In America it's the exact opposite. In America they would be okay with a homophobic relative see the patient and not care if that relative tries to make that patient feel bad, but hospital would act with extreme tension in not letting the gay person see their same sex lover. I have heard there are other countries outside of America that are far ahead when it comes to gay acceptance. I like that the hospital staff have the common sense to know that a gay lover is more of a comfort to a gay patient than a biological parent(we don't choose our parents) who has the potential to be homophobic.
missourigreen051 not really, I live in America too but not all hospitals are homophobic. If the hospital is homophobic it’s probably some of the people working in the hospital. If they are rude to a homosexual then they could get fired because it’s not their place to say how they feel about that matter. But I do see where you’re coming from, and sadly it is true that some people would deny a couple to see their spouse because they are the same gender, it’s rare though.
missourigreen051 most dont care, ive been to the hospital multiple times. theyve asked me about my sexuality before, and when i told them, they continued the questions as normal. if its a good hospital, they are focused on health, not their beliefs.
Dad came around once he realized that his son's health could be improved by his happiness. It's not always easy to change but as a parent you always do what's best for your child.
@@damiluaer8859 Yes of course he could have and should have, but people are people, it sometimes takes time for them to understand things. Some never do. I used to tell people who were coming out "It took you all your life to get comfortable enough with being gay to tell your folks. Give them more than an hour to do the same things, ok?"
I struggle with bulimia and I often go hours on end without eating. It’s a struggle everyday and hearing the douche dad say it’s a “girly disease” is just WOW!
+edibe e in a hospital, it's the doctor in charge, not the parents. I don't judge the father from a lack of empathy, but rather for his lack of self-awareness.
DUDE MY BESTFRIEND'S DAD SAID NEARLY THE SAME THING AND I WAS LIKE, "UH...NO? THAT'S NOT HOW THE WHOLE PARENTAL SUPPORT/UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THING WORKS?"
homophobic people tend to think we that who we are, being gay can do harm. their dead wrong! if someone was by my side at my ills, when I needed them the most, a self calm would take effect. we are not the problem, we can only be who we are. nothing can change that in life or death. when my lover died, I was put out by his family by their fear of who we are. #LoveWins always.
@@aidzy5643 Being homosexual is no more a "lifestyle" than being heterosexual. That is, since being heterosexual cannot be said to be a lifestyle, neither can homosexuality. It is just one's sexual identity....a state of being. Part of one's makeup.
@@aidzy5643 Nope, nothing to add, that was it. I do, however, agree with you 100% about the element of harmlessness. I had just thought to clarify that bit...I did not mean to cause any discomfort or upset to anyone. Thank you for replying though. :-)
Parents are often like this with their children. They try so hard to raise them a certain way. Thinking every perceived Fault in the child is somehow their fault. It drives parents to be nuts sometimes. Then like their children lots of parents mature. They come to realize that their children are individuals with different personalities , strengths, and faults of their own.
I don't think the dad realized what a bully he was to his own son. He encouraged him to lose a ton of weight because he was "overweight" as a kid AND so he could live vicariously through him through sports. That poor boy. I'm glad he had such a caring boyfriend. :) While I'm glad the dad finally did the right thing at the end, his reactions still left me feeling concerned. Hopefully he'll continue to be accepting.
What a cute couple and a great short story absolutely loved it :) Kudos to the Dad to be this understanding it is difficult for parents but glad he made the right choice in the end.
why didnt he just tell his dad to sush , like im not joking my mum is allot like the dad but she understands when i feel like i need to talk dam annoying af
“When the dad is telling the doctor what’s happening” And I’m just here looking at him saying “I don’t see a uno switcharu card in your hand so shut the hell up”
I watched this I dont know must be like 8 years ago when I was figuring stuff out and I still remember it well. Thank you youtube channels which cut the gay bits out of soap operas and post them here! You're doing a valuable service
as soon as they asked him for his height, i knew what they were thinking. I’ve been there many times, and am currently in treatment again. I’m trying very hard to recover, because i know it will be worth it. It gets better
What I love about UK Soaps is that they were more "Open" about doing Storylines. There was a Gay Storyline from the US Soap Days Of Our Lives where Two Men named Will and Sonny Got Married, raised Will's Daughter by a Woman but Will dies and Sonny moves to Paris. On Another US Soap Kyle and Oliver aka Fish move to Toronto, Ontario to start a new life. Right now with Four Soaps on US TV, I don't know of any Gay/Lesbian Storylines except a minor one on General Hospital and A Trans Character on The Bold & The Beautiful.
