RELATIONSHIPS in the Philippines CAN IT WORK? FOREIGNERS & FILIPINOS

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  • čas přidán 22. 03. 2024
  • #philippines #travel #life
    Can Foreigners and Filipinos find Love in the Philippines? What is the trick to making a relationship work..? In this vlog I talk to several people about what it takes to make a relationship work and ask how their relationships have been going and for how long. Come along and listen in to their responses and hear a little bit from Anne and I about our relationship...
    #chubsdubc #friends
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  • @dmg8304
    @dmg8304 Před 4 měsíci +9

    chubb you have a great girl she is waiting for you to pop the question

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +6

      neither of us are very excited in the concept of marriage, we’ll see how things play out 👍

  • @robbydad4321
    @robbydad4321 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Smoking actually is the stupidest thing anyone can do for one’s health. Let us not forget though that the rotten tobacco industry at that time was covering up smoking’s ill effects.

  • @mikefoodee7846
    @mikefoodee7846 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Bill has such a friendly demeanour. We love you guys. Great video.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      yes he does 😁💪 great gentle giant

  • @JohnJuan2129
    @JohnJuan2129 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I'm glad to see you're back at and feeling better ! Till the next one cheers!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      yes me too 😁
      that was getting old not able to talk 😬

  • @adriansmith2091
    @adriansmith2091 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Bill is always a terrific guest. Thanks Chad

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      yes he is 👍 so glad to have met Bill and that he doesnt mind offering insight now and then 😁

  • @FOCUSonASIA13
    @FOCUSonASIA13 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Mr Bill laying down how it is, finding your own peace and tranquility

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      love Mr Bill and his insight 😁

  • @Kuya_Tom67
    @Kuya_Tom67 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love to hear Bill’s advice. Your insight has really helped me grow and be more aware of what I am looking for.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      great to hear 👍 i appreciate your comment and glad it offers some insight

  • @craigmalone6111
    @craigmalone6111 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Bill always has a big smile

  • @irabankston3390
    @irabankston3390 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Chubs you've done well in being patient, no hurry bro. So many expats just dive in, not understanding the contract😊Been married to same Filipina for 38 years. I enjoy the culture n the people. Love it here, thanks

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      thank you and yes no rush no pressure things will work out the way they are supposed to 👍 Anne and i are working towards some goals… all too often people jump without smelling the Roses 😃

    • @irabankston3390
      @irabankston3390 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Totally agree, they start getting laid n lose they mind😅😅😅

  • @curtiscagle6261
    @curtiscagle6261 Před 4 měsíci +1

    YES ! It's not in the bar.

  • @squatch1464
    @squatch1464 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I have been married to a Filipina for 33 years and have given her tens of thousands of dollars to her and her family over the years and it has been worth every penny. She has always been there for me and taken care of my every need. I now have some health issues and she continues to take care of me and the smallest of task. The funny thing is that they treat you so well, you will want to help them out. You can't go wrong with a good Filipina wife!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 3 měsíci

      so true 👍 Filipinos are the most caring without complaint people there are 🫶 thank you

  • @copaul71
    @copaul71 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Interesting switch up on this upload. Glad you are felling better. All the best to you and Anne.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      i try and bring some personal vlogs as well and will be doing more 👍 thank you

  • @Ronsilk-pu5hr
    @Ronsilk-pu5hr Před 4 měsíci +3

    OMG Chad I really hope you and Anne never break up because I know I will take it hard and most of your guys fans will too
    You 2 are a great team and I have loved Watchung your relationship grow.
    I see such a difference in Anne's confidence now compared to when you first met her.
    Anyways love ya both.
    Take care always and god bless you both

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      very nice words Ron thank you 🫶
      this is just the beginning and we appreciate you following along 😁
      Anne has impressed me as well, i knew right away she was different ❤️

  • @TheDercomiszar
    @TheDercomiszar Před 4 měsíci +1

    One of your best videos

  • @arnoldjohnson3317
    @arnoldjohnson3317 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You guys seems to be doing good they way you are doing it. So far, you’ve lucked out with Anne.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      yes i have 😁 thank you

  • @peppermo
    @peppermo Před 4 měsíci +2

    One of the best videos that you have produced! Honest words from Bill (I really like that guy). Anne’s face when she here’s Danny met his girlfriend when she was 14….! My grandma was married when she was 15 (Georgia).
    Excellent vlog and you didn’t have to use a white board, or threaten to move!!
    Thanks !!!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      thanks Mo 🫶 it’s fun and informative and yes the Danny and early age marriage was crazy 😮 Bill.. always a pleasure to hear what he has to say 😁

