"I Screwed Up!" Harith Iskander & Jezamine Lim Clear The Air | Exclusive Interview with Daphne Iking
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- When Dr. Jezamine filed for divorce against Comedian Harith Iskander, after 14 years of marriage, there was one question on everyone’s mind:
What happened?
Harith & Jezamine clear the air in this TRP Exclusive with TV personality Daphne Iking, their mutual close friend.
They explore what happened, why, and what’s next for the Family.
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; each one is different. What makes one person content might not make another person content. But I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You will not regret it.
Find Suzanne Ann Walters and save yourselves from this mayhem
A rare case of a couple who can handle their divorce in such a matured and rational manner. Not the usual fights or bad-mouthing each other in divorcing cases.
I think it's so brave of them to be interviewed and to answer all the questions. This is what honesty is all about. Too many compromises to make to make a marriage last. Better to part when you still care for each other rather than hate.
They volunteered to be interviewed so i guess they are ready 👌
Going round the bush, no specific answers at all.
What answer???? Hes a pro lah. He talked n talked n revealed NOTHING. Maybe in marriage he's like that, the wife can't tahan. Still , feel sorry for him.
Betul.... Tapi he stood by her through her PhD... He is proven the man behind the woman
Talking so.much...nothing reveal...
Waste of time
I had just gone through a divorce last year after 20 years. Made me sad. But my ex wife is my best friend today. We are closer than we had been as husband and wife. I understand harith and his partner perfectly well.
Do you actually hear yourself. Who are you kidding. Divorced but best friends? That's an oxymoron!
@@krahzeekat6164 to love someone is to set them free if/when they wish to explore different latitude… and I was not keen on those latitudes.
Sometimes when it happens, only we know how to be appreciate each other again..
I believe they did this interview to protect their children. As mentioned, their children's friends were already asking questions, and the media was already speculating. I feel deeply sorry for their young children. Typically, divorces can tear families apart, but kudos to both Harith and Jezamine for stepping up and being responsible parents. To the netizens: the least we can do is mind our own business and give them and their family the privacy they deserve. Kindness will make things better
Very sad for the children ....
After years .....
They may speak here but only they know why...❤
Having gone thru 2 divorces, i can say this: give yourself some space, but don't give up on each other. Be kind to your self and then only you can be merciful to each other.
What ? When ? Who were the victims?
One day you may fall in love with each other again and get married to each other one more time! Love both of your personalities! God Bless.
Yes l wish the same too and belive it will happen ...❤❤
Harith & Jasmine..The 2 of you r totally amazing. Getting a divorce soon, and facing all odds, u are brave enough to come together to clear the air regarding your marriage. Salute!.
Amazing Dr. But not Harith
"The hurt I caused." - the courage and humbleness to admit that is immensely touching.
When you marry a strong independent woman like Dr Jezamine, you cant 'screw up' like some recent celebrities always do. She wont kneel down and beg you to stay, she is very confident and isnt afraid to leave a relationship where her commitments are not respected nor reciprocated.
Seeing the funniest man in Malaysia and watching him since the early 2000s as a fun and comedic guy, broke to tears, it made me in tears as well.
Funniest but not happy is that difference
betrayal is difficult in marriage. It cuts deep. The trust gone. For the one betrayed - the question goes will it happen again in the mind ? Only a handful of people understand this. dirvorce will allow them both to heal.
true...betrayal is so painfull its hard to trust again...😢😢😢😢
So who's the betrayer?
Betrayal is the hardest emotion to deal with or forgive.
Salute to couple who handles divorce process with grace, maturity and dignity where the interest of the children is prioritised. It is still the best thing to wish the best for each other.
Amazing individuals. Just a soft reminder, after divorce you'd be a total stranger (ajnabi/non mahram). Although you might be good friends, but as Muslims you cannot touch each other (including salam/shake hands) let alone hug like you're doing right now in the video. I believe at the time of this interview you are still married couple, Harith has not say the talaq in court, right?
Sorry for saying this because I have met many couples who does not know this.
May Allah ease our ways.
Alamak selagi ada edah kan tak boleh keluar rumah pon laaa
@@cantikpnd6384 ya betul..melainkan keperluan mendesak..
Tp blum jatuh talak, maka blum ada iddah..
they might be a very close friend like these before marriage....and they would feel no different...but i doakan kedua mereka akan lebih memahami agama islam dan mndapatkn kehidupan yg lebih baik in future...aamiin..