Can anyone please tell me if there is a continuation of this storyline?? I just came across this by accident while watching the Johnny episodes of Eastenders and after one watch, I am instantly hook, I would love to see more of this storyline. I just love watching British shows
Patient storylines don't really go past a single episode in Casualty since it takes place in an emergency room but they do have loads of good storylines.
Solofyd Sorry I know this is random, but I saw your comment and decided to have a look at the Johnny gay storyline from Eastenders and just wanted to say thanks xD I watched hours of it without stopping it was so good hahaha. Thank you :)
I spent 2 months in a hospital and during one week of that I made friends with my rehab unit (yes the entire unit) I had 5 boys on my unit with boyfriends (including me) all of us had parents or close relatives that hated that and essentially made this scenario a reality. I saw one parent hit their son’s boyfriend because they were so infuriated. It’s very sad that this kind of thing happens which is why we all need to do our part to stop it from happening.
Dad was "old school" maybe from a different culture, but he wised up and accepted his son as gay. "I am his boyfriend" and his concerned showed the father that it was more than sex, amazing love between two men. The boyfriend didn't back down and was an amazing strong willed young man for both of them. I wished my parent would have been this accepting.
The quality of the casting, the acting, the direction of the script, makes this vignette so believable: the affection between the two guys, their chemistry, their tension, is an ideal role model. The female MD is a weak link: prissy, arrogant, failure to assert appropriate authority, making the dx of Marfans Syn before confirming tests, to a parent and patient, is poor medicine: rattling off the characteristics of the syndrome like tonight's shopping list for dinner is poorly scripted, crass in comparison to the father's incisive acting. The MD is as obsessive and controlling and arrogant in her role, as the father is superb in his. The adorable, tender, polished and restrained boyfriend is a plus, a plus for anyone to have such a warm, devoted, and strong -willed lover...if they weren't dating before they did this clip, they should be now.
Thank you! I saw a clip of this in an airport and I didn’t know what show it was and wanted to know what happened and tried googling it and it didn’t work! Thank you!
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"I'm his.."
glances at ben's dad
"i'm his boyfriend"
POWER MOVE
Thats me with my fiancè and his friend "i'm his.."
Looks at his friends
"I'm his fiancè"
Squid S YASSSSS
When did he say that?¿??????????
Squid S yas
Leo GayBoy how old r u
I swear the dad needs to shut up while the doctor is asking questions.
BelugaWhaleGhost 69 yeah
Periodt
I agree,every time he talked I was getting mad like that lady should have said shut up but then she would have lost her job
Yea, how to get no information... be that dad
Amagin you’re. Child in a and e I was in a and e Amagin u would say stuff like that
The dad was such a good actor! He annoyed me soooo much!
Luca Dolan Ruiz well that was a backhanded compliment
Lol hahahahaha. You know the actor is good when they portray the character so well it gets on your nerves
The mans on EastEnders
i love how everyone one at the hospital is like let the gays be
In America it's the exact opposite. In America they would be okay with a homophobic relative see the patient and not care if that relative tries to make that patient feel bad, but hospital would act with extreme tension in not letting the gay person see their same sex lover. I have heard there are other countries outside of America that are far ahead when it comes to gay acceptance. I like that the hospital staff have the common sense to know that a gay lover is more of a comfort to a gay patient than a biological parent(we don't choose our parents) who has the potential to be homophobic.
missourigreen051 not really, I live in America too but not all hospitals are homophobic. If the hospital is homophobic it’s probably some of the people working in the hospital. If they are rude to a homosexual then they could get fired because it’s not their place to say how they feel about that matter. But I do see where you’re coming from, and sadly it is true that some people would deny a couple to see their spouse because they are the same gender, it’s rare though.
missourigreen051 most dont care, ive been to the hospital multiple times. theyve asked me about my sexuality before, and when i told them, they continued the questions as normal. if its a good hospital, they are focused on health, not their beliefs.
