(Full Story) Ex Showed Up at My Door 7 Years Later With a Kid Demanding Child Support

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    Ex Showed Up at My Door 7 Years Later With a Kid Demanding Child Support
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  • @pablozurita2996
    @pablozurita2996 Před 2 měsíci +223

    Naw man, your sister saved you, she knew that your abusive ex would find the lipstick

    • @ChristsForgivness
      @ChristsForgivness Před měsícem +4

      Exactly I thought and suspect that she put the lipstick there to help her brother outta that toxic relationship but maybe I’m just suspicious of that it might be an honest mistake

    • @pablozurita2996
      @pablozurita2996 Před měsícem +6

      @@ChristsForgivness you see there's a difference betweem behavioral patters of men and women, men will unknowingly leave signs that only other men will see, leaving the toilet seat up, small objects that are out of the way moved etc, and women will do the same thing, leaving hairties, hair in the shower, hairclips, leaving behind a tampon, beauty supplies, etc
      It is an interesting thing to look into, but there is no way the sister accidentally left that lipstick

  • @spacelady4935
    @spacelady4935 Před měsícem +60

    Her cheating is EXACTLY why she had so many crazy rules for OP.

    • @SapphireVirgo
      @SapphireVirgo Před měsícem +2

      Exactly, I wouldn't be surprised if she had multiple men all at once ,women like that always have at least 2 extra on the side .

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci +79

    He didn't do anything lady did you forget he told you about her but never cheat on you

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci +37

    You didn't screw up your wife did

    • @SapphireVirgo
      @SapphireVirgo Před měsícem

      Both women sound unhinged and manipulative,

  • @user-qq2ic2vd7y
    @user-qq2ic2vd7y Před měsícem +11

    I would’ve just turned it around on the wife like “Why didn’t you tell me that your cousin was my abusive ex-girlfriend?” That way when the wife says “How was I supposed to know that was your ex girlfriend” he could respond “ how was I supposed to know she was your cousin?”. Honestly, the wife’s reaction was terrible. I hate it when you don’t let someone explain makes no sense.

    • @Lvl_251
      @Lvl_251 Před 27 dny

      Yeah, straight up. The guy needs to divorce his wife. Because he was even trying to find out what was going on and she still just took her s*** and just went to her parents house without even telling him. And then the phone call that they had with each other like nah, dude, he should have just strayed up filed for divorce since she didn't even care because what would have happened if he never showed up at the house, the same thing that her cousin did to him and just left him.

  • @hirohiroarikawa6806
    @hirohiroarikawa6806 Před 2 měsíci +99

    I see the wife as having a red flag, doesn’t talk to her husband about the problem but instead hides behind her parents who also don’t tell OP the story, he has to learn it from the sister. Yet once OP tries to talk it out his wife blames him and makes excuse such as you should have made me want know your past relationship. So I hope OP demands a dna test from Cynthia but probably isn’t even his and only did this bcz it’s her most hated cousin, but also demands that his wife and himself go to counseling bcz her leaving instead of talking it out doesn’t help.

    • @GeneralFiona
      @GeneralFiona Před 2 měsíci +14

      the wife isnt a red flag. She was traumatized by the builying from cynthia and was retraumatized because of this unexpected meeting, such events can make you run wild and make you isolate yourself from the most loved ones.

    • @lordsathariel4384
      @lordsathariel4384 Před měsícem +9

      @@GeneralFiona if your in a partnership of any value or type you communicate issues in said partnership with your partner you don't make your partner the bad guy in a situation they had no control over tbh their whole family sounds like a marching band of red flags in terms of maturity and communication issues.

    • @Oddbeingchaff
      @Oddbeingchaff Před měsícem +10

      ​@@lordsathariel4384 I agree, his wife left him when she REALLY should have stayed. Personally, I don't think she deserves him.

    • @gluttonouswolf980
      @gluttonouswolf980 Před měsícem +11

      @@lordsathariel4384the sister in law was the only one mature enough to actually listen to him and then explain what was going on. The parents should have helped their daughter understand that it wasn’t his fault. But they made it worse by siding with her on her obviously wrong assumptions. Which was reinforcing her to not think straight.

