Steve Decodes Confusing Text Messages From Men! 💬
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- čas přidán 22. 08. 2022
- When it comes to dating, sometimes it can be difficult to understand what a guy REALLY means from a text message? 🤳 So, Steve wanted to help by breaking down these cryptic exchanges so women understand a guy’s true intentions!
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If he's confusing you, move on.
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So how many times have women confused us by expecting us to be mind readers? So if we adopted that policy women would never have dates
Simple as that, why the big fuss?
@@farajicouncil4496 Game playing can be a 2 way street, but have direct communication and if someone plays games, end it there. Once boundaries are set, people will either stay in or out. If someone is out, they are OUT
You said it!
A lot of these messages aren't confusing, we just tend to believe what we want.
The most sensible response with the least likes. 🤦♀️
They were pretty clear in NOT responding in a “I want to know you more” response.
Hi..Kindly advice me on my comment
Most north American women are programmed to be naive about and too nice to men.
facts
😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣 That is so true.Like the purple 👿 saying I'm not sure.I think he doesn't want to go out with her anymore.
When you ask a guy if he wants to hang out again and his response is “I’m not sure”, there’s nothing confusing about that lol 😂
Right! I cringed at her texting to ask him that in the first place. Women really shouldn't chase. Most men don't like it and want to be the one who does the asking. In addition, they work together, and that's not a good idea either.
@@wordivore why is it a bad idea for women to chase?
I'm absolutely sure he wasn't interested in her as a person but was willing to sleep with her if she was up for it.
@@tajhill989 She won’t know if he really wants her or just going along for the ride.
@@tajhill989 because it rarely works out for women. And women end up with an endless parade of devastating heartbreaks from men that never wanted them in the first place.
I love the quote: "If he likes you, you'll know. If he's not into you, you'll be confused".
agree totally
spot on
Yes
"Please don't be amazed at the audacity of men."
Amen uncle Steve!
When you see foolishness!! Don’t forget that part.
@@briannabogans4608 yes!!
😂😂🤣ay but some of their audacity is truly amazing🤞🏾 I dont know why any of these women didn't think of blocking them
You mean just people not just man!
Aneela is a mature woman! She caught on to that guy's game!
Oh yes she did!
Aneela could be my mum
@@didi-dr1mj she’s 45. So how old are you?
@@dee27206 I saw her age on the screen, I m 20. I meant her character and reaction to the last message ...in a positive way ...
my mum would send the same
The second I sense issues I just stop responding. It’s so easy ladies. Literally just stop responding. Don’t even worry about doing it the “ right way”
Men are really good at convincing. Don’t leave the door open.
That’s the best way to handle it.
Exactly!!
Great advice!
or just block him and move on with your life..he wont even notice if he is sending texting group of women.
Exactly!!! The pain of finding out ur a statistics?! Nope… boy bye!!
I like the analogy Steve used of men setting traps and then coming back later to check and see if they've caught any women. If they find that you're still there responding to them and continuing to show interest in them after they've ignored you for days/weeks/months, then they know they've caught you. Their behavior is so childish. I agree with Aneeta, be the first to cut them off - don't let them waste your time with their game-playing.
So childish!!!!!!🙌🏾
Often they gaslight you back as if you misunderstood their intentions if you call them out. It's so incredibly immature. Thank you to the women that shared their texts so we can see how this is more than common place sadly....I pray all these beautiful women do find a man that is past all the games...life is too short for this kind of nonsense.
As much as I condone this and I believe what she went through is wrong, it goes BOTH ways. There are Men who will take women out on dates and the same women will abuse a mans wallet. A man offers a soda and a woman will buy soda, fries and chicken. This happened to my friend who even finished his money for transport. MOST of the men that treat you accordingly with respect and generosity are put in the friendzone unfortunatley.
One hundred percent. 💯 👍🏾
Definitely, it goes without sayin' too people's time/heart are precious, if your serious about someone, you will make an effort into investing some of into that person.... STOP WASTING AND TOILING WITH PEOPLE'S HEART AND TIME!!!
