कैसे चुनें एक PERFECT LIFE PARTNER? | RELATIONSHIP HACKS | By Anubhav Jain

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  • čas přidán 22. 12. 2020
  • #relationship #love #life #lifepartner #relationshiphacks #anubhavjain #psychology #behaviour #maturity #intercastemarriage

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  • @aamankhan7823
    @aamankhan7823 Před 3 lety +386

    Bhaiya I have been following you from above 3 years now.. and I'll tell you that I haven't seen a more perfect man than you. I may sound stupid.. I know that one shouldn't judge another person on the basis of particular Quora answer or a single youtube video.. but it's not that. I have read thousands of your answers.. and seen hundreds of your videos recently.. but I have failed all the time to pick up a single default in you. At times you leave me at awe.. that how can one be so perfect? I don't know bhaiya.. I guess you need to make a video about your "bad side" or "defaults" someday :P otherwise you are becoming an epitome of perfection for me. XD
    Lastly, I'd just say that I love you, bhaiya. And what you are doing is really helpful. Not just to me.. but to thousands others who are watching it and millions others who will watch it in future, after you get very famous here (I genuinely want that to happen)
    Keep going ❤️

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  Před 3 lety +128

      Thanks a lot Aaman, your message made me emotional. I definitely have a bad side, In fact, I have much more flaws than normal people, but whatever I am, the amount of respect I have got from brothers and sisters like you is indeed a huge achievement for me. God bless you :)

    • @dikshapandey8100
      @dikshapandey8100 Před 3 lety +6

      Hmare FD ki cast alg bt osne court marriage kr li fir bhi mere FD ke ghr wale nhi man rhe h wo mentally disturb ho rhi kya kre wo

    • @dikshapandey8100
      @dikshapandey8100 Před 3 lety +2

      @@AnubhavJain plz sir help kriye hme to Dr rehta h ki wo dono khi Kuch kr na le

    • @ananyasakshy
      @ananyasakshy Před 3 lety +1

      @@dikshapandey8100 jb dono court marriage kr lie h toh fir dare q rhe...unhe manae, smjhae, k hm dono court marriage kr lie h..toh alag toh waise v nai hone wale ..aap log man jaenge toh achha rhega... Ladka agr settle h toh apni wife k sath alag rhe.. parents av nai maan rhe ...dhire dhire toh maan hi jaenge...apne bacche se parents naraj nai rhte...

    • @dikshapandey8100
      @dikshapandey8100 Před 3 lety +3

      Sir ldki ke parents mrne ki dhamki dete h jisse ldki dr jati h bolte h oske sath jaogi to hm log mr jayenge wo Sochti h sch me mr jayenge hme lgta h bs oski family ose drati h

  • @nationlist9247
    @nationlist9247 Před 3 měsíci +15

    भाई शादी एक जुआ है , आप चाहे कितना भी सोच समझ कर शादी करो इससे कोई फर्क नही पड़ता , समय के साथ हालात और लोग बदल जाते हैं ।

  • @Yalla_Habibi_Cat1
    @Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 Před 2 lety +196

    It Happens only in India.
    "Dont talk to strangers
    Marry them."😀

  • @suryansh2300
    @suryansh2300 Před 3 lety +281

    Qualities to be seen ur life partner :---
    1. Money should not be first priority but financial stability is must
    2. Critical requirements and Interest should be cleared with ur partner
    3. Understand their way of life
    4. Understand their behaviour n nature
    5. Never run behind looks
    6. Understand their way of thinking

    • @soumsgaming238
      @soumsgaming238 Před 3 lety +17

      Money should not be first priority bt financial stability is imp

    • @aishwaryasingh6960
      @aishwaryasingh6960 Před 3 lety +6

      @@soumsgaming238 financial and emotional stability is very important..👍

    • @soumsgaming238
      @soumsgaming238 Před 3 lety +5

      @@aishwaryasingh6960 Yess mutual understanding is also imp

    • @aishwaryasingh6960
      @aishwaryasingh6960 Před 3 lety +2

      @@soumsgaming238 I agree 👍

    • @SHINCHAN-hn4cw
      @SHINCHAN-hn4cw Před 3 lety +5

      money is the first priority 😭

  • @santoshkumaryadav805
    @santoshkumaryadav805 Před 2 lety +15

    सर वीडियो लम्बी नही हुई दिमाग घूम गया जीवन जीने का तरीका आपने बता दिया ,बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद दिल से💐💐💐

