✨CHOSEN ONES✨ STOP BEING NICE!

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  • ✨CHOSEN ONES✨
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Komentáře • 129

  • @AmyW133
    @AmyW133 Před 2 měsíci +66

    During childhood, I would do anything to feel loved. My parents were emotionally negligent and absent. I believe this is where my ‘being too nice’ stemmed from. It took me 30 years to learn how to say no, and to stop others from taking advantage of my kindness. My kindness is not a weakness. And my sensitivity is a gift from God. Thank you for this video 💜✨

    • @Lisa-zd3eb
      @Lisa-zd3eb Před 2 měsíci +5

      Going through this too. People pleaser from emotional and physical abuse as a child. Generational curses. Setting boundaries. It’s depleting otherwise

    • @TyStar10
      @TyStar10 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You are absolutely right. Been there, done doing that. Blessings to all

    • @splendidis7950
      @splendidis7950 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Same❤

    • @sheiradavenport5325
      @sheiradavenport5325 Před 2 měsíci +1

      🥹

    • @horusp1
      @horusp1 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Like Michael Jackson sang:
      "You are not alone....I am here with you"....
      Same Here.
      Press forward in your path, in your truth.
      Only you and The Creator knows what that is...and sometimes even you don't...until it unfolds.
      Bless Up. 🕊🍷

  • @kmstins
    @kmstins Před 2 měsíci +33

    I'm one who is very friendly, kind, and generous, but there's always been some sort of switch embedded in me that instantly turns off when I'm treated disrespectfully. People are often stunned when they see how unkind I'm capable of being. I don't like to be that way, but sometimes people need to be admonished. 🤷‍♀️😏

    • @chuckfullerton813
      @chuckfullerton813 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sagittarius

    • @kmstins
      @kmstins Před 2 měsíci

      @@chuckfullerton813 🦁☺️ I'm a Leo. Are you saying you're a Sagittarius, or did you think I'm a Sag? 😁

    • @MarjyGTV
      @MarjyGTV Před 2 měsíci +2

      I can tell your a Leo, my mom is the same way. Once that switch is off you don't exist to her 😂 once that lioness come out forget it!

    • @kmstins
      @kmstins Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@MarjyGTV Hahaha! Yep! That's us Leos. ☺️♌️🌞😁

    • @joshuaveal1399
      @joshuaveal1399 Před měsícem +2

      Leo here, I fully innerstand this!!!

  • @JohnMcintosh-dm1gn
    @JohnMcintosh-dm1gn Před 2 měsíci +15

    I use the golden rule but as soon as I think they are crossing the line its goodbye. Healthy boundaries determine healthy relationships, you have to let others know when they step over the line.

  • @Maester0
    @Maester0 Před 2 měsíci +12

    It's these energy vampires that are gonna pay the real price. I have no remorse for people that try to take someone's kindness as a weakness.

  • @BlackieSteele
    @BlackieSteele Před 2 měsíci +14

    People-pleasing is a very difficult behaviour pattern to identify and overcome. This message is so timely. Thank you! ❤❤❤

  • @anilpersaud3808
    @anilpersaud3808 Před 2 měsíci +23

    This is facts, I was taken advantage of and it has still affected me to this day. The two men that took advantage of me guilt tripped me into paying more money and trying to get everything from me, thankfully I didn’t give those scam artists anymore and I blocked them, their not getting anything more from me. Messing with chosen ones never really go too well for those that aren’t chosen.

  • @juancarrasco104
    @juancarrasco104 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Yes, I hate being taken advantage of by people in my family. Thank you for the truth in this reading, Amen 🙏

  • @jamesstamp4034
    @jamesstamp4034 Před 2 měsíci +16

    I needed to hear this 30 years ago. I guess God wanted me to hear it now thank you. Keep the good work up. God bless you.

