How To Develop Your Confidence - Derren Brown
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- čas přidán 8. 12. 2015
- Derren gives a shy young man the gift of confidence, by giving him a more positive outlook and teaching him to embrace life fully. Then he takes him speed dating.
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Is asked by Derren to "dress for an evening out".
Shows up in the exact same clothes.
Boom. Instant player.
Derren brown would be a fascinating person to have a coffee with.
I thought, should have worn pants. Not jeans. lol
BUT the worst is those shoes! YES, women DO look at your shoes!
Jason's shoes scream: Unemployed & lives with Mummy. AND he doesn't.
Those shoes, _need_ to go into the bin.
@@Digitalhunny It's not just the shoes, it's the way those baggy ass jeans sit over the shoes 😩
@@silverkitty2503 i dont know.. he could easily make me rob a bank or something.
@Diamond yeah walking around naked usually gets me my most success
why can't derren pop out of nowhere and help sort my life out lol... ya never know eh
John Walsh agreed
long live fender \
ditto
Because it's Derren, you never know when it might happen. You might have met him on the street and given him money, then he just made you forget about it for a year.
If you ever meet Derren, be wary for about 2 years. Anything could happen at any point.
Be careful what you wish for...some of his tricks are really rather frightening (remember 30,000ft?)
come on Derren release that self help book, bet it would be a great read. anyone else want it?
Sign me up!
all his books are helpful. you can get skills to help yourself from them. :)
but in one of his books he said he was thinking about doing a self help book. i reckon that would be a good read
+mikebizzleuk Ehhh no
+mikebizzleuk not sure a book can cover it all, I mean just a book.
It's like he's selling his soul when Derren appears at the dentist's
I'll take whatever Jason is having.
pussy
BlueBloodedTiger lmaoo
+BlueBloodedTiger Fuck, I was going say that
its weed
+BlueBloodedTiger Lmao i thought it was an insult at.
I always wonder how much better the world would be as a whole if everyone got just ONE session like this in their lives.
this video explains it all. But I would still buy it or donate.
Respect Darren. You could be doing so much harm if you were a selfish man. Again, MASSIVE Respect Darren, you're a living legend
Derren
So much respect you forgot his name(^^)
lol dude ikr XD but really ur a little rude eh? :P
You say there is proof Derren Brown has been found to be fake. Please provide me that proof and my thoughts of him will happily change.
@GoodRiddanceGooglePlus Damn man you really have a lot of pent up anger for some reason. All that stuff you said that you aimed at some guy on this video is so unnecessarily hateful that it makes me wonder what has happened in your life that makes you react in such a manner and say such vile things. Either way, I hope you realise 1 day that saying such things to people is not the right way to go about things and that you'll find a much nicer way to express yourself and I hope that you do get some help for your depression and sadness.
This is what i need. I'm sick of this frigging anxiety and low confidence.
Same
Same !
Cocaine... Its Cocaine
lol
or molly?
Hahahahahahahaha
hhaha
I was just about to make this comment lol.
You wanna exp the same effect? Ok go into dark room at night. Close your eyes and imagine Derren appear in front of you. And then he talk to you as if he was your best friend, pointing out this and that, giving you awesome examples, tips and advices. Just imagine that. And while you listening to him you realize everything he said is so true and easy to realize. At the end you feel like you really overcome your shyness. You look at it as if it was something small, simple and was never actually there. From now on confidence is something natural for you. Its self-hypnosis or self-suggestion and if you imagine this without any doubt and believe in this - it will work.
I like this
also take some psychedelics
+Planetar You forgot to mention the LSD that should be used before trying. A vital step if you want it to succeed.
+Aika Luna Yes offcourse psychedelics are good for it as well - as we are engaging with ourselfs within. But knowing proper technic, believe in it and actually doing it is most important. You can success without use of psychedelic - for those who are not confident enough to use them I think its good to know this. Taking psychedelics will greatly enhance this method.
Yeah, but... what did Derren actually say to Jason? And HOW did he say it? The hypnosis session, was turned into a montage of clips and images, with a voice-over narration, to condense it. He was also doing things physically with Jason, as he was speaking to him.