  • @nitu5901
    @nitu5901 Před 3 lety +115

    हर बात आपकी सही है 👍👍100%

  • @nidaansari5102
    @nidaansari5102 Před 3 lety +11

    Oh my god .............this way of thinking makes you genuine man seriously this vedio is worth to see

  • @NishaNisha-ls4wi
    @NishaNisha-ls4wi Před 2 lety +5

    Bilkul Sahi Kaha sir Apne .... Choti Soch k insan SE door hi rehna Chahiye .

  • @NamiSwaminathan
    @NamiSwaminathan Před 3 lety +15

    I love your videos because you don't waste your time, you just explain everything with examples... I appreciate it 😊💯

  • @madhurigowda5782
    @madhurigowda5782 Před 3 lety +13

    Much needed video... Sir, log shaadi main paisa, looks hi matter karti hn aaj kal.. Relationship ki koi value nai hain.. Aur apne sahi kahan... Requirements clear honi chaiyea.
    As u said kuch log hi hello b ni bolte.. Hadh toh tab hogayi jab larke walo ne muje bola shaadi k baad frget yr mom.. Maine kushi kushi un logo ko bye boldi.. Muje aise log chaiyea ek family banke rahe naki rishto ko tode..Aur jo log looks dekar ate hn unhe b chod deti hun... Infinite likes from me to this video.. Thanks a ton..

  • @pinkysingh3370
    @pinkysingh3370 Před 3 lety +266

    Great sir. What ever you said is fact how people show off their marriage on social media 😂 4 din ka honeymoon aur saari Umar compromise.

  • @monipatel9494
    @monipatel9494 Před 3 lety +9

    आंख में आंसू आ गए sir ,may God bless you 🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐

  • @aishwaryasingh6960
    @aishwaryasingh6960 Před 3 lety +8

    This video really help to solve my confusion and find a good life partner...aapne sahi kaha khayalat milna bhaut jaruri hai ..thanks..👍🙏💛

  • @k.p.4818
    @k.p.4818 Před 3 lety +41

    Sir, I discovered your channel just a few days back. It is very heartening to know that there are guys like you in India. While I agree with all the points you mentioned here, the problem is how to judge in a matter of months. Like who would know, if a guy is insecure. There is no way to ask that and expect an answer. The only way to figure it out, is to spend enough time with the person. What if you get to know he is a very doubtful and possessive guy once you get married?

  • @d.jaatchoudhary2956
    @d.jaatchoudhary2956 Před 3 lety +9

    Mere partner ka nature bahut achha h...bahut open think insan h, khushmijaj h.....or sach bolte h hmesha..Hr baat hm share krte h .....i am so lucky 🤗

    • @riyazahmed7048
      @riyazahmed7048 Před 3 lety

      Kitne din hue hai abhi

    • @thequeen3070
      @thequeen3070 Před 3 lety +1

      Kitna time hua 😅 mere sath bhi ek aisa hi insan tha..Ab nhi hai ek saal ka relation ek din me hi tut gya, samne wala hi breakup kr gya..reason ye ki mai bevkuf hu, gussa krti hu aisa bola usne...!😒

    • @122stylegaming
      @122stylegaming Před 3 měsíci

      Reason tum ab usey khubsurat nahi lagti thi isliye Aisa bola valid reason nahi hai breakup ka ​@@thequeen3070

  • @jyotsnagangwar1298
    @jyotsnagangwar1298 Před 2 lety +10

    Each and every word is true , and straight forward.

  • @sanchiohri
    @sanchiohri Před 2 lety +10

    Well said sir 😇! Thank you for directing us right path!

