6 NEEDY Male Behaviors That Scare Women Away!

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Komentáře • 106

  • @willthorburn1985
    @willthorburn1985 Před rokem +8

    Men’s Mastery Meditation Challenge I just got through. It was just what I needed. After 30 days I feel back on track but also with new tools to be a better person and to get after what I want in life.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +3

      Thanks for telling me. Man, I get so many men writing me after this challenge. It's been a game changer for many. I will link it here for any man who want to accept the challenge. :-) www.apolloniaponti.co/male-mastery-meditation1652094574538
      xo-Apollonia

  • @briar35981
    @briar35981 Před rokem +15

    Just treat them like you would any other human. Respect and kindness. Treat them like you don't need them. Because in reality, you don't need a woman to be happy. Remember, she lives on emotions, feelings, and hormones. That chaotic mind will drive you crazy.

  • @aronfarrell4693
    @aronfarrell4693 Před rokem +3

    Apollonia Ponti is such a wise woman. I’m not having trouble in the dating game as of now but i still watch her videos because it keeps me on my toes. So grateful for her channel

  • @Evermore2017
    @Evermore2017 Před rokem +13

    This could and should be said for the females.

  • @CHill-tj4gw
    @CHill-tj4gw Před rokem +6

    Another one AP spit that 🔥 great video

  • @herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513

    Many many women have 'out of control' tendencies.. it's difficult if in a relationship when the woman doesn't live to a plan and things about the future. Doesn't stop spending etc. Someone had to take control for very good reasons. I would prefer to be single and on track than with someone and under constant financial stress...

    • @TomFox1
      @TomFox1 Před rokem

      Those are traits of toxic /low quality woman, easy to tell by the looks..

  • @JoelDaMan112
    @JoelDaMan112 Před rokem

    Thank You very much Apollonia!

  • @BetterMenDaily07
    @BetterMenDaily07 Před rokem +3

    Def need the help lol. Thank you…

  • @handler0167
    @handler0167 Před rokem

    I better take note all of these.

  • @danpiel448
    @danpiel448 Před rokem

    Thanks again

  • @mastersplinter5966
    @mastersplinter5966 Před rokem +2

    Apollonia! Happy Taco Tuesday dude! And Hi 👋

  • @raymondangeles2945
    @raymondangeles2945 Před rokem +3

    Doesn’t matter what you do. Some women will just create their own meaning to your actions. If they like you, it doesn’t matter what you do.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +4

      Unhealed women. Women who are emotional aware will most of the time know the meaning to actions but if they don't communicate. Also, HUMANS react man or woman so this is a very general comment.

  • @h8rmgnt144
    @h8rmgnt144 Před rokem

    Thumbs up ms ponti

  • @Evermore2017
    @Evermore2017 Před rokem +10

    Stalking is a serious term. Your use is not stalking. It’s romantic pursuit. You use it with wreckless disregard.

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... Před rokem +6

    See, I usually don’t get past the “Eew!” stage - right from seeing me, that, or a resting bitch face death stare, us the only signs of ‘flirting’ a woman gives me. Not a ‘come hither’ face, but a ‘f*** off’ face. :’(

  • @Brookie408
    @Brookie408 Před rokem

    Beautiful ❤

  • @samuelyoung1236
    @samuelyoung1236 Před rokem +1

    I am in a rough place with my fiancé. We have dates almost 13 years. Things were going well or so I thought - she stopped talking to me. She asked for time to be alone and to grieve her mother who had passed away more than a year ago. She didn’t reach out to me for a week not even to check in.
    She didn’t have to tell me what I did wrong. I perceived her pulling away so I made her chase me. She was doing everything she could to make me happy but all I was communicating was what else I wanted. She didn’t feel appreciated or valued. I had become entitled. While at the same time my career has settled I bought a house. I have no goals or purpose. She won’t say it but I have not been secure and I recognize I need to be a man worth her time. Thankfully after the time we have she is giving me a chance. We are working on our communication and unpacking our shit. Being needy pushed her away. The solution? I took a train out of town and got a personal trainer when I got back. Now she’s asking me for dates and wanted to see me again this time I know not to be too available while being supportive. We are either growing stronger or navigating the end of a long term commitment.

