Victim mentality is holding you back | Cafe Qahwa

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024

Komentáře • 21

  • @mibbyk1636
    @mibbyk1636 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Salam, Khanom. I listened to your video while I was painting. Masha’Allah you got your message across beautifully and it really resonated with me in regards to what I’m going through at the moment. Jazak’Allah. Your words were from Allah for me to hear. I pray Allah fills your life with Imman and happiness. I wish I had Muslimah friends like you in my life, so that we could encourage each other and grow together in our deen. ❤️

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB Před 2 měsíci +4

    I really needed this. I don't know why I went through what u did. Everyday I ask Allah to be able to relive my youth again b4 marriage.

  • @majdoumajdou1175
    @majdoumajdou1175 Před měsícem

    Very interesting. Barak Allah o fik

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB Před 2 měsíci +3

    Im the scapegoat. The narcissits in my family have made me a scapegoat.

    • @rani1835
      @rani1835 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sorry you’re going through this. Please feel your feelings, process them, and begin to set goals and make a plan to improve your life so you’re no longer stuck with these people. Boundary work is essential.

  • @rani1835
    @rani1835 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love to hear your Islamic reflections. You share some excellent advice here. May Allah SWT increase you in every good in the duniya and akhira 🤲🏽🌹

  • @SS-qi3ck
    @SS-qi3ck Před 2 měsíci +2

    Truly appreciate your videos

    • @SS-qi3ck
      @SS-qi3ck Před 2 měsíci +2

      May Allah swt grant you the best in this world and the hereafter

  • @iqralala6244
    @iqralala6244 Před měsícem +1

    Sister, thank you for posting here. I benefit from your wisdom. Ever since i deleted tiktok, i missed all your beneficial knowledge. Love thissss, please dont stop posting ❤❤🎉

  • @Rs-cz6pj
    @Rs-cz6pj Před měsícem +1

    Allahumma barik you are really gorgeous sis inside and out ❤️
    Whenever I watch your videos I feel like you are directly speaking to me. You are really good at explaining difficult concepts in simple words. I would love to see more videos on negativity/shaytan and our nafs.

    • @KhanomQahwa
      @KhanomQahwa  Před měsícem +3

      Jazak allahu khairan my dear sis, I am so happy Allah SWT has allowed our paths to cross 🥹🩷

  • @fries1609
    @fries1609 Před měsícem

    Something else I thought about when you said human beings don't realize that they're in control of their own actions is how when we commit a sin, some of us will justify it by saying that "I just have low iman right now" or "it's so hard not to do this because it's so normalized". Yes, you are valid for feeling that way and yes, you're iman will be low sometimes but don't take that as an excuse to sin. This is something that I need to work on insha'Allah.

  • @ariesvaries7903
    @ariesvaries7903 Před měsícem

    You are doing great, keep going 👍👍

  • @purr3568
    @purr3568 Před měsícem

    Please keep making more vids!!

  • @muhammadabid7327
    @muhammadabid7327 Před měsícem

    Very nice video

  • @jojomeeescreen8704
    @jojomeeescreen8704 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @hoopukhti
    @hoopukhti Před měsícem

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبر كاته

    • @hoopukhti
      @hoopukhti Před měsícem

      Hope ur aware that posting yourself is not permissible and beautifying yourself for the public, you can still give dawah and help other Muslims out without having the need to post yourself. May الله bless you and your family امين

  • @Muslimahvlogss.
    @Muslimahvlogss. Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