I love how 5 year olds still trash talk and don’t know how to spell
@@missourigreen051 lol. This is so NOT TRUE! Gay marriage is legal here now so stop making things up
Dad came around once he realized that his son's health could be improved by his happiness. It's not always easy to change but as a parent you always do what's best for your child.
that's right
SkeeWee-C you have a point, but his dad should have accepted him before his state became this severe.
Aww
@@damiluaer8859 Yes of course he could have and should have, but people are people, it sometimes takes time for them to understand things. Some never do. I used to tell people who were coming out "It took you all your life to get comfortable enough with being gay to tell your folks. Give them more than an hour to do the same things, ok?"
@@philipem1000 that’s great advice
I work in Healthcare, and unfortunately, this scenario is more true then you may think.
tigergreg8 wow how often does this happen
oh my god! That's horrible!!
If being gay was an illness confirmed, I'd try spreading it to my crush lol.
I am a Weaboo Yeet same
tigergreg8
I am a Weeaboo/Koreaboo FUCK SAME
"You're not labelling my son with some girly eating disorder"
This dude is a potato
That’s an insult to potatoes
I'm a potato, he is beneath us
fragile masculinity
The dad was so annoying omg
Frostbite Gaming yeah I hated him mostly because if the homophobia but also he keeps interrupting the doctors
Hey People I just wanted to punch him
Typical, my dad’s worse.
Lol
Frostbite Gaming until the end
His dads eyebrows went on vacation and never came back😂
L0rd Shad0w 😂😂
Succ My Noodles oh my God
😂😂😂
Lmao 😂
Same as his wife
wish his dad would shut his trap for 2 seconds
honestly yeah
Highly agree
No longer
Have to admit tho that he is a absolutely amazing actor
Kudos to parents putting their kids first before their pride.
@Skyler Morison lol
And that’s how I know ur a fanfiction reader!!!
Nearly lost it when he says anorexia was a “girly eating disorder” or some shit
Like
No
You need to leave
Thanks bye
I struggle with bulimia and I often go hours on end without eating. It’s a struggle everyday and hearing the douche dad say it’s a “girly disease” is just WOW!
Adam Hill Please seek help if you haven't already.
Anna
Ravenclaws for days
Yeah exactly
That dude irritates my life
That Father is super annoying.
agreed
Thanurshan Solan I'm surprised the doctor didn't just say "will you SHUT UP already and let me do my job!"
+CJ O'Reilly I'm sure every viewer is screaming at the screen for the guy to shut THE FUCK up.
+edibe e in a hospital, it's the doctor in charge, not the parents. I don't judge the father from a lack of empathy, but rather for his lack of self-awareness.
Charlotte sad upset
Cros
Woman: being gay is not a mental condition
Me: yes it is I can't stop looking at my crush he is so hot
Alucard Gaming hahahahahahahah
Alucard Gaming ?
@@tbhmikexd6040 yeah
This made me smile 😊
I feel the same way😂😂😂
" this gay thing, did that cause it ?"
" being anorexic wasn't caused by being gay but worrying about it and being unhappy about it might"
The parent should accept there son of he is gay
Being gay is not a metal problem
I know you mispelled that but thats a real STRONG problem
Badass problems
But seriously tho I agree
YOUR RIGHT .
Hamid Sharif nor is it a mental problem
Hamid Sharif IKR
"girly eating disorder"
hOld mY hEeLs
namjooncansteponmeandiwouldthankhim ur name omg ;-;
I feel your username on a personal level
namjooncansteponmeandiwouldthankhim lol 😂 I liked ur comment because I like it and I like ur name so I subbed
namjooncansteponmeandiwouldthankhim id like the comment until i saw the name
My mum says she still loves me but won't accept me. I think we have different definitions of love.
