Sorry to be so offtopic but does any of you know a trick to get back into an instagram account?? I was stupid forgot my login password. I love any assistance you can give me.
I’ve made those types of mistakes and a period of four months. I just started no contact last week. I feel I lost her for good. Currently working on myself and very motivated.
Key phrase of the entire video. I was this bad and worse a couple of months ago. Still struggling, but I now see more of what Coach Craig says in this video.
After me and my Ex had words where we both said some nasty things to each other I d3cided to be strong, and be civil, let go and move on. I've sent one or two messages out of necessity but there's been no response. I feel I'm being punished, but I'm going to put my feelings to one side and be logical in my approach to this.
I stumbled across this video and it is exactly what I am going through. My girl broke up with me about three months ago, in the beginning of the separation she still texted me but that slowly lessened. Now I find myself once and a while texting her, only to get no reply. I'll try giving her more space and following this guy's advice. Because obviously I'm not doing something right.
I had to go on anti anxiety meds to get through it. A low dose SSRI can be very effective to reduce the anxiety in my experience. I couldn't cope otherwise.
My mom abandon me at 5 my dad raised me with his mom they both died recently and my wife who was all I had left divorced me shortly after their deaths? My only sister screwed me out of some of the money from my dads estate so I had to cut her out of my life .All I have is my 2 kids now that I live for and that’s only about 30% of the time after raising them as their mother pursued her career and now is reaping the rewards as I wasted my career years trying to raise the kids and having a hard time making money being I’m almost 50 and have to start over with no school or training. I can’t believe my life turned out this way everyday I’m hurting and in stress survival mode for 2 years now , getting tired .
I hear you , but you still probably got good life skills and can do well. Just do what you can with what God gave you . you will be fine and some one will come along to share your life with. I am telling my self the same . I pretty much lost a business and career and had to restart from almost zero. Was rocky , I got through it , so will you. Just appreciate day to day accomplishments . ..
That makes sense about what Benjamin Franklin did. When my ex used to get mad at me no matter what I could do I could cheer up if I could get her to send me a picture of herself I would compliment her it would always start to help. that’s just one example. I used to wonder why that worked
Childhoods really shape us and we have to learn by our mistakes. So true. I just dont really remember much until I was 9. I lived in another country in my childhood . I think my mom was too busy and my older sisters were left in charge.
@@kanenufc873 u have to be strong and go no contact until you forget her n move on with someone else is she still care she will reach out in the future. Learn everything u can about relationships and apply it to your next relationship
my ex told me You know what, dont ever call me a liar and lets just stop talking....you havent changed and your never going to. is she mad at me ? yes or no !
Best thing buy some cannabis and your anxiety will go away! I was very depressed last night about my ex, solution??? Got some shots of weed and relaxed me!! He doesn’t want to talk to me? Ok then!
Chary just remember it’s better to feel the pain and let go or it will always be in your system .i use to smoke everyday and my feelings would creep up way later when things were going good with my dude so it’s better to just ride the feelings and think of ways to justify the ending of your relationship .wether it was your fault or his all you can do is think positive even tho I know it’s the worst feeling when you break up and have invested a lot in someone you care about .
There an ex for a reason. Most likely they were abusive and or rage-aholic( my case). So stay away, move on because you are just hurting yourself more. Now I need to take my own advice.
I love your vids coach, it really different when your talking with experienced. After our break up, i begged and pleaded to him for 2 weeks. After i gave up and stop bothering him. Then after 1 month he texted to me, we start talking as friends but still he keeps on reminding me about the words that uttered which made him upset of me. Sometimes he is replying my message right away, and sometimes he is ignoring it. So what shall i do in this case? Thank you!
So, my ex and I have been slowly reconnecting. I sent one of her tops back and used it as an excuse to message her. She messaged me to let me know it had arrived, so we had a short conversation, and she seemed engaged; she didn't have to say half of what she did. However, I changed the subject to keep it going, informing her that I started a new job today. She read it but didn't reply. Did she freak out, or is she worried that I'm trying to impress her? I'm assuming I should wait a few days before trying again?
