@@darcypidgeon220 OMG…… JUST BECAUSE YOUR WEARING A COWBOY HAT AND BOOTS DOES NOT MAKE YOU A COW BOY THAT MAN DO NOT WAKE UP A 5:00AM TO WORK ON HORSES AND FEED THEY’RE CATTLE
Gurl this is the country, you do stuff with whoever you can get. I know so many guys who help me out in the field so yall don't immediately go to romance
@@PhillyCheezx having gone to school with kids who dressed like this and lived on farms I’m pretty sure how they dress and act in a 15 second video means nothing
@@Jiitgh0st426you don’t know peoples life’s styles. stop judging just bc your embarrassed by your own life. let them be them and you be you. it’s like judging a book by its cover. stop. there was no reason to be rude. have they done anything to you? i bet not.
@@liver20051 Womp womp shut up I never judged them by their cover I judged them by their acts.. and imagine being jealous of dudes with mullets.. 🤢 never in my life.. plus who the fuck said I was embarrassed by my life?? Cuz I’m living a pretty dang good life and I’m proud of it!! 🦅🇺🇸 and I wasn’t being rude until now cuz you’re just a baby that wants everything sugar coated and doesn’t want the truth.. not tryna be mean jus speakin my opinion but everyone thinks differently I guess 🤷♀️😂
@@Pink_Palmfr she dont even look like one either she js looks nice and calm☠️ either way if she did “look like a pick me” you cant tell by someone’s personality
i live in texas and ik people don't like to be stereotyped but if you go in public you WILL see someone dressed with cowboy boots, a hat, jeans, and a big ol belt buckle 😭💀 like the guy in the middle
i live in the us and ill name several canda, mexcio, panama, haiti, jamaica peru republic dominican cuba caribbean el savador norway sweden iceland finland Germany Czech republic
@@Lulu.679 i know but they are being steriotypical towards us and i have to show them they arent dumb. but what about u, wee fetus? can you name a country out of the americas?
How to deal with secondhand embarrassment So, how do you deal with second-hand embarrassment? It can be particularly tricky, as it comes on so suddenly. But there are things you can do to reduce its effects and decrease the likelihood of it lingering. 1. Recognize you’re human If you’re experiencing second-hand embarrassment, you should embrace your ability to have empathy with others. After all, human emotion, and the ability to put ourselves in other people’s shoes, makes you human. “Sometimes, reframing the way you think about emotions can be helpful,” says Dr. Collins. “When we experience emotions that are uncomfortable, we often think they are ‘bad’, and that makes us even more anxious as we try to get rid of it, increasing distress. It can help to have a more mindful approach by acknowledging how we are feeling in the moment without judgment and allowing the emotion to pass.” 2. STOP Dr. Collins often relies on this acronym to help address any distressing emotion or intense emotion you might be feeling before it overwhelms you. “If you notice you’re experiencing second-hand embarrassment, instead of judging yourself for it or reacting to it, you might want to pause in that moment and use the STOP technique,” says Dr. Collins. Here’s how it works: Stop what you’re doing and take a beat “When we go down a rabbit hole with our thoughts and emotions, it can all end up being amplified,” she continues. “This STOP technique helps you move in a more helpful direction by pausing for a minute to stop whatever stream of thought you’re having.” Take a breath Focusing on your breath is helpful for two reasons. One, when you slow your breathing, you activate your parasympathetic nervous system (which is responsible for relaxing your body after periods of stress and danger) and simultaneously slow your heart rate. And two, it also gives you something neutral to focus your attention on. “If you’re focused on something embarrassing and you keep thinking about it, stress and anxiety are likely going to increase,” says Dr. Collins. “But if you focus on your breath, you can calm your body and anchor your mind in the present moment on something neutral.” Observe with curiosity what’s happening to your body This step requires that you carve out a judge-free zone for yourself. By taking note of how you’re feeling physically and mentally without attaching any shame or guilt to that feeling, this serves as a sort of internal checkpoint. “The more we can be curious about our emotional experiences instead of wanting to change them, make them different or get rid of them, the more we can ground ourselves in the present moment,” explains Dr. Collins. “You might ask yourself, ‘How do I know that I’m anxious?’ ‘What do I notice in my body?’ Emotions don’t have to be good or bad. They’re all part of the full experience of what it means to be human.” Proceed mindfully by continuing forward or changing course Once you identify how you’re feeling and you’ve had that time to think about it, ask yourself one question: What can you do next that will be helpful to you and other people involved? “This might look like self-care, distracting yourself from the situation, stepping away and going for a walk, or switching your focus,” says Dr. Collins. “This is about identifying whatever you need in the moment.” 3. Assess and respond to the damage that’s done If someone’s noticed your reaction to their embarrassing moment, or attention has been redirected toward your response because of how you responded, it’s important to ask them how they’re feeling, offer possible support and apologize while providing clarity for why you responded or reacted the way that you did. By doing this, you can minimize conflict and reduce the chances of further hurting someone else’s feelings. “We all have automatic responses that don’t necessarily represent how we feel,” shares Dr. Collins. “If you’re going to have an open conversation about a seemingly negative reaction you had, start by asking them about how they’re feeling and use that same capacity for empathy to listen and validate their experience before clarifying your reaction.” At the end of it all, it’s important to recognize that we’re all human, that we can normalize our emotions and behaviors - including embarrassment - and that we can respond to such situations in an empathetic and judgment-free way. “We feel what we feel, and when we judge ourselves for feeling a certain way, it tends to make everything worse,” says Dr. Collins. “Trying to be mindful, curious and observe is good, but harboring guilt and shame doesn’t help anyone
Amazing, thank you. This is like an essay. It’s very detailed and precise. You got to every single point immediately and clearly. I felt very strong sensations of motivation as I read further and further. You delivered the advice so calm and collected. No swearing, no disrespect, and no tomato’s. You just delivered it. I’m very delighted that you wrote this so I just want to thank you one last time. Have an amazing life! Good luck, and great writing skills!
"My life with the walter boys" vibes😂
SO REAL!!
Frr 😂
haha so true 😂
HAHAHA🤣🤣🤣
YES
Ain’t no one messing wit that girl😂😂
edit1 4k likes is crazy
And nobody messing with u so stfu🤨🥱
Fr
@@user-ko3yn3yk4r bitchs can hate but she’s pretty is yall mad bc yall can’t be pretty like her like Wdh🫤🤨
thats right
Yeah because no one wants a girl who’s been ran through all her “friends”
That girl is living her best life right now 😂
720 likes and no replies lemme fix that
6 boys one girl… hmmm little sus
@@BanjoLemon be more mature
@@londonadamson3168before he does you first
@@londonadamson3168it’s not a matter of maturity it’s facts
The front dude got the drip goin crazy
The gurl is drop dead GORGEOUS ✨️
FR
FRRRRR
FRRRrRR tho
Fr! My eyes were on her the whole time!!!
Which one 😂
As a country man we do not claim these people.
Ye. Thankfully😅
As a country person from the south, we claim him.
Says you bum ass, you dk how to have fun
@@gayuyamuna1536 we do not claim you either
@@The_HuntzMan not a true country if you don’t accept everyone.
THAT GIRL IS SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL!! Like I can’t with how pretty she is
You are so weird.
@@GabeB61bro it's not weird for her to say that a girl is beautiful it's literally just a complement
@@_.tips.by.abby. no
yesss she’s so gorgeous
Cowboy know how to dance 🪩 😂❤
He’s not a cowboy 😂
@@OLESOUTH_NAS500yes he is!😂
@@darcypidgeon220no he ain’t 👩🏻🦲
@@Time4horses well why is he wearing a cowboy hat and cowboy boots!!!
@@darcypidgeon220 OMG…… JUST BECAUSE YOUR WEARING A COWBOY HAT AND BOOTS DOES NOT MAKE YOU A COW BOY THAT MAN DO NOT WAKE UP A 5:00AM TO WORK ON HORSES AND FEED THEY’RE CATTLE
Girl: “ they’re just my best friends, you don’t need to worry”
LOLOLOLLLLL
Gurl this is the country, you do stuff with whoever you can get. I know so many guys who help me out in the field so yall don't immediately go to romance
@@steph_. garuntee nobody in this video has ever worked in a field
@@PhillyCheezx I know, they are fake but if they were real they'd be out working
But yeah they are 100% city guys that are fake
@@PhillyCheezx having gone to school with kids who dressed like this and lived on farms I’m pretty sure how they dress and act in a 15 second video means nothing
“Babe it’s okay, I just go fishing with them. They’re LITERALLY my brothers”
man: “thankfully we ain’t in bama”
Omg fellow dilf lover
dilf lovers unite ✊
I'm pretty sure the guy in front with a black shirt was her bf. I think they broke up tho
@@munch4DILFS222 ✊️
"All hat, no cattle."
lol
@@Jiitgh0st426you don’t know peoples life’s styles. stop judging just bc your embarrassed by your own life. let them be them and you be you. it’s like judging a book by its cover. stop. there was no reason to be rude. have they done anything to you? i bet not.