    • @tolkienblack
      @tolkienblack Před měsícem +1

      That was ptsd my guy

  • @ogieoglethorpe3788
    @ogieoglethorpe3788 Před měsícem +71

    if my wife blew up and insulted me over something like this i would have told her she had a week to collect her belongings and never return

    • @Dk-hx2zv
      @Dk-hx2zv Před měsícem +4

      Eh idk it seems like a ptsd response

    • @artgaignard8817
      @artgaignard8817 Před měsícem +8

      ​@Dk-hx2zv dude didn't do anything that whole family gave him.

    • @legacyplays6050
      @legacyplays6050 Před měsícem +3

      @@Dk-hx2zvshe and her parents are kinda crazy because imagine for example me slapping you then I slapped someone else then that someone else gets mad at you for not telling them you got slapped by me.

  • @Syntactix_Personal
    @Syntactix_Personal Před 2 měsíci +11

    Get out of there, That family is crazy

  • @Nnkg-ew4qx
    @Nnkg-ew4qx Před měsícem +14

    9:44 made shit myself i thought that was a lockdown 😂😂

  • @dna1234able
    @dna1234able Před měsícem +3

    She is a serious cheater and was projecting her cheating on you😂 any chance she got

  • @Mels414
    @Mels414 Před měsícem +15

    THE ANOUNCEMENT PART GAVE ME A FUC|)$&;$ HEART ATTACK

    • @tonyblake7569
      @tonyblake7569 Před měsícem +1

      Same lol. Listening while driving and had no clue wtf was going on.

    • @ShmoliklikeE
      @ShmoliklikeE Před měsícem

      I’m in Israel and there is a war right now I was so scared and I thought i was gonna get bombed

    • @Darrentaqqrai
      @Darrentaqqrai Před měsícem +2

      HELP MY HEART LITERALLY STOPPED WHEN I HEARD THE ALARM

  • @SteffenF
    @SteffenF Před měsícem +6

    please don't announce stuff like that in a video. i got an hart attack. thank you.

  • @haylongwang3002
    @haylongwang3002 Před měsícem +10

    That guy is so freaking passive, unironicaly man up and stand up for yourself a bit earlier will ya?

    • @Cyresnershull1
      @Cyresnershull1 Před měsícem +1

      So many men in these stories are like this dude. Honestly is annoying but I guess they're the type that would post on Reddit about some shit like this so I don't really know why I expected any different. lol

  • @jesschen5513
    @jesschen5513 Před měsícem +3

    Honestly all the blame on Cynthia's parents, even for things that werent their fault because they absolutely had a hand in what the people who were at fault did.

  • @Cactusjacc556
    @Cactusjacc556 Před 2 měsíci +34

    You got a lot going on buddy it’s seems as if you need to find your balls and speak up 😂it’s kinda not your fault tho

  • @ninjasheep7492
    @ninjasheep7492 Před měsícem +1

    As a general rule of thumb, if someone is extremely paranoid about their partner cheating, and it’s not due to distinct trauma or mental illness, then it’s because they are cheating.

  • @sandrasausville9103
    @sandrasausville9103 Před měsícem +1

    First thing would have been a DNA test, when it's not your child call CPS and help that child get away from her insanity. The wife needs therapy for her insecurities and the fact that she is a coward and refuses to stand up for her husband

  • @user-mi2gy8ij9u
    @user-mi2gy8ij9u Před měsícem +15

    Would’ve divorced Amy

    • @lias.2877
      @lias.2877 Před měsícem

      He was with her for four years and a fight over something like that is logical and nobody( most people) could not throw a four year relationship away in a week

  • @I0KK
    @I0KK Před měsícem +1

    Just got back from a deployment, that alarm almost made me throw on my mop gear💀

  • @story_haven_hub
    @story_haven_hub Před 19 dny +1

    BRO SCARED THE SHIT OUT OF ME WITH THE HORN

  • @playerpro78officiel46
    @playerpro78officiel46 Před měsícem +4

    When the siren start I unsubscribe at the speed of life

  • @1bestfriend2u18
    @1bestfriend2u18 Před 2 měsíci +16

    Good for you and your wife. That was an astute observation. One visit from a ghost of the past. Send both of you in such a tailspin. And you standing there dumbfounded. Not knowing what to say because you're so in shock. Well, I understand sometimes it can take a few minutes. Compose yourself after a situation like that, but it's true, it did.Take you a week to come up with something decent to say to somebody who you are supposed to "love" so much. Best of everything to you both.