This was pre cell phone but my Dad told me that " the keeper" is the one who goes out of his way to spend time with you, calls when he says he will and keeps it up for more than a few weeks. I followed his advice and we've been married for 29 years.
You married your dad. Gross.
If I have to wonder if a man likes me, that’s the answer, he’s not that into you bro
No effort equals no interest . Low effort equals bread crumbing.
@@basicinfo2022 that’s a bar
Why should it always be men that put the effort? Women do nothing other than consume all the love from men and return nothing as a favor.
@@jadonlawrence4909 Women have to know men are into us. If she’s not worth the chase don’t bother.
@@jadonlawrence4909 When the woman puts in the effort to chase the man it rarely works out in her favor. Most of the time the relationship doesn't work out because the guy was not interested in her to begin with.
🤷🏽♀️What the hell was Whitney confused about? The red flags 🚩🚩 were all there. Plus he let her know that he wasn't interested in her when she asked to come over.
He was cheating on his girlfriend by seeing Whitney. She was the girl he was trying to cheat with. Whitney just didn't know that
@@shaelovesJesus , I agree
She just looked pass the truth and see just wanted to be on the show.
Manta Mocha . I am lawyer. .I don't get women clients. The red flags of cheating is often staring them in the face. I am often puzzled by y
My female clients ignore it.
@@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK , there are various reasons why people tend to ignore red flags. It differs with each individual. It happens with men as well but probably not as often as with women.
Men are always clear. It’s only unclear when women try to make their words mean something they didn’t say.
If he's sending mixed signals, then he's not that into you. And had other women on stand by.
Yep. Believe them. When they show you they aren’t serious…they mean that #*%!.
Men disappear when they are interested in someone else.
It’s just that simple. 🤷🏾♀️
You mean boys. Men are honest and don’t play games.
@@Harley08 You'd be surprised that some women do the same thing with men.
@@leesteal4458 Males are way more than the females. The Jezebel curse is in both genders.
@@Aftermyownheart very straightforward
If YOU are the one who has to ask to hang out, he's not into you keep it moving! If a man is into you there's no guessing or confusion. If he is into you and doesn't ask you out he's complicated and that's how your relationship will be RUN!
Damn straight
Idk if it's a have to be the one to ask. What if the lady wants to be the one to ask? Some men are actually shy and have self esteem issues. They don't ask first because of fear of rejection.
I would however only ask once. If it's a vague answer then its bye. A guy that's into you will respond that day with a clear answer.
False, and a touch sexist. It depends on each situation and person. A good example? What if the man (or woman) is having a shat week at work and is just stupidly busy even when off the clock. They may still have a lot of interest in you, but right then - since you're not married yet - you aren't on their mind since you aren't living together. People CAN get busy and simply lose track of time. Plus, romance and dating are supposed to be a two-way street. Both sides should be showing interest in each other.
Of course, now all of America is wondering what kind of response Macy got after sending that golden text message… 😂😂😂
At times it's good to give an ear to the other side
...I need to know!!!!
Hi..Kindly advice me on my comment
That comment was not golden. It was stupid.
@@leesteal4458 Nah, it was golden! LOL ✨🌟✨😆
Purple lady is so adorable. I would sew her wedding dress when she finds her soulmate.💜
That's very sweet!
She seems very sweet spirited.
No such thing as a soul mate
I love the 45yr old lady. Very classy and her response was right on👏👏👏👏
Macy went to happy hour with a coworker. She finds the guy attractive. Fine. At some point he texts, “Can’t wait to do happy hour again!”, but he never follows up. He never asks her out explicitly. Ladies, take the hint. Stop asking these guys out or saying ‘When are we going to do such-and-such?’ If a man is interested he will chase you, pursue you, and ask YOU out. If he doesn’t, MOVE ON.
Macy’s first mistake was asking, “Should we hang out again soon?” Steve should have told her that. Instead, he gives her terrible advice and things go downhill from there.
