what highschool boys ACTUALLY look for in girls | highschool advice
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i feel like every guy is like «I don’t like them basic» but every basic girl has a boyfriend
Spanish or vanish I’m pretty basic and iv never had a boyfriend 😪
I am super weird and I don’t have a boyfriend either soooooooo
I don’t understand
I look basic and outgoing but when approached im shy and awkward. Once i get to know you im weird and outgoing.
hahaha trueeee at least that’s how it is at my school😂
·e m i l y d i e z· you’re literally me lol
The guys in your high school looks like the guys who's like 21 or 22. The boys in my school look like 12
BRO SAMEEEE
OMG GIRL SAMEEEEEEE
same. dafuq 😑😤😩
I’m 15 and everyone tells me I look 20-21. It’s irritating.
N nah im a freshman and the kids look mad old like 20+ I look 12-
Boys “when girls juuls and smoke it’s so unattractive”
Same boys *juuling*
What is juuling ? 😂😅
@@ParkJimin-kf6ct i think its another word for vaping? Not sure though.
Park Jimin a juul is like a vape basically so juuling is like vaping
Park Jimin chimmyy
they didn’t say smoking in general , they said smoking cigarettes 🥱
"Yea man cigarettes are a big turn off"
*Hits Vape*
Thats cuz a lot of people think cigaretes are unnatractive ngl i think they are really sexy but there a huge difference in terms of aesthetic between vaping/juuling and cigarettes
But I also get the joke
Olivia Eason yeah Ik 😂😂
@Olivia Eason ehm actually vaoes are just as bad, if not even worse than cigs. If you inhale too much of that vapour, it will absorb into your lungs and condensate, which can be really dangerous
Olivia Eason yikes, you seem to not be educated
“Yeah we send screen shots” *all the guys start panicking”
Taylah Online
LOL i cant believe they didn't know that, my group chats are filled with screenshots.
Taylah Online honestly
jemliac lmfao same tho
I KNOWWWWWWW, idnekfneod. They all fucking went bat shit
I was dying 💀💀
This video also told me I have no guy friends in 6 different languages
Nyah Jana lol same
Well I have no friends
@@katrinablackwood7909 i felt that
Nyah Jana same
Lmao like all of my friends are guys, tbh there better than girl ngllll
Why do these boys seem like the ones you purposely avoid in the hallways😂😂
AnaLesia Gaubault Cause the keepers are introverts
@@ja_u so true
Because everybody avoids cute guys and they are all very good looking
@@hollystroman4896 lol
AnaLesia true
The fact that she took time to add in and say “Don’t smoke or juul i don’t recommend it.” I love her whattt
Bella Rae for real no one ever does that💯
Bella Rae and she even posted something on her story warning people not to :D
Should of said it in front of their faces
Yes ma’am 🤩
lil_bad_BABY lol I do all the time
10k likes for nothing
Isa Fujieda-Martinez he’s cute too 🥺😔
Yesss, he's the best man in the carrr
Isa Fujieda-Martinez he was really respectful and so nice
Natalie Farmer & he’s so cutteee🥵
yup
They say they don't like basic girls but they look basic af.
He was talking about personality and yall just attacking him
Boom
Good on
Them: I like pretty, outgoing girls.
Me: *ugly introverted girl*
Uh that’s unfortunate
The story of my life
lmao same
Felt that lmaoo
No u r not .. No one is !!!!
Dw they’re basic anyway
“Don’t sleep with 20 girls”
“But 19s ok?”
“Yeah.. as long as one of thems me”
*guys
Boys*
BEST LINE IN THE WHOLE VIDEO
Life of Ray LMFAOOO
Time stamp???
Mai saying she has no friends and she gets 6 male friends in a car and makes a video, like 😂
She made no friends in her new place. Those are her childhood friends.
