I'm sorry for the super long intro, but I needed to explain myself. Thank you for keeping the channel alive while I dealt with my addiction. I'm embarrassed to share this, and disappointed in myself that I let it get a hold of me like it did. Even though it's hard for me to share this, I needed to be transparent with you as I owe much of everything I've built in my life to the viewers and supporters. Here is to a new era of the Phlydaily Channel! Healthy Channel Healthy Life. You guys rock, thank you again for checking in on me and the channel. Oddbawz was supposed to post his video today as well, but he forgot to clear out his SSD and it didn't record đ Playing with him later today so a Phly and Odd video should be out on this channel this week. Also if anyone wants to pre sub to DriveDaily here it is :P - czcams.com/channels/5F8ol5G50od7UMpPYfzrdw.html
Reading all the comments have been the biggest pleasure I've had all year on CZcams. Thank you for sharing all of your stories and situations you're going through... I hope my journey and story can help you when you finally want to cross over to the other side. o7
You got this amigo - youâll find out that you donât need it - I made the same changes back in 2020 after my alcoholic dad died. Hit me up if you want to shoot the breeze. T-4-6 and T-2-4 my dude
A true man recognizes his faults, and then even tells his 1.3+ million viewers about it. Coming clean is on the path to being clean. Best of health and the best for your future. I have so much respect for you, and I hope you and your family will be able to rebuild happily and healthily.
I hardly comment on anything. But. I wondered where you went. I always pop your videos on the second screen while i play. And sometimes when i drive, I just to listen. You always seem to be a positive person, and it helps me relax. You got this man.
He really does have a cool personality. I never watch people play games, but I watched this man starting a long time ago play a game... that I didn't even play. I didn't touch War Thunder for years. I was into DCS: World, and that community memes on War Thunder. But I loved listening to this man just talk and watch him play and all that. Weird.
The first step to solving your problem is admitting you have one. I wish you godspeed in your recovery. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones, but don't take that as a burden. Everyone goes at their own pace.
Michael, you are more than your addiction. You always have been and you always will be. I know that the struggle of an addict so often leads to them to defining themselves by that addiction, but you are worthy of so much more than that label. Recognizing your struggle and guarding your life and your heart against it is always the key to overcome it. Just remember that who you are is not defined by the label of addict, and the life that you have is worthy of being lived just as much as you are worthy and capable of being loved.
My dad died from alcoholism when I was 18. I'm 28 now, and since he died I've been struggling with alcohol abuse. I feel the same as you do, I let every one down, I'm getting old and losing my opportunities in life. i hope I can have your strength to overcome it. Congratulations! And it's great to have you back Phly!
My dad was an alcoholic. He beat it and other addictions like smoking. It cost him, triple bypass and eventually cancer, but he lived with some luck into his 80's, having decided to go sober after my mom died in her mid 40's. While you're in for a lifelong battle, the greatest resource is family and knowing that you have a problem. After that every step away and into a healthier lifestyle will get easier. I never started drinking because seeing my dad and his struggle was hard enough. I figured I didn't want to walk in his footsteps. But, like with everything, it did effect me and it did leave a mark on me. While you are doing all of this for yourself, it is good to know that you're helping the rest of the family deal with it as well.
Thank you Phly for fighting your addiction for not only the community, but for your family. They are the most important people in your life and you fought for them real good king.
Iâm 3 years 6 months and 24 days sober. I was a blackout drunk for 22 years. Hospitalized 5 times, 2 life flights almost died 3 times all from drinking. Went to rehab and learned how to live life. Sobriety has to be done for yourself. If youâre doing it for others itâs never going to last. Help yourself before you can help others. Alcoholics have to put as much effort into sobriety as they put into drinking. Iâm happy for you Phly.
