Why Valerie Bertinelli Won't Get Married Again

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  • čas přidán 17. 01. 2022
  • Valerie Bertinelli chatted with Access Hollywood's Kit Hoover about her new book, "Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today," which is available now. The "Hot in Cleveland" star looked back at her friendship with Betty White and revealed how she celebrated her late co-star's 100th birthday. Valerie also got candid about her relationship with her late husband Eddie Van Halen and shared what she'll say to the rocker once they see each other again. Plus, Valerie revealed why she will never get married again.
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Komentáře • 929

  • @jimwalker76
    @jimwalker76 Před 2 lety +383

    Valerie is a great mom and person. She is as beautiful today as the day I first saw her on One Day at a Time.

    • @margaretlouiseable
      @margaretlouiseable Před 2 lety +25

      I love her too. She's my age and an inspiration.

    • @LUCKYIRISHLADY77
      @LUCKYIRISHLADY77 Před 2 lety +13

      Val you are so inspiring and absolutely beautiful inside and out

    • @sued70
      @sued70 Před 2 lety +11

      Absolutely love you...my life moto has always been One day at a time!! Be real and be happy 💜💜😉

    • @davidrice3337
      @davidrice3337 Před 2 lety +1

      What about Eddies current WIFE !! She is the one who was taking care of him !! What the hell is wrong with you people - you cannot be this stupid

    • @davidrice3337
      @davidrice3337 Před 2 lety +3

      @@margaretlouiseable shame on her - Eddie had a loving wife who took care of him - especially in his last days ! How would y feel if some skank went on TV and did this to you all ! Shame on all of you for supporting such a narcissistic , inconsiderate woman -

  • @zoni3gurl641
    @zoni3gurl641 Před 2 lety +160

    I met Valerie years ago right after she had lost all that weight and wrote a book. When she was signing my book we started talking about cats and she took out her phone to she me pictures! Such a down to earth person. I will always be a fan.

    • @bettylew2231
      @bettylew2231 Před rokem +1

      Wow, that's really so cool. She seems like a down to earth person.

  • @PEGGYHART
    @PEGGYHART Před 2 lety +58

    Valerie wears her heart on her sleeve. She is so genuine. She is going through so many different emotions in her grief over Ed. Love is so complicated. Prayers for her recovery

  • @kellyshamrock5011
    @kellyshamrock5011 Před 2 lety +164

    I love Valerie’s honesty. Life is too short. Enjoy the time we have here. ❤️

    • @KimberlyLetsGo
      @KimberlyLetsGo Před 2 lety +8

      She's become a national treasure herself!! What a doll!

    • @davidrice3337
      @davidrice3337 Před 2 lety

      Seriously ? Eddie had a long time wife who cared for him ! For yrs ! Shame on her ! This is absolutely despicable!
      Eddie has to be looking down and thinking "What the fuck!"
      I cannot believe all of these comments praising this sick, morbid shameful behavior ! And the media perpetuates it!

    • @davidrice3337
      @davidrice3337 Před 2 lety +1

      @@KimberlyLetsGo shame on her - shame shame - what about Eddie's wife ! She's the one people should be thinking about ! She's the one who cared for him and who was with him when he passed ! Not this despicable excuse for a human being !

    • @Markothunder
      @Markothunder Před 2 lety

      Me too:)

  • @seekingjoynow1722
    @seekingjoynow1722 Před 2 lety +93

    Valerie was blessed to know and love Betty. She is a wonderful person herself.

  • @sandyfeet9502
    @sandyfeet9502 Před 2 lety +71

    The mere mention of Ed and Val lights up like a shooting star. Their love was unmistakable even though there were valleys and peaks. Can NOT extinguish that flame.

    • @davidrice3337
      @davidrice3337 Před 2 lety +7

      What about the person he was married to ? His wife !
      His wife - who took care of him in his last days - good grief what the hell is wrong with you people ?! Have you no shame ? This woman is sick - using this as an opportunity to get undeserved sympathy ! This is sickening on so many levels

    • @trianafoxwood7525
      @trianafoxwood7525 Před 2 lety +3

      @ David Rice
      This is what I've been saying. Valerie needs therapy. She's deranged. She's a bad influence on her son too. It's painful to watch. The 2 of them are just going to eat themselves to death now. I wished for a better future for the only child of Eddie Van Halen!!! But with a mother like her what do you expect?She's a Narcissist. I can't watch anymore. I have to write the 2 of them off. Eddie is gone. His band is gone. His music is gone. His concerts are gone. His family is gone. Wolfgang will die young and won't be very productive because Valerie is attaching herself to him and using him as a husband substitute. Serious Norman Bates vibes. "A boy's best friend is his mother." It's just sick. I can't pay attention to either one of them. It's just too sick. I don't want that energy in my life. Gross.

    • @ginaluker1749
      @ginaluker1749 Před 2 lety

      Wonder why they divorced

    • @TheWhereyouare
      @TheWhereyouare Před 2 lety

      He split with his second wife two years before he passed away.

