Understand some of these females who wear hijab don't follow Islam fully, some don't even pray, they wear hijab because of cultural, to seem like good girl, to get attention of being different... she might be one of those females...her arguing against hadeeth shouldn't be surprising.
Patience is a good virtue to have especially in debates keeping calm gets people more likely to listen to you compared to an angry person even if the calm person is lying ( Ali dawah didn’t lie a single second in this vid it’s simply an example ظء)
I may have a solution for you brother: (TLDR: Read books/Listen to audiobooks/Listen to debates) I had severe anger issues as a young man and would start throwing punches within moments of being agitated (I never ever hit a woman, I'm refferring to arguments with men). What gave me patience in moments of verbal conflict is I listened to a lot of debates and audiobooks on CZcams for fun and through that I learned how to handle myself because after 4 or 5 months I started to feel like I just downloaded the ability to handle myself verbally. This coupled with confidence in the fact that I can physically defend myself if someone attacks me has given me the ability to just observe the other person no matter how much I disagree.
This comment deserves so much more recognition than it currently holds. The youth are too busy inflating their egos through beautification of words over the beautification of their perspective, logic and knowledge.
GREAT POINT! This was one of the most frustrating debate ive ever watched. Im 18 and I live in the western world (USA) this upset me. Feminism is a poison to everything
Lower your gaze even if it's your wife. I'm sure that mindset came from a girl who marries for money, support and not from a woman who marries for love and companion.
Lmao you're such a pick me, i would rather be in a relationship with a rich man knowing i have nothing to worry about, "love and companion" bs, if u would choose to be with a man for "love" when he's broke and can't get a job then it's all on u and don't cry later about how difficult ur life is.
He is also following his own opinion. He says that hadith says the weakness of a man is wemen. Ok, but does the hadith says that men have more sexual rights than wemen because of this weakness ?
@@ebadurrahman7848 the same chari'ah also allows slavery, "milk al yamin", "Jihad attalab", muslims only follow salat, zakat, siyam... the basic traditional stuff but when it comes to the heavy stuff everyone turn their eye..
@@chehrazadeesmey8399 Yes if a women deny her husband s intimacy for no reason..and her husband feel angry and upset she will be cursed by angels till morning!! And same goes for women..if a women wants intimacy if a men deny for no reason ,then its a sin tooo And other thing..if a women deny mens intimacy which lead husband to bad stuff then the women will be punished by allah....evrything goes vice versa The girl here said if he cant control go masturbate thats the biggest sin..She will highly punished by allah
as a muslim female its so sad to see muslim women being FEMINIST men have rights in marriage women have rights in marriage we shouldn't deny any of thier rights
to be honest, as a teenage girl i faced this situation as well.. it changed over time.. as a 17 year old, she has a lot more to learn.. may Allah shows her the right path❤
Do you know around 97% of muslims who read from the arabic Qur'an don't understand its meaning. and when this happens you know what we start relying upon? our own life, television and programs with lots of karmas and social acceptances. thats the biggest risk one can take.
@@chintuz1002 these topics are important to educate young people on so they don’t make mistakes in the future or have a bad influence on others and cause disruption and also they learn these from their teenage friends wouldn’t you prefer it to be parents and adults who are genuinely looking out for you
Failure consueness produces Sin consueness, Sin consueness produces self rightousness, Self rightiousness produces self Pride and self Pride produces self Destruction. One of the worst examples of Muslims are their incredibly intuitive inability to think beyond existing frameworks. They cannot questioned established premises, which will led them to revolutionary theories. A careful study also show that Muslims are unable for running “thoughtful experiments” in their minds, which involved visualizing hypothetical scenarios and their outcomes. Truth hurts.
He has 10 people yelling at him demanding his time, his attention, and his response… but as soon as he tries to respond back to one of them the other starts yelling at him….bruv I feel for Brother Ali 😭😫.
Yeah and mocking him, annoying people were interrupting him and joining in. I can't take all that patience like Ali Dawah. May Allaah reward him. Aameen
MashaAllah brother, it’s really feeling very proud when I see a muslim brother like you with having so much talents, and guiding our people with such a valuable positive discussion. Good job brother.
My point in a nutshell was, husband willing to put his life on the line for his wife but she isn’t ready to put what’s halal for him on the bed 🤦♂️😆. Feminist logic lol
Next time tell those women that that's the reason we can have more than one wife. So that when she is not in the mood we can go to another one 🙄 Hope they won't have any objections
I didn't realize how these 40 mins went by. Alhamdulillah, You are very knowledgeable and patient. TBH I would've literally handed over the mic and said shout all you want at the top of your lungs so that once you loose your voice I'll continue to speak without interruption (of course no one say it this way, but i would get hella pissed). My blood pressure rose just by hearing the arguments. I don't know how you keep that smile on your face, Superb work.✨✨🙂
As a women myself, she was really embarrassing. That conversation was a rant from her and not for learning. She asks question and then doesn't want to listen. It's like she just wanted Ali just to agree with her. None of her arguments was intellectually put but rather a little child having a tantrum
Edit: ok so just found out she's only 17. Now makes more sense. At that age your more argumentative rather then letting anything sink in. She's not even really ready to have this kind of conversation. Hope she keeps seeking right kind of knowledge. And eventually submit to islam and not feminism. I sincerely hope Allah Guide her.
Sister absolutely right you are.. She is a teenager and not matured. Also lacks knowledge. I hope when she's grown up, she'll realise her mistakes and how wrong her opinions were! Our muslim sisters having this type of mentality bcz of the society and toxic feminism as well. May Allah guide her to the right path.
@@fightforrights3834 yea but it doesn’t mean you start ranting immaturely, we have professional atheist speakers and Islamic speakers and they debate maturely about if god is real or not.
I’m honestly lost for words men wanting to have intimacy with their wives is weird but committing a sin by playing with your private parts is considered better by this girl 😂
These sooo called FEMINIST women are THE Real Threat to our present World!!!!! ALL these FEMINISTS including few musllim women in the name of ISLAM are 💯 absolutely Hypocrites!!!! They are all CANCER for our modern Societies !!!! MAY ALLAH SWT EXPOSE THEIR DIRTY FACE and let ALL OF us remain away from these DEADLY SNAKES 🐍!!! Ameeeeeeeen.
@@Khalid_Mohamed The Prophet Salalahu Alaihi Wasallam (I am paraphrasing) mentioned something along the lines of that it will be very hard to follow the religion as if you were holding on to hot charcoal. That's what the brother meant
At 17 year old I dont think she is mature enough to have this conversation, she needs someone who she trusts to teach her the basics of aqeedah as a foundation before having these other conversations.
I’ll be honest I wasn’t a fan of this man just by seeing clips of him. He grew on me. I’m not a Muslim but he’s fair when he debates and knows his talking points. And he debates in a respectful manner. And he’s passionate. So I am happy I have him the chance and enjoy his videos. It’s Amazing when you allow yourself to come in open minded.
I love this brother may Allah keep him blessed, shout out from me to you in from Luton my brother my name is Haroon I’m always watching ur video fam keep up that great work 🤲🏾 🇵🇸
@@khilji143 I'm not a Muslim cause I follow Christianity and believe that Jesus rose from the death, and that Jesus is God. It's so sad that this many people are following the wrong religion and will not be able to go to heaven. Repent now to Jesus Christ and be saved.
@@zerotsu8701 No Hate bro Peace & Respect All Religion Because Your respect Other Religion Hindhu Christian Sheik ETC. Then He is Back Respect your Religion
@@royalray7833 no that is not true If i were his place i would have gone mad by that time He is doing great actually and not because you don't like his opinion that you try to make him looks bad
My ex wife a hijabi feminist who kept on throwing her phd in my face. Is now single and miserable with great regret. She kept on saying to lower your gaze and would neglect me for literally years… she didn’t understand a man’s nature at all and her dad made her think she’s Cinderella spoon-fed her and raised her naive and sheltered. Brothers if you know you are super healthy and have an over the top libido, you better make sure that you marry someone who has a traditional understanding of deen and not this feminist westernized bullshit. It literally has destroyed dozens of Islamic households in front of my eyes including mine. Then when you bring up a second wife she says you’re a misogynist and threatens to leave you and take the kids.
a big part of marriage is to protect oneself from zina These same women who are so adamant on refusing intimacy from their husbands will also get angry if he attempts to get a second wife... Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
These sooo called FEMINIST women are THE Real Threat to our present World!!!!! ALL these FEMINISTS including few musllim women in the name of ISLAM are 💯 absolutely Hypocrites!!!! They are all CANCER for our modern Societies !!!! MAY ALLAH SWT EXPOSE THEIR DIRTY FACE and let ALL OF us remain away from these DEADLY SNAKES 🐍!!! Ameeeeeeeen.
