Giving Birth to FIVE Kids!? Our BEST Tips For Pregnancies & WORST Midwife Experience! | FULL EP24
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Need grace back on the pod when she gets back from her trip talking about it please.
Pls bring grace back to the pod pls I begđđđđđ
Yes definitelyđ
Also could bring the 3 piggotts
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I needed this pod!! when I was pregnant with my son, I rang triage saying that I had concerns that my son was not moving - I heard throughout my pregnancy if thereâs any change in pattern of movements to ring up (I also was 3 days past my due date) - this midwife was SO rude, made me cry, didnât want me to go up to the hospital at all, told me my baby was sleeping - I had the most active baby in the world, he was always moving about. I still went up there and just as well I did because my waters broke and I went into labour that night! Luckily my son was okay and just playing tricks but I couldnât believe the ignorance of that midwife. This was my first baby too so made me feel I was doing something wrong.
when grace returns we either need an ep with her or a mukbang on dvg đ« we wanna hear all the interesting stories đ€Ł
Omg yes i've missed the Mukbangs!
Talking about chloe being born has made me realise how long ive watched you guys!! I literally remember watching them videos and thinking wow how cool is it that we get to watch her grow up and shes such a character!! The best channel on youtube in my opinion đ«¶đ»
Iâve used this podcast to get to sleep like 5 times but fallen asleep after 2 mins so keep having to rewatch lollll
me too aha thought I was the only one â€
Iâve been struggling with my ADHD medication going up and it feels like thereâs alot of instability in my life at the moment. You have no idea how these regular podcasts help, itâs almost like small milestones that Iâve made it through another week and the reward is another podcast. Iâm sure you get so many messages like this but I really mean it, thank you â€
love your podcasts x
canât believe itâs already the 24th episode x
I completely forgot it was Tuesday and seeing this notification just made my day . Thank you guys so much , I love the podcast and have kept up with every episode so far x
Iâm glad you spoke about bad midwife storyâs since itâs so important people understand no matter what they say donât let them feel like your such a bad parent after being in hospital.
When I had my daughter the midwife that delivered her was so rude and so by the book, I was induced and my cannulae got blocked and they didnât realise for 2 hours, but after it was fixed it wasnât turned down so all off a sudden I went from 3cm to 10cm in 2h , I told her I needed to push and she told me I needed to wait a hour till I could. Luckily they had a change over and when the other midwife came in she told me to listen to my body and was amazing and stayed though the whole thing, all my midwifeâs after where amazing when I had to stay the night and was giving me advice when I asked which I was worried about since I was 20 when I had my daughter but they was all so supportive and loving.
The midwife that delivered my daughter didnât deliver my placenta correctly and 3 months later I was in a&e in so much pain not knowing whatâs happening and even the hospital said if she wasnât rushing so much it wouldnât have happened.
I only now realise I wish I had said something or made a complaint about how rude she was, as a young first time mum it made me so worried and nervous about everything
When I had my little boy last year, I had an emergency C-Section and couldnât have my partner with me at night. I felt so scared, I had had my baby at 8:38pm and my partner had to leave by 10:00pm. But the amount of mixed opinions by the midwives regarding feeding, swaddling, using blankets etc. I didnât know what to do. I personally wanted to swaddle my baby because of research I had done and I felt that was a good choice for us. But one of the midwives told me not to swaddle him and just to use a blanket (it wasnât a cellular blanket either). But then another in the morning told me not to use those blankets and to swaddle him. I was so confused đ another midwife made me feel so so small after my c section. I was in immense pain getting up and walking to the point I was brought to tears every time. I didnât make a big fuss but a midwife came up to me and was like âis your pain tolerance always this lowâ. I just thought⊠well no Iâve just had a c section unexpectedly, I lost over 2 litres of blood and my womb tore downwards and had to be stitched, I was just in a lot of pain. I thought something was wrong because the agony I felt when I had to get up and go to the toilet, I was sweating with the pain. Other than that, the other midwives were amazing and it was a fairly good experience â€
Had my first baby last year and have to say thank god I didnât have a bad experience with my midwifeâs. Ended in emergency c section and I instantly got the baby blues which developed into pp depression. In Ireland your partner isnât aloud to stay with you. So had my baby at 9:04pm and was on a ward and my partner kicked out by 10:15pm. But, can we talk about other mothers on the ward? My first night my baby woke up crying and one of the other mother walked over and opened my curtain and told me âget your baby to shut the fuck upâ. I felt so so bad.