The effect afterward, was dramatic; you could see it in Jason's face. You could see it in the way he behaved so differently at the next speed dating session. So I don't doubt it worked; would just like to have seen the whole hypnosis session. Who wouldn't want some of that?
If only he could do that to me....fuck my life
+Voltaire You can :)
Start picking up girls in the street. Thats what I do.
Picking them is easy. Finding them unconscious on the other hand....
+coucik whadya mean?
+coucik lol friday at about 3am ;)
Wow... I want to experience the kind of transformation bestowed upon Jason. Most days I feel like that's just me dreaming a pipe-dream and that the best I can hope for is just to get along day by day without some tragedy befalling me. Love what you do, Derren. Thanks for sharing this.
Don't worry buddy. It'll come to you one day.
+BlueBloodedTiger I dunno, man. I'm 53. Some days, I can't help but feel like my prospects for 'someday' are mostly behind me. I mean, yeah, it *could* still happen but the older I get, the harder it is to keep hope up, ya know? Anyway, thanks for your encouragement. I do appreciate it :)
+Richard Harlos II Don't wait for things to happen, everyday you build the person you will be the next day. Stop for one day and you will need to start again. Real change is incremental.
+Richard Harlos II If you have a goal or list of goals, write them down and pick one of them. Every day spend 5-10 minutes doing something practical towards it, even if it's just planning or researching something important. For example if your goal is to write a book (since I fancy myself as a writer) then spend ten minutes writing each day, or just write 100 words (whatever's comfortable to you), and each day you'll be a little closer to getting what you want. You can't transform your life instantly, it takes dedication and time. If you start immediately, but in small doses, then the time will pass as ever, but you'll actually have achieved something :)
would love to pay talk in person be controlled
haha he's just a bit pissed the second time
I could use a booster like that
Or you could go to an event meant for introverts. Ain't no party like an invtovert part!! (Nobody shows up)
well u look nice and cute, i would date u, so u should be more confident than u are now (were one year ago :D i hope u are better now). and im a guy, pretty good looking one too, and i would totally date u ;)
lorna harris you and me both
Seon-Il Han lol silly
@@roxydzey id date the colour brown too
If there's a way to do something like this thru a video rather than physically in person, Derren is the one to figure it out. Help us Derren-Brown Kenobi... You're our only hope.
I want Derren to open an institute where people use his skills and knowledge to change people's lives on a large program scale. I would spend EVERY PENNY.
HOW MANY PENNIES WE TALKING?
Gee mAle 100
There are hypnotherapists everywhere
Sadly most people are not responsible enough to have this sort of knowledge and use it properly. While this is nice in theory the damage we could do to people can far outweigh the good if we are not fully aware of what it is we are projecting and manipulating.
I look at this from a computer sciency aspect, if you consider that things like our nervous system are nothing more than complex electrical circuitry, and our brains simply recieve those signals, process them and react to them accordingly thus creating "pain" sensations etc. it makes me admire psychology and the whole field of neuroscience. the human eye is to the brain what the camera is to a processor.
The problem i've found with programming is that when you get good, you can use it for good by creating software for pacemakers, or analysing pictures of cancerous tumors etc. you can also use programming to steal from people, manipulate them etc.
the difference between a good software programmer and a hacker is intention,
and the difference between a psychopathic warlord and a good innovative leader is also intention.
When you have the knowledge to influence decision, be it the "decisions" of a computer or human, you can either use those "powers" for good or bad.
He could create many many monsters, it's good that he doesn't run a program imho
The only difference tonight is 'your going to have 10 shots of whiskey'
Confidence and self assuredness are key. Especially here. Your goal is not to get laid. That's for idiots and you can get laid easy. The goal is finding someone who just clicks and you connect right away. If you're shy in the real world, you might go for the mirror. Over time and a bit of drink if you go for alcohol you might take the lead. Male or female. As long as one of you does, if your socially awkward. Like me. Take a pause. Deflect by calling a waiter or something. In that moment think of a question it pertains to you personally and then ask. Take a bit of charge. Only slightly but you find you get easier as you ask. The bell. Perhaps you struck out. But each ding is a reinvigorating chance to try again. Your confidence grows. Rejection is second nature. Ding. Just be yourself. Ding. Lead the conversation. Ding. You've accepted yourself and the person opposite either clicks or doesn't. You'll know when they do. And after the excersise they will too.