Bro the way she is talking is so much frustrating and annoying , you made your words in such a polite way. The calm and patience you maintained are on another level. Just keep it up brother you are doing a great job.
The problem is that many women don't learn what a man is so for example you've got people like her thinking men can control themselves when it comes to you know...
@@Nope991 What blows my mind she said it was Aiib which is not, feeling horny is normal and they want you to suppress feelings this is why Feminism is so dangerous, because If this lady get married and have a boy she will tell him it's wrong to feel how Allah created you as a man so don't do that and then later on you have a feminine boy that will probably talk about how men and woman aren't equal.
"We don't follow your opinion , we follow shariyah" well said Ali Dawah.... That's actually a deep point to think upon.... If you want the blessing of ALLAH SUBHANA WATA'ALA then submit to his commands and his laws..... And keep your desires , opinions and ego aside .... Thats what a Muslim means..... Just stay firm in your Deen...and don't get influenced by the thoughts and opinions which shaytaan puts in your heart.... Jazakallahu khairan brother 💖
@@lolapalo Sharia is rule of Allah SWT and sunnah is what the prophet Muhammad sallalahu alyhi wa sallam used to do and asked us to do for example getting married and growing the beard
"Submit to Islam not to feminism" well said. That shows that wearing hijab does not mean you are a good Muslim woman and acquire the correct knowledge of your religion !!
Feminism is not haram and everyone should be a feminist. It's not fair how women are treated at all . And to say you have a wife to satisfy you sexually is just disgusting.
@@sadequakhanam8359 just say that you are anti-men and hate men. Just say that Allahs way of designing a man’s nature is flawed and disgusting. Just say it
Yes it is haram. And you saying women are treated badly and then going to feminism shows you lack an understanding of Islam. Your problem is with bad Muslims not Islam. Feminism leads to chaos and families breaking apart, so it indeed is a haram ideology. It pits men against women. A true Muslim does not need any other ideologies. We are Muslim, that's all we need to be. @@sadequakhanam8359
In a way, that's true, since feminism does support the LGBT mafia. Not only that, they also support all types of abortions. Islam has its own rules on abortions for instance. Being a feminist means you trust in humans more than God. Feminists turn women and men into mindless puppets that spew out their illogical talking points without ever considering how foolish what they say actually is@@Andrew_Ahmed
I personally met Ali and he is a wonderful man. He is 100% on point on what he is saying. As a Muslim married man and a father I can confirm this. May Allah SWT protect us rightly and forgive us all of our transgressions if any, Ameen ! Allah hu Akbar !
What a dangerous statement, naudhubillah. ...anyone of any age, who adopts this metality with any divine law is suffering from toxic spiritual immaturity. Allah guide us all.
@@sameehaseedat652 you're right, we shouldn't rebel against Allah's judgment even if we don't understand it fully. May Allah grant us sincerity even in the little faith we have
Someone please tell me how is it not force then? If a woman refuse, she will be cursed on. So she isnt physically forced, but she is mentally forced to oblige knowing if she doesnt, she will be cursed upon from angels. So she will do it, despite not wanting to, because otherwise she will be cursed at. To me, that's force.
She can refuse if she is sick ( mentally or physically) but " I'm not in the mood " or that type of things are not allowed and the same things goes for men .the Prophet said women have a right over men and men have a right over women .
@@AhmedMiad Thank you for response. What about being tired ? Also, what if a woman refuse and he is totally okay with it, does that then make it alright or she is being cursed regardless if he's upset or not?
Honestly let's not hate on her. It's better to educate. I had this period in my life where i was questionning woman's place too but this helped me embrace islam much more at the end of the day
We dont hate on anyone, we hate the actions or our deeds, everyone can change and be better, we need to be more tolerant especially towards young people but say it how it is.
Same she's not a feminist she's just questioning and lost. That was me and I swear every woman goes through this and we can get rlly defensive and emotional 😅
I am not a muslim. As a woman in general we as woman should not neglect our duties to cater to our husbands. It should be a pleasure to make sure that my husband has peace at home after all the hard work to fend for his family. I should be the one to satisfy his desires so that he knows he has happiness and relaxation. We should create a happy environment for our husbands. Women are loosing sight of themselves and their worthy because of so called feminism.
To suggest a woman being threatened by a man with a knife and running away is no different than a woman refusing to have sex with her husband is ludicrous.
I feel bad for this girl because I know how it is to be brainwashed with these thoughts. I used to be the same way. It wasn’t until I was married when I understood. I wish I can talk to her and tell her that Subhanallah when you do you obligation as a wife and be intimate with your husband it benefits you as well. Your relationship grows and you feel at ease. Yes there are instances where is difficult and you can refuse but other than that, technically you are oppressing your husband and yourself as well.
I had difficulty understanding it previously. Alhamdulilah my head got clear with time.feminism is pure satanic. Against marital relationships, against making babies, encourage lgtbq and broken family system.feminism is a weapon Very strong and powerful one against Islam.
She is 17, she’ll learn. At that age it’s common for ppl like her to believe they know it all. Life will naturally shape them into a more humble & wiser human being. In sha Allah.
Inshallah she will learn but she is 17 she still is accountable for her actions if she doesn't repent Wallah the most dangerous thing nowadays is ignorance
@@velocitydam5090 I agree, ignorance will kill our society’s will to seek knowledge & truth. I understand she is accountable for her actions however when we’re young we say things we don’t mean/believe later on in life, so as much hate as she’s getting in the comments I do believe we should be understanding that she’s still a kid.
@@notkingali1798 I don’t expect a 17 year old girl to conduct herself properly Infront of a crowded audience in person & online it’s one of those things where yeah you dislike what they’re saying but you understand they’re just ignorant they don’t know better, she will learn in sha Allah
When she said that the man should be patient and the women should be patient, just be equal. I agree on the importance of patience but not on the point of being equal. Also patience has limits. As we already established in the video the drive that men and women have are unequal. As is with many things. And I believe in a relationship, that things are never equal at the exact same time. There is always a give and take, a push and pull, or a balance. Not equality or else nothing would flow or move. In this instance, I think women would need to give of themselves more(though this can vary from person to persob), but men will also give more of themselves in many other instances where the women would require. Therefore creating balance and fairness in the relationship. Atleast this is how i see it as a young muslim myself.
He has made a good point where he demonstrates that each gender has points of strength that should be used willingly and cover the other's drawbacks to perfect the relationship.
I AM A RECENT REVERT AND SO I AM FAMILIAR WITH THAT MINDSET. I BELIEVE ITS A WESTERN FEMINIST MINDSET. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE BUT IT'S VERY NARCISSISTIC.. I LOVE HOW ISLAM JUST FIXES EVERYTHING AND HOW THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERYTHING. I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU FOR SPREADING THE TRUTH. MASHA ALLAH ALI. MY HUSBAND AND I RESPECT YOU VERY MUCH! SALAM ALAKIM!
@@janelserrano496It’s okay I felt the passion from your message through the caps!😂 it’s so so true, the western ideology can be so damaging while Islam makes everything so easy, just and fair🥰
Are you judging me? and spreading false rumors about me how can you say I'm having relationships with non Muslim without any prove Seriously? You know nothing about me so stop judging me by name. Wallahi it's not right what you said thought about me.
I don’t understand if they know how to debate civilly. It annoys me so damn much when everybody is talking over each other or they don’t let one person to finish his/her point
This is why at times you see women with hijab have less knowledge about Islam while some women do not wear hijab but still dress modestly and know the religion teaching far better. Never judge a book by its cover.
@@MrDiMES123 Says a man with lack of knowledge. There is no better or. Each human deeds are personal with their creator. What you see in the exterior is not a measurement how their faithful or not they are to their creator.
