Get Real When Pressure Becomes Too Real ft. Eric Nam I GET REAL Ep. #9
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 5. 06. 2024
- Pressure can come from all sides of life: work, family, friends, self, relationships, and like literal gravity. How do our hosts deal with these pressures and which ones get to them the most? Also, Eric Nam is here. Why? Don't ask why stop pressuring us!!!!!
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Iâm so early. Omg Hiii support for support guys?
What was the number again?
Yo I'm giving you guys a list. Please invite those people :p
Jessica jung or Krystal jung
Amber
Ailee
Jae park
JACKSON like you're gona get lots of tea with this one
HENRYYYYYYY
@@kristas3250 bang chan felix and I.M are too young to be on this group. Thise people have actually an experience of 10+ years in the industry.
Let's get Krystal Jung, Amber Liu Jackson Wang and Henry Lau here too plzzzz!!!!!
A few weeks back someone commented that this podcast is like Ashley having a sleepover with Big Matilda and Penelope. Today everyone welcome Erica đđđ
BIGF MATILDAERATR
Erika* ;)
@@JeffersonSheng each to their own but my boss spells it as Erica. She's not as cute or funny as Eric though đ
I love you for the comment. You made me laugh while am having a shitty week.
@@Petronole to be fair I just added a little bit onto someone else's comment from a few weeks back but I'm glad you got a laugh out of it when you're week has been crap. I don't know why your week is shit but I hope it improves and next week makes up for this week. Here in New Zealand when we want to support someone we say kia kaha which is MÄori for be strong. So kia kaha!
peniel is so chill i wish i was friends with him lol
Honestly SAMEEE
Me tooooo!!
this episode it is peniel strike me again...the CUBE bigboss choose/like him because of his different kind of mindset
Ifkr he's that kinda friend who backs you up
Sameeee
âair pressure water pressureâ
-Peniel Shin, 2020
I laugh so hard with that đ€Łđ€Ł
Ashley looks very sad talking about stress and listening to Bm talk about his panic attack. Take care of yourselves guys. Be happy everyone
I also noticed that :(
I want to give her and BM a hug :(
BM's outfit and hair just screams boyfriend material
Kamola Yes, he looks very handsome here huhu, I hope he will upload on his IG with this style huhuhu.
Calm yourself đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
He looks so fine
can u imagine đ©
dude, BM literally stands for Boyfriend Material so like đ
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Peniel teach us your ways. Heâs so chill and laidback and calm. I aspire to have that kind of mindset.
I think everyone would be chill after going through being a kpop idol
Trueeee i envy his personality đ© he's just sooo chill
If everyone was like peniel people wouldn't be so worriedđ we need that
I think because he feels secured with his family who seems to be supportive. It's kinda like a safety net that makes him more laid back. And well, he's really got a chill personality.
@@johnmayerbaby2268 That's true but I think most of us want to feel as chill as him
I like Peniel's mentality. I don't know his CEO but I already like him.
Lol you should not cube ent is shit
@@saratogol6744 former ceo was actually a decent guy
@@saratogol6744 and now Cube with new management getting better. Mostly Cube stan would be notice
@@funny5506 agree, getting better but slowly....i guess
@@saratogol6744 tell me how can i hate blue box when Eunkwang is appointed as director for artist protection committee in their company now. Plus the fact that they never give up on BTOB for the last couple of years they struggled.
so peniel got into btob because of his mindset đ€Ł
but fr tho i really admire his mindset.
Penielâs story of how he got into BtoB is hilarious đ.
âBut Iâm notâ (gonna die) đđđ
didnt expect ashley to talk about the accident but its amazing to see her recovery. it seems like her company and parents really helped her mental health not worsen.
Agree, like frfr she did GREAT and by that I mean how she responded to people saying to her all the time "you don't look happy, you look depressed, you look super sad, what's wrong!?!?". Like her explaining how she handled it was awesome because most people in that mindset would've been like "what do you mean what's wrong, like I lost 2 whole ass sisters AND went through physically pain like what!!!" So I truly commend her, for her courage and maturity about going about it!!!
sorry I donÂŽt know much about her what hapenned??