XD as long as you accept you and love yourself that,s what matters, man be yourself be proud of who you are !
I’m sorry your mum won’t accept you I hope she does soon
Same
DUDE MY BESTFRIEND'S DAD SAID NEARLY THE SAME THING AND I WAS LIKE, "UH...NO? THAT'S NOT HOW THE WHOLE PARENTAL SUPPORT/UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THING WORKS?"
X D she’s definitely not your mom
This has a serious message but the boys are so *cute* together☺️
Sloane Ramirez I know!! I *love* seeing gay couples together
Ikr. Smile every time I watch this 😍
Omg just stfu
Yeah.
spidey 4 gyms *Why?*
homophobic people tend to think we that who we are, being gay can do harm. their dead wrong!
if someone was by my side at my ills, when I needed them the most, a self calm would take effect. we are not the problem, we can only be who we are. nothing can change that in life or death.
when my lover died, I was put out by his family by their fear of who we are.
#LoveWins always.
don bob
Sorry for your loss, I can relate to this..
Homosexuality at heart is a harmless lifestyle
@@aidzy5643 Being homosexual is no more a "lifestyle" than being heterosexual. That is, since being heterosexual cannot be said to be a lifestyle, neither can homosexuality. It is just one's sexual identity....a state of being. Part of one's makeup.
Sheila Ngumi-Mbugua The homosexual identity is a harmless identity, anything else you want to add?
@@aidzy5643 Nope, nothing to add, that was it. I do, however, agree with you 100% about the element of harmlessness. I had just thought to clarify that bit...I did not mean to cause any discomfort or upset to anyone. Thank you for replying though. :-)
Parents are often like this with their children. They try so hard to raise them a certain way. Thinking every perceived Fault in the child is somehow their fault. It drives parents to be nuts sometimes. Then like their children lots of parents mature. They come to realize that their children are individuals with different personalities , strengths, and faults of their own.
This father is every medical practitioner's worst nightmare!
Excellent response from the dad. Not many are that fast putting their own feelings aside.
the black boy is very cute...would love to see more of his story
Skyhawk1987Turbo what black boy? The one with marfins? Because he's more mixed than black
he's mixed
His name is Ben
me too I'm gathering the blonde boy is his boyfriend
yep seen more. Liam's a great boyfriend
Aw so cute. Acceptance is such a cool thing.
It's more like tolerance than acceptance, still good of him though
@@mmhhh3722 can you maybe shut the fuck up and go away?
@@mmhhh3722 Id say your post is ! a vile comment , I have both gay and straight friends and they,re all great !
Jose Manuel Monserrat I
@@mmhhh3722 wtf no its not its no different then being straight!
The father is so rude, jeez Louise
8:50
Sees ultrasound.... *BENS PREGNANT?!?*
oh wait.
I don't think the dad realized what a bully he was to his own son. He encouraged him to lose a ton of weight because he was "overweight" as a kid AND so he could live vicariously through him through sports. That poor boy. I'm glad he had such a caring boyfriend. :) While I'm glad the dad finally did the right thing at the end, his reactions still left me feeling concerned. Hopefully he'll continue to be accepting.
Midnight Sonnet you do realise this is made up?
That dad in annoying AF my lord stop talking dude
I still hate the father😠
Why? Forgiveness is freedom.
+1GoldRunner yes he has a bloody answer for everything
+1GoldRunner PS let the boy speak for himself ffs
“Im his uh”
*looks at bens dad*
“Im bens boyfriend”
8:25
What a cute couple and a great short story absolutely loved it :) Kudos to the Dad to be this understanding it is difficult for parents but glad he made the right choice in the end.
ryu ray He's (the dad) still annoying as fuck though xD
What is this.movie name
A father’s journey from homophobia to ultimate acceptance; very moving.
Quite remarkable in about 2 minutes. It has taken my father 20 odd years!