it always amazes me how an alcoholic always can count in a split second how many days they are sober. if you ask me i would say something like "I didnt drink for some years now" whats up with that? wish you all the best life u can have
I have never commented in over a decade, but I wanted to say that I've been watching you since I was a child now, I've played with you ages ago on streams in custom battles and even if I recall a few squaded Historical Battles (yes that long ago). I'm an adult now and I have to say that your life has always in some way seemed parallel to mine. In this case, these last few months have been very harsh on me as well, and I've recently just broken through. To see you upload again and be truthful has furthered my once again happiness, I just wanted you to know that. Even though a youtube/community medium you have always helped me and so with that said, I am sure that you are and will always be the best father to your children. Continue the great work, we are all here for you, even the silent ones like me. Be true to yourself, always improve and be true Phly. :) /salute
As a young man who grew up fatherless in a alcoholic family, I commend you this is what real men, GOOD men do. I can truly say all young men need to take a note from you and im glad you are such a good influence for your community. Thank you
That's phenomenal to come through and be 23 years in good from that. Random comment who just noticed this amongst the mass, but hope it matters. Amazing work.
Steve, I know you'll probably not see this, but I'm a recovering Heroin addict. Been almost 13 years clean from it, but my brother, I can't tell you how happy we are to have you back. As so many others have said, you have so much support among us. I'm glad you're well and I'm glad you realized everything before it was too late. What truly makes the difference is finding something that matters to yourself more than the substance... Something that will get you through and make you realize going back isn't an option... We love you, we'll always be here to support you and I'm so glad and grateful you're getting well. We love you buddy.
@@alexchalmers3886 Thank you man, sincerely. Hope you are well. It's been a journey. Not many of us make it out, I'm just so thankful I did. Life is so much better.
Proud of you man. So many times in my line of work, Iâve seen absolutely heartbreaking things that have to do with heroine and usually it ends terribly. Iâm glad youâre here and glad you put that behind you.
To everyone who has commented, thank you. Itâs great people like you who get some of us through our dark days⊠like I said I just had to decide going back wasnât an option. Iâm so grateful I did, for everyone and everything I have today, I know for a fact I wouldnât have them and everything, or probably even be alive anymore if I hadnât. Everything and every day has a blessing from September 2011 forward.
Everyone in my family has struggled with alcoholism, I'm the only one who never picked up the habit. Big kudos, and much respect, for taking some time to take care of yourself and get it under control - I've seen first hand how damaging it can be.
I'm a alcoholic myself and I got my 2 months chip not to long ago and dam it's hard to stay sober at times. I'm happy that you saw the problems that you had and worked on them Just for today â€ïž
So strong of you Phly!! My mom is also a recovering alcoholic. It took my sister and me years to build up the courage to confront her and it sort of broke our family. Iâm really proud of you for realising you have a problem before you let it affect others.
Jesus Phly, I just assumed you were being an awesome dad and enjoying your kids while you could. I never would have guessed you were battling addiction. I'm glad you're trying to get help and make that change. So glad to have you back. :)
Hey Phly, thanks for telling your story. Now let me tell you mine. Itâs 100% true. 2020 in March when the world shut down, I was laid off for two months, I ruined a 7 year relationship and picked up a bottle, but at the same time I found your channel. I bought the only laptop I could afford and downloaded war thunder using a mom and pop restaurants Wi-Fi. For the next year and a half if I wasnât at work, I was at the bar and if I wasnât there I was playing war thunder. I was finally able to realize I had a problem, I poured all my liquor down the sink, I quit going to the bars, I played a lot of war thunder. Through you I found Odd so when he told his story I related to it so much. Fast forward a couple years sober and I fixed that relationship and weâre getting married in July. This past weekend my grandfather passed away and once again as I move into a hard time in my life Phly and Odd are back. This is honestly the biggest Iâve smiled on several days, Thank you Phly, for everything.
Eyyy nice to know you fixed that relationship and are getting married!! Congrats on that man đȘđ»đȘđ» Keep fighting and lean on those who love you so you know you are not alone đ
@@yashrawat7682 Id reccomend you watch the video but anyway he basically was an alcoholic and he was letting down his family and his community, and now he seems to go back to beeing a good normal person
I've watched your channel for years Phly, so proud of you for being honest about the recent break you took, takes balls, takes courage. Never be ashamed to take a step back, reflect, especially if it's something that will ultimately lead to your well-being and the well-being of your family. That is what being a man and having true growth, maturity is about. You're awesome bro, never give in, never give up on sobriety. đđŒđđŒđȘđŒ
Alcohol is by far the most dangerous substance in America. Easy to get, easy to fall into a hole with it. Glad u realized early and addressed the issue. Welcome back!