Looking at Ladies code wikia, it seems like 2 of their group members died in a car accident :( and it sounds some of the other members (if not all of them) were also in the car at the time
@@mochiobsession ashley was part of the girl group ladie's code. a super talented group but in 2014 they got into a car accident that resulted in the death of 2 of the members. it's one of the worst accidents that has ever happened in kpop
@@KnickKnackPatty yes they were all incredibly hurt and worst of all the whole funeral was super public. the members were walking on crutches and stuff as they laid their members to rest with cameras surrounding them.
bm: [does anything]
table: [aggressively shakes]
y'all should get Jae, Amber, Wendy, Felix, Chan, Rosé, Mark (x2), Jackson, Johnny, Ten and so many more on here it would be iconic
Sammy toooo
I'm waiting for the Rosé interview with Eric when her solo is out! (i wish)
@Holly Aston that would be firee
Maybe Johnny đ NCT127 aren't promoting rn đ€đ€đ€đ
Changkyun as welll
I really love Peniel's mindset in this, not gonna lie.
Like, when he was talking about how Cube leadership was like, "You gotta change your mindset, you gotta feel like you're gonna die if you don't debut"
and Peniel's like, "I mean, I don't feel like that"
tbh, after going to art school, I felt like "Oh, if I don't land my dream job right out of college, i'm going to die" so I worked really hard to the point of exhaustion for my degree...only to realize that it wasn't worth it. I kinda wish I would've enjoyed my college years a bit more instead of be constantly stressed with school/internship/work/projects constantly. I'm a little bit jealous ^^
If anyone's reading this, please have Peniel's mindset uwu
I was in the same boat with my science degree. I didnt enjoy it at all and nearly killed myself trying to complete it but I thought I'd die if I didn't get my degree. Its not worth it. I now have anxiety and panic disorder. Stay safe everyone
@@Moviemusiclover198 It's wild to me, because now I work at a job within my field and I realized, "I nearly was sent to the hospital....for this?"
and it's a really good job, not gonna lie. But my friends that enjoyed college were able to get the same job--without health complication. And then for me, I realized it's not where I want to be in life. It's also funny because people in my job, when we worked in the office (now remotely, because you know, pandemic) we all used to sit in a circle in a cubicle and just talk to each other of our design school trauma. LOL.
Don't listen to professors that tell you that they're looking for the best of the best. Becuase you're going to be trained in your job anyways, even after a degree!! Also, deadlines can be pushed back most of the time in the real world??
I hope you stay safe too!!
@@ImPanChan Absolutely. And university education is becoming more and more less relevant to the actual work you will end up doing later on.
That's what I did while I was on college, I saw a lot of people under stress about the homeworks, since I took history I said, no class gonna take my sleep hours if by midnight it's done, fine, and if isn't done, it's fine, tomorrow morning I'm gonna figure it out how to finished it, the last years were a little bit stressful, not because of the classes, was because of the people who I was taking it, but, I managed to have a good time without my classmates because y really don't get along with them, now I'm waiting for graduation, it was set to be o June, but it was delayed because of quarentine.
@@luisEnrriqueReyes congratulations on graduating !! I hope you'll get a chance to celebrate properly soon :) stay safe
I feel like this episode is the deepest they've ever spoken about certain topics and I appreciate them being able to open up like that because I can HIGHLY relate to some of it and it makes me feel a bit better knowing that even people I look up to are struggling like that :') also I want to hug them all lol
"The D wasn't for discipline, it was for disappointment." - Matthew, 2020
me: Jae needs to be a guest on Get Real.
Jae: InTEreStINg!
This is the ultimate group of people. I literally love all of these guys!
BM in every episode: daaaaaaaaaang, OOoooOOooOoOooohHhHHh, Hell nOOOo, whaaAAaAaT???
Also bm: True that, true that
Why am I hearing him? đ
@@krisdiaz7443 Same. I am hearing him too..........
or yeaaaaaaaap or yoooooooooooooooooooo
i hope BM knows how much his hard work, blood, sweat, and tears paid off. GUNSHOT is a masterpiece and one of my favorite songs, especially because of its message. KARD is just on a whole other level when it comes to production and performance and i hope people recognize and appreciate that more
I totally agree with u
Yesssss
I love all their songs
And kinda sad cuz his work kinda getting plagiarized
Did BM produce Gunshot?? Itâs my favorite KARD songgg
Peniel seems like he never has problems lol
Yes, but you know âčïž
Seems like it sure. But he lost his hair from stress being an idol.
