Exactly why it’s better that Nick is estranged from her and that his kids won’t have a relationship with her. She doesn’t deserve to be close to her grandchildren with everything she put Nick through.
@@shannonmahaley5140 From what I read, she's ill or I'm sure she'd be trying to cash in on this. That's if she had the nerve to face the backlash. She's a monster who ruined 5 lives to one degree or another.
Well its also came out fairly recently that she's a high functioning alcoholic and has been for years. That could have something to do wirh it. She didn't even call him Aaron when they were on the Drs. Together fairly recently.
Neither you nor I, nor anyone but the actual family involved can define what makes a family. We can only speculate using what appears to be close to the truth as follows: 1. The Carter family has been featured in the media practically over the last two decades. 2. Various members of the Carter family appear to have struggled with substance abuse and miscommunication. 3. At best we possess a limited insight into the inner workings of this family and their troubles. Anything else is guesswork.
Their mom was a huge reason why Nick & Aaron had problems. Their parents & adults in the industry took advantage of their fortune & fame. ** Why would she not say,"My child" instead of calling them "this & that?" I believe that she was the one who caused Aaron & Nick to fight. I think that her lust for money made her turn against her sons & break up her family. ** She became greedy & stole his money. I think that their dad took money,too. It's sad that she didn't show them the love & support that they needed. ** I feel like their mom has mental health issues & addiction,too. No wonder why Nick & Aaron turned to drugs & drinking. They didn't have a stable home life.
Ocean Avenue I'm not defending Jane here at all, but that clip was likely edited and it seemed like they cut out a portion of her full statement. My guess is the interviewer had asked a leading question that was worded in a way to receive a specific response. She may have even been paraphrasing the interviewer's words. These shows are extremely manipulative in their editing, and should not be taken too seriously. And remember that we don't get to hear or see the whole exchange so we don't know what the interviewer is really asking or what the tone of their conversation really is.
She said on 20/20 I sacrificed my entire life for that child Nick included I'm guessing she means Aaron and Nick well that's what you're supposed to do you have five children it comes with the territory of parenting. I have a feeling when she says things like that and when she said things like that in the interview oh I sacrifice for those kids or that child you know she wasn't trying to convince us she was trying to convince herself.
Exactly! I think its the same situation with britney spears britney's little sister got famous because of britney not that jamie lynn spears isint talented but, because britney is her sister it got jamie lynn famouse quick! Js
No way, I was obsessed with Aaron Carter like many girls my age and I didn’t care anything about Nick or Backstreet Boys. Aaron was talented in his own right at least my 9 year old self and my peers thought so
Shes also an insanely high functioning alcoholic. Entitlement tends to come with addiction disorders. Not defending her at all. I think she's a horrible mom.
Nick has said in an interview with Larry King that their mother squandered SO much of their money that by the time he was 18, he told her that she could no longer manage him or any of BSB. I genuinely think their mother is a narcissist. She has caused so many problems in their family and she wants to blame her kids for everything. Why would you blame Aaron for Leslie’s death? She’s a horrible mother.
Yep... And they're talking about when he showed off his house and expensive lifestyle on MTV Cribs, but little did they know, that he did an interview breaking down and talking about how he had to show off everything he was about to lose because his mom and dad were going through a divorce... The saddest part is now almost the whole family has passed away. Leslie, Bob (their dad), Aaron, BJ, and I heard Aaron's half sister (the one Bob and Ginger had, passed away. It's almost like their family is cursed. It's so heartbreaking
Jasmine Forde yea poor guy. His wife Lauren ended being one of the best things to happen to him. Look at nick now. So happy and healthy. I didn’t really like Lauren at first but she’s perfect with Nick and they make a lovely couple
@@devilundercover Same. I wasn't a fan of her at first, either, but I was wrong. They really balance eachother out, & she's definitely been a good support system. I'm glad they're removing all of the toxicity from their lives.
She speaks of Nick and Aaron by saying "I sacrificed my whole entire life for THAT child and THAT child and THAT family." THAT? She should be referring to them as MY children and MY family. Who refers to their children and family like that? She just sounds so detached and selfish and horrible. You gave up YOUR entire life? Nick was 7 when she took him to LA and Aaron was 8 when he started performing. No one asked you to sacrifice your entire life. You chose to enter your children into a world like this. Now you want to complain that you had to sacrifice your whole life. Acting like they owe you something.
ahh i agree so much, i feel so bad for both nick and aaron because they have both said on different occasions about how they feel like they missed out on a childhood, and you can tell all the children are extremely damaged from it all - all you need to do is watch house of carters to see that!
Yeah exactly! I watched that too and you can just see the pain and damage in all of them. I feel like 99 percent of kids who have been entered into this business feel that way - like they have missed out on their childhood. I read a book about Michael Jackson that was like 900 pages its huge and I remember him saying that everyday after school he had to go to the studio to rehearse and record and on the way, driving there, whenever they passed by the park, he just wished that he could just be at the park playing after school, acting like a normal kid. They all just wanted normal lives as kids. How many child stars do you see who are so messed up for some period of time because of being in the business.
20AmandaL I think considering all this, they turned out pretty well - with the exception of leslie i guess. at least they have all tried to get their lives on track and nick is doing well at the minute (idk about aaron haha). i always felt really bad for nick, he was always trying to fix them and help them, and he had a lot of responsibility towards them all when he didn't have to. it's just sad he couldn't help leslie.
