taking care of my home is vital for my peace of mind - gentle, simple home life
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2023
- why taking care of my space is so important to me - in this video I wanted to go over why putting love into my home space feels like taking care of myself. I find that my living space often reflects my emotions and state of mind. Seeing it as a haven is vital for my sense of peace, and helps motivate me to put time and energy into creating a home I love. It isn't about what is literally in the home that makes it special, more the memories and experiences imbued within.
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I missed you for a while! I was working on some bigger projects (and considering some slight career changes for the future) but am back with some springtime videos. While I was gone I did an interview with Refinery29: www.refinery29.com/en-us/youtube-creator-cottage-fairy-simple-living-mindfulness
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I will be making a couple book-themed videos this month as well. I am sending you much love ❤
Nice article! 😊
Thank 🌻ou, 🌄🐇Bianca💕
❤🐇🐇🐇🙏❤️
Wonderful article!! It, like all your videos, speaks to those of us who want a slower life appreciating the simple things that bring us joy. Thank you Paola and wishing you a wonderful weekend.
Paola, do you still have two rabbits? I thought you got two new ones. A black and a white one? Haven’t seen the black one in awhile. Can we have a full blown animal centered video? 😍🥰 thanks for sharing
Bianca in her lettuce bowl with a flower crown is a mental image I didn’t know I needed, but will keep me smiling for a while 😊 thank you for sharing!
The bunny sitting in the bowl with a crown of wildflowers is so enchanting. Lovely video. I think for us highly sensitive people creating a comforting home is essential.
Could be a book or magazine cover , such a beautiful scene!
Nothing like spending your time in your own world with the simple yet important things that make you happy and feel a sense of quietness, peace and harmony... Paola, you are creating a wonderful space for yourself and taking us viewers along for the ride! Thank you so much!
We have lived in our very small home for 20 years. When people visit, they tell me they feel like they're getting a hug. That's the good soul our home has become.
So nice to see someone else who stops to admire every single flower petal and leaf. 🌸 🍃 :-)
Yes, I have the same problem. I am beginning to think I should turn this obsession into something. I am glad Im not alone
I didn’t realize that the thing I needed to make this day feel magical was a bunny in a bowl. I can’t quit smiling!
We’ve decided to embrace the dog and cat hair in our home and refer to it as “decorations”.
I love what you said! I used to not like these pets because of the "mess" or "hair" but I like how you call them extra "decorations" :-)
I feel you. I also call my pets' hair on my clothes a piece of home when I go out.
God Bless you always ❤
That red dress is amazing!
Love your videos. So soothing to my life. Thank you
Yes, that red shade is so deep, looks unreal when she walks among all that green and flowers...
I love Bianca, the little scene stealer! She had me laughing. What a lovely creature she is. I do love hearing about all the things you do with plants. I am so happy to learn that lilacs are edible.
Paola, you are so lovely in your red dress, like a princess! The backdrop of your charming home inspires me to create something similar. Your precious animals enhance your presentation. Watching this video is the highlight of my week; I'm going to watch it again!
I received your post card today, which is absolutely lovely! I enjoyed this video so much. Your red dress is so pretty. And I laughed out loud at Miss Bianca in her flower crown and how she sat posing for the camera. So sweet, so fun!
Dear Paola,
These videos remind me of a forgotten self. The past few years and still, now have been hard years for the world and myself as well. I agree with many of the soothing things you surround yourself with: candles, books, flowers, tea, animals, and nature. My home was filled with these. If a friend visited they received treats. Fresh flowers always on the table. Friends still light candles, offer tea if I visit them. But recent years were hard. Caring for parents, then grieving followed. I forgot so much about myself that I wondered why a friend was going out of her way to light candles or serve tea. I hope that your videos reawaken my soul. They give me calm. Remind me.
Also, I don't see why these pasttimes or likes are somehow seen as unusual. There are so many shops that sell tea, candles and they're beautiful! So many people appreciate the kind of surrounding you create. Maybe it is that they don't create it themselves, but they do like it. Friends who used to visit loved my home's surroundings full of different kinds of cups and plates for each kind of tea or meal. But they say they can't recreate it though they want to.
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Miss Bianca is DARLING!!!!! When she frightened herself by stepping on the bowl, it was so cute! I had to rewatch that part! Thank you for sharing❤❤❤
Your videos have become soothing to me! My daughter-in-law is getting ready to face major surgery! She is terrified! I made her a special journal from the Fairy Whispers scrapbook paper and I added one of your fairy cards! I hoped to lift her spirits! Your artwork is so beautiful! ❤
Wishing her peace and good wishes for a speedy recovery
What a nice mother in law ! 🌻
So thoughtful of you
Wishing her best wishes mam. Love from India ❤️ 🙏!