  • @tillygirl7450
    @tillygirl7450 Před 2 lety +178

    I've always loved Valerie Bertinelli's acting, professionalism and her personality. She's the same age as me, 61 years old.
    I always felt I could identify with her and relate to her ups and downs.
    Valerie is now coming from a RECENT broken relationship and has to have time to repair and respect herself.
    Valerie has to tell herself that she is NOT broken but the relationship was.
    When I turned 60 years old, I felt so much more acceptance of myself, and I think that's where she is too.
    It is a great feeling to accept yourself and to love you as you are RIGHT NOW.
    We all love you Valerie as YOU are right now. 😊💖

    • @LK-pc4sq
      @LK-pc4sq Před 2 lety +2

      wow she does not look 61!!!

    • @kimbok5971
      @kimbok5971 Před 2 lety +4

      It's a shame we have to get old before we can push the negativity aside and to not care so much about what others think of us. Getting old (in my late 60s) has been very freeing for me, in many ways. For decades, into my 30s, I would not step out the door without makeup on my face. Now, it's no big deal to run up to the corner store with no makeup on and not give a damn. Love it!

    • @reneeg4817
      @reneeg4817 Před 2 lety +3

      I am her age also. Love her so much. She is so dow. To earth fame never effected her. She is beautiful.

  • @mstyles2667
    @mstyles2667 Před 2 lety +84

    She always comes across as such a kind and likeable person.

  • @smtpgirl
    @smtpgirl Před 2 lety +104

    I'm with Valerie. 61 and don't want the relationship mess. Love my family, love my dog and love my fish.

    • @TheUnderCoverMother2020
      @TheUnderCoverMother2020 Před 2 lety +22

      I'm at that point at 50. Never been happier! Divorced 12 yrs ago... 2nd marriage. I was done. I enjoy my life being my own and giving all my time to my kids without worry of not dividing my time between them and a man. I'm a Grandmother now and I am so incredibly happy in my own skin now. God Bless!

    • @reeson6998
      @reeson6998 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TheUnderCoverMother2020 lucky duck😊

    • @pkm7518
      @pkm7518 Před 2 lety +7

      @smtpgirl, Im with Valerie also. 66 & don't need "relationship mess" I love my dog too.

    • @lauraroberts4081
      @lauraroberts4081 Před 2 lety +2

      Preach.Yes!!

    • @whoooami2090
      @whoooami2090 Před 2 lety +6

      Same here! One marriage was enough. Life is so much more peaceful.

  • @lsteiner9304
    @lsteiner9304 Před 2 lety +72

    Love Valerie. Such a genuine soul, so rare to see. Her son is also a lovely person. Very happy for him and his career.

  • @bindilove3899
    @bindilove3899 Před 2 lety +150

    Love, love, love Valerie. She’s just a real person. I always wish her the best.

  • @darlataddeo6376
    @darlataddeo6376 Před 2 lety +51

    She is so sweet and REAL! I feel that we could be good friends- she probably makes many people feel like this.. What a kind person.

  • @vivis9946
    @vivis9946 Před 2 lety +153

    I agree with Valerie. I was 12 and we were having health week. I was already 5ft 4" and weighed 125. My teacher in front of another teacher said you are overweight and need to watch your weight. After that I lost weight at times to 104. After I had my daughter I lost again down to 114. Teachers, parents and friends should be careful of how you talk about weight, especially to young children. I'm the youngest of 5 and my oldest sister of 12 years was always worried about my weight. I'm in my 50's now and finally got rid of the negative people in my life. I don't like gossip and I only have a close circle of friends. It makes you more relaxed and you smile more.

    • @smallhouseinthemeadow6131
      @smallhouseinthemeadow6131 Před 2 lety +14

      My mother told me that I was at a "perfect weight" when I was 12 years old, and to not let myself get "any bigger."(I was super tiny). She created a binge eater in that very one moment.I battled with that when my daughter was young and was always dieting and I created a child with Bulimia without realizing it. I too hate gossip and being around toxic people and try to be around only positive people.

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit Před 2 lety +11

      Yes, I wish children would cultivate the ability to say back, "Do you think you look good?! Rather be me than you. Yikes, find a mirror. And read a book on good manners."

    • @bethdavis7812
      @bethdavis7812 Před 2 lety +4

      That was horrible that the teacher said that to you because a doctor will tell you that at 5'4" and 125 lbs you were NOT overweight!

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Knowledge comes from some of the most unexpected places and will remain with you for your lifetime. There will be one time when you will be grateful to have acquired the knowledge, irrespective of your age. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

    • @cleopatra658
      @cleopatra658 Před 2 lety +3

      @@bethdavis7812 it was probably her age, but I agree with you!
      I always hated getting weighed at school! I was always one of the tallest biggest girls in my class! I always felt like a cow because of the way I was treated and comparing myself to other girls including my sisters! Looking back at my pictures from that time … I was the perfect size! I was 5’8” in the 6th grade so of course I weighed more than the tiny girls! I also wore a size 10 shoe! My Dad was 6’5” and wore a size 14 shoe! It’s Genetics! I’m 64 now and I’m good with being a GLAMAZON! It’s empowering!

