the last statement really hits that men should call out each others toxicity because everytime a man cheats, his bestfriend is completely aware about that and for a fact know that he is doing wrong but they defend it with BRO CODE......thats super toxic
@@kewalmohapatra8340 I agree with you but the proportion in which guys are doing it, is way too high, plus I haven't met a girl like that yet.. All my homies are super loyal.
Please bring more such conversations. It was an amazing one, I guess movies and web series help us but such podcasts are quite intimate in a sense which makes a conversation more personal. Kudos to the team of Bumble ❣
Jim is a patient listener and Zoya well she is one of the most self assured women I have seen in my life. But the problem with self assured women is that, they often come across as intimidating, men prefer dumb girls for some bizzare reason!! PS: best episode in the series!!
My friend women have a tendency to date men that are at par or above them, so for a self-assured successful boss babe a very tiny percentage of men are available. But wait why would even the top %age tier men data a boss babe, anyways it's a pain in the butt. Btw what do you mean by dumb girls ?
@@gurpreetkhera8266 your comment speaks volume about how it is to date a pain in the ass according to you, intellect is seen as a vice, a girl should adjust in Seema aunty's terminology!! But the truth is that men are insecure if they know that the girl they are dating is brighter than them.
@@pallavithukral2012 Let me be more precise with words ; She's not "Self assured" , *She's masculine* & masculine women are turn off for men Becouse opposite attracts ! (If you're straight) Women don't even realize it that they are just becoming like men day by day hence loss of attraction in a long run They should embrace their femininity It's healing & nurturing that's why Men love their mothers more than anything. And No men don't like to date dumb girls -_- you've come across wrong guys I guess
@@WhiteMetal_ I have come across my share of wrong guys but right now I'm with the most beautiful soul in this world who let's be me whoever I am masculine or feminine. And just giving compliments to fellow women doesn't mean that I'm not straight.
Why any relationship doesn't work: 1. When both people don't have an equal say or feel equally heard. 2. When making the other person feel good is your responsibility
Loved this healthy... uncompetitive....easy, conversation between a man and a woman.... thank you for this video. Rest in peace chivalry and feminism... its done n dusted. Want to watch more of such content.
What a fantastic conversation with two fantastic speakers!! 💖 Also, can we appreciate the production here? Its got such good vibes 🤌🏼 WE NEED MORE OF THESE BUMBLE 💛
When she said " a bit too much " that right there itself is the problem. We're learning to let our emotions out slowly but then some women make us feel like we're way too clingy. And just like that we're never able to fully open up because then we're conceived as being too needy :)
Yeah ofc, blame women only once again for facing changes while breaking the standards patriarchy created. Why is it that you think you're entitled to women's space only? You could let your emotions in front of men too. Don't consider women dumb, they know exactly when men cross lines from being healthily emotional to becoming emotionally abusive or creepy. This may feel harsh but we have years of experience of dealing with problematic men who don't have a sense of boundaries and trust me, we know the difference.
Well you just need to change the woman in that case. Men have the habit of blaming their lack of being emotionally available on women but usually it's their relationship with their parents. Majority of men don't have father's they can look upto or fathers respecting and loving their women loudly so it's hard for them. It has nothing to do with who you are dating mostly
Loved this conversation. Just seemed like 2 normal people trying to understand things for the better. Very rare kind of thing to do in a world where it seems like the media is always leveraging people's mental complexes to sensationalize societal issues. Loved Zoya's point about how it feels like no one talked to the boys, and now they are lost. I love how Jim is so secure with himself.
Something is up between him and Zoya. She is such an intellectual that Jim seems like a perfect match for her. Both at par with each other. Their conversation is wow
1:51 the women changed but no one spoke to the boys. Bang on... I am suddenly reminded of this 🎵song... Which zoya shud sing for herself - "Hit pe hit mein maarda phiru"... Always zoya... How... And her sense of humor is as great as Javed ji
Such an intelligent and progressive realistic conversation i see both these mega talents in their respective arena of work..A lot of stars should put their foot down from the grand luxury n offer some wisdom springing forth from realistic hearts.. Like Toxic Patterns..
Moreover, sports is aggressive, and men hold the majority of it - which is why they feel okay or socially established in that atmosphere to cry and express emotions freely
Wait, I thought Zoya Akhtar identified as a Lesbian and was in a relationship with another director/producer. Is she bi-sexual then? pansexual? Or Sadly…straight?
Two confused person talking about how confused the world is.. You have a platform that doesn't mean you can say anything you want..saying men is this and that is cool nowadays.. I have seen females shouting about importance of using pads in an rich area with 100% literacy fearing to go in a slum for the same XD lol. Don't know who is confused.
