How Often Should You “Get It On”? - Real Talk Episode 15

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • Monthly, weekly, or daily? The crew talks about how frequent they get it on and whether there's a 'right' amount of intimacy when it comes to relationships.
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Komentáře • 239

  • @heyharvin
    @heyharvin Před 5 lety +2051

    sometimes i envy how comfortable you guys are on the internet

  • @mooncloud6991
    @mooncloud6991 Před 5 lety +2739

    Petition For Realtalk to be atleast 30mins long

  • @lambofunny
    @lambofunny Před 5 lety +411

    the chemistry between the cast is insanely good

  • @littlekai4848
    @littlekai4848 Před 5 lety +797

    Dew your condition is pretty normal, most guys after having sex/climate their body releases a chemical that makes them not wanting or attracted to woman momentary or sometimes for hours on end. They just wanted be alone or get some sleep after that.

  • @MFBB94
    @MFBB94 Před 5 lety +1212

    Someone tell Jade to publish a book about her experience. Her book will top chart Harry Potter series seriously 🤣

  • @snoopie.-8075
    @snoopie.-8075 Před 5 lety +20

    please make RealTalk more often, its so good to hear you guys opinion about some topics.

  • @SMCho-oi1gg
    @SMCho-oi1gg Před 5 lety +522

    Post more often please its so fast

  • @sammjoho
    @sammjoho Před 5 lety +74

    Am sure as couples mature , they find the best moment to catch up to “matimacy “not much to do about the number of times but what makes them work.

  • @eliciayeo
    @eliciayeo Před 5 lety +20

    wah i love how damn honest they are esp w jade, fking relatable i laugh till i cry bro

  • @polobuncharsiew
    @polobuncharsiew Před 5 lety +380

    it is the holoq holoq condition

  • @woiace
    @woiace Před 5 lety +2

    Good to be open and talk about this, especially in our traditional and conservative society

  • @btstookmyworld3408
    @btstookmyworld3408 Před 5 lety +5

    Saffron looks so pretty btw i love how the cast is so open minded about everything.

  • @randommalegamer
    @randommalegamer Před 5 lety +197

    Word of the episode: libido

  • @paris-sgpre4645
    @paris-sgpre4645 Před 5 lety +473

    O_O... Do most people in Singapore really talk about sex as openly as these guys now ? I am French, I lived in Singapore for one year as an exchange student in NUS in 2012-2013, and my feeling was that it was still quite conservative : there were no condoms for sale at the U-Town pharmacy, students' behaviour were more family-values oriented and students at dorms were not partying or having a lot of sex with each other, most of the students who were in a relationship seemed to be commited and serious about it (I was personally happy about that, as this mindset corresponded more to my own values). I remember discussing the issue with one Singaporean friend, and he told me that he would prefer to wait until marriage to have sex, and that most girls in Singapore also think this way.
    So has Singapore really opened up these past years ? Let me know your opinion ! :-)

  • @iamthatxx
    @iamthatxx Před 5 lety +291

    Suggestion!
    I'd like to know what the four of them would think about confessing to someone that is taken?
    It's quite a topic so I'm curious on what are their opinions about it. (Esp jade lol)
    I had a great time as always with yall. Keep it up!

  • @abcca1482
    @abcca1482 Před 5 lety +283

    Once a month seems a bit too little imo

  • @tanleelee268
    @tanleelee268 Před 5 lety +1

    They're very honest. No judgement and enjoyable to watch

  • @tlyz1988
    @tlyz1988 Před 5 lety +8

    Im glad to see you guys are able talk calmly and openly about these things. When some people talk about sex, doesnt mean that it is about those kind of porno things, or being raped, or sex out of marriage but rather than sex in the marriage. We as an adult must be able to be open minded in hearing these kind of thing because we do have a real case that sex sometimes is a problem in one's marriage. So, for those adult that has been married, you guys are recommended to listen to this topic of Real Talk but as for the youth or kids or even unmarried couple, you are on your own to listen to this. Hood job Real Talk 👍 Greetings from Malaysia 🇲🇾. P/S : Jade, you are damn hot babe 😍

  • @eggzzzz1
    @eggzzzz1 Před 5 lety +20

    I was very afraid of Saffron’s ankles the whole episode..... the way she twists it made me so scared that she’s gonna sprain or something LOL

  • @iqbaljessi5697
    @iqbaljessi5697 Před 5 lety +5

    Another petition is to let us viewers choose the topic for the next videos!