  • @bonitawilcox2909
    @bonitawilcox2909 Před 2 lety +45

    This interview was so great....the lady doing the interview was fantastic......and Valerie, love her.....she and Ed have that special bond.... and a talented son....God Bless her❤🙏

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; I’m KEANU REEVES once thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

    • @justinbartarm5143
      @justinbartarm5143 Před rokem

      @@keanucharlesreeves1327 l think Valerie is such a wonderful and true down to earth people. I also think she would have been perfect for you Keanu, a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul. Eddy was a very luck man to have met her. I wish her and Wolfy all the peace love and happiness the world can offer them. Peace love and happiness to you to Keanu, you are one celebrity that l truly admire for your honesty humility and superb talent. 👍 Peace my (

  • @AtomicCheri
    @AtomicCheri Před 2 lety +30

    I feel like she and Eddie never stopped loving one another. It seems like while their divorce was inevitable, they both regretted that they didn't stay together. I love how they co-parented their son so beautifully. PS: Her new book is so good.

  • @licksnkicks1166
    @licksnkicks1166 Před rokem +3

    I love Valerie. She’s so kind and compassionate.

  • @MsMadmax1
    @MsMadmax1 Před 2 lety +70

    To me, Valerie will always be beautiful no matter what the scale says. I know the kinds of struggles she has gone through with weight. I grew up in a big Italian family, so I have a love hate relationship with food and I wish I looked a certain way, but menopause has other ideas. I think the people who are fortunate to call her friend, co-worker, mom, sister, aunt or daughter are lucky because they have this kind, caring soul in their life. I've never heard one person who has worked with or for her say, "Man is she full of herself." Norman Lear just kept calling her sweet. Could you ask for a more glowing review? Valerie, whatever the future holds for you I wish you peace, happiness and joy!

  • @Mebuggiefan
    @Mebuggiefan Před 2 lety +10

    Awwww Valerie. That smile when Eddie's name is mentioned. It will be beautiful when you both meet again. Eddie is going to be on that stage when Wolfie accepts his award. Love you always Valerie. Words to live by.

  • @cindybolling5855
    @cindybolling5855 Před 2 lety +72

    Thank you Valerie. I’m at a stage in my life where I needed to hear what you had to say. Now I feel I can work on self image and be proud of who I am.

  • @cherylg5002
    @cherylg5002 Před 2 lety +112

    Absolutely love Valerie! One of the kindest souls! ❤️

  • @bonniestalhiem8025
    @bonniestalhiem8025 Před 2 lety +4

    When Valerie said that being loved and lovable has nothing to do with your weight, I began to sob….I’m 65 and I’ve struggled with my weight for the last 25 years. Because of it, my self esteem has been in the toilet for quite some time now. Thank you Valerie for helping me realize that I still matter… o matter how much I weigh.💖👵🏻

  • @allyb7817
    @allyb7817 Před 2 lety +36

    Thank you for being you Valerie. Been a fan since I first saw you on One Day At A Time. Such a wise down to earth person. A loving mother and such a beautiful soul. Bless you with love, health and happiness. You make this world a little more sweeter and a little more kinder.

    • @a.allmendinger5579
      @a.allmendinger5579 Před 2 lety +5

      Incredible lady!! I love ALL the books!! Just bought the newest one. Cant wait to read and get all of your insights!! Please take care!! We love you!

  • @karenbrown2135
    @karenbrown2135 Před 2 lety +26

    She is such a great person. I myself am 59 and I will never get married again and I will never live with another man and I do not ever want to have a boyfriend. Their is just to much crap to go through in a relationship. I cannot handle it anymore. Life is getting shorter and I want the rest of MY life to be about ME. I am very secure about myself now and I am happy to have my dog and my cats.

    • @susantaulli730
      @susantaulli730 Před 2 lety

      Sure unless you meet the man of your dreams

    • @galebranch6158
      @galebranch6158 Před 2 lety +8

      I totally agree. I am 61 and have finally found peace within myself.

    • @judybunnell9202
      @judybunnell9202 Před 2 lety +7

      Amen to that, Karen! I have been alone for over 20 years and have loved every minute of it and not being concerned about a partner.

    • @islandmama
      @islandmama Před 2 lety +7

      Same here. I will be celebrating my 60 th bday next month and I've been single for 8 years now. I am happy and quite contented. Don't need another relationship in my life. Although its nice to have a companion, it's too much crap and complications, especially at this age.
      Nope. Not worth it to me. I love my life the way it is.

