Lila and Nino in Ischia - My brilliant friend

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

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  • @miskay5526
    @miskay5526 Před 3 lety +183

    I understand the pain that Lenu felt during this scene. The anxiety is not something i'd wish on anyone

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety

      Yes Margherita was so sweet I can feel her sadness her pain and after when she will meet him again... We can see the love in her eye's

  • @Zzzsleepzzz
    @Zzzsleepzzz Před měsícem +29

    Watching this is oddly relatable and a painful cringe. I remember crushing on someone for years and my friend knew it. She was very pretty but he would call me once a week or so. I thought he liked me. Then one day I showed up to the hangout and they were a couple. I couldn’t help but stare and my heart felt so completely broken. I wanted to go home and cry but I was stuck watching. She ended up breaking up with him shortly after that and dating someone she was more attracted to. It still felt like she did it just to toy with me. I long forgot about it but watching this clip brought back such a buried memory

    • @ameliafasulo3067
      @ameliafasulo3067 Před 26 dny +2

      Be glad to the fact (first of all) that your crush had what he deserved and he was left alone… also, be glad to lose your “friend”. You deserve better. 😊

  • @sousamina
    @sousamina Před 4 lety +482

    who hates Nino?

  • @theressomethinonyawface4581
    @theressomethinonyawface4581 Před 4 lety +157

    It’s so terrible, the things that happen to Lenú on that trip..you have to watch the full thing

  • @Carol-dg7ww
    @Carol-dg7ww Před 3 lety +136

    i always feel bad for lila, especially the life she has to endure but with this situation i feel even worse for lenù. i haven’t seen the show but in the book she treated lenù in such a horrible way. even made fun of her and teased her for spending time with nino. and while it’s completely true that lenù always denied her feelings toward nino, i feel that if one is truly your best friend, you’ll know. and also nino is a bitch for cheating on nadia, while he hates his dad for cheating on his mom.

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety +10

      Nino is like his father... Elena denied but not on the boat and even Pinuccia knows that she was in love with Nino. Lila simply decides to ignore Lenu s feeling.

  • @Adamjfvwjdv
    @Adamjfvwjdv Před 3 lety +50

    The lesson learn out of this is that wen somebody acts like they dont care, there not only acting they realy dont care!

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před rokem

      But what about the last season he acts very well " Like he loves her" She obviously would fall for him

  • @giadamagni5823
    @giadamagni5823 Před 3 lety +83

    Those two Nino and Lila are not a beautiful couple at all, they made Elena suffer and Elena didn't deserve it
    Lila is selfish, she always enjoys being a princess
    Nino is an immature and double agent
    Instead Elena is good and nice
    But in the penultimate episode Antonio (Elena's ex boyfriend) did well to beat Nino because Nino deserved it.

    • @staralipour-kashi5312
      @staralipour-kashi5312 Před 3 lety +10

      Exactly! Lila always becomes a b*** when she gets too much attention or no attention at all. She’s a sucker for praises. She’s become full of herself since always everyone has said “you’re smart you’re beautiful” while Leno has zero self-confidence and thinks she is no good.
      Lilo knew about Lena’s feelings and didn’t give a damn. Every time she feels she’s losing the battle she fakes a few tears to convince Lena who’s too kindhearted for her own good.

    • @leodeca1591
      @leodeca1591 Před 3 lety +21

      ​@@staralipour-kashi5312I think you misunderstood her character, the truth behind it is that she wants freedom but she is always trapped. Everyone in the show says that she does always what she wants, but her life is basically doing exactly what she hates. She doesn't care about praises at all. She is the true representation of a victim of a patriarcal society ( Even tho the show is old, In south Italy it's still a big thing especially in the countryside).
      In reality, Lila is a victim of the terrible circumstances she had to live with.
      Nino is the true douchebag.

