Grey's Anatomy - Richard and Ellis - 3.14
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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- "And you there every night to come home to..." Aww, I really love this.
Ok, so this is not a Burke-Cristina scene. But this scene is just so moving, it brought tears to my eyes, and I can't help but share it with the world. Really, really amazingly BEAUTIFUL scene. I love Kate Burton and James Pickens.
It breaks my heart how much she loved Richard. That love ruined her.
In this moment Ellis sees Mer's happiness and feels regret. Thats... wow
Does she tho? Cause She's narcassistic as hell
This is the last scene that Ellis is lucid in. I feel sorry for Meredith because the last time they spoke while she was lucid they were fighting and when she tries to reconcile with her mother, her lucidity is gone.
she didnt know how to interact with Meredith, that was the point in the episode, to show what their relationship was like before. Ellis was a piece of work.
Richard definitely loved Ellis, but he also loved Adele too. Adele's death broke his heart that even pictured them in their wedding outfits dancing together.
I wished she loved Meredith as much as she loved Richard
i totally agree with you. no matter how many times i see this scene it breaks my heart on so many levels. it is the classic "what if" scene and conversation of what might have been. i think it resonates because we probably all have a path not taken moment in our lives that haunts us.
have you ? 13 years after this comment, do you have any not taken moments that haunts you til this day ?
@@anitaira7232 yes
@@gammaraygus That was a brave answer, Gemma. I respect that. Me too; I gather many of us who’ve lived through immense pain or loss all have our what ifs - the possible happy endings we imagine may bring us to a better place in this very moment in time.
I believe it’s always good to have hope of brighter days, it keeps us going. And, should we persevere, one or more of those happy endings can still be realised. Perhaps with different people ~ ones who’ve supported the journey, who appreciate dark nights of the soul & cherish the quality/value of a human being within. Wherever you are in life’s journey, I pray you’ll always have peace, love and wholesome company.
@@linettelow peace be with you as well!
This scene is so sad and so wonderful in the same time. Meredith's life would be so different if Richard chose Ellis instead of Adele. Mer would have had a father growing up, a mom who will be there not the cold Ellis without feelings and a couple of siblings.
ellis was a cold person with and without Richard.
She wasn't cold with Richard, tho. She was firm but not cold. She had evident warmth for Richard (and, to a point, her patients).I think she was naturally not very maternal but it was compounded by the fact that she never really loved Thatcher ... and because Richard kept on using Meredith as the excuse of why they could not be together.
There's an episode that shows how Mer's life would have been if Richard had chosen Ellis
season 8 ep 13
So screw her dad because these 2 cheating POS fell in love? I like how people so easily forget how shitty Ellis was to her own daughter over Richard. F her. Least likable character on the show
I guess this wouldn't have been the time to tell him about the daughter she put up for adoption. I know the seeds were planted throughout the series but it still seems at times that the lost daughter plot device was just thrown in
True, it does. But when Richard is finally empathising with her, maybe she wouldn't have wanted to bring up about his baby that she never wanted in the first place. That's the only logical explanation.
I think it's pretty clear that Maggie wasn't planned and was only created to replace Lexi
Ellis may have been lucid but not lucid enough to remember giving birth to richards daughter Maggie in boston when she took that fellowship
We all know these story writers don't think that far ahead. Maggie was just another character created to fill out the cast.
@daddysenpai408 definitely,both Lexie and Maggie were annoying love beggers and tried force Meredith to love them from day 1 like they were raised all childhood together. For her they were strangers, you don't love stranger immediately just because the beg you. I'm glad they both left.
This scene never fails together me because you know he loves her but he had to do the right thing by his wife. This and after she dies and he's there talking to her. Every time the chief and Ellis were together was great. One of my favorite things about the early years.
It wasnt out of duty tho. His heart broke when Adele died, he loved her the most. He would've always chosen Adele, he loved Ellis too but not like Adele. His jealousy towards Elli's professional success was stronger than his love towards her. Ellis having a kid was only an excuse for him to bail on her without telling her the truth that he loved his wife more.
Richard is so right. Kids need family. I'm an only child and I can't tell you how much I want a sibling.
You’re not missing much. Trust me.
