CPS returns kids and Mom is a no show!
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
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When grandma is afraid to take her own grandchildren until their mom gets home, there is something seriously wrong! If her own mom is afraid of her imagine how frightened her children must be! I don't know the situation but living with their mother doesn't seem the best place for them!!
Agreed! I have a big Italian family & my mom told me long ago if i ever mess up she'd take my son in a heartbeat. Period. And its a blessing bc he has 2 moms really. Id have it no other way. If i dont put him 1st, she will. Thats it.
She stated she wanted to be given custody or appointed as a guardian so that she could contact HUD to get a place of her own because she couldn't take them where she was.
I will never again allow CPS to place a child in my care without that same paperwork because I was screwed over by CPS in that situation before.
@@shawnforan3148 same with my mom!!!
@@traceymcdonald7949 CPS should never be involved in your or your kid’s lives in the first place
@@CherrrrBear agreed. I cant imagine bringing up my son without my mom there for him. She tells me all the time that she believes she had me so she could have him lol. I was the means to the end in that reguard.
The problem.. is the court insisting on returning children to a parent even when there are red flags that said parent is not capable of being a parent. The children suffer.
Exactly!
That needs to change….
I mean, have you not seen the number of kids returned to parent/s by cps who've ended up murdered on the news? It's a mess.
She got no notice. cps did this on purpose so they could claim she is a "bad" mother. the text from the mother said she would be home at 6 PM not 4 PM.
@@ingloriousbetch4302this judge in particular doesn't care about the situation for the children. she just wants to give the mother her children back.
Check out how many children were hurt by this judge's rulings.
Yet, she still has a job
What worries me most about this mess isn't the lack of organization on the mother's part. It's that she floods people with texts and emails, curses and yells when she doesn't get her way, kicks in doors, and has other people scared to take her kids because she makes herself a problem. It's only a matter of time before the kids are back in care, more traumatized than before.
And that is the BEST CASE scenario crazy
I agree 💯%...the whole time I'm thinking about those poor kids, probably hoping their mom really loves them and wants to take care of them and turns out to be the same disappintment...my heart breaks for them...and if mom behaves this way in public, what is she like behind closed doors when the kids upset her...just heartbreaking
OMG! I didn't know all of that. Holy shit! If she can't even interact w adults without becoming aggressive & violent why are we returning these children to her. Seems like grandma would be the better option w the mother having supervised visits. But not supervised by the mum, supervised by CPS.
She seems juvenile really... and the lack of emotion is just insane
Well, she's certainly a disorganized and disinterested parent who doesn't plan things, who doesn't make herself understood, who doesn't care if she is messing up the days for half a dozen other people, who doesn't care if she breaks her childrens' hearts by actually not being home to welcome them back!!! With all this disorganization, though, it also makes CPS look inefficient. WHY would the social worker go ahead and pick the children up to bring them home when she didn't have CLEAR understanding of when the mother would be home? After talking and texting the mother many times, it was still a loosey-goosey arrangement "I'm 6 hours away",,,four hours later she was "still six hours away". There was no point at which mother said "I will be home at xx:00". In my opinion, if I was the social worker involved, I would have seen a huge red flag with this mother's attitude and I would have talked to my supervisor and found out what I would have to do to have the return of the children delayed legally until mother was standing in front of me in person. To drive to the mother's home with 2 excited children in the back seat thinking they are "going home", and then find nobody at the house is ridiculous. Why even take them out of their foster home when you have NO clue when or if the mother will be home to receive them? I suspect these kids will be back in the system within weeks, maybe days. Mother is clearly disinterested. Grandmother will put herself in danger if she takes custody. Someone has to give these boys a permanent loving home where they can grow up to be successful adults. It isn't going to happen if they go back to their mother.
The judge made a huge mistake in my opinion, giving her those kids back at that particular time. Maybe after a few months of intense therapy but not at this juncture. The woman can’t even control her anger, emotions and actions with other adults. How is she expected to handle children who constantly test their parents in every way? She seems like a loose cannon.
Also…what good mother travels hours away knowing she could receive a phone call at any time, stating someone is on the way to bring her children back to her!!?? Her actions show that she doesn’t care and those innocent children are NOT her top priority. No way I would’ve returned them at this point.