Omg thatâs awful! I live in UK I also had my baby boy May last year ended up in an emergency c section. My god the midwifeâs where vile to me because he was my first she just kept shutting me down when I was telling her about pains ect!!
I also donât think thereâs enough spoken about after the massive hormone drops after an emergency c section xx
no cause iâm like that with certain people too but iâve never been pregnant đ€Łđ€Ł idk why but there are certain people that absolutely grind my gears for no reason and i feel so guilty for it đ€Łđ€Ł
Just the perfect thing to watch while eating my dinner tonight!!
I have an awful midwife with my second. I was 4 cm dilated for 3 weeks back to back contractions, so one day, I'd just had enough, so I wend in and asked for help to start me off . This one midwife gave me a pill that knocked me to sleep, and once I was out, I told my husband that it might harm the baby so my husband was left in tears for mine and our unborn baby's health. I was out for a good 45 minutes, and once I wake, they told me to go home and deal with it. Our son was born the next day 10lbs and he is incredible health other an autism but we are just thankful he is here. My husband didn't get ove leave after our son was born and he worked 15 hour shifts 5 days aweek so I did everything on my own with a 6 yearly old too
Love the podcast guys,Letâs get this podcast to 100 episodes by the end yearđđ
im 15, have no inference in pregnancies, and labour, (not in a offensive way) but when its Sarah and Joel ill listen to an hour podcast of them talking about both! and I loved it just goes to show how entertaining these podcasts are! cant wait for the next episode
So happy with this pod! Iâm a first time mum to a little boy, my pregnancy was hell, I had hyperemesis gravidarum(extreme morning sickness) all throughout my pregnancy, pelvic girdle pain which I still suffer with in my back a year later, my midwife was terrible and didnât help me , at 32 weeks pregnant i had a midwife appointment (different midwife) she picked up that I had high blood pressure and I was rushed to hospital for pre eclampsia and my feet were so swollen I looked like an elephantđ I stayed in hospital for 2 weeks then at 34 weeks my baby arrived via emergency c section as he wasnât moving and his heart rate kept dropping. The entire time i was in hospital I had a consultant who asked me why I havenât been to hospital before for this as in my notes since 20 weeks I had high blood pressure, I obviously wasnât aware. This couldâve been picked up from my midwife and I wouldâve had help before being rushed in. Pre eclampsia isnât researched enough in the practice and is deadly. I am lucky I was in hospital when my baby was born otherwise we both wouldnât have survived. I complained about that midwife about my experience and the ways she couldâve prevented this.. she now no longer works there đ€
I needed to hear this today!! I had my baby 12 weeks ago and we had a HORRENDOUS experience with the midwives after giving birth and currently going through the complaint process. Was made to feel like I wasnât capable of being a mum.
Love this podcast!!
I had my first baby 9 month ago by emergency c-section and had to stay in over night on my own I rang for help and they told me no she was going in a break and i choose to have the baby so I should do it. I never felt so degraded and alone. I wish I out a complaint in now and I never asked for help anyone since
Favourite day of the week looking forward to the weekly pod đ!!
Loved this podcast as someone who wants kids this has helped me loads for the future to follow my gut â€
The best advice a midwife gave to me was âdonât always go by the book, as what baby can read â đ
this came just at the right time! iâm currently 8 1/2 weeks pregnant, im so excited yet so scared! â€
Congrats on your 24 episodes on the pod â€â€
Love this episode đ
I had my first baby 6 days ago and completely agree regarding paternity leave! I had a c-section and I am recovering well but mix that with no sleep and itâs game over some days! Luckily my husband booked an extra 2 weeks off so he has 4 weeks but even still, itâs rubbish! Love the pod x
I can't wait to listen to your podcast Joel and Sarah
I was 18 when I had my daughter. The midwife asked me and my partner if we met 9months ago at a party. 5 years later weâre still together! I also got asked by a nurse why I had a baby if I didnât know how to do a nappy when I asked for support. It was during Covid so I was by myself, I ended up discharging myself
I had my son 16 months ago, I was induced and it was horrible.. They didn't listen to me once when i said something was wrong, left me 2 hours and my son's heart rate was 210 and rising.. once he was born they waited for him to cry at midnight to move us to ward but my partner was still sleeping because it was a long few days with coming in with reduced movements to having him. we had 1 nice midwife out of the 6 we had with the 1 birth đ
Loved this podcast topic. Loved listening to your storyâs guys â€
Can you also get kaci on again and maybe talk about her dyslexia and school with passing her exams. â€
Oh i had a bad midwife with my 3rd ... he was supposed to be a homebirth but was born 2 days early and was a tiny 4lbs12oz baby but he didnt need NICU , he was on the ward with me ... because he was so small i was hand expressing milk so i could wrote down how much he was getting and then this midwife came in and literally binned my milk id spend 35mins expressing ... and gave him a bottle of formula which i didnt agree too ... she tried to send him down to nicu because he was cold because we were in a ward and were next to the window and it was a heatwave and she opened the window "because everyone else is too hot" even tho the other mums said they were fine and 2/3 had fans next to there bed and the 3rd one i asked if she wanted the fan next to mg bed because i wasnt using it. That midwife had ne crying for 3 days whenever she was on shift ... my milk dried up and i had to get formula and i blame that midiwfe for it.