The guy responds with “I’m not sure.” It *REALLY* should have ended right there. There was absolutely NO reason to respond or continue interacting with this dude outside of normal co-worker stuff AT WORK and possibly hanging out *IN A GROUP SETTING* with other co-workers. He is clearly either not interested, has other obligations, is playing games, or all of the above. Either way, it should have been a WRAP.
Why is it wrong tho for a lady to show interest in a guy and follow up for a possible second date?
I am a woman, and I have to say these women are clueless. If a man likes you he WILL LET YOU KNOW THAT HE WANTS TO SEE YOU ASAP. None of these guys liked the girls. It was clear. and the first guy was actyually nice enough to let the clueless girl know he HAS A GIRLFRIEND AND WANTS NOTHING WITH THE CLUELESS ONE. SHEESH!!!!
@@lillianfortuin2983 If he is vague or confusing. IT is a NO from him. You can follow up and get the same vague answer because the guy doesn't care enough to communicate well. Just take the hint and move on
hasn't anyone watched the movie "HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU"?
I absolutely agree.
I just graduated from this stage where I had to decode these men and their messages, the Lord delivered me
Uncle Steve woke up and chose Violence for Macy 😂😂😂
I need this man as my relationship advisor.
People have forgotten how to communicate. Text messages convey so little. We're going backwards as a species.
ANSWER With Simple YES And No Answers OR Question/Questions Marks . If They Really Want To Communicate With You They'll Pick Up The Phone And Call Y-O-U.
People are limited to their written communication skills when texting. And most people didn't develop any in school. You're also relying on the reading and comprehension level of your text recipient. Plus, most communication is non verbal to begin with.
😂 😂 I love the lady in blue 👏👏👏 I stan a Queen!!!
Yess, I agree. That lady wasn't playing no games. You gotta be straight forward, if not the guy will continue to play games. 🤷♀️ She was awesome. 😊
@@ladyjvlogs7463 She called him out!! 👏😄I loved her maturity & confidence ... Then there's him going on about how he's still working on himself and doesn't have time, so why are you disturbing her? Carry on along ✌️
Exactly
Ladies STOP having CONVERSATIONS with TEXT!! That's the First sign he's not into you. Men actually CALL Women they like.
how true
Very nonsense. How can you be comfortable with somebody you barely know. Texting is the first step
@@loeilmalin3312 Texting is the LAST step. How can you know someone without hearing there Voice?? It's a Call... they can't attack you over the phone.
Amen! And also why would she be interested in someone that has a girlfriend?
I agree!
If you are confused by texts, just erase them and move on.
Respond saying no I'm not the girl from last night, I'm the girl from the other night😂😂😂🔥🔥
😂🤣😂
"I'm the girl from the other night"! Excellent Steve..Excellent! 😆👏🏽👏👏🏿👏🏻
🤣
So glad she let him txt that FBoy😂🤣
Can I send the next guy I date over to you for approval 🤣 you should have a Steve Harvey approves segment. You’re absolutely brilliant.
Steve Harvey does not approve of the dude who commented on your post with a rose 🌹🤣
@@tessmoney neither do I 😂
Steve Harvey was a mastermind on decoding confusing text messages..
🎯✔️
The best dressed man in all of TV and it’s not even close!!!
Macy is too cute!! She has a quiet confidence about herself as well.
The Lady in blue is me and I am her!!😂😂😂!! And Steve is right you just need ONE guy. The faster you eliminate all these confusing messages, the faster you will meet him!❤️❤️
Why would she say "want some company?" when she saw him with someone else?
exactly. comes off as desperate
Desperate. Lonely.
It was months later I think?
I think the first woman messed up from the beginning. She should have asked him if cafe girl (or anyone else) is in a relationship/exclusive with him. Can’t be afraid to ask questions. His answer would have told her whether to move on or keep dating. Being the cool/ok girl doesn’t serve. They became “text friends”. Then what? Her asking him to get together seems like a moment of desperation. She is beautiful and could do better.
Sorry to all of the ladies who have to go through this. You all were great for sharing and deserve the best.
I wouldn't have texted, "I'm the girl from another night." I probably would have texted something along the lines of: "Girl run and don't look back!"
After seeing that text, she's seen all the red flags 🚩 she needs to see!