Not only did she leave but she didn’t even take her phone like she’s sitting here waiting on the most important phone calls supposedly of her life but leaves the phone behind to go out of town with a man and then sit here and falls asleep so she’s just terrible and she’s high I just cannot believe this Judge
The thing that gets me is that the CPS worker gave up her day off to come and be there for the children, mom couldn't be bothered. Poor kids!
This judge is wrong.
Yes, many people do not understand all the back end stuff that social workers. I have worked for both foster children and AFC homes as a case manager..I would not get done until 7 or 8pm Michigan time
Judge mad a VERY BAD decision. Poor children. Pray for them.
Those poor children. They deserve much better.
I can’t believe they gave her the kids back…. I’d ask for a drug test ASAP prior
Around the 29:15 mark the judge said she just went and took her drug test.
Hat aber kein Ergebnis genannt
Why would the judge give the kids back to a mother that is a no show on the day she gets them back. How sad for those kids.
Plus it’s obvious violence is involved!
$10 says she loses her kids again ! Shame on the judge for giving her kids back 😡
Save your $10, I think $1 is enough
She’s probably at a loss bc by law what she did wasn’t illegal. Which sucks. It’s a messed up situation all around the board 🤦🏼♀️
@@HeyItsKayJayBaeLooks like child abandonment to me. She didn't even seem to make an effort to pick them up just excuses. Nor does she seem excited to get her kids back.
The judge knows that. I'm a foster parent and returning the kids when they don't have quite enough to terminate is a awful strategy but one nonetheless. Basically they know she's going to mess up so at that time they will have all the evidence they need to permanently remove. It hard to mess up when they don't have the kids.
I just can't imagine, as a child, whom instinctually loves their mother more than anything, getting taken away from her, first off. Like, that's already traumatic. Then living with strangers for who knows how long. Then, finally, get told you're gonna get to go home to your mommy that day. You'd be so excited! So you leave, bags packed, ready to go... Then, you wait all day. Finally, you're told you're mommy isn't picking you up. Your grandma won't even take you. Now you have to go back to living with a stranger.
Imagine the heartbreak.
@nicoledoubleyou So true and it sticks with you. It was 1986 and I remember having to go to this old courthouse in downtown St Pete where my mom requested of the court to relinquish custody of me to my dad by HER choice her new boyfriend had teenagers and my aunt had me in another state when they started dating so when I came “home” I didn’t fit into the equation, she didn’t even tell me why we were going or where we were going but had to bring me so she could just pass me off to my dad and stepmom - I didn’t even realize (I was only 6) she even had trash bags of my clothes in the trunk of her car. Talk about being blindsided. She was given visitation but didn’t use it, but 2 years later she called and talked about how my Aunt and Uncle were coming into town and how much she missed me and they were coming to pick me up for a long weekend, even spoke to my dad and said she’d be there by 4 on a Thursday to pick me up - so my dad and stepmom made plans only to come home at 1:30 in the morning to find me still sitting on the front porch and which I didn’t want to leave just in case she forgot which house and was lost. Not sure if they were more heartbroken for me than I was. Never heard from her or saw her until a year and half later when my dad dropped me off at their front door and left because he got caught having an affair and left my stepmother for her and the lady said her daughter was grown and didn’t want to play mommy again (my dad shared that tidbit)… that shhhTT sticks with you as a child, I’m in my 40’s and it’s still messed me up and our quasi relationship. The pain of rejection is real, I’m so silly I’m crying typing this. Some people are not meant to be parents and are defective, lacking that emotional care and natural true love you should have for your children - I can’t fathom them but their faults leave a lasting effect on their wee ones…. I’m no longer a wee one and still feel that pain of rejection. No child should feel that way, ever!
@@Blueeyedjenn14 I'm so sorry to hear about all that, genuinely. You deserved so much better than that. I hope you're able to talk to someone about all this, it sounds like it would help you a lot to talk through the feelings you've mentioned here so that you can process them instead of being hurt all over again every time you let yourself think about it. I know it's easier said than done, and I hope I'm not being annoying, I just hate to hear that you're still having your heart broken by those losers that didn't deserve your love. Ugh I get so angry hearing about terrible parents, so many people are hurting because they had parents that never should've been having babies. Babies aren't toys that can be thrown away or forgotten about once you're bored of them. I wish I could slap the shit out of your parents, your dad in particular since he let your mom abandon you, then abandoned you himself the second you became a "burden". You weren't a burden, you were a child that deserved the love of your parents and they are genuinely monsters for treating you as disposable. I'm so angry for you!!!