  • @Nana-qt1sz
    @Nana-qt1sz Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hey Chad. When you first introduced us to Anne a while back, l told you she was a “keeper”. I had no doubt then and after over a year, I am more confident now. Do you still have any doubts? If so, then let her GO. If not, then tie the KNOT. Remember “there is no rush” has a flip side, which is “ why wait” 😁😁😁

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      you make it sound like family is the only thing in this world to live and drive towards, it is a goal but not the only thing

  • @kevinagee5403
    @kevinagee5403 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Danny brings up a very good question. I understand the non-marriage. But as far as passing one never knows. So, to have something in writing just in case is not a bad Idea. Your soon to go home n sure will have some thought process time and seeing family n friends n what's changed in the US/MN. But I just say this as if you were to unexpectly pass. the above is something good to have in place for your significate other. Just thoughts...

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      yes its always good to prepare for anything 👍

  • @nikoa7936
    @nikoa7936 Před 4 měsíci +2

    love the video

  • @jamescrabill7345
    @jamescrabill7345 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chad communication is key for a lasting realtionship. When I quit smoking in 1997 I believe it was abouit 3.50 a pack.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      👍 yes it is James thank you 😁
      i quit when they hit $5

  • @CoachDarren
    @CoachDarren Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chubs i love the way you beat to your own drum. Ann seems like great girl but don't rush into marriage because like you say you don't know what the futures holds. The gut telling you to get married havr kids and leave Ann the money that was too funny...lol.. Loved the way you handled that. You and Ann keep enjoying each other you both seem like wonderful people. I am here in Angeles hope to meet you both soon to say hello.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      thank you so much 🫶 yes no rush everything’s new let it unfold as it will 😃
      Our paths shall cross someday soon Coach 👍

  • @minimalistation
    @minimalistation Před 4 měsíci +1

    More in depth interviews/chats with foreigners and their relationships with local women and vice versa would be good......................

  • @1292buzz
    @1292buzz Před 4 měsíci +1

    Bill was a beast as worlds strongest man

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      hells ya 💪 so fun to watch when young 😮😁

  • @allsmilz7234
    @allsmilz7234 Před 4 měsíci +2

    *Thx4share good fun ChubsDubC* 👍

  • @myretirementlife8731
    @myretirementlife8731 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I think most places in South East Asia the relationships between locals and foreigners work the same way, you have to be prepared to do some paying, but I wouldn't change my choice of an Asian wife.
    It must be nice that everywhere you go there everyone speaks English, that's a drawback here in Thailand, unless you are in the bigger cities, you need to learn at least a little bit of Thai or keep your translation app on the phone open.

    • @edwardgriffin6042
      @edwardgriffin6042 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Not everyone speaks English here, (including school children).

    • @hungarianaussie
      @hungarianaussie Před 4 měsíci +2

      I think if you live in a foreign country you have to learn to speak their language..At least you are making an effort to assimilate into the local culture..

    • @myretirementlife8731
      @myretirementlife8731 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@edwardgriffin6042 OK, I guess he just finds the English speakers on the videos.

    • @myretirementlife8731
      @myretirementlife8731 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@hungarianaussie I agree, I am learning slowly

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +3

      that was a big reason i didnt choose Thailand as a possible place to retire.. the language barrier 👍

  • @slevinmarkusreadings6162
    @slevinmarkusreadings6162 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks for sharing, I think I saw Ann on Friday at drake hotel front entrance?

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      yes you most likely did 👍 she is working there.. thank you

  • @johnallen4461
    @johnallen4461 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chad you found a good one with Anne. She is very caring and loving and take's good care of you. I hope you two make it last for as long as you can.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      thank you John 🫶
      we make a great couple, so rewarding for both of us 😁❤️

    • @darransumpton7385
      @darransumpton7385 Před 4 měsíci +1

      So how long You 2 been together ❤❤

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      @darransumpton7385 15 months now 👍😁

  • @fury5502
    @fury5502 Před 4 měsíci +1

    One of the big things you have to consider is the culture difference. The Filipino has one of the biggest hearts ever and I have never been looked after so well in all my life, however they are very jealous when it comes to relationships and very protective over these. You have to look at the big picture here and understand the background of some of the people to the reason why they are like this then you will understand. As a partner I do not think you will ever get better as long as they are in it for the right reasons, Bill was bang on the nail what he said, a very wise man, total respect.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      yes true to all 👍 and thank you for the comments 😁 biggest hearts is right, we can all appreciate that ❤️
      background is important to fully understand 👍

  • @davidchadwick6816
    @davidchadwick6816 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So my British wife comes home from shopping. You like my 5 k pesos dress you bought me. And you can take me to dinner also . Your loving sweet Filipina wants 5 k to send home now and again, we're so lucky to live here..