She’s getting trained
Your End Here x wow just shutup
Catherine Van okay Karen
Woman: *walks out of a store*
*sees a girl in a car with 5 guys*
Woman: 👁👄👁
Alaina Flores 6 guys
It's 6
I’m pretty sure there are 6 guys but ok
Not for most of the video. He left literally 2 mins before the vid ended soooo..... 6
Peyton Overholt literally stfu you sound annoying by the way you type
All the girls that’s feeling self-conscious about yourself based on these gentlemen preference. Just know your still beautiful and a soul mate is out there somewhere. Don’t worry about a guy just yet be successful first 😁
Terra Esme thx.😂❤️🎉
Terra Esme Im so much of a polar opposite to these guys...
But girls never make the first step thats so dumb.. Im self conscious too gurl
Terra Esme 💜
Jacku Dark I guess that’s good .. I think
Yeah. I wasn't even taking these guys that seriously
I love that she’s so easy going and can literally not be awkward around guys... I could never :(
Honestly just try not to overthink it lol usually guys won't think too hard about a situation or make things awkward unless they're into you or you're being awkward towards them. I just say so because I grew up with four older brothers haha.
I was ur 1000th like
Same! Huhu
I cannn relatee :'((
@@isapositiva2661 Wow thank you. I over think every little thing when dudes are around. Even when I say "here" in class I spend like 10 minutes thinking about how weird or awkward I sounded. Definitely gonna stop that lol
“If you see a girl with cigarettes that’s a big turn off” *immediately hits his juul after*
Yeah nah Juuls and ciggs are different mate
Jesus The light bringer do you realize it’s litterally an e cig? nobody finds that attractive lmao
i like at 997 now literally one second later ur at 1k
@@mystrangeaddictiontotwice9098 actually cigs are worse
Jesus The light bringer nah man, they just haven’t been around as long so there’s not enough evidence to show how bad it is. Juul pods have the same amount of nicotine in them as 20 cigarettes and there’s so many teens out there that go through a juul pod like every two days. Also, nicotine poisoning is a thing.
Boys don't like shy girls? Welp.. i will leave the chat then
cuts a lot of us out :(
kyliee c. Sad...:(
kyliee c. These guys here don’t, that doesn’t mean there aren’t guys out there who do.
@@batmanlikespizza2541 like who?😭 don't give me hope lmao
kyliee c. At different points in your life you will and have met them. Just get out there and you’ll find him because everyone’s taste isn’t the same.
The one on the right in the front is the only one girls would like
Also Lowkey the guy she’s sitting on
Ikr. Physically and Mentally he's attractive
Yess
or the guy in the back behind the guy in the front...
Yes.only one that seems nice:)
mai: do you like when girls say "bro"?
all boys: noooo
me: personally attacked
my bad mai didn't even say that it was noal lol
SAME SMH
me too
Oof well time for me to change
Same hahahaha. I always use "bro" hahaha
Guys: I like girls who are outgoing and easy to talk to
Me and my anxiety: ...
Same
BITCH SAME LMAO
Hahahah me too . I was like well....
Leïla Grace omg sameeee
Leïla Grace ME :(
I love how the guy in the black hoddie said “dating the best girl ever” and the others are just like “taken”😂😬
These are Boys I would never date 🤷🏻♀️😂
DOOLEY same
Exactly
Same
periodt
Same
Guy with the rose hoodie is the best one. Can def tell he’s a MAN!! We had no choice but to stan
..yikes
YASSSS
Wait is there actually a guy wearing a rose hoodie in the car ??
@@dorratrojette yes?
I'm Bang PD Wifeuu the one with the black hoodie in the front
I love how she is just sitting on that guy casually
Milky 101 ik omg
The first thing i saw
That made me soooo uncomfortable lol
LOL I’ve known him for so long he’s noal’s older brother, their both like brothers to me
@@maiphammy hahaha it's normal sit on a friend's lap kids just don't get it.
Them: I dont like girls that smoke or do drugs.
also them: cant put their juul or vapes or whatever away for one video.
Okay th way he’s letting her sit on his lap is so cute
Tarleen Sandhu
Shippppppppp
Sandhu....Sandhu farms....