We do not know the whole story. The people taking care of them may not feel like strangers to them. They may be more reliable than their mom.
@@elainemilligan9086 but you still always want your mommy to love you, no matter how close you are to others
@@Blueeyedjenn14 holy crap. I’m so sorry
I mean if she can't be bothered to show up to receive her kids, I am SHOCKED she did what was expected of her in order to get her kids back.
I wonder what steps they had her go through before the judge agreed to return the poor traumatized kids. Thank goodness the kids have each other. This woman is a hot mess who can’t even be responsible enough to take care of herself without blaming others for her stupidity.
This is exactly what I’m thinking. Wonder what all she had to do.
She won't get up and simply be present, so her children can come home but she'll sit behind a keyboard and flood these people (who are working for the benefit of her children) with tirades and toddler tantrums. She's also half asleep with the excitement of a bear in mid-winter. It's amazing just how far apart we humans can be from each other. I just couldn't imagine being this way.
Just know that a vast majority of society are caring honest people, flaws and all aside. It’s few and far between these cases in the big picture but still heartbreaking nonetheless.
She decided to ride with a man for fun..she didnt go for test herself.she was on joy ride ...kids needs do not matter to her she does not want kids..she isn't a mother... shes a Muther...poor kids. Her Attorney cant stand her...he knows shes a liar she went out of town and its his fault typical druggie..i cant believe Judge sent kids back.
The txts she sent when supposedly on the way home didnt contain any mention of her children. Wouldn't most people say oh im so excited to see them or i hope i can get bk i don't want to let them down or something?!
IMHO, she doesn’t deserve the kids back, she doesn’t show that she cares. Those poor kids. I’m crying for them right now.
Crying is more than what the mom's doing. I feel so bad for those kids.
Paula Benson, what is IMHO?
@@Virginia_Gurlie In my humble opinion.
The mother's "meh, take it or leave it" attitude is palpable. This judge is fatigued or something.
The judge should have called her out for lying
The texting regarding the cdl testing and physical strangely wasn’t mentioned that it wasn’t from her phone. Then Ricky’s load had a layover, her brother was watching her house and she left her phone with him but he ran it over so she didn’t know anything until she checked her voicemail. Makes perfect sense. It amazes me how these people think these stories are believable. I question her sobriety as well. Js
I thought that was odd too. How could she text about the CDL test if her brother had her phone? And one text said she couldn’t complete the test but she later said she didn’t even take the test. Something’s not right here
they both needed a nap on the way home??? and she can't get a CDL in Texas to begin with.
Exactly if her brother had her phone how did she message that lady when she was gone saying she was 6 hours away? Also if she doesn't have a phone how the hell are they going to contact her to set a time to give the kids back. I'm all for parents having and getting their kids back, but what mother wouldn't be waiting at home in anticipation for her children to arrive. Doesn't even sound like she really wants them 😢.
God forbid that she gets her CDL ! Can you imagine someone with her disorganization and give-a-shit attitude, and physical violence rages, becoming a driver of a commercial semi? I would HATE to be on the highway with her when she's "tired" and "needs a nap" but has to keep going to meet her schedule. She will be one hell of a road rage driver if she ever gets that license!
Compulsive liar.
Why would this judge return these poor kids back to this woman? Why put them thru this type of punishment. You can't force her to be something she is not.
As a mom, I can't even begin of understanding this. If there was a chance to get my kids, I would be on the phone sitting in front of my home. She could not even care enough to communicate. These poor children are the victims and she just doesn't care.
I'd be beside myself period
Her enthusiasm to potentially getting her kids back is huge....NOT!
This so called mom would rather ride along with her “friend” on a long haul than look after her kids…she has no sense of responsibility….that judge is a pain
but she is going to give your kids back??? what is going on
Moms what’s known as a lot lizard AKA trucker prostitute.
Well...she had to "earn extra money"
I can’t believe this judge would think this woman has the capacity to deal with kids…she needs to grow up first
If a person mistreats a Dog. The courts can ban you for life from keeping a pet. If you do the same to your children, you can continue to breed as you like. The world is screwed. Those children need to be away from their parents !
She didn’t even take off her hat for court! No one respects zoom court. Take off your hat MARIA!