I understand his point but there is something he is missing and that is Consent. Sexual intimacy is a physical and energy interchange between husband and wife and therefore it must be recriporcal. Of course both parts must feel sexually satisfied but the fact that you provide financially to your wife does not mean that you can have sex whenever you want. As an ummah we need to develop more sensitivity. We are not animals. Your wife might not feeling in the mood for sexual intimacy, or she might feel sick or she might just not feel any sexual arousal that day and that is fine. Husbands need to respect that because a husband needs this wife consent to have sex otherwise he is forcing her. Obviously of your wife/husband never wants to have sex he/she is taling your right away and that is not fair on you. But you cant expect you partner to feel sexually active anytime you want. This type of speech demonstrate that he dos not really understand how sexual energy works. Having sex is not as easy as pressing a bottom and you are ready for it. Sex arousal depens on how emotionally close you feel to your partner, on how stress you are, on ylur physical and psychologia health. Islam is balance guys alhamdulilah and it feels so natural so we shouldnt be taking extremisms like this. It is fine if your partner is not always on the mood for sex, you can work that out as a couple because more importantly if you wife is Never ready for sexual intimacy there is always something wrong with her. Maybe she is not in the best of health (psychological diatress, physicial sicknes...) or maybe she just dont feel enough close to her man as to have sex. Women's sexual arousal is totally linked to the emotional bond with her husband. And men, as the brother said, have more sexual desires and it takes them less efforts to awake that sexual energy. Get to know your partner, get close to your parttner emotionally and make sure he/she feels respected, valued and satisfied in bed. Sexual intimacy is a gift that Allah gave us to not only to create life and satisfy our desires but to create a special bond with our partners. Alhamdulilah it is an act that is made to dignify you by doing in just with you spouse in a respectfull and meaningful manner. May Allah teach us better.
totally! and while i do understand how a woman expects her husband to protect her (aka fulfill his responsibility) the woman should also fulfill her own responsibilities but to term those "responsibilities" as solely sexual acts is totally different! i understand it is a right of a man for her wife to provide her that, but we need to approach this with empathy and patience. if my husband is sick, not feeling well, in a bad mental space overall, i of course do not expect him to protect me if i'm under attack. if anything i'll switch the roles up and try protecting him to the best of my abilities because he's weak. exactly if your wife is not in the write head space for sexual intimacy, you can't force her! she probably has valid reasons to not do so as you mentioned above.
@@TUTENSKENGS I did not say she was but, how a 17 year old views the world is much different then people in their 20's and above. Inshallah She will look more into the deen, learn and understand these things as she ages.
25:37 Wow..... I'm actually gobsmacked... Look at the question he asks her: Who's closer? A friend or a wife? And she responds with "It depends". Incredible.... There is no male friend I can ever have in the world who will be more dear to me than my wife. I can say that without a shred of doubt, my wife who looks after me, who gave birth to my children, who comforts me in my time of need, who listens and offers me advice when I need it. There can never be a male friend or family member who even comes close to my wife. I love you wife
Praise be to Allah. The Muslim should always give preference to his mother, because it says in a hadeeth that a man said to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Who among the people is most deserving of my good company?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” … (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5514; Muslim, 4621). But the wife takes precedence over the mother in one case, and that is the matter of spending. If the husband cannot afford to spend on both his wife and his mother because he is poor, then in this case he should put his wife before his mother. The Muslim has to give what is due to each person who has a right over him, and he has to help the one who is oppressed. If his mother mistreats his wife, he has to put a stop to it, in a kind and fair manner. And Allaah knows best.
@@infjlogic Ur saying women prioritize a friend over her own husband? If she was in a state where she has to choose, she's to choose a friend? A friend who has her own life to deal with, and u think women prefer another women just bcos they r friends and they can talk about women stuff over her husband, who lives for not himself but his wife and children and is also there to listen to her problems? U think being able to chit chat and talk girl stuff with women are more important than ur life long partner who's ready to sacrifice his life for u and ur children?
Our young sister has asked mulitple times "How is that abuse?" As a woman myself, who went through the pain of menstruation and childbirth alhamdullillah, I don't have to tell or ask you "Do woman feel weakness, pain and hormonal chaos for real all throughout most of her adult life?" Imagine a brother, a man or even your husband comes up to you and gets mad at you for "not perfoming good enough" during your period. He is denying your female nature and all the difficulties you have to bear when going through period/childbirth and is complaining to you that you please "don't act up and get yourself together". Now compare this to a husband who goes to his wife, asks for intimacy and gets a "No. I don't feel like it today. I don't have time. etc" The wife is denying the mens nature and islamic right (What do you think a man marries a woman for? For romance? A cute wedding dress and cake and photos? For some legal papers? If a man could sleep with a woman without having to marry her, let me bring you some news, many many men wouldn't marry and that's reality). It is abuse because YOU are the ONLY option he has to get satisfied. And if YOU don't give it to him, nobody can give it to him THUS that's oppressing him. May Allah forgive and guide me and you to strong and lovely sister, amin.
Well said, she doesn't see that she is his only form of a halal relationship. He cannot commit zina and if he isn't able to afford having 2 marriages then he is trapped. His only choices are Zina, divorce her, or marry another wife. All those options are very time consuming and bring many different problems and challenges. Lower your gaze at home with your wife, the weirdest idea ever said. She wants to be a stranger at home with him, why even get married when you can pay women to give you what you need? She would rather die together in an accident with him than wish for him to survive and take care of their children. She appears to be selfish and doesn't see that most wives want the best for their husband's should they fall sick or get into an accident. She would rather he die with her than he survive. Most people would rather die than see their loved one die before them.
@@paralleluniverse298 there are many places around the world where you can find traditional women but they are at home usually. I was helping a family friend with some computer problem and the daughter was very religious. She prayed all her prayers and was reading hadith. I didn't talk to her much but she listened to her mother and didn't watch TV or movies. Finding someone like that is so hard unless you use family connections and ask someone at the masjid for assistance. We just see the mainstream typical woman and believe all hope is lost. A good way in general is to avoid western or westernized women. They have feminist ideas and rarely know anything about starting a family. Someone who takes their religion seriously will be easier to deal with in non western countries. Each generation is getting further and further away from basic knowledge of Islam.
@@moseley5151 if he gets it from you and not find the same thing as haram in the street, he will love you. And care about you. Give you his best. Yes, you should marry him even if u think it's just sex he wants. Doing it with the wife is a good deed. Outside the marital bedroom is a sin. I've been there, having been denied for over a year. Imagine that patience, didn't commit zina. In the end, the marriage broke on her request while I gave preference and importance to our kids rather than my own.
I don't understand why this is a problem. If both sides recognize each other's right, understand each other, following the Islamic teachings, then there shouldn't be any problem. My husband never asks when he sees me very tired, sick or even upset with something. On the other hand, whenever he asks, I MAKE myself in the mood, believing, in syaa Allah, Allah will make it easy for me. And He did, everytime. So I have never felt oppressed, tortured, or anything bad by it. We've been married for almost 30 years, and it has NEVER been a problem, since day 1. And I hope it will never will be...
the point of marriage is to be able to act on your desires. ya Allah, i am a 17 year old woman too and i wanna get married to be able to act on my desires. what is wrong with these feminists flowering brain dead
My ex wife a hijabi feminist who kept on throwing her phd in my face. Is now single and miserable with great regret. She kept on saying to lower your gaze and would neglect me for literally years… she didn’t understand a man’s nature at all and her dad made her think she’s Cinderella spoon-fed her and raised her naive and sheltered. She was so abusive and insulting … it was downright giving me cancer. I literally had to be hospitalized one day cause she gave me a mild stroke wallah. She would compare me to other men saying they have postgrad degrees and are executives at a corporation and I run a few small businesses, and actually making good income. She would down right drag me through the mud. Brothers if you know you are super healthy and have an over the top libido, you better make sure that you marry someone who has a traditional understanding of deen and not this feminist westernized bullshit. It literally has destroyed dozens of Islamic households in front of my eyes including mine. Then when you bring up a second wife she says you’re a misogynist and threatens to leave you and take the kids. She would say to me I’m not normal for wanting intimacy all the time etc. I would say but then I’m outside all day long and I eventually will fall into temptations and she would say just lower your gaze like Allah says lol. She would say I’m tired and unwell all the damn time. She would bring the kids into our bed saying there’s no room for me at night.
@f3mcell this is the biggest problem wallah. The father doesn’t teach his daughter basic Islamic principles. He just says my daughter is a princess and a phd and she is always right. I always lowered my tone and was respectful to him but he’d just take her side. He said to me once how come you don’t have 3 houses for her and that I’m hiding money from my businesses. I tried to go to few mufti’s and shaikhs to seek counseling to intervene and help us. They would say no, we don’t want any shaikhs telling us what to do. I said ok let’s go to marriage counseling and she’d say there’s nothing wrong. I said the Hadith says the angels are cursing you. I literally have women throwing themselves at me outside. I have a fist length beard and am on strict sunnah with all aspects of my life. I can’t go around committing zina or look at porn and masturbate as she would tell me. I said that brings darkness in our lives and it’s completely haram. She said she blames it on post natal problems.
