13 Going on 30 - Jenna & Matt - Her Best Friend
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- čas přidán 23. 05. 2012
- Scene from "13 Going on 30" starring Jennifer Garner and Mark Ruffalo.
Hi.
Hey.
I don't know what Lucy said to you about me, but I want you to know... that whoever that was she was talking about... wasn't me.
It doesn't matter what Lucy said. I stopped trusting her after she stole my Pop Rocks in the third grade.
Matt. I am not the awful person that I know that I was. I don't even know that person. And I'd like to believe... I have to believe that if you knew that... if in your heart, you really, really knew that... you wouldn't be getting ready to marry someone right now unless that someone were me.
Jenna, I'm not gonna lie to you. I have felt things... these past few weeks... that I didn't know I could feel anymore. But I have realized in these past few days... you can't just turn back time.
Why not?
I moved on. You moved on. We've gone down different paths for so long. We made choices. I chose Wendy. That's her family down there. We care about each other, you know? You don't always get the dream house, but you get awfully close. Please don't cry, Jenna.
Oh, I'll be fine, I promise. Matty, can I have it? Please?
You're not gonna whip it at me?
No. Look, I won't have you be late. Just go. Go on. I'm fine. I'm just crying because I'm happy. I want you to be so, so happy. I love you, Matt. You're my best friend.
Jenna, I... I've always loved you. #13GoingOn30 - Zábava
" You can't just turn back time. " That's the most saddest line in the movie, but the most predominate line to me.
Her "Why not?" KILLS me :'(
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Jenna can with the wishing dust Matt gave her as a birthday gift so to think all this could have been avoided if he hadn't gotten her that wishing dust lol
“Why not?” Is mine. I’m still a child at heart in many ways.
Matt realizes that you can't change the past or live in it. He realizes that he has to live in the present and where he is now. He's engaged to Wendy and he wouldn't have proposed to her if he didn't want to marry her.
"I want you to be so happy...you're my best friend." that gets me
Jenna I. . I have always loved you
Me: FINALLY DUDE YOU ADMITTED TO YOUR BEST FEMALE FRIEND OF 17 ODD YEARS.
Wendy had to hear the conversation in the other room.
When you love someone you. Want what's best for them even if it's not what's best for you
@@Disney65FanI’m she chose popularity and money over her best friend and some one that truly cared. She was even friends this the girl that openly bullied him for years.
Everytimeeeeeee 😢
When matt says "you don't always get the dream house, but u get awfully close" I start to cryyyy
what does that mean? can someone explain im too slow
@@natsudragneel4892 he loves jenna. Yes..he is a good guy who will treat his wife well but she will always have a piece of his heart.
Lol this part is deep. U can tell that his current fiancé kinda looks like Jenna. He prob has a type or maybe he just cant get over her. Thats why he said that. Jenna was the dream house he didn’t get.
What he means is that you can be in a loving an healthy relationship with someone who is not the love of your life. You can't get a second soulmate but you can still live a happy life. At least i think thats what he meant.
@@Schnukii13 True
Matty's face at 3:08 is a face I will never forget. The lump in his throat, his eyes filled with tears then his words......Jenna I have always loved you. OMG. This right here is perfection
I guarantee he called off the wedding as Wendy heard the conversation between Matt and Jenna.
The look on Mark's face when he gives Jennifer the house I was like Ahw the poor dude is heartbroken.
If allll ALL men wud be like him not only chasing looks
@@Disney65Fan naw, she was in another part of the house
So true
@@user-te2vt1yn5z But in this film, Jennifer is blazing hot
I tear up whenever i hear jenna say "I want you to be so, so happy" yOU CAN SEE MATTY'S PAINED FACE
Mark Ruffalo kudos to him. You can see his expression on his face as his character was breaking down
I need a Matty in my life
And someone out there is waiting for you
ikr
I need a Jenna in my life. Good luck to both of us😂
I need a Jenna in my life... :(
Same
Matt:Jenna..... I've always loved you....
Me and Jenna:😢😢😢😢😢😢
I wanted to thumbs down that just for being so sad... ugh I'm so happy for the end
Lovely
"... you wouldn't be getting ready to marry someone right now, unless... that someone were me."
What a heartbreaking scene!
He plays a great romantic lead. He's a very sympathetic character, you can't help but fall in love with him. This scene makes me cry right along with everyone else that's posted a comment. He is tops in this movie, but Just Like Heaven is pretty awesome, too.