So In a minute of stupidly yesterday , she messaged me ref collecting some of her stuff to go away , so I asked if she has a new boyfriend. She ignored it and didn’t answer. What does that mean ?
hey coach. love your videos. my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago out of the blue,she gave me no reasons at all when couple of days before the breakup we were madly in love. she told me she doesn't need me and all. I know its bs. I've been using the no contact strategy since and couple of days ago I couldn't resist and texted her and she gave the same response. I didn't argue and didn't try to convince her of anything. what should I do? help me
I suppose so. I think when they don't answer it either means that they're not ready yet to initiate contact again, or it means that they're not interested. either way, you're just better off not texting again anytime soon. the message you wrote is there, in their phone. maybe it'll give them a reason to think about you, maybe not. let them come to their own conclusions, and let them answer when they're ready. You can't force things like that. It just might take some time. maybe a few days, maybe weeks, maybe even months. And if some time has passed and you feel like the dust on your situation has completely settled, then you can try to reach out again. if they ever were really in love with you, they'll think about you and that'll make it even more special when you contact them again. I've had a situation with a girl I dated for a few months back in 2015. she ghosted me and I was extremely upset with her. I tried to contact her a few times after the breakup, but either she ignored me, or the conversation would just fizzle out. she got in to other relationships, which of course i wasn't happy about, but there was really nothing I could do, was there? except accepting it and moving on. so I eventually got into other relationships aswell, but in the summer of 2016, after I had just broken up with another girl, I texted her again. And this time, it just worked out. this time she was happy to hear from me. enough time had passed for our old emotions to settle and give space for new emotions to grow. we met, dated, fell in love, but unfortunately we broke up again 1 month ago. I didn't contact her until yesterday, but she didn't respond yet. so I'll just have to give it more time. and maybe during that time I'll fall in love with someone else. but yeah, morale of the story is. just give it time. they won't forget you and if they ever really cared about you, and you give it enough patience they'll eventually contact you themselves or be glad that you contact them and not be bothered by it. just focus on your own life in the meantime, and if you get the chance to get back together it won't matter if they had other relationships in between. the only thing that's important is the now, neither the past, nor the future. after all, I was only able to get back together with my ex from 2015 after I had let her go completely and was indifferent towards the outcome. that's the point you want to reach. and if you realize that, now that you're indifferent, you don't even want to contact them anymore, then that's great aswell. you can only win, you see?
Maximilian the only problem with your advised is that the person that was dumped is initiating contact. I tried that. She rejected me and sometimes, didn't even answer..
she's can't talked to me any more she dumped me so I block her in text and call me and I deleted here number so in Facebook to and I meet new one but she going to my friend more so I'm not going to visit any more told here not go to my friend but I can't stop anyway
shorfan well we kissed twice... she acts hot and cold and touches me a lot. when I asked her to go out on a dte with me she said that her heart was closed and dont feel like dating anyone. but I know she likes me since she out of the blue became close friends with my mother.
Yuri Santos hmm seems as though she has somewhat feelings for you. She's perhaps afraid that your relationship will be like the old relationship that leas to your breakup, that she's scared you're the same old guy. You need to show, not tell, show her thst you have changed and that your relationship will not lead to the same faith as before.
This guy is the Michael Jordan of relationships
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Biggest facts I’ve ever heard
Sorry to be so offtopic but does any of you know a trick to get back into an instagram account??
I was stupid forgot my login password. I love any assistance you can give me.
You may not realize that, but you are saving lives everyday. Thanks Craig,
I’ve made those types of mistakes and a period of four months. I just started no contact last week. I feel I lost her for good. Currently working on myself and very motivated.
Any up dates?
Yes please give an upate what ever the situation.
By far the best break up expert on the planet. The new workbooks are amazing!
“But when you’re going through it, it seems like a good idea” 💡 😂🤫
Key phrase of the entire video. I was this bad and worse a couple of months ago. Still struggling, but I now see more of what Coach Craig says in this video.
he did come to me though. he reached out to me. and when I replied he backed off
Give them space n time.No contact rule the best method...
You will heal faster if you don't speak to your ex. You will feel much better much faster! Just hang in there .
Every video is centered on what to do if you were not at fault. What if you kept messing up and it lead to a break up?
Zaiphon even more reason to leave them alone. If you pushed them to the point of breaking up, you have to give them space.
Oh thank you so much! She hasn't responded to my text and I almost asked her out this week. The old me wouldn't have put up with that disrespect.
After me and my Ex had words where we both said some nasty things to each other I d3cided to be strong, and be civil, let go and move on. I've sent one or two messages out of necessity but there's been no response. I feel I'm being punished, but I'm going to put my feelings to one side and be logical in my approach to this.
I stumbled across this video and it is exactly what I am going through. My girl broke up with me about three months ago, in the beginning of the separation she still texted me but that slowly lessened. Now I find myself once and a while texting her, only to get no reply. I'll try giving her more space and following this guy's advice. Because obviously I'm not doing something right.