When someone uses the word THAT to refer to a person, they are classic narcisist of the highest order. They are just objects to her, to earn her money, attention and fame, to which she squandered it, especially Aarons. I have total sympathy for Aaron and Nick and all the children to be raised my such a vulgar woman. Although she can take some credit for their careers, she did so only for her own gain, not one second did she think about her children and family. But karma reigns she is alone, sorry, sad person living on a pension in tampa.
No wonder most of her kids have struggled with depression and addiction, and now another one has passed away. I did believe that Aaron would overcome his struggles. So sad 😞
@@fbr_5434 It is all about degrees though. Aaron is severe enough even COREY FELDMAN called him out and was giving legit counsel style advice. That says it all.
Jane is an alcoholic who took advantage of her children to feed her addiction. She ruined her children. Leslie died, Aaron is a mess, and Nick and BJ also stuggled with addiction. She's a terrible mother because of her alcoholism. She said she was helping her family, but her addiction ruined them.
They're forgetting that Aaron and Nick sacrificed a normal life. Aaron never went to high school or prom. Jane is waving the poor me flag but she has done so much wrong since then. She just keeps screwing everyone up. She forced Aaron into music. He wanted to be home. Watch the 7th episode of House of Carters. She is just a con artist. And for god sakes Bob deserves to move on! Leave him the hell alone he doesn't owe you for anything. He's the father but he doesn't have to keep a relationship with her if she acts this way. And everyone bashes Nick but he's trying to move on! Leave him alone Jane!
I totally agree with u on what u said I mean Jane is the reason y Nick blocked her out of his life I feel sorry for nick for what he grew up with I know when my father died I didn't blame my mom I never will I can't believe Jane would do that specially to both Aaron and nick
+Jackie Weiler Agree, she is really awful and then she implied Nick was molested by Lou Pearlman - so she has her YOUNGER son work with him?! Terrible mother and horrible person.
I feel sorry for Aaron he was a good kid and loved his family, He did choose to take drugs but he never wanted the life of drugs, he was numbing the pain of his childhood. He needs his family to support him and help him.
They can only do that if he lets them. He had to make that choice, they can't force him. He choice the not listen and hate everyone plus him self. Maybe if he ends up in jail, he will come to his senses
@@sarahschaubss you are the epitome of ignorant!! You obviously have no idea what The disease of addiction is all about!! I'm a 43 year old mother..in recovery and is a drug and alcohol counselor with degrees in behavioral health and sciences!! THESE poor kids didn't stand a chance!! And substances are only a symptom of the disease of addiction!! It's not the disease itself!! SO PLEASE EDUCATE YOURSELF.. YOUR IGNORANCE PERSONIFIES THE TOPIC AT HAND
@@kerryalfaro9437 i was a addict my self. All ibam saying aaron needed help and he wouldn't allow it to happen. Maybe if he was in jail he would have gotton clean without his concent. I understand his story and that he never had a chance. calling someone ignorant without understanding their comment is ignorant and judmental. Plus u don't know me or my personality why can't people have a normal debate these days no more, without emotions flying high or feeling personally attack by each comment they read.
The worst is that moms like her feel totally right and entitled to fully control the life of their child out of "love" and "duty" and when the kids decide to shut them out because they have had enough of the mess they make, they are all surprised, woe-is-me-I-sacrificed-everything-for-these-kids (a.k.a. control every single bit of their life, force everything upon them, shoved everything down their throat, live their life for them the way >I< wanted). They just don't know where to stop. Insane.
The way their mother said, " I sacrificed my whole life for that child...and the other child, " but never saying my child or my children? I am a mother of 4 sons and although I'm far from perfect, having such a deep connection with my boys, is everything to me so it's hard to imagine a mother that's disconnected
After this 20/20 episode aired this psycho woman sent her last remaining daughter, Leslie, to a fat camp, by tricking her into going, all because she realized she couldn't make money off of her. Leslie said so herself in a episode of House of Carters.
@@CookiesCritterCare thats what he said. She may have we don't know only those two knew. I don't know if it was true or his mental illness because he said a lot of stuff
Let's look at it from a different standpoint: She toured the world with her two sons, and left her three girls behind, to be raised by themselves?? to play, to learn how to cycle, to study and get dressed for school, to handle emotions by themselves?? When you decide to have 5 children, you need to love, be there and care equally for each and every one. And even after all the mistakes being made all those years, when you are a mother, you are always there when your grown-up children are facing problems. You are always there, and you expect nothing in return. She did absolutely nothing; it is them who sang, danced, woke up to do shows and photoshoots, instead of being typical school kids who play with their friends. From day 1, she couldn't even make a decision; instead, she let 11-year-old Nick decide whether to join BSB or the Mickey Mouse Club. As Nick has correctly said, you don't leave such a decision to an 11-year-old. Did she ever ask her boys if they truly wanted to get into this business? Maybe they simply preferred a loving family, school and friends.
Joanne Adamidou Off topic but I’m so glad Nick chose BSB and not the Mickey Mouse club. He’s still making money from BSB today so that was the right choice obviously.