Women don't have to take their hats off, unfortunately it's only for men
@tracimghernandez974 that's not true. It depends on the judge if they enforce a dress code, some are less strict about it. It's not a male female thing it's just a thing that depends on the court
I don’t believe she was driving anywhere. She was shacked up doing drugs more than likely! She was sending so many messages because she was lying!!!
Take it from someone who has experienced these excuses.. 100%
This judge is astonishingly dense. Ms. Velasquez was clearly lying. The details of her story about where she was and what she was doing don't add up AT ALL. I can't believe they still let her get the kids back after all this.
A lot of times I think they return kids because they turn a blind eye to what’s going on and are very naive about what mommy & or daddy will tell them…done fully believe kids belong with their real parents which would be great if real parents were fit to have them. Feel like some judges can’t see beyond their own nose & if mom or dad sounds sincere they are definitely to be believed. And poor kids pay price.
It takes more than lying to take children from their parents.
Depends on alot of factors. Not all kids in custody are abused. Not all parents are perfect but kids die alot in cps care. Get raped and pregnant as well
I just pray they will be safe.
As someone who works in the legal field, the fact that the judge supported the attorney withdrawing shows what a POS the mom truly is.
Judge is crazy if she thinks this will work, mom isn’t a mom, she’s more into self than her kiddos.
Agree 💯
I doubt the judge thinks it will work. I am guessing the state (government) must prove it has done its due diligence in providing mom every opportunity to have her children before they permanently take these children. 😢
She’s a loser mother
@@Mammaj1963 I agree. I am only sad because of the poor children.
Judge didn't look hopeful.
Do not give those children back to this person. They are in danger if you do. SMDH
A whole generation believes “I beat myself up about it, you don’t have to punish me”. And it is sad. No personal accountability
If anything happens to these children the judge needs to be held responsible
Something will happen all right. They'll be traumatized but it will happen in small increments of time over the next 15 to 16 years., eventually when they can no longer bare it and start exhibiting their anti social and violent Behavior.... they will be 18 so therefore and unfortunately it's no one else's fault but there's. It's a sad sad vicious cycle
@@timfahey7127 I agree, I think what the judge is trying to tell her is to not get so upset that you’re sending texts that are hateful and mean. I’m going to assume she has an anger issue and that’s what these kid will learn to do.
You a foster parent? Guardian ad litem? Respite provider? Child or family advocate? If not, sit down and shut it. When you have done 1% of what this judge does on a daily basis you MIGHT have something to say worth listening to.
@@FasterFaster196 have you?
absolutely....Judge is an idiot!
She knew she was getting her kids back, what sense did it make to leave her phone with her brother? And than he ran over it with his car? And your telling the judge this. My heart goes out to these kids. I feel sooo sorry for them.
She might have been somewhere getting high that don't even make sense
And the fact that they were texting her and calling her on her phone number, and she was answering them, while she's supposedly 6 hours away with her phone broken at her brother's house makes no sense whatsoever. Nothing she said in those conversations makes sense, and it's a whole different story than what she's telling now. I wouldn't give those kids back period.
@@yana212 BINGO! Her story is BS.
If mom has a history of drugs, she’s definitely on them now. She was on a drug run, used as soon as she got it and delayed with excuses.
She wanted a last party before kids got home.
Yes. This.
You don't know this !!
This IS a SAD day when this Judge worries more about an inconvenienced Lawyer over these kids well being and mental health 😡
Come on, mom. Take the hat off and act like you are in court. Or do you really not care?
Okay, forget it. She doesn't deserve to have the children after listening to her explanation, or lack thereof.
She’s made her priorities clear.. unfortunately for those babies 🥺❤️🩹
Clearly these kids are NOT her priority! They are better off in CPS care, which I normally wouldn't say! Can you imagine thinking you are going home, and then your Mom no shows? 💔💔🙏🙏💔💔
She's getting her CDL to be a truck driver?? Who's going to be with those poor kids!!! I am NOT understanding this one!
She can't drive in her state......????
I was in foster care many years ago. I learned a saying for people like her, excuses are like butt holes, we all have one, and hers really stinks. Don't put those kids back. Big mistake.
I hope you found yourself somewhere safe ❤
I’m so sorry! I hope you’re healing.
@@flickrennelsI did. Raised 3 beautiful children, got 9 grand babies and 1 very red headed great grandson. Been married 46 years and took in many of the kids friends too. What it taught me I never want these people in my life.