Well this video just proved im never getting a boyfriend 💀
Same
Dude boys turned out to be sooooooo different than i expected i’ve never had a true guy friend
Same xD
I was the 1k like haha
1k damn IM FAMOUS NOW BYE
Naah these guys are not in highschool. They are in their mid 30s with a family and they have mortgages.
THIS COMMENT
I know right
Ikr
Uchiha 😂😂
George Boseah thank you
take a shot every time he hits his juul
I love how shes basically squished in the seat wit her friend😂😂😂😂😂
Mai : “I’m gonna be lonely this school year, I literally hang out with no one”
Also Mai: *makes a vid with 6 guy friends*
From my hometown I don’t live there
maiphammy ohhh I’m dumb as hell 😳
Chelsea Maalaea lmao they’re close friends?
Chelsea Maalaea and? They’re literally friends nothing more. Not a big deal 😂
Your so gorgeous wha-
The comment section is basically 90 percent of the girls feeling attacked on a personal level because they say bro too much 😂
MK Niazi27 okay this was me
That’s me tho like I say it to my bro’s
i would 'bro' a guy i like
mk steel lmaoooo
okk yea maybe i should stop that habit lmao
There's a reason the front right guy has a girlfriend lol he seems like a catch
i agree, he seems really sweet
Which one the left or the right one if it’s the right one he’s cute
@@sugarysweet1415 the right
aha ha ok
Like sitting on the right or on the right of the screen
“If she was 5’9 would it be okay?”
“That’s pretty tall idk.”
*Me, 5’9:* wow ok
Michelle P i’m 6'4
Michelle P i’m 5’11 and 14 years old.
6'2 and 14
That's just prefference. I'm 6'1 and I like girls below 5'4. Some guys like taller women
Felt that
"Girls who smoke cigs" turnoff 😶 they're literally vaping in nicotine 😂
It's just different tho 😂 cigarettes are nastyyyy
Ky Gje it’s basically the same. Ones just more appealing cause of the flavours. Both deadly
@@donthinkso9740 vaping isn't deadly 🙄
Ky Gje but they are still not good for your lungs
@@aliciachang4077 no where near as bad as cigarettes. The thing in cigarettes that kills you Is the tar. Vape juice has nicotine and some filler stuff. It's just the addictive part. Nothing's deadly other than cigarettes 🤷
This made me realize I really need some guy friends
Pepppaaa what are you doing in the comments section?
me too
I have guy friends there dumb as hell. One of them is missing a hand and the others made out of paper for him.
What about danny dog and pedro pony
PeppaPig what about danny dog
they say “ don’t be basic, be different “ and how they don’t like girls that dress the same, but then there’s them over here that ALL dress the same and are also basic
kendal they just wearing hoodies sunglasses and caps and have the nerve to say other people are basic
“would you date a girl if she was 5’8”-5’9”?”
“no that’s pretty tall”
me: **cries in 5’11 at 14**
Bruh I'd kill to have your height
Luizz nah man it’s impossible to get a boyfriend and i’m like a foot taller than all my friends, plus my hands are huge so i can’t do the cute hand-comparison thing with guys
Luizz sameeeee 😓
Same height and age oml it is a struggle isn't it
@@oldacct4112 I bet ur still a cutie ❤️❤️
who else is a junior and still hasn’t dated anyone or had their first kiss😅😅
popchip 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️
popchip I’m a freshman in college don’t rush focus on fun and getting good grades.
Nevaeh Montez dw I am but sometimes i just get lonely😪
Yep😬😂
I thought I was the only one😭
I love how Maiphammy keeps saying “I’m so ugly” when she is freaking beautiful and has a wonderful personality, and is sitting in between 10 boys lmao
"Do you like it when girls say bro?" Literally everyone said, "Nooooo!" I feel personally attacked and offended. Because I don't care who you are, what your gender is. You are either "Bro" or "Dude."
Vaping/smoking/juuling is a turn off 🤭🤭🤭
Potato Wedges lol they were actually smoking though sooo lol
Eva McArthur uh yeah lmao she said they were vaping in the beginning of the video
“Yo me and Mai are gonna date, we are.... at least I want to”
Why can't he? He has to Date our queen!!
