The olders ruined my life

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024

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  • @jonathanmorrison1705
    @jonathanmorrison1705 Před 4 lety +200

    Hi Bobby, I'm a london prison officer and I try and pass on your experience, lessons and insight to as many of the young men as possible. This one is another lesson that hits the nail on the head. We had a young man that was paid at 16 to chuck acid on someone. He's just been released after 5 years. He got used like so many others. For a lot of the guys I'm honest with them and tell them their views won't change till they hit rock bottom but ask them to try and at least reach out to their yongers and give them a heads up.
    I rate your thing alot, big respect.

    • @mistereuro
      @mistereuro Před 4 lety +20

      5 years for chucking acid on Someone😮, no doubt the victim is mentally & physically scarred for life . I hope it wasn't on their face.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety +4

      God bless you brother 🙏

    • @enki647
      @enki647 Před 4 lety +4

      Money gets to these kids heads man

    • @jonathanmorrison1705
      @jonathanmorrison1705 Před 4 lety +2

      @@mistereuro it was actually 10 years but he served 5 and will be on licence for another 5

    • @jonathanmorrison1705
      @jonathanmorrison1705 Před 4 lety +4

      @@jackbrown9373 I know what you are saying but from what I've seen 20% are good kids who made a mistake. Another 20% are hardend kids who are fully about that life and theres 60% in the middle who could fall either way. Those are the ones I try to spend time on. The 20% of "bad" kids all I can do is try to be consistent and show them that not everyone in the system is waste and show them that some will never give up on them.

  • @wise1889
    @wise1889 Před 4 lety +57

    The freedom that comes with living a legit life is priceless

  • @AI-tc8fv
    @AI-tc8fv Před 4 lety +116

    Ngl the manipulation techniques these olders have is actually commendable. I've experienced it a bit and it's such an endearing feeling when they give you ratings. Worse yet if you ain't got a father figure.

    • @mysteriousshopper1177
      @mysteriousshopper1177 Před 4 lety +16

      I dont think that's the word you meant my guy. Its definitely not commendable.

    • @icecold4085
      @icecold4085 Před 4 lety +32

      @@mysteriousshopper1177 it is not commendable In that sense. What he meant was the art of manipulation that they OG's use is commendable because of how cunning and sly it really is. Context brother.

    • @NoeticInsight
      @NoeticInsight Před 4 lety +6

      @@icecold4085 That's still not the right word to use, even in that context.

    • @AI-tc8fv
      @AI-tc8fv Před 4 lety +5

      @@NoeticInsight yeah I did mean commendable, how that guy explained it ^ the goal and the result aren't exactly commendable but the techniques they use and how they use it are no doubt crazy to watch, they know what makes each boy tick and they play them flawlessly

    • @Seannn94
      @Seannn94 Před 4 lety +8

      @@AI-tc8fv Exactly.. "This lad has never any P, lives with his younger bro and his mum. No father figure, maybe he needs one. Smokes weed, where's he getting the weed? Ah! I know, I'll give him it for next to nothing. Now he's my younger and now he's due me" - bro, lol You can see it everyday

  • @BenDover-pj5gm
    @BenDover-pj5gm Před 4 lety +46

    I can relate. I jumped off anything illegal when I knew I was gonna be a dad. Certain people who I thought were my 'friends' have disappeared because I ain't into all them fuckeries anymore

    • @a.v.london1952
      @a.v.london1952 Před 4 lety +2

      It's good you see who are your real friends are! Keep focused my g! 💯☝🏾

    • @aseyeseait
      @aseyeseait Před 4 lety +6

      People disappearing is a part of the growth. They make space for better people to appear

  • @alexharrison5426
    @alexharrison5426 Před 4 lety +23

    Honestly you are one of the most interesting/knowledgeable people in this space. The message you are putting out there needs to be heard by a lot more people. Please don’t stop.

  • @BackpackingFootsteps
    @BackpackingFootsteps Před 4 lety +5

    That Mike GLC tune rings true the older you get man! " you see how times past, couple questions to my olders I would love to ask. Like you knew are lives would turn out fucked and all the bullshit you was showing us wouldnt emerge to much!" Tune still bangs now.