I see that cats are not the only creatures who practice the concept "if I fits, I sits!" The bunny in a bowl is my happy dose of cuteness for the day!
omg I CANNOT get over how adorable Miss Bianca is with her little flower crown in her little bowl 💗💗💗✨✨✨😍😍😍🥹🥹🥹
Here for my mental peace and calm my heart ♥
Gracias Paolita!
I just had an idea for a print for your shop. How about one entitled “The Cottage Fairy” featuring a young woman in a red dress among evergreens and wildflowers? And maybe a bunny or two! 😉🌸
Thank you for sharing Bianca with us. She is so precious 🤍
I like how the bunny is sitting perfectly still. ❤😊
I always feel so much better when the spaces in my home are taken care of as well. Even when the act of cleaning isn't as enjoyable as I would like, music and the knowledge that I'll get to enjoy a clean and fresh space helps me get through. I also love decorating, but 100% agree that it should be practical for your life and it should also be with elements that bring you joy. When I first moved into my home, I thought I should make it look like something out of a Pottery Barn or Crate and Barrel magazine. But as I've become what I jokely call an adultier adult, I've realized that incorporating elements that bring you joy is the best way to decorate a space. My kitchen and dining room are filled with local art prints that are whimsical and silly, but very fun. I also have an art piece that a friend got me of fairies riding chinchillas. Silly, but makes me smile every time I walk by. That is what making a home is about. Smiles. Building a space to make happy memories. Building something that makes you breath easier and love the moments you have with your loved ones in your home. Thank you for the lovely video!
As many of us are constantly stressed out,simply watching your gentle,thoughtful videos are a very welcome break from all of that. So thank you so much!
Woke up today feeling grouchy since I had a messy kitchen to tackle....then I put on this video and my whole perspective changed!!!
My kids and I will all have a better, more relaxing and enjoyable weekend thanks to you. ❤❤❤
Seeing Bianca being so adorable throughout this video really made my day ☺She is so beautiful 🐇🤍
Dear
Paola TheCottageFairy
This is Very Essential n Important to Keep Your Inner and Outer Wellbeing Absolutely Balanced,
You Are Doing Genuinely Soulful Work in Your Life,
You are Making a Difference in People's Life Through Your Amazing Work,
Keep Continue Your Valuable n Mesmerizing Work n Keep Adding Value to The Life
TakeCare and
ThankYou
Miss Bianca patiently and gracefully sitting there in her flower crown was the enormous dose of joy I needed this week! To borrow a word from Pooh, I'm already looking forward to the next "expo-tish-un." 🐰💮🍯
Your content soothes my soul. Thank you very much for posting such serene videos.
Yesterday while walking with my dog around a local lake, I stopped to smell the intoxicating scent of the beautiful roses along the path. I overheard a person behind me say, “ There’s someone who actually stopped to smell the roses.” I thought…doesn’t everyone? The scent was so strong that the flowers almost command you to stop and take a deep inhale! It’s refreshing to watch you enjoy this simple pleasure on a regular basis. I have mint growing and love simmering some on the stove. It makes the house smell so fresh especially since we’ve had several rainy days. Love your channel!🍄🐇
I love how all your critters are a part of your projects and allowed to explore.
Bianca just chilling in her bowl, lol. Cutest thing ever!
One of my all time favorite video's. I could sit and watch Bianca on the table eating and sitting in the bowl for an hour ! She is just so adorable.. she seemed to like her little flower crown too.
Biana sitting cozily in her bowl wearing her flower crown was darling💛💜 I hope we get to see her featured in more videos. She's a natural in front of the camera😊
Your videos are outstanding! I hope you never stop making them because they’re so calming and interesting. ❤️
Yes her videos are amazing and they’ve changed my life (and many others no doubt ☺️) in such major and positive ways ❤️! Personally I think if she wants to not make videos anymore then that’s totally fine and she shouldn’t feel pressured to make more videos if she doesn’t want to (because then it wouldn’t be what she authentically wants to do) and plus we have way more than enough here already ;)
@@senbebe3320 Her video’s didn’t change my life. I just like watching them.
