I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend ! edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
Girl your not alone. I love my solitude. I choose not to be in the mix. I was always outside. Knowing all the events. I was the one who forced others outside to have fun. But afterwards I like my own peace and space. I don’t even invite people over anymore while unbothered
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
Haha I’m same way. I don’t like people next to me. Or long talking me lmaooo and I’m from NYC. But I love when they talking to me in a Louis Vuitton, Fendi, gucci store that’s where I like to have interaction. The experience is great!
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
i’m scared step out alone i love going out at night too! maybe i’ll get me a taser but i just turn 21 and apply for my first full time job i would LOVE to just go place by myself !❤
girl same. currently trying to save for a car, but i wanna go out and do things but im so terrified of taking Lyft or Uber 😭 and i literally have NO friends where im at. so that’s my only option. ugh. so frustrating
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
I’m a lonely child with an older sister and I didn’t grow up with any of my cousins either because they are also older than me 😭 and I couldn’t keep friendships because I changed my schools and I ended up social less in high school
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
it’s so hard feeling like this but being a senior in high school. i can’t do anything about it. i prefer being alone at home or while i’m out and about. i don’t feel stuck.
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey! Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !! Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
Heyyy I just wanted to say that horoscopes are not of God. He didn’t create them, They’re man made as believers of Christ we shouldn’t indulge in the things of the world. I know that it takes time to let go of things that we thought were good and even habits but I just wanted to let you know x
To add on to this, I think horoscopes are a form of divination if i’m not wrong. sorry if that’s incorrect. But God speaks strongly against divination and sorcery in Deuteronomy, Leviticus and Revelation from the verses I can remember.
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽 P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
Hi Ashley this may be a random question but do you have any worship song recommendations? 😭❤️ I've been trying for the past few weeks to grow my relationship with Christ and i figured out that worship music really helps me
@@tanya7360 heyyy! honestly same i love music so that’s what i do to connect as well. but for me i’ve just started getting into it. elevation worship has the best so far to me lol and this song by elevation rhythm - this is the gospel
felt this ESPECIALLY lonely as an only child...girl im 23 n in shambles rn
it be like that! we got this
HEAVY
HEAVY on 23 and in shambles!!
I think this is the most relatable comment lmfao me being 22 and I felt this heavy.
@@j-777v y’all im 21 don’t scare me 😭
Sameeee I’m an only child as well and I somewhat struggle being alone sometimes and I’m 21
“i hate yall matter fact” REAL 😂 but fr im getting sick of the alone stuff too but i realize you are your best company
Your hobbies will be there for you when nothing else is
Ain’t that the truth everyone should have at least 3 to five hobbies
🤞🏾
I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
Not the intro have a tearing up. Thank you baby for being so vulnerable and open to us!❤🫶cause we all human are beings
Well said. Same. Both you Ashley and the comment poster. Thank you.
20:00 love you just might have social anxiety, you described it perfectly
Being alone makes you strong !
Yess and powerful
Needed to hear this 💯
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend !
edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
thank you! and yes Godly friends are the ones to seek! lollll
you don’t understand how much i appreciate your channel❤
omgg *tears* thank youu!
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
I understand this, not having friends or family. Wishing you love and light on your journey ❤
@@Killahrose thank you love
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
@@bratzdollspeakz heyy, i try my best to be relatable and im glad to be the one to shed light on these things! and thank you! you’re gorgeous!!
@@ashleyalondra Omgggg thank u♡♡
This video has brought me soo much comfort in knowing I’m not the only one who feels alone and does random stuff everyday
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
I'm an only child ,I'm 14 but I feel so lonely,hopefully I get out of it .I like be alone sometimes though,I Loveee your vids ,they're so real 💕.
@@Destinymarie777. love that you enjoy them!
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
Girl your not alone. I love my solitude. I choose not to be in the mix. I was always outside. Knowing all the events. I was the one who forced others outside to have fun. But afterwards I like my own peace and space. I don’t even invite people over anymore while unbothered
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
@@katsunflower2560 heyy! i’m so glad we met as well
girl i’m in school and i can’t stand these people chile so thanks for your video i feel seen thank you for harding
@@Spirutallaina completely felt! you got this and trust one day you’ll find your people
Haha I’m same way. I don’t like people next to me. Or long talking me lmaooo and I’m from NYC. But I love when they talking to me in a Louis Vuitton, Fendi, gucci store that’s where I like to have interaction. The experience is great!
Love the whole vid queen!! The outro speach was a delight especially as it had the waterfall running in the back❤😂
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people
plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
19 and Jamaican as well, I agree with everything and I’m in the same situation for about 3 years now.