    • @tinaleigh3273
      @tinaleigh3273 Před měsícem +1

      CZcams wasn't around 30 years ago, and you didn't have the right people in your life. It's never too late to change! ❤

    • @jamesstamp4034
      @jamesstamp4034 Před měsícem

      @@tinaleigh3273 I agree with you but my walk with God is different than any other person on the planet and we as a hole are to come together to worship and praised him for without God the father Jesus Christ the son and the holy spirit you can’t do anything period

  • @annalisagentile6028
    @annalisagentile6028 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I have family members that can’t get away from their parents. Fifty and sixty year olds that are dependent on them. Very sad

  • @PriestessAusetRaAmen
    @PriestessAusetRaAmen Před 2 měsíci +16

    All factz, I have had my spiritual gifts used by spiritual vampires and spiritual parasites who sidled up to me, with flattery on their lips to benefit. I have had to cut and block hundreds of them, in personal relationships getting used, even with family who just take and take and give nothing back, not even the basics. Setting healthy boundaries has been a literal life saver for me, from being energetically, spiritually, financially and mentally drained. I almost gave up spiritually helping others as I began to hate, the parasites and vampires flocking to me. Till Source had to point out it was me, who needed to learn the fine art of saying NO!!!

  • @debragreer8210
    @debragreer8210 Před 2 měsíci +4

    This video speaks volumes. It's so hard being nice and having a compassionate spirit. I try my best to look for the good in people. It's totally impossible because people are so fake these days! to find honesty in a relationship it like mixing oil and water. It doesn't mix at all. Honesty is a lost characteristics, the world is so carnal and materialistic people enjoy using others until the table turns and karma is facing you and giving you what you put out in the universe, you should never misuse someone emotions life have a strange way exposing itself, it always happens when you're not ready. Very helpful video ❤

  • @theeXodusof730
    @theeXodusof730 Před 2 měsíci +6

    When I say I had to learn this the HARD way...

  • @Newsbirdie
    @Newsbirdie Před 2 měsíci +4

    God sees your good deeds. Never stop being kind but dont let people use you neither.

  • @love1another2peace
    @love1another2peace Před 2 měsíci +8

    Discernment ❤❤❤

  • @jennifferguyton6028
    @jennifferguyton6028 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Oh yeah 💯% I have been taken advantage of, for I was born a very kind and Loving Soul; until I got a very difficult experience and learned the lesson behind the circumstances that I put myself in. And ever since those crucial life lessons, that I am so very Grateful for I started understanding and seeing the signs of what manipulation and controlling look like! And I am so much better and stronger today, for learning and have gone through those life lessons. Namaste 🙏 my Lord, my Universe and my Mother Earth ❤️🌍🌅🌑🌌🌕🌧️🌈🏞️♥️ And I have also learned to forgive myself and the others within those life occurrences ♥️🙏🕊️☺️

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Před 2 měsíci +9

    I’m surviving by the grace of GOD! Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. I’m a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed at times. I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.

    • @ambergibson7381
      @ambergibson7381 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Keep on, keeping on. The Most High will continue to provide for you. Many Blessings to you and you family🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @garyfordham4447
      @garyfordham4447 Před 26 dny

      Yashua has you and wants you to know that. Your son's have choice's to make, but not yet.

  • @Kellz1229
    @Kellz1229 Před 2 měsíci +5

    The timing of this video for me!!! Thank you so much for confirming exactly what I was feeling. This using/abuse stops today. Thank you thank you thank you!!!

  • @mannn5151
    @mannn5151 Před 2 měsíci +3

    True sometimes i hate myself people used me for thier own benifits my money luck my kindness

  • @Ambassador.Of.Christ.
    @Ambassador.Of.Christ. Před 2 měsíci +2

    This was word for word what I have experienced. When I came across this video, it was divine timing. It is definitely time to make these changes

  • @kingdlock007
    @kingdlock007 Před měsícem

    This is on point most videos I’m going through and others I’m going through! Timing is Divine and GOD has lit my soul for more truth! God bless you ALL! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @learncadadia7832
    @learncadadia7832 Před měsícem

    "Stop trying to be everyone's hero at the expense of your well being."

  • @user-bh7jk5rs2o
    @user-bh7jk5rs2o Před 2 měsíci +2

    Cant stop being nice.I will set boundaries.

  • @markwhewell4265
    @markwhewell4265 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Stop being nice when it’s in my DNA I tried I fail every time

  • @Eon_621
    @Eon_621 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Being taken advantage of is NOT your fault. There's is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being nice and expecting it in return. The fact that you've been deceived and hurt is a testament that those who decieved and hurt you are not on your level or frequency. The cannot reach your heights so they try to cut you down. Keep climbing higher and let you kindness and generosity be trail you leave behind. If they cannot follow your path then they are doomed to walk in darkness. That is their fear. They want the light, but will not do what it takes to earn it. It's their choice to not seek light. It's not your fault they are used to darkness, for everyone has the light inside is them because we are ALL children of God, who is the Light.
    Do not dim yours for others.
    Love and Light be with you Chosen ❤

  • @VOIDSTRANGER2099
    @VOIDSTRANGER2099 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Even being taken advantage of is a choice..