If it was so easy in real life
why didnt he just tell his dad to sush , like im not joking my mum is allot like the dad but she understands when i feel like i need to talk dam annoying af
Wooow what's wrong that seemed really agitativly driven
Ricardo J Aguiar not every person is the same . everyone cones to their understanding when they need to . even jf its to late . my dad did .
The same reason you never told your dad to sush
P
Come on acceptance !!!!
Yes come on hey I am a Mormon but I accept LGBT+ and anyone else in my book everyone is equal unless you murdered a cat or something
@@fundiamond2118 lol
awww the smile on his face when he saw his boyfriend made my heart flutter 10:51
I love this hospital.
?
you can tell the farther loves his boy, even if he's a little annoying
Starmadien2019 yeah sure, besides the fact that for his fault his son could be dead😠
Parents like these end up being detrimental to the sons mental health.
He loves him so much he almost ruined his son's life because he is a homophobic piece of shit. Great father (and person) right there, yeah.
+Lexus Fox yep so true any possible mh problems he might end up having will be down to his father's extreme behaviour
I think the dad just wanted the kid to live up to his expectations. The dad is just a homophobic, selfish person.
As usual I read some comments first and felt bad for the dad being hated on.
Now I feel the same as everyone else.
I love the look she gave at 7:27 😂
Y
Gassy
I love it
OMG the Dad is jsut so annoying and getting in the way
I’m lgbt+
I’m glad my parents or siblings didn’t care if I was queer
And loved me more
For a while ....
Then stuff went back to normal:/
I like how the boys barely even do couple-y things yet you still get that vibe that they're together
I relate to this more toward the parent child relationship, more than being gay
The comment section restores my faith in humanity
Same
Same
"This one isn't going away is he?" 😂😂😂 the same way you'd ask your partner or child about a stray animal they picked up
i legit said "gO AWAY" out loud to my phone whenever the dad talked bc everything he said was so uNNECESSARY
“When the dad is telling the doctor what’s happening”
And I’m just here looking at him saying “I don’t see a uno switcharu card in your hand so shut the hell up”
Awww, that was a nice story.
his dad is so aggravating 😂‼️ let the boy talk
The dad needs to be quiet when the doc isn’t talking to him plus taking him out the hospital like that was just...
HIS DAD IS RUDE FOR SAYING THAT LIKE IF YOU AGREE .
I watched this I dont know must be like 8 years ago when I was figuring stuff out and I still remember it well. Thank you youtube channels which cut the gay bits out of soap operas and post them here! You're doing a valuable service
Omg i learned about the Marfan syndrome at school
I never tire of watching this. Tear up every time at the end. Nicely done.
One of the many moments when Connie was an absolute queen
What show is this??
I want more to the story line so bad
If you wanted to fight the dad like this comment.
I wouldn't fight him, I would sell these 🗡🔪🔫 to the armies of pissed off gays, lebsians, and freedom fighters
The way he lighten up when he seen his BF. AW. They so cute would watch entire movie with em and the fluff.
as soon as they asked him for his height, i knew what they were thinking. I’ve been there many times, and am currently in treatment again. I’m trying very hard to recover, because i know it will be worth it. It gets better
What I love about UK Soaps is that they were more "Open" about doing Storylines. There was a Gay Storyline from the US Soap Days Of Our Lives where Two Men named Will and Sonny Got Married, raised Will's Daughter by a Woman but Will dies and Sonny moves to Paris. On Another US Soap Kyle and Oliver aka Fish move to Toronto, Ontario to start a new life. Right now with Four Soaps on US TV, I don't know of any Gay/Lesbian Storylines except a minor one on General Hospital and A Trans Character on The Bold & The Beautiful.
Does anyone else hear a dog whistle in the background??
Love how u asked a question and no one answered but 16 likes 😂
Nu
Look how Ben lights up when he sees his boyfriend. If that's not love. ..
Can anyone please tell me if there is a continuation of this storyline?? I just came across this by accident while watching the Johnny episodes of Eastenders and after one watch, I am instantly hook, I would love to see more of this storyline. I just love watching British shows
Patient storylines don't really go past a single episode in Casualty since it takes place in an emergency room but they do have loads of good storylines.