@@cantikpnd6384perempuan dlm iddah, tidak boleh keluar rumah kecuali dgn izin suami. The suami is there together with her. Just pray that they will be guided and blessed by Allah. We all need this. I wish them all the best, and one day dipertemukan jodoh kembali or be given better than what they have now. Aamin.
Both of them are " REAL NOT HIPOKRIT"..To tell the truth is very painfull but have to tell out bcoz to PREVENT FITNAH...
At times, the best thing in order to love ❤️ someone is to know that ‘it’s time to let go’.
‘You got to be cruel to be kind’.
Dear Harith and Jazmine,
Marriage is just one part of life. There is certainly more to this as individuals, family, parents, partners, and friends. You both are doing it right, being friends (not enemies), and addressing your priorities. Media and everyone should just mind their own business and respect your privacy. All the best to both of you, and may God bless you both.
It's a very brave decision for this couple, they're not sharing their dirty laundry but to me sharing their ups and downs with their marriage and how they have tried and they've tried all means to salvage their marriage. There's a reason why Allah allows up to 3 talaq and eddah transition before it is finalised it is their 1st divorce. May Allah make ease for both of them and their kids, ameen
They were always on social media, showing their happiness with their kids included so it comes as a surprise, to me, anyway. Thanks, Daphne for doing the interview. Wish them all the best in all their future endeavours 🙏 #respect
Celebrities can act like happy couple to get endorsement.
they both are so mature in explaining their personel matters... wish you both the best of luck and success !
What explanation? What is 'stupid things that men do' according to Harith? Likely adultery or visit prostitute.
Betrayal the hardest issue in marriage,Stay strong Dr.Jasmine 😢 as time heals,behind closed doors,remain private and move on.
The Host is more sad than them....and i cried too when Harith cried...hmm....😢😢😢....wish all the best to them
Wishing the best for both of you. Yes , the kids come first. We have to be responsible parents. They never asked to be born and they (the kids) deserved the best . Kudos to H n J.
A 45min attempt to quell all speculations, but ended up opening a new can of other speculations.... anyway, i didn't look for this vid, it so happened to pop up on my feed... 😅
They still love each other. Body language showed all. Take a step back and think again. All the best to both of u
I don't think she loves him the way she loved him before. She looked sad & relieved at the same time. Betrayal hurts, and not having to look at the person who hurt you is a big relief & better for your mental health.
I am so glad you guys have this chat. And with all people...Daphne Iking. Both couple in mix marriages. Divorce is not the end of the road. Who knows... might turn out for the best.
Kebahagian itu apabila suami isteri kembali kpgNya. Bahagia di dunia n akhirat.
Clash of personalities. She is very ambitious, u can see. She puts in 300%. People evolve, moving on is very gutsy.
Sometimes, the greatest sacrifice is letting someone you love go for the sake of your partner happiness. Semoga Allah menggantikan sesuatu yang lebih baik dan diberikan kekuatan. It's not easy to redha but Allah is the best planner.
few minutes into this interview,tears were already rolling down😢.Wish them the best❤everyone should watch this interview and we can all learn something out of it....
Dont b stupid being an emcee. Everyone knows harith n thst jezamine .no bid deal. This emcee was previously wirh a chinese n now married to an orfinary malau then . So emcee no big deal
Dont play up emotions
Love the way Daphne poses some questions to Haritz with her eyes rolled up!🤣😂🤗🤗👍👍❤️❤️
Whn was this interview I wonder. Daphne has covered up / in hijab, for while now.. But in this she is sporting free hair
Yes, heal..let the wounds disappear, learn to love your self again, then live to journey on your renewed paths.. crossroads do meet
You both are so strong and courageous despite the fact of dealing with the gossiping, busybodies and media. Its a good journey. May you both find your way back to each other sometime in the future. The love is still there.
They never tell clearly to the point why they divorce a lot of beating around the bush
read between the lines lah
@@bbbboy6587why so afraid to tell the truth?
Obviously he cheated la aiyo
Drama !
he has stated very clearly, he did what men always do that mistake..
Looking at Jezamine she is a faithful loyal wife. So sad you caused her to decide she can’t take anymore.
Jezamine I hope you remember strong and sweet. God bless.
Peace and love to both. We may never know. Just coz they divorce doesn't mean they can't get back together ❤ They are cute together but Dr. Jez needs rest. She looks very tired.