No wonder Aaron struggled so much when his Dad died. He was probably the most sane out of the 2 and probably gave him that love and affection he so longed for. In one of his last interviews, on a podcast he said his mom was basically on her last leg because of alcoholism and honestly I don’t feel sad for her, because of how badly she destroyed her family… especially Aaron. He was just a baby. With a mother like that… you really do have to be strong to survive.
She shipped her own daughter off to fat camp without even telling her where she was going. She is also been making video where she does nothing but lie. Unfortunately she has got her claws back into Aaron again using his jealousy of Nick to manipulate him so that he now believes everything is Nick fault.
I feel so sorry for Aaron; to work so hard and have no money to show for it because of other people's actions. Thank God he's here and healthy that's what matters the most.
I respect Nick and Aaron but that woman is nuts.I don't understand why she'd blame the other child we all know who the other child is for Leslie's death.I'm sure he tried to help her but he had to worry about his own soberity .if she wanted help for Leslie why in the hell didn't she do something.I'll tell you why because she doesn't care about her kids it's all about money and people feeling sorry for her.
After seeing House of Carters I think Bob and Jane are both horrible parents. Bob showed Aaron these documents to manipulate him. With that said Jane is a horrible mom.
Came here from the Adam22 interview with Aaron Carter. To be honest, I can't blame him for how he turned out. Growing up with money being the only driving factor. I feel sorry for the guy.
She's vile!!!.... and needs to take ownership of all the horrible things she's done. Her kids deserved a better mother! Angel and Nick.. heal from your childhood trauma!! Your two siblings..could not! The world is watching and sending you 💜 as well as your two siblings.
@@savinabees9220 Bobbie Jean, their other sister.... There are three surviving siblings, not just the two you mentioned. Do you not wish her well and to heal from her childhood trauma too?
Parents should NEVER allow their children into their relationship issues. Sorry, but she didn't complain when she was spending her sons money. For a child to have to call "911" because his mother caught his father in bed with another woman is what every man has to deal with; a crazy ex. The parents relationship was clearly over, the mom wasn't even living at the family house. Aaron's call to the police was on point...good job!
“I sacrificed my whole life for this and that other child. I did it for them, I did it for the family.” - oh wow… everything is foul in that quote. You see the denial in the toxicity and struggling for a good life. So greedy and ruthless… give your babys the love they deserve.. thats the only think they need.
From personal experience. My mother is a functioning bipolar (my father is an alcoholic) Ultimately they lie, steal, cheat, and sabotage , indifferent about relationships, education, employment, giving forewarning children not to call family, 4 siblings w/ out graduating, no career, no homeowner. And they take no responsibility. When confronted she listens reluctantly, doesn't willingly answer questions and ends the conversation quickly, all without emotion other than frustration. My oldest sister is a paranoid schizophrenic. She won't discuss what has happened to her. But, she has lashed out that she doesn't want to talk about it.
I think Bob Carter was an asshole. Very dominant and probably abusive towards the family. He "led by fear" as Nick put it on Dr.Phil. I don't condone Jane's actions but I don't think she bares responsibility for everything. I am sure Bob did his fair share for the story to develop the way it did.
No way, bob was no way innocent. The problems these kids had is from 2 unstable parents. It’s very common 2 narcs ending up together. Leslie and BJ seem to of been the most neglected all round.
This woman is pure evil!!! Like literally!!! What she has done to all of her children is nuts. I have spent a week watching interviews etc since Aaron has passed. She is crazy. If she would have been the mom she was supposed to be, she would have gotten Aaron help!!!
I really think she let Pearlman molest him. She just looked the other way and looked at the money. Best thing Aaron could have done for himself was sever contact and get therapy. Unfortunately had contact with her again. She even became his manager. Did you see that. She did nothing but use those kids.
@Merri Cat yes I saw that. I hate that people are dogging Nick. He had to get away. He tried his best. You can see he loved all his siblings esp Aaron . I feel bad for all the kids. They literally lived a nightmare.
Aaron was broken from the start. His problems now are from things that happened in his childhood no matter how happy he looks in his music videos when he was younger. Someone screwed his life along the way behind closed doors. Edit: That doesn't even have to mean sexual.
She sounds like a narcissist! I know Aaron still struggles but nick did the right thing breaking away. Aaron is still a bit younger than nick he will learn it too one day. This mum seems crazy to me! I was willing to sacrifice myself for that child and the other one....it's the typical view of a narcissist! She may have pushed them and got them started but she sounds greedy those boys wanted to be a normal family and ended up very messed up
I can see why Nick doesnt want anything to do with his mother she looks really toxic and I am sure he doesn't want his children to be exposed to someone like her he did the right thing by cutting her and now he is healthy and happy with a beautiful family
It’s sad seeing Aaron here. Now he’s so mentally unhealthy, manic, and delusional. Him and nick have fallen out and he’s back letting his mother use him. He seems like such a clearer, mentally healthier person here and it’s sad seeing where he is now
That child?! How do you spend your sons $, and feel good about it. She loved the $ more than her children. She didn't make either son a star, they did that with their talent. JMO
I watched House of Carters and Nick mentioned that she was constantly asking for money. So she make them famous and she takes what she does.. as a mom and as a manager. And here i am, thinking a mom's love is unconditional.. prolly not. These parents are not making money to feed the family. They make their kids famous (she tried really hard, we know) and they paid for the family. how f up is that?
Nah, that mom did it for herself and is playing the victim. I would be more interested in having a loving family then ruining my kids' life by exploiting them.