  • @chantalnikkichantal948

    I agree with you I started to realize that it was time to also put myself first and I can still stay kind with out just giving I can still give love and be caring up to a point

  • @SylviaMcFaline-ib1ee
    @SylviaMcFaline-ib1ee Před měsícem +1

    Yes thank you lord JESUS amen

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Constantly being overcharged at restaurants......hoping I won't notice and say anything...

  • @ML-nz6fr
    @ML-nz6fr Před měsícem

    Not anymore being overly nice Amen

  • @jeffersonjaxx....delamaste2447

    I always walk away without a figt from those who take me for granted ....... I don't do revenge ..... I do energy

  • @G.W.HuntZinger
    @G.W.HuntZinger Před 2 měsíci +2

    It's funny, I walk around with this magic mirror.
    When the attack's roll in, I remain silent. Let THEM see what's in the mirror...
    Game Over. 🥳🥳🥳
    Fromboldt reporting 🥀🗻

  • @chosenone6974
    @chosenone6974 Před měsícem

    Yssss this is so true I am learning boundaries and to say no that’s it I will not allow it in Jesus name I pray amen 🙏🏽

  • @krismccann2121
    @krismccann2121 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤I've been told kindness is a weakness. Lol❤

  • @creambabyjazz
    @creambabyjazz Před 2 dny

    👍very important thing. Thank U🙏

  • @user-yn5ie1xr9y
    @user-yn5ie1xr9y Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm very grateful for this message. Daily I say 'I know my weakness is
    I'm too kind to shut the door on these troubled entities who are entrenched in their ways. Society hates them and they were tricked'. So who to go to? Someone has to leave a door open.
    And I do get you loud and clear - thank you .
    I've been doing this for months. I'm broke and my cat has no fur. You're right This soul clinic is closing. Sorry I gave you my all xxx

  • @mariaspanner9160
    @mariaspanner9160 Před 2 měsíci +4

    And so it is👁👌🏾..
    Thank you.

  • @JosephEAvery
    @JosephEAvery Před 2 měsíci +1

    A delightful video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @JosephEAvery
      @JosephEAvery Před 2 měsíci

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?

    • @JosephEAvery
      @JosephEAvery Před 2 měsíci

      valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive Thank you for this..

  • @socupdates8885
    @socupdates8885 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thanks for the wisdom ❤

  • @masonharrison7298
    @masonharrison7298 Před 2 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU 😊 AND SO IT IS SAYS THE ONE ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cecilb.brooks2739
    @cecilb.brooks2739 Před měsícem

    Amen ✝️
    I resonate with this message in Jesus name.
    🕊❤️🕊🫶

  • @iamheavenlykingdomcall
    @iamheavenlykingdomcall Před 2 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU FOR THE WORD BROTHER SHALOM PEACE 🙏

  • @jamesbennett1328
    @jamesbennett1328 Před měsícem +1

    thank you for the awakening. it is greatly appreciated

  • @abriofernandes8847
    @abriofernandes8847 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Very true

  • @deemisquadis9437
    @deemisquadis9437 Před 2 měsíci

    We are not of your world! We don't take things to heart. We. Do not judge! We are not religious, we know the truth, way beyond your understanding. Just love and forgive. Don't worry about being a chosen. If you need affirmation, you are not a chosen one. We are in our solar system evolution event. We are all changing.

  • @grantleyjames3076
    @grantleyjames3076 Před měsícem

    We owe ppl love according to the bible.

  • @user-tk4cs1mj8v
    @user-tk4cs1mj8v Před 2 měsíci +2

    Well,..... it'a an eye opening day,... This is so true, and i will listen to it many other times,.... I'm 75 Years Young, and it is good to hear this Message,.... Thank You much, and Blessings to You my good Friend, Yves in Canada

  • @starros1
    @starros1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thanks for this reminder. It was medicine. I'm cured!😅

  • @vanessaverbeke4274
    @vanessaverbeke4274 Před 2 měsíci +2

    So truthful spoken ❤

  • @amaliaarauz2240
    @amaliaarauz2240 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Amen ❤😊

  • @mirkogiljaca1051
    @mirkogiljaca1051 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The Truth! 🎉 ❤ Thank you.