Kinda sad watching this😢 my prayers may Allah make it an easy journey for both of you and your children. As a believer, Allah SWT knows best and has good plans for all of you. Ameen
Biasanya punca penceraian ialah masalah kewangan.. bila isteri sahaja yang kena menanggung semua.. perbelanjaan
They look so lovely together, even at the stage of divorcing. Hope they can resolve their issues. Hate to see such a lovely couple get separated.
These 2 remind me about my ex and myself. Rightly said, we are better of as friends too. Me and my ex have amazing rapport & respect even after the divorce. But, this wasn't the case wen we were married. So, i understand wen he said, we are better off as friends. Some people are just not meant to be husband & wife. They however, do very well as friends and parents( if they hv kids)
Our kids doesn’t even feel that we're divorced. Though they know we are. We put our kids 1st before our egos or issues.
I absolutely agree that sometimes married couples are better off as friends. I’m speaking from experience here. My ex and I are now the best of friends and we have a wonderful friendship with each other - mutual respect, trust, and genuine love.
Just forgive and get back. Be matured. Kids will always feel victimised no matter what you say.
Well .. what if you are the woman?
Can understand, why the both of you have taken this to the media...rather then the media having a field day with your lives you guys have come out with a,constructive measure to announce to the public I wish the both you the best in your life's journey God Bless.
Go to Umrah... Pray to ALLAH S.W.T in front of kaabah to save ur marriage..
Trust me...u may see different angle of solutions to "muhasabah" diri for each other..
#harith❤jezamine
*save.
If that really works, there will be less divorce cases among Muslims. The fact is God was never the foundation in the marriage. Worshiping a physical object is a pagan belief.
@@MELAYUSIA thnx..
I think it's better they part ways. He screwed up, so it's not fair for her. At least they now do not have to bear that burden, the relationship will be stronger and emotionally stable.
@@mdms9169 👍👍👍
Seluruh Singapura said please dont mention ur private life . Keep it private . Kita tak nak buka aib seseorang
The best comments in this thread!
Well u know them :)
We also in Malaysia don’t want to know. Was here because it pop out . Hope both of them will sort it out best as they should and their children are protected . We just doa as fellow muslim that everything will work out for them .
True, must tutup aib. In Indonesia now has a big Divorce Celebration..! It was on TV news. Tak faham aku.
One of many drama minggu ini involving so called Malaysian celebrities.
most important thing is that although they seperated but they still have the courage to clear up what people are saying about them..still good friend so it's ok..
Instead of taking legal action, why don't U both for now try living like divorced doing your scheduled responsibility. Distance may heal and make each other appreciate really. Then can comeback if U wish. For now try living under separate roofs.
Ya, I agree with that. Live separately for a time.
im sure they have done that...i thot they had mentioned it here too...They have work A-Z..
n...its not working tht they've decided this is the best decision at the moment...
Loved the interviewer. She's so well-spoken and poised 👌
she s daphne iking ..
jazmine didnt want to share harith with anybody by poligamy. Theres nothing could be the logic reason for both of them to devorce unless becoz of that thing for sure. As well as what we've being told by harith that he screwed up.
Clearly they are not talking about this possibalities at all.
All these scheduling will work until she or he has another bf or gf then it get awkward for them.and their partner...if she wants to let go completely..she has to let go the position as his manager..feel they will get back together otherwise
💯🔥
i have a feeling this is more of a lack of Intimacy and too much Pride... since they're both really busy people/individuals.. PLUS Dr. Jezamine are of HIGHER stature(in terms of Business and Individiality) than Harith and usually, due to ego, a Man can feel like he's not good enough... and from what i see, i can see it PLUS he is 17 years older...
What's so wonderful about marriages....
All those who are single are wise and lucky....hate to say. but marriages give more prssures and problems then before marriage...!!..😢
I agree. Marriage ain't all that these days 😢 And when kids are involved it's detrimental when a couple splits up 😢
"I ordered for him already" tells a lot
see..manager manager
Alaaaa ....please stay as husband and wife....
It is sad. However nobody can tell the future. If you have given your best, that's all you can do. Take care, pray and hope for the best.
Solat ,umrah and sadaqah.InsyaALLAH
They are just a normal couple like others . What a big deal about their divorce . Wake up people !!!
After all we are human, we all erh. Glad to see both of you still remains good buddy and friends though both walk separate ways. Wish you both all the best in your future endeavour.
You are not the first and the last to get divorced. Take a chill pill. Explain it to your kids instead.