Love Just like heaven!! AND love him romantic lead with black widow in marvel!!! But stupid movies drop that plot 😒😒
Yes i cried in Just Like Heaven while watching it in the theater. He has an endearing quality to him. He is not that tall and he has the guy next door look but has IT
"Jenna I've always loved you." That gets me every time. He delivered the line perfectly.
Matt loves Jenna, he always has. But he loves Wendy, too and he's already made his decision. He has history with Jenna but it's childhood history. He has history with Wendy which is grownup history. He admits that his feelings for Jenna have come back but he knows that they can't turn back the clock and pretend everything over the last 17 years never happened because he moved on from Jenna, met Wendy and proposed to her and he can't break his commitment to her over a childhood friendship being rekindled.
exactly!!! I love that this movie did that. that it showed a good man is someone who doesn't break his commitments to follow his desires no matter how much it hurts. it's what makes matt so much more realistic then almost every other generic rom com out there.
Thank you captain obvious.
He didn't move on from Jenna in his heart. If he really did marry Wendy they would have ended up divorced because he was settling.
MsLovestory01 not true. Love isn't a guarantee your relationship will end up happy and lasting. It's just a factor. What determines that is whether or not they're willing to move forward and understand each other despite their differences. There are plenty of people who divorce despite having married while in love. The concept of true love is also not a reliable notion. Sure it probably does exist in some form or perspective but it's not the all encompassing notion that people think it is. And it's just as possible for you to have true love with someone you married but barely knew before like in an arranged marriage. The more important key is understanding and loyalty.
Atiqah Diyana It's why teenagers should listen to their parents about love. Teens claim their in love but there's a difference between thinking with their hearts and thinking with their hormones.
A man who keeps his word and commitment despite his unexpected change of feelings, what an example
I thought of this scene as it reflects my life. I dated a woman 9 years ago and she ended things with me because the timing wasn't right for her, she was getting over a boyfriend who cheated on her. We reconnected years later but I had moved to a new state and was dating a new woman whom I eventually married despite knowing that I had strong feelings for her. Needless to say, I divorced and we reconnected and for once, the timing was right. We're finally together and so happy. Its hard not to want to turn back time and wish we had never moved on and made choices that brought us apart. I've found that if you truly feel something strong for someone, you'll never forget them and if you're lucky, fate can bring you back together.
+MrBdiddypop dam man, that's a nice story. Happy things worked out for you.
+MrBdiddypop i'm surprised, those stories really happen *.* omg, it's a wonderful thing,
+MrBdiddypop Virtual hug, MrBdiddypop.
Wow your story brought me tears! Congrats! If it's meant to be, it's meant to be!!
I cried reading this man. I wonder if the same will happen to me and the girl I really love. I've been single since 2012.
AND THE BEST PART WAS
"A razzle, Mr. Flamhaff?"
"Thank you, Mrs. Flamhaff."
FFS THEY'RE GOALS
Do they still got those candies 🍬
Mark Ruffalo really reaches a deep place inside you only by saying a few words
I actually cried lol
abrey lewi I'm glad she was able to set things right in the end
abrey lewi Me too esp cuz it reminds me of us...
You’re not alone 😂
They forgot the deleted scene where the house fell on him and he began to turn green.
Christopher Smith 💀
Suicidal Blonde The actor who plays Matty plays also Bruce Banner (Hulk) in the Avengers. His name is Mark Ruffalo.
Btw, when Bruce Banner gets angry he turns into Hulk, so there's why 😊.
Elisa Gonzalez and lets not forget he told tony, the last time he was in New York he kind of broke harlem
kimmy cuthbert Exactly, lol. Better not make Banner mad.
“Matty can I have it? Please.”
That is that part that gets me 😭
Me too. I was looking for this one.
if this was real life and he had married the other girl it wouldn't have lasted long. It was so obvious that he loved Jenna and the other girl would have seen through it. i wouldn't wanna be someones safe choice.
MsToni_f you'll be surprised how long someone will be with the wrong person. Matt did it because of how much time he spent with Wendy. Imagine starting a family? For some men things like that mean something. I'm sure if he did marry Wendy. He'd be like "it's good enough."
I dunno if I say that Wendy was the "wrong" person (least not in this alternate reality). True he settled for her somewhat, but they do generally care for one another and he wasn't gonna just straight-out break her heart because his old crush waltzes into town. Wendy and him had a real relationship. Jenna seemed awfully bold there too, assuming he'd drop Wendy for her. Guess Jenna had to learn the hard way. At least she DID get a chance to go back in time and realize her mistake and correct it though.