  • @MRmillitant
    @MRmillitant Před 4 lety +81

    Yo they should give you a talk show on channel 4 or something

    • @s93_
      @s93_ Před 4 lety +3

      @gully REAL TALK!

  • @jxmmy3691
    @jxmmy3691 Před 4 lety +5

    I swear this the only guy telling it how it is this needs to get round. It's a madness out there youngers feeling like the road culture is the way to go killing eachother for nothing!. Respect bro

  • @chrysblack7901
    @chrysblack7901 Před 4 lety +5

    100% spot on man... I had beef with a boy because of someone else i had beef with and we ended up having 3 fights in about 10 minutes... Eventually his boys we're putting the boot in and then out the blue a pal of mine dropped me a HUGE spanner of which i put across the boys head who was on top of me about 3 or 4 times to get him off and split his his head wide open... For years we would see each other from a distance and scowl at each other, then one day i went up into a flat to score some smoke and 5 mins after that this same lad who id ahad beef with walked in to get some smoke himself... After an awkward few seconds he pulled me to the side and said "All that madness in the past... Lets just forget about it yeah" and put his hand out... We shock hands and ever since then we just give the nod exactly like you just said on here man.... Lifes to short to play games and fight all ya life... I used to love a fight and always used to itch to scrap anyone that even looked at me wrong for yearsssss..... Eventually we grow up and become men.... Id rather walk away now and I've even pull friends out of situations to avoid the same drama... Its not worth it my friends... Anyways respect again for another vid that hits close to home on days gone by ✌️💖💯

  • @lulurama3010
    @lulurama3010 Před 4 lety +6

    I'm so glad someone is being real about this Road life....its not a joke and too many man using kids to do they're dirty business. 😤🤬

  • @smelterganz7523
    @smelterganz7523 Před 3 lety +1

    This the best video yet!!! Speaking directly to us! Making us think proper!!!

  • @MrStratacat
    @MrStratacat Před 4 lety +8

    So much respect for you man. Real talk 👊

  • @ElliotGallagher4321
    @ElliotGallagher4321 Před 4 lety +9

    When is this guy gonna get his own podcast man. I’m white as snow but all this stuff applies in every aspect of life. Very knowledgeable guy. Speaks straight facts

  • @qualityoverquantity9896
    @qualityoverquantity9896 Před 4 lety +2

    TRUTH AND FACTS 💯 RESPECT BRO, EXCELLENT PLATFORM ⚖☯️👌🏽

  • @UKMUSICTV
    @UKMUSICTV Před 3 lety +3

    Perfectly said. This speech should be nominated for a Nobel peace award still.

  • @mgyzee8560
    @mgyzee8560 Před 4 lety +25

    Be the leader not a sheep 💯

  • @prosluer6511
    @prosluer6511 Před 4 lety +2

    This is real talk
    I have seen this 1st hand but the elder got 30 plus and the juvenile got 20
    Salute king for the positive work 👊🖤

  • @CopDat72Promos
    @CopDat72Promos Před 4 lety +2

    BOBBY KASANGA is one tremendous brother... Peace love n prosperity to you SIR!!

  • @veganvengeance9271
    @veganvengeance9271 Před 4 lety +6

    Them elders have their own code when it comes to man like doctor.
    "After me nah idiat, hey hey hey
    You better know seh
    When the cops arrive
    don't contact me"
    😂

  • @abarinakandi7730
    @abarinakandi7730 Před 4 lety +29

    Sj needed to watch this 🤦🏾

  • @randyosei9153
    @randyosei9153 Před 4 lety +146

    People are more loyal to the streets than their own mums

    • @PropertyBySM
      @PropertyBySM Před 4 lety +10

      Lots of man need to hear this

    • @ragetype1303
      @ragetype1303 Před 4 lety +10

      And then they still snitch on their bredrin

    • @dylan6679
      @dylan6679 Před 4 lety +3

      People r loyal to them selfs over the streets or their mum

    • @s93_
      @s93_ Před 4 lety +3

      @randy osei Its fucked up and wrong but there's so many complex reasons for that in most cases

    • @enki647
      @enki647 Před 4 lety +1

      Khadeem Smith word it’s not as black and white as people make it out

  • @s93_
    @s93_ Před 4 lety +2

    TRUE WORDS!! Keep these kind of videos coming respect to you Bobby👊🏾

  • @AJAY9333
    @AJAY9333 Před 4 lety +2

    100% true. personal experience. Thanks. keep up the work man!