I feel like the show missed out on something by killing Ellis off so soon. A) Ellen and Kate rocked their scenes. B) We would have gotten a bigger picture of how Meredith grew up to be where she is now. C) I often wonder what it would have been like to see Ellis teach Meredith all the things she knew.
The show would’ve been better with Ellis in the first few seasons with her being lucid and having a different disease
1:14 anyone foreshadowing Maggie? Here's Richard talking about their kids & 8 years later he found he did have a kid with Ellis.
Viviana Soliz glad I'm not the only one who thought that.
Sad as hell
technically Richard got a (step)son (Jackson) and a daughter (Maggie)
I was CRYING inside like come on Shonda, one beautiful moment btw them. I was HOPING 4 MORE.
One of the best scenes on GA ever!
One of the best sources on GA ever!
This is somewhat off-topic, but it’s scary and heartbreaking to see the effects of Alzheimer’s. What’s even worse is the waves of lucidity that suddenly come on- the person becomes totally aware of what’s going on and might even have some understanding of their situation.
TV shows dramatize things a lot, but if you’ve witnessed a loved one live with it- this can be pretty accurate. It’s one of the few diseases on this earth that you can truly call tragic and hopeless.
I just realised, Cristina said the same thing before she leave. "I'm not finished". Meredith was right, her mother was a Cristina.
Strongest feeling ever ❣️ to go back n have that lil daydream of how things would have been!
I love this scene, one of the best on Greys anatomy ever (:
Ellis should have never died! Too bad Derek's plan for treating Alzheimer's had never been blacklisted and that he had tried to find a cure before meeting Meredith, and that Ellis was one of the candidates on the trial and that it worked-- Alzheimer's completely gone... Then... She could have had the rest of her life with Richard... Maybe they could have gotten married?! And he finally chose her over Adele?! 💔💔💔
What about their daughter...
There is no cure for Alzheimer's all that medicine was supposed to do was relieve the symptoms a little.
The fact that Ellis did have Richard's child after she left is wild. I will never understand why Ellis never told Richard at this moment. Keeping his child hidden from him for years
I really liked ellis ... and sometimes i miss her.. I never liked Adele and i think that richard never loved her the way he loved Ellis.He chose Adele only because this was supposed to be the right thing. And I am pretty sure that Richard regrets all the time for the choise he made.
I like Ellis more than Richard
This scene gets me over every time especialy when Ellis says that her life is unfinished.
He should have stayed with her .
I like Adele and Ellis, but this scene was a major milestone in Richards/Ellis's relationship and should have expanded on it
MerDer GA I totally agree with u
I love Ellis too! She the only interesting character in the show right now. Hope they can bring in Kate for more flashbcks in S14. Yeah I definitely like her more than Richard. Especially after rewatching 11x04 and seeing the carosuel flashback. I wanted them to be together so badly at least we got the AU episode.
+Chrissy Brown Ellis and Webber was a dam good story and I think that shonda wasted what I though was great as a story line killing Ellis off was stupid all that material that could have been done with those two and also I would have wrote it where Burke and Hahn had a sexual relationship at John Hopkins that went bad because of them both being so competitors trying to be first in the class and that why they respectively dislike each other and she also should have gotten Isaiah and Sandra to comeback and do a two-part episode to show what it would have been like if Burke and yang had went down the aisle In season three and later on she gave Burke a child those storylines are three I would've love to have seen
+Chrissy Brown shonda should do two what if storyline what if Ellis and Webber had got together and married and what if burke and yang had got married in season three give both storylines at least two or three episodes because I would love to see how life would've been like if burke and Cristina had married and Webber as a father figure two Meredith and her two sibblings I was a fan of the show but stopped watching it after season three when they killed off Ellis and wrote off BURKE and I still say that burke and yang deserving of a spin-off should've happened
Even though it’s just a show, it’s so damn real. Women in general put way too much of their heart into the idea of finding that “happily ever after” with a man. When in reality it’s really not the amazing fantasy it’s made out to be. Love your children. Love your career. Love your mom. Never love a man more than those 3. Ever. You can love a man....but you can’t love a man more than the others in your life or you will end up unhappy in the long run.
I spent a decade with a man who I truly loved. Then we divorced and now I’m truly happier than ever because I found myself. A woman will never truly find herself and become whole if she shares her heart with a man
(or woman 🙄). Women can’t do both. You either love your kids and your self...or you love a man. And men are not the right choice. Ellis Grey chose a man over her life and her daughter. Look how she turned out. Dying alone and pathetic. This is a show. But this is the reality for so many women in real life.