    • @staralipour-kashi5312
      @staralipour-kashi5312 Před 3 lety +7

      @@leodeca1591 I may understand her more than many other people on the internet. I grew up in a patriarchal country. you mustn't see the story as a modern person living in democracy and equality.
      Every woman in that series is a victim to their system, Lila is in no special situation more than others. And being victim to the system doesn't justify every action she took. She can't do whatever she wants and hurt whoever she please to satisfy herself just because she's a victim.
      Nino is an absolute douchebag no argue on that. And lilo claimed she knew about his nature pretending to warn Lena all the time and pretending he despite him even though she knew how much Lena loved Nino.
      Nino was an asshole in 99.99% of time but he was right one time. And that's when he told Lila she can't speak up her mind about things she doesn't know about in their last argument. No matter how smart she is, when she doesn't know what's happening in the world and doesn't read any news she can't expect to magically be right on everything. And when Nino told her, for once someone had questioned her wits instead of baselessly praise it and she couldn't stand it. She's used to being praised and be called smart and the best to be wanted by all.
      I felt sympathetic toward lilo in the first season and early in second season but not the rest.
      Lilo used Lena in every way she could from when they were children to later on. From when she took her to the sea when they were kids to when she forced her to help her with the fake break up letter.
      that time when she went to the dinner party at Lena's professor's house with Lena, lilo humiliated Lena in front of stephano just because she couldn't engage in the conversation. She humiliated her for talking about world peace with Nino and then later on tried to do the same because she was with Nino. And still Lena stayed loyal to her no matter how much she humiliated her or what she would do.
      Lila may be a victim of patriarchy like the rest, but she has done to many bi***ING to be excused.

    • @leodeca1591
      @leodeca1591 Před 3 lety +15

      @@staralipour-kashi5312The story it's not only about the patriarchal society, it's also about the Organized crime that oppress the southern Italy area. I agree that she is over the top at times, but the cool thing is the "rebel" view she has towards the patriarchal society and against the criminals. While all female characters accepts that that's the way the world goes (which is not true as Lenu finds out) Lila is ahead of its time and she sees that everything in that place is wrong. She is extremely jelous about Lenu as she managed to escape that countryside reality while her (even having more potential for success) didn't. One way or the other that jelousy still manages to push Lenu above her capabilities.
      She has all rights to bitching in these circumstances, her life is so sad and full of hate all around her.
      The time with Nino were probably the only time she felt freedom. You could argue that she used Lenu to get to him, but Lenu being at the time a very closed character always denied her love for him.
      She is a very controversial character, no doubt.
      I love this show. I grew up in the same areas and most of the things happening in the serie still happens today. It's so real. All of these characters are still part of the Neapolitan culture. Maybe I simpatize for Lila because I've met real life characters that resembles her.

    • @fleeorehat
      @fleeorehat Před 3 lety +4

      Elena is jealous. Whatever she did was to avoid being overshadowed by Lila.

  • @twiggy8264
    @twiggy8264 Před 4 lety +64

    Povera Lenù😢.... Ci sono passata anch'io e non c'è tortura peggiore che vedere il ragazzo di cui sei innamorata baciarsi con la tua migliore amica😢💔

    • @alffroysen9816
      @alffroysen9816 Před 4 lety +1

      Oof

    • @gabrielladilizio8818
      @gabrielladilizio8818 Před 3 lety +1

      Si e avra una figlia con Nino ma lui non sara mai fedele

    • @simonedargenio2007
      @simonedargenio2007 Před 3 lety

      Sono storie inventate. La realtà fa più male delle storie inventate.

    • @simonedargenio2007
      @simonedargenio2007 Před 3 lety +1

      Trattasi di una serie molto violenta.

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety

      Gia poverina ma I baci veri per fortuna la regia non li ha Messi... Intendo quelli caldi che fanno emozionare lo spettatore... Vedi terza serie... E non c e Lila li.

  • @AntonioCastagna
    @AntonioCastagna Před 3 lety +11

    Queste immagini sembrano appartenere ad un altro mondo...

  • @user-vb6zf4hf8s
    @user-vb6zf4hf8s Před 3 lety +8

    I felt that i have lived what neno lived its so deep pain when your friend know your feelings and don’t care about them it was so sad that who steal your dream is your friend

  • @graziagambarelli327
    @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety +3

    Lila and Nino are cold 🥶 couple have no really quemestry the big quemestry is between Nino and Lenu.. Watching third serie... Lenu and Nino really kissed...

  • @gee2541
    @gee2541 Před 4 lety +76

    She’s such a bad friend to Lenu. Who does that to a sacred friend who they care about? Smh.

    • @lauradonofrioart
      @lauradonofrioart Před 4 lety +20

      Elena said to Lila that she doesn't love him. Lila had asked her in advance before pursuing Nino, she did not know that Lenù had a huge crush on him.

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 Před 4 lety +58

      Laura D'Onofrio I definitely don’t believe that. Lenu made it obvious she found him interesting and any close friend would realize she was fascinated by him, and there were also several major hints that Lila purposefully went after Nino. She didn’t take up reading because she wanted to be more knowledgeable; she saw Lenu being a part of stimulating conversations and realized she was academically behind and couldn’t impress an educated man the same way Lenu did. The things she did and said during their affair also made it evident she wanted to hurt Lenu, (for what reason I’m not sure....jealousy perhaps?) such as sarcastically saying, “You’re my dearest friend and I hope one day you feel what I feel right now,” as well as going into detail about their plans to sleep together. It was so blatant to me that she knew (and I feel the show wanted to present it that way as well).