  • @avarose316
    @avarose316 Před 2 lety +36

    I'm so happy that Valerie and Eddie were able to find their way back to one another the way they were truly meant to be....Sometimes you have to lose someone in order to find that someone ❤ again....And being that it was Valerie and Wolfie that were the last two to speak with Eddie says it all....Valerie Eddie and Wolfie 🙏❤👪

    • @barbaragarrity2380
      @barbaragarrity2380 Před 2 lety +7

      His wife Janie was there with AVH…

    • @Marsha0364
      @Marsha0364 Před 2 lety +6

      @@barbaragarrity2380 I was really confused, I keep wondering why his wife Janie is never mentioned in these interviews

    • @barbaragarrity2380
      @barbaragarrity2380 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Marsha0364 She says her life with Eddie was private. . But Janie was there with Eddie Not just Valerie.

    • @Marsha0364
      @Marsha0364 Před 2 lety +1

      @@barbaragarrity2380 thanks that’s good to hear

    • @Marsha0364
      @Marsha0364 Před 2 lety +5

      @@FrugalGal absolutely!! It would be very hard to hear someone talk about your husband in a certain way, it’s the wording

  • @kathrynhansen9128
    @kathrynhansen9128 Před 2 lety +40

    I am with you Valerie! Not another marriage! Enough!

    • @TheUnderCoverMother2020
      @TheUnderCoverMother2020 Před 2 lety +2

      @@austinhowland300gmail. 🤣🤣🤣 Lmao!!!! You have been trolling these comments trying to pick up women. Seeing you respond to this woman who said she's had enough! Classic LMAO. Dude.. seriously creepy and desperate. YOU are why we aren't interested lmao! Thanks for the belly laugh though 😆 😄

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Love maybe only a four letter word. But it is more powerful than anything in the world. It can alone make you the happiest person in the world, or the saddest. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your continuous prayers and thank throughout my movie 🎥 career;once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

    • @pepper1188
      @pepper1188 Před 2 lety

      She divorced Tom?! I thought he really loved her!?

  • @pattyford2228
    @pattyford2228 Před 2 lety +16

    I’m glad she’s finally realizing peoples opinions don’t matter! Social media is the DEVIL

  • @hello_its_me.
    @hello_its_me. Před 2 lety +1

    She was often at concert shows with VH, she was always so nice to the fans...getting out of Eddie's limo and waving to the fans who waited patiently after a show just to get a glimpse of them.

  • @maddie9185
    @maddie9185 Před 2 lety +41

    Valerie is such a beautiful kind and genuine person.

  • @bridgetbarba4170
    @bridgetbarba4170 Před 2 lety +40

    I think Eddie and Valerie were true soul mates. One only finds that once in his or her life time.

    • @Michele58R
      @Michele58R Před 2 lety +5

      If they were that.... they would have REMARRIED. I am talking from experience. She is using all of this. I feel sorry for Eddie's 2nd wife. Cast to the side because Valerie stepped in and played the game.

    • @ranman5491
      @ranman5491 Před 2 lety

      Yeah, and then they divorced each other, lol. She is making a fool of herself talking about Dead Ed all the time, they got divorced and he was married to another woman, she needs therapy.

    • @dalbriggss
      @dalbriggss Před 2 lety

      I believe they were good friends who respected each other and shared the joy of raising their son. The one thing that I’m not so sure about, is that Ed would be waiting for her in heaven. She could of responded to the interviewer when she asked Valerie “what would you say to Ed when you meet again in heaven. Something on the line of …. (Hi - It is so wonderful to see you again, Wolfgang and I really missed you!).

  • @jaymepeddycoart3471
    @jaymepeddycoart3471 Před 2 lety +51

    Great interview. Love Valerie she is Beautiful inside and out.

  • @theresamorgan1033
    @theresamorgan1033 Před 2 lety +3

    I totally understand how you feel. I lost my best friend and love of my life going on 8 yrs now. He would cry Everytime I went in the den. He would say I don't want to leave you!!!!I miss our talks that can go on for hours.i will never get over him..😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @lindahoffman2692
      @lindahoffman2692 Před 2 lety +1

      Theresa, How TRUE it is that we will never get over our lost soul mates and the parts of us they took with them!! It’s been years since my husband died and it’s taken me that long to realize I’ll never be the SAME person I was with him, and that’s OK. Theresa, we’re Lucky enough to have had love that many NEVER experience so we’ll keep the Joy of their memories and the laughter, long talks and loving embrace.

  • @psw4763
    @psw4763 Před 2 lety +35

    A wonderful interview and have been a fan for many decades. Loved her and Eddie together and Wolfe completed that family.

  • @kathyfriday3402
    @kathyfriday3402 Před 2 lety +48

    I just love her wisdom about life in general. I look forward to reading her book.

  • @eileenchmielewski1420
    @eileenchmielewski1420 Před 2 lety +37

    I couldn't love Valerie Bertenelli anymore then I do right now after watching this!!!!!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hi Eileen how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career; once again thank you 🙏 I’m KEANU REEVES hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @TheJanet4321
    @TheJanet4321 Před 2 lety +2

    I agree with her. I am 61 and couldn't care less about "finding love". I am so content just living on my own - getting together with friends and family, but living alone. I have never had more peace of mind since I made that decision YEARS ago. Loved her on One Day At a Time in the 70's - she always came across as relatable and down to earth.