  • @binda593
    @binda593 Před 3 lety +17

    Great Thoughts Sir we always meet such people at some point in our lives And at that time we come to know this is so true 🙂😊

  • @brao9909
    @brao9909 Před 3 lety +27

    I don't know why but I feel your way of thinking or expressing is 90% similar to my old and durable way of thinking or belief system... 🙏☺️😊🙏

  • @shikhabector3018
    @shikhabector3018 Před 3 lety +5

    Sr...wow..every single point is based on logic ...by chance today i found ur vds..this vd is 2nd valuble chpter fr m...nd god bless u many more..u r doing a gr8 job

  • @panchalhardik4118
    @panchalhardik4118 Před 3 lety +7

    Sir you look like a doctor who live near my house. Love from Gujarat. You explained very well all topics. And you clear some doubts, my problems and my things and thoughts.

  • @priyankachauhan2714
    @priyankachauhan2714 Před 3 lety +30

    U r really great sir🙏🙏 every girl should watch this vedio. Hat's off u👏👏👏👏

  • @yoga_journalist1896
    @yoga_journalist1896 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you so much guiding me, I strongly agree with all the points. 💯 True

  • @ahanasheikh625
    @ahanasheikh625 Před 3 lety +6

    Ye khubsurti wali baat k liye apko Salam q ki mere Ghar me khud huaa h asa .... 4 din ki Chadni hoti h ye khubsurti fir ladka ho ya ladki ♥.... Bahut suqriya apse bahut koe bahut kuch shikh sakte h ...bahut aachi lagi apki msg ..... Thqq sir

  • @dishathakur7605
    @dishathakur7605 Před 3 lety +3

    I have been looking for these only unconsciously. I'm happy to watch this

  • @agarkardevashree7619
    @agarkardevashree7619 Před 3 lety +5

    Each words you say is right sir thanks today's we all need this kind of information

  • @t.f.k.allinone2598
    @t.f.k.allinone2598 Před 3 lety +64

    Sir your childrens are soooooooo lucky in whole world....you are world's most bestest parents....

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you :)

    • @Shikshika980
      @Shikshika980 Před 3 lety

      Correct

    • @t.f.k.allinone2598
      @t.f.k.allinone2598 Před 3 lety

      @@Futtrade bestest ka Matlab sabse aachha hota hai or agar khudko Samaj main nahi aaya to khud ko anpadh samjo dusro ko nahi samje... 😡😡😡😡😡

    • @t.f.k.allinone2598
      @t.f.k.allinone2598 Před 3 lety

      @@Futtrade lagta hai aapke pass kuchh jyada hi degrees hai, school main teacher ki job aasani se mil jayegi Aap Apna yeh gyan wahi jakar sikhana mujeh isaki koi zarurat nahi hai ....

    • @t.f.k.allinone2598
      @t.f.k.allinone2598 Před 3 lety

      @@Futtrade thank you so much for advice.....

  • @nickyoraon5521
    @nickyoraon5521 Před 2 lety +4

    Today I visited your channel for the first time... Really true sir.. The 2nd last point is so much true..

  • @almazshaikh7861
    @almazshaikh7861 Před 3 lety +3

    Good Nature compatibility understanding is much needed than love/looks.

  • @shirulka
    @shirulka Před 3 lety +22

    Very nice Sir.... Compatibility, understanding, way of life and living, behaviour / nature, ego, thinking is main for life partner ...true👌👍

  • @cs8263
    @cs8263 Před 3 lety +6

    Bhot hi practical points..... Amazing!!!

  • @learninganyway515
    @learninganyway515 Před 3 lety +1

    Sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏you are amazing
    I hope coming generations would learn from you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ssharma840
    @ssharma840 Před 2 lety +3

    Thankyou sir, mere jese bht logg jo preshan ho kisi b vjh se , achi baate mature bnati sikhati h,, thanx , hope aisi achi vedios bnate rhege🙏🏻

  • @xyz-pv7fc
    @xyz-pv7fc Před 3 lety +5

    Sir you are best relationship mentor ❣️

  • @sazidkhanmotivational4667

    Sahi farmaya aapne. Imaan, Insaf aur mohabbat mein sabit kadam rakhna chahiye. Jhoot bolne se faasle bante hain aur sach bolne se Faisle hote hain. Jhoot bolkr short time ke liye riste bachane se achha hai sach bol kar apne jamir ko bachaya jaye. Ek din apne rab se bhi mulaqaat karni hai.