Semantics.
Both statements mean the same thing. It’s left for the self acclaimed girlfriend to figure it out and do tge needful
@@chidinmaechendu9386 Maybe but it isn't a factual statement. I was simply coming from the angle of honesty vs. unnecessarily fictious, underhanded jabs.
But the other girl would be like "she is confusing, I don't understand what she mean"
Blue dress, the best response I've seen someone actually give to a man not treating her right.
Lol! Gotta love Steve Harvey! He just tells it like it is! We all need Uncle Steve & his advice back on TV! I miss this show!
We sure do 🤭. Have a Powerful day Camellia 🌟🧡
His advice is trash. 🗑
Bruh, Steve ain't gonna be the one to be in a relationship with you..
Foolishness.. dude is doing this for ratings and claps 👏🏾 and females eating it up..
@@hereforit2347 but yet…you’re here…🙄
@@honeywest39j95: You damn skippy. 😆 And??? 🤷🏾♀️
I was honestly shook by these texts, I’m only in my twenties and I’d be DAMNED if a man sent such texts to me. And what’s worse is that they aren’t even confusing, these men don’t want you but y’all can’t see that! Learn to not even respond to such nonsense. It’s a waste of your time!
Exactly! Youre spot on! I dont have the time or patience! I will just block you or stop responding
Exactly!!
😂 😂 😂 I JUST CHOKED ON MY COFFEE when Steve responded for the girl in the purple dress! 💀 🤦🏾♀️ Steve is hilarious!! I wasn’t expecting the question marks and WTF 😆😬
Too obvious and trying too hard, Boo.
Same cause this girl didn’t seem like the type to send something like that. That dude was confused AF . 🤣
None of those text messages were confusing. The guys clearly were not interested and the girls did not want to believe. Macy did not need to send that "me either" text. It made her looked desperate. The "nobody" text was even worse.
💔🤣🤣I'm here Lmao.
But the men seemed to initiate a lot of those so how can you pursue something and then just go ice cold?
I agree.
@@faebalina7786 we have to realize that they are not obligated to us because they express interest. That is why a committed relationship is what we want. Even in commitment, you can’t control another person, they have to choose you - and you them - every day. Dating is to gather data - is the person capable of love, do your definitions match, does this person have the character and qualities of someone you want to be with, does the person treat you how you want, does the person want to be with you, do you both (after getting to know each other) agree to be exclusive and committed? We must care for our own hearts.
@@lisajackson3743 I am not saying they don’t have the right they certainly do
It’s just weird how much energy they enter to communicate with a woman to express interest but can’t just let them know that they think it’s best to not go any further
Will this still not be enough for some women yes! And will they be going on about how it isn’t enough closure? Yes! Because it’s also nice to know why?
But the famous saying ‘he’s just not that into you comes to mind’ and all of this is just indicative of that.Just consider peoples emotional energy and their mental wellness.Because this all seems draining and unnecessary and creates a lousy social culture.It’s normal to go off someone of find someone better during early stages.Just let people off the hook.
A little respect can go along way and no one should want someone who doesn’t have the basic decency to just say they aren’t interested.It’s normal to like someone initially and then deciding your no longer as keen but it isn’t their fault.You can’t play with people like that.
I love the kind of ideas Uncle Steve come up with. And I also like that purple lady was badass enough to text what Uncle Steve would have sent.
I love how surprised Steve was even as she was typing the text. I would have done the same thing that quickly with words that great
The girl in purple seems nice and innocent. I would love to go out with her and see her true colors. ❤
Then after ...!!!
The young lady in the audience dodged a bullet. And, the girlfriend who responded is confused.🤦🏾♀️😂🤣
You are an honest man Mr Steve. We love you
Sending ❤ right back to you!
@@SteveTVShow awwwwn 🥰 I'm honored! Thank you so much mr Steve
@@Chiellao I hope you don’t really think it’s Steve lol
To be honest! That was so dramatic 😂😂 Block icon is used to be an easy tool to omit any confusion and distracting messages ✨
For me, if a guy sends me confusing texts, I'm going to keep it moving. I don't need confusion in my life. Men who try to confuse you are really not that into you in my opinion.