    • @lauradonofrioart
      @lauradonofrioart Před 4 lety +24

      I'm reading the book right now, and getting to this part, and ohhh my gosh, you are RIGHT!! I just hoped that this wasn't an intentional line crossing of EVERY FEMALE FRIENDSHIP!! If your friend likes another guy, he is officially OFF LIMITS!! 😭 Whatever Elena wants, Lila must have, whether it's taboo or not. Lenù needs to leave this friendship, I think she crossed the line on this one! 😭😭

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 Před 4 lety +16

      Laura D'Onofrio I agree I don’t think this is a healthy friendship for Lenu at all and she deserves a better, more compassionate friend. Lenu is always the one comforting her and it’s a very one-sided friendship imo. I haven’t read the books but that’s what I’m thinking while watching season two lol

    • @orlandorizzo5780
      @orlandorizzo5780 Před 3 lety +1

      @@gee2541 a close friend would of been honest.however, lenu was not like Lila . she never had her mindset ,this is why lenu was fascinated by her. This is why Lila asked her on the boat , she said no . so 2 me it was fair game.

  • @rrosegg
    @rrosegg Před 2 lety +4

    What's the first song? 🥺🥺🥺

  • @tazslamber2492
    @tazslamber2492 Před 3 lety +10

    🎵Vívere Áncora🎵
    Artista : Gino paoli

    • @AddelleAutre
      @AddelleAutre Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much 💫

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety

      Only the song is good the two actors are so 🥶 and we can t feel anything... So different him with Marghetita/Lenu...

  • @justagirl5426
    @justagirl5426 Před 4 lety +52

    this season made me hate lila and nino

    • @LouieV6
      @LouieV6 Před 4 lety +13

      Amna Ali The book makes you hate them even more

    • @justagirl5426
      @justagirl5426 Před 4 lety +1

      @@LouieV6 so sad 😢

    • @BlancaEstella4837
      @BlancaEstella4837 Před 3 lety +2

      The next one will make u hâte elena and nino, elena is awful

    • @justagirl5426
      @justagirl5426 Před 3 lety

      @@BlancaEstella4837 what, why?

    • @BlancaEstella4837
      @BlancaEstella4837 Před 3 lety +1

      @@justagirl5426 i can't spoil u dear, but i just hated her, didn't read the fourth book yet tho, perhaps i'll forgive her... But for now i just can't stand the way she treats her husband

  • @graziagambarelli327
    @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety +1

    Can you make other video with Lenu and Nino with last scenes of third part.?

  • @navyblue234
    @navyblue234 Před 3 lety +79

    Lenù always denied liking Nino when Lila brought it up so I don't think Lila did it intentionally to hurt Lenù. At least in the show they made it seem like Lila really fell for Nino and he had always liked her. It never seemed to me that she did it to make Lenù feel bad.

    • @miskay5526
      @miskay5526 Před 3 lety +64

      i think part of her did it intentionally. she always envied lenu cuz of all the opportunities that lenu got and lila couldnt have, even though lila had probably had more "potential". there was a very sinister side to Lila.

    • @jilloff268
      @jilloff268 Před 3 lety +75

      Oh LILA KNEW that Lenu loved Nino. Lenu denied it but Lila always teased her. Lila has a high emotional intelligence and knew better. But Lila’s motivations were two fold: I believe she really did fall for Nino, but a large part of why she did was because she enjoyed taking something from Lenu more.
      I know these motivations. I’ve seen these situations play out in real life. This is classic girlhood, cruel friendships rife with competition and internalized misogyny.

    • @blackrain1999
      @blackrain1999 Před 3 lety +18

      @@miskay5526 Yes, I do believe Lila also always cared about her friend, but Lila went through so much abuse in her life (even as a young kid in her home, anyone remembers how her father threw her through a window and she broke some bones, but just got up and continued to be stubborn?) ...But she NEVER submitted to or even tried to placate anyone, she always tried to stay true to herself but it still must have caused her enough internal struggles and pain that we never really see, as we don't ever see inside Lila, we only experience her througn Lenus narration. Both girls are so different in the ways they express themselves, and how they react to the world, yet they have so many similarities. Maybe Lilas friendship with Lenu also symbolizes her relationship with herself somehow? Lila ends up being self- destructive and sinister a lot of times, but I like her more that some others, more self- righteous characters.