  • @yashuverma6782
    @yashuverma6782 Před 2 lety +3

    i have learnt many points from this video,really practical points will help me in future, thanks...

  • @maneeshkumar342
    @maneeshkumar342 Před 3 lety +7

    Always speak you ❤❤Important point of fact..

  • @gauriname715
    @gauriname715 Před 3 lety +4

    I like the way u started the video..without wasting time..👍

  • @soniaray1345
    @soniaray1345 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you so much Sir...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Shreya..h
    @Shreya..h Před 2 lety +4

    Best video for the people who love money, awesome sir👏👏👏

  • @akshitasajnani3819
    @akshitasajnani3819 Před 3 lety +20

    Thank you very much... this video was a must needed one. You encovered all the critical points, one should think before choosing their life partner. Appreciate your efforts.

  • @amrutaukarande9126
    @amrutaukarande9126 Před 3 lety +102

    I was watching , listening this video. My mother also listen your thoughts and she appreciated you.

  • @shaivya47
    @shaivya47 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for such an amazing words anubhav. We need people like you around us.

    • @jyotidasultrapromax
      @jyotidasultrapromax Před 11 měsíci

      In India -
      ~A female police officer can arrest a man but a male police officer cannot arrest and women.
      ~If a women shows middle finger to a men it is not crime, if a man shows middle finger then it is crime
      ~When a women is naked it is right of her body, when a man is naked it obscene.
      ~If an women marry multiple times it is her right to live(Neha dhupia said she can sleep with 5 men and its her right) when a man marry for 2nd time then he is characterless.
      ~In America , pregnant women don’t have any paid leave in India they have.
      ~Women can demand money for their education , marriage and alimony from parents but men in India cannot.
      ~Women have power to file 498 IPC domestic violence but domestic violence against men is not heard

  • @shaivya47
    @shaivya47 Před 2 lety +1

    Best video I have ever seen..best than all top motivational speaker. Keep going and thanks anubhav

  • @shreyakumari6018
    @shreyakumari6018 Před rokem +1

    Dukh ki baat yahi hai ki log sab jante huye shadi ke tym pe parents aur bachho ke thinking nhi mil pati..logo ki soch badlne ki jarurat hai..aapki bat bilkul sahi hai..

  • @varshaagarwal5530
    @varshaagarwal5530 Před 3 lety +9

    I have no words to appreciate you ...you have cleared all my doubts...and apna bilkul sah bola ki perfect life partner kaise milta ha😘

  • @upmarai909
    @upmarai909 Před 3 lety +5

    U r ryt sir....sbki soch nhi bdl skte

  • @bgp4611
    @bgp4611 Před 2 lety +1

    We both have same goal and in same class, we are just same way of thinking and we never get bored, his smile is like painkilller for me,he is very handsome for me and child hearted. All the things which i want to see and who i am. He is my true love.

  • @mehakbohra4567
    @mehakbohra4567 Před 2 lety +6

    Sirji 🙏
    Nobody is born perfect in this world ..

  • @anukumari2990
    @anukumari2990 Před 3 lety +13

    I came across u this time but since my life has all shades n I can relate to Ur wisdom I m getting in the process of marrying my man whom I love yes it's a love at first sight but with time we understand each other n Everything is great with god's blessings

  • @nehabansal6829
    @nehabansal6829 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much Anubhav bhaiya..your all points are so practical..keep guiding us ..we really need this...

  • @abhishekalandkar1537
    @abhishekalandkar1537 Před 2 lety +1

    Salute bhai , Salute. Ye banda kis intent se jeeta hai yar. Superb , nailed ..