  • @barbaraz8264
    @barbaraz8264 Před 2 lety +80

    Great interview. What an inspiring woman. Was always a fan. Can’t wait to read the new book!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety +1

      Hello Barbara how are you doing?

    • @denisepaulsenful
      @denisepaulsenful Před 2 lety +2

      She is hardly inspiring. She made money losing and promoting weight loss then gained it all back. Now she’s promoting self love when what she’s actually doing is promoting self harm like cutting. Why doesn’t she promote that.

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      @@denisepaulsenful Oh I see. Where are you chatting from?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @@denisepaulsenful Knowledge comes from some of the most unexpected places and will remain with you for your lifetime. There will be one time when you will be grateful to have acquired the knowledge, irrespective of your age. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career;once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @HH-gv8mx
    @HH-gv8mx Před 2 lety +46

    Valerie is a beauty inside and out! I just love her and she has so much to teach us younger ladies about life!

  • @darrenmiller6927
    @darrenmiller6927 Před 2 lety +17

    Valarie! Sounds great, still so pretty. I remember way back in the 70's with One Day at a Time, the show, and I was a kid and had a crush on her. She is amazing. Then back in the 80's she and Eddie were like royalty. I'm 57 and still love her, I mean, what's not to like?

  • @lisabyers2992
    @lisabyers2992 Před 2 lety +11

    Gosh…Valerie is a doll! I cried when she talked about that we are still lovable even if we are overweight. She is so wise! And the interviewer could be my best friend! She is amazing!!

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m KEANU REEVES hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

    • @lisabyers2992
      @lisabyers2992 Před 2 lety +4

      @@keanucharlesreeves1327 if you are Keanu then I’m freakin Madonna!! 😂😂😂

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @@lisabyers2992 Like I said earlier about opportunities it’s a vital tool you seek in our life so don’t let that slips away from you! It’s a pleasure to have me here with you on this beautiful weekend! How are you feeling over and hope you’re fine and good? So tell me how is the weather conditions over you’re currently??

    • @lisabyers2992
      @lisabyers2992 Před 2 lety +3

      @@keanucharlesreeves1327 if you are Keanu then I am Sandra Bullock!! Good one!! 😂

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @@lisabyers2992 How do you mean if I’m Keanu reeves??

  • @madonnahagedorn5649
    @madonnahagedorn5649 Před 2 lety +13

    Valerie Bertinelli is another iconic beauty on my list. Much like Betty White, she has incredible stamina for being in the industry and she is what I call forever young. She is still looks the same as from her youth. Best Wishes to you Valerie.

  • @tmackie1694
    @tmackie1694 Před 2 lety +14

    Gosh! There was a time when we ALL wanted Valerie’s fabulous hair.

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your prayers and support throughout my movie career; I’m KEANU REEVES hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @fin1shingtouch1212
    @fin1shingtouch1212 Před 2 lety +6

    Me too Valerie, I had my love and now I’m happy alone! Self love is the journey that I am on now!♥️🙏☺️

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hi Carol how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      We look to others for encouragement but true encouragement to succeed is best received from one's own self. Nobody will know you better than you know yourself. Hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @shaywatson3856
    @shaywatson3856 Před 2 lety +63

    I can totally relate to her! We really don't always have to be embroiled in a relationship, especially when that relationship may be toxic. MANY people need to learn this priceless lesson and understand loving oneself is so much more important than losing themselves to appease another. And sure, we get lonely sometimes, but not as painfully as it is to be in a relationship that is lonely. I've realized the only time I really need a man is when I need the refrigerator moved.

  • @koraldavis3474
    @koraldavis3474 Před 2 lety +42

    Valerie is amazing ❤️💗

  • @mgrella63
    @mgrella63 Před 2 lety +28

    Good for Valerie she came into her own and is peaceful about herself and life

  • @tiatowery6409
    @tiatowery6409 Před 2 lety +12

    I agree with Valerie!!people always ask me about marrying again I’m 56 and I say no ty!!! Happy alone and I’m not lonely!!!!

  • @AtomicCheri
    @AtomicCheri Před 2 lety +2

    "Hi, I'm glad you waited for me" .. Ugh, that made me teary eyed immediately. Wow.

  • @catenystrom6506
    @catenystrom6506 Před 2 lety +2

    I've always loved her, when I was a kid I watched One Day at a Time every week and I thought she was the best, still do. Love yourself. A lot of us women are learning how to do that, and no, we do not need a relationship to be fulfilled.

  • @sandyyoung9073
    @sandyyoung9073 Před 2 lety +19

    Valarie is a great person . She’s beautiful inside and out. I’m with her am never getting married again!!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Sandy how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      We look to others for encouragement but true encouragement to succeed is best received from one's own self. Nobody will know you better than you know yourself. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před 2 lety +11

    Valerie is such a great mom ,and amazing person she is as beautiful the first time I saw her on " one day a time.