@@Ashley-fm1pb hey babe, i completely understand, we’re in this together tho
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
i’m scared step out alone i love going out at night too! maybe i’ll get me a taser but i just turn 21 and apply for my first full time job i would LOVE to just go place by myself !❤
Sameee I’m going to my interview rn and I wanna go out at night but I take the bus😭
girl same. currently trying to save for a car, but i wanna go out and do things but im so terrified of taking Lyft or Uber 😭 and i literally have NO friends where im at. so that’s my only option. ugh. so frustrating
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
@@lillydior this 🥹 make me feels so happy inside! thank you
I’m a lonely child with an older sister and I didn’t grow up with any of my cousins either because they are also older than me 😭 and I couldn’t keep friendships because I changed my schools and I ended up social less in high school
Good on you for sharing! Takes a lotta courage cant lie and you helping peopl
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
Definitely needed this video today! 🙏🏾
This came up on time ❤ I was just in my head abt this
it’s so hard feeling like this but being a senior in high school. i can’t do anything about it. i prefer being alone at home or while i’m out and about. i don’t feel stuck.
this, but i just entered college. i feel like im wasting my life by staying at home & not making an effort to reach out to ppl to make plans
Girly teach yourself like a gem ❤
I feel so understood
your not the only one. dope video. great story line
I have 6 siblings but I can totally relate to this
@@yunanmabel wow 6! glad you enjoyed
This is so real
Your channel is so relatable🥹 congrats on 17k 🎉
@@Therealkeairakeonna THANK YOUUUU
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey!
Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !!
Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
@@foreverchris. thank you chris
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
@@amarachichats heyy! i’ll link my apple music it’s @vibewitash titled “The Lord is with me” if that helps! i’m just getting into christian music loll
@@ashleyalondra Thank youu! God Bless 😚🫶🏾
Thank you for making this video and existing 🫶🏾 I resonate heavy!
Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
@@jamilahhendricks7681 thank you hun for ur words! love you!
@@ashleyalondra You’re very welcome!! 🤗💕 Thank you!! 🙏🏾❤️
You have Jesus and us ❤❤❤❤
Jesus Christ loves you. He died on the cross for all of our sin.
This video helped me && brought me comfort .. Thank You❤💕
glad u enjoyed it
This was needed! Felt this sm.
9:34 im the outlines first typa colorer any other way will stress me somehow 👽 and i like how u film things imo its simple but satisfying to look at
Heyyy I just wanted to say that horoscopes are not of God. He didn’t create them, They’re man made as believers of Christ we shouldn’t indulge in the things of the world. I know that it takes time to let go of things that we thought were good and even habits but I just wanted to let you know x
To add on to this, I think horoscopes are a form of divination if i’m not wrong. sorry if that’s incorrect. But God speaks strongly against divination and sorcery in Deuteronomy, Leviticus and Revelation from the verses I can remember.
@@Nshimirimana-Reginegod speak against alot of stuff y’all be out here doing
Mind your business and Amish your own relationship with god
This is true💯
Thank you so much 🙏. God bless you 🙏
These are great advice fr fr 🤝
This is crazy im the same way like no cap thought i was the only one
New subscriber alert 🚨 I ❤u already
@@KhiliKaior 🥹 thank you love
love thisssss!
You so relatable. Thank you 🖤
@@Ziggy_xi thank you for watching!
Loved this video ❤
the timing thoooo
SLAYY I AM ONLY CHILDD TOO
Loved this ❤
Awww baby.😟🩷
"ONE BAG A CYAR" took me OUT 😭
@@maurissaalecia 😂😂
Wow I can relate so much
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽
P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
@@kaylah2795 omg meee! thank you hun
Something nt quite right . She’s too pretty to be “alone” She dosent like the guys who are approaching her it’s not that no one is approaching her.
Isa wha sweet ya 😂 great video, ah one tallawah gyal dis 🫡 pree
@@jahleda8937 😂 lol yesss
I can relate so bad 😭
I love you girl❤
btw your video has reached to another
jamaican
yayyayy
Lmaoo…. I went to fiu but chile I couldn’t stay in those dorms… literally went to school and came home.
Hi Ashley this may be a random question but do you have any worship song recommendations? 😭❤️
I've been trying for the past few weeks to grow my relationship with Christ and i figured out that worship music really helps me
@@tanya7360 heyyy! honestly same i love music so that’s what i do to connect as well. but for me i’ve just started getting into it. elevation worship has the best so far to me lol and this song by elevation rhythm - this is the gospel
@@ashleyalondra thankss ❤️
What’s the song you were making a video to for TikTok in the mirrorrr
choppa - byron
wish i could talk to you.. so much love in you
Maybe it’s a RocKkK😂😂😂
@@_Randomsarah_ lmaooo 😭
@@ashleyalondra your mad funny 😄
Felt
hey new friend
Thank so much for this I love you being real and telling us lonely people is okay