  • @kayla_minlee1140
    @kayla_minlee1140 Před 5 lety +22

    Gosh... I married a man soooo like Dew... Im an affectionate person n i love hugs n i hv to admit it hurts alot if ur partner shoo u away or gv u the "sound" Wen u jus wanna gd hug or cuddle once in a while... 😢😢

  • @albertuskurniawan1981
    @albertuskurniawan1981 Před 5 lety +37

    Can you guys discuss about having relationship with someone much older/younger (like 7+ years) these days, it was common back then but now, it's not so popular. How to overcome the age gap, etc

  • @xmate3
    @xmate3 Před 5 lety +8

    Dew has got to read the book: Attached by Amir Levine

  • @zellybean3187
    @zellybean3187 Před 5 lety +41

    Dews reaction is priceless

  • @salmondon7592
    @salmondon7592 Před 5 lety +14

    Real talk should have a podcast

  • @jerrychua1072
    @jerrychua1072 Před 5 lety +15

    u guys should often do more video like every week one or two videos, when everytime watched video can gain alot knowledge n info bout the talks... Keep it up =D

  • @suzysuhaimi1092
    @suzysuhaimi1092 Před 5 lety +15

    Omg John's face at 5:22 i died 😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dr.anindomitra4350
    @dr.anindomitra4350 Před 5 lety +1

    You guys are awesome. Its so refreshing to hear frank and honest conversation. Love from INDIA.

  • @yogeshmagar8306
    @yogeshmagar8306 Před 5 lety +41

    Make the videos longer please!!!!

  • @jjlim3768
    @jjlim3768 Před 5 lety

    The most open talk on the internet I find.

  • @bapao83
    @bapao83 Před 5 lety +4

    As frequent as we can. But getting it on doesnt mean just sex.. cuddling, mini date, hugs and kisses, silly things, all counts towards "getting it on".. me and wife are cool with it as we both are busy busy busy. We are waiting until our kids grow bigger and they have their own duties and activities. Then... we could do more intimate and private stuff.. but until then, guess I better focus in prepping all the family needs first right? Sex isnt everything.. Love is everything . And love is not the same as sex... love from Indonesia :)

  • @farishazainal5251
    @farishazainal5251 Před 5 lety +84

    I LOOOOVE YOU GUYSSS SO MUCH!!! YOU GUYS ARE SO HILLARIOUSSS!!! 😂😂😂

  • @caleb-fg1nl
    @caleb-fg1nl Před 5 lety +1

    This is my fucking favourite Singaporean CZcams channel.

  • @jingenng1062
    @jingenng1062 Před 5 lety +1

    I got the same feeling like Dew so I guess I can somehow understands what’s his talking about. Like after every freakin event I just wanna be alone, enjoy the moment of the “me time”

  • @sindy113
    @sindy113 Před 5 lety +26

    Wow they’re still young but already saying once a month/week 😮

  • @burtonl7239
    @burtonl7239 Před 3 lety

    It's not claustrophobia. It's commitment-phobia. Subconsciously, he doesn't want to bond because he scared it would eventually lead to real feelings and then marriage, which Dew doesn't believe in.

  • @mauricemallari6365
    @mauricemallari6365 Před 5 lety +7

    Dew looks slimmer. Keep it up bro!

  • @stonerinfinite
    @stonerinfinite Před 5 lety

    Oh my gosh I don't want it to end but great topic guys! 👍🏻

  • @ceejay9984
    @ceejay9984 Před 5 lety

    Need more of this. Please post more often 😣💓

  • @wudi6126
    @wudi6126 Před 5 lety +50

    I think real talk has to do an episode on masturbation.
    Like I think.

  • @gabriellry
    @gabriellry Před 5 lety +13

    How much real talk is good enough?