  • @Shivanisingh_1999
    @Shivanisingh_1999 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much sir 🙏 I cleared my self just because of ur videos

  • @maheshwaribandala8514
    @maheshwaribandala8514 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you sir for giving a clarity on groom selection

  • @kajaldhiman5547
    @kajaldhiman5547 Před 3 lety +37

    I love your vedios you always encourage tha girls to be independent ❤️

  • @palak8258
    @palak8258 Před 2 lety +2

    Thnku apki is video's sare doubt clear ho gye

  • @kdthakur2981
    @kdthakur2981 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for helping me now I’m done with my decision ❤️

  • @sumitmishra6021
    @sumitmishra6021 Před 2 lety +5

    My family presurising for marriage but before that I have seen this video nice sir it will really help me for seeing all point in videos 🙏

  • @kirtideshpande5086
    @kirtideshpande5086 Před 3 lety +3

    Good tips 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    Human relationship is very complicated.

  • @ashwanikumar2014
    @ashwanikumar2014 Před 3 lety +2

    Such a giving good and valuable thoughts for choosing a perfect partner 👌👍.God bless you .

  • @vinnupachu3891
    @vinnupachu3891 Před rokem +1

    Sir I salute you mere dil me aapke liye sach me bhut se bhi bhut izzat hogi your all videos is heart' touching

  • @kyansharma
    @kyansharma Před 3 lety +25

    Very true and helpful advice, thank you very much for answering the question I had asked you a question on similar lines some time back sir, I'm glad and grateful to know that you remembered sir! Congrats on the 7 thousand subscribers too! :D

    • @AnubhavJain
      @AnubhavJain  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you bhai, love your motivating comments 😃

    • @kyansharma
      @kyansharma Před 3 lety +1

      @@AnubhavJain Glad to hear that sir! :D

  • @anjaleetiwari3570
    @anjaleetiwari3570 Před 3 lety +4

    Bahut khoob sir
    Thanku so much

  • @mehakbohra4567
    @mehakbohra4567 Před 2 lety +3

    Yes u right sir ji
    Only money n looks r not important for marriage 🙏 whole life u hv to spend with ur partner
    Nature , ,Qualifications ,personality ..Compatibilty ...I would say .Understanding is another imp..factor . between 2 people

  • @somyamishra5185
    @somyamishra5185 Před 3 lety +2

    Truth of life....great video..👏👏👏

  • @think_possitive
    @think_possitive Před 3 lety +6

    Abhi aur tutenge jamaane ke bhram..😍😍.. Aap isi tarah video bnate rhe to muskurayegi bhuli bisri khwahishe aur dur Ho jayenge dilo ke waham........ God Bless you 👏👏👏👏

  • @asharanirath6041
    @asharanirath6041 Před 3 lety +77

    Sir your videos honestly helped me a lot.. Bit by bit every words u have spoken is logical and relevent.. Keep motivating n Sir I wish you grow as a successful CZcamsr in near future.. Regards

  • @arvinderkaur8443
    @arvinderkaur8443 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you sir for making me aware.

  • @mp-wj6ri
    @mp-wj6ri Před 3 lety +1

    Real man talk with facts 👌👌

  • @kashif87ful
    @kashif87ful Před 3 lety +4

    True , aapne bilkul sahi bola. I

  • @ektapanwar8360
    @ektapanwar8360 Před 3 lety +8

    Thanks sir.... Very nice 👌👌👍

  • @dipachatterjee8911
    @dipachatterjee8911 Před 3 lety

    ✨🌺✨🙏Thank you for giving light of such a important sensitive point..✨🦋
    ✨🌸

  • @coldstone1809
    @coldstone1809 Před 3 lety +1

    Sir aapke vidioes kafi jyada knowledable h plz aap issi tarah vidioes banate rahiye isse hume ek Achhi siksha milti h or aisi baante humko sayad hi koi vidio me mil pati thanks for this🤗

  • @loveandpeace3504
    @loveandpeace3504 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙂 grateful to have a mentor like you .