  • @cindland
    @cindland Před 2 lety +52

    I was told in my preadolescence that I had a fat belly and my brothers were allowed to make fun of me over it. When I was 12 my dr told me to not gain weight and only get taller! It’s horrible the shaming that is done to girls.
    Thanks for speaking out about this, Valerie! We need more actresses to speak out about this and stop pandering to the Hollywood machine view of “beauty”.

    • @rebeccalee5674
      @rebeccalee5674 Před 2 lety +8

      My brother was allow to make fun of me and tease me to the point of tears it still hurts when when I think of it

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @Mehri Page Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; I’m KEANU REEVES; hope you don’t mind where exactly are you reaching out from??

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @Mehri Page It’s my responsibility to appreciate my beloved fan’s all over the world 🌎 for their continuous support and love for me throughout my career ♥️You shouldn’t be surprised ok

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @Mehri Page and how are you feeling this weekend my dear??

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @Mehri Page what exactly are you talking about

  • @kathyditondo1175
    @kathyditondo1175 Před 2 lety +19

    I love this woman. Team Valerie. Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @beckyhasse870
    @beckyhasse870 Před 2 lety +12

    She’s as real as anyone can be! And how wonderfully refreshing it is!! I have always loved her! I feel that if I’d ever meet her, it would be like “how are you? How have you been? “ and she’d be the easiest person to talk too!! And then we’d go shopping together!!!

  • @joylopez2735
    @joylopez2735 Před 2 lety +33

    Valerie is top notch!
    Love her.... exactly as she is.

  • @rose8409
    @rose8409 Před 2 lety +5

    Great interview- the news person and her connection with Valerie- you can’t make that up!! How strong and beautiful is Valerie!! Triumphing over so much and all of it in the public eye. Her loving way of speaking about her son and Ed - I was really moved watching and listening today. Thank you❣️🥰

  • @lauragb3677
    @lauragb3677 Před 2 lety +41

    Valerie has great insights and exudes kindness!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hi Laura how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your continuous prayers and support throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank thank you 🙏 I’m KEANU REEVES hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @joepoland3608
    @joepoland3608 Před 2 lety +10

    I have loved and respected Valerie since One Day at a Time!

  • @grantchow13
    @grantchow13 Před 2 lety +17

    She just separated from her husband a few months ago. Of course she is going to feel this way about marriage. All the best to her.

  • @susanheitmann9758
    @susanheitmann9758 Před 2 lety +2

    She is the only one celebrity that I would truly enjoy meeting. Her honesty is so refreshing.

  • @kimberlybush2219
    @kimberlybush2219 Před 2 lety +12

    "Do you want to be right, or do you want peace?" I love that saying!!!! Good advice!

  • @Stdntoflfe64
    @Stdntoflfe64 Před 2 lety +92

    You’re still as gorgeous as you were when I first saw you on “One Day at a Time.” If not more gorgeous.

  • @sandife4nandes365
    @sandife4nandes365 Před 2 lety +18

    I love this interview. Val, you are one of my favorite actors.

  • @niznomores7961
    @niznomores7961 Před 2 lety +9

    So true Valerie. Be happy with urself first before anything else. Being alone is powerful.

  • @kristinalowe9819
    @kristinalowe9819 Před měsícem

    She has such a generous spirit. I’ve always admired Valerie Bertinelli for her big heart.

  • @gnmrsmuir
    @gnmrsmuir Před 2 lety +4

    Same as other’s have commented…love her!!!
    Great interview, thank you!
    I feel the same and am in the same emotional snd mental state of life as her.

  • @lisgreen5675
    @lisgreen5675 Před 2 lety +32

    I think you are such an awesome lady!!! I can't wait to get your book. So much wisdom. I miss Eddie too. And I hope Wolfie wins his Grammy!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hello Lis Green how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career; I’m KEANU REEVES once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @donnad8886
    @donnad8886 Před 2 lety +7

    I love Valerie she's such a sweet and beautiful person. 💐 She has such beautiful memories of her time with Eddie. 😍

  • @jaxgirl33548
    @jaxgirl33548 Před 2 lety +1

    i love her and her way of thinking,,,,,she is only a few years older than me, but i wish one day i could hug her and say thank you for writing her book and it sure helped me in my time of need

  • @brendasprankle9394
    @brendasprankle9394 Před 2 lety +11

    Betty was so radiant. Great lady. Valerie, your awesome too. Take care

  • @chitterville7599
    @chitterville7599 Před 2 lety +12

    I just love Valerie such a talented, kind soul . Wish her the very best...

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hello Chitterville how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      We look to others for encouragement but true encouragement to succeed is best received from one's own self. Nobody will know you better than you know yourself. I’m Keanu reeves hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from?