  • @MrVyzaque
    @MrVyzaque Před 5 lety

    John, I feel you brah! Dew, thanks for reminding me of that book. May be i should get her do read it. Jade and Saffron, you girls are cool..
    I am also very comfortable having conversations like this, but you guys are a different level. Stay honest the same way as you are now guys.. Subscribed.

  • @qwert.c2032
    @qwert.c2032 Před 5 lety +5

    I FKIN LOVE THE EDITING AHAHAHAH

  • @erfamuhammad373
    @erfamuhammad373 Před 5 lety

    Dew seems much more chill nowadays.

  • @kadakaboom
    @kadakaboom Před 5 lety

    Video editor of Real Talk is the real MVP 💯

  • @IceyJunior
    @IceyJunior Před 5 lety

    The editing is getting better

  • @AlyciaTan
    @AlyciaTan Před 5 lety +13

    EPISODE TOO SHORT GUYS!!!! PLS MAKE IT LIKE A 1HR TALK SHOW HAHAHAHA

  • @jimmyoh1982
    @jimmyoh1982 Před 5 lety +3

    Wow!!!! DEW face look sharp... Really look thinner... Keep it up, dew...

  • @yogawanny2638
    @yogawanny2638 Před 5 lety

    yo dew, i think its better for you to go and consult ur condition to a psychologist. just for a safe cause and to improve ur life well-being. sometimes condition like that doesn't really have a direct causal with ur physical condition, but it can also caused by ur psychology state. if u or ur gf feel disturbed by it, then maybe its great to consult to a professional helper.

  • @TheUmar98
    @TheUmar98 Před 5 lety +35

    Lets agree that we all watch real talk for saffron

  • @lolboy94
    @lolboy94 Před 5 lety

    I'm sure this episode will help a lot couples out there

  • @takoyakizzz8959
    @takoyakizzz8959 Před 5 lety +4

    Just here to watch saffron explaining things her way#holoq#holoq

  • @bobbyfirmino9292
    @bobbyfirmino9292 Před 5 lety

    YASSSSS ANOTHER EPISODE LOVE Y’ALL

  • @EdwinLawisan
    @EdwinLawisan Před 5 lety

    Damn the channel is so damn great and addicting! Post more frequently please! 🤣🤣

  • @benteo4727
    @benteo4727 Před 5 lety

    Damn! Would love to be part of the Convo of the series! It's like a no hold bar all the way for the truth sorta shit.

  • @aliintan9356
    @aliintan9356 Před 5 lety +1

    I feel the same as Dew and can't figure it out yet

  • @trikoalt
    @trikoalt Před 5 lety +51

    When can we see Jade's baby?

  • @SoPhie-cd3nl
    @SoPhie-cd3nl Před 5 lety

    I love how jade and saffron are open..
    And dew oh god ur lost everytime too cute lah😍

  • @sayurik
    @sayurik Před 4 lety

    Oh god I can relate to Jade so much!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @itskennnnnn96
    @itskennnnnn96 Před 5 lety

    You ain’t alone Dew!

  • @lorsanganz4173
    @lorsanganz4173 Před 5 lety

    This talk need to be longer , it so fast and I want to watch more 😂 then I need to wait for another ep , can you guys make it longer ? I really enjoy it 😂 hahahhaha

  • @gemmacheria7645
    @gemmacheria7645 Před 5 lety +4

    Oh i love real talk so bad!

  • @ezydy
    @ezydy Před 5 lety

    I find this funny and the editting is damn good

  • @yingang1953
    @yingang1953 Před 5 lety

    love real talk!!! please post more!!! 🔥🔥

  • @mooseroom
    @mooseroom Před 5 lety

    i stick to twice a month, sometimes 3, if i’m free

  • @yomamasofat413
    @yomamasofat413 Před 5 lety +1

    4:58 It’s not claustrophobia la it’s cuddlephobia LOL

  • @pikyiee
    @pikyiee Před 5 lety +3

    Omg Dew, I got the same "condition"! And I thought I was the only one LOL.