Update?
I had to go on anti anxiety meds to get through it. A low dose SSRI can be very effective to reduce the anxiety in my experience. I couldn't cope otherwise.
This seems more geared towards dating not my situation where we have been married 20 years
My mom abandon me at 5 my dad raised me with his mom they both died recently and my wife who was all I had left divorced me shortly after their deaths? My only sister screwed me out of some of the money from my dads estate so I had to cut her out of my life .All I have is my 2 kids now that I live for and that’s only about 30% of the time after raising them as their mother pursued her career and now is reaping the rewards as I wasted my career years trying to raise the kids and having a hard time making money being I’m almost 50 and have to start over with no school or training. I can’t believe my life turned out this way everyday I’m hurting and in stress survival mode for 2 years now , getting tired .
IVAN PUTSKI I’m so sorry, it sounds like you love others more than you love yourself, it’s hard but people are naturally selfish
I hear you , but you still probably got good life skills and can do well. Just do what you can with what God gave you . you will be fine and some one will come along to share your life with. I am telling my self the same . I pretty much lost a business and career and had to restart from almost zero. Was rocky , I got through it , so will you. Just appreciate day to day accomplishments . ..
I’m really sorry all this has happen to u……
Really am
That makes sense about what Benjamin Franklin did. When my ex used to get mad at me no matter what I could do I could cheer up if I could get her to send me a picture of herself I would compliment her it would always start to help. that’s just one example. I used to wonder why that worked
How should I compliment my ex
You, Corey Wayne and Chris Canwell are by far the best guys to take relationship advice from on youtube.
I wish I could afford coaching. I don't know what to do! My ex is completely ignoring me now. I pushed to hard to try get her back 😔
Childhoods really shape us and we have to learn by our mistakes. So true. I just dont really remember much until I was 9. I lived in another country in my childhood . I think my mom was too busy and my older sisters were left in charge.
Is it possible to get her back after making these mistakes?
Great question, I would love to know if it is possible
Kennettalexander Bivens It is. I’ve confirmed it.
@@kanenufc873 u have to be strong and go no contact until you forget her n move on with someone else is she still care she will reach out in the future. Learn everything u can about relationships and apply it to your next relationship
And what about when they are saying they need space to "be alone" while simultaneously cheating with multiple people without your knowledge?
When they need space you have to assume it'd a break up.
I think this is one of your best videos
Another excellent video from the GOAT! Thanks, as always, for all that you do.
What do I do now if I already made that mistake
my ex told me
You know what, dont ever call me a liar and lets just stop talking....you havent changed and your never going to. is she mad at me ? yes or no !
ThugPassion1995 she feels hurt by you
thanks @CJ Carter
Great video, Craig. Love the Ben Franklin story as well :)
so what happened to the guy (sender)? so he has no chance to make her back because he screwed his no contact and he chased her away? aw
Thank you! Your talks calm me.
I asked my ex to hear my radio program, ,does it work as the same?
You gave me a great gem of information
Craig is great as I've learnt things about my childhood past that I did not think would of impacted me in my past failed relationships. Very surreal.
Best thing buy some cannabis and your anxiety will go away! I was very depressed last night about my ex, solution??? Got some shots of weed and relaxed me!! He doesn’t want to talk to me? Ok then!
Chary just remember it’s better to feel the pain and let go or it will always be in your system .i use to smoke everyday and my feelings would creep up way later when things were going good with my dude so it’s better to just ride the feelings and think of ways to justify the ending of your relationship .wether it was your fault or his all you can do is think positive even tho I know it’s the worst feeling when you break up and have invested a lot in someone you care about .
There an ex for a reason. Most likely they were abusive and or rage-aholic( my case). So stay away, move on because you are just hurting yourself more. Now I need to take my own advice.
Jose mourinho's brother
Why can’t I get past 3 days no text? During no contact with the dumper it’s been 3 weeks since he responded
I love your vids coach, it really different when your talking with experienced. After our break up, i begged and pleaded to him for 2 weeks. After i gave up and stop bothering him. Then after 1 month he texted to me, we start talking as friends but still he keeps on reminding me about the words that uttered which made him upset of me. Sometimes he is replying my message right away, and sometimes he is ignoring it. So what shall i do in this case? Thank you!
AND Psychoterapist.
So, my ex and I have been slowly reconnecting. I sent one of her tops back and used it as an excuse to message her. She messaged me to let me know it had arrived, so we had a short conversation, and she seemed engaged; she didn't have to say half of what she did. However, I changed the subject to keep it going, informing her that I started a new job today. She read it but didn't reply.