WHAT THE TIME STAMP
cassie mitts 10:31
U got 666 likes
Alyssa Rachelle they should
It’s good how you have actual boys to give the opinions instead of just sitting by yourself tryna tell us
Zach is literally giving me the chills. He looks like hero (hardin). Omg 💕💕💕💕💕💕
danii mohobi thankk youu. Somone mentioned it finalllyyy
danii mohobi which ones zach
@@malindaxie500 the one in the back on the right side
Lisa Sterne thx
THATS LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING THE WHOLE VIDEO
Them: physical appearances matter a lot
Me: -cries in ugly-
mai: “do you like it when a girl says bro”
the guys: “no”
me: “bro i say bro all th- wait”
Desiree Lynne that’s because most men are afraid of their masculinity being taken away. It’s how they’re raised. 🙃
Sameee 😂
Evangeline S. Dude chill it wasn’t even that serious bro like chill bro like
Mooooood!!! Lol I say bro and dude way to much 😂😂
Evangeline S. THE SHADE, I LOVE IT
no ones talking about how stunning mai looks in this video, like black hair looks so bomb on you mai.
i knowww
If all guys think like this, then I’ll never find a mans
dont worry they dont, they're high school boys, not men 😂
My favorite dude is the one quietly vaping in the background
Amen🙏🏾
AH THE GUY IN THE BACK 😂😂😂 “Do they do that in girls group chats?” Edit: (Lol thx for the likes)
iamyoungjemia oh you have nooo ideaaa bud
Lily Sittner noooooo idea
They’re all in black 😂
Corynn Held no the one in the back who was like “do they do that in girls groupchats 😮”
i was your 2000th like your welcome bro ♡
“ what if she was 5’8 or 5’9 “
them - “ nah that’s kinda tall “
me - i feel attacked.
They're ugly and Americans too. No hate to Americans, I'm American lol BUT the guys here are either average height of 5'9 - 5'10 or shorter. Europe Australia, and Greece has tall men. I say those specific countries because I ha e GONE TO EACH and I'm 5'10. And it was wonderful 😌
Lol same :(
girl i felt this!!!! im 5’10 🤧
Same tho, I'm 5'8.5 and I was about to cry since I've struggled with being taller them most of my peers and slouching because I think the person behind me can't see. But here's a story of mine. I was with my guy friend that was 6'4(true blessing, that height.) And I told him about my insecurities of being a tall woman and not being able to find a dude to date. He told me that a tall woman is actually very beautiful and if they carry themselves right, they appear way more confident and the first to be noticed in a crowd and I should take advantage of that. And boy oh boy, I wanted him as my boyfriend from that point on :"
On the edge i’m canadian and all the guys here at average or below
When he said “they want what they can’t have” I felt that
“girls with nice teeth”
me: *is getting braces in a few weeks and is already insecure about it* 🙂🙂🙂🙂
tbh no one cares if you have braces, they dont even look that bad some people acc look cute with them on
everybody in my school wants braces, braces are super cute
well eventually u will get nice teeth!
Christina Georgiou
Hey you’re all good! Braces are cute! And besides after you get them off you’ll have straight teeth. Just know that what was said in the video doesn’t really matter, and you shouldn’t let what they said define how “attractive” you are. ✊
Trust me, it's worth it to get that beautiful smile. I had braces and still could get it. And now they're off and I'm not afraid to smile and laugh, like I was before I had braces.
Them hits juul
Also them:if a girl smokes it’s a turn off
Me:.....okk
Ikr so hypocritical
Idk the main thing about cigarettes that’s gross is like the smell. And it sticks in clothes/hair. With vaping if someone’s not doing it right then and there you can’t tell they did it at all.
lexy. lexy smokes cigarettes
lexy. lexy cigarettes
I feel you
Okay the guy in the rose hoody was actually giving good advice 😂
Catherine Winstanley he’s lowkey highkey cute :)
he probably is in a happy and committed relationship & is good a keeping a girl
Catherine Winstanley and he’s super cute too!