She didn't sacrifice everything for those kids, she sacrificed her kids for everything.
Yuo
Exactly !!!
Wow. That’s so true
100% Correct you are!
She pumped her kids out so she didn't have to work. Two are now dead.
I believe his mother is a HUGE reason behind Aaron's struggles. He deserved such a better mother. RIP. ILYSM.
She was the beginning of his end.
Exactly why it’s better that Nick is estranged from her and that his kids won’t have a relationship with her. She doesn’t deserve to be close to her grandchildren with everything she put Nick through.
His mother hasn’t said a word since his death. She is a monster.
@@shannonmahaley5140 From what I read, she's ill or I'm sure she'd be trying to cash in on this. That's if she had the nerve to face the backlash. She's a monster who ruined 5 lives to one degree or another.
@@gerardinecizmar absolutely agree.
A real mom would never say "that kid" "those kids" "that family"... When talking about your own babies and family. So sad for them
It was probably arranged for her to say it like that so she wouldn’t get sued
definetly has some narcissistic traits
True, real mother wouldn't have done this tv interview... She obviously got paid for it!
Well its also came out fairly recently that she's a high functioning alcoholic and has been for years. That could have something to do wirh it. She didn't even call him Aaron when they were on the Drs. Together fairly recently.
Neither you nor I, nor anyone but the actual family involved can define what makes a family. We can only speculate using what appears to be close to the truth as follows: 1. The Carter family has been featured in the media practically over the last two decades. 2. Various members of the Carter family appear to have struggled with substance abuse and miscommunication. 3. At best we possess a limited insight into the inner workings of this family and their troubles. Anything else is guesswork.
When a mom refers to their sons as "that child" something is drastically wrong with her.
And then she says “that other child”. WTF no wonder Aaron’s where he’s at now. Terrifying.
Yeah she can't even at least just say their names.
Their mom was a huge reason why Nick & Aaron had problems. Their parents & adults in the industry took advantage of their fortune & fame.
** Why would she not say,"My child" instead of calling them "this & that?"
I believe that she was the one who caused Aaron & Nick to fight.
I think that her lust for money made her turn against her sons & break up her family.
** She became greedy & stole his money. I think that their dad took money,too.
It's sad that she didn't show them the love & support that they needed.
** I feel like their mom has mental health issues & addiction,too.
No wonder why Nick & Aaron turned to drugs & drinking.
They didn't have a stable home life.
Definately
Distancing language shows a very guilty conscience. She is definitely emotionally detached. Very very odd how she talks about her kids.
This mom emotionally destroyed all of her kids. Pure evil!
Mckay Fam my mom did the same or tired too
rip aaron
She said she did it for the family. In an interview Aaron said at 7 he didn’t know what was going on…yeah for the family.
Only 2 of the children are left now.
When she said "for that child and the other child" as a mother, that part broke me for them both. 💔
My first thought
@@melissaking7118 she sees herself as a martyr? That child? Not their name?
Sociopath
Their mom is a classic narcissist. Playing the victim role at every chance and refusing to take any responsibilities for her wrong doings.
LIKE Jackson Mickie #BB21
BluGyal Aaron is just like her he is a narcissist as well.
And now her son is the same. Sad, because he was thought to be this way
and Aaron turned out just like her
Uu
"That child and that other child" umm they have names!
Ocean Avenue I'm not defending Jane here at all, but that clip was likely edited and it seemed like they cut out a portion of her full statement. My guess is the interviewer had asked a leading question that was worded in a way to receive a specific response. She may have even been paraphrasing the interviewer's words. These shows are extremely manipulative in their editing, and should not be taken too seriously. And remember that we don't get to hear or see the whole exchange so we don't know what the interviewer is really asking or what the tone of their conversation really is.
She only can see $ signs
What the fuck I know right?!?!?
Shes clearly a narcissist.
I know right i caught that too😂😂😂
That always pissed me off. “I sacrificed my life to my kids” wahhhh. That is parenting lady.
aarons money she took it she did nothing else
She said on 20/20 I sacrificed my entire life for that child Nick included I'm guessing she means Aaron and Nick well that's what you're supposed to do you have five children it comes with the territory of parenting. I have a feeling when she says things like that and when she said things like that in the interview oh I sacrifice for those kids or that child you know she wasn't trying to convince us she was trying to convince herself.
She didn't make Aaron a star, Nick did.
Exactly! I think its the same situation with britney spears britney's little sister got famous because of britney not that jamie lynn spears isint talented but, because britney is her sister it got jamie lynn famouse quick! Js
True that mama sorry nick”s still the star and guess what mama he wants nothing to do with you humm
she took most of aarons money what a pig
@muka ferguson you would be if you went through what this guy has been through!
No way, I was obsessed with Aaron Carter like many girls my age and I didn’t care anything about Nick or Backstreet Boys. Aaron was talented in his own right at least my 9 year old self and my peers thought so
She DIDN'T make them stars! It was their own effort, sacrifice and talent!
Shes also an insanely high functioning alcoholic. Entitlement tends to come with addiction disorders. Not defending her at all. I think she's a horrible mom.
You must be a teenager
Nick has said in an interview with Larry King that their mother squandered SO much of their money that by the time he was 18, he told her that she could no longer manage him or any of BSB. I genuinely think their mother is a narcissist. She has caused so many problems in their family and she wants to blame her kids for everything. Why would you blame Aaron for Leslie’s death? She’s a horrible mother.