  • @jessiesue6785
    @jessiesue6785 Před 5 lety

    Finally!! Long awaited

  • @alww3673
    @alww3673 Před 5 lety

    Discuss about getting over break ups!

  • @danialazraai6765
    @danialazraai6765 Před 5 lety

    I think the right number is probably the number of off days you get at work. example 5 days work 2 days off, then twice a week would be enough.

  • @JendulBrag
    @JendulBrag Před 5 lety

    When i watched dis As a conservative guy I feel shocked but this is so interesting to know

  • @alpharival0219
    @alpharival0219 Před 5 lety

    these guys are the best

  • @archer1991
    @archer1991 Před 5 lety

    More! More! More! More of everything! Longer episodes and more frequent postings please!

  • @spanishjo4282
    @spanishjo4282 Před 4 lety

    My friend do from Mon to Sun and Morning till midnight

  • @SitiSarah-mv3on
    @SitiSarah-mv3on Před 5 lety

    I never miss their channel lar weh

  • @marcuspng61
    @marcuspng61 Před 5 lety

    HAHA i swear this is damn good. always brighten my day up.

  • @duonhuyenofficial
    @duonhuyenofficial Před 5 lety

    please make one hour talk show

  • @purpleparadise4094
    @purpleparadise4094 Před 5 lety

    Saffron looks so good in short hair

  • @testor9
    @testor9 Před 5 lety +2

    saffron so open. miss her in class so quiet

  • @amyfarhan116
    @amyfarhan116 Před 4 lety

    4-5 days per week. Weekends morning amd night are must lol

  • @majinboo6377
    @majinboo6377 Před 5 lety +1

    Yeah, sex burns lots of calories after that it makes u feel sleepy and tired and weak body. Twice a week is actually a good numbers for healthy body, mind and relationships (married, ofcourse).

  • @levanto6816
    @levanto6816 Před 5 lety

    Love you guys!!!

  • @wiliantosoedjarwo7103
    @wiliantosoedjarwo7103 Před 5 lety

    Please post longer content/more often.

  • @arnond9229
    @arnond9229 Před 5 lety +3

    Real Talk never fail to make me laugh 😂😂

  • @dopeflaming-go1660
    @dopeflaming-go1660 Před 5 lety

    Waiting for this new episode

  • @miroshafiq5122
    @miroshafiq5122 Před 5 lety

    Actually, i think i have the same stuff happening to me which is similar to your case ,Dew. It is like after we did that, i get easily annoyed when she teased or wanted to clingy with me right after the sex. I just feel like dont want to talk to her and having my own time at certain period. Maybe not as long as your case but the application is so similar.

  • @chanmingfaiedward
    @chanmingfaiedward Před 5 lety

    I think the editing is the best part lmao

  • @2o1j3s
    @2o1j3s Před 5 lety

    Finally yall !

  • @rachelshim2392
    @rachelshim2392 Před 5 lety +24

    Why isn't John in the thumbnail??

  • @gokoye6655
    @gokoye6655 Před 5 lety +6

    Jade is so gorgeous

  • @leeyanshao9284
    @leeyanshao9284 Před 5 lety +10

    finally another episode

  • @nickkamila
    @nickkamila Před 5 lety +12

    Dew i think you just afraid of commitment 😂

  • @deckard1
    @deckard1 Před 5 lety

    What happen if both our house is occupy?Grandparents retired or parents on off day?

  • @vandette91
    @vandette91 Před 5 lety +1

    Wait... I'm here early. Nice eps people!

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak Před 5 lety +3

    So real....

  • @blueberries5741
    @blueberries5741 Před 5 lety

    Its normal, its a medical condition where the hormones starts to take effect or its toll

  • @dumbchuck1131
    @dumbchuck1131 Před 5 lety +3

    How these guys not awkward at all

  • @DHeisenberg-up6in
    @DHeisenberg-up6in Před 5 lety

    5 times a week here!

  • @alwishaikdelgadoalaudin4096

    best show in Singapore

  • @hypeballderic
    @hypeballderic Před 5 lety

    'da sex" part fuckin slayed me