NPD Series: The Pseudo Siblings of a Narcissist
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- čas přidán 6. 12. 2021
- NPD Series: The Pseudo Siblings of a Narcissist
Language: Manglish (a combination of Malayalam & English)
Dr Susan shares the wisdom from her therapeutic experience working with narcissistic personalities and Narcissistic victims through her NPD vlog series.
It is normal for a narcissist to form relationships to satisfy their validation hunger. They try to form intimate relationships with people outside their family for example at the workplace or social life. These relationships will be providing them the required validation and hence they will ignore their family relationships and obligations to keep such relationships alive. If anyone questions their relationship they will blame the person for being mean and doubting their brother-sister relationship. Watch the video to learn more.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach. She brings 28 years of professional experience in the field. She speaks wisdom from the experiences she had working with individuals, businesses and over 40 nationalities.
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Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.
സൂസൻ പറഞ്ഞതു് 100 % ശരിയാണ്. എന്റെ ഭർത്താവ് ഒരു മൂത്ത narcissist ആണ് . ഒരു കൂട്ടം ആളുകൾ ചുറ്റും പിടിച്ചു നിർത്തും സ്തുതിപാടകരായി. പ്രത്യേകിച്ച് സ്ത്രീലംബാടതാണ്. വഞ്ചനയും വക്രതയും കൂടപ്പിറപ്പാണ്. സ്വന്തം കാര്യദ്ധ്യത്തിനു വേണ്ടി ഏതു വേഷവും കെട്ടും. ലോകത്തിൽ ആരോടും ആത്മ്വർത്ഥതയില്ല.
100% സത്യം... ഡോക്ടർ ഇതൊക്കെ എങ്ങിനെ കണ്ടു പിടിക്കുന്നു എന്നാണ് എന്റെ അത്ഭുദം.
Experience from clients 👍
ഭാര്യയ്ക്കും ഭർത്താവിനും ഇടയിൽ എന്ത് പ്രൈവസി... അങ്ങനെ വേണമെന്ന് വിചാരിക്കുന്നവർ ഒന്നാം തരം ചതിയന്മാരായിരിക്കും....
open aayitenne cheat cheyyunna narcissistum und...avar avarde chatings onnum oyivaakaaarilla...avark chila kaaryam athre Mind aaakaaarulloo...avarkath aarelum kandaalum valya prblm onnum undavarilla...ivarkkangane sangadam onnum undaaavilla victiminte kaaryathil...empathy enna saadhanam theere undaaavilla...athaan avark nammale pain manassilakan pattathe...pinne most of the narcissstinn ithekke oru joke and Entertainment aan...kandupidichaal parayum venel veetil pov@an
ഇതു തന്നെ എന്നോട് പറഞ്ഞോണ്ടിരുന്നത് എന്റെ ഫോൺ എന്റെ പ്രൈവസി എപ്പോ നോക്കിയാലും ചാറ്റും പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ നോക്കാനോ ചോദിക്കാനോ പാടില്ല
ഇത്തരക്കാർക് പരസ്പരം കല്യാണം കഴിച്ചൂടെ ഇവർ തമ്മിൽ comfortable ആണ് എങ്കിൽ. എന്തിനാ മറ്റുള്ളവരെ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടിക്കുന്നെ?
Madam, you are doing a great thing. There are a lot of people in the society who are suffering from narcissists. Your videos will help them a lot to understand what is really happening and to deal with the narcissistic devil. Thank you so much..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
M'am the NPD person is so wise that he will be such an expert in technology that he will leave no marks behind in his phone....and say the phone is open..u can check..😊
You know what? My narcissist husband checks my ph always, especially when I sleep, etc. He make calls to my own blood relations and delete all the calls from his mobile. My ph wil always be with me because I'm alone almost always. He will be at home rarely, mostly I won't even know when he goes out. He has many female relationship which I never am bothered. But he projects that on me and say that i have relationship with MANY MEN!
better leave him sister
Wonderful.. Awesome.. U cracked it... 😍😍👌👌👌❤️❤️👍
Very useful info. Thank you Doctor
.mam well explained.thanks for your advice.may godblessyou. Waiting forthe next talk .ok
Susan ,I do appreciate about ,how sincere you are while expressing your feelings and knowledge.Thank you so much for the way you are sharing and guiding your followers .Very relevant subject you have chosen,many may be hesitant to share with someone. May God lead you in each step with the wisdom from above..
Thank you so much!