  • @user-ib3tn5od3g
    @user-ib3tn5od3g Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank You

  • @Psychic72Empath
    @Psychic72Empath Před měsícem

    no more mr niceguy, i just dont alow people in my life just like that again , it is done and over , doors are closed. who ever thinks is coming to fool me again , now they know ,DOORS ARE CLOSED , it is over, go seek somewhere else, being to nice was detrimental to me for years and everybody wanted to take turn and advantage on me , now i do not care about nothing anymore , i do what i like for pure for myself now, my kindness has been mis used , and its over its done

  • @Keaira-gt1po
    @Keaira-gt1po Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you ❤

  • @user-tr7di7ok2f
    @user-tr7di7ok2f Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @user-kf2lh4xk5e
    @user-kf2lh4xk5e Před měsícem

    🌞 thank you for presenting this material. Blessed life, Blessed work

  • @metrysuciyanti555
    @metrysuciyanti555 Před 2 měsíci +3

    A lot of people take advantage of my life, my blessings and my fortune for their own benefits 🤦🏼‍♀️ That's why I prefer to stay away from people like that. The way that God take their own benefits because there's a Bad Karma that they have done to me. It's time pay it back.

  • @theaardee
    @theaardee Před měsícem

    BE NICE. SO MANY POEPLE ARE JUST HORRIBLE. LET US PRAY. IN JESUS CHRIST OUR FATHER ......

  • @user-mx6lm8dd2v
    @user-mx6lm8dd2v Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thanks please l now know all long, l have been used for other people needs 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheLexiconMind
    @TheLexiconMind Před 2 měsíci +3

    A popular chosen one? There's no such thing. Or it's extremely rare but definitively unlikely.

  • @natalieearp2933
    @natalieearp2933 Před 2 měsíci +3

    This message resonates❤

  • @FrankdaTank9
    @FrankdaTank9 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Why should anyone nice stop being nice? on the contrary the world desperately needs nice people, Gods focal point throughout the whole gospel is to be nice to one another. To him that’s even more important than most teaching. Is not that we should stop being nice but rather cautious and wise on how to treat people. What the world truly lacks including so called chosen is wisdom. With that u can determine how to treat situation and people accordingly. There is more than the eyes can see and that can only be determined wisely.

  • @NisinaMidurin
    @NisinaMidurin Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @user-hu5fd4ck1v
    @user-hu5fd4ck1v Před měsícem

    Thank you for the words of wisdom, I needed that. David O

  • @ImbueU88
    @ImbueU88 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks!

  • @ClaudiaCuevas-lw6ku
    @ClaudiaCuevas-lw6ku Před 2 měsíci +3

    😢 im still paying the consequences for being to nice and giving, did took my money my home when my son and my identity she's going around acting like me she actually believes that she is me she's lost her mind

  • @jamesgoodsir2140
    @jamesgoodsir2140 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks

  • @WISDOM784
    @WISDOM784 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sir:
    I appreciate you. Thank you.

  • @KATOSHIAEzell-ko2tq
    @KATOSHIAEzell-ko2tq Před 2 měsíci +2

    GOD IS GOOD ISN'T HE YES HE IS AMEN KATOSHIA EZELL 👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @danielossygexon
    @danielossygexon Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you man

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Před 2 měsíci +3

    Im kind but i know when to draw the line.

  • @ameicanboyaboikonie-djodjoo8kw
    @ameicanboyaboikonie-djodjoo8kw Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you lord

  • @erickhensz71
    @erickhensz71 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Okay
    I will try to say NO more.😊

  • @ShawnLawson-nj1jw
    @ShawnLawson-nj1jw Před měsícem

    So true

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Praise God❤

  • @IvanaKarasic-hi8lm
    @IvanaKarasic-hi8lm Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanke You!

  • @user-mp8kv8oh2p
    @user-mp8kv8oh2p Před měsícem

    IM ALWAYS NICE 😊. BUT I LEARN MY LESSON NOW , I WENT THROUGH IT , THEY STARTED USING YOU TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR KINDNESS. BEING A CHOSEN ONES IS NOT FUN.