@@groupno.3ghulammohaiuddin_485 no because I divorced her and remarried and she was begging me to take her back. Reality hit her really hard. She’s a mental case.
@@mehmet20003 not everyone is educated the same. Allah says those who don't know will not be judged the same as those who know. A 25 year old can be less mature than a 16 year old based on raising and experience. So no its better for you to not judge and pray for their guidance rather than come on the internet shaming a girl you know nothing about..that's only causing soule negative. Much love and inshallah your life is blessed.
@@peaceinthemiddleeast first you are obligated to learn the religion and if you talk without knowledge it is a sin if your ignorant or not. There is no excuse for this behavior nothing I said was shamimg or "sould negativity" what rven is this
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Understand some of these females who wear hijab don't follow Islam fully, some don't even pray, they wear hijab because of cultural, to seem like good girl, to get attention of being different... she might be one of those females...her arguing against hadeeth shouldn't be surprising.
Calling the sister feminist is considered slander, and people in the comment section are insulting her
Ali Dawah have you watched Javed Ahmad Ghamidi.
"We don't follow your opinion, we follow Islam" Spot on, Brother Ali.
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i cant lie i died when i heard that lmao
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@@Estxx193 to deliver the point
Chad.
Poor girl got strangled in the western feminism bs. She picks and chooses what she accepts within Islam.
Perfectly said.
Wallah it's sad to see may Allah give us Guidance
This is called accepting Islam only when governed through Western ideals.
@@khaled147 perfect example of Christianity
@inaayah this is how mooostt sisters are in the west. Even daeeyahs . Some are just more vocal than others
This man’s patience is on another level. May Allah bless him.
fr im got headache just by watching this chaotic conversation but he like yo chill
“You can call me milkshake if you like, strawberry flavour” 😂
this mans level of patience is something i wish i had😭
Ong bro
Patience is a good virtue to have especially in debates keeping calm gets people more likely to listen to you compared to an angry person even if the calm person is lying ( Ali dawah didn’t lie a single second in this vid it’s simply an example ظء)
well cause muslims are told to be patient and soft with other muslims especially in advice .
I may have a solution for you brother: (TLDR: Read books/Listen to audiobooks/Listen to debates)
I had severe anger issues as a young man and would start throwing punches within moments of being agitated (I never ever hit a woman, I'm refferring to arguments with men). What gave me patience in moments of verbal conflict is I listened to a lot of debates and audiobooks on CZcams for fun and through that I learned how to handle myself because after 4 or 5 months I started to feel like I just downloaded the ability to handle myself verbally. This coupled with confidence in the fact that I can physically defend myself if someone attacks me has given me the ability to just observe the other person no matter how much I disagree.
That's the reason Ali bro has the BP prob. May Allah bless him
No one can defeat a nation whose youth is awakened. -Salahuddin Ayubi
This comment deserves so much more recognition than it currently holds. The youth are too busy inflating their egos through beautification of words over the beautification of their perspective, logic and knowledge.
@@zeenoskills5743 absolutely
Cuz you are already a slave of others as you see Muslim world.
To stand anychance of being awakened "today" you have to cover your ears.
-The Piper and his flute
I like This quote
GREAT POINT! This was one of the most frustrating debate ive ever watched. Im 18 and I live in the western world (USA) this upset me. Feminism is a poison to everything
Lower your gaze even if it's your wife. I'm sure that mindset came from a girl who marries for money, support and not from a woman who marries for love and companion.
Lmao you're such a pick me, i would rather be in a relationship with a rich man knowing i have nothing to worry about, "love and companion" bs, if u would choose to be with a man for "love" when he's broke and can't get a job then it's all on u and don't cry later about how difficult ur life is.
She really said that?
As a woman myself that girl speaking is just embarrassing. May Allah guide her.
@King Sultan Can I ask you a question about Allah.
@@CarlosRivera-es5vh ask
@@parvezahmed4512 Why does Allah claim to be the best of deceivers. No offense just curious
@@CarlosRivera-es5vh Its best of planners not best of deceivers , have you been visiting Christian missionary problems lately?
@King Sultan How can you get into paradise if you have sinned so much in the past.
"We don't follow your opinion, we follow Islam" Spot on, Brother Ali.
Average W Ali Chad
He is also following his own opinion. He says that hadith says the weakness of a man is wemen. Ok, but does the hadith says that men have more sexual rights than wemen because of this weakness ?
@@chehrazadeesmey8399 Islam says she will be Cursed if she says no for no valid reason. whether you like it or not.
@@ebadurrahman7848 the same chari'ah also allows slavery, "milk al yamin", "Jihad attalab", muslims only follow salat, zakat, siyam... the basic traditional stuff but when it comes to the heavy stuff everyone turn their eye..
@@chehrazadeesmey8399 Yes if a women deny her husband s intimacy for no reason..and her husband feel angry and upset she will be cursed by angels till morning!!
And same goes for women..if a women wants intimacy if a men deny for no reason ,then its a sin tooo
And other thing..if a women deny mens intimacy which lead husband to bad stuff then the women will be punished by allah....evrything goes vice versa
The girl here said if he cant control go masturbate thats the biggest sin..She will highly punished by allah
as a muslim female
its so sad to see muslim women being FEMINIST
men have rights in marriage women have rights in marriage
we shouldn't deny any of thier rights
to be honest, as a teenage girl i faced this situation as well.. it changed over time.. as a 17 year old, she has a lot more to learn.. may Allah shows her the right path❤
When she said ''im 17'', it made complete sense
Yeh, I didn't quite understand this at her age either but alhamdulillah now. May Allah guide her.
Do you know around 97% of muslims who read from the arabic Qur'an don't understand its meaning. and when this happens you know what we start relying upon? our own life, television and programs with lots of karmas and social acceptances. thats the biggest risk one can take.
I understood everything much better at a much younger age
some people are just straight up dumb
Ohhh that makes sense, I'm sure she's never even had a relationship
@@MsIsh2011she's a Muslim bruh 💀
she's 17 that sums up everything, she still got a lot to learn.
yeah but i dont know why ali duwah talking to her about intimacy
@@chintuz1002 to educate her maybe ?
@@chintuz1002 these topics are important to educate young people on so they don’t make mistakes in the future or have a bad influence on others and cause disruption and also they learn these from their teenage friends wouldn’t you prefer it to be parents and adults who are genuinely looking out for you
@chintuz1002 she probably asked him the question, that's how debates normally occur.
I feel bad for the youth no wonder the prophet (saw) gave specific importance to young people who are religious
"Lower your gaze.."' sure.
"..even if it's your own woman!" Ye..HUH?! HUUUHHH?! 😂
I'm a woman and I swear I felt like swinging for her through the tv. I can't believe how Ali Dawah put up with THAT THING
Absolutely im a woman as well, and i feel so frustrated listening to her. God bless the brother. He's so patient
The one woman is confused and embarrassing! Struggling to watch this she really doesn’t know what her argument is
Same
u guys are exaggerating leave the poor girl alone
@@user-pc6if8vm3zshut it
I am a Christian and I like the way this man is patient and educating this young lady.
Honestly
may allah guide you to islam, how beloved prophet yeshua taught us🤍
Failure consueness produces Sin consueness,
Sin consueness produces self rightousness, Self rightiousness produces self Pride and self Pride produces self Destruction.
One of the worst examples of Muslims are their incredibly intuitive inability to think beyond existing frameworks.
They cannot questioned established premises, which will led them to revolutionary theories.
A careful study also show that Muslims are unable for running “thoughtful experiments” in their minds, which involved visualizing hypothetical scenarios and their outcomes.
Truth hurts.
may allah bless you
Please peruse a copy of the Holy Quran,
even if a mere intellectual exercise.
He has 10 people yelling at him demanding his time, his attention, and his response… but as soon as he tries to respond back to one of them the other starts yelling at him….bruv I feel for Brother Ali 😭😫.
Yeah and mocking him, annoying people were interrupting him and joining in. I can't take all that patience like Ali Dawah. May Allaah reward him. Aameen
Listening is skill required if you want to learn, this young women only listening to her self and doesn’t want to learn.
this is why i dont like speakers corner
MashaAllah brother, it’s really feeling very proud when I see a muslim brother like you with having so much talents, and guiding our people with such a valuable positive discussion. Good job brother.
my dudes patience is his key to success in every situation keep up the good work brother
My point in a nutshell was, husband willing to put his life on the line for his wife but she isn’t ready to put what’s halal for him on the bed 🤦♂️😆. Feminist logic lol
😂
😂
The stupidity of the feminists is crazy 😂😂
Next time tell those women that that's the reason we can have more than one wife. So that when she is not in the mood we can go to another one 🙄 Hope they won't have any objections
@@nightrider6830 Well said Bro!