That room was filled with gold, bright colours, "the future is bright". Derren is the king of subliminal messages.
This man can do no wrong. I can binge watch him for days.
I just adore Derren Brown!!! I'm always telling people to watch his videos, learning things from his shows has literally changed how i deal with life on a daily basis
he hypnotised him, this man has super powers im telling you
OK so the question is what exactly did Derren tell him? :)
love what Derren does with this guy, I've been to a hypnotist for confidence and didn't work out like this.
I think confidence comes from self-love - not to be confused with egotism. If you like yourself then you know that others probably will too :)
Darren Brown is an awesome guy and very very very talented and kind man!! hurrah for you for being peoples hero!!!
Lot of lessons in this episode. Confidence is everything.
That’s how everyone should live. Thanks - well done and thought out.
Fantastic! I love Derrens work. He is an astonishing master
Love how Derren doesn't shy from inserting his personal opinion which many wouldn't being to PC-y... such as be kind to seniors, be compassionate towards fellow human being regardless of race, one life to live to make the best of it... etc.
So pleased for this guy Jason Brilliant nice to see his conference shinning more Gose to show Anything's possible n our life Almost WhatWeeSeekSeeksUs !
Great story, spread the positive knowledge
Things like this make Derren a hero.
arsenal fan , no wonder confidence problems
Maris L u seem intelligent
Fuck you too bro
Hahahaha😂😂😂
Hahaha this is the comment!!!!
the thing about Arsenal is they always try to walk it in
I wish I could have taken part in a Derren brown show he is just amazing
Wow the change in him !
After watching the vid I had a read in the commentsection.
I have a somewhat different take on what is shown here.
First of all: I think Derren is amazing and an absolute master of what he does.
However, I'd like to point out that confidence can not be begotten by simply changing ones mindset.
The way it's done in the video is a quickfix and built on quicksand, it would take one rejection or breakup and this guy's confidence would collapse like a house of cards.
Easy come, easy go.
If you're looking for more confidence, become good at something, keep doing it, create a sense of pride in yourself, help other people and stop being selfinvolved fussing about your perceived lack of confidence.
Not the advice people would want, but this actually works in the long run.
Thank you so much dearest 🌈
You're such an inspiration 😘
Be Blissful Eternally 😇
Derren is a gift.
Derren brown your awsome!! I am jealous of the speed dating because im exactly like him!!
thanks for uploading your content to youtube!
I need Derren to show up. Not to work on my confidence, but just to help me get how to people. I'm generally pretty confident, I'm just not good at talking, just can never think about what to say until about 20 minutes after the point where it'd be appropriate to say it. I just forget how conversations work in real life. Someone asks me a question, i answer, and completely forget to ask them back, until it's been too long and asking them the question would be more awkward now than keeping with whatever we're currently going.
Online i know how to talk, i can have casual conversations for ages.
I just hate small talk with a passion. I can talk for days about things that i care about, but if people end up with the weather, or general hobbies, I'll end up zoning out and forgetting how to word.
Fabulous work Mr Brown.
3:05, ahhh... take me back to the mid 2000s
You are the best !!
I'd pay top dollar for a taste of this from Derren. It looks like money damn well spent. I love Derren's humanity.
Darren brown is a phenomenon.
Derren for president 2020!!
Gosh Derren, how far can this man influence others, i'm astonished every time *_*
Ahhh I love it. Sign me up pls Derren 🙌🌟.
Derren, you are the only person on Earth that I admire
All that separate under confidence from over confidence is how we choose to behave in new situation.
I got it.
Bless this guy is sweet
wish I had a teacher like you
You gave his confidence,and at the same time you take mine.
Derren is amazing
If Derren Brown trained therapists/psychologists ..... Could this be the end of some depressive and anxiety disorders? Man, could I use this type of help!