    • @cryptoinanutshell
      @cryptoinanutshell Před rokem

      Mf she was cheating on you
      Who grieves after a year+ on their loved one's death
      And you bought a house and you stable she wants you back duuh typical female
      You got finessed DO SOME INVESTIGATION 😂

    • @enochrry6024
      @enochrry6024 Před rokem

      Wait a minute..you have no goals or purpose but you bought a house?..Do you know how many americans right now wish they could purchase a shack...With rent skyrocketing and bad credit running wild these days=It's so ruff so tuff out hereya😂!..You seem to be doing great man,sometimes we allow people to downgrade our own worth and peace which will result in unhappiness within ourselves..Trying to make someone else happy is a never ending slave camp,because it's their own duty to have a balance within themselves=The simple things are a blessing..💯👊🏽.

  • @brunobrnic5522
    @brunobrnic5522 Před rokem +2

    Hi Apollonia, i got idea for both of us, i want that you make video about how to behave when your girlfriend goes out and party, is that ok if we trust them or even if we trust them is it wrong to going out every weenkend. Am sure it will take lot of views cuz there is not videos with this subject on youtube and am sure lot of us us is searching for.😊

  • @erikbergum2586
    @erikbergum2586 Před rokem +10

    Is being aggressive the same thing as being too pushy. Trying too hard?

    • @youllmakeit
      @youllmakeit Před rokem

      Na she meant like getting angry and your body seems like you're ready to fight. Anything which may imply you might hit her if she continues. Plus broski you're only pushy when you have one girl. Go out there and approach. It seems like the whole world is doing it but naaaaa. Very very few guys do it. That's where you meet good women who don't have man hate. Being committed is something else. Knowing in your head clearly that if this doesn't work out I'll find 30 other girls in a week, okay for beginners 2 girls in a week. I never treat a girl like an option and I tell them that and they respect that. I'm clear that until we don't have anything serious that I'm seeing others (takes serious balls) and that she isn't an option. Until she doesn't show me she's the one we're just seeing eachother but when I'm seeing her I show her respect.

  • @cytotoxic6247
    @cytotoxic6247 Před rokem +2

    New Camera, I like
    Better quality 😗👌

  • @GG-tk8cq
    @GG-tk8cq Před rokem +1

    Can you do a video on what safety in a relationship means to a woman ? you hear the term a lot but I don't think men understand it.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +1

      Great idea. Yes, I can. There is also a video I've done about why woman are attracted to men who are emotionally stable. Type that in my video history. I talk about this topic often. Thanks for the request!
      -Apollonia

  • @TomFox1
    @TomFox1 Před rokem +3

    WHOOPS

  • @trillmix0652
    @trillmix0652 Před 7 měsíci

    Hi Apolina. Would you consider telling a woman what to wear and how to wear her hair when we meet up to be controlling? I had a woman ghost me recently after planning a meet up without explanation. I think that may be the reason why. I was okay with her showing up however she chose. I just wish she would have told me something or whatever the problem was. Feedback please.

  • @antoniocorreia9512
    @antoniocorreia9512 Před 7 měsíci

    🙏... 💖💯

  • @fabiansmith5860
    @fabiansmith5860 Před rokem +1

    It’s just complicated: no woman has confusion when it comes to giving her money 💰 😂😂

    • @TheShavedleggs
      @TheShavedleggs Před rokem

      Gold diggers and highly successful women are avoidey material, they are placed far left and far right on the gaussian bell curve. The women you should looking for are placed in the middle of the gaussian bell curve, the middle is the most common an average place to be on. And if you change your perspective you will recognize that the most average point on the gaussian bell curve is the highest point of that curve, it sits on top. Everything on the top is high value, do you agree or disagree? I'm philosophying here a bit, lol