I didn't realize how these 40 mins went by. Alhamdulillah, You are very knowledgeable and patient. TBH I would've literally handed over the mic and said shout all you want at the top of your lungs so that once you loose your voice I'll continue to speak without interruption (of course no one say it this way, but i would get hella pissed). My blood pressure rose just by hearing the arguments. I don't know how you keep that smile on your face, Superb work.✨✨🙂
This bro really has great patience. May Allah Bless him with good health.
Ameen
As a women myself, she was really embarrassing. That conversation was a rant from her and not for learning. She asks question and then doesn't want to listen. It's like she just wanted Ali just to agree with her. None of her arguments was intellectually put but rather a little child having a tantrum
Edit: ok so just found out she's only 17. Now makes more sense. At that age your more argumentative rather then letting anything sink in. She's not even really ready to have this kind of conversation. Hope she keeps seeking right kind of knowledge. And eventually submit to islam and not feminism. I sincerely hope Allah Guide her.
Yes 👑
How open would you be to the idea that god does not exist? Would you agree that there are certain topics you have made up your mind on?
Sister absolutely right you are..
She is a teenager and not matured. Also lacks knowledge. I hope when she's grown up, she'll realise her mistakes and how wrong her opinions were!
Our muslim sisters having this type of mentality bcz of the society and toxic feminism as well.
May Allah guide her to the right path.
@@fightforrights3834 yea but it doesn’t mean you start ranting immaturely, we have professional atheist speakers and Islamic speakers and they debate maturely about if god is real or not.
I’m honestly lost for words men wanting to have intimacy with their wives is weird but committing a sin by playing with your private parts is considered better by this girl 😂
She is destroyed by the western culture
These sooo called FEMINIST women are THE Real Threat to our present World!!!!! ALL these FEMINISTS including few musllim women in the name of ISLAM are 💯 absolutely Hypocrites!!!! They are all CANCER for our modern Societies !!!! MAY ALLAH SWT EXPOSE THEIR DIRTY FACE and let ALL OF us remain away from these DEADLY SNAKES 🐍!!! Ameeeeeeeen.
Halal will be haram & haram will be halal
@@Khalid_Mohamed The Prophet Salalahu Alaihi Wasallam (I am paraphrasing) mentioned something along the lines of that it will be very hard to follow the religion as if you were holding on to hot charcoal. That's what the brother meant
she’d probably be okay with her husband having intimacy with other women at this rate
Your point is so true! How can people not understand it’s logic!
The basic and foremost requirement of Dawa is PATIENCE, PATIENCE & PATIENCE. Hats off to you brother for having tons of it....
At 17 year old I dont think she is mature enough to have this conversation, she needs someone who she trusts to teach her the basics of aqeedah as a foundation before having these other conversations.
That is called being delusional and lacking information. She cant be teached if she is not willing to😊
Blame it on their parents and family.
😅 hi ❤
@@bewatter3014 Yes she dont want to be educated..she gets triggered..she will be one of the type of girl which call man as mysogynist sexist
Feminism ruined her mind...she is brainwashed by friends
I’ll be honest I wasn’t a fan of this man just by seeing clips of him. He grew on me. I’m not a Muslim but he’s fair when he debates and knows his talking points. And he debates in a respectful manner. And he’s passionate. So I am happy I have him the chance and enjoy his videos. It’s Amazing when you allow yourself to come in open minded.
@@keke3897 and they’re very simple but thought provoking
Many Christian’s love this guy trust me. He speaks to the heart of traditional values.
Liar
@@xxcapxr3611 sometimes, simple is complex
May Allah guide you
Guys plz believe me not all 17 year old Muslim girls are like that she’s giving us a bad rep🙏🙏😭
Not all but there are the dumb ones
I love this brother may Allah keep him blessed, shout out from me to you in from Luton my brother my name is Haroon I’m always watching ur video fam keep up that great work 🤲🏾 🇵🇸
Love how she gets mad, is frustrated the entire time and talks like a toddler throwing a tantrum
She needs a hero 😂
She's 17...
@@mustafanahl Nowadays, 17 year-olds act like 12 year-olds... and 12 year-olds act like 7 year-olds.
…. But then says she doesn’t have a problem with the hadith, it’s just a conversation.
She’s still 17 bro!! I believe she’ll change within the years we’ve all done dumb dumb stuff and had horrible opinions during that age
"We don't follow your opinion, we follow Islam" Spot on, Brother Ali.
😍😍 Respect All Religion
Wrong religion bro.
Follow christianity
@@zerotsu8701 😂😂 ALLHAMDUILLAH I AM Believe Jesus christ True believe If you Not Flow Believe Jesus Your Not Muslim Bro
@@khilji143 I'm not a Muslim cause I follow Christianity and believe that Jesus rose from the death, and that Jesus is God.
It's so sad that this many people are following the wrong religion and will not be able to go to heaven.
Repent now to Jesus Christ and be saved.
@@zerotsu8701 No Hate bro Peace & Respect All Religion Because Your respect Other Religion Hindhu Christian Sheik ETC. Then He is Back Respect your Religion
@@zerotsu8701 😂😂😂
Bro you are really calm 🙌🏾
Things are aligning to my mind , I was kind of this girl but not ignorant I was just not having correct answer earlier now I do , thank you brother .
Ali you’re not debating with one women you’re debating with 3 women’s😅
😂😂 that hindu/indian guy was soo annoying
😂
Fact😂😂
that Indian dude was straight Simping
Yeah...Indian Hindu men are now a days drooling on other religion girls...be aware about it
The amount of patience and energy brother Ali has is amazing. I don’t know if I could ever do it
cuz he is on CZcams that's all
@@royalray7833 then so many are on the youtube, then why not everyone habe that patients.
16:06 😂😂
@@royalray7833 no that is not true
If i were his place i would have gone mad by that time
He is doing great actually and not because you don't like his opinion that you try to make him looks bad
i agree. he has a lot of patience. i would lose my train of thought if i was in his patience.
JazakAllah brother.
I really admire the way you talk.
Alhumdullilah
Its always the short ones😭😭
She's 17, she's got a lot to learn.
she's accountable nevertheless. she's not a baby.
If she has to learn...why she learn all these...instead of the real Islamic teachings?? What is this non sense?
Youth ends around the age of thirty in islam, from then on one is accountable for his actions. She's not young. She could die tomorrow.
Got teached by a feminists
My ex wife a hijabi feminist who kept on throwing her phd in my face. Is now single and miserable with great regret. She kept on saying to lower your gaze and would neglect me for literally years… she didn’t understand a man’s nature at all and her dad made her think she’s Cinderella spoon-fed her and raised her naive and sheltered.
Brothers if you know you are super healthy and have an over the top libido, you better make sure that you marry someone who has a traditional understanding of deen and not this feminist westernized bullshit. It literally has destroyed dozens of Islamic households in front of my eyes including mine. Then when you bring up a second wife she says you’re a misogynist and threatens to leave you and take the kids.
a big part of marriage is to protect oneself from zina
These same women who are so adamant on refusing intimacy from their husbands will also get angry if he attempts to get a second wife...
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
ive seen this before very scary but true
But women are not machine you can use whenever you like.
@@bemohun who said they were
you either didnt watch the video or are being ignorant on purpose
@@bemohun Are you alright?? What r u talking? Did u even watch the video??
These sooo called FEMINIST women are THE Real Threat to our present World!!!!! ALL these FEMINISTS including few musllim women in the name of ISLAM are 💯 absolutely Hypocrites!!!! They are all CANCER for our modern Societies !!!! MAY ALLAH SWT EXPOSE THEIR DIRTY FACE and let ALL OF us remain away from these DEADLY SNAKES 🐍!!! Ameeeeeeeen.
Bro the way she is talking is so much frustrating and annoying , you made your words in such a polite way. The calm and patience you maintained are on another level. Just keep it up brother you are doing a great job.
That last phrase about Abu Bakar and when the Prophet (AS) flew to Jerusalem make my eyes water. Love you brother.
Ignorance is the most terrifying thing ever
True I agree 100%
*Ignorance without self-awareness of the ignorance
I swear by Allah ignorance is so dangerous, its just sad
The problem is that many women don't learn what a man is so for example you've got people like her thinking men can control themselves when it comes to you know...