    • @jop23ify
      @jop23ify Před 2 měsíci

      He is like a woman.. So passive and stupid

    • @trenae77
      @trenae77 Před 18 dny +1

      Thank you! I’m glad I listened through to the end because some of the people blasting Amy here have no understanding that trauma affects people in different ways. High Kudos to the OP and the SIL as he kept is cool and she helped diffuse the tension enough to prompt reconciliation. And now they’re off to counseling which each deeply need on an individual basis as well as a joint unit.

  • @josephhurst4902
    @josephhurst4902 Před měsícem +1

    If anyone really cared about this kid, they would call CPS on the mom since she likley has Arrest Warants, and Bio Dad cant be located.

  • @no_birthday123
    @no_birthday123 Před měsícem +1

    the alert nearly killed me

  • @league-of-shadows
    @league-of-shadows Před měsícem +1

    This Cindy woman did a number on two people and I feel so bad for the kid.

  • @C-o-d-1-
    @C-o-d-1- Před měsícem +1

    W Cindy’s parents they don’t give a shit

  • @Bobist8236
    @Bobist8236 Před měsícem +2

    That sounds like domestic abuse

  • @spehssmahreens8258
    @spehssmahreens8258 Před měsícem +1

    Man this guy is basically an NPC in his own life story I mean good god

  • @namnguyenthe6754
    @namnguyenthe6754 Před měsícem +7

    I mean...your ex is def not okay but your failure to take control of any situation regarding relationships also played a big role in screwing you over

  • @iiReneku
    @iiReneku Před 2 měsíci +8

    What was the alarm 😀😃😄😁🙂😕🙁☹️😭

  • @alanwatts6025
    @alanwatts6025 Před měsícem +1

    With that reaction amy is just cindy 2.0

  • @Oyun_Cinavari
    @Oyun_Cinavari Před měsícem +2

    9:45
    i was using 3D headphone and ı just shitted myselft when ı heard that nuke
    (not lying i just shitted)

  • @imtheglitch_786
    @imtheglitch_786 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Ong i could survive the first part but the part where his own wife disses him i would js end my kife there cause im a impatient fuck and wait for 1 week or less just for someone to fucking forgive me

    • @jop23ify
      @jop23ify Před 2 měsíci

      Dude is a complete idiot... He was just standing there whilst his ex insulted him and his wife. What is he confused about?

  • @2ctheocean
    @2ctheocean Před měsícem +1

    Can we please have a bit of compassion for Amy? This was clearly a PTSD response, not a rational one, and she admitted that she was wrong and irrational and that she shouldn't have done what she did. Actual abusers don't take blame and don't admit to wrong doing, and it doesn't sound like she's done anything of the sort before or since. She certainly needs therapy and counseling but I don't think an instant divorce is the answer.

    • @ingloriousbetch4302
      @ingloriousbetch4302 Před měsícem

      In this case, idk, but plenty of abusers admit to wrongdoing all the time and claim they'll change, pretend to change for a while, and go right back to their old behaviors. Just because someone will admit they did something wrong doesn't mean they're not abusers.

  • @breatheair7706
    @breatheair7706 Před měsícem +2

    Stop with the nuclear siren announcement

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 Před 24 dny +1

    That is one messed up story but you and your wife are getting counseling and getting back on track, but as for Cindy she made her choice and she's paying for it in more ways than one and that goes both ways for her parents as well,sad, dumb, wrong and unfortunate as well plus her son is paying for it as well in more ways than one, shameless and ridiculous big time.

  • @Rod_sullivan_icescream
    @Rod_sullivan_icescream Před měsícem

    The alarm made me jump 💀🙏

  • @user-oq4db6wd5y
    @user-oq4db6wd5y Před měsícem

    Can we talk about what happened with the 7-year-old kid who just got bored in his mess?

