    @JB-ox7ib Před 2 lety +4

    It’s a big ask not to be angry in a difficult situation. I think we all know not to get angry, and that anger is destructive.

    • @padmarao5563
      @padmarao5563 Před 2 lety +1

      I appreciate ur calm and composed presentation
      With an endearing. Voice.thank u very much

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 Před 2 lety +1

    Sathu Sathu Sathu 🙏🙏🙏 Thank thank so much Ajan🙏

  • @basavarajkaujalgi3947
    @basavarajkaujalgi3947 Před 10 měsíci

    🙏😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇🙏

  • @soumyas7677
    @soumyas7677 Před rokem +3

    Thanks you so much for your valuable message.. I love your videos 😊

  • @gkukel
    @gkukel Před rokem

    What a valuable advice. Anyone can relate to it. Both religious or atheist can relate to it.

  • @StepOFFGeorge.
    @StepOFFGeorge. Před 5 měsíci

    I tell my kids this is what it means to be cool. Cool is the ability to understand, accept, and make the most of the situation

  • @donnaowen8417
    @donnaowen8417 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you! So nice to listen to your loving calm voice. Glad I found this channel!

  • @rubynewby3519
    @rubynewby3519 Před rokem +3

    Very interesting and inspiring 👏love your messages ❤

  • @arlenebautista1934
    @arlenebautista1934 Před rokem +1

    thanks you very much for your inspiring advice

  • @normacarballo1608
    @normacarballo1608 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanz to ur message very touching God bless

  • @surajmatta2544
    @surajmatta2544 Před 6 měsíci

    Very good subject discussed useful for a daily life
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @radhiuamkhan5709
    @radhiuamkhan5709 Před 2 lety

    thank you very much sir , God bless you given your life fatefully. 🙏🏻

  • @rajrajput8989
    @rajrajput8989 Před 2 lety +1

    I really like your simple explanation it's needed

  • @tempesnyder6243
    @tempesnyder6243 Před rokem +6

    As always, wonderful information; presented so lovingly and beautifully!

  • @rebeccajamieson4069
    @rebeccajamieson4069 Před 2 lety +6

    NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🙏🙏

  • @madisoncarrillo777
    @madisoncarrillo777 Před rokem +1

    this was great advice, thank you for the message

  • @virgiaventajado244
    @virgiaventajado244 Před 2 lety

    Imrelated this and im laughing becauseirs true.thanks GOD BLESSED.

  • @rezinaakhter9915
    @rezinaakhter9915 Před rokem

    Hi suprim dear always speak the truth it is good for life !! U teach us ! Thanks 🙏🙏🙏

  • @latharajan8132
    @latharajan8132 Před 2 lety +1

    Full depression i m with full of worries and very burdened heart i relaxed by hearing your words

  • @chamarajeewantha3139
    @chamarajeewantha3139 Před rokem +3

    Superb explanations !
    Theruwan Saranai ! Namo Buddhaya !

  • @prabhakark2642
    @prabhakark2642 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for making me cool & wise.

  • @jenelynborbe8835
    @jenelynborbe8835 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing brother that was a inspirable mesage for us.

  • @PriyaSingh-dc2qb
    @PriyaSingh-dc2qb Před 2 lety +1

    Thankyou so much universe ❤️❤️

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 Před rokem +1

    Vandami Bhante ji
    It is very inspiring and useful video for our daily life.

  • @universe4242
    @universe4242 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much 💕💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bamangbam7408
    @bamangbam7408 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much. 😇.... Jst now I got into argument..i got angry little bit.. And this video pop out for me. Thankyou god.😇

  • @sulthanasalim7897
    @sulthanasalim7897 Před rokem

    Your words make me happy .u gave me lots of good thoughtses and patient.and my chrecter builded to better one .thkuu so much

  • @keerthi9226
    @keerthi9226 Před rokem

    Thankyou so much for enlightening my mind.

  • @marialucindaalvares5603
    @marialucindaalvares5603 Před 2 lety +6

    Sir i m very impressed by your talk I like to hear every word of yours and watch all your talk please always continue to give us talk like this so that we may improve ourself also good talk sir i like it

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh Před 2 lety

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You