  • @ethang7784
    @ethang7784 Před 4 lety +3

    Realist talk uno❤️ missed age 15 and 16 been locked n there no point cause u don’t get that time back. I’m 17 now n still won’t be fully free til 18 n I can say it ain’t worth it

  • @stockslim6733
    @stockslim6733 Před 4 lety +17

    Too real bobby this happens in ends generation after generation, but at that age you don’t really look not like that mindset isn’t tuned in,

  • @paulsutherland8397
    @paulsutherland8397 Před 4 lety +1

    Keep it up bobby great job positive vibe . Manners and respect . 💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @righthandgas909
    @righthandgas909 Před 4 lety +2

    If anybody can stop these UK kids war with each other its you mate. Why are you the only person ever I'm seeing saying this? Pride. Pride gets you killed. Ain't none of these rappers swallowing theirs. Ain't none of these rappers promoting squashed beef to prevent and set the correct example. You give a 15 year old a set of headphones and a harlem spartan play list and a social media platform and wonder why they shed each others blood for jokes? Every video I agree with what you say. Love your work man, you should be played in schools and colleges for real, love

    • @AA-py3qn
      @AA-py3qn Před 4 lety

      Nah but Giggs is really out here telling these youts to stop

  • @AP-ik7gv
    @AP-ik7gv Před 4 lety +6

    yo bigup urself for that recent achievement w nike/roma and that fam you deserve it keep grindin my bro 100

  • @jaypayne8196
    @jaypayne8196 Před 4 lety +2

    That's real talk!!! The youngers really don't know how to squash it 15 years ago beef was squashed all the time reason being there were some strong elders that came out of the 90s!!

  • @kloxman86
    @kloxman86 Před 4 lety +17

    Real message here it reminds of Ill manors when my man got this yg to duppy that guy that stripped him naked in the alley but I have no sympathy for that yg because he snaked his own boy just to get draw and to roll with the olders

  • @ItsLotto
    @ItsLotto Před 4 lety +10

    Instantly thought about SJ... Sad story to many young man being brainwashed!

    • @AhmedHassan-vq8ou
      @AhmedHassan-vq8ou Před 4 lety +7

      He wasn't used . That dude wanted to prove himself so bad he got lost in this persona that he had of himself.

    • @user-ec9yu1ep2j
      @user-ec9yu1ep2j Před 3 lety +1

      @@AhmedHassan-vq8ou That's exactly how he was used. They prayed on his motivation to make a name for himself, so encouraged him into doing so.
      It's literally how olders have the power - the kids want to prove themselves. They prey on that naivety.

  • @shakespeareansofthegalaxy2558

    Moral of the story 3 plus guys riding life for sneakbo, while hes free on a jetski wave.

    • @veganvengeance9271
      @veganvengeance9271 Před 4 lety

      Wow.

    • @namename946
      @namename946 Před 4 lety

      😭😂🤔 Ffree him up ffs

    • @Ldn4455
      @Ldn4455 Před 4 lety

      Ain’t they out soon

    • @AA-py3qn
      @AA-py3qn Před 4 lety +3

      Ain't one lie told. And they all riding the maddest birds. But please remember RIP Zac. Knife crime back then was similar levels

    • @NonameJ14
      @NonameJ14 Před 4 lety

      Veteranone the only that’s out soon is Jkid got 5 years left

  • @theadventuresofjimmy5543
    @theadventuresofjimmy5543 Před 4 lety +6

    True spill it’s a sad reality only a certain few call their own shots

  • @htruth1785
    @htruth1785 Před 3 lety +1

    So many young people need to hear this.