  • @timhnc75
    @timhnc75 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Secret to dealing with a Filipina when she gets upset feed her 😁

  • @ricksdestinationcebu
    @ricksdestinationcebu Před 4 měsíci +1

    We cant wait for our final move back to Cebu.Tampo happened here once and only once..I should sell the secret..😊

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      Cebu 👍
      yes you could make a fortune on the Tampo cure

  • @reidadams4277
    @reidadams4277 Před 4 měsíci +1

    In Iowa at my parents age and grandparents it wasn't uncommon for girls at the age of 14 or 15 to get married. And the average age gap was 10 years.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      i know it was a different era for our parents and especially grandparents 👍
      at 14 i was in 8th grade or so 😮 i still cant grasp the idea of marriage at that age.. thank you for the comment

  • @deantucker1464
    @deantucker1464 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Just fyi, Chad...Grace and I will probably have children. I'll be the one saying I'm 68 and my wife is pregnant. She'll live long past me so good to leave her with children to care for her. I swear...you are so blessed. You couldn't have ended up with a better woman than Anne. She needed a strong but gentle man to help her through the trauma she experienced. God bless you both...we'll see you two sometime in June or July.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      thank you 🫶 yes we are both blessed 🙏 things happen for a reason and these reasons are coming to light for all to see 😁 Anne has had tuff times so thank you again for understanding..
      we look forward to seeing you and Grace soon 😃

  • @dave-d-grunt
    @dave-d-grunt Před 4 měsíci +1

    48 years.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      wow amazing 👍👏 congrats

  • @bbaalliibbaaggoo
    @bbaalliibbaaggoo Před 4 měsíci +1

    i'm 73

  • @deadbugdoug
    @deadbugdoug Před 4 měsíci +1

    did you get your Ray-Bans in the states? 6-12" of snow forecast here in Chaska tomorrow.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      no i bought those blue Maui Jims at SM ($230)👍
      i heard the weather was crap again.. it is March madness time and i suppose high school sports 😬

  • @edwardgriffin6042
    @edwardgriffin6042 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have googled but no definite answer; what are the advantages/disadvantages of an old foreigner bringing his much younger American gf/wife here and if she is young, blond and pretty? Is she in danger if she is out alone?

  • @Mahdi_G-888
    @Mahdi_G-888 Před 4 měsíci +1

    If you take your time you can find a good filipina who will love and take good care of you as long as you treat her well and you're not a bar hopping womanizing POS.
    Shout out request for my good friend Dave in Denver.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      well said my friend 👍😁

  • @Rhandlezz
    @Rhandlezz Před 4 měsíci +1

    Yea..just 1 kid to lock that money in. 😅😂

  • @Brenttravels
    @Brenttravels Před 4 měsíci +1

    Getting into Angeles on Friday the 29th , being a very religious holiday are the bars still open?

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      yes bars should still be open 👍 Filipinos might not be able to drink but foreigners are ok

    • @Brenttravels
      @Brenttravels Před 4 měsíci

      @@chubsDubC Thanks for reply , hoping to run into you! 🍻🇨🇦

  • @craigmalone6111
    @craigmalone6111 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Smokes over 50 a pack in Australia

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci

      oh my 😮
      thats crazy and smart 👍

  • @LeeStenstrom-lc3my
    @LeeStenstrom-lc3my Před 4 měsíci +1

    What.... why did you cut Kieth out?!?! Feel like I missed the best part of the video. Has he found a special someone yet????

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +2

      no he hasnt found anyone just small talk 👍

    • @davidchadwick6816
      @davidchadwick6816 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Great guy Keith...he boxes clever haha. Love Dave and Abby..

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +1

      yes Keith is a great guy 😁

  • @shanegrant2359
    @shanegrant2359 Před 4 měsíci +3

    There is no benefit of getting married 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  Před 4 měsíci +3

      👍

    • @Nana-qt1sz
      @Nana-qt1sz Před 4 měsíci +1

      You are so, so wrong. Getting married means a pathway for citizenship for her children and with it, an abundance of opportunities for them to choose from. Not saying all Filipinos want to make it to America but I doubt you could find a handful that would turn it down

    • @jonreedau81
      @jonreedau81 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Nana-qt1sz Chad would have to adopt her children for a path to citizenship or they would all have to return to the US for 5 years plus and Anne would have to naturalize and her boys receive derivative citizenship through her- do you know of another way?

    • @Nana-qt1sz
      @Nana-qt1sz Před 4 měsíci +1

      @jonreedau81 Those were my two choices too, although it would be very challenging to adopt those kids since their dad is still around and could make it difficult. The easiest method is, as you mentioned, by way of Anne’s naturalization. The only caveat is that they need to spend at least 30 months out of a 5 year period physically in the US. Or three years if you are married to a US citizen.