  • @purpleviolet207
    @purpleviolet207 Před 2 lety +9

    Valerie Bertinelli is an inspiration. This was an amazing interview.👏

  • @ASMRTingledPink
    @ASMRTingledPink Před 2 lety +2

    61?! OMG! She looks fantastic! It's great to see her and hear her talking about being so happy being alone. That's where I'm at in my life and I've never been happier!

  • @amynunez4186
    @amynunez4186 Před 2 lety +14

    You are amazing Valerie 🤗 I need to go get your book 📖

  • @junebixby7041
    @junebixby7041 Před 2 lety +40

    She should have a talk show.

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba Před 2 lety +3

      Great idea.

    • @sadiesadiemarriedlady7900
      @sadiesadiemarriedlady7900 Před 2 lety +1

      She has a cooking show on Food Network with guests.

    • @junebixby7041
      @junebixby7041 Před 2 lety +1

      Well, that sounds very similar to a talk show -- I see her more on a traditional talk show and better network. But, I'm not a TV producer.

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      @@junebixby7041 Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank you 🙏 I’m KEANU CHARLSE REEVES hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @michelleallred8521
    @michelleallred8521 Před 2 lety +1

    In all honesty, I think that she NEVER stopped loving Eddie. He was absolutely 💯 her soul mate.

  • @lifechanges557
    @lifechanges557 Před 2 lety +4

    Love Valerie.. So true all she said. And we are here to learn and do our best as human beings. Be kind and Love. Tell People in your life you Love them. And most of all Love yourself. Do not ever allow someone to beat you down.

  • @TheNoonie50
    @TheNoonie50 Před 2 lety +6

    I love Valerie. We are the same age, I feel like I've grown up with her (in that fan girl healthy way)! She is a class act.

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank thank you 🙏 I’m Keanu reeves hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @nyleah411
    @nyleah411 Před 2 lety +18

    You are a delight and a joy! Hope you never change! I was watching you on Rachel Ray and she was so snarky and weird but you were all class and sweetness! That’s amazing! So much respect for you!!

    • @dolores9429
      @dolores9429 Před 2 lety +2

      When was that. ? Can you send me a link. ? Thanks

    • @Pjbuck55
      @Pjbuck55 Před 2 lety +1

      I absolutely agree!

    • @nyleah411
      @nyleah411 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dolores9429 czcams.com/video/aVV7HEufLjI/video.html

  • @priscillawinroth4205
    @priscillawinroth4205 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome interview! Valarie is so down to earth. I've been a fan for a long time.

  • @kathym.9140
    @kathym.9140 Před 2 lety +6

    Many people are saying how Eddie's second wife wasn't around at his passing, but I'm sure that I read an article from Valerie and in it she talked about how she, Wolfie and the second wife there all there towards the end of his life.

  • @CarrieAnn_
    @CarrieAnn_ Před 2 lety +3

    Hi Valerie. You may never know that myself and likely many others watching this interview wish you continued love and gratitude everyday for the rest of your life. Also, I wish there were a hundred more of you to spread around, setting the example. God is blessing you - keep that spirit and thank you!

  • @corinneciampa2656
    @corinneciampa2656 Před 2 lety +12

    Shes a wonderful actress wish she would do more movies

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      Opportunities will always come your way but if you have already accepted defeat, you might not get see what life has in store for you. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your continuous support and prayers throughout my movie career; I’m KEANU REEVES and hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @R.to-the.A
    @R.to-the.A Před 2 lety +2

    Valerie, to this day, she is such a really good looking woman. My goodness! She's always seemed like a really nice person.

  • @dfinite4089
    @dfinite4089 Před 2 lety +18

    Love Valerie Bertinelli! She IS lovable no matter what the scale says. Throw away the scale, is my advice. I did that years ago, and lost weight! Not that it matters, I do mean. It’s senseless to try to be skinny, especially if it means depriving yourself all the time, or most of it. Most important, if you don’t feel valid, or lovable, or valuable when you aren’t a ridiculously low weight, then I think it’s best to fix your focus and your mindset, first! Love yourself above all. It’s a short ride, even 100 years is. Make your life good right now, and accept yourself as you are.

    • @msr1116
      @msr1116 Před 2 lety

      I had a scale so old it was made of metal and when it rusted it got tossed and never replaced. Now, only my clothing fit determines if I need to lose weight.

  • @marisaburt9609
    @marisaburt9609 Před 2 lety +5

    feel it to heal it, yes!!!!! You're amazing Valerie, I love you!!!

  • @connien7690
    @connien7690 Před 2 lety +14

    I just love her. She is the best!!

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Před 2 lety

      Hi Connie how are you doing?

    • @keanucharlesreeves1327
      @keanucharlesreeves1327 Před 2 lety

      We look to others for encouragement but true encouragement to succeed is best received from one's own self. Nobody will know you better than you know yourself. I’m using this medium to appreciate and thank you 🙏 for your support and prayers throughout my movie 🎥 career; once again thank you 🙏 hope you don’t mind where exactly are you from??