Great talk
Very good 100% true mam 🙏
Oh my God, this happened to me two times in life.11 yrs elder Lady and 9 yrs elder lady. Now got divorced. Praise the lord
Yes well said . They make every relation very special. Each relation is hooked on the weakness of that victim and remains intact using love bombing skills. The most intimate one(inner circle monkeys) will be the primary supplier and nurtures the narcissistic validation (admiration) for his master.. narc👍
Mam.... ഞാൻ ആദ്യമായിട്ടാണ് വീഡിയോ കാണുന്നേ,എന്റെ ജീവിതത്തിലൂടെ നോക്കുമ്പോൾ ഈ പറയുന്ന കാര്യങ്ങൾ എല്ലാം സത്യമാണ്. ഏറെ നാളത്തെ എന്റെ എല്ലാ ചോദ്യങ്ങൾക്കും ഉള്ള ഉത്തരം ഇതിലുണ്ട്.... I really appreciate mam 👏👏👏❤clear and cristal information😊
Ma'am engane ithramathram manassilakkunnu. Ithellam സഹിച്ചു മടുത്തിരിക്കയാണ്, ഒന്നു രക്ഷിക്കാമോ please🙏
Sathyam...ithinte peril ethra problems undavunnu...ithokke ippozha ariyunnathu...thanks a lot mam
Literally this is so true.. Iam trying so hard to come out of this npd person.. It was exactly same in my life as u said doctor.. Feels very bad, it was all fake
Maam, I wish you would have added these videos much earlier. Very much applicable to my life. Thanks for the enlightenment 😃
Mam parayunnath full sheriyanu.
Very true Ma'am
Very true
സത്യം എന്റെ അനുഭവം
Very true👍
True🙏
My husband was an overt, and his brother a covert, both share their problems and issues, my husband used to discuss about my character to hus brother, He had a business lady partner who always talks about our reayions they both dusyss each other at last that was one of the cause for me to be seperated by him.Should have watched your ( Madams) videos from 1984 from the year I got married to him.
Exactly madam👍👍👍2:50
Ethu currect anu valare
Valare😮😮😮😮😮
There should be no privacy between couples 👍
Well said ma'am 🙂
Thank you❤💜🩷
NAMASTE Doctor Ma'am 🌹❤🙏
7.12.2021
9:11pm
Gone through the same
101% true
My husband had a pseudo sister asu say.He said to us she is to me like sister or mother. He always like to talk about her.But after some months we against her. Then he starts abuses to us
i am the one those traits experienced..very hard..and bad caondition for a self esteemed man to survive with this narscist....i need ur help...mam...i want to save my three kids...
താങ്ക്സ് ഡോക്ട്ടർ
My sis married to a narcissist she encountered the same problems mentioned by the doctor it will be helpful if any divorced victims assist me ..
My god 💯 true
ഗുഡ് മാഡം. നല്ല ഇൻഫർമേഷൻ.
എങ്ങനെയാണ് ഫുൾ ടൈം നമ്മുടെ അടുത്തുനിന്നു എങ്ങോട്ടും മാറാതെ നമ്മെ ഡിമോട്ടിവേറ്റ് ചെയ്തുകൊണ്ടേയിരിക്കുന്ന npd ഹസ്ബന്റിനെ നമ്മൾ ഡീൽ ചെയ്യേണ്ടത്. ഒരു ഹെല്പ് പോലും ഇല്ല. ഒൺലി നെഗറ്റീവ് ടോകിങ് ആൻഡ് ഫോർ ടൈംസ് ഫ്രഷ് ഈറ്റിംഗ്. നമുക്ക് ഒരു സെൽഫ് ടൈം ഇല്ലാതിരിക്കാനും ഇവർ നമ്മെ എൻഗേജ്ഡ് ആക്കുകയും ചെയ്യുന്നു. എന്താണ് ചെയ്യേണ്ടത്
My experience almost same. I can't even go for a walk alone. But he helps in cooking & I trained him to cook well since lock down. I create "me time" keeping him busy
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Yes Ma'am, please please do a video on this. Many women going through this.
Same..even if he at abroad he take most of my time...May not be healthy...sometimes they put a trigger to follow them all the time to get supply it is positive or negative doesn't matter for them..if we try to busy or engaged the mind never get relaxed or free....
Same here
Enghaneyanu ithil ninnum raksheppedendath enghaneyanu ithine athijeevikkendath enn ariyatha avasthayil vallatthoru manasikavasthayil ayalodoppam jeevikkunnu
Oru 1 year munne ee video njn kandirunnenkil ente life kurachude mechapettene.. ee paranjath okke ayal cheythu.. ippozhum parayum athente best frnd aanu.. ninte manass aanu mosham enn.. Inn njn divorce cheyyan kashtapedunu..
I had to question one his aunt his mom's young sis, for this and all they insulted me for looking at them with bad eye. She never wanted to talk to me but to him daily over phone. And she said the excuse she is having extra bonding to him more than his mom. I asked to step away for me to build . But both of them were so disturbed and continued . He calls her chechi instead of aunt. And she asked her grown up kids call me aunt while they call my husband brother 😂.I was doubting myself at times asif my overthinking . Your video is proof now . Psudo relationships they love much ! The break up in marriage started with talks on this extra bonding and now is heading to divorce because of his other severe narcissistic behaviour.