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter Před rokem

    I am not a good man, just trying to get better

  • @joshsaundh4851
    @joshsaundh4851 Před rokem +4

    Hey Apollonia what should I do can you please help me because my girlfriend has not texted me since last Wednesday and I feel like I did something wrong to my girlfriend or my girlfriend is sick 🤒 so what should I do give my girlfriend space or should I keep texting my girlfriend and if I do not text my girlfriend do you think my girlfriend will miss me if I give her space because I really do not want too lose my girlfriend please help thanks 🙏

    • @initiatorhater0688
      @initiatorhater0688 Před rokem +1

      i assume with your GF, you had to ask her out, hit on her

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 Před rokem +1

      @@initiatorhater0688 what are you talking about

    • @initiatorhater0688
      @initiatorhater0688 Před rokem +5

      @@joshsaundh4851 just a sarcastic remark on how i always resented that guys have to be the ones to ask the girl out and make the first move

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 Před rokem +2

      @@initiatorhater0688 so are you saying I should give my girlfriend space and let my girlfriend text me first

    • @maxiecake1200
      @maxiecake1200 Před rokem +5

      Wait her to contact you

  • @Emotionlessxartist
    @Emotionlessxartist Před rokem +4

    How to get out of abusive relationship when the lady will do anything to hurt you if you leave

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +3

      I'm so sorry to hear this. You can get out. I actually made a video about the stages of leaving and emotional abusive relationship. Search leaving a toxic relationship, or abusive relationship on my channel videos. xo - Apollonia P.s. You deserve happiness

    • @Emotionlessxartist
      @Emotionlessxartist Před rokem

      @@ApolloniaPonti I left my ex and when I did she accused me or hitting her . I’ve heard other men accused of worse but this isn’t right…how do men navigate. I’m scared please pray for me.

    • @DEVGRUnotST6
      @DEVGRUnotST6 Před rokem

      You don't have to tell any of us shit, BUT, did she file a protective order against you? If not, you go fuckin' file one immediately. You absolutely have to be on the offensive if you want to come out of this in one piece.

    • @Emotionlessxartist
      @Emotionlessxartist Před rokem

      @@DEVGRUnotST6 she did because I left her she’s a scorn woman

    • @DEVGRUnotST6
      @DEVGRUnotST6 Před rokem

      @@Emotionlessxartist, I advise you to do one of two things: file anyway, and get a lawyer. Don't put anything at all in the order that could come back to incriminate you. At all. And if you can't find a lawyer to work your case, go pro se and tell the judge you wish you could afford a lawyer but sadly cannot, so you're there representing yourself until the judge can make an informed decision otherwise.

  • @TomFox1
    @TomFox1 Před rokem +2

    🙏😔

  • @c-notethelastgreatest4298

    Your hair is getting longer and the channels growing what a wonderful thing

  • @francisatta5590
    @francisatta5590 Před rokem +1

    MY GIRLFRIEND NEVER CALLS ME, SHE ONLY CALLS ME WHEN SHE SEES MY MISSED CALL. AND AS A MATTER OF FACT I DON'T CONTACT HER OFTEN BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO LOOK NEEDY. WHAT BOTHERS ME IS THAT UPON THE FACT THAT SHE DOESN'T CONTACT ME SHE COMPLAINS BITTERLY OF HOW I HARDLY REACH OUT TO HER, SHE EVEN TELLS ME I'VE TAKEN HER AS A SIDE CHICK BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE HER THE ATTENTION SHE WANTS. PLEASE HELP- IS SHE TRYING TO MANIPULATE ME OR SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME.....I want to quit on her but I feel I might be making a mistake and that I might be wrong

    • @Vaan1984
      @Vaan1984 Před rokem +2

      You`re already playing along her game if you ask me. A woman, who`s really into you will try to be with you as much as possible. It could be shes pretty insecure, maybe emotional damage. So if you want to see her true colors, try to ignore your "not too much attention"-rule for some time and see how she reacts. If she gets needier or she acts like youve gone in her trap, you can easily dodge the bullet and leave ASAP - if she makes an effort, cause she sees yours, then you can go deeper with her. Also, tell her what you want from the relationship with her - women like men with dignity (well except the toxic ones, no man whants in their lifes). All the best.