Your opinion is actually fact.
Exactly!!!
Macy is adorable. ♥
I had a feeling that girl that got the text " who is this?" Was really from his girlfriend..sure enough, it was.
Lol the second one 🤣 love she was ok with what Steve sent haha she dodged a bullet. love her attitude and congrats on recovery ❤️
Yassss i need to more like that
Love the last " I'm not the girl from last nite, I'm the girl from the other nite, oooo BURN" .😂🤣😂🤣😂😍
I know we don't know each other but to everyone who is reading this now ❤ I wish you all the best in life and God bless you !!! 🙏🙏
I enjoyed his TV show. Steve is so funny. I loved this part of the show. When someone says, "To be honest with you," or "To tell you the truth," you can pretty well count on what they say will be the exact opposite. Steve Harvey is great!
Macy's the bomb for sending that last text Steve told her to send 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I’m confused on how SHE is confused he was being straight up with her ! Plus he could’ve really been stringing her along but he cut it off once he got the woman he REALLY wanted . Just move on
I thought the cafe guy was cool. He said straight up thats a woman i was dating for a few months you saw me with. And when he got serious with another woman he stopped all the sporadic back and forth with his back up women with a clear statement that im trying to make something serious work so we can't talk anymore. Dont text me. This is ideal behaviour in all the men one dates. Obviously a man is dating around when you meet him. Women should be too
I don't go back and forth. I just block.
We should all carry out a campaign online to NBC say " BRING UNCLE STEVE BACK" 😭😭😭 I learnt alot about life from him.. all the way from Nigeria
Steve is selling all the players out! 😂
U go Macy! Girl, u just go. I love it 😆😆🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
First of all, Steve should know that if this guy was really out there cheating, he would have a lock on his phone, and he would not give his phone to his girlfriend to answer his text messages for him. He was cutting her off, perhaps because of the awkward situation between them at work. Steve should've asked Macy what happened the first time they went out together? She seem to be hiding something. Dude moved on and he really wanted her to know that he did. There was nothing confusing about that text: "who is this?" means that he's been done with you. Why are you still texting him?
Some cheating guys will give the phone to their girls so they can end the affairs for them
In my experience women, in some instances, act the same way. Back when I was dating, I'd have girls just go silent. No texts, no call, no responses at all after going out. It was just radio silence with no explanation. It was ridiculous. A friend of mine was talking to a girl, she told him she was interested, but every time he asked her to lunch, coffee, or whatever, she always had an excuse. One excuse she used was that she was busy cleaning her bathroom lol. I'll tell you what, it's crazy out there whether you're a guy or a girl. Thank God I finally met my wife and don't have to deal with all the crazy anymore.
Yes, its very common for women to do the same to men. You'll usually have women going after you if you already have a woman in your life. I'm pretty sure this was the case with Macy at first.
Steve is out here causing trouble LOL 😆 😂.
Lol 😆 🤣 😂
Stage 4 lymphoma survivor also. Stage 4 stomach, stage 4 spleen, stage 4 liver. God is good! Congratulations survivor!!
The second guy who wasn’t sure if he wanted to hang out, don’t respond, just block and ghost him.
The way Macy's suitor responded clearly shows that we all have a pattern, and smart people can use that against us. Notice that he realized it wasn't her texting him because she not used to cursing, and he knows it. That's why he asked "who's this?"...
"There's such an engaging magic in being unpredictable "
I took it as he deleted her number cause he wasn't interested in her. So he genuinely didn't know who it was
I really think it was the guy's girlfriend. She must have seen the text message and decided to investigate who it was. The girlfriend was already on alert because of him being out with another girl the night before.
No, I think it was his girlfriend texting her back at that point.
I disagree with Steve when he said " don't be surprised at the audacity of men" . It should be "don't be surprised at the shamelessness of some men".
If men were not audacious, relationships would cease to exist. And not all men are that audacious, only scumbags. Real men put a lot of effort into their relationships and support their partners in all walks of life. Be smart and use your head before you get intimate with someone. Just coz they have a good appearance or money doesn't mean they are good people.