Awesomeness
interesting, glad you are doing good with your knowledge
I NEED THIS!
everyone with lack of confidence how lucky he is to be programmed by derren n became a new person. i wish someone come into my life too
I could totally use something like this, can't stop myself being a shyguy.
Lordunclucky13 so do u want to develop your confidence in speaking to women , you want to get better at that????
Tina Smith
Actually I have a girlfriend, I simply wanted to be more confident as I believe it would benefit my life.
+Tina Smith omg ur name
unfortunately the only way to overcome that is by pushing yourself at every opportunity to do things that are out of your comfort zone - e.g. public speaking, talking to strangers - after a few tries it becomes normal and you wonder why you were so scared of it in the first place. You will just look back and laugh :)
would love a book by Derren Brown.
confidence is like an energy bar (as in a fighting game) where u have to do things to maintain the power.. certain things can drain your energy and u have to start all over again
I really need this
nice! Derren should publish a self-help book.
Omg I need this...
Jason has a twin brother who is charismatic and extroverted..
just incredible
Brilliant indeed, I would definitely welcome a boost♥
he always looks to the right when hes lost, but when he looks left he opens up
Brilliant!
Wow. Such a stud. I feel like a right muppet now. Thank the Lord we can trust tv shows and what they want to convey to us.
what pictures are you imaging to start off? "myself in the mountains". Fantastic. haha
I wish he would come to the US and help kids who are bullied.
Gotta do something.. being socially active seems like the best way to keep myself distracted!
I need that!
I love your hypnosis
He is more than a magician.
He is a savant
that's me... most of the time i'm shy, no self confidence, gets disappointed easily, can not last a conversation. im a boring person.
Peepom McBrown same
Peepom McBrown just say fuck it, go with the flow.
Your name Peepom does not help...lol
Its a mindset. Like Derren said, its not a have it or don't thing. Its vizualising success and meditating in the right way for the most part. You can take care of the little things but the elephant in the room is the stories you tell to yourself. Change the stories and change your life.
Meet more interesting people? lol or be interested in what they like rather than expecting them to cater to your interests. That's more likely to create a favourable interaction than "I like" statements. Try "so what are you into"..."I was curious about that, tell me a bit more about it" ... "I get the impression you're into X, I'm not wrong am I?". People love to talk about themselves when they feel someone wants to listen without judgement.
Wow. A complete 180. Great Treat indeed
it has never been easy for me to be confident in the room that is full of confident people. I feel like I am in the lowest station when I feel like those people are way better and stronger than me. i think they will beat me anytime they want to. i just feel the lost before I started fighting. This is horrible.
I need this. HELP ME DERREN!
Fam, I need this shit
I need this
I think it's more likely to be a kind of placebo effect since the mental exercise was led by Derren Brown right infront of him. He was also likely chosen because his application made him seem likely to be open to suggestion. I've tried visualisation techniques, and I don't have a lot of success because you have to constantly do it and reinforce it before you give up.
If you want to know how to develop confidence its simple make improvements and progress in your life. This can be in literally anything for example a sport you like, a hobby, your job, your fitness, your style. Fuck even improving your daily grooming routine will make you better looking and more confident. Just find something you're passionate about and improve it and with time you'll gain confidence. If you don't have any passions right now my best advice would be to start working out a few times a week, don't push it too hard and don't go in with any expectations.
I want to buy these past-future paintings.
Confidence is simple just choose to have it ,act as if you're the most confident person alive (there ancient greek wisdom behind this) and exercise confidence at every possible opportunity no matter how small dont go back to the comfort zone.
Ryan Laking this is backed up by scientific evidence which u can google and why do you choose to be such a beta when u could have a better life with confidence
+GladX I'm not being rude, but as someone who is confident in most things, and a therapist of many years, your theory is over simplistic and naive. Your comment sounds like 'self help' mantras, and they don't work!
Confidence is something we are all born with, in that we assume all is fine, but life's experiences can rob us of confidence, be it from others and how they treat us, or by elders not being confident, and 'transmitting' negativity and fears.
I get the whole 'act as if....' but that really is almost insulting to people who are crushed by insecurity. It's alongside comments like "Just cheer up, that's how not to be depressed!" (oh brother!)