@@Nope991 What blows my mind she said it was Aiib which is not, feeling horny is normal and they want you to suppress feelings this is why Feminism is so dangerous, because If this lady get married and have a boy she will tell him it's wrong to feel how Allah created you as a man so don't do that and then later on you have a feminine boy that will probably talk about how men and woman aren't equal.
"We don't follow your opinion , we follow shariyah" well said Ali Dawah.... That's actually a deep point to think upon....
If you want the blessing of ALLAH SUBHANA WATA'ALA then submit to his commands and his laws.....
And keep your desires , opinions and ego aside ....
Thats what a Muslim means.....
Just stay firm in your Deen...and don't get influenced by the thoughts and opinions which shaytaan puts in your heart....
Jazakallahu khairan brother 💖
🙆🏿🤦🙆🏿 disgrace to humanity is ISLAM....
Can I ask a question?What is difference between shariya and Sunna?Jazakum Allah khairan.
@@lolapalo Sharia is rule of Allah SWT and sunnah is what the prophet Muhammad sallalahu alyhi wa sallam used to do and asked us to do for example getting married and growing the beard
@@madaraff2038 about the beard growth, please show me where it's written either in the Quran or Hadiths please.
@@olingaericosman9265 Sunna is not obligatory
"Submit to Islam not to feminism" well said. That shows that wearing hijab does not mean you are a good Muslim woman and acquire the correct knowledge of your religion !!
Feminism is not haram and everyone should be a feminist. It's not fair how women are treated at all . And to say you have a wife to satisfy you sexually is just disgusting.
@@sadequakhanam8359 just say that you are anti-men and hate men. Just say that Allahs way of designing a man’s nature is flawed and disgusting. Just say it
@@sadequakhanam8359feminism is super gay
Yes it is haram. And you saying women are treated badly and then going to feminism shows you lack an understanding of Islam. Your problem is with bad Muslims not Islam. Feminism leads to chaos and families breaking apart, so it indeed is a haram ideology. It pits men against women. A true Muslim does not need any other ideologies. We are Muslim, that's all we need to be. @@sadequakhanam8359
In a way, that's true, since feminism does support the LGBT mafia. Not only that, they also support all types of abortions. Islam has its own rules on abortions for instance. Being a feminist means you trust in humans more than God. Feminists turn women and men into mindless puppets that spew out their illogical talking points without ever considering how foolish what they say actually is@@Andrew_Ahmed
@16:08 "your a different type of man" I'm dead!!! 🤣💀
My favourite channel on CZcams ❤😊
May Allah bless you brother❤
Hijabi feminist is an oxymoron.
Shes an oxymoron without the oxy
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣true
Hijabi feminist is like being a carnivorous vegetarian
Btw heard that joke from someone else
@@MdAli-yl2ou good one
@@MdAli-yl2ou damn...carnivorous vegetarian 😂😂🤣
I couldn’t contain my laughter when he said “you’re a different kind of man” to the white knight
What is a white knight ?
@@SusMaBite456 aka simp, aka cuckhold aka male feminist.
@@SusMaBite456 a man who degrades other men for validation of the women
@@Yasin-yi1bb thanks.
Those two guys a beta as hell
Control your horniness when your with your wife?? Lmaoo why are we married? TF
You honored her by covering her face sincerely. As her fellow female I can't hide my embarrassment
I personally met Ali and he is a wonderful man. He is 100% on point on what he is saying. As a Muslim married man and a father I can confirm this. May Allah SWT protect us rightly and forgive us all of our transgressions if any, Ameen !
Allah hu Akbar !
سبحان اللہ
❤️
Ya he is that’s why Allah SWT like him and guide him towards islam
@Joe Mama
Bro came here to hate not to watch the video 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Joe Mama
Dont jump to conclusions
The future still hasn't come
Just wait a see what will happen then talk
Lol
“ I accepted it but it doesn’t mean I have to completely take it in”😂😂😂😂😂😂 May Allah Guide her
May Allah have mercy on us all and bless us with beautiful understanding about Islam 😥☝️🤲🤲
That's funny when I see it written down 😂😂
Maybe shes young. I didn't quite understand this a few years ago either but alhamdulillah
What a dangerous statement, naudhubillah. ...anyone of any age, who adopts this metality with any divine law is suffering from toxic spiritual immaturity. Allah guide us all.
@@sameehaseedat652 you're right, we shouldn't rebel against Allah's judgment even if we don't understand it fully. May Allah grant us sincerity even in the little faith we have
Well done brother I wish I have your patience and you good manners.
Well done brother
Adil Moroccan in London
Someone please tell me how is it not force then? If a woman refuse, she will be cursed on. So she isnt physically forced, but she is mentally forced to oblige knowing if she doesnt, she will be cursed upon from angels. So she will do it, despite not wanting to, because otherwise she will be cursed at. To me, that's force.
She can refuse if she is sick ( mentally or physically) but " I'm not in the mood " or that type of things are not allowed and the same things goes for men .the Prophet said women have a right over men and men have a right over women .
@@AhmedMiad Thank you for response. What about being tired ? Also, what if a woman refuse and he is totally okay with it, does that then make it alright or she is being cursed regardless if he's upset or not?
@@AhmedMiadlmao you muslims make us men look insane!🤣
Honestly let's not hate on her. It's better to educate. I had this period in my life where i was questionning woman's place too but this helped me embrace islam much more at the end of the day
So true
she is right tho, the muslim community should be more understanding and be willing to listen instead of bashing people
We dont hate on anyone, we hate the actions or our deeds, everyone can change and be better, we need to be more tolerant especially towards young people but say it how it is.
Same she's not a feminist she's just questioning and lost. That was me and I swear every woman goes through this and we can get rlly defensive and emotional 😅
@@true_hani ali also became very emotional, ig he has some personal vendetta against feminism
I am not a muslim. As a woman in general we as woman should not neglect our duties to cater to our husbands. It should be a pleasure to make sure that my husband has peace at home after all the hard work to fend for his family. I should be the one to satisfy his desires so that he knows he has happiness and relaxation. We should create a happy environment for our husbands. Women are loosing sight of themselves and their worthy because of so called feminism.
You're husband is a lucky man indeed,I've got to beg my wife for Sex unfortunately 😞
To suggest a woman being threatened by a man with a knife and running away is no different than a woman refusing to have sex with her husband is ludicrous.
The best video so far !!!
I feel bad for this girl because I know how it is to be brainwashed with these thoughts. I used to be the same way. It wasn’t until I was married when I understood. I wish I can talk to her and tell her that Subhanallah when you do you obligation as a wife and be intimate with your husband it benefits you as well. Your relationship grows and you feel at ease. Yes there are instances where is difficult and you can refuse but other than that, technically you are oppressing your husband and yourself as well.
This is the saddest comment ever.
@@scooter9657 youre sad 🗿
@@scooter9657 because she's actually happy?
@@scooter9657 get back on your screwtar
Feminism is destroying young woman and Porn is destroying young men...The world is a dangerous place now.. dangerously brainwashed
Shout out to this man ali dawah. The patience this guy has is unbelievable Allahuma barik
Bro he is not patient at all if he cannot wait for his wife to have the same feeling
@@tororo76 - bore off
He's not patient lol 😂 see the interview with the Hare Krishna or the Sikh, he's hardly patient but Mohamed Hijab is even worse tbh
More like lack of patience
Salute to your patience akhi 🫡
"I'm tryna give her dawah!" killed me with that one
If she's 17, she's too young to understand this. Her ideas are being shaped by the world, which is a sad but very real reality for a lot of our youth.
It's not like we are allowed to force ourselves on our wife, she is saying we should not be even allowed to be upset 😂
Lacking empathy for men is a qualification for being a feminist.
The girl is finished
Ur finished,ur finished,ur finished
Wallahi ur finished...
I am confused. Can a man suddenly touch his wife or should he ask? That idk.
@@Nope991 he can touch, but if she says no then he has to back away
Honestly, I feel bad for the girl who has such little knowledge about Islam. May Allah Bless her and educate her better. Ameen ❤
i am embarrassed that i used to think like that but alhamdulilah as i grown and learned i understood how fair every aspect of islam is
May all our brothers get married to a girl who understands Islam
Allah teach you Quran 24:33 and ayah 37
Ameen
May the husband's also learn to lower their gaze and not sleep around with hoes , as many of them do.