Kelli R Okay thank you for the information.
Solofyd do you know what episode this is?
Rebecca Purdy
I am sorry but I do not, I wish I knew.
Solofyd Sorry I know this is random, but I saw your comment and decided to have a look at the Johnny gay storyline from Eastenders and just wanted to say thanks xD I watched hours of it without stopping it was so good hahaha. Thank you :)
Is there more for this storyline?
“this..this gay thing. has that caused it?”
i have never wanted to slap someone so badly
He the type of guy that answers questions for you that bugs me so fucking much
This was so well done and accurate! The acting was super good!!❤💛💚💙
Anyone else who's on a coming out/gay commercial spree?❤💛💚💙💜
11:23 dad finally leaves*
Me: THANK YOU LORD THE WAS HORRIBLE
I spent 2 months in a hospital and during one week of that I made friends with my rehab unit (yes the entire unit) I had 5 boys on my unit with boyfriends (including me) all of us had parents or close relatives that hated that and essentially made this scenario a reality. I saw one parent hit their son’s boyfriend because they were so infuriated. It’s very sad that this kind of thing happens which is why we all need to do our part to stop it from happening.
it’s official
*we all think their cute together* 🥰
The person who plays the dad is in Eastenders :-) Great Actor!!!
very nice Story, the dad come to terms that his Son is gay
Anyone else love the way Connie walks into resus and looks at the dad? 7:28
Connie being absolute queen as always
Dad was "old school" maybe from a different culture, but he wised up and accepted his son as gay. "I am his boyfriend" and his concerned showed the father that it was more than sex, amazing love between two men. The boyfriend didn't back down and was an amazing strong willed young man for both of them. I wished my parent would have been this accepting.
LIKE ACTUALLY..HIS FRICKING DAD..HIS- OH MY GOD-HHHHHH *cries in a corner*
*pats shoulder* I know 😭
Soo tall I fell in love!!
The quality of the casting, the acting, the direction of the script, makes this vignette so believable: the affection between the two guys, their chemistry, their tension, is an ideal role model. The female MD is a weak link: prissy, arrogant, failure to assert appropriate authority, making the dx of Marfans Syn before confirming tests, to a parent and patient, is poor medicine: rattling off the characteristics of the syndrome like tonight's shopping list for dinner is poorly scripted, crass in comparison to the father's incisive acting. The MD is as obsessive and controlling and arrogant in her role, as the father is superb in his. The adorable, tender, polished and restrained boyfriend is a plus, a plus for anyone to have such a warm, devoted, and strong -willed lover...if they weren't dating before they did this clip, they should be now.
7:28 the look that she gave him is how we all felt
Such a cute story!
I remember when u came out to my dad, it was awesome. I love you dad, thank you for all the years of support.
My dad literally left my mom after I told him but for different reasons lol
i lost my marbles when he said anorexia was some girly eating disorder
Ok ‘girly disorder’ pissed me off so much
Omfg the dad HAS to go
7:27 Me walking into Math class and glaring at the teacher, 11:19 when he says I did good in it
Bravo! Good example of coming around.
0:46 - me in PE!! 😂😂
Ha, this aired on my birthday
I really hope they kissed at the end. My heart melted for this story ❤😊
my hearts goes out to the
boy ♥️~>💁🏾♂️
This made me wayyyyyyyyy more emotional then i expected.......😔
This really reminded me of Tom bridegroom's story really sad
That dad is the most annoying most, ignorant, and most careless person ever
fantastic together Zoe and Max also show more episodes please of.
What a great Dad. We need to love our children for who they are.
I would be so pissed if my dad was that annoying
Well finally he accepted him... It's a good start Mr. Mason....
I miss the old characters; cal, fletch, Rita, tess, zoey
Thank you! I saw a clip of this in an airport and I didn’t know what show it was and wanted to know what happened and tried googling it and it didn’t work! Thank you!
Awwww Callum I miss him 😭😭