Couples Counseling: Pre marriage questions
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- Pre marriage questions. truepotentialcounseling.com/co... In this video Andrea Cairella, LPCC in Long Beach, CA covers the importance of couples counseling, premarital counseling and covering pre marriage questions before you get married. Premarital counseling and couples counseling is a helpful step in answering pre marriage questions.
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Is communication in marriage important to you? In this video, you'll learn about the 8 pre-marital counseling and pre marriage questions all couples should discuss with their partner before getting married.
1. ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES: Imagine how you plan on dividing chores and responsibilities.
2. CHILDREN: Talk about your opinions on children and share important childhood experiences with your partner.
3. SEX: Determine sexual goals. Discuss how to deal with potential sex issues and how to keep things passionate and interesting.
4. SPIRITUALITY: Ask each other if you are spiritual or religious and share which practices are important to you.
5. FINANCES: Be forthcoming about who will be responsible for paying the bills or how you will share expenses.
6. CAREER: Address your own life goals and individual plans. Make sure this is a plan that your partner will support and that both of you are free to pursue individual interests and dreams.
7. LOCATION: Address where you would like to live.
8. LEISURE ACTIVITIES: Determine your interests and values that are important to you and share them with your partner.
What pre marriage questions are most important to you? Do you see the benefit of premarital counseling or couples counseling before getting married? Tell me over on the blog.
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I discussed everything with my prospective partner about these issues and also included finances, parents, etc.. she impressed me with her answers at first, but later told me that these things will depend on "context". And that the context changes. This is a hundred percent true! And that's why pre-marriage counseling is bullshit. It may give you some clarity, but it doesn't necessarily ensure a stable marriage. I now know for sure that you just need to have 100% assurance for the most important 1 or 2 things in marriage, and be ready to adjust yourself with everything else. For example - a man should not expect her wife to spend money even if she is working; and he must expect her wife to take care of the family inside the house
0. Roles & responsibility
1. Children plan
2. Sex issue
3. Spirituality / religious practices
4. Finances deal
5. Career
6. Location plan
7. Leisure activities
8. Interest / habits
9. Daily routine
10. Hate the things
11. Love the things
12. Opinion regarding joint families
13. Opinion regarding single families
14. Life goal
15. Friends relationship
16. Socialism with relatives & Cousins
17. Relationship with parents & siblings
I feel like all of this should be organically discussed and known before even considering marriage.
I have to agree with you. They should at least know majority of this information.
Dating not even marriage
Yes. Some people need pre martial even pre engagement counseling to beyond the superficial and get to a deeper level .
this is awesome, we had a great conversation on every topic and its genuinely just helpful for people who are recently engaged. Thank you!
It’s wild to me that people would consider marrying someone they haven’t already talked to about this stuff. What DO you know about them?
Amazing advice. Thank you
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I should have had this before I got married
how about pre-mariage counsel for retired persons
My fiancé and I just had our first class with my pastor. I was so scared because we live together. Although he does not approve he is still willing to work with us.
How’s the marriage ?
Your program is excellent but, your audio is bumped way down..you might try to readjust it?
I feel like if the two of you don't already know these things, you have really bad communication skills and have no business getting hitched... That or you should wait more than the month it took you two to "get to know each other" before you think about proposing.
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hi my name is Richard I'm 33 years old and my girlfriend is 49 years old we've been together for 3 years.but we have been having serious problems.when we argue she dosent lissen always on the defensive it's become to the point that I'm afraid of telling her how I really feel because most of the time her answer at the end is if you don't like it you can leave ore she will just avoid talking ore start braking stuff and I have to sweat talk her to calm her down what should I do
I think she's pretty immature in a sense and if she totally cares about you and your relationship she would at least try to talk and figure out things tht needed to be fixed and i think older women try to have a hold in a relationship then make and younger ones always try to address the issue and what concerns you about don't be afraid to initiate it in a way that don't upset her i think purely that suggests her bad personality or it's just her attitude in a sense
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and my other guestion is she wants us to live in separate house and only see each other on the weekends.all she wants is to work relax go see her family and only spend on day ore two with me go do something and then have sex at the end.but I really don't want to live that kind of relationship I want to share my life with her not only once ore twice a week what should I do i really love her but just thinking about living like that in two separate house gives me anxiety makes me sad and gives me mis trust help me what should I do
Hello what happend now ? Can you be with me ??
Those are first date questions.
Omg, no.
Can premarital counseling guaranteed a forever marriage? Or is it a religious thing
I THINK SO
It's none. There is no guarantee but it helps you to look into yourself and understand the realities of marriage.
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i love a girl and i need her in my life she also love me but earlier she was very interested to talk, chat with me but i responded not good sometimes still she was looked that she need me. now she get angry i many times over me, i apologize to her many many times and want her to talk to me nicely. she listen everything earlier but now she refuses and doesn't respond like earlier. I want to marry her we both are agree but i want her nice behaviour , respect , love everything we build. plz help me and reply.
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