  • @abdimajidcaydiid110
    @abdimajidcaydiid110 Před 4 lety +4

    Just look at how Rwanda has move on from the madness in 1990s

  • @thebizness5596
    @thebizness5596 Před 4 lety +5

    Most times they’ll do the madness out of love for the older or to get points. They won’t even get paid and if they do it’s peanuts compared to the 20+ yrs they’ll do in pen.

  • @kenosentity6455
    @kenosentity6455 Před 4 lety +2

    Baare "olders" have tried to recruit me but either I was dispositioned/inconvenienced some how or I saw through flattering lips. I'm glad I stayed on my ones regarding fully joining gangs.

  • @winnersneverqult
    @winnersneverqult Před 3 lety +1

    4:06 its as if he was in jail with me bmttt. The accuracies are on pointtt! The part about the govs opening the doors for social or dinner in the morning is spot on. The only things you can look forward to on your day in jail is Soch, Lunch, Education and dinner. After dinner and bang up happens. You have nothing but the next day to look forward to bmt. And the worst thing is when its summer and the sun wont go down. Just makes you think ffs whats my girl doing in this heat. You will be pissed fam. Listen to bobby and avoid all this. It is not worth it. I couldnt even watch love island cus it just makes me think my girl is doing a madness. Sick of The same shit playing on NPR and watching police interceptors every single day. It was too shit. AVOID JAIL.

  • @justdean5871
    @justdean5871 Před 4 lety +5

    Man's right when the olders can't benfit from you roll on the next doctor no love on the roads. Young men fix up and think sharp

  • @melly_merk9589
    @melly_merk9589 Před 4 lety +5

    this is the best thing ive heard, that England vs Germany world war exapmple is good it gave me hope in my age mates thanks for making this video ithis needs to go viral.>>>>>

  • @KS-lu9lu
    @KS-lu9lu Před 4 lety +1

    This nigga needs a series or suttin💯

  • @lucasmazzoli4426
    @lucasmazzoli4426 Před 4 lety +4

    Yeah ur a legend for speaking dis truth

  • @fundementalroast7002
    @fundementalroast7002 Před 3 lety +2

    God bless you bro!

  • @RUSH-js2vp
    @RUSH-js2vp Před 4 lety +1

    To be onnest alot people I grew with from Southwark got crash out by the ogs but alot of time they got forced to do it but they pride so high dey will never admit it till this day

  • @namename946
    @namename946 Před 4 lety +9

    Yg,s are like the army.. You send them in, in hight numbers expecting death.. And older are marines only go into to low risk tasks or tasks we're there out come will be low amount of deaths..
    Arrmy has loads of people for a reason.. They expect them to die.
    Marines go in, in small numbers.

  • @Unknown-gz8dt
    @Unknown-gz8dt Před 3 lety +1

    A lot of the ygs need to hear this

  • @apowerz8845
    @apowerz8845 Před 4 lety

    Real talks with the little banter. Keep it real my g

  • @KH-si8ce
    @KH-si8ce Před 4 lety +1

    Big man ting bobby talking facts these man just dnt listen and it’s sad cause or brothers are lost out here

  • @AAaa-bs7xf
    @AAaa-bs7xf Před 4 lety +1

    Well said. Keep up the hard work broski. We went to the same secondary school 😂😂😂

  • @Valter-Andrade
    @Valter-Andrade Před 4 lety +15

    This is a tough pill to swallow for some

  • @ShadowMoon96
    @ShadowMoon96 Před 4 lety +4

    This is basically SJ riding for RV and Headie one

  • @angusetkind503
    @angusetkind503 Před 4 lety +13

    Get on Shaun attwood or James English asap

  • @mysteriousshopper1177
    @mysteriousshopper1177 Před 4 lety +4

    The way you drop it. Every younger needs to see your videos. I know people doing life because of this.