I wish Ellis didn't die
I could listen to James Pickens tall all day long
I call him the Morgan Freeman of Grey's Anatomy 😂
So sad...she was surely thinking about Maggie...
That part
am so glad you posted this. i have been looking for this scene for a long time. absolutely love it. brings tears to my eyes every time i see it. thanks again!
I hate Shonda. I need Ellis flashbacks in S14 ugh. I wanted her to be with Webber so badly. Hate Adele after rewatching the third time. Nothing's ever fair.
I realize it was in probably not even an idea in the show yet but the fact that she knew about Maggie when Weber brought up kids and she said nothing tells you what kind of person she was. Not someone to mourn
ikr! its soo sad :((( and in the future, Adele h
gets Alzheimers too...... poor Richard :(
Dammit, Richard... What could of been...
I wish they could have had a second chance they would have been so amazing together. Why did he have to pick Adele over her? It's not fair!!! I want Ellis BACK!
i was able to answer my own question. the song is called "believer" and is sung by susanna and the magic orchestra. beautiful song...
Omg this is so sad having endless boundless amounts of love 4someone so much so that ur blinded 2 blind to see that thier love or thier feelings4 u is no where near the same its so sad that you could fall for someone who never ever felt the same about u. I dont mean them specifically but this makes me think about diff scenarios n life n general it is so sad love can b sooooooooo beautiful and just perfect but it can also be a punishment or a drug or handcuffs to a lifetime sentence of misery and u never know until u fall
This scene hits different after knowing about Maggie.
oh, and she remembers everything?
In Alzheimer’s, sometimes there is moments of lucidity where the person knows what is going around them and is aware of everything.
(You just might know this already because it’s been over a decade since this comment, but I just wanted to let you know.)
I never understood how it was early onset when shes wayyyy gone and never had lucid moments, like even here she has no idea they had a daughter together.
Alzheimer’s is incredibly strange.. lucidity comes and goes in waves. You can remember things altogether or only partially.
My grandmother didn’t recognize her family and couldn’t tell you where she lived.. one night she woke up at 2am to wish me a happy birthday. She hadn’t known my name for three years by this point, but woke out of her sleep knowing my name, that I was her grandson, and that it was my 20th birthday. The next morning, she knew nothing around her again. It’s equally fascinating and tragic.
Fronm my understanding she was diagnosed in her late 40s which young... all early onset means is that it started occurring earlier than the majority of other cases
I remember that too!
She had wanted to be extraordinary for so long which made her miss out on so much joy and happiness then years later when it’s too late she realized that she should have chosen a different path - be a mom to Meredith, marry Richard and have kids with him, and be chief in residence. She placed too much of an emphasis on her work instead of also focusing on other things and people. It just shows you to never rule out anything out
wasn't there more about saying they miss the kids but they're secretly glad they're gone because they can run around naked?
Wow, that's like a miracle... My grandpa had Alzheimers but that neva happened 2 him!!! Lucky fing :)
Thnx 4 that. Suzanne x x x x
I search POLO, Richard has got a specific polo and i want this ! A idea ?
does anyone know the name of the song and artist that is playing in the background of this scene? is beautiful and haunting at the same time...
Is something cut from this? I could swear that someone said something about 'we could walk around naked' and it seemed kind of out of place... anybody else? Anybody?
Yes they cut that scene
THE BEST PART OF THE SCENE WAS CUT ;)
I think you can find that in the internet
0:30
Ellis Grey BAby Ellis
I’ve never watched all of greys anatomy cause we don’t have Netflix but who is Meredith’s dad?
It’s Ellis previous husband Thacher Grey.
This is such a sad scene. When they talk about getting Mer a couple siblings, it makes me think how different she would be had Richard had left Adele. She would've had a father-figure, her mother wouldn't have been so nasty, she would have had siblings...it's all very sad.
Also, can't help but think about the Ellis/Cristina mirroring they do...they make you think Cristina is going to be the one that has to choose between surgery and a life. But she'll find she can do both...with Owen :)
Does she not hav Alzheimers anymore? She remembers evafin... im from UK so havnt seen season 3. But its as if she hasnt got Alzheimers anymore?