@@liver20051 Womp womp shut up I never judged them by their cover I judged them by their acts.. and imagine being jealous of dudes with mullets.. 🤢 never in my life.. plus who the fuck said I was embarrassed by my life?? Cuz I’m living a pretty dang good life and I’m proud of it!! 🦅🇺🇸 and I wasn’t being rude until now cuz you’re just a baby that wants everything sugar coated and doesn’t want the truth.. not tryna be mean jus speakin my opinion but everyone thinks differently I guess 🤷♀️😂
Y’all ate and the girl is drop dead gorgeous ❤❤😂😂😂
as a high schooler who lives in the south i can confirm that this makes up at least 80% of our population
Yup . Shit sad
Your name is Hayden bro, you’re one of those guys too…
@@Bravo-Too-Much i’m def not one everyone thinks i’m gay so 💀✋
i read this comment when i had water in my mouth and i started choking on my water
Unfortunately
People only looking at the dude with the cowboy hat on
👇
People in 2024 remembering this trend😮💨
👇🏽
Dont wanna be this person but tysm for the likes!!😁🫶🏽
Begger
She “one of da boys” 💀😂
No?? Can girls not be friends with guys anymore?? Or are they considered “pick me”
@@Pink_Palmfr she dont even look like one either she js looks nice and calm☠️ either way if she did “look like a pick me” you cant tell by someone’s personality
I didn’t call her a pick me, sorry that I offended you I just joking and love that they included her in the dance.
no she’s dating one of the guys and one of them is her actual brother that’s why she’s there
I swear if this is the direction of the country boy, America is in trouble
There dancing bruh
these are fake country ppl, real country ppl don't do goofy ass tik Tok dances, we are out working on our family's ranch/farm
Murica done been in trouble, my dude
They all felt that “noseeee” part🤣
MY LIFE WITH THE WALTER BOYS VIBESSS
Who else watched it 7 times just to watch every single one if them
Thank you so much for 1k
Literally what I did
LMAOO SAMMEE 😭
i literally did that lmfao
MEEEE
Me 😭
The definition of cowboys that never seen a cow
And we all know the boys flexed as hard as they could 😂😂
As texan in the country I will claim them since no one else is offering ❤
Man how much I want to be that girl rn😭
OMG TYSM FOR ALL OF THE LIKES MOM IM FAMOUS😭😭😭
Yeah you want them all to rail tf out you at the same time huh?
@@peternorth1721 your kinda fucking weird dude
@@peternorth1721 and what about it 👁👁
Same
There all ugly the mullets 🤮
YALL ATE THAT
LIKE FR
I JUST WANNA KEEP WATCHING IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN BECAUSE OF HOW GOOD YALL DID
Facts
Same
Dick rider😂
REALLLLL
You people can’t be real
I just see the guy in the back balancing on the couch 😂😂😂 Thanks for the likes have a good day😊😊😊😊😊
“My life with the Walter boys” dupe??? 😂😂😂
Yall simping harddd but they also look like an adorable friend group
Lol I bet they say they are cowboys and hell I bet that girl got railed after that 😂
Maybe one of them is her boyfriend
Hell nah 😂😂
she's "one of the boys" 😭
Shes not like other girls.. shes one of the boys 😢
am i the only one who doesn’t see the problem with her dancing with boys?
@@savy.wavy2 no idk what the problem is☠️
@@savy.wavy2fr i don’t understand
This song and these guys........ match made in HEAVEN ❤
Nah, they all ate😂
The man in the white shirt is so in line🤠💨
Real
That girl is having the best time right now with all those boys😂😂
Yup. They’re giving her hair and makeup advice and telling her that boys being mean is a sign that they like her.