You can love two people at once. Love and infatuation are not the only factors that makes a marraige, but also trust, reliability, and respect. Clearly, he finds that Wendy has all of those qualities. And even though he might still have feelings for Jenna, he clearly sees a better, longer, happier, more stable, more nurturing love with wendy.
@@lisardo lol yes, but we almost forgot that she was with a 13 head in this scene
i don't think so, because if was real life, Jenna would be that awful person who walk away from him in his teens, to be part of certain group, which she started to become arrogant, to forget about her family, to cheat her friends , to cheat her boyfriend...and i think Matt even though he felt love or caring for her, he realized that she is not the one for him. He may never forget Jenna but I think his ideas of "what love is", doesn't correspond to Jennas personality, and yes to Wendy's.
“Jenna...I’ve always loved you.” 😭😫
Me: Damn Mark Ruffalo you adorable teddy bear you.
they're acting is so superb in this scene! pulls my damn heart strings EVERY damn time!! so gooooood :')
"You can't just turn back time"
why not???????
Yes you can!!!!
Me: Oh yeah watch me Mark Ruffalo,I'm gonna grab wishing dust,say I wanna marry Mark Ruffalo and have Deadpool as our son.
Haha
This scene breaks my heart every time :(
"Please don't cry Jenna" the way Mark Ruffalo said it, he NAILED this scene.
Yeah he even broke down when he said it.
This gets me every time! "I'm just crying because I'm happy, I want you to be so so happy" Matt- "Jenna, I-I've always loved you" Wahhhh!
"Jenna........... I've always loved you.......... "
I love it :-)
This scene is all about forgiveness.
I thought it's about moving on
Jenna: Matty, can I have it? Please.
Matt: You're not gonna whip it a me?
Damn..
Mark Ruffalo 😍❤
This is so heart-breaking.
It’s not if you’re in Wendy’s place.
Moral of the story for the ladies: Never take a good man for granted as he will no long be around any longer.
Yup
+DrewYetti never take a good person for granted.
And they still will do some fucked up shut
DrewYetti Same for guys duh. Not a double standard
Happened to a girl I used to liked. She tried to get with me after two years. I said I was "busy". She just kept dating asshole after asshole
The fact that he still has the dollhouse after all those years says a lot.
When Matty said please don't cry, I actually cried
Damn.... Mark is such a great actor. I am falling in love
XIUGirl same
“Pls don’t cry Jenna” broke my heart🥺🥺
So lucky it’s a happy ending
when he says "please don't cry jenna" ...... :'( my heart broke
Moral to 13 going on 30 Don't dream of being an adult so fast and when it comes to love he might be there this whole time.
"I've felt things these past few weeks that I didn't know I could feel anymore". I hate being an unpopular opinion on here but I am so bothered that he proceeded to marry Wendy when he kissed and had a fling with Jenna during their magazine photo project. We barely know Wendy but I feel so bad for her because she just said "I do" to a cheater and has no idea. In this alternate scenario from Jenna's dream, this Matt is not ready for marriage or commitment. He's totally settling here too. If you're gonna marry somebody you better believe they are your dream house
...also this movie came out when I was in 4th grade! I'm 22 years old now and I think it's funny how critical I am of this scene but 4th grade me was crying and hating on Wendy lol
Right?! When he says “you don’t always get the dream house, but you get awfully close” my heart broke for Wendy
But is it really cheating tho?
Mann.. fuck Wendy!
@R g awesome comment. Agree with you.
But its still wrong to do such things and then not tell your other half
I didn't cry (maybe 'cause I'm a guy), but I was satisfied in knowing that Jenna had learned a very valuable lesson. She aspired to be someone she wasn't, and realized that "being cool" may very well make you someone who's totally UNCOOL. Glad she got a second chance.
I like how kind and caring Matt is. He doesn’t even argue with Jenna despite her personality change. He actually welcomes her back into his life. He’s so sweet. I so want a friend like him
This movie makes me soo sentimental and I don't know why 😭😭 I was only 8 when it came out, but I was never able to relate till now. This scene breaks my heart each time & makes me realize how valuable certain moments/people are. If only I could "turn back time" to relive a lost instance with certain individuals. Certain people I miss but who are no longer in my life 💔💕
I'm crying like a baby over this scene no matter how many times i watch it. 😭😭😭
“You can’t just turn back time”. Yeah well I was 13 when this movie came out. I am now 30. Where’s that got damn magic dust when you really need it now lol.
lol
Yeah I wanna buy some wishing dust and go i wish i was popular. Wake up and be jamming to George Micheal and track down my former crush haha.