Did she freak out, or is she worried that I'm trying to impress her? I'm assuming I should wait a few days before trying again?
I say f it send a text. do it for closure if she don’t respond there u go!! Do you it’s that easy!!
Keep doing the good job
Absolutely....
After NC..i reached n he stop replying between our conversation..
So In a minute of stupidly yesterday , she messaged me ref collecting some of her stuff to go away , so I asked if she has a new boyfriend. She ignored it and didn’t answer. What does that mean ?
hey coach. love your videos. my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago out of the blue,she gave me no reasons at all when couple of days before the breakup we were madly in love. she told me she doesn't need me and all. I know its bs. I've been using the no contact strategy since and couple of days ago I couldn't resist and texted her and she gave the same response. I didn't argue and didn't try to convince her of anything. what should I do? help me
Great video but whats the takeaway here? Just see it as a lost cause hope that they contact you in the future?
I suppose so. I think when they don't answer it either means that they're not ready yet to initiate contact again, or it means that they're not interested. either way, you're just better off not texting again anytime soon. the message you wrote is there, in their phone. maybe it'll give them a reason to think about you, maybe not. let them come to their own conclusions, and let them answer when they're ready. You can't force things like that. It just might take some time. maybe a few days, maybe weeks, maybe even months. And if some time has passed and you feel like the dust on your situation has completely settled, then you can try to reach out again. if they ever were really in love with you, they'll think about you and that'll make it even more special when you contact them again. I've had a situation with a girl I dated for a few months back in 2015. she ghosted me and I was extremely upset with her. I tried to contact her a few times after the breakup, but either she ignored me, or the conversation would just fizzle out. she got in to other relationships, which of course i wasn't happy about, but there was really nothing I could do, was there? except accepting it and moving on. so I eventually got into other relationships aswell, but in the summer of 2016, after I had just broken up with another girl, I texted her again. And this time, it just worked out. this time she was happy to hear from me. enough time had passed for our old emotions to settle and give space for new emotions to grow. we met, dated, fell in love, but unfortunately we broke up again 1 month ago. I didn't contact her until yesterday, but she didn't respond yet. so I'll just have to give it more time. and maybe during that time I'll fall in love with someone else. but yeah, morale of the story is. just give it time. they won't forget you and if they ever really cared about you, and you give it enough patience they'll eventually contact you themselves or be glad that you contact them and not be bothered by it. just focus on your own life in the meantime, and if you get the chance to get back together it won't matter if they had other relationships in between. the only thing that's important is the now, neither the past, nor the future. after all, I was only able to get back together with my ex from 2015 after I had let her go completely and was indifferent towards the outcome. that's the point you want to reach. and if you realize that, now that you're indifferent, you don't even want to contact them anymore, then that's great aswell. you can only win, you see?
Maximilian best advice I ever read. I will certainly move on now thanks to you.
always there to help ;)
Maximilian the only problem with your advised is that the person that was dumped is initiating contact. I tried that. She rejected me and sometimes, didn't even answer..
But what if they never reach out to you? My ex is seeing someone else and she won't reach out to me
Buddy Bud-Bud just go in with your life. Never contact her, don't think about her, get busy, read books, workout etc.
coach are in USA or Canada
US
Master Craig, how long will i wait for her to reach?? Its been 3 months now when i started NC but still havent hear from her
Bruho Mars hear anything?
she's can't talked to me any more she dumped me so I block her in text and call me and I deleted here number so in Facebook to and I meet new one but she going to my friend more so I'm not going to visit any more told here not go to my friend but I can't stop anyway
Wish I saw this earlier, but who knows, I probably wouldnt have listened.
coach my ex kissed me last night but on the next day she told me to NOT do it again. why is she so confusing?
Yuri Santos push and pull reaction. She is confused with her feelings. Hopefully coach craig will give u a nice response
shorfan thanks man... I love this girl with all my heart
Yuri Santos No prob man.. atleast your ex kissed you ..
shorfan well we kissed twice... she acts hot and cold and touches me a lot. when I asked her to go out on a dte with me she said that her heart was closed and dont feel like dating anyone. but I know she likes me since she out of the blue became close friends with my mother.
Yuri Santos hmm seems as though she has somewhat feelings for you. She's perhaps afraid that your relationship will be like the old relationship that leas to your breakup, that she's scared you're the same old guy. You need to show, not tell, show her thst you have changed and that your relationship will not lead to the same faith as before.
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I need help craig 😭😭😭
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