I though the caseworker said Maria was texting her and she couldn't answer because she was driving. Maria says her brother had her phone and ran it over. Which is it ?
She said her brother had her phone that was left at her house when she left for Houston with her friend, Ricky. I assume she used her friend's phone to call the caseworker who didn't answer as she was on the road. Get a speaker phone as nurses who do home care all have as we have to take phone calls regarding our clients. CPS caseworkers have it way too easy imo. It's the redundant documentation we have to make that is time consuming and why I like many home nurses document on our own time. Anyone wonder why nurses are being replaced with paraprofessionals such as med techs. Good luck with that!
I sometimes doubt how good of a mom I was but after watching these moms I have no more doubts😭 So sad for these kids!
This chick sets the bar LOW
Not for nothing but the bar in these cases tends to be very low.
Just ask your kids and u will know.
Good mothers don’t worry about if they’re good mothers or not 🥹 our babies are lucky to have us!
I am bewildered as to why the judge would again allow the children back without requiring a background check of the new dude in mom's life!
Exactly!! The chances of a child being abused in any way are like 30x higher with a stranger in the house with them and these parents need to wake tf up. I’ve been single since my second trimester for various reasons.. this being a HUGE one!
Wow. I am so worried for those children. I’ll be praying they come out of this ok.
It's a huge ding-ding-ding when the MOTHER of the mom says she is SCARED of her. Imagine what she does to her children. Very, very sad.
There is no way I would give her those kids.
I cannot believe she still got those poor kids back! I wouldn’t have left even to go to the store until my kids were home with me!! 😠
2:06 but
I don’t know much about this case, but on face value if I was told I was getting my kids back I’d go without sleeping or eating for days just to have them.
This is yet another reason why I don’t work in child safety. Just heart breaking.
This parent hasn't got the maturity to take care of a goldfish. Plus, she's so violent her own mom doesn't want any interaction with her. If she gets the kids back, they will be doomed to a life of neglect and abuse. I was a foster parent for about 10 years and I've seen versions of this woman many times.
Bless you for being a foster parent . I have thought about that for a while . Financially I just can’t , but I would love to .
@@cleobinx Thank you. It was very rewarding but will rip your heart out when they get sent back to bad situations. You're right, the stipend you get doesn't begin to cover all the child's needs. It cost my husband and I a bunch of money to foster but we weren't going to let the foster kids do without while our child had everything.
This judge has no business returning those kids to her
Agreed
@@rpurdy4821 I guess there’s something that I don’t see and judge does? From what I have seen some kids don’t belong with the mom just because she’s mom….at least not until she works on herself and proves she’s capable……maybe I just don’t get it🤷🏻♀️
She probably would of left the kids home alone if they were returned to her. She certainly wasn’t planning on taking a bunch of kids in a 18 wheeler
We don’t even know why they were taken. I don’t think we should be quick to judge. There are many people who have had their kids removed by power hungry women unjustly
Who is going to care for the kids while she is on the road.
Smh... that judge is delusional. ✌️👻🖤
If I were in her shoes and I finally was able to get my kids back I would be checking my phone every second to see if the caseworker has given me an ETA yet and would be anxiously/excitedly waiting on them to get home to me so we could be a family again! This mother is despicable. The saddest part is her children were probably so happy and excited to see mom & finally get to live with mom again just for her to not even show up
Mo
I agree. I can’t even imagine the pain of the children. What kind of mother does that to her children!!!?Not a good one! 😢
it doesn't seem like she wants them
It sounds to me like you would never find yourself in her shoes to begin with. 🩷
Kudos to the great moms out there.
I never had one of those.
@@getmeouttatennessee4473 I didn’t either, but I learned a valuable lesson from her… my children know they are loved and always will be. They were always taken care of and put first as they should be. I’m sorry for the hurt you had to endure. 😪
Hard to believe she got the children returned
I think these kids going back to their mom Is a bad idea
I was so surprised. She didn't seem ready. It's a monitored return tho I'll be watching for any status updates
Absolutely agree! Judge I think making bad decisions…this mom shows no interest in what’s best to do for kids
She's so immature and has a grandiose sense of entitlement!
I sort of can’t believe how nice some judges are and how much unfit people get their children returned to them. Even the way she said yes mam when the judge asked if she wanted her kids to come home 😢 just wow.
The foster system sucks. Kids want to be with their parents. It all sucks. There is no winner.