Of course she’s in total control of whether she wants to make videos or not. That’s her space and nobody else’s. 🙂
Your videos always give me a wonderful sense of peace. Thank you! It's interesting that you mention cleaning the kitchen. When my wife and I got married, she told me that she loved to cook but didn't like cleaning up. I actually enjoy doing the dishes and cleaning up the kitchen so we made a deal. (The rest of the house, not so much.) She makes great food and I get to clean up! The more dirty dishes, the better the food. That's worked out well for the last 42 years. I've even been known to do the dishes at friend's houses too. Silly me!
John, you're a dear soul! And clever too - you and your wife make a good team. Love from Mossel Bay in South Africa 🇿🇦
I'm similar to your wife -- the cooking is a joy, but the cleanup can be a heck of a chore. Partly because of certain people in my past who made a huge deal about being tidy, in a very judgmental way. So I kinda ended up being messy out of passive-aggressive rebellion. Not the best way to react, but I despise preachy tyranny. I will be tidy if I choose to be, and not because someone's preaching at me and being self-righteous. It took meeting my boss -- a guy who likes things tidy, but he's so not preachy about it -- for me to realize that maybe my own psyche might enjoy being a good deal tidier...I wasn't wrong. 😅
Bianca is the cutest little bunny I’ve ever seen. How adorable she is sitting in her bowl of lettuce with her crown of flowers. That was a picture perfect moment. 💝🤗😍
Paola, I purchased the beautiful watercolor owl from Etsy. My granddaughter was celebrating her 7th birthday. Her first grade class was dubbed ‘The Owls’. She has completed her first year of school and for her birthday present I had your lovely Owl image framed for her room. Thank you for selflessly sharing a part of your life with us. It brings great peace to a chaotic world. Love, Karen
초록색 자연과 잘 어울리는 빨강색 원피스와 눌러 쓴 모자와 아름다운 배경음악으로 인해 바쁜 아침이지만 잠시 모든 것을 잠시 내려 놓고 덕분에 쉼과 힐링의 시간을 갖게 됩니다. 감사합니다. 😊❤
따오신 은방울 꽃과 함께 님의 옆에서 애교를 부리는 토끼도 너무 귀엽고 예쁘고 사랑스럽습니다. 늘 자연과 함께 하는 생활이 너무 부럽습니다.
YAAAAAY, WHAT A TREAT ❤😊❤...Excited to watch! Have a BLESSED weekend, BEAUTIFUL souls 🙌💞🙌❣❣
Oh!! I thought of you 2 days ago! I saw a Momma deer and her 2 Bambi fawns. I slowed my driving and stopped to take pictures. One of the baby deer discovered a squirrel!! He followed that squirrel friend around the oak tree and onto a stump. It was JUST LIKE one of your paintings. I was in awe ❤
There is really nothing like your own hollow log ….our home is a sanctuary and a refuge from the world. Your house always looks so cozy and peaceful. Have a beautiful weekend. Much love from Australia xx ❤
My heart got so warm because of bianca and i was thinking, that she must have a really nice life and treatment living with you. She looks so happy and healthy and also free, soft and curious. 💗
Your bunny stole the show!! She is so cute!! Your house really looks so calm and serene. I love it! Now, I need to get me a bunny😃
Thank you for the reminder to change negative self-talk in our home. I have been guilty of that for some time, and now it is time to change. Blessings beautiful Paola. 🙏😍🌈
I find that playing your favorite music while cleaning not only makes the time go quicker, but makes it more enjoyable. I love your adorable animals. Your rabbit will now be referred to as “Bianca Bowl” in my head. ❤❤❤
Sorry so many comments 😊 But your Bunny Bianca is pure magical cuteness. Our 10 year old chicken is named Bianca. I had a couple bunbuns growing up. I Adore them. Love to you and hugs from Napa ❤
Yes, I agree. Home is where the heart is no matter the agenda. 😊
Hello, sweet Paola! You bless me with peace and wholesomeness, a great way to start my Saturday - yes it's 5am here in South Africa! With much love and kindness.
I made the lilac rice pudding from your book last week! I used half the lilac to ease myself into the flavor, and it was delicious. You’ve inspired me to experiment with other seasonal and wild plants. I hope you enjoy what is left of spring!
Oooh!!!!❤❤❤ I’m so glad you liked it!! It’s a unique flavor, I was curious if others would find it tasty. Thank you for sharing!
I didn’t know you could eat lilacs?!?