Cringy to see a good actor simping to a hyper feminist director. I love her films but I hope this wokeness isn’t coming to India to ruin the country. It’s fucked up US and Canada enough. Let’s keep it in the west.
"Chivalry is men calling out toxic behaviour in men"
Well said, Zoya 👏🏻👏🏻
the last statement really hits that men should call out each others toxicity because everytime a man cheats, his bestfriend is completely aware about that and for a fact know that he is doing wrong but they defend it with BRO CODE......thats super toxic
100% agreed
Can we stop being gender specific? Women do it too. Call out everyone not just one gender
@@kewalmohapatra8340 I agree with you but the proportion in which guys are doing it, is way too high, plus I haven't met a girl like that yet.. All my homies are super loyal.
@@garima3064 I can speak likewise for my homies
@@kewalmohapatra8340 please share their insta usernames if they're cute ❤️
Please bring more such conversations. It was an amazing one, I guess movies and web series help us but such podcasts are quite intimate in a sense which makes a conversation more personal. Kudos to the team of Bumble ❣
This conversation between Jim and Zoya was just too pure! It seems like you can enjoy these guys talking for hours and hours together!
Jim is a patient listener and Zoya well she is one of the most self assured women I have seen in my life. But the problem with self assured women is that, they often come across as intimidating, men prefer dumb girls for some bizzare reason!!
PS: best episode in the series!!
My friend women have a tendency to date men that are at par or above them, so for a self-assured successful boss babe a very tiny percentage of men are available. But wait why would even the top %age tier men data a boss babe, anyways it's a pain in the butt. Btw what do you mean by dumb girls ?
@@gurpreetkhera8266 your comment speaks volume about how it is to date a pain in the ass according to you, intellect is seen as a vice, a girl should adjust in Seema aunty's terminology!! But the truth is that men are insecure if they know that the girl they are dating is brighter than them.
@@pallavithukral2012
Let me be more precise with words ; She's not "Self assured" , *She's masculine* & masculine women are turn off for men Becouse opposite attracts ! (If you're straight) Women don't even realize it that they are just becoming like men day by day hence loss of attraction in a long run
They should embrace their femininity It's healing & nurturing that's why Men love their mothers more than anything. And No men don't like to date dumb girls -_- you've come across wrong guys I guess
@@WhiteMetal_ define masculine
@@WhiteMetal_ I have come across my share of wrong guys but right now I'm with the most beautiful soul in this world who let's be me whoever I am masculine or feminine. And just giving compliments to fellow women doesn't mean that I'm not straight.
Please don’t EVER stop making these.
Humbly,
70-30% person
Leaning on the?
@@trevorPhillips284masculine side 🧐
Why any relationship doesn't work:
1. When both people don't have an equal say or feel equally heard.
2. When making the other person feel good is your responsibility
100% true. Individuality is must!
The way jim is talking about all these topics is truly commendable!
Enjoyed this free flowing conversation between two open minded people
We need more of this series!! Also, please make it a longer segment, didn't want it to end so soon : (
Can we please discuss topics like these more often? Jim & Zoya ❣
Loved this healthy... uncompetitive....easy, conversation between a man and a woman.... thank you for this video. Rest in peace chivalry and feminism... its done n dusted. Want to watch more of such content.
Rip feminism? That is what is enabling these conversations today :)
Do u even understand what Feminism is?
Poor lady
@@sujanikoya2826 that'what I m saying 😂
People just don't even use their brains... before commenting
They want to look cool😎
What a fantastic conversation with two fantastic speakers!! 💖 Also, can we appreciate the production here? Its got such good vibes 🤌🏼
WE NEED MORE OF THESE BUMBLE 💛
Men calling out toxic behaviour 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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@Jana Ranio h gc o
This conversation just brings another level of calm and satisfaction to the day!
When she said " a bit too much " that right there itself is the problem. We're learning to let our emotions out slowly but then some women make us feel like we're way too clingy. And just like that we're never able to fully open up because then we're conceived as being too needy :)
Yeah ofc, blame women only once again for facing changes while breaking the standards patriarchy created. Why is it that you think you're entitled to women's space only? You could let your emotions in front of men too.
Don't consider women dumb, they know exactly when men cross lines from being healthily emotional to becoming emotionally abusive or creepy. This may feel harsh but we have years of experience of dealing with problematic men who don't have a sense of boundaries and trust me, we know the difference.
@@SR-em8wl po po
Bulls eyes.