  • @Funkymonkey313
    @Funkymonkey313 Před 3 lety

    Good video lad.... Gotta look after number 1 screw everybody else

  • @faridh9915
    @faridh9915 Před 3 lety

    Brother this video is amazing really needs to be spread, could help with a lot of people, you talking nothing but facts

  • @riot4557
    @riot4557 Před 4 lety +4

    “Eye for an eye everyone goes blind” 🥶

  • @thegameschanged1248
    @thegameschanged1248 Před 4 lety +1

    Bobby fully the only one with the gumption to tell the truth about the falsehoods in that life

  • @amantek3545
    @amantek3545 Před 4 lety +47

    Doctor is on Job seekers
    allowance

    • @bighas96
      @bighas96 Před 4 lety +4

      Nah he's doing 25 stretch 😂

  • @nnoo
    @nnoo Před 4 lety +2

    Good stuff man, well said.

  • @chrisdunne6202
    @chrisdunne6202 Před 4 lety +1

    I grew up in edmonton/wood green/edmonton and was often called a "pussyhole" by the "olders" for pointing out how stupid this gang shit is and I just stuck to playing guitar ,well im 30 now and I havent ever been shot or stabbed and I have a nice job so whos winning now :)

  • @Mxa1399
    @Mxa1399 Před 4 lety +1

    You probably won’t read this but your videos help me alot and keep me going

  • @humblegainz4692
    @humblegainz4692 Před 3 lety

    Facts. I know a man that got called out of his bed he came and put in the work and the breda that called him said why did you have to go that far.

  • @bano9325
    @bano9325 Před 4 lety +2

    Perfect Explanation!

  • @a.v.london1952
    @a.v.london1952 Před 4 lety +2

    Listen to this youngers he's speaking bear facts some olders
    Don't have your best interests at heart!!!

  • @ORJ-iu8dy
    @ORJ-iu8dy Před 4 lety +4

    After Headie got touched everyone thinks it was Rev that slapped it... nah not even close. Man got a a next man to do that then rap about it

  • @BlaxkEmpire
    @BlaxkEmpire Před rokem

    One reason I played solo was 'cause of elders manipulations.. you feel it deep inside your skin but you blinded by compliments and rewards. By the way I have a yungin 17-yrs old, smart boy but dumb Man, he used to beg me to take him on the road on sum mug sh*t)) but I never took him along 'cause I do have a f conscience and I wont sleep at peace when someone I care for when in Jail 'cause of my orders. A man should stand on his own and carry his cross alone - that's been real by definition all this gang gang ting is delusionary. period !!

  • @MYVIEWSTV
    @MYVIEWSTV Před 4 lety

    I live to hear someone say this respect 100%

  • @juniorshiluvana8121
    @juniorshiluvana8121 Před 4 lety +1

    Well it's true man I used to beef with as a 14 year old I don't beef with These days its straight time can heal

  • @suckurmomma2079
    @suckurmomma2079 Před 3 lety

    Honestly man these videos help out so much

  • @waynestewart3097
    @waynestewart3097 Před 3 lety +1

    Real talk bro

  • @HP-mk3yb
    @HP-mk3yb Před 4 lety +2

    Ngl this video reminded me of SJ OFB

  • @studentofknowledge3367
    @studentofknowledge3367 Před 4 lety +2

    Would love to see CRS and USG squash their beef

    • @NonameJ14
      @NonameJ14 Před 4 lety +2

      that one will never ever ever be squashed i’m all up for beef being settled but you see any NW beef such as CR vs South Killy it will never end

  • @kenaiello3145
    @kenaiello3145 Před 4 lety

    Bless you bro ❤️

  • @rickylee226
    @rickylee226 Před 4 lety +2

    All this guy talk is truthsssss

  • @thanors2
    @thanors2 Před 4 lety +1

    I have always said also there are way bigger wars or beefs then in the streets. Like bobby said look how America and UK and other nations are friends. These nations probably killed thousands of millions depending on the war yet allies. Yet guys on the street can't dead a beef it's childish and stupid. Plus you don't have to be friends with a former opp. Once these kids experience life find a girl or get money the anger goes away,there are more important things then beef. The only people who won't dead beef are people who got nothing or beef is the only way they can assert themselves. Cut those guys off because they destroy anything they touch

  • @teebee7374
    @teebee7374 Před 3 lety +1

    Blessup 🔥

  • @s_grind
    @s_grind Před 4 lety +1

    “This is what ur seeing “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @malcolmx4545
    @malcolmx4545 Před 4 lety

    Realist talk ever 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😎🦋🐝

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 Před 3 lety +1

    Pride is killing us....