@@cherylcosgrove511 Me neither, till today. It sent me on a book-search adventure, starting with Amazon and my local library. Naturally, Amazon turned up more results. People where I live are kinda not into plants and herbs the way our lovely Paola is. They're more obsessed with lawns that look like golf courses. 🙄😅 So our library kinda reflects that dullness. 😜
Your bunny, Bianca, made me smile! What a cutie! My beagle, Maisey, caught sight of her and ran to the TV and stood on her hind legs wanting to play with her. She ran all over the room trying to find her. So cute! Thank you for your comment about the animal hair. Sometimes I get frustrated that there seems to be hair everywhere as I'm quite OCD about my house. BUT, I do have the love of an amazing pup, so that is definitely worth it. Thanks for the reminder! Beautiful video as always. ❤
It is so sweet how your animals incorporate so seamlessly into your activities. Watching the bunny munching on dandelion heads was just adorable ❤
When anyone steps into my home, it's immediately obvious what brings me peace of mind: books.
My home is filled almost to overflowing with books; on bookshelves (of course); dining room table (sharing that space with many varieties of tea); on my couch; on my bedrooms' dressers; on my artist's drawing table; in stacked milk crates; and stacked on every bit of usable floor space.
And being a book lover, I'm always adding to my collection, as if I didn't have enough already (in fact, I'm expecting more in the mail next week). I'm of the mind that one can never have enough books.
Like a sachet of dried herbs, I love the smell of old books. That's why I enjoy visiting used book stores. Not just for a chance to pick up some more books, but also for the scent that fills those places.
As to why I love books so much, it's perfectly summed up in a poem by Julia Donaldson...
I opened a book and in I strode.
Now nobody can find me.
I've left my chair, my house, my road,
My town and the world behind me.
I'm wearing the cloak, I've slipped on the ring,
I've swallowed the magic potion.
I've fought with a dragon, dined with a king,
And dived in a bottomless ocean.
I opened a book and made some friends.
I shared their tears and laughter
And followed their road with its bumps and bends
To the happily ever after.
I finished my book and out I came.
The cloak can no longer hide me.
My chair and my house are just the same,
But I have a book inside me.
I don't remember if I sent you this poem before. If I did, perhaps others who follow you on CZcams haven't read it before, so they might like it.
If I hadn't sent it before, then here it is for you to enjoy.
I don't know why, but watching your videos puts me in mind of poems; your soft, gentle voice, the words you use that are obviously chosen with care, your cottage and garden and forest, your slow movements as you go about your business...
Be well, gentle lady.
Enjoy your tea
❤
Your bunny eating dandelions 😭💛💛She’s lovely.
Warning! Cuteness overload with your bunny 🐇 ❤❤❤❤. I love your videos. They just make me feel so peaceful and hopeful.
Bianca in a bowl. What a sweet little bunny. Thank you for reminding us to slow down and find joy in what we have around us and to live in the moment.
You must paint Bianca with her little flower crown. So cute! ❤️
So it's not just cats that sits where they fits lol. What a sweet bunny. Thanks for the reminder to invest a positive attitude into my surroundings.
The way you present nature in your content it's amazing to see
I can feel the love coming from the shots. It made me drop a few tears. Thank you for making such calming and peaceful pieces. As an HSP after feeling overwhelmed by the world I retreat and watch some of your videos. Thank you ❤
Bianca was having a lovely time seeing what you gathered, I didn’t realize the bowl of greens was for her! It is clearly the perfect size for a small bunny. And lavender sprigs suit her very well. Thank you for a walk around the forest-watching you wander through the woods brings up the smells of moist soil, grass and leaves after a shower, and those flowers must be lovely as well. I live in a small apartment in Manhattan, which could not be more different than your house in the woods. I am so glad that you have decided to share your thoughts with us, and I imagine walking through the forest with you, hearing your gentle voice, perusing your bookshelves, and holding Miss Bianca! Much love, Janet🦋
bunnies and flowers = heaven. thank you for sharing such a special moment with miss Bianca with us!
Oh my goodness... this rabbit is the cutest eater!
Oh my it's too relatable haha. Starting multiple projects all at once at the point I forget about my surroundings and even my own body. To me, being passionate in whatever I'm doing is important, but being mindful is also important to give me a reality check. I, too, started to take care of myself more. Do workout, stay hydrated, clean my room, take some break, and mind my sleep hours. Not always successful, but I'm still trying. :D
This was utterly enchanting, reminds me of composer Robert Schumann’s beautiful “Scenes from my Childhood” piano compositions. And your music, from the wooded scenes and their flowers, to your red dress and Miss Bianca and your teacups - oh my, this was such a beautiful way to start my Saturday. Thank you Paola! 🌻🌷🩷🌸🌠
That bunny sitting in that bowl as if that was just her permanent pedestal was the cutest thing I've seen in a while!