STEVE DECODED THE BRO CODE , WE WILL COME UP WITH DIFFERENT CODE😂😂😂
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there is no bro code. women are too smart. theyll figure out. their emotions just get the best of them. nothing wrong with that. normal people aren't narcissists so of course it takes time to see.
but when a woman wants to hide something. be sure to know men will NEVER find out.
We'll just get our brothers, dads, cousins, or uncles to decode it for us again lol
@@kayjeffs3741 😂😂😂
I love that she sent the last message 😆😆.
Steve and his epic gotchya ❤️heart dance moves! Spot on!🤣🤗🥰 I so 😀 glad
Okay, hear me out. I would listen to a whole podcast of Steve doing this🤣😂🤣
Strawberry letters?
This is my new favorite segment! Steve Harvey for the win!
Poor communication! If your confused just ask! Stop being insecure and having toxic thoughts. Take what a man says at face value and dont try to make you own ASSumptions be blunt and ask. GL
The only man who handles different issues in an inspiring way⚡️💯
WOW, This Is Solid GOLD! Go ahead Steve, I ain’t mad at you! Im going to meet you one day. I admire how you show up unapologetically authentic. 🔥
Steve gonna get that sweet lady beat up! 🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I have laugh this much Steve is a badass on replying to text
Steve I pray I don't spend my final moment without meeting you
Mercy forgot to place her other arm in her dress lol.😂
I thought that but then I thought it was designed like that😂😂😂. Either way it's a pretty dress & she looks nice
Steve Harvey the King of Games!! 😂 Your last text message!! "No, I'm not the girl from last night, I'm the girl from the other night!" I wish you had this info out here when I was dating way back in the day!! 😂🙈🙌🏾💖
Are you not dating again
I miss you uncle Steve.
Write NBC and tell them you want "STEVE" back!
I sure will!!!
This was hilarious, you go girl!
I love his truth even about himself , he’s an exceptional person that person that’s rare he’s REAL , I find him to be very motivating , yet funny , kind etc . Please don’t change:)
love the way you made macy feel powerful!. she needed it in that moment. gj bruh
Steve Harvey is a living legend,I love you uncle steve..greeting you from Qatar👋
The first text messages are pretty honest and straightforward
What was confusing? Lol
He wasn’t into you and you should have blocked him
Steve is hilarious . . . LOL4REAL 🤣🤣🤣
I love the way these ladies reply
The first guy was very straightforward, lol. what was confusing about that?? LOL
Sorta. But he was still stringing her along . So saying he was just dating her now she's all of a sudden his gf. That was his gf all along. This ninja was a liar like the rest of the wanna be players. Lol
Yes, it was clear. "I have a girlfriend, but you would be my only side chick"
These texts ain't confusing. Men aren't confusing. Men are quite simple tbh. If he's showing even the slightest sign he doesn't want to be with you, then he don't wanna be with you. As a girl who grew up with no sisters and four brothers, just from listening to them and the things they do and say when it comes to dating men just want a woman. That's that. If you don't think it's you, it's not you. It's someone else. Even if they are a good guy and tell you honestly or if they are a hoe and try and keep you around just to be the side chick. When it ain't you, it ain't you.
Am glad uncle Steve is being real and honest,more popcorns
The best response to all of this in simply, no response. Anything more is just participating in the drama.
Love from Ghana 🇬🇭...
There was nothing confusing about the first guy. He was dating and let her know it. He also let her know he didn't want to be bothered. The 2nd guy didn't want to bothered.
The lady in blue is me lol 😂 I love it
👏👏👏 great program!!!
At least he was somewhat honest!! Some men just ghost u
HEAVY HITTERS TONIGHT LOL. This definitely needs to be a segment Id tune in each time it airs!!!! But yeah the messages weren't confusing, we as women just need to be more honest with ourselves.
Honestly this looks like the most fun show ever. I'd love to do a show like this!
I love to look at these, I miss the Steve Harvey show I use to look at it everyday.