  • @user-zf2zj8xn6l
    @user-zf2zj8xn6l Před 2 měsíci +2

    Three days after the eclipse I FEEL YOUNGER ❤🧬 DNA UPGRADE 🤔❓

  • @dot.888
    @dot.888 Před 2 měsíci +3

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @LezLezzah
    @LezLezzah Před 2 měsíci +3

    "AMEN ❤😂🎉🎉"

  • @jamesgoodsir2140
    @jamesgoodsir2140 Před 2 měsíci

    Absolutely love this s….

  • @ML-nz6fr
    @ML-nz6fr Před měsícem

    Helpful thanks

  • @robertdavis5714
    @robertdavis5714 Před měsícem

    How many times I have said that to myself...........................Usually after being taken advantage of.

  • @younggenah4940
    @younggenah4940 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Real Sum

  • @15_ginafischer65
    @15_ginafischer65 Před 2 měsíci

    I wondering, what we must do in the world as an chosen one if we don't being nicer than others... we not looking for fame or gold... we love to help people, but often people dont want to be healed

  • @1steyevisione
    @1steyevisione Před 2 měsíci +1

    👁️ don't owe you 💩!!!
    You owe me!!!
    😏

  • @phoenixfaith3248
    @phoenixfaith3248 Před 2 měsíci +1

    🙏

  • @maecat48
    @maecat48 Před 2 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @letunyabrown7733
    @letunyabrown7733 Před 2 měsíci +1

  • @user-eq6sj9rj2z
    @user-eq6sj9rj2z Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤ I always had a lot of confidence because of god Reviewed my energy. What I had wanted to be with me. So others of them. One thing after another but now I try to myself like I always tried to do I love to be outn the country away from everybody be better but I seem to attract people. Now that I'm old. I still attract people, but I got my own little spot.
    And those who used to induce me forever. I finally are not their friends after years of abuse and may be in the giving on my sister is too giving too. I'll tell her that all time. And she says what about years song?

  • @LivingOutVariousExperiences
    @LivingOutVariousExperiences Před 2 měsíci +2

    My therapist

  • @jamesgoodsir2140
    @jamesgoodsir2140 Před 2 měsíci

    Great background distraction

  • @elizabethgilchrist8559
    @elizabethgilchrist8559 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Itds not my way nice is my pleasure I will be careful being nice to others I'm meant to be genourous yhey can't win now being kind doesn't mean nieve

  • @FIVIIXX
    @FIVIIXX Před 2 měsíci +3

    U talking real talk its time to say 😂 No😢

  • @vikrampathak9920
    @vikrampathak9920 Před 2 měsíci +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Thedesertguy75
    @Thedesertguy75 Před měsícem

    I do what I call the "mirror" effect.....I treat others exactly as I'm treated....like a reflection 🪞🪞🪞

  • @3N3T3R
    @3N3T3R Před 2 měsíci +2

    Nic3=Foolish

  • @banjodubghall84
    @banjodubghall84 Před měsícem

    Do not cast pearls amongst swine. Depart from evil is understanding and understanding is wisdom and having wisdom is having the fear of the Lord. Job 28 28. And unto man he said behold. The fear of the Lord that is wisdom. And to depart from evil is understanding . Wicked people are deceptive in their nature they seek no truth they hold no truth. Liars spreading falsehood about you others and themselves. Well it is so there are men whom receive the gift to see straight through and every thing in between of what is truly in a man's heart. Liara become so delusional they actually believe their own lies to be factual. It's the most convoluted wicked lost cruel sick thing. It's evil. So understand some won't change. Pray they do but mingling with them is like mingling with the evil itself sooner or later their wickedness begins to ware off on you and just hearing them being in their presence is taxing against energy. Their no good. They would have you believe they are but they do not seek the truth the way the life. They only are an abomination that mascarades around rambling bible verses as weapons used against you to belittle you. Yet they themselves do not understand the verses nor have any idea of the meaning nor do they walk the walk. Wishing bad on them is allowing their evil to manipulate you. These trials are tough but necessary to understand and obtain the light and wisdom and whole heartedly do so.

  • @deborahwiser6516
    @deborahwiser6516 Před 2 měsíci

    nope I will continue being happy naturally and nice nobody or their thought cant change my ways I cannot be moved or swayed

  • @3N3T3R
    @3N3T3R Před 2 měsíci +1

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  • @fangwang5270
    @fangwang5270 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Very true