Yes but he had a lot of pressure after this debut . He even have a hair problem and he keep it to himself since he was a btob rookie WATCH âHELLO COUNSELOR (PENIEL)â
He has but i think he looks at the brighter side or the other way round.. n i also feel he is not afraid of failure
sang k
true hahaha
most stressing him out is DATING hahaha and To date a celebrity like him haha! Cause people donât like their idol date with each other
I feel terrible knowing that Matthew had an anxiety attack over the new album. Thanks for all the effort you made!!!
Peniel is so calm that he doesn't even notice when he's stressed. By the way, I love to see it shaved makes it different from the others đ
Me too I love his head shaved than with hair
I want a âGet Realâ episode with the whole Hwaiting casts đ€§
A chaos đđđ
Me too đ
Aka a mess
"Success is the best form of revenge"
-Peniel Shin, 2020
penielâsâfricky frickyâ with the shoulder move lmfao
Yass finally someone talked about it đ
Eric : Can i use the hate word here?
BM : yeah you can!
_eric bm literally swears a LOT on the podcast_
Peniel's story from casted to be trainee in jyp until debut into btob, always interesting đ€Łđ€Ł
I really appreciate u guys talking about panic attacks, I think it's important to not shrug these things off and it's nice that BM and Eric were comfortable enough to talk about their experience
Peniel's confidence and attitude is so admirable, he's confident yet not cocky about life in general...
BM broke my heart. I canÂŽt even imagine how not only he but many idols have to go through a lot of pressure, and stress and just collapse. He is truly amazing, he gave us a masterpiece for this comeback, I just hope that some day he will produce all the music he likes based on his own taste. Love BM and I love this podcast a lot
I need to cultivate Peniel's mindset on mine. Precious Peniel and his infinite mind.
I started crying when Ashley mentioned her parents. Mine weren't the pressuring type either, but I pressure myself đ
Awww don't put too much pressure on yourself. My philosophy is "what is meant to be will be no matter what".
1:37 Ashley was actually curious as to why.
BM: The government is watching....
@Darc Widow Yes, the birds work for the bourgeoisie! There is no denying it!
I feel like more people need penielâs level of chill in their lives
The most experienced pressure for me is blood pressure
I got headache when there is no update of Get Real episodes đđđ
BM's hair color makes me question so many things about myself
He looks so pretty! â„ïž
I love Peniel's mentalityyyy.
10 minutes to the video: "Ashley's crush went to Jail" on my recommendations
Me: BRO WTF HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHA
I so relate to Peniel when he said that he doesn't know that he's stressed and that his body reacts first.
I underestimate what I'm going through and I end up being sick because of stress! While my friends see me as that chill girl that doesn't stress or care about anything. I'm so used to keep everything to myself
This is so me! Everyone thinks I'm so chill and don't care much about anything when in fact, I'm the one who cares and stresses about it the most. I just keep it to myself too.
Unrelated to this video but BM looks damn fine with blonde hair. Keep this hairstyle forever BM!!
Heâs already pink :3
@@SoPhieLeMo ikr lol
I really really like Ashely's hair.
I'm glad Eric was invited.
"success is the best sort of revenge" wise words penelope, wise words.
There's also that pressure, air pressure, water pressure lol peniel
Hahahaha the experience of Peniel between CUBE CEO and board of director interviews , his different mindset and chill thoughts become COE wow on it and thats why he become BTOB member đđđ
The saddest thing about the industry they're in is that anxiety attacks and pressure easily comes with the job, and there have only been so much celebrities coming out with the news and taking a hiatus, we have only seen what idols showcase on the screen that we as fans, are ignorant that these things happen behind the scenes. Thank you so much for talking about this topic and honestly, we need more discussion by both fans and idols themselves about this issue. ALSO GUYS KARD CAME OUT WITH GUNSHOT SO PLEASE SUPPORT OUR BIG SUNSHINE
Peniels mindset is so optimistic it's so infectious
Hope they will guest red velvet wendy and henry here. Wendy never been in a podcast (?) and reveluv will definitely love to see her comfortable talking in english. And henry u guys probably know how henry is so hype. So yeah
I also want them to invite Wendy!! This would be the perfect schedule for her since she's still taking it slow. I just hope that, if she does get invited, she can talk about whatever she wants and SM doesn't restrict her.
yeah true true (in BM tone)
Her company may not allow her
I really appreciate how detailed and vulnerable BM is (32 minutes in) about his anxiety/panic attack. Thank you for sharing that especially someone who deals with the same thing. We need more people like BM to open like this, this is normal it happens yall~ THANK YOU BM!