This is ridiculous, moms asleep and the judge is naive or extremely dense.
😢she was nodding out. I'm sure right after her test she used something how was judge chewing her out and her basically sleeping didn't notice🤦♀️
Wow , just wow!!!
I cannot even begin to understand this mother. I understand that the mom was not given a lot of notice, but that's where my sympathy begins and ends.
CPS is not without blame, however, they should have had substantially more concrete plans in place.
All my sympathy lies with the kids. They were expecting to go home, and had to witness ALL the adults fail them.
I just know if my kid was taken from me and a judge said he was coming home... I'd be looking out that window until he showed. She didn't even call them, just made weekend plans. I was disgusted
@@OnTropolis I agree with you 100 % on that one
@@OnTropolis yeah I would do anything this is so sad but I appreciate you showing these cases. Thanks
Nah she had no problem blowing up all these people's phones but the moment it was time for her to be an actual mother, she didn't reach out to ask for a day and time they would be returning the kids?
I don’t know…. She was probably used to dealing with these people and expected to have to wait and wait and then the judge even told her “these people have other things to do”
I'd have thought what the Grandmother had said would have been a massive red flag in a over all look having them kids placed back in general. I'm sure she was told they were going to be going home and that again is a massive red flag, that she doesn't give a dam about her kids clearly. I just truly hope their keeping a close eye on them kids. Love From Scotland xxxx
If she, the mother, couldn't be bothered to be there when her children were to be returned, then what makes you think that the care the children will receive will be for best of the children ? Boy did the country/court drop the ball on this one !
I would like to know why she lost her kids in the first place. Mother of the year is a space cadet.
Videos like these give me a sinking feeling because I’m worried that this will appear on the evening news in a few months or next year that the mom did something to the kids that she got back , I know the judge has no choice cause as others have said the court has to show that they gave the mom every opportunity but I still get a sinking feeling .
Exactly
Shouldn't children be exchanged at a specific place? Why are CPS workers driving them around? Set up a time and date for pick up and if no show, the parents never get their kid back but do get sterilized.
I have a co-worker who works different hours than me, but we do the same job, with whom I exchanged phone numbers so that we could let each other know important things. When I watched this video, it reminded me so much of my co-worker because of the incessant texting that quickly turned into a petty gripe-fest. I tried to tell him politely that I wasn't his therapist. Eventually I just had to block his number. 🤷♂️
Some people just don't have the ability to think logically and maintain boundaries. I can't stand getting my phone blown up with a dozen notifications of single sentence messages that were either unnecessary or could have been summed up in one message.
I'm bad about "second thought" messages 🤣
I'll hit send then almost immediately I'll think of some I forgot to say, lol.
I only text my family and two good friends though. Not random people. Random messages from random people do get annoying, lol.
Agree!
When I text people questions I only ask two. If I text Three questions they only answer two lol.
These poor babies may God keep them safe and watch over them keeping them safe from harms way........Protect them from their biological mother 🙏🏽
I swear I think she is nodding off now... I have never ever heard of a woman that truly wants her kids back to up and leave Town as soon as she gets word she is getting em back... something sure took priority over the kids... she is Def up to something...
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks that
The mom had to do a lot to get them back. And luckily after the children are returned to her it doesn't mean that her work is done or the courts aren't watching carefully. She will have counseling to do, along with the children. Regular drug screens. Home visits every month or more, school attendance and behavior records and more.
I hope things go well for her children's sake. I can just imagine how crushed they were returning to the foster home that night.
We just don’t know. It DOES seem that foster home was the most stability those kids EVER experienced. They were cleaned up, they were readied, you know they ate, they were cared for - heard no evidence of the same pertaining to mom. Kids who learn to love their abuser will usually love abusers because they spend their childhoods trying to justify and give excuses for their parent abusers. The lil boy already justified why they were alone and the reasons why. Going back to foster home is very very sad and I’m sure they were sad but hopefully the example of the nuture home will stick in their heads for years n years to come. Truly sad and mom did not deserve those kids, those kids deserve an actual caregiver
Even homeless, poor women who want and have hope and try all they can to NOT be separated from their children. These children are at risk period
Ok I feel some kind of way that she goes on this long rant about the lawyers time…….what about the CPS workers? CPS workers take so much grief from the courts, parents and community in general. How about treat EVERYONE with respect
Too many CPS workers think they're above the law and over the judges too. They also return children to bad homes Many do or don't do whatever they want with many families children, even if judge ordered them not to.