Exactly! As if they owe anyone any explanation.
Semoga Dipermudahkan Segala Urusan.
After watching n hearing I am still confused about what is causing their separation with such understanding.
???????............
Insyallah.
Harith and Jaz .. I do agree with you to be a friend is better than being a husband and wife ..
Harith you are a good parents a good husband a good companion. Thats what my heart whispear. Inn shaa allah the truth speaks by itself.
Be specific. What did you do to screw up? Likely adultery, but he cannot say as he has to take the lady as his second wife, ok face Shariah court action.
You dont have to take the other lady as wife just because you F her.
Dear Harith, I just feel sorry for you as a man and as a human. To start of an elbow to the man you are about to divorce (hey dude you go lah you go lah) moreover while both as claim in the car going to file a divorce? Hmmmm....
By the way, to her...well we all don't go to Harith's show because we all "have a screw up day" as you claimed, we go because we love he's jokes and that is irregardless of whoever that manages him because he is the celebrity and the show man. It ends there and all credit goes to him. Managers get paid and we are sure she is well paid hence it job being paid so don't brag about managing him unless it is at no charge as a real wife. Also, Harith made a good point that it is the same for people that works 9-5pm because we all have to work our ass off even when something tragic happends. But, she stated that 9-5 people are not the same..they go on instargram. That is a horrible thing to say to fans.
Non stop mentioning that she is managing you...and the clients ..putting you so low as if you can't manage anything or are pointless or meaningless. We don't believe in that at all.
Profiling and personality can be identified of a person thru the way they speak, body movements, what and where they speak.
Harith, all I can say as a fan is that I feel pity for you and we all understand the situation you are in...we support you...only you. I also don't think the hard taps on you and throwing of the tissue on your face on national channel or rather during a talk about your divorce is in anyway right...a women should show respect to a man irregardless. Stay strong Harith.
Divorce is a normal thing nowadays but please don't make it normalised about it since marriage always has ups and downs. Better to stay together and try to fall in love again. Finding love with others, means you guys need to start from the beginning again. Forgiving and loving is always the best in any relationship. Kuddo
It's a case of: Why divorce, why not stay married Vs Why stay married, when we should divorce.
Weird the way she tried to be all physically friendly w him but he just never reciprocate . Also kasihan she convert for him and now ??
ya know, converting for the sake of love is different from converting due to really feeling the sense of belonging in ones Religion. i do hope she converted due to having strong faith within Islam and not due to Humanly Love... that's what others get's confused, and now it's up to her and God(Allah) and none of our business..
Of course lah. Isnt it obvious shes happy to divorce (believe me, a woman who doesnt want to divorce cannot laugh like shes doing even if u tell the funniest joke) and he doesnt want to divorce?
Ki@@hiphopdagame
what do u mean? respond the same way? divorce is too sided, no right or wrong, when the love is gone, just have to go separate ways.
@@hiphopdagameyou know her conversion was a must for it to get to next level… let’s not normalize that it’s for religion!
You left out the juicy part! What made them break up?
They both need to reboot n refresh and who knows perhaps be remarry again!!!
Of course she still loves him. But thinking about the other woman in his life, it is better to let him go. Time will heal everything and they will find another soul mate. To see her smiling, giggling, and shedding tears, clearly she is hurting. She is in pain. Betrayal is painful, it hurts. I think all woman have gone through all this.
Normally when the woman acts this way, this friendly and understanding towards her just ex-husband, it's a big red flag. It's almost screaming shoooh! Atlasat! Now I can be independent and move on, or brunching on, or start with my new found life/love.. Women who are totally at no fault and as mentioned have forgiven her screwed up husband many times would not even wanna sit on this chair and be as calm and friendly as her. Period!!! Harith Iskander... I pitty u man. U will find someone better who depends on u.
Agreed
Why need all those lengthy explanations...3 mins is more than enough to acknowledge their mutual divorce as a sign of social respect. Every other talking is just kind of BS.
Thank you for doing this. Both of you are teaching and walking unconditional love, a very precious & valuable lesson about life that children of separated/divorced parents need & would grow stronger from. Its important to have healthy families, not perfect families ❤❤❤
It resonates on so many levels for my family & i.
Stay authentic & stay blessed ❤❤❤❤
😭 berair mata aku..... Kuat betul dorg ni mind & emotion.