Well you just need to change the woman in that case. Men have the habit of blaming their lack of being emotionally available on women but usually it's their relationship with their parents. Majority of men don't have father's they can look upto or fathers respecting and loving their women loudly so it's hard for them. It has nothing to do with who you are dating mostly
Amazing production value! Need more content like this around.
Loved this conversation. Just seemed like 2 normal people trying to understand things for the better. Very rare kind of thing to do in a world where it seems like the media is always leveraging people's mental complexes to sensationalize societal issues. Loved Zoya's point about how it feels like no one talked to the boys, and now they are lost. I love how Jim is so secure with himself.
WOW. what a fantastic conversation and SO refreshing to hear a man this secure❤
We want more of this pls!!!
NEED A PART 2.0 WITH JIM & ZOYA!!!
What an amazing free-flowing informative conversation!
What an amazing conversation !!
Totally loved it
This is an amazing series!!!! Loved itt
Loved this conversation!
Do more of these with Jim 🩷
Nowww this concept and everything we need more of this content.
Something is up between him and Zoya.
She is such an intellectual that Jim seems like a perfect match for her.
Both at par with each other. Their conversation is wow
omg, jim sarbh is vibing so well with me ! relaxed, all the right points
Wow!! We need to hear more conversations like this!
Zoya makes such clear and concise points when it comes to gender roles in today's society.
thank you for ths gift!
Jim is so charismatic 😍
1:51 the women changed but no one spoke to the boys. Bang on...
I am suddenly reminded of this 🎵song... Which zoya shud sing for herself - "Hit pe hit mein maarda phiru"... Always zoya... How... And her sense of humor is as great as Javed ji
We need more series like this! @bumble
But who's gonna call out her toxic femininity, treat the issue not the gender. All this should be gender neutral, just don't be toxic human.
Joya akhtar has great and confident eye contact skills.
Loved it! Chivalry in 2022. Calling out bullshit🌼
great work
Such an intelligent and progressive realistic conversation i see both these mega talents in their respective arena of work..A lot of stars should put their foot down from the grand luxury n offer some wisdom springing forth from realistic hearts.. Like Toxic Patterns..
Fantastic song just awesome and video is also too good plus song
Jim is such a brilliant, beautiful man!
Come on! Give Jim a film Zoya.... Pleaseeeee... Such a fine actor needs to be casted frequently.
Super interesting!!!
congrats whole team
so awesome song vry good
Loved it 👍
Absolutely love this!!
What songs are playing in bg?
Yo so what's the etiquette when you find someone you know on bumble? Do you swipe left or just like?
nice mature conversation :)
Moreover, sports is aggressive, and men hold the majority of it - which is why they feel okay or socially established in that atmosphere to cry and express emotions freely
Incredible
nice one track
I ship them both.
Is it just me or anyone else is also weirdly shipping the both of them?
Jim is Gem.
Meaning conversation
Good 👍
song Composer my fv
I see similarities between Jim Sarbh and Naseeruddin Shah.
#justiceforwomen #justiceforowmen
Your confusion can be best solved if you have a candid convo with Andrew Tate.
Jim ❤
The lack of men in the comment section makes me a little sad, but here's to keeping faith.
2.2 Million views and just 66 comments? What’s going on here? Is bot population in YT is more than Twitter now?
Dude, people have poor writing skills these days, particularly on such sensitive new topics.
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Big boys club ..omg.. its so there
10:44 I would melt if he did that to me in middle of our conversation
Male is Biological man with xy chromosomes and female is biological female with xx chromosomes. There, i answered it for you.
The fact that these morden people cannot keep a relationship is a big red flag.
Wait, I thought Zoya Akhtar identified as a Lesbian and was in a relationship with another director/producer. Is she bi-sexual then? pansexual?
Or Sadly…straight?
W .f
No. 😂😂👉🤡🤡
Don't like this shit tho ...
Two confused person talking about how confused the world is.. You have a platform that doesn't mean you can say anything you want..saying men is this and that is cool nowadays.. I have seen females shouting about importance of using pads in an rich area with 100% literacy fearing to go in a slum for the same XD lol. Don't know who is confused.
definitely you with incomplete information.
Yeah ok. Thank you.
It's easy. You are confused!
Cringy to see a good actor simping to a hyper feminist director. I love her films but I hope this wokeness isn’t coming to India to ruin the country. It’s fucked up US and Canada enough. Let’s keep it in the west.
I hate being called a feminist. I believe in equality, 100%. But I won’t be a simp! Never!
wow now that's the kind of conversation we need more 🤍🤍
great work
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