And the most good looking!
everyone: smoking is gross
that one kid vaping in the back
1:45
What advice do you have for freshman girls about senior guys?
"stay on the right side of the hall"😂😂😂😂
Aeriel its a problem in the school😂
Honestly it should just be “stay away from all upperclassmen boys” 🤦🏻♀️ Sophomore boys are just as bad as the juniors and seniors 💁🏻♀️
Realest advice lmao
@@suckmyprettytoes thx i am going to be a freshman and im so scared😰
Aeriel My bad, didn’t mean to scare ya. Just saying that most high school boys are immature and are just looking to get into your pants. So stay safe, curve them fboys and focus on your studies ! (And I know I may look like a hypocrite because I’m dating a soon to be senior. But I really love and care about him. And we’ve been through so much together so.. I mean.. I couldn’t imagine just letting him go after making all those memories with him. And trusting him and all that cliche shiz)
Guy: be Unique, be different than your friends group
Guy:*is having matching outfits with his whole friends group*
Anja Vukoja Personality wise...🤦♂️
Her: "mom am going to car with 6 boys and they are my friends and we are doing a q&a thing u know "
Mom: "yeah i trust u"😂😂
The guys: say nice teeth are attractive
Me with ugly teeth: *cries*
*Mai leaves to get another battery for her camera*
The boys: " OKAY THIS IS OUR TIME FOR IG SHOUT OUT BOYS"
Mai editing: HA YOU THOUGHT 🤡
mai: “i have no friends i’m gonna be so lonely this school year”
also mai: *makes video with 6 guys*
Six cute boys
she said they are her friends from her home town so they might not live where she lives
As someone who just graduated from highschool, I sincerely think majority of highschool boys are very immature. They’re still growing and learning about themselves. You can’t expect a long lasting relationship unless they’re sincere and caring. I’ve dated my highschool boyfriend for over two years and giving him some room to grow and encouraging him, really helped develop his character in a way that is beneficial for his (and hopefully both of our) future(s). So, my point is ladies, don’t immediately fall for guys that could break your hearts and/or have a fling with and expect a long lasting relationship. As someone who I believe I found the perfect guy, my advice is to choose the one with the best personality as all looks go away. Look for the one that makes you laugh even when you’re upset and the one who goes out of their way to make you happy. Love will find you eventually. Don’t rush into it.
For real, if there is any girl watching this video, liking boys is not our purpose in life. During all our lives we have been taught how to behave to like boys. “Don’t act like that” “Don’t say you like that” “Be more feminine, boys don’t like masculine girls” well fuck that. We are already constantly being told how we have to be. Now is time for us to live our lives as free as boys do. So honestly, the only thing you have to be is yourself, and it doesn’t matter what that means. And don’t worry if you don’t know who you are yet, you will figure it out someday, and you have all your life for that. But until that, don’t waste your time with people who don’t worth it. Please. Do it for yourself. For all of us. Be who you want to be. Don’t feel ashamed of anything about you. You are a beautiful person. Be yourself, and if the boys you like don’t like you back because of that, they reaally don’t worth it. This was just a friendly reminder to love yourself a little bit more.