    • @BlancaEstella4837
      @BlancaEstella4837 Před 2 lety +2

      @@blackrain1999 exactly

    • @BlancaEstella4837
      @BlancaEstella4837 Před 2 lety +7

      I think that at the begining she did it to Hurt Lenu, or to take something from her..., but then she really felt for him..., and it was not about lenu anymore, i think when she told her : "i wish u could expérience this feeling at least once in your life", she meant it

  • @tazslamber2492
    @tazslamber2492 Před 3 lety +22

    Creo que soy el único comentario en español
    Me encanta esta serie y todo lo que sea
    ITALIANO

    • @kitlove5374
      @kitlove5374 Před 3 lety

      A mi también me encanta esta serie

    • @AleLibRiv
      @AleLibRiv Před 3 lety

      Holas

    • @aliciasanjose5018
      @aliciasanjose5018 Před 3 lety

      A mi me me fascina y me gustaría saber como se llama la canción italiana q sale cuando están juntos Lila y Nino juntos...

    • @tazslamber2492
      @tazslamber2492 Před 3 lety +3

      @@aliciasanjose5018
      🎵Vívere Áncora🎵
      Artista : Gino paoli

    • @aliciasanjose5018
      @aliciasanjose5018 Před 3 lety

      @@tazslamber2492 Muchas gracias!

  • @vanessarocha3959
    @vanessarocha3959 Před 3 lety +7

    Cara ja odiei tanto o nino e a lila mas hj é a lenu que direciono minha raiva. O mana te valoriza

  • @user-sl8yn2xi1r
    @user-sl8yn2xi1r Před 3 lety +4

    Where can I watch full espisodes?

  • @lunamoona6706
    @lunamoona6706 Před rokem +9

    The whole friendship is rivalry between Lena and Lila. Lila had access to education what Lila envious of. While Lila as a person is extraordinary with outstanding vision what Lenu has been envious of. So was so smart even Nino was intellectually attracted to her. Remember how during vacation Lenu didn’t want to lend books to Lila, because she was simply afraid of her intelligence.
    Also in the water when Nino and Lila swam away leaving Lenu behind, it meant both Nino and Lila are equally intelligent while Lenu is just academically smart

    • @Signe0184
      @Signe0184 Před 3 měsíci +10

      This can't be further of the truth 😅 Nino is attracted to anything that makes him feel good. Lila considers Lenu as an extraordinary person and vice versa. Lila is more daring but Lenu is more adaptable. Lila is a powerful tornado, while Lenu is a silent river that in the end reaches the sea. Together they feel the gaps and disadvantages of their personalities, but Lila's jealousy and need to compete with everyone to prove herself, and Lenu's passiveness, insecurities, constant internalisation and lack of communication damages their relationships. The unfair world and people around them constantly challenge their friendship, but because of those same reasons and the trauma from being born and raised in poverty of Napoli prevents them from healing and understanding each other. Their personalities are very compatible for both production and destruction.

    • @lelec3818
      @lelec3818 Před 16 dny

      well its the entire point of the book lol

    • @bboynava1812
      @bboynava1812 Před 13 dny +2

      Nah, Nino is not as intelligent as Lila. Nino is a snob.

  • @karinpancras4
    @karinpancras4 Před 3 lety +5

    from who is the song?

    • @TulleSalso
      @TulleSalso  Před 3 lety +5

      Gino Paoli, "Vivere ancora", 1964

    • @karinpancras4
      @karinpancras4 Před 3 lety +4

      thank you, it's a beatifull song!

    • @s.dc.r.4614
      @s.dc.r.4614 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TulleSalso searching for hours this scene on CZcams only to learn which song is this an who is the singer. Thank you very much!
      Bella!!!!
      Horas buscando en CZcams solo para saber cuál es esta canción y quien la canta. Bellísima canción!!!
      Muchas gracias!

    • @TulleSalso
      @TulleSalso  Před 3 lety +1

      @@s.dc.r.4614 "Vivere ancora" (1964) of Gino Paoli

    • @s.dc.r.4614
      @s.dc.r.4614 Před 3 lety +2

      @@TulleSalso yes, thanks!!!
      I was wondering if he was same singer 'il cielo in una stanza', and he was. But I could not remember his name.
      Beautiful, beautiful song I have been listening to for a long while.
      Bravo Gino Paoli!!!! 👏👏👏👏

  • @maryamshahmohammadi9148
    @maryamshahmohammadi9148 Před 3 lety +21

    I always hated Lila

  • @marcelplekker2187
    @marcelplekker2187 Před 3 lety +1

    Geniaal

  • @AddelleAutre
    @AddelleAutre Před 3 lety +1

    What's the music please ? :(

  • @fatimaahmedsafi6381
    @fatimaahmedsafi6381 Před 4 lety +7

    Why didn't lenu tell steffano

    • @Adamjfvwjdv
      @Adamjfvwjdv Před 3 lety +1

      What differends does it make. It will her gives no happynes to do this. Maby only suffer to lila

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 Před 3 lety +12

      Lenu probably didn’t want to see her friend get beat to a pulp even if she was angry with her

    • @trillgates2452
      @trillgates2452 Před 3 lety +4

      "Never rat on your friends and always keep your mouth shut." -GoodFellas

  • @isabellamansfield9961
    @isabellamansfield9961 Před měsícem

    Pain.