“Dude, we like fucking killed that shit bro”
“This is definitely gonna blow up”
🤣
"Right dude I can't wait to see how many like views we get dude like omg"
I agree
Switch dude with "bruh"
Well technically it did blow up
literally me always being the only girl and there’s like 10 men-
That girl is doing the dance better that the boys😂
Bruh she livin her best life rn
As a meat pocket lol
Ong
@@EliasGreyArtlmao
man… i wish i was her… she is with the cutest boys EVER
theres like 2 cute ones
In my opinion there’s like only 2 cute ones
Not rlly she with the vanilla gorillas yeeyee crew
She’s with the wanna be country crew 😂
@@viuolet if you call these fake ass city boys yeeyee then you don’t even know 😂😂
She has gotten it from all of them at least once u already know😂
Country boys doing this is different
bro i can name every one of those guys as my friends in the future and id be the girl 😭
SAME LMAOO
For the STREETS
@@WobblyRooster AYOOO true
Name them
it looks so much better when a country boy\cowboy does a trending dance
Yas I frickin love cowboys
@@jaliceaandgraciesvlog1322 me 2 there so funny, fun... And most of them are attractive
@@jaliceaandgraciesvlog1322 really think ACTUAL cowboys would be posting tiktok dances lol? think again
It’s giving Mafia family😂
Finally a dance that doesn't make every man look gay
broo can we talk about how the guy top right is mighty fine lmao😅
the manz in the back with the butterflies down his armmm oml sir the lord is tempting me
Yessss lord 😩😩
“POV: my life with the random mullet texas dudes😅❤vibes
i live in texas and ik people don't like to be stereotyped but if you go in public you WILL see someone dressed with cowboy boots, a hat, jeans, and a big ol belt buckle 😭💀 like the guy in the middle
That’s greattt! You guys seem like such a fun friend group 😂
Pov: me Having to watch everybody
Shits fucking cringe big dog
bro that gurl must be havin the time of her life😂😂
She got a whole damn crew
girl”im loving my best life with these cowboys”
The guy in the middle needs to go back to the Wild West 💀
Why, cause he's wearing a hat and jeans?! Some people just like the style and I'm pretty sure he's a country singer
LMAO
As someone who lives in the "wild west" we don't dress like that 😂😭 and only like half or less of us have accents other than the classic American one
@@user-yt1fz7uv5x fr! The most you'll see is either a pair of boots or a "cow boy" hat lol
He ain’t no cowboy
Everyone needs a friend group like this
Nah- good w mine 😅
6 dudes trying to get with that one girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ain’t nobody gonna mess with that girl she got a whole army of cowboys 😭😂
If they can name a country outside the US I’ll be genuinely suprised
stop with the negativity mate! geez
Bro real….
i live in the us and ill name several
canda, mexcio, panama, haiti, jamaica peru republic dominican cuba caribbean el savador norway sweden iceland finland Germany Czech republic
@@abia_speedrunnergg they aren’t talking about u…
@@Lulu.679 i know but they are being steriotypical towards us and i have to show them they arent dumb. but what about u, wee fetus? can you name a country out of the americas?
Y’all all r so gorgeous 😭
Ain’t nobody mess with that girl 😂❤
as a country woman from the west.. we do not claim him and are passing it to the south’s
And the girl is still the best looking in the room XD
the cowboy with the hat on is looking pretty goddamn hot❤❤❤
Ikr
I don’t know why this is so satisfying to watch but it is.😂
That one girl with 6 brothers that’s the vibe I’m getting lol 😆 😝
Bro my heart just fell for the one in the yellow shirt and black shirt top right like omg they are so hotttt
ok but these r the country guys i want-
The guy in the middle>>>
The guy in green shirt
They aren’t country 😂
They aint real country 😭😭
They need to be stopped 😂
They got me simping😂😂 bro
OMG I would literally kill to be that girl right now 😵
The one in the middle 🥵😍❤️🔥❤️
I agree 😂
Fr fr
Agreed I want to know his name
@@lowkeyyourmom3862 agreed
@@journeyyeah61 @cowboycreesh
I used to watch this on repeat trying to learn the dance
The girl be having her body guards at all times 😅
She’s so pretty!
The top right 🥵
ONG YES
frrr
That's me and my family when I play my song😊😊😊❤❤❤😂😂😂
The girl is drop dead gorgeous❤
Cowboy with the hat you need to do more videos
Fr
Yes fr
I lowkey wanna hang with y’all 😂
cap
@@ivy_dyer cap? they wanna hangout with them.. and your saying they can’t?
Word on my mother that girl is beautiful
She must feel like a mafia being protected like that😂😂
bro I so wanna be that girl rn 😢 😭
SOOOO WHICH ONE OF THE BOYS CAN I HAVE?🤣🤣🤣✋
I mostly like the ones on the right😂😂
@@u.he4rt.kay0 I CALL THE ONES LEFT THEN🤣
@@ITZZRIYAH14 lol
That girl lucky to be there
@@u.he4rt.kay0 most likely their sister🤣🤣✋✋
That girl has so many options 💀
The belt was giving cowboy 🤠 ❤😂
That’s my boy in the back to the left ( black shirt) ♥️
HELP I FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS TREND HELP MEEEEEEEE😭😭😭😭😭
Ain’t no one messing with that girl she’s beautiful and look at her family
How to deal with secondhand embarrassment
So, how do you deal with second-hand embarrassment? It can be particularly tricky, as it comes on so suddenly. But there are things you can do to reduce its effects and decrease the likelihood of it lingering.