Tsunami and Avalanche 😂😂Islam is fallen . Misogynistic religion
@@imheretocausetrouble2156
Majority of husbands do not know their Deen also.
How can you be a feminist Muslim How can you be feminist and a Muslim at the same time That makes no sense
There men who agrees with feminists they are dayooth
I had difficulty understanding it previously. Alhamdulilah my head got clear with time.feminism is pure satanic. Against marital relationships, against making babies, encourage lgtbq and broken family system.feminism is a weapon Very strong and powerful one against Islam.
@@sabamarium8186 it will get stronger More girls gonna join it there were recent studies showing in 20 years 45% of women will be singel and no child
@@recko800 this is so scary. May Allah protect us muslim women and our children from this fitna.
They are not born right they're dna has problems who knows who's his father
this mans level of patience is something i wish i had i can bearly wach the vid
cuz so mush waffiling
May Allah bless you, my brother
Woman don't want to take accountability...
-Andrew tate
tate background intensifies XD
We r glad to have brother Tate in Islam...he will handle these toxic feminist very well😂😂
@@jioboy2676 bro he made his money from cam girls, what are you on about. He hates modesty
@@MH-bf4uu That's before Islam 🙂
Iv noticed women dont like to admit their mistakes
She is 17, she’ll learn. At that age it’s common for ppl like her to believe they know it all. Life will naturally shape them into a more humble & wiser human being. In sha Allah.
Inshallah she will learn but she is 17 she still is accountable for her actions if she doesn't repent
Wallah the most dangerous thing nowadays is ignorance
That is true but she does not know how to conduct herself it’s embarrassing
@@velocitydam5090 I agree, ignorance will kill our society’s will to seek knowledge & truth. I understand she is accountable for her actions however when we’re young we say things we don’t mean/believe later on in life, so as much hate as she’s getting in the comments I do believe we should be understanding that she’s still a kid.
17 year old acting like a feminist, sad girl
@@notkingali1798 I don’t expect a 17 year old girl to conduct herself properly Infront of a crowded audience in person & online it’s one of those things where yeah you dislike what they’re saying but you understand they’re just ignorant they don’t know better, she will learn in sha Allah
When she said that the man should be patient and the women should be patient, just be equal. I agree on the importance of patience but not on the point of being equal. Also patience has limits. As we already established in the video the drive that men and women have are unequal. As is with many things. And I believe in a relationship, that things are never equal at the exact same time. There is always a give and take, a push and pull, or a balance. Not equality or else nothing would flow or move. In this instance, I think women would need to give of themselves more(though this can vary from person to persob), but men will also give more of themselves in many other instances where the women would require. Therefore creating balance and fairness in the relationship. Atleast this is how i see it as a young muslim myself.
He has made a good point where he demonstrates that each gender has points of strength that should be used willingly and cover the other's drawbacks to perfect the relationship.
I AM A RECENT REVERT AND SO I AM FAMILIAR WITH THAT MINDSET. I BELIEVE ITS A WESTERN FEMINIST MINDSET. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE BUT IT'S VERY NARCISSISTIC.. I LOVE HOW ISLAM JUST FIXES EVERYTHING AND HOW THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERYTHING. I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU FOR SPREADING THE TRUTH. MASHA ALLAH ALI. MY HUSBAND AND I RESPECT YOU VERY MUCH! SALAM ALAKIM!
OOPS SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS LOL
@@janelserrano496It’s okay I felt the passion from your message through the caps!😂 it’s so so true, the western ideology can be so damaging while Islam makes everything so easy, just and fair🥰
MashAllah
@@janelserrano496I think u went through the same mistake again sister 😂 May Allah grant you both and your children good health
@@masud_1 😂🤣😅🤣😂
She's rocking from side to side, clearly frustrated or angry and isn't willing to listen or learn. 🤦🏽♂️
I think she's possesseds by jinn
@@shutup21 saira...r u having relationship with sushant...a non Muslim?? If not then why Sushant is in your name??
She needs a hero 😂
Are you judging me? and spreading false rumors about me how can you say I'm having relationships with non Muslim without any prove Seriously? You know nothing about me so stop judging me by name. Wallahi it's not right what you said thought about me.
You dont even know my name and you started judging me by email name.
I don’t understand if they know how to debate civilly. It annoys me so damn much when everybody is talking over each other or they don’t let one person to finish his/her point
If wife i rejecting intimacy, you dont need that wife. Simple
07:15 "You can call me milk shake if you love this strawberry flavor" 😂😂 Ali Bhai not coming slow
i thought he said milk sheikh 😭😭
This is why at times you see women with hijab have less knowledge about Islam while some women do not wear hijab but still dress modestly and know the religion teaching far better. Never judge a book by its cover.
A woman with knowledge will wear the hijab though
@@MrDiMES123 Says a man with lack of knowledge. There is no better or. Each human deeds are personal with their creator. What you see in the exterior is not a measurement how their faithful or not they are to their creator.
Ameen like me I'm not hijabi but Alhamdulilah been studying my religion since age of six.
Both women who wear or not wear hijab can be less knowledge. But the woman who has knowledge will be fully covered.
@@BalqishMaarif a woman who uses her knowledge would wear a hijab
He who does not understand must be made to understand. But one who knows, can never be persuaded. May Allah guide her.
I understand his point but there is something he is missing and that is Consent. Sexual intimacy is a physical and energy interchange between husband and wife and therefore it must be recriporcal. Of course both parts must feel sexually satisfied but the fact that you provide financially to your wife does not mean that you can have sex whenever you want. As an ummah we need to develop more sensitivity. We are not animals. Your wife might not feeling in the mood for sexual intimacy, or she might feel sick or she might just not feel any sexual arousal that day and that is fine. Husbands need to respect that because a husband needs this wife consent to have sex otherwise he is forcing her. Obviously of your wife/husband never wants to have sex he/she is taling your right away and that is not fair on you. But you cant expect you partner to feel sexually active anytime you want. This type of speech demonstrate that he dos not really understand how sexual energy works. Having sex is not as easy as pressing a bottom and you are ready for it. Sex arousal depens on how emotionally close you feel to your partner, on how stress you are, on ylur physical and psychologia health. Islam is balance guys alhamdulilah and it feels so natural so we shouldnt be taking extremisms like this. It is fine if your partner is not always on the mood for sex, you can work that out as a couple because more importantly if you wife is Never ready for sexual intimacy there is always something wrong with her. Maybe she is not in the best of health (psychological diatress, physicial sicknes...) or maybe she just dont feel enough close to her man as to have sex. Women's sexual arousal is totally linked to the emotional bond with her husband. And men, as the brother said, have more sexual desires and it takes them less efforts to awake that sexual energy. Get to know your partner, get close to your parttner emotionally and make sure he/she feels respected, valued and satisfied in bed. Sexual intimacy is a gift that Allah gave us to not only to create life and satisfy our desires but to create a special bond with our partners. Alhamdulilah it is an act that is made to dignify you by doing in just with you spouse in a respectfull and meaningful manner. May Allah teach us better.
totally! and while i do understand how a woman expects her husband to protect her (aka fulfill his responsibility) the woman should also fulfill her own responsibilities but to term those "responsibilities" as solely sexual acts is totally different! i understand it is a right of a man for her wife to provide her that, but we need to approach this with empathy and patience. if my husband is sick, not feeling well, in a bad mental space overall, i of course do not expect him to protect me if i'm under attack. if anything i'll switch the roles up and try protecting him to the best of my abilities because he's weak. exactly if your wife is not in the write head space for sexual intimacy, you can't force her! she probably has valid reasons to not do so as you mentioned above.
she is 17! honestly my thinking at the age of 17 would not have been much different. But you grow and learn your deen and it all starts to make sense!
@@TUTENSKENGS I did not say she was but, how a 17 year old views the world is much different then people in their 20's and above. Inshallah She will look more into the deen, learn and understand these things as she ages.
25:37 Wow..... I'm actually gobsmacked... Look at the question he asks her: Who's closer? A friend or a wife? And she responds with "It depends". Incredible....
There is no male friend I can ever have in the world who will be more dear to me than my wife. I can say that without a shred of doubt, my wife who looks after me, who gave birth to my children, who comforts me in my time of need, who listens and offers me advice when I need it. There can never be a male friend or family member who even comes close to my wife. I love you wife
Praise be to Allah.
The Muslim should always give preference to his mother, because it says in a hadeeth that a man said to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Who among the people is most deserving of my good company?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” …
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5514; Muslim, 4621).