She actually blamed Nick for her death, he said it himself 😭
So sad why blame others kids for one death.
@@sandcastle6520 Horrible woman
Poor Aaron, more and more to his life struggles is making sense to me now. It was a build up to the trauma he suffered 😢
Poor Aaron never got over his childhood trauma his childhood demons was a big thing for him
Yep... And they're talking about when he showed off his house and expensive lifestyle on MTV Cribs, but little did they know, that he did an interview breaking down and talking about how he had to show off everything he was about to lose because his mom and dad were going through a divorce... The saddest part is now almost the whole family has passed away. Leslie, Bob (their dad), Aaron, BJ, and I heard Aaron's half sister (the one Bob and Ginger had, passed away. It's almost like their family is cursed. It's so heartbreaking
But what kind of mother blames her son for her daughter's death?
Katie Vineyard She's a bitter woman who cannot deal with the consequences of her greed.
Katie Vineyard a selfish greedy money hungry bitch Jane didn't give a rats ass about Nick of Aaron she just used them for thier money
It is not one bit his fault. He did more for her than anybody. Which is sad because that isn't his job
Exactly.
Only a total narcissist. She is the most abhorrent woman
Didn't have a chance. No parenting, no rules, no boundaries. No childhood. Complete destruction!
The look on his face even she says, "and the other child," is priceless.
She's only upset they cut the money off
Girl_Humanity Exactly
Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯
..."That child"? You mean your son?
Daaaaamn! I knew Nick had it rough but I had NO their mom was like this. He’s turned out remarkably well for someone who went through all that!
Jasmine Forde yea poor guy. His wife Lauren ended being one of the best things to happen to him. Look at nick now. So happy and healthy. I didn’t really like Lauren at first but she’s perfect with Nick and they make a lovely couple
@@devilundercover Same. I wasn't a fan of her at first, either, but I was wrong. They really balance eachother out, & she's definitely been a good support system. I'm glad they're removing all of the toxicity from their lives.
I don't think anyone knows what goes on behind the scenes for the kids sake hope it is a healthy relationship bc Nick has severe anger issues
She's the reason her daughter overdosed and Aaron is on drugs. Typical talentless parent trying to live through their kids and take what they earned.
The dudes a total nut case he turned out horribly.
This is the same loving mother who blamed her son for his sisters death poor nick and aaron
Nick was the only one who tried to save the family!
And they blamed him for his sisters death and that was so f up
@@tammiepage6489 and now Aaron drags her name through the mud and uses her for sympathy
Right?
Yeah sure the rapist
Yes Nick was not in denial about the toxicity of this family.
Crazy how much Aaron has changed. Its so sad how broken this family is. Alot of pain.
And now he's passed away 😓
@@Nightmare-nm9hn ikr 😭🙏😪
She speaks of Nick and Aaron by saying "I sacrificed my whole entire life for THAT child and THAT child and THAT family." THAT? She should be referring to them as MY children and MY family. Who refers to their children and family like that? She just sounds so detached and selfish and horrible. You gave up YOUR entire life? Nick was 7 when she took him to LA and Aaron was 8 when he started performing. No one asked you to sacrifice your entire life. You chose to enter your children into a world like this. Now you want to complain that you had to sacrifice your whole life. Acting like they owe you something.
ahh i agree so much, i feel so bad for both nick and aaron because they have both said on different occasions about how they feel like they missed out on a childhood, and you can tell all the children are extremely damaged from it all - all you need to do is watch house of carters to see that!
Yeah exactly! I watched that too and you can just see the pain and damage in all of them. I feel like 99 percent of kids who have been entered into this business feel that way - like they have missed out on their childhood. I read a book about Michael Jackson that was like 900 pages its huge and I remember him saying that everyday after school he had to go to the studio to rehearse and record and on the way, driving there, whenever they passed by the park, he just wished that he could just be at the park playing after school, acting like a normal kid. They all just wanted normal lives as kids. How many child stars do you see who are so messed up for some period of time because of being in the business.
20AmandaL I think considering all this, they turned out pretty well - with the exception of leslie i guess. at least they have all tried to get their lives on track and nick is doing well at the minute (idk about aaron haha). i always felt really bad for nick, he was always trying to fix them and help them, and he had a lot of responsibility towards them all when he didn't have to. it's just sad he couldn't help leslie.
20AmandaL she was drowned with money
When someone uses the word THAT to refer to a person, they are classic narcisist of the highest order. They are just objects to her, to earn her money, attention and fame, to which she squandered it, especially Aarons. I have total sympathy for Aaron and Nick and all the children to be raised my such a vulgar woman. Although she can take some credit for their careers, she did so only for her own gain, not one second did she think about her children and family. But karma reigns she is alone, sorry, sad person living on a pension in tampa.
No wonder most of her kids have struggled with depression and addiction, and now another one has passed away. I did believe that Aaron would overcome his struggles. So sad 😞
Every single child had to go through years of adult therapy due to trauma. None of them escaped her unscathed 😢
You must be a terrible mother for your children to suffer like that.
AC was trying his hardest to over come them
Don't blame Nick for leaving. The parents, especially the mother were toxic to their children💔.
Nick Carter and Aaron Carter’s family has been very troubled for a long time.