It turns people into the worst most insufferable clowns when you have to be around a drunk they're Sooo Annoying just being around someone like that brings back BAD memories from my s$@%head dad honestly there's nothing that can get me more mad then my dad and people who act like that it's a rage that instantly boils up inside me SMH wow literally right know just typing this and thinking about it is making and hands clinch LOL geez I don't think I'll ever get through this trauma , aaaanywayssss lol keep it up phly I'm so glad you put your children and their needs and well-being before yours from the way I heard you just now talk about them I can tell your a good man and realize you needed to take a different path on working on your addiction but we all have our issues I have addiction issues aswell prob has something to do with the way I grew up it's not drinking its other things and have been working on getting there too so again keep it up I'll be rooting for you man đȘâ
Remember; there's no such thing as a recovered alcoholic. You can never touch the stuff again - no matter what! You will always have to be aware that you will always be an alcoholic. Just stay sober! Some days will be harder than others, but hang in there - you'll get through the tough times every time. Never forget why you don't drink anymore. Those kids are a great motivation. PS. Let's hope the car is not a Cybertruck. đ
Yeah, thereâs totally such a thing as a recovered alcoholic. I drank for 20 years straight without missing a day, then quit. Drank hard too. Didnât touch anything for about 4 years after quitting and for the last y years or so I might have a drink at dinner, maybe 2, but never drink at home, nor do I even want to. I despise this disease/victim thing. When you stop drinking, youâre no longer an alcoholic.
@@noserly thank you, i hate when people make it sound like youre in a sinkhole and condemned to it. My mother drank for 20 years of my life, and now she is sorting herself out. something like this, would break her into that again
Good on ya, I'm glad you can see how that affects your family and correct it, I hope you have a wondrous time with them as I know my step dad wasn't nearly as strong and we suffered for it. Stay strong my friend!
Youâve got this Phly. From someone who is also a dad as well as a recovering alcoholic, I support and respect you so much for this. Itâs not an easy thing to do, but youâre doing it. That alone takes a lot. And youâve got some great friends and one hell of a community thatâs here for you.
Been following you since 2013. I am extremely glad that you realized the issue at hand and worked on fixing it. Addiction in itself, whether if itâs drugs, alcohol or food is helluva hard. But the fact that you fought so hard against your addiction makes you amazingly strong and resilient. Stay strong Phly. Glad youâre back ole partner â€
Thinking of you mate. One day you will be proud and stronger than anyone can even dream of. Never be discouraged by a step back, nobody wakes up strong enough. Be as strong as you can, and you will be just fine :) day by day
Takes a lot to admit this to people on the internet when you could keep this all under wraps. Respect. Wishing you the best on your journey for sobriety. Happy for you, Iâve missed this channel a lot. Godspeed
Quick tip: every addict is able to relapse. There is no shame in that, it's how you bounce back from a relapse that is of upmost importance! Happy you're back man!
@@wowplayer160 I'm not, I'm just no trying to shame people struggling with addiction. I think it's better to embrace the fact relapsing is possible and not the end of the road. just a setback.
I've been dealing with a similar issue - I've been a functioning alcoholic for a while, though I'm finally getting help for it now. Bless you, man, and may you remain a shining example to so many people on this site (including myself).
I watched your videos during my fight with alcoholism. Don't ever be embarrassed about admitting your mistakes; and if you put your story out there, you'll find there's so many people that will encourage and help you. Stay the course. Thanks for everything over the years. You rock!
Iâm an alcoholic phly Iâve been watching you since I was 10 now Iâm boutta turn 21 and am over 9months alcohol free. I love you phly thank you for being a role model in my life dude!
That moment of seeing the joy in your kids eyes but knowing youâre not any where close 100% for them is the most heartbreaking thing Iâve ever experienced.
Hey Phly, been watching you for around 8 years now and playing Warthunder around the same amount of time. Crazy to think that i was watching you as a teenager to now having a kid of my own as well. So, glad that you took the time to take care of yourself and your family first. Addictions like that are no joking matter and you have a great community to support you. Keep Phlying!