  • @pamelacossey8604
    @pamelacossey8604 Před 2 lety +6

    This was an excellent interview,!!

  • @sc00badive
    @sc00badive Před 2 lety +9

    Great attitude Valerie! I hope you have a lot of joy in your life.

  • @susancarter9504
    @susancarter9504 Před 2 lety +6

    Just her always did since the 70s,,,she is a great person,,,,,sooooo down to earth, funny

  • @lisadean5416
    @lisadean5416 Před 2 lety +7

    It's all well and good but there is also a widow of Eddie that has to sit at home and listen to Valerie profess her love for Eddie and his for her. I just wish she could be a little more sensitive to his widow. I think it's awesome she is free from worrying about her weight. I've always liked her and think she is an awesome actress.

    • @annscott4432
      @annscott4432 Před 2 lety +1

      People erroneously think because eddie and his wife were separated she doesn’t deserve Valerie’s or our respect. That’s so wrong.

  • @stephendevore3902
    @stephendevore3902 Před 2 lety +8

    Good to see you as always ❤ I understand your views on marriage . Please be careful when you say your happy being by yourself. It's not as great as it appears. Never give up on love. Your place in life and all of it social pitfalls being in the spotlight is harder than ever.I wish you well in 2022 and beyond 💞

    • @sheilagravely5621
      @sheilagravely5621 Před 2 lety +11

      Stephen, I respectfully disagree. I've been divorced for almost 22 years now and spent most of my marriage separated anyway. I'm at peace and joy within myself, I have not even dated or thought about it... it's so lovely just being me and my little dog, if I don't want to cook or clean for a day or two or week then I don't. I don't have to answer to anyone but me, especially some drunk that only comes home when there is no place else to go to. I don't have to sit up sick with worry at night waiting for a call from the morgue. I can read, crochete,craft or whatever without being criticized. I could tell you a million reasons why single is better and really at our age wanting to date is kinda like shopping in a second hand store. So I hope Valerie is very happy with her choices.👍🏻👍🏻🙏🙏🙂

    • @kathylafayette3765
      @kathylafayette3765 Před 2 lety +7

      @@sheilagravely5621 been married three times and I'm done. I certainly don't want to take care of a man or be mistreated, so I'm fine with being single.

  • @pressureroller
    @pressureroller Před 2 lety +4

    I have had such a crush on Val my whole life. Thats not gonna change

  • @mohammedmasud5815
    @mohammedmasud5815 Před 2 lety +22

    amazing interview. love beautiful Valerie.

  • @mrspaulb3889
    @mrspaulb3889 Před 2 lety +6

    I just love her attitude! And while she’s had such an extraordinary life, and despite the fact that we don’t have anything in common, (except for gender and parental status) when she speaks I feel like I’m listening to one of my friends. Good on ya, Val! Keep it up; you’re happy AND you also look great.

  • @hollyberenson6412
    @hollyberenson6412 Před 2 lety +1

    Valerie. My oldest son had a very bad addiction to heroin. When a parent has hope and tells her addicted child that I love you and I have faith and alot of hope. Knowing that a parent has hope helps him to have faith in himself it puts them on the right track with a certain kind of push from his parent and him knowing that someone that loves him has their back. Never ever walk away or turn your back then he won't have faith he's sober now I'm so proud of him. The hope that I had and he had hope made him sober. Never ever give up

  • @bettylew2231
    @bettylew2231 Před rokem +1

    I've Always loved Eddie Van Halen & Valerie & I love their Love Story. And their love for their son .😃😘😄😍😉😁❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @denisemorrow1081
    @denisemorrow1081 Před 2 lety +3

    Valerie, you are amazing! So caring and loving if everyone in your life, I have always loved watching you from one day at a time to your cooking show to kids baking with Duff. You always make me smile.
    I always felt Ed was your "love" and of course your son.
    You are beautiful, have always been. Keep that incredible attitude.❤❤

  • @renataloren2384
    @renataloren2384 Před 2 lety +4

    Well Valerie, we all love you so much. I grew up with you watching you on one day at a time. I was a few years younger, but you were like my other sister and I just loved you. You’ve always been beautiful 🤩 no matter what!! May God bless you always!!! ❤️♥️♥️💖💕🌹💕♥️♥️❤️❤️🌹

  • @lilyLily1824
    @lilyLily1824 Před 2 lety

    She is such and inspiration! I am in the same boat, I want nothing to do with love. I enjoy my animals and am learning to love myself! I lost my husband due to cancer as well. I got married again, we are now separated and am looking for better! I don't need anyone else to be happy! NO WAY! I'm going to audible to download the book! Love you Valerie. XO P.S. I just watched "Distance" and am bawling my eyes out. BC my kids lost their dad too, so its very relatable for me! proud of Wolfie too, what reverence, love and respect for his dad! WOW!

  • @contessalouannec8064
    @contessalouannec8064 Před 2 lety +1

    Valerie Thank You for sharing your personal life with us. Congratulations on your book.