I'm feeling very so sorry for d both of U! after going thru such a long n successful marriage by having yr beautiful n awesome kids! N now going in separate ways! Hopefully time will heal to d both of U! Let's pray d both of U will realise by living separately things will change for d better in whatever U both love to continue n surprises may come to both of yr lives! 🙏🙏🙏
Harith cried shows how he cant accept the divorce 😢 . Jezzamine looks no sad at all it shows how happy she is .
Very sad.
Outside laughing, inside is hurting, a protective barrier
If you love somebody, set them free. Harith and Jezamine are so gracious throughout the interview
Kan 😂
She’s very emotional and it’s evident that she’s forced to decide as probably no other choice than divorcing! 😢😢😢 He probably did have an affair reason for this divorce. It’s hard and no woman will be able to accept it. Hopefully god bless them both as kids need both parents in their life.
Feeling sorry for Dr Jasmine. Harith screwed up!
And she hd to convert in order to marry Harith.So much sacrifices!😢
The way she is falling on him n hugging him shows she still love him
This divorce matter looks like a gimmick to gain back Harith's dwelding popularity
Let's wait n see
Why not? Both mutually agreed for the benefit and on good terms . Such high accusations to think this is a ginmick. Both of them are well to do there not reason to so such things anyways
No . Love is one thing but been betrayed is another
Totalling agree with u
Rubbish no divorce has ended so peacefully one in a million?😂😜😜😜😜
Their character dont fit each other. Its like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole. From this interview, Harith admitted his wrong doing but nothing from the manageress.
Hope Harith can change into a better person and settle down with a 'kampung' lady and for the manageress its better she find a western kind of high flyer. Wish all the best for both of them.
What is the reason for this interview? better keep marital issues private. You two should discuss your problems behind closed door.
Because netizen speculating and making accusations. For example saying harith is physically abusing which cause the divorce
Because they are public figures, celebrities.. people want to know. They are protecting their kids as well. If they don't come out and give statements, the kids might face media harassment too besides by their friends
I so agree with you!
Are you guys trying to be the second "Harry & Meghan" ?
Ikr? I miss the days when people didn't air their dirty laundry in a last grasp for relevance.
Dr Jezamine is a blessed lady, strong woman, beautiful and intelligent. Her next love will be someone who is just as amazing as her. And probably someone who goes to gym and the kids will love. I do not know what else happened in the marriage, and I cannot make any judgement. I do wish the best for both.
Power! They might stay together because of this interview.
Wife seems happy holding him laughing looks like a happy couple but divorcing funny isn't it
Its pretty obvious shes happy n excited to be free of him. Occasionally when she remembered she laughed, she quickly quietens down n puts on a sober face. Harith is genuinely hurting real bad. The sadness is all over his face..... 😢😢
Some people cope with grief differently. Either smiling, laughing, cackling, shouting etc. It all boils down to personal expressions. But deep down, she's sad too. Doesn't mean that she's a mean person etc.
She's hurting very badly and trying not to break down and cry so she is trying to cover up woh nervous laughter
PLS DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE WORLD. BE HAPPY.❤❤❤
don't know why but I'm smiling all the way watching a divorce video. wishing all the best for both of u guys. ❤
it is very sad to hear the news. Hope they will find solace.
May God bless them n their kids always 🙏🙏🙏
Harith, Jezamine, whatever happened between you two, the tears tht flows out from your eyes shows hurt and love, perhaps words that cannot be shared especially Jezamine also Harith. Just keep the doors open in any case if heart heals you can walk to each other again, all be happy.. Best of luck, our prayers is with you.
I love the way they are going through..both are amazing
It's been long time coming. Harith.
Aiyooo… still can argue 😄 and nmpk harith actually introvert as he said.. mmg mcm langit dgn bumi
Me having Daphne look during the whole interview...i still cannot brain they are divorcing💔
They need sometime to heal and reflect upon their mistakes or what requires to improve their relationship. Hopefully, the separation is only temporary. You only will get better with age usually. Sincerity and communication are keys to a successful marriage.
With all my respect to both of u❤❤jezamlne is.very brave and have a good intellect in handling situation.harith also❤❤
Don't want people to know, then why take a photo in front of the court?
Well said sis!👏👍🤣😂🙄
How do you know they took their own photo and leak to the media? Think.
Drama .. and that is more than Bollywood
In marriage sod ba ro is vital to endure the relationship
Hope the children are ok. Im sure this is too much for them. But hopefully they will recover.
Harith carrying big things in his life, event this moment he still keeping something and put all that wrong on his shoulders.