100% correct
You have Children?
Yes 2 children same condition for me with sister's daughter * husbnd
Wat to do
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Maam according to your talk. .Im adjusting this type of category person. .my hus. .since 23..nd more years. ...saying to my children. .treat this or that person as your father or mither. .like that. .so sometimes they asking മേ like why it is happening like this? ??
Madom do you have a personal experience? I have a personal experience.
Ente hus anganeyayirunnu. Now we devcd
daivame ...enikk vayya....from My exprnce....😂😂😂 enthayalum njan rakshappettu...ann divorce cheythath confusionil aayirunnenkilum Inn madathinte video kandappol oru samadhanam und....nammude aduth sathyam undel dhaivam evidelum enthelum oru vazhi thurakkum...njan angane vishvasikkunnu...enikk ipo nalla hus bandinne kiti..😂😂😂
Hello
Could u please share ur exp with my sis .she is facing the same
Njnum avlum piriyanulla 100% karyangal inte dr ingalu enthanu waaw ellam ithu njn manasilakiya karyagalanu ithoke real ayirunu ennu dr paranju kelkumbol ente mansinu enthu aswasamanu aval athupole ulla parallel orupad relationship kondu nadakunnathine chodhyam cheithathanu njngal piriyanulla karanam njn avd sumsayarogium toxicity undakunnvanumaki ella thetum ennil chatmrthi poi I was cheated. She made me believe
that she was only mine.
Finally she convinced me that it was nothing.She
found new pleasures and
left.
ഇത് തന്നെയല്ലേ " ബെസ്‌റ്റീ " എന്ന് പറയുന്നത്
Sherikkum narcissistinalle samshayam. Ath kond nammal question cheythal avar samshayam ennath nammude mel project cheyyille?🤔
You are not questioning the narc. you are stating that a particular relationship is an unusual and unhealthy one. You are not asking for the narc to agree with your statement.
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Can a codependent also show symptoms like these when he or she is in a pseudo sibling relationship?
Yes.
@@DrSusanKoruthu thanks doc 🥰
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My husband discuss my character and relations with his business partner, which affected my married life.
Same. Divorce process going on. He discusses everything with her, full time on phone nd chatting and business tours. When i questined him im the culprit. Now they are together. I and my kids out. What a fantastic life😡
@@sheelanair6753 sis please share ur exp with my sis
Nigalu manushyanu manasilakkunna rethiyil parayanam 😬😬😑
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Sherikum narccistic aarenkilum snehikko. Siblingsnodu real sneham indakkumo.
Avark kattu thinnunna sugam aan vende. Veedinu purath ullaavrk help cheyum. So they get admiration and good name. EQ is more or less absent in their brain. Normal relationships il care cheyilla, they hate accepting responsibilities.
@@parvathy555 thank you for ur reply. Parayumbo Ella manasilavind. U r correct
avark empathy undaaavilla...too much sincere care and love undaaavilla ...athekke thanne...purame nalla character aaayorikkum...athrem Great Personality
@@jahfujahfu5795 anyone please help my sis is facing same
The love of narcissist to anybody isnot real. All only show.
Dr. Ithu ente life il nadakunnu
My hus is sleeping with psuedo sis now😡she is a female version of him... Hahahaha. Everytime he accuse me. They are business partners, now fucking partners. I want to know whether she wil kick him out? Yes pavitra bandham.. Yes im a samshaya rogi in front of them.omg do you know my partner?!ditto😆. I told him i can't bear this but the blame was on me
Cillect strong evidence and anonymously send to her husband
Now a days narcs are mostly ladies....law also support them....
Pls?
Ee grandiose narcisst ennu paranjal entha
Have a google search. There's a list of traits. Its one of the 4 types of narcissists. Grandiose has the superiority complex. They have a dominanting power. Swayam pokkikal aarikum. They manipulate relationships and use people for their success.
അപ്പോൾ narcissist നു മനസ്സിൽ പ്രണയം ഉള്ളതുകൊണ്ടാണോ അവർ മറ്റുള്ളവരോട് ഇങ്ങനെ അടുക്കുന്നത്?
Madom evide cheriyoru presnamundu nammal agrahikkunnapole onnum
Nadakkilla nammale arum cheettucheyyun illa
Njan veruthe parayunnathalla 😅😅😅😅😅😅
Mdm.could u .plz reply my mail
ഞാൻ ഒരു മെയിൽ ചെയ്തിട്ടുണ്ട്. ഒന്ന് നോക്കണേ dr. റിപ്ലേ തരണേ
Sure, I will
Ethu mosamaya karyamai
Thonnunilla athu avarude
Swadandram
mail id idamo mam?
drsusankoruthu@gmail.com . you can also visit my website www.drsusankoruthu.com