As an adult I had to work to understand that you cannot expect something from a person who doesn’t have within them to give you what you need. In my case it was love, from my mother. She just didn’t have it to give. These poor children will end up going through the same process as I did, and it was painful. The good that did come out of this was the realization that it wasn’t because there was something wrong with me. I so hope that while they’re still young that someone would help them understand that it’s not their fault.
She is lying, she took a road trip with this guy
If my kids were taken id be camping out in my sleeping bag like i was waiting for concert/movie tickets in the olden days, i wouldnt be all “oh well… la dee da!”
How sad for those kids!!!! And neither of the mom or grandma seemed to care one bit about how all of this must be affecting them! Trifling, horrible, and disgusting people who deserve the worst kind of hell.And when the judge lets the ruling stand she actually looked BUMMED that her kids were coming back. I just pray those little boys are able to get with a permanent placement with someone who actually seems to want them, this lady deserves nothing but pain and suffering.
I don’t think it’s fair to judge the grandmother if she’s afraid of her daughter. If she has the kids, she’s forced to have to interact with her daughter who has apparently been violent and aggressive with her before. People have to protect themselves at some point. I’m not finished with the video just yet but so far I haven’t heard anything that grandma did wrong.
The grandmother was willing to take them but ONLY if they gave her placement & the daughter couldn’t kick in her door to take them. I’ve been through it with a family member & I tried with all my power but eventually I knew the kids would never stand a chance bc their mother was never going to leave them along so sometimes it’s better for the kids to be in a placement outside of family bc it’s the only way to protect them. This woman even had issues with all the workers & her attorney to the point he had to quit!!’ Bc he couldn’t deal with her!!!
How do we solve a problem like Maria
Sterilization
These kids , sadly , will be on the news again one day .😭
That lady has no business getting those kids back. Shame on that judge.
@OnTropolis one suggestion on your videos, is time out your text overlays. So we don’t have to pause the video to read your overlays. If you count the seconds it takes to read the overlay out loud yourself, that is a good estimate of seconds to keep them up.
You can also keep them on longer if you are placing them in a smaller layout (like subtitle sized overlays). OldSquishyGardner’s channel is a good example of the sizing.
Thanks for the feedback! I am definitely slowing those down I didn't realize how fast they were until I read comments. Hopefully it will be better with the next few!
@@LadyWarrior4JC it's broadcast as a public stream by the court. I didn't sneak a recording device into a call
@@donmichaelromanombaba3647 It should be. I hope the Children involved here Never have an opportunity to view these videos. The damage it will Inflict will be Devastating & Unrepairable.
@@LadyWarrior4JC why are you watching?
@@lindamckay4414 Why are you watching? For Your own personal enjoyment?
I can’t say I blame the lawyer. She seems like someone who don’t take responsibility for their own decisions. She will learn quickly with getting her kids back. How embarrassing to be fired by an lawyer.
She has mental issues
Courts don't just release children without the parent knowing. A parent that wants their child home will not make plans the day they're released, job and all. CPS cannot release to anyone else without the courts consent.
Absolutely. She also was full of it...she wanted to ride along with her "buddy" there was no test no job no nothing, in my opinion.
@@OnTropolisAgreed
These poor court appointed lawyers do not get paid enough to put up with people like her.
How could a grandmother not want to just take the kids. OMG I would be there in a minute. I never would have let these people take my grandkids. How sad did these poor kids.
This “mother” is violent against her own mother.
If this ever happened to me I'd be moving heaven & earth to make sure that i'm whereever i'm supposed to be for my children's return. Even if that meant camping out on CPS/CAS doorstep. She seems so uninterested in this whole situation, perhaps it is not in the best interest to return these children.
Imagine how these kids must feel. I hope they weren’t aware fully. I just hope they know.. shit.. I care about em. If their mom doesn’t, others will. They aren’t alone.
Once the judge says your children are bring returned. CPS make the wheels turn pretty fast. The need those vacant placement homes.
Grandma didn't even want them.
I couldn't imagine turning away my granddaughters. Ever
Very sad.
I'm appalled that this judge, still gave her back her children.