So true. Those poor kids
You're pretty troubled yourself Perez.
You’re a journalistic SCAB, Perez. A joke to journalism. Who was dumb enough to give you a college degree?
No shit
@@fbr_5434 It is all about degrees though. Aaron is severe enough even COREY FELDMAN called him out and was giving legit counsel style advice. That says it all.
I hate toxic parents. Many people just shouldn’t have children.
2019 anyone? After the no jumper interview? X2
YEP! SMH
He wasn’t as crazy then as he is now.😂
Flora Elizabeth me lol that fool is crazy
Lol yup
Flora Elizabeth do u have a link
I like how she downplayed her being a psychopath and assaulting her ex husband's partner.
I'd say you're onto something with this..
Their mother should be ashamed of herself…. She exploited her children. All of them. Heartbreaking.
She did not make him famous, he made himself famous, because of his talent !!!!
Jane is an alcoholic who took advantage of her children to feed her addiction. She ruined her children. Leslie died, Aaron is a mess, and Nick and BJ also stuggled with addiction. She's a terrible mother because of her alcoholism. She said she was helping her family, but her addiction ruined them.
Aaron finally succumbed as well.
@@katscratchfever3506 so tragic. RiP Aaron
yes and you know everything
No wonder Nicks legal guardian on BSB was Brain who was literally 18. Thats fuckin crazy.
Thank god Brian and the bsb are good guys
They're forgetting that Aaron and Nick sacrificed a normal life. Aaron never went to high school or prom. Jane is waving the poor me flag but she has done so much wrong since then. She just keeps screwing everyone up. She forced Aaron into music. He wanted to be home. Watch the 7th episode of House of Carters. She is just a con artist. And for god sakes Bob deserves to move on! Leave him the hell alone he doesn't owe you for anything. He's the father but he doesn't have to keep a relationship with her if she acts this way. And everyone bashes Nick but he's trying to move on! Leave him alone Jane!
I totally agree with u on what u said I mean Jane is the reason y Nick blocked her out of his life I feel sorry for nick for what he grew up with I know when my father died I didn't blame my mom I never will I can't believe Jane would do that specially to both Aaron and nick
Amber Kline She's completely selfish. She acts like she's the victim when she is the one that truly pushed Nick AND Aaron to the edge.
Jackie Weiler There are numerous teens who never went to prom, and they were never famous.
MisterUrbanWorld Yeah i know that. Hell i didn't go to mine because of my illness. I'm just saying that in this case Aaron missed out on a lot.
+Jackie Weiler Agree, she is really awful and then she implied Nick was molested by Lou Pearlman - so she has her YOUNGER son work with him?! Terrible mother and horrible person.
I feel sorry for Aaron he was a good kid and loved his family, He did choose to take drugs but he never wanted the life of drugs, he was numbing the pain of his childhood. He needs his family to support him and help him.
They can only do that if he lets them. He had to make that choice, they can't force him. He choice the not listen and hate everyone plus him self. Maybe if he ends up in jail, he will come to his senses
@@sarahschaubss you are the epitome of ignorant!! You obviously have no idea what The disease of addiction is all about!! I'm a 43 year old mother..in recovery and is a drug and alcohol counselor with degrees in behavioral health and sciences!! THESE poor kids didn't stand a chance!! And substances are only a symptom of the disease of addiction!! It's not the disease itself!! SO PLEASE EDUCATE YOURSELF.. YOUR IGNORANCE PERSONIFIES THE TOPIC AT HAND
@@kerryalfaro9437 i was a addict my self. All ibam saying aaron needed help and he wouldn't allow it to happen. Maybe if he was in jail he would have gotton clean without his concent. I understand his story and that he never had a chance. calling someone ignorant without understanding their comment is ignorant and judmental. Plus u don't know me or my personality why can't people have a normal debate these days no more, without emotions flying high or feeling personally attack by each comment they read.
If only they had 😭
She did do a good job of one thing she managed to teach Aaron Carter how to lie his ass off just like her.
Fact! You are So Right shes a pos
The worst is that moms like her feel totally right and entitled to fully control the life of their child out of "love" and "duty" and when the kids decide to shut them out because they have had enough of the mess they make, they are all surprised, woe-is-me-I-sacrificed-everything-for-these-kids (a.k.a. control every single bit of their life, force everything upon them, shoved everything down their throat, live their life for them the way >I< wanted). They just don't know where to stop. Insane.
So sad when families have no values. He was a sweet boy and it was the one that absorbed all the pain. He is their lesson to be learnt the hard way
The way their mother said, " I sacrificed my whole life for that child...and the other child, " but never saying my child or my children? I am a mother of 4 sons and although I'm far from perfect, having such a deep connection with my boys, is everything to me so it's hard to imagine a mother that's disconnected
so sad for Aaron ..He is such a humble, down to earth, sweet and funny person.He was misunderstood, he only wants to be loved, longing for love
After this 20/20 episode aired this psycho woman sent her last remaining daughter, Leslie, to a fat camp, by tricking her into going, all because she realized she couldn't make money off of her. Leslie said so herself in a episode of House of Carters.
Leslie died in 2012
@@southerncharmer143 and Aaron died today.