Yes, I do advocate what I call 'being an inch outside your comfort zone', but to expect people to act like they are the most important person alive, is laughable. Besides, that's not confidence at all! That's arrogance, and a worthless suggestion to someone who would rather die (figuratively speaking) than be at a party, trying to be 'cock of the walk!'
OMG if all I had to do was to suggest this, life would be easy, but undoing a lifetime of negativity, take work...lots and lots of work, on both our sides.
+LFOVCF Great, I'll put your suggestion into practice. Oh wait... you didn't actually add any proactive suggestions. My bad.
+LFOVCF I would like to politely, but firmly, disagree and confirm what GaldX suggested. Feel free to agree or disagree, but I will put forward a personal example.
You can have confidence in one area, but lack confidence in some other area. Perhaps you have a natural confidence in the area of skydiving. It's just an area where you lack fear and hold confidence in your natural ability to jump out of a plane.
On the other hand you can indeed build confidence in other areas by just going out and doing it. A few years ago I wanted to try stand up comedy. I was worried that I would bomb, that I would stink.
I took improv classes and gained confidence in doing improv and comedy. I also found books on visualizations. I did a specific technique where I imagined succeeding despite people hating me.
In this case you imagined worse and worse scenarios and pictured yourself winning the group over despite them booing and tossing tomatoes and swearing at you.
I did this visualization many many times. Years later I was talking to a guy I used to do improv and comedy with. I explained that I had been nervous and I told him about the technique.
This guy worked with me doing improv and comedy for years. He said he had no idea that I had ever been nervous.
Another example. I was nervous about meeting women. I did a free on line course from 'Mystery' and 'Style' this is going way back. It was a month long challenge.
You approached all kinds of people. Men woman, groups of people and a lot of the time you would say really mundane things. You'd ask for directions or you'd tell a bad joke. Just stupid harmless stuff.
After a while it became easy to talk to people. Even now my friends are always blown away by how I can appraoch strangers without fear. This last summer a couple of friends and I were at the state fair.
A lot of people were carrying some kind of object and my friends were trying to find out what the thing was. I just walked up to some random guy and asked him about it.
It was a crowd of thousands of people and I just walked up to people and asked about the object. He told me a long story about it and I said thanks. When I went back and told my friends, I could see by their expressions that they were thinking "How can he just walk up to a stranger like that?"
And yet although I have confidence to get in front of people and speak or do comedy I do not have the confidence to jump out of a plane or to start a business. If I rehearsed it, if I did the work I probably could. So confidence can be a learned skill, but you have to apply it to the specific goal to achieve success in that specific area.
wetlazer Actually, your case here is also a case I would agree with, but it was the suggestion that people who are very much lacking in confidence, not just a bit lacking, act as if they are 'cock of the walk', they can't, they wont, they don't know how.
Being a bit scared to do stand up, is in itself, self inflicted, you get a choice to do it or not, but the fact you even considered it, meant you had a desire, so you 'pushed through'.
Your comment here shows you have/had 'drive', most do not. Sure, of course, anyone can learn a skill, even the skill of specific confidence, but without 'drive/motivation' it's unlikely they will. I totally agree with you regarding people having confidence in certain areas and not others, but that was not the premise of your original comment.
It's great that you mastered social confidence, it's one of the hardest things to do. I help people who cannot even speak to a shopkeeper, and it takes quite a while to get someone from that, to being able to have a conversation with a stranger.
Great work with your personal journey, you inspire others.
For a shy person a treat would be indistinguishable from a trick
Pul5ar lol I was thinking the same. if I was told I was going speed dating I'd be thinking "wait I thought I chose treat not trick?!" xD
Absolutely. My idea of hell. It's bad enough just being in public sometimes.
alright derren, a step by step guide plz, thank you very much
masterful
When Derren asked him “how do you feel” after he developed his confidence I was expecting him to rip his shirt off and go Hulk mode...
I see he changed his trick cards
this is so cool
I'm from East London so 'coffee and a bun' kinda means something to me
i need this i dont have self confidence
i wish it was this easy
I have seen videos ofDarren and thisguy isin all of them
If only Darren brown could enter my life for day