  • @user-ee3fz9em5g
    @user-ee3fz9em5g Před rokem +1

    تنها کامت ایرانی

  • @cheddacheeze6908
    @cheddacheeze6908 Před 3 lety +2

    :/ when the cursor is on the screen all the time

  • @BlancaEstella4837
    @BlancaEstella4837 Před 2 lety +16

    Lila really did love Nino, yes at the begining, she was feeling misérable compared to lenu, and she felt like she had to do something about it, so she tried to seduce him , but then, she really felt for him, and it was not about Lenu anymore..., this is how i felt it

    • @graziagambarelli327
      @graziagambarelli327 Před 2 lety +1

      Only reading the book is possible to feel that Lila really loves Nino in the show I find Gaia so 🥶 with Serpico they don t have chemistry at all

  • @hilalteyfur
    @hilalteyfur Před 2 lety +8

    Ay Lilaya nefret kusan yorumları okumaktan yoruldum, mal değilseniz kitabın tümüyle Lenu'nun bakış açısını yansıttığını anlayabilirsiniz herhalde. Ve Lenu Lila'dan kat kat daha berbat bir karakter. Lila en azından her zaman dürüst. Ve eğer Lila Nino'ya sırf Lenuya avı çektirmek için yaklaşmış olsaydı defterlerinde bunu açıkça yazar ve Lenu da durmadan bundan söz ederdi, örneğin Lila içinden geldiği gibi davranıyor ama Lenu içine işlemiş bir eziklikle bunu kendine yoruyor her daim

  • @lory7754
    @lory7754 Před 3 lety

    Non per dire,..ma queste scene sul primo libro non ci sta..😬🙄🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @adymonsalvestuardo6278

    Cuando empiezan las nuevas seriales ,avisen por favor

    • @carmenruizalbanez5884
      @carmenruizalbanez5884 Před 3 lety

      Andy en pieza la amiga estupenda el día 22 de marzo a las ocho y cuarto en Paramol chanel

    • @mixmixmix8280
      @mixmixmix8280 Před 2 lety

      2,2022 in italia tv gratis rai 1

  • @nad5040
    @nad5040 Před 3 lety +3

    Nino, son of a bitch!

  • @iote2876
    @iote2876 Před 2 lety

    Mio fratello qualche anni fa a visto a lila in po più piccola teneva 12 o 13

  • @reneefouyon
    @reneefouyon Před 4 lety +1

    Traduction

  • @cinziacorti6862
    @cinziacorti6862 Před 3 lety +1

    ⭐⭐⭐❤️⭐⭐⭐

  • @marinarey4
    @marinarey4 Před 2 lety

    Romántica y traición

  • @mixmixmix8280
    @mixmixmix8280 Před 2 lety

    4 Monat haben alle schauspieler rin studiert um von gegenwart in die 1960 anzupassen .laufen, reden usw. ganz professionel wie sein soll in talien 3 staffel 2.2022 gratis rai 1

  • @akramwaldbenssa3da272
    @akramwaldbenssa3da272 Před 3 lety

    À

  • @eszemaszeszed
    @eszemaszeszed Před 19 dny

    aint nothing is brilliant about them lmao

  • @TM-tc9xw
    @TM-tc9xw Před 2 lety +1

    Detesto a Lila

  • @helenitahurtado
    @helenitahurtado Před 4 lety +5

    poor lenù is such a bad actress

    • @20110sasha
      @20110sasha Před 4 lety +20

      No she isn't

    • @jghamann
      @jghamann Před 4 lety +1

      @@20110sasha she´s not that great.

    • @20110sasha
      @20110sasha Před 4 lety +6

      @@jghamann I think her character is not that great

    • @Adamjfvwjdv
      @Adamjfvwjdv Před 3 lety +19

      I think she is verry good, she doesnt know how to handele this sitation and thats acactly what she let us see.

    • @mixmixmix8280
      @mixmixmix8280 Před 2 lety +3

      4 Monat haben alle schauspieler rin studiert um von gegenwart in die 1960 anzupassen .laufen, reden usw. ganz professionel wie sein soll