Felt like a eternity for real, i wasnt upset at all i thought the family life was the path you chose and no wrong in that, but welcome back and hello again to the pain from wt phly.
Bro, ur intro actually made me cry. Im so happy and proud u are tackling addiction and working in yourself. The way you explained how you want to be the best father and husband was beautiful and just incredible! Way to be an amazing parent, husband, and person! Welcome back brother!
Steve, youâve got a big heart man. Iâve been watching for years, I remember the go avay era (such a fun time on the channel) and itâs just cool to hear you sound genuinely excited again. Keep being you dude.
I've kicked smoking cigarettes for the last 6 months and I used to get black out drunk every weekend and now I have a few drinks here and there, I picked up a few bad habits in the navy. Personal stuff always comes first, you do what's best for you Phly we'll always be here for ya
I am so sorry that you are going through this Phly. I have struggled and still struggle with certain vices. Stick to it and thank you for reminding me that my family should always come #1!
Been watching for a long time Phly from when you got married to when you first had your little baby boy Banks. I couldn't help but smile when you announced it and felt like I was going through your life with you. I felt connected, these PhloppyWhoppy videos and the cool War Thunder videos were something I felt I could connect with. You're an amazing guy Phly, love having you back, to truly you.
Phly, my father was and is a functional alcoholic. He never had this moment of introspection that you have had. As a result his relationship with my mother broke down and he was not present in my life as much as he could or should have been. I lost the chance to have a normal relationship with my dad because of his addiction. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for starting this journey, for caring enough about them to put the work in. I'm sure that when your kids are old enough to comprehend what you have been through, that they will be so, so proud of you for this moment.
Last year my uncle became an alcoholic whilst working for the police. 6 months ago he was put on payed leave and in an awful state. Just yesterday he crashed his car into a wall because he fell asleep and when the police arrived he thought he was on his sofa. He tested negative for alcohol and drugs, so i guess it shows how much it can mess you up. So happy you are back on track Phly
This only raises my respect for you man! So many people can't face up to their shit and change themselves for the better. I've been in my own ruts. God bless you man, good to have you back!
Phly addiction is a big a$$ biasch - what i wanna say is, damn LORD THANK YOU!! THAT YOU HAVE GIVE US PHLY BACK.... also happy that you fight your Demons Phly :) I'm so glad that i've been following you since 2016! We are your community - WE will be always here! Welcome back Sir! đ«Ą
Man I donât even know how to explain the excitement to have you back man, we all love you and we all want the best for you and your great family so please donât forget your the reason we are here for ya and why we show so much love, thank you phly and keep on truckin, much love
Good to hear you are doing better, I know it can be hard. I struggled with alcohol for decades and was very similar to you, I was a high functioning alcoholic. My problem also was a hold over from college, but then I also had 4 years in the military during peak GWOT which put my drinking into overdrive. I used drinking as a coping mechanism for years, any problems I would have I just ignored and drank it away. I stopped cold turkey 4 years ago, I knew if I kept traveling down that road my problems would catch up to me and the drinking would eventually kill me. I have never regretted the decision I made 4 years ago, the first couple of months were a bit of a struggle, but eventually the cravings went away the problems got dealt with. Now when I think about drinking it literally makes me sick to my stomach, and I am reminded about the way I would feel the next day. I have watched you since the early days of closed beta in WT, and I have had the chance to see you and your family grow. Take care of them and you first, they are what really matter in this life. The community will be here waiting patiently, while we wait we can spread some love to some of the other creators. I enjoy Oddbawz and Spookston who I probably would have never found without watching your channel. Thank you for update, and I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.
I'm so glad you're back and doing better! It's perfectly ok to lose our way sometimes, you're still a really good bean with a level head. It's so lovely to see you and Oddbawz just chilling and enjoying War Thunder, you two make a great team and are both hilarious XD I'm excited for the future!
your never alone brother. remember that you got your whole community behind you! I myself had a problem with alcohol. we got your back king!! where here for you!!!
My dad had an alcohol addiction. He was "lucky" in that it didn't affect his behavior in