The movie only gets more meaningful with time as I keep watching it. It's such a true and grown up theme.. up until the wishing dust of course. lol.
That was fucking funny 😂
I feel you though! I just turned 27 yesterday. Was 9 when I saw this and am still on a hunt for that got damn dust!
This is a great movie (especially for a romcom) It still breaks my heart every time I watch this scene. Jenna & Matt’s paths diverged because Jenna didn’t stay true to herself... or Matt. Later on as an adult, regret catches up with her (in this scene) when she realizes that she can’t change the past or her decisions nor can she have back the only person who ever truly loved her for who she REALLY was. 💔
I like how their character names are similar to their real ones. Jennifer, Jenna. Matt, Mark. XD
Matt was willing to commit himself to Wendy, but he doesn't love her the way a man loves the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with, and never will. That's obvious by how quickly and easily he was distracted by Jenna. To marry Wendy would be deceitful and unfair to her. She deserves more, and Matt needed to set her free for a man who will be completely smitten by her and only her.
He does love Wendy, but he knows that the first love he has was Jenny. Jenny changed and became a very terrible person, so he had to move on. It’s no different in real life, as much as you want to go back to that person, you found another person who changed your perspective and made you better. It was too late for Jenny to try get with him, because the Matt that Jenny herself loved and new had found someone who did love and appreciate him the way he wanted. I can not stress this enough, Matt chose Wendy because he loved her more than the nostalgia feelings. Nostalgia is a powerful thing my dude, but overall he himself realized that’s all that Jenny was to him now, a remnant of the person who was his best friend and truly loved.
when he pulls out that dollhouse , at the same time.. my tears start coming out! OH GOD. I'm bawling . LOVE THIS SCENE UGH
Today ( 16 august 2022) i watched this movie for the first time... And just skipped the beat when he said jenna I have always loved you ❤
I still believe this was Jennifer Garner's BEST performance! Yes, there was a lack of tears, but the heartbreak is so strong! Thanks for uploading!
I've been best friends with a boy named Matt for over 8 years now and I've always called him Matty because of this movie. He hates the nickname but he accepts it anyway cause it makes me happy to call him that. lol 😊
This scene alone brings the movie to a whole new level.
I am going to admit i am a guy and i think this movie kicks buttt . Seriously !!!!!
My partner thinks so too xx
Yes me too its just a good movie and if your human and honest to yourself i think everybody would at least relate to the movies.
You don’t always get the dream house, but you get awfully close. Gets me every time.
The moment that absolutely wrecks me every time I watch it!!!! OMG
Such a depressing scene, but she was lucky to be able to go back and time and fix their relationship. Too bad you can’t do that in real life. I’m glad I first saw this movie when I was under eighteen. It taught me how to be careful who you trust, appreciate your childhood, not take what friends do seriously, not take friends for granted, and turn you back on friends. I would recommend this movie to anyone ages twelve to sixteen. Wendy could’ve ended up with Alex Carlson, or maybe Chris Grandy
This is the most realest movie.... And it shows you while you still have time do the right thing don't let the one you love get away
Re-watched this movie for the first time in years. I love it even more and this scene got to me and I was bawling. I LOVE these two together and I love this movie even more than I did as a younger boy. Yeah, I'm a guy and I adore and love this movie. :)
You don't have to justify liking it. Beneath the cheesy rom-com surface there's a lesson to be learned 🙂
This movie really grew on me. As a guy I thought I couldn't enjoy it but the overall messages it conveys are pretty universal to everyone.
Everytime Matt says *please don't cry* and when he goes to the closet to get the dream house for Jenna, those parts always get to me and make me say *awww* with watery eyes!
This was so hard for her hurts to watch. Beautiful confession.
When she starts smiling to make him happy i couldnt stop crying XD
505 same
You know what I just realized!
Matt said Jenna threw the dream house he built at him and it broke into pieces.
It’s actually so sad bc he rebuilt it after all those years. Matt wasn’t giving Jenna a dream house, he was giving her his heart ♥️
omg i just realised that! its really deep and impressive that you noticed that!
I got teary-eyed when I first saw this scene. This scene gets me everytime.
“I’ve always loved you..” 😭😢 I cry like a baby at that part. Can’t believe this movie came out 15 years ago today! I was thirteen and that’s when I fell in love with Mark Ruffalo ❤️♥️❤️♥️
This scene breaks my heart he still loves her so much after all this time😭❤️
This is one of my all time favourite movies. It’s not a silly little romantic movie. It’s so prevalent and true to people’s lives. Realising how far you’ve gone through life and filled with some regrets on missing out on relationships and friendships. I love Mark and Jen. So glad they reunited on the Adam Project as married characters. 💜💜
that moment when matt say "jenna, i've always loved you"
Thank god ariana put this movie reference in her new music video because this movie is iconic
Matt is just a really genuine & lovely guy :)
This part always get me.