Literally highlight it of the week. so so good x
I had an awful midwife when pregnant with my first at 19, I look back now and wish Iâd put in a complaint! She was horrible, looked down on me for being pregnant young, was nasty and rude during my appointment I left crying my eyes out half way through! Luckily she was the only horrible midwife we encountered in two pregnancies!!
BEST PART OF MY DAY WITING FOR THESE EPS!!
Grace we are all thinking of you and hoping youâre having a fantastic adventure
Joelâs fake phone has had me howling x
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After pains are horrendous. Its like being in labour all over again. I was only 15 when I had my first and nobody really explained anything. I honestly thought something was seriously wrong, it was terrifying. I also had some staff treat me like dirt due to my age. They kind of think what a tramp. My baby's dad was in my life, we stayed together for 11 years and had a second child. It took away so much enjoyment of my first child. Heartbreaking đ p.s. just for the record, he was my first boyfriend and it was a contraceptive failure that happily led to my amazing now 40 year old son and we have the best relationshipđ
Omg how much is ur age gap 15 is so young!!
@@Sommerrrxit would be a 15 year age gap if she has her baby at 15
I look forward to this all week â€â€
You guys should do a birth video about Sophie and the struggles.
I really hope you see this because I want you to know that you are my favourite CZcamss I have been watching you from the beginning â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€
I demand when grace comes back she better be back on the pod pls Sarah and Joel pls I want Grace back gonna miss her on the vlogs aswell pls Grace be back on the pod love you guys so much best podcast everđ«¶đŒ
Dvg podcast on my birthday im buzzing đ
I love the pod so munch
Please have Grace back on the pod Iâm begging you â€
I just came back from a holiday in Malaysia and then Borneo a couple of days ago and it was amazing but Iâm sure graces trip will be quite different, I hope she has an amazing time though and the wildlife is incredible. I went on many boat rides to spot wildlife but the best was defiantly the elephants, we ended up seeing a heard of about 50 elephants it was amazing†just wondering where in Borneo she is going. Love you guys so much hope grace has a great timeâ€
Iâm just watching the first 3 minutes of this episode, and please donât take this the wrong way but have you ever tested Grave for autism? I have autism and I do the exact same things as she does and sometimes when Iâm watching I can just see. Please donât take that the wrong way! X
She has adhd so I think thatâs the thing with organising â€
@@MollyPaterson252 yeah true I did think of that after I commented, I just hope they donât get offended me saying that itâs just bc she shows a lot of autism x
@@millie-eo8kd they wonât get offended my sister has autism and my close cousin has adhd and there is a lot of similarities â€ïž
Yeah, typically when you get tested for adhd they look into autism too. I think it would have been ruled out. I guess everyone just presents differently â€
Loving the podcast Sarah so much funny then thought she wad on nonal videos
Where is Borneo
You should get Roland on the pod
my question is⊠why on earth was joel cooking spag bol at 7am?
my sims characters do that x
Meal prep
Love the cushions
Best pod â€â€â€
Well great, now im broody! đ
30 year old mum of 3 with no intention of having any more babies đ
Whatâs long sleeve trousers?đ
How weird my first born Katelyn was 3 weeks early and I was 18 when I had her so Iâm editing as watched more my 3rd was my easiest was at hospital 15 mins and had gave birth sheâs also the naughty one x
Just realised Chloe was 4th x
Day r of asking Chloe or Sophie to go on the podcast
Maybe the girls mum might be worried she wonât bond or love the 2nd grandchild as much or doesnât want another baby taking over the attention of the first grandchild x
Me and my fella love the podcast! Weâve dmâd you are couples dilemma! ( gay addition đ ) If you come across it.. itâs a good one be đfrom Deano Agar.. keep doing you guys â€
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