@@pallfy20 I know it's sad
@@southerncharmer143 Leslie rapped Aaron
@@CookiesCritterCare thats what he said. She may have we don't know only those two knew. I don't know if it was true or his mental illness because he said a lot of stuff
Let's look at it from a different standpoint: She toured the world with her two sons, and left her three girls behind, to be raised by themselves?? to play, to learn how to cycle, to study and get dressed for school, to handle emotions by themselves?? When you decide to have 5 children, you need to love, be there and care equally for each and every one. And even after all the mistakes being made all those years, when you are a mother, you are always there when your grown-up children are facing problems. You are always there, and you expect nothing in return. She did absolutely nothing; it is them who sang, danced, woke up to do shows and photoshoots, instead of being typical school kids who play with their friends. From day 1, she couldn't even make a decision; instead, she let 11-year-old Nick decide whether to join BSB or the Mickey Mouse Club. As Nick has correctly said, you don't leave such a decision to an 11-year-old. Did she ever ask her boys if they truly wanted to get into this business? Maybe they simply preferred a loving family, school and friends.
Joanne Adamidou Off topic but I’m so glad Nick chose BSB and not the Mickey Mouse club. He’s still making money from BSB today so that was the right choice obviously.
She didn’t tour with Nick, Brian was made his legal guardian
Theres more than 5 siblings though. I think 1 of them was never in the spotlight. 6-7 siblings actually.
@@Bombo505 Jane had 5 kids with Bob, he already had one from a previous relationship. I can't remember if he had 1 or 2 from the his last marriage...
@@bandlover341 BSB was a much better family for Nick. Thankfully, Brian watched over him.
As a mother, I can't imagine stealing my child's hard earned money. :(
No wonder Aaron struggled so much when his Dad died. He was probably the most sane out of the 2 and probably gave him that love and affection he so longed for. In one of his last interviews, on a podcast he said his mom was basically on her last leg because of alcoholism and honestly I don’t feel sad for her, because of how badly she destroyed her family… especially Aaron. He was just a baby. With a mother like that… you really do have to be strong to survive.
Aaron's mother is a total nutcase. Her kids need to disown the fat cow.
2 of her children didn't survive
“We ended up having 21 dogs” ...... of course they are THOSE type of ppl
She shipped her own daughter off to fat camp without even telling her where she was going. She is also been making video where she does nothing but lie. Unfortunately she has got her claws back into Aaron again using his jealousy of Nick to manipulate him so that he now believes everything is Nick fault.
Rip Aaron you’re at peace
I feel so sorry for Aaron, he was just a little kid and they just made him nuts. His mother was so greedy.
Because she wanted another meal ticket. Bob went along with it and never stood up for Nick or Aaron.
I think Jane is the issue with this family. She destroyed a lot of lives.
Who the hell kicks their child in the face?!?
The same person who slaps their dog on Instagram.
Very sad when money comes before family
I feel so sorry for Aaron; to work so hard and have no money to show for it because of other people's actions. Thank God he's here and healthy that's what matters the most.
He's not healthy anymore...
kianna621 hes definitely not currently healthy, its pretty bad..
Like Macaulay Culkin.. Hus parents took all his money
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This is a perfect example of money ruining a family
I stand on the side of the Carter children. I love those siblings so much.
I respect Nick and Aaron but that woman is nuts.I don't understand why she'd blame the other child we all know who the other child is for Leslie's death.I'm sure he tried to help her but he had to worry about his own soberity .if she wanted help for Leslie why in the hell didn't she do something.I'll tell you why because she doesn't care about her kids it's all about money and people feeling sorry for her.
"For that child and the other child"
No wonder Nick washed his hands of her.
Aaron hasn't caught on yet.
She knows what she did. She's emotionless.
What about those children's sacrifices? Nick and Aaron made a lot more sacrifices than she did.
Their mother was not just a profiteer, but a great gold-digger dictator about her sons.
This bitch is nuts she needs help and I hope nick and the rest of his family live a happy fulfilling life
After seeing House of Carters I think Bob and Jane are both horrible parents. Bob showed Aaron these documents to manipulate him. With that said Jane is a horrible mom.
Came here from the Adam22 interview with Aaron Carter. To be honest, I can't blame him for how he turned out. Growing up with money being the only driving factor. I feel sorry for the guy.
She's vile!!!.... and needs to take ownership of all the horrible things she's done.
Her kids deserved a better mother!
Angel and Nick.. heal from your childhood trauma!! Your two siblings..could not! The world is watching and sending you 💜
as well as your two siblings.
What about Bobbie Jean?
@@Peonyrose57 ?
@@savinabees9220 Bobbie Jean, their other sister.... There are three surviving siblings, not just the two you mentioned. Do you not wish her well and to heal from her childhood trauma too?
@@Peonyrose57 I absolutley do wish her well....I'd forgotten about her! Thank you for the heads up❤️
there's just something about a parent referring their kids to "that child" is so cold.
i will never kick my own Child face like that it so wrong what she did is wrong she not fit as a mother
"That child and that other child" you mean your boys Aaron and Nick?
Shold be more like, "I sacrificed "that child" and the "other child" for the sake of "the family."
Poor Aaron. Poor Carter Kids.
Lady that is your sons not your meal ticket. Grow up and try to their mother.
Aaron Carter was like the Justin Bieber of the 2000's.