Podcast name: get real
Peniel: yOU cAn BuY ICe cREaM FOr 20 CeNTs
I REALLY WANT TO BE PENIEL'S FRIEND
I honestly think that speaking about health issues and anxiety an stuff on this platform is a really good thing...i mean not everyone can talk about their low days...it actually helps people to know that famous people or celebs have a really really tough life too (and not perfecr as they think) it also helps people to know that its pretty natural to have anxiety and how you can get over it and motivate yourself...so I thank you guys for sharing your stories and also making this podcast so fun
Most trainees: working super hard or else they die/no future
Peniel: idk man im not going to die if I don't debut LOL
BRUH!! In professional life i'm Peniel LOOOOL!! I just remembered that time i told the interviewer "i have a hella shitty attitude but i have the will to learn" and yes i got the job haha my boss told me it was bc i was not even trying to lie xp
I live for this podcast every week - wish they made them longer! Keep fighting đ„°
I will wait when Jae will be here! These group of people is really awesome! I love them!
I'm just here re-watching everything đ
My friends are having quarantine babies; I can't wait to hear them be called, "Coronials." hahaha But for real though, I can't imagine to have a baby right now. It's so crazy even tho I'm at an age that I should be having a family, it's like do I want kids or do I want a nice lifestyle that I have now? My parents are pushing about grandchildren and what not.
There's something about Eric's voice that really calming. I love this podcast so much
âAinât you like six foot five?!â - Eric Nam
I donât know why, but I die laughing at that everytime.
I just love Ashleyâs hair
Eric just hit Peniel with that 20 cents ice cream.. Haha
Yeah maybe in the 60s but then that would of been expensive for them.
When they were talking about panic attacks and insomnia I was legit concerned, but I'm glad they talked about it so now I know what is happening if my anxiety gets worse
Pressure is a result of expectations and ego, whether that is from yourself or from other people. The higher the expectation, the bigger the ego to achieve it. I dunno, just my opinion đ€·đœ
More like the bigger the ego, the higher the expectation
@@mapuia_ralte exactly! And the bigger the pressure.
I love listening to this podcast specifically because of them all being around my age and we all grew up in the states so a lot of the things they say are super relatable. One of my fav podcasts to dateđ
IKR, when they started to list clothes that were booming from middle and high school girllllllll~~~~~ đđđđđ
Can you guys talk about how you deal with medical things when you are on stage? For example, if you get your period or get a cold.
I was so curious about the period especially when I see female idols wearing white shorts dancing like I cannot relate, when I have period cramps I barely can walk straight
Already heard the podcast on Spotify but Iâll watch it again here
peniel had alopecia areata people usually get that due to stress or change of water, I had it too but fortunately for me, my hair grew back! as an idol i think it took a lot of courage for him to come out and talk about this .. I saw him talk about it in hello counselor! more power to u peniel... I love this podcast! lots of love from India
I can't when Eric said, "let's embrace this weird awkward Eric". BM, "you're mom said that?!?" Lmao
Dive Studios I just want to thank you for gettin these people talk about things on their own perspective, aside from its good for their Mental Health as idols but also good for the listeners mental health. This is fun and inspiring amidst this pandemic. God bless these people for sharing their inner thoughts about life đ
Love you guys, keep safe! đ
When Eric said he had gastritis, I never turned my head so fast.
I was diagnosed with it two years ago + GERD, more on the chronic side, to the point that Id be in pain for 12+ hours, unable to stand up because my esophagus was swelling my upper abdomen so bad that I just physically couldnt. That shit is SO horrible.
I honestly donât want BM to feel so pressured about Kards comeback song :( Let me tell you: ITâS FIREEđ„đ itâs so good!! Youâve killed it with this one!!! Be proud of it!!â€ïž
When Ashley start talk about her stress experience and accident I almost cried
My English is not that good, sorry
I honestly enjoy watching these podcast. When I work throughout the day and I get in certain mood, Iâll watch a podcast. Itâs so insightful and the topics are real. Theyâre topics that I truly enjoy and everyone is so honest and fun. When I see people being themselves, laughing and vibing, my mood gets 100 times better. You can tell when people do things because they enjoy verses just doing it because you have to. Anyways~ back to the topic. I think people feel pressure by their environment. People have developed a single view of what success is. To some people, success it: having a car, spouse, and house by 25. Not just that, parental expectations is a HUGE piece in pressure. They want you to do what they couldnât but sometimes that expectation gets to you and you never learn that itâs okay to fail. Itâs okay. One thing about life is that you can fail and try again. Lastly, pressure to appease the world. When you do something to please others, you lose your way. You lose your confidence and positivity and the pressure gets heavier and heavier. Everything you do, do it for YOU. Wanna lose weight? Do it for you! Want to become a photographer? Do it for you! If you want to rap or sing? Do it for yourself.