1. Recognize you’re human
If you’re experiencing second-hand embarrassment, you should embrace your ability to have empathy with others. After all, human emotion, and the ability to put ourselves in other people’s shoes, makes you human.
“Sometimes, reframing the way you think about emotions can be helpful,” says Dr. Collins. “When we experience emotions that are uncomfortable, we often think they are ‘bad’, and that makes us even more anxious as we try to get rid of it, increasing distress. It can help to have a more mindful approach by acknowledging how we are feeling in the moment without judgment and allowing the emotion to pass.”
2. STOP
Dr. Collins often relies on this acronym to help address any distressing emotion or intense emotion you might be feeling before it overwhelms you.
“If you notice you’re experiencing second-hand embarrassment, instead of judging yourself for it or reacting to it, you might want to pause in that moment and use the STOP technique,” says Dr. Collins.
Here’s how it works:
Stop what you’re doing and take a beat
“When we go down a rabbit hole with our thoughts and emotions, it can all end up being amplified,” she continues. “This STOP technique helps you move in a more helpful direction by pausing for a minute to stop whatever stream of thought you’re having.”
Take a breath
Focusing on your breath is helpful for two reasons. One, when you slow your breathing, you activate your parasympathetic nervous system (which is responsible for relaxing your body after periods of stress and danger) and simultaneously slow your heart rate. And two, it also gives you something neutral to focus your attention on.
“If you’re focused on something embarrassing and you keep thinking about it, stress and anxiety are likely going to increase,” says Dr. Collins. “But if you focus on your breath, you can calm your body and anchor your mind in the present moment on something neutral.”
Observe with curiosity what’s happening to your body
This step requires that you carve out a judge-free zone for yourself. By taking note of how you’re feeling physically and mentally without attaching any shame or guilt to that feeling, this serves as a sort of internal checkpoint.
“The more we can be curious about our emotional experiences instead of wanting to change them, make them different or get rid of them, the more we can ground ourselves in the present moment,” explains Dr. Collins. “You might ask yourself, ‘How do I know that I’m anxious?’ ‘What do I notice in my body?’ Emotions don’t have to be good or bad. They’re all part of the full experience of what it means to be human.”
Proceed mindfully by continuing forward or changing course
Once you identify how you’re feeling and you’ve had that time to think about it, ask yourself one question: What can you do next that will be helpful to you and other people involved?
“This might look like self-care, distracting yourself from the situation, stepping away and going for a walk, or switching your focus,” says Dr. Collins. “This is about identifying whatever you need in the moment.”
3. Assess and respond to the damage that’s done
If someone’s noticed your reaction to their embarrassing moment, or attention has been redirected toward your response because of how you responded, it’s important to ask them how they’re feeling, offer possible support and apologize while providing clarity for why you responded or reacted the way that you did. By doing this, you can minimize conflict and reduce the chances of further hurting someone else’s feelings.
“We all have automatic responses that don’t necessarily represent how we feel,” shares Dr. Collins. “If you’re going to have an open conversation about a seemingly negative reaction you had, start by asking them about how they’re feeling and use that same capacity for empathy to listen and validate their experience before clarifying your reaction.”
At the end of it all, it’s important to recognize that we’re all human, that we can normalize our emotions and behaviors - including embarrassment - and that we can respond to such situations in an empathetic and judgment-free way.
“We feel what we feel, and when we judge ourselves for feeling a certain way, it tends to make everything worse,” says Dr. Collins. “Trying to be mindful, curious and observe is good, but harboring guilt and shame doesn’t help anyone
Amazing, thank you. This is like an essay. It’s very detailed and precise. You got to every single point immediately and clearly. I felt very strong sensations of motivation as I read further and further. You delivered the advice so calm and collected. No swearing, no disrespect, and no tomato’s. You just delivered it. I’m very delighted that you wrote this so I just want to thank you one last time. Have an amazing life! Good luck, and great writing skills!
PS. If you have any book recommendations on the topics you mentioned that’d be great! Thanks again.
5 head comment
Who wants to bet that the girl is “one of the guys”
This is just a joke so you know😂
MEE
haha fr
Is that your whole crew or is there more?😊❤ So cool!
The one girl who goes everywhere with her boyfriend 😂
Wow the boys are fineee
Fr
“My brothers” 💀
Bachelorette fr
The def of “one of the boys”
That girl cute af❤
What do you mean I can’t take out six restraining orders at one time???
She is like "I'm country" 🤣🤣
“I’m not like other girls” vibes😂
Niceee!! I love how happy y’all look! 😊
Person: how many times have you watched this
Me:yes
Me