When I see Mark Ruffalo, I think of this movie. Which is weird because he's been in serious roles like in The Avengers and Now You See Me
Or Zodiac, Spotlight, Foxcatcher, The kids are alright, Reservation Road, Blindness, What Doesn't Kill You, Shutter Island, Thanks for Sharing, Begin Again, Infinitely Polar Bear, Collateral, We Don't Live Here Anymore, My Life Without Me and You Can Count On Me.
Just Like Heaven with Reese Witherspoon is also good!
@@AgentAO7 I LOVE THAT MOVIE!!!!!!
Same,this film introduced me to him.
Who came here from the thank you next video just to reminisce 😭
How he confesses at the end that he always loved her, despite their abrupt friendship breakup, he couldn't stop loving all of her, constantly thinking about her every single day wondering what it could have been. That was so beautiful. As a guy I really liked the romance in this movie.
I like that he himself admits that despite that he does love her, he realizes that’s it’s too late. She had her chance and she blew it. He found someone who was able to love him the way he wanted to be loved and he moved and accepted it and was able to return the same feelings to Wendy. Despite how he still feels he knows that the current him loves Wendy more than the memories he has of Jenny
I watched this movie on an airplane when they still had several screens mounted up on the ceilings. The flight attendant saw how into the movie and didn’t turn it off like they usually do for landing. I was sobbing all the way to the gate and then the film was over.
Ugh. The way he says “I’ve always loved you.” gets me every single time! I just love Mark Ruffalo in this, he’s so damn fine.
i will never forget this movie. always makes me cry.
This made me cry so hard last night. I just loved this scene.
Matt’s last reaction tore my heart apart. 💚
Ugh. I love this movie.
MARK RUFFALO REALLY MADE THIS MOVIE! hes so adorable
“Jenna I’ve always loved you” my heart😭💔
Me: Mark Ruffalo just admit that your character isn't going to marry Wendy. It's written all over your face man.
we've gone down different path for so long ....so sad !!!
I love Mark Ruffalo, he is my favourite actor
He is so handsome!♥
I love this part.. when jenna recognition that she love to matt.. (her old best friend) and matt still love her
oh god, this part quipped me that right now i'm loving someone in my past exactly with my ex at high school.. i love this movie so much.. i watched it on my dvd everyday without getting bored..
Taking out the dreamhouse solidified that the love they had was so real.. what a great scene.
I've seen this movie like a million times and STILL cry every single time!
this scene always makes me cry
I cry every single time I watch this movie. It's my fav movie of all time, apart from it being released on my birthday in 2004.
I'm a dude and I love this seen.
Me too😊
actually the most important line is the one said by jenna´s mom which is " I made too many mistakes but I don´t regret them because If I didnt make them I wouldnt have learnt how to do things right"
I love this scene. He is so gentle and kind.
Am I the only one who is obsessed with this film recently 😂😂😂. Maybe its cause i'm pushing 30 this year.
Yeah now all I want is to grab wishing dust and find a guy like Matt Flamhaff.
I came here to cry. Dayummmmmmmm.......I had a good cry.
Man, this is such a good ending. You’re like, panicking that he didn’t stop her, and then the music starts and you KNOW it’s over and…. Then the dust and it’s all okay 🥲🥲🥲🥲
I cry EVERY time.
I have no clue how many times I've seen this movie, but the ending scenes will always make me cry!
OMG Jen is so beautiful and raw in this scene....how could Mat ever break her heart ? Mama Lama we love you - from all the Lama Lama loving families
the way he says "please dont cry jenny" oh god!!! :'(
I love this movie. Mark Ruffalo is so handsome. They had good chemistry. This scene mad me cry.
When he said you can’t just turn back time this is the truth I moved on you moved on we made different choices.. this is life choices changes your whole life.. Jena always wanted different life style different people and when she got everything she wanted she realized that this is not what make her happy
Boiii the way he looks at her. I need one of those in my life. The scene where Jenna goes can i tell you a secret May and he says sure and then she tells him your the sweetest person I’ve ever met-killed me.
Just wanna clarify that this is 2018 and these are manly tears that i'm having!!
This scene broke my heart🥺
I love this movie, so funny and touching, this scene at the end is truly heartbreaking as there's nothing worse than loving someone you can't have....