Their Dad looks just like an older version of Nick.
if you look at nick today .. he really now look likes his father
RIP Aaron. Shame on the mom
Parents should NEVER allow their children into their relationship issues. Sorry, but she didn't complain when she was spending her sons money. For a child to have to call "911" because his mother caught his father in bed with another woman is what every man has to deal with; a crazy ex. The parents relationship was clearly over, the mom wasn't even living at the family house. Aaron's call to the police was on point...good job!
... and THEY sacrificed having a normal childhood. They are all traumatized now. This woman is full of it. Can't stand toxic parents like these.
“I sacrificed my whole life for this and that other child. I did it for them, I did it for the family.” - oh wow… everything is foul in that quote. You see the denial in the toxicity and struggling for a good life. So greedy and ruthless… give your babys the love they deserve.. thats the only think they need.
From personal experience. My mother is a functioning bipolar (my father is an alcoholic) Ultimately they lie, steal, cheat, and sabotage , indifferent about relationships, education, employment, giving forewarning children not to call family, 4 siblings w/ out graduating, no career, no homeowner. And they take no responsibility. When confronted she listens reluctantly, doesn't willingly answer questions and ends the conversation quickly, all without emotion other than frustration. My oldest sister is a paranoid schizophrenic. She won't discuss what has happened to her. But, she has lashed out that she doesn't want to talk about it.
R.I.P Bob Carter!!!!!
Omg what a narcissist their mom is!!! 😧😧😧
I think Bob Carter was an asshole. Very dominant and probably abusive towards the family. He "led by fear" as Nick put it on Dr.Phil. I don't condone Jane's actions but I don't think she bares responsibility for everything. I am sure Bob did his fair share for the story to develop the way it did.
No way, bob was no way innocent. The problems these kids had is from 2 unstable parents. It’s very common 2 narcs ending up together. Leslie and BJ seem to of been the most neglected all round.
This woman is pure evil!!! Like literally!!! What she has done to all of her children is nuts. I have spent a week watching interviews etc since Aaron has passed. She is crazy. If she would have been the mom she was supposed to be, she would have gotten Aaron help!!!
I really think she let Pearlman molest him. She just looked the other way and looked at the money. Best thing Aaron could have done for himself was sever contact and get therapy. Unfortunately had contact with her again. She even became his manager. Did you see that. She did nothing but use those kids.
@Merri Cat yes I saw that. I hate that people are dogging Nick. He had to get away. He tried his best. You can see he loved all his siblings esp Aaron . I feel bad for all the kids. They literally lived a nightmare.
Aaron was broken from the start. His problems now are from things that happened in his childhood no matter how happy he looks in his music videos when he was younger. Someone screwed his life along the way behind closed doors.
Edit: That doesn't even have to mean sexual.
She sounds like a narcissist! I know Aaron still struggles but nick did the right thing breaking away. Aaron is still a bit younger than nick he will learn it too one day. This mum seems crazy to me! I was willing to sacrifice myself for that child and the other one....it's the typical view of a narcissist! She may have pushed them and got them started but she sounds greedy those boys wanted to be a normal family and ended up very messed up
maybe she's a freemason...
Aaron is still mentally 10 years old. My grandson is more mature.
Never put greed above family, love integrity it will be the ruin of you
Rest in peace Aaron 💞
Betty Broderick vibes. The look & attitude.
Next to the word "toxic" in the dictionary is a picture of Jane.
So sad watching this knowing that both Aaron and his dad have passed away.
His sister not dad
@@lalisitabonita his dad died as well 😔
Aaron (in 2022) , his Father Robert ( in 2017) and older sister Leslie ( in 2012 ) have passed away. 😔💔
Wow.. that's so much loss for one family 💔
I can see why Nick doesnt want anything to do with his mother she looks really toxic and I am sure he doesn't want his children to be exposed to someone like her he did the right thing by cutting her and now he is healthy and happy with a beautiful family
It’s sad seeing Aaron here. Now he’s so mentally unhealthy, manic, and delusional. Him and nick have fallen out and he’s back letting his mother use him. He seems like such a clearer, mentally healthier person here and it’s sad seeing where he is now
She “sacrificed for that child and the other child” tells you all you need to know about mommy Jane dearest!
Wow at the end Aaron was right, he was making millions and his parents spend it all
What kind of family is this!!
So sad that such a beautiful family was torn apart.
That's the real tragedy.
The Carters are one messed up family.
So sad how it has ended
That child?! How do you spend your sons $, and feel good about it. She loved the $ more than her children. She didn't make either son a star, they did that with their talent. JMO
Anyone here after seeing Aaron‘s latest Instagram stories/streams? He drives through whole USA to get to his mom.
Lol
Nick looks like the mom and Aaron looks like the dad
I watched House of Carters and Nick mentioned that she was constantly asking for money. So she make them famous and she takes what she does.. as a mom and as a manager. And here i am, thinking a mom's love is unconditional.. prolly not. These parents are not making money to feed the family. They make their kids famous (she tried really hard, we know) and they paid for the family. how f up is that?
A mothers love is unconditional. But not all women who give birth are mothers. I really wish more people realised.
" she lying so much, thats she covers a lie with a lie" lol
wow nick looks so much like his dad
Nah, that mom did it for herself and is playing the victim. I would be more interested in having a loving family then ruining my kids' life by exploiting them.
Classic Narcissist Behaviour, Words and Gaslighting. I am so deeply sorry that they never had a real mother