Watching your bunny eat the dandelions put the biggest goofy smile on my face! Lovely as always 🌼
Miss Bianca is so sweet and looked so cute with her little flower crown and the lilac honey looks delicious. I watched your interview with the refinery and thought it was great.
I started following your videos a couple of weeks ago. It's been hard learning to live on my own after 17 years raising a family. I miss my children so much. Sometimes I feel I am going crazy. Your clips soothe me and give me hope to find solace in living alone. Thank you for posting them. You are such a beautiful soul. Blessings to you and your loved ones. 🙏🏼🐇❤
Oh boy the rabbit with the flowers!! Too cute!!
Bianca is such a little queen, I love her ❤
Coming across this video tonight gave me such joy. Your soothing voice, hearing your thoughts and watching you with your herbs, was just what my soul needed. I just wanted to kiss the cheeks of your sweet pets. They so love you and it is wonderful to have them share in the video. I agree 100% with what you wrote above. I too have clearly seen how my living space reflects my emotions and state of mind also. Love how real you are. Thank you for the time you take in making your videos! I appreciate you!
Oh, we would love a fairy story with Blanca as the main character ❤❤❤
You look so happy and content. What a beautiful window you open when you make your videos... Life is such a unique journey, but sharing is so important for growth and support. Thank you, as always you make my day better! My mom comments how much she enjoys your videos as well. You are valued and appreciated!
Paola, your videos really have helped heal me. I can’t thank you enough for sharing your gentle, kind, artistic, and authentic self with us; you inspire me to stay true to myself too! Much love!
PS: your bunny is super adorable
when I fill stressed I use to watch you I also want to live a peace full life ❤️
Thank you for this lovely video, such a breath of fresh air! Your beautiful animals, your black dog, your cat, and your bunnies are so wonderful. You are a beautiful soul, both inside and out. Love and Blessings to you, and your loved ones, both human and animal! From Jilly & Madge the black rescue greyhound, who live in West Devon, England. xxx
Peace love good vibes being sent to you and your home and family.
Absolutely lovely!! Soothing and comforting to watch. Thank you!!
Bianca is a lovely addition to your home and quite the fine actress to add whimsy to this delightful video. Lilac infused honey, what a good idea. I planted some Pineapple Sage this spring in a flower box and now need to find a larger space! It’s yummy in citrus flavored teas! As always thank you for the woodland visuals and the message of reflection while creating in home spaces. ❤
You live beautifully! And you're looking especially like a cottage fairy in this video with adorable Miss Bianca nearby :)
Bunny in a bowl with flower tiara… too cute.
your rabbit is so sweet i love all your flowers 🌸
Bunny sitting in the bowl 😂
Bianca looks confused at what her role is. So adorable.
I'm so impressed that you get Bianca to sit so still! 😍 My four bunnies are always on the move when I try to photograph or film them. 😅
I love how you have an intimate relationship with nature. God's beautiful creation is intended for our delight. Your ease in nature is refreshing.
I loved Bianca with her flower crown. Adorable!
Those morels are such an amazing natural gift!
Watching that adorable bunny chewing put a smile on my heart for the day.❤
I love your little bunny. Your voice makes me feel calm. Loving your videos ❤
"Bianca in the Bowl with Flowers" - should be a song! I laughed out loud - adorable!
Always calm and peaceful here. I still love your red dress and that hat goes well with it. Such a beautiful woman you are and your heart makes you that. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤
Miss Bianca is so sweet, sat in her bowl with a flower crown ❤
Paola you give me peace! Thank you!!
Your videos have inspired me to slow down more and to be careful and thoughtful with my words. Forgive me if someone already said this but a watercolor picture of your little bunny with her wildflower crown would be such a charming painting. Thank you for all of your videos.
Oh my goodness - the bunny 🐰🥰
I absolutely LOVE Bianca, she’s just beautiful ❤️
Love your dress, love your things, your simple spiritual lfe, your candles and many, many things that share with you. Thank you for made a gentle better world!!
Oh my gosh! Ms. Bianca sitting in a bowl with a flower crown on- I exploded from cuteness overload!! :) SO CUTE!
Awww Bianca made me laugh when she was wearing her flower crown...so cute!
That red dress is absolutely stunning on you! I loved your interview! I love your quiet life and am glad you are able to find what works best for you versus what the world thinks you should be. LOL! Miss Bianca loved your pickings! Love the simple life you live and I love my very simple life too!
Bianca is so adorable. Hope Aegir is doing well. I was so excited to get your notification and watch. Have a good weekend.
A visual feast for the eyes. Exquisite video! Love seeing your bunny and cat too.