But the wife takes precedence over the mother in one case, and that is the matter of spending. If the husband cannot afford to spend on both his wife and his mother because he is poor, then in this case he should put his wife before his mother. The Muslim has to give what is due to each person who has a right over him, and he has to help the one who is oppressed. If his mother mistreats his wife, he has to put a stop to it, in a kind and fair manner.
And Allaah knows best.
It's basically parents then wife.
That's you. Women need a woman more... either mother or a girl-friend.
@@infjlogic Ur saying women prioritize a friend over her own husband? If she was in a state where she has to choose, she's to choose a friend? A friend who has her own life to deal with, and u think women prefer another women just bcos they r friends and they can talk about women stuff over her husband, who lives for not himself but his wife and children and is also there to listen to her problems?
U think being able to chit chat and talk girl stuff with women are more important than ur life long partner who's ready to sacrifice his life for u and ur children?
@@ConstantUNTILisnt Honestly not all husbands are a charming prince like that, so it really depends.
I feel vulnerable listening to them both may Allah protect 🙏
"We don't follow your opinion, We follow islam." TELL EM🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥
Our young sister has asked mulitple times "How is that abuse?" As a woman myself, who went through the pain of menstruation and childbirth alhamdullillah, I don't have to tell or ask you "Do woman feel weakness, pain and hormonal chaos for real all throughout most of her adult life?" Imagine a brother, a man or even your husband comes up to you and gets mad at you for "not perfoming good enough" during your period. He is denying your female nature and all the difficulties you have to bear when going through period/childbirth and is complaining to you that you please "don't act up and get yourself together". Now compare this to a husband who goes to his wife, asks for intimacy and gets a "No. I don't feel like it today. I don't have time. etc" The wife is denying the mens nature and islamic right (What do you think a man marries a woman for? For romance? A cute wedding dress and cake and photos? For some legal papers? If a man could sleep with a woman without having to marry her, let me bring you some news, many many men wouldn't marry and that's reality). It is abuse because YOU are the ONLY option he has to get satisfied. And if YOU don't give it to him, nobody can give it to him THUS that's oppressing him. May Allah forgive and guide me and you to strong and lovely sister, amin.
Well said, she doesn't see that she is his only form of a halal relationship. He cannot commit zina and if he isn't able to afford having 2 marriages then he is trapped.
His only choices are Zina, divorce her, or marry another wife. All those options are very time consuming and bring many different problems and challenges.
Lower your gaze at home with your wife, the weirdest idea ever said. She wants to be a stranger at home with him, why even get married when you can pay women to give you what you need?
She would rather die together in an accident with him than wish for him to survive and take care of their children. She appears to be selfish and doesn't see that most wives want the best for their husband's should they fall sick or get into an accident. She would rather he die with her than he survive. Most people would rather die than see their loved one die before them.
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@@paralleluniverse298 there are many places around the world where you can find traditional women but they are at home usually. I was helping a family friend with some computer problem and the daughter was very religious.
She prayed all her prayers and was reading hadith. I didn't talk to her much but she listened to her mother and didn't watch TV or movies. Finding someone like that is so hard unless you use family connections and ask someone at the masjid for assistance.
We just see the mainstream typical woman and believe all hope is lost. A good way in general is to avoid western or westernized women. They have feminist ideas and rarely know anything about starting a family. Someone who takes their religion seriously will be easier to deal with in non western countries. Each generation is getting further and further away from basic knowledge of Islam.
@@moseley5151 if he gets it from you and not find the same thing as haram in the street, he will love you. And care about you. Give you his best. Yes, you should marry him even if u think it's just sex he wants. Doing it with the wife is a good deed. Outside the marital bedroom is a sin. I've been there, having been denied for over a year. Imagine that patience, didn't commit zina. In the end, the marriage broke on her request while I gave preference and importance to our kids rather than my own.
May Allah swt bless you
I don't understand why this is a problem. If both sides recognize each other's right, understand each other, following the Islamic teachings, then there shouldn't be any problem. My husband never asks when he sees me very tired, sick or even upset with something. On the other hand, whenever he asks, I MAKE myself in the mood, believing, in syaa Allah, Allah will make it easy for me. And He did, everytime. So I have never felt oppressed, tortured, or anything bad by it. We've been married for almost 30 years, and it has NEVER been a problem, since day 1. And I hope it will never will be...
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True but why do they act like they don't enjoy sex too
This entire discussion was a comedy, bless you both 😂
Allah Akbar.
He make his point so clear. May God bless you
"Control yourself against your woman"??? What is she on about 🤦♂️
Why would I lower my gaze and control myself against my wife ?
Exactly...
shes a joke🤣. Why would anyone lower there gaze from there wife.
the point of marriage is to be able to act on your desires. ya Allah, i am a 17 year old woman too and i wanna get married to be able to act on my desires. what is wrong with these feminists flowering brain dead
@@flyingfeathers_ right 👍
Ramadan and hajj you have to control yourself
Sex should not be forced on anyone in a marriage. An honest communication between partners helps.
Sex isn't forced. But what if your woman doesn't satisfy you for weeks?? or even months, just to show her dominance towards you???
If she is not interested in it she is not interested in being a wife.
We live in an era of porn pandemic and masturbation, including women as well. No wonders marriage doesn't work anymore.
Takes off jacket
“ my temperatures hot 🥵 “
“My blood sugar levels have come up” 😂😂😂😂
My ex wife a hijabi feminist who kept on throwing her phd in my face. Is now single and miserable with great regret. She kept on saying to lower your gaze and would neglect me for literally years… she didn’t understand a man’s nature at all and her dad made her think she’s Cinderella spoon-fed her and raised her naive and sheltered. She was so abusive and insulting … it was downright giving me cancer. I literally had to be hospitalized one day cause she gave me a mild stroke wallah. She would compare me to other men saying they have postgrad degrees and are executives at a corporation and I run a few small businesses, and actually making good income. She would down right drag me through the mud.
Brothers if you know you are super healthy and have an over the top libido, you better make sure that you marry someone who has a traditional understanding of deen and not this feminist westernized bullshit. It literally has destroyed dozens of Islamic households in front of my eyes including mine. Then when you bring up a second wife she says you’re a misogynist and threatens to leave you and take the kids. She would say to me I’m not normal for wanting intimacy all the time etc. I would say but then I’m outside all day long and I eventually will fall into temptations and she would say just lower your gaze like Allah says lol. She would say I’m tired and unwell all the damn time. She would bring the kids into our bed saying there’s no room for me at night.
May Allah protect us & our families from feminism
How do u know brother she is miserable with regret? Has she changed herself?
@f3mcell this is the biggest problem wallah. The father doesn’t teach his daughter basic Islamic principles. He just says my daughter is a princess and a phd and she is always right. I always lowered my tone and was respectful to him but he’d just take her side. He said to me once how come you don’t have 3 houses for her and that I’m hiding money from my businesses. I tried to go to few mufti’s and shaikhs to seek counseling to intervene and help us. They would say no, we don’t want any shaikhs telling us what to do. I said ok let’s go to marriage counseling and she’d say there’s nothing wrong. I said the Hadith says the angels are cursing you.
I literally have women throwing themselves at me outside. I have a fist length beard and am on strict sunnah with all aspects of my life. I can’t go around committing zina or look at porn and masturbate as she would tell me. I said that brings darkness in our lives and it’s completely haram. She said she blames it on post natal problems.
I am not Muslim but I feel you for brother . I hope you find peace and better days ahead without this toxic woman Inshallah.
@@groupno.3ghulammohaiuddin_485 no because I divorced her and remarried and she was begging me to take her back. Reality hit her really hard. She’s a mental case.
The sister was exposing her own ignorance, Subhan Allah. Ali's patience is admirable.
I mean she is 17 at the end of the day, If she has brothers and a father, I blame their teachings and guidance more than i blame her.
You are the ignorant one. The guy is basically asking her to be a willing toilet for her husband. Sick!
@@peaceinthemiddleeast her being 17 is no excuse the moment you hit puberty your acountable
@@mehmet20003 not everyone is educated the same. Allah says those who don't know will not be judged the same as those who know.
A 25 year old can be less mature than a 16 year old based on raising and experience. So no its better for you to not judge and pray for their guidance rather than come on the internet shaming a girl you know nothing about..that's only causing soule negative.
Much love and inshallah your life is blessed.
@@peaceinthemiddleeast first you are obligated to learn the religion and if you talk without knowledge it is a sin if your ignorant or not. There is no excuse for this behavior nothing I said was shamimg or "sould negativity" what rven is this
Ma Sha Allah Brother !