  • @aidan30_
    @aidan30_ Před měsícem

    bro I listen to try to sleep that announcement scared me 🥲

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci +1

    She wasn't good for you you should have never date her or met her she's crazy she basically tried to kill you

  • @Rona.n
    @Rona.n Před 2 měsíci +5

    Me👁️👄👁️
    :⁠'⁠(that's dark

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci +1

    No feeling guilty none of this is your fault okay

  • @Yes-dm2kf
    @Yes-dm2kf Před měsícem

    9:47 came out of nowhere and scared the crap out of me.

  • @ignaleaninemadrid3960
    @ignaleaninemadrid3960 Před měsícem

    his exes gf left for the milk💀💀💀

  • @Dragonoid-xs7jb
    @Dragonoid-xs7jb Před měsícem

    Majorly a scarlet red flag in the first minute

  • @Heyyyyyyyyyy11
    @Heyyyyyyyyyy11 Před měsícem +2

    0:56 for shorts ppl :)

  • @SpotlightMoonlight
    @SpotlightMoonlight Před měsícem

    You sister helped you dodge a bullet

  • @darknesstheresnohope4725
    @darknesstheresnohope4725 Před měsícem

    the
    siren scared me half to death and i am so scard rn but then i realised XD

  • @PFAMIS191
    @PFAMIS191 Před měsícem

    Men we don't know what we did

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci

    That's why you need to watch out for people like her your ex

  • @mcsissorface7756
    @mcsissorface7756 Před měsícem

    Your abusive ex ruined your life

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci

    Is good or not dating her anymore because she's crazy you should be more aware of people you let into your life

  • @2ctheocean
    @2ctheocean Před měsícem

    Also downvote specifically for the purge alarm. What an asshole thing to do to headphone users.

  • @rishabhjain6954
    @rishabhjain6954 Před měsícem +1

    Leaving your wife is also like your ex

  • @eua4808
    @eua4808 Před měsícem

    Even you mom ???

  • @XxW3ird0_spaceyxX
    @XxW3ird0_spaceyxX Před měsícem

    Why is no one talking about the random siren 9:47

  • @OklahomaBall
    @OklahomaBall Před 2 měsíci +4

    9:45 that gave me a heart attack-

  • @lougbogofristgolp3021
    @lougbogofristgolp3021 Před 2 měsíci

    So Amy got revenge

  • @AvacadoPerson
    @AvacadoPerson Před měsícem

    0:55
    For shorts people

  • @aleksalukic6807
    @aleksalukic6807 Před 2 měsíci

    The trex bro😅

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci

    So she was all wrong she was all wrong you otherwise for right

  • @MilBill
    @MilBill Před měsícem

    14:10 he’s in creative mode 😐😐😐

  • @Bobist8236
    @Bobist8236 Před měsícem

    How would u tell if it’s sarcasm if it’s an ai talking? At 0:44

  • @Cyresnershull1
    @Cyresnershull1 Před měsícem +1

    Bro, stop that annoying alarm alert shit in the middle of the story. Put it at the beginning and/or end, but not in the middle. It fucks up the whole story and makes me not want to watch your videos, let alone your stream.

  • @joaquin17171717
    @joaquin17171717 Před měsícem

    Women. 🤐

  • @indiracargill311
    @indiracargill311 Před 2 měsíci +1

    When is your fault everything is your butt not telling you sooner you are innocent listen to her otherwise

    • @madewellright
      @madewellright Před měsícem +2

      Huh? What did you even try to say?

    • @SapphireVirgo
      @SapphireVirgo Před měsícem +2

      ​@@madewellright blaming op for being abused and being in shock that his ex came back after 7 years . Yh dont see how he is st fault in any way both women in this where the assholes ,the new wife for attacking him and the ex for being abusive and a cheat

  • @biliyboob
    @biliyboob Před 2 měsíci +1

  • @jokercardzz
    @jokercardzz Před měsícem +3

    The one thing women are not is rational. Men tend to be rational, but women tend to be emotional.

  • @Ansem458
    @Ansem458 Před měsícem

    Cindy Sureee sounds like a girl named Sammie I used to date

  • @biliyboob
    @biliyboob Před 2 měsíci +1