Great group haha Eric joined the gang. I feel like idols especially in Korea go through tremendous amount of stress bec the expectation. Nothing is right and netizen expects perfection but they forgot they are just like us following their dreams but a public figure that all. Thx for sharing Hwaitting!!! âââ. I been through what's Ashley been through. It crazy and though. Glad she is happier now and you all better now but we r here for u guys!!
Peniel's air pressure and water pressure LMAO
idky but BMâs laugh just hits different like heâs so adorableee
BM looks so good in that style. I can't take my eyes off on him.
This podcast totally lives for it's name get real. All of them are so genuine as if you're listening to your closest friends.
Peniel,BM and Ashely's tandem is my favourite.
I can see why Ashely's close to these amazing guys. She's honest, warm(as woosing said),genuine and respectful â€
I love how in some episodes the guys just casually help Ashley to adjust her mic itâs very gentleman of them !
I related to this episode a lot. Paniel's mindset was very comforting during such trying times. The whole comparing to your siblings thing has happened to me too. At first it was everyone else who was compared to me but when I realized that I didn't win what I most desired out of that I kinda stopped being so "perfect". And then I ended up being compared to my big sister a lot, even during the "perfect" faze. I tried so hard to be better and to be my own individual but no matter how hard I tried I felt like I would never get there so I just tried to do it the way I wanted to but it seems like my parents still had a problem with that. However it's all good now. For me at least.
This whole episode was needed and it was great. Very great so thank you guys!đ Catch me relisten to this from time to time.
Bro I literally forgot that they're friends and thought that it would be awkward because eric is older than them and then I suddenly remembered how stress eric was during hwaiting because of them HAHAHA
The way Eric's coffee and phone were on the edge of the table had me on edge throughout this video...like there was so much space on that table đ
I love how they are so open talking about stress, anxiety and mental health because it's not only celebrities who experience these but also normal people.
I'm a person who usually never thought much.. but as I was growing up I started caring about what others think. Listening to peniel on his radio and podcast or just anywhere he speaks in English.. man I'm inspired and motivated to not give a flying funk.. thank you peniel đđ btw I love btob
I love this podcast because they are so real, you can feel they're actually friends and care about each other a lot. I makes me feel like I'm there having a conversation with my friends too! Damn virus, I miss my friends :(
im 22 and tbh this podcast makes me feel like im chillin with friends talkin about adulting. thank u guys. also yall are so precious bc you have the courage to talk about your anxiety, thank you â„
Success is the best form of revenge
- Peniel 2020
I feel for Matthew when he talked about his anxiety attack!
Omg and Ashley seemed really sad when Eric shared his story too!
Idols life is so hard!good luck to them
Peniel: I noticed I was stressed because of my hair
also Peniel: I don't think I get stressed
sdjkfhdsjfhkdjhgdkf BOY đđđđđ
0:38 Bossman being a bossman and fixing Ashley's mic lol.
I love you y'all esp uri Peniel! He makes me think life isn't that hard if we set right mindset for every situation
Yo Peniel is such a laidback n chill guy. No cap I have so much respect for him.
I like how these podcasts are like just a group of friends hanging out cause it feels like you get a genuine and authentic conversation going thatâs not forced while everyoneâs sharing their insights and having fun
CEO,VP, Director: "if you don't debut, yo gon' die!â
Peniel: "..........., But I'm not"
Help me, i cant with peniel đ
This conversation, when it lead to anxiety attacks, I genuinely teared up thinking of my own. As well as my negative mental health... *exhales*
Exhausting.
You would never know eric is a guest in any of dive podcast unless stated or introduced. I mean he's so good he could blends in with the hosts
for some reason I just KNEW eric was going to introduce himself while whispering i-
I was waiting for this đđ»đđ» FINALLY
When they were talking about panic attacks I felt so just emotional because Iâve overcome a lot of those problems but I never just talked it out with myself and hearing them describe exactly how I felt just gave me such a cathartic feeling.