:)
I wonder why after all these speech you got only 9 likes in 2 years
You guys should do a “who knows mai the best” that would be so funny omg
trixxpydiana for reallll
"i like an outgoing girl"
uh... me sitting here as an introvert
literally same
Sameeee
Can't Relate
Well... they like that, but there's many boys out there who might like introvert girls. These boys are just normies sorry
@@micaelaclifford2729 ppl say I look intimidating and they think I'm mysterious but I really just hate talking
I like how honest they were by answering those questions
The one that you are sitting is my favorite because he’s just soo sweet and he’s adorable and actually genuine with his answers lol but that’s my opinion
This video called me lonely in 17 different languages
Bassagirl Bishop sameeee 💀
The guy with the Jordan cap/Rose on their hoodie. He’s my favvv!!!!! He seems like a sweetheart
Natalie Marte defff 😩
fr
Natalie Marte yessss
Natalie Marte same 🤤
Rt x 100
do u guys like it when girls say bro: *no*
*calls girl dude or bro*
Some of these answers they are giving make me feel attacked lol 😂
Same omg I’m an introvert so it’s hard to watch this
Them having a full on discussion:
Guy in the back pulls out a random basketball out of nowhere
Noel is the one friend that gives relationship advice but is never actually in a relationship 😂
But Its ok cause that’s me😂😔
Same honestly
Lexi Wuebker same 💀🚮
the coach doesn’t play the game
Coaches don't play the game 🤷♀️😣
Deadasss Noel is me in real Iife I'm like the Dr Phil in my friend group
Me watching this 4yrs later realising they were right🥲😂
I just wanna live with zach. He was so cute at the back
“Lots of times the shy people are outgoing once you get to know them”
That literally is so me 🤣
Edit: wow thanks this is the most likes I’ve ever got 😮
Same
Felt that
its almost like people aren't comfortable around complete strangers 🤔
Yup is true!
THANK YOU for not encouraging juuling/vaping. most high schoolers would neverrrrrrrr
the two guys in the front are actually guys that girls would like
the two guys in the front are definitely my favourites aww💞
Is no one Gona mention how the one guy slowly got out and was like “I’m going to work” and no one said bye😂😂
Kerryanne C i thought i was the only one😂😂😭
Me too 🤣🤣
@@hinan2073 9:04 but mai cut the part when he left so they probably said goodbye to him then
My smile dropped right there, plus i know I'm watching her video late but hey! i still watched it! 😊
I LAUGHED SO HARD
“do you like girls who say bro?”
NOOOO
me: bro wtf
talool tala I say bruh lol
I say broski
talool tala same
@@bluefacebabey6667 sameee lmao
I say bro, broski, and bruh. Wow I suck.
yo when they said to be unique it actually made me happy because I feel like I've been wanting to be more basic but I'll just stick to being a introverted ginger who loves reading, playing the violin, and having my own sense in style
Relatable as always! Mai is one of the best CZcamsrs, she’s so authentic and real, it’s like her Channel is a teenage diary! Keep slayying, abs just being the amazing sister you are!!!
I definitely dig and appreciate the implementation of short reference clips
The most wholesome part
Mai: “does bra size matter”
The boys: “no”
i’m not even looking for a relationship I JUST NEED A FRIEND 😩
hannah khong yo I need a friend too
hannah khong mememe
this hit too close to home
hannah khong same girl same😭
Same
this squad just seems so fun
Her energy lit asf ✨😩🔥
BAHAHAHAHA HE LOOKED SO SHOOK WHEN HE FOUND OUT GIRLS SEND SS’s 💀💀😂
* freshman girls have entered the chat *
The one with the rose hoodie is so cute
the front two guys are so wholesome
so when noal said he lowkey wanted to date you... does that mean there's another follow up video to the dating my bestfriend for 24 hours one?
Phiona Nicole YEAH I HOPE MAI DOES DATE HIM....OR ATLEAST A DAY..!!!!
Yesssss
Yaaassss
@@Leona_Ily I think she already did in this video czcams.com/video/kKzCPE-mCas/video.html
mai is really out here uploading multiple times a week, people need to appreciate her more
my favorite is the one you’re sitting next to (blue shirt), he’s definitely treats girls right
She should do this but with her girl friends
"I'm the youngest and I'm single," -Noal
I don't know why I laughed so hard when he said that.
5:10 “nice teeth”
Me: *sitting here with crooked teeth already self conscious about my smile*
Also me: *curls up in a ball*
😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
I have a missing tooth plus braces, please kill me😅
Shxnelle’s World I feel you🥺
It doesn’t matter, I bet you’re still beautiful
María Parralo this made my year🥺
14 y/old and insecure about my crooked teeth. Cant wait for braces :|