  • @sosaslickz2759
    @sosaslickz2759 Před 4 lety +2

    Actually seen this happen time and time again in my life time

  • @kyledellow2018
    @kyledellow2018 Před 4 lety +1

    they way you say it is so true but funny still I no 100 that this is bang on

  • @themaroon3521
    @themaroon3521 Před 4 lety +2

    2 many mans life story 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️💀 Validation is a hell of a drug.

  • @marleysubscibe9031
    @marleysubscibe9031 Před 4 lety +2

    Yeah was there now I'm on my ones doing smart

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 Před 3 lety

    Every next time you see each other the fire stops burning LOL HAHAHAHAHAHA Time is the healer

  •  Před 3 lety

    Idk why i easily connected with this. Im Ghanaian American

  • @mattgorman9643
    @mattgorman9643 Před 4 lety +1

    Is true what you say,it’s pride that’s killing

  • @Ishisigma
    @Ishisigma Před 4 lety +1

    Time destroys everything

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 Před 3 lety

    Bobby with the real talk

  • @johnjenkins4788
    @johnjenkins4788 Před 4 lety

    I hope this don't go over there heads...

  • @tonyjeffers2606
    @tonyjeffers2606 Před 4 lety +1

    Loving the ww1 history lesson edutainment 😷 I am Micheal cane not a lot of people know that 😷🤣🤣😷😷

  • @user-rl8jx5wv1i
    @user-rl8jx5wv1i Před 4 lety

    nah beef will always continue you cant always make peace

  • @sosaslickz2759
    @sosaslickz2759 Před 4 lety

    It's sad but so so true💯

  • @levelofsnipes7378
    @levelofsnipes7378 Před 4 lety +1

    Basically don’t be an olders side chick

  • @cee5978
    @cee5978 Před 4 lety +2

    What’s dis guys Instagram cah I wanna talk to him

  • @SugeRealest
    @SugeRealest Před 4 lety +1

    100% truth

  • @Mark-ip7oq
    @Mark-ip7oq Před 4 lety

    We always need doctors

  • @dailydoseoflife4907
    @dailydoseoflife4907 Před 4 lety +4

    Trade secrets🤣😂

  • @IglooTv23
    @IglooTv23 Před 3 lety

    The older is on Bond Street with his wifey and the YG has to sit down so yeah YG's forget olders and just do ya ting.

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial Před 4 lety +1

    💯

  • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
    @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

    My neighbor was sending my girl sexual texts and I hit him 5 or 6 times with a extendable baton I got nicked and on bail till 15th October. It's my first violence offense. I've been charged for GBH and possession of an offensive weapon, he's got 2 massive cuts on his head.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

      @Robert Last it was on Facebook messenger

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

      @Robert Last my comment of removed?
      Yes mate his wife! And she's making out she's scared for her and her daughter's life even though the next day her little girl walked to school and back all week by herself. But now this week they have all gone away somewhere, she's trying to get me the worst sentence possible

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

      @Robert Last they deleted your comment! I was going to say that but it would be their word against mine, maybe I should've? I did tell them I only had it on me because someone was threatening me in the village and it was just a coincidence that I bumped into the guy I hit and his wife, which it was.

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

      @Robert Last I've got no violence on my record, but I did 1 year for agg burglary in 2011 and 3 months for driving offenses in 2002. Hopefully I won't do any bird for this, what do you reckon?

    • @TommoDobbo-dp1gu
      @TommoDobbo-dp1gu Před 4 lety

      @Robert Last it's too late to change my story now, I've already been interviewed. Maybe I can get it dropped to abh? You're though I should've said he pulled it on me.