  • @poojakumawat1030
    @poojakumawat1030 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you sir.... It's really nice video...😊

  • @meghamaheshwari4486
    @meghamaheshwari4486 Před 2 lety

    Thanks u tube for recommending this channel..👍

  • @swapniljamthe574
    @swapniljamthe574 Před 3 lety +6

    Great job sir💯 thank you so much sir this is real fact 🙏🙏🙏👆

  • @ppscreativediaries1739
    @ppscreativediaries1739 Před 3 lety +6

    Very true sir❤️ ur thoughts r really appreciable

  • @ankitabhardwaj4010
    @ankitabhardwaj4010 Před 3 lety +4

    Very good, really important and informative video😍

  • @gopalkrishan3725
    @gopalkrishan3725 Před 2 lety +1

    Realy you are talented person. Salute.

  • @yashvijay3415
    @yashvijay3415 Před 3 lety +1

    Right baat he .....sir ...motive krne ke liye tnq🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @radhikatanwar6483
    @radhikatanwar6483 Před 3 lety +13

    Seriously this is reality of our life.....
    sir you said everything is right ....🙂

  • @geetika5914
    @geetika5914 Před 3 lety +6

    Very helpful video 👍👌👌👌👌

  • @ashwinseth634
    @ashwinseth634 Před rokem

    Last few days se aapko follow kar raha hu bhaiya, very helpful, keep uploading aise videos, specially on self improvement and emotional empowerment.

  • @alkachowrasiya2700
    @alkachowrasiya2700 Před 2 lety +2

    As always your each and every topic are so amazing 👌 sir ji we love you alot 🙏 nd this one so so awesome 💯🔥 topic in this 21cencuray.

  • @manishaambwani1571
    @manishaambwani1571 Před 3 lety +8

    Sir you have a very practical approach...n the way u speak is very captivating....

  • @poojaYadav-cy4cn
    @poojaYadav-cy4cn Před 3 lety +5

    Kuch batein hoti jo hme pta hoti h pr ham use pyar me bhul jate h ,but your vdo realizes me that ki wo batein itni bhi simple nhi hoti ...ek life mili h ,usme galti hongi pr ,kuch bhi krne se pahle sochna chahiye....you really motivating lots of people ....we luv u sir...

  • @Angelgirl6
    @Angelgirl6 Před 2 lety +1

    Well said sir.. agreed to each and every single word

  • @sandhyaji566
    @sandhyaji566 Před 2 lety

    Bahut sahi baate batayi bhaiya aapne aur ek dum sach bhi hai...thank u so much

  • @sejalbenpatel2481
    @sejalbenpatel2481 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you sir.... very nice through

  • @geniuskids3596
    @geniuskids3596 Před 3 lety +8

    So true 🙏🙏

  • @seemankit479
    @seemankit479 Před 2 lety +1

    Totally agree with you sir🙏💝

  • @poojashahu8992
    @poojashahu8992 Před 2 lety +2

    you are great sir 😊 thank you so much sir🙏❤️

  • @anumishra8104
    @anumishra8104 Před 3 lety +12

    I don't know how I landed up to this channel, but every point of urs is perfect.
    Thanks for sharing it was to the point.🙂🙏

  • @RaniGupta-uf9yb
    @RaniGupta-uf9yb Před 3 lety +3

    Hats off sir amazing........👏👏

  • @arifaparveen3852
    @arifaparveen3852 Před 2 lety

    Thank you soo much sir.... Surely it will help me in future✌

  • @graphygaming1529
    @graphygaming1529 Před rokem

    Thanks for Educating right knowledge to people bahot hi Virtuous work kr rahe ho aap 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @priatripathy7433
    @priatripathy7433 Před 3 lety +4

    Wow brother such accuracy Thankyou ♥️ Appreciate it

  • @soloxnayan214
    @soloxnayan214 Před 3 lety +9

    True fact is everyone should do meditation everyday to make mind calm to make life perfect ❤️from assam

  • @artirajwanshi7166
    @artirajwanshi7166 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much sir ji ❤️🙏