Those poor babies. She's either a borderline personality, or depressed and shouldn't have those kids. Poor judgment, self-serving, selfish, no impulse control... obviously, doesn't think of her children before just leaving town. I'm disgusted. She'll lose them again 💯
I this your right she does act like boarder line.
What does depression have to do with looking after your children?
I'm sorry but calling at 830 and leaving a message with parent,is not coordinating. She may be a shit mom but CPS never gave her a notice.
She's not entitled to notice for her kids. They're her responsibility and as of Thursday they were legally back in her custody. Her job was to inform them if she was gonna take a road trip.
Can you imagine how those kids felt? Excited to see their mom and go home, for mom to not make them a priority enough to even show up to take them home? Poor babies.
Yes, a perfect example of emotional abuse by the mother. Everything else in her life is more important than her children. Sad.
Those kids won't last a week in that mother's care. Not one week.
WOW and people wonder what's wrong with the system. Ridiculous
Wow I’m kind of surprised they still let the kids go back- I know foster parents are in short supply though! 😢
God bless all of the people who try to help children.
She has very little desire to have her own innocent babies! How devastated and unwanted I'm sure these little people must feel, Shame on her!! She should have never been in this position in the first place in which she's had her children taken away from her and needing a court date to have the court system see if she is fit to continue mothering her little people. So she should be up awake and present without any excuses and gratitude and intentions to impress those in the position of power to allow her to be reunited with her babies!
Mr McLaughlin is asleep… literally.
Right wake him up
She said "we"... If they were running a team, the truck typically doesn't stop unless for fuel or food..
The team mate could have been driving. With the hours they could have split breaked.
She doesn't have a CDL yet.
"I figured they would call me so I left my phone behind and left town without telling anyone but my lawyer who is trying to withdraw right now"
She can’t even keep her eyes open for the hearing.
She can’t take care of children, she doesn’t even know how long it takes to get anywhere… And she supposed to be some sort of trucker. This screams drug use. Those poor kids.
Just because someone can whelp offspring doesn’t mean they should.
I think she was gone with her trucker bf instead of bettering her life. Tbh it screams narcissist
Miss Velasquez should have been made to put her deceitful face front and center for the whole video. Did you notice how, as others talked, she slouched lower and lower? I believe she is lying. She wasn’t at truck driver school, or whatever it’s called. For some reason I cannot even fathom, she didn’t want her kids back that day. I’m guessing it probably would’ve inconvenienced her. She should get her parenting terminated. Those poor kids. Can you imagine their heartbreak?
I'm no expert & I honestly haven't even seen very many of these types of cases (until now) but IMO it seems like AT THE VERY LEAST , the judge should have asked many more questions and made attempts to make sense of the mom's story - which would have likely been a total fail bc u can't make sense out of nonsense. & on top of that...she didn't seem to care 1 way or the other about having been honored the opportunity to get her kids back! this made me so sad.
It doesn't take a ROCKET SCIENTIS to see this person does not want her children,
I guess I'm going to be the unpopular opinion..... I think both sides were at fault. Her bc I'm sorry if it was my kids I would be sitting at the front door the whole day even prior to them coming home but they could have given her at least a rough estimate of when they were doing it. Like we will be by between 8am and 12pm or something close.
Fair enough. Clearly the communication was poor and CPS needs to create & document policies and procedures for returning children from their temporary placement to the birth parent. The children were once again failed by their mother & the CPS system
He ran over my phone and then the dog ate my homework🤣
Let's see a follow up to this when the kids are once again taken from her
I was in foster care 40 plus years ago. I don’t think the system does any better today than they did then. It’s so discouraging.
I love your channel. I have been debating on trying to become a foster parent now that my son is an adult and out of home. Your channel really solidifies that decision.
If your heart is in it, I say go for it! It’s not easy but as a former foster mom I can say it felt really good to help give a safe and stable place to kiddos even if it were just a little bit. There are so many people with negative stereotypes of foster parents but I have found there is a much larger group of good people than those that are often portrayed.
Wonder how many times she texted this poor man, what time, and what she said. For the man to fire her, and the judge to scowl her is something else.
I wonder why the kids was remove to begin will.
This has got me pissed 😡 like BIG MAD 😡😡
Since she has a case with CPS, why don't they know what she's doing for a job?? And, that is the most convoluted BS story I've ever heard. Reminds me of the yarns my meth head relative used to spin. Seriously. When she hurts those kids, and it will happen, that judge will have bloody hands too.