    • @francisatta5590
      @francisatta5590 Před rokem +1

      @@Vaan1984 God bless you for your concern

  • @jiggyjames9237
    @jiggyjames9237 Před rokem

    Remember you are always loved bye for now...

  • @timothyadrian5313
    @timothyadrian5313 Před rokem +4

    I’m 60 and in very good shape it is almost impossible to find a good woman in the United States most of them are bigger women and I’m just not attracted to big women at all so I hate to think I will be alone the rest of my life I like to travel and have fun and it seems also woman my age don’t want to travel there just want to sit in the house and clean and watch TV and I’m outgoing and like to be doing something or going somewhere

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +2

      Hi there! Totally understand. We get this a lot. I have many men in my group coaching program physically fit, and look a lot younger than the age they are. There are women out there that are fit as well sometimes they will be a little younger. We match these men with these types of women when they graduate my group coaching program. You should check it out. :-) Just visit the link in description that says work with me.

    • @timothyadrian5313
      @timothyadrian5313 Před rokem +1

      @@ApolloniaPonti ok thank you everyone tells me to go to Columbia and find somewhere there but I don’t speak Spanish lol so that would be a problem also

    • @Evermore2017
      @Evermore2017 Před rokem +3

      Europe

    • @jonathankalolokidmc2756
      @jonathankalolokidmc2756 Před rokem

      buy you a blow up doll.

    • @timothyadrian5313
      @timothyadrian5313 Před rokem

      @@jonathankalolokidmc2756 I like how you get on here and put the most stupid comment on here why even comment if you can’t use your brain and it’s not all about sex in a relationship you find your best friend to communicate and and to hang out with each other and have fun so you sure don’t no anything about having a relationship I feel sorry for any woman you get

  • @alute5532
    @alute5532 Před rokem

    Aggression aource
    Lack of self esteem am I worth to have her?
    Also comes from mindset trait behavior
    2. Disrespect
    1 person always superior
    Polarity is a must
    So no polarity with disrespect

  • @jaredvaughan1665
    @jaredvaughan1665 Před rokem

    Like attracts like

  • @solomonmurphy142
    @solomonmurphy142 Před rokem +1

    14:56

  • @markbrown7058
    @markbrown7058 Před rokem

    The entitlement could be said for females as well

  • @daycrow8651
    @daycrow8651 Před rokem

    I enjoyed this video but felt it would have been 100% acknowledging women innately feeling entitled to a mans attention, validation, and resources without effort or appreciation.
    It’s a form of emotional manipulation causing disregulation in the man which leads to needy behavior. Blatantly saying this would have been nice as that is the power dynamic present in modern relationships women won’t acknowledge or tell men to reject women who mutually grow the relationship

  • @otonielrodriguez1153
    @otonielrodriguez1153 Před rokem +1

    OMG!! Just make daddy a sandwich!

  • @nextleader7543
    @nextleader7543 Před rokem +18

    Never ask a fish how to catch a fish.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +12

      So original :-)

    • @david3188col
      @david3188col Před rokem +6

      A fish would probably know since many catch..... other fish.💡

    • @nextleader7543
      @nextleader7543 Před rokem +1

      @@david3188col Big fish eat small fish not catch them.

    • @david3188col
      @david3188col Před rokem +1

      @Next Leader oh we re playing semantics with your room temp iq comment? Ok lol

    • @atlantishorizon
      @atlantishorizon Před rokem +1

      @@nextleader7543 she is right though, only for healthy relationships which are very rare.

  • @daniell5740
    @daniell5740 Před rokem

    I mean you're like a 5 lol

    • @deeznutz294
      @deeznutz294 Před rokem +2

      Unnecessary bro. She’s trying to help men.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před rokem +4

      Thank you. Immaturity at its finest.

  • @GetRightEarly
    @GetRightEarly Před rokem +2

    Problem:#1 caring what a woman thinks.
    Problem:#2 caring how a woman feels.
    Solution to 99% of men & woman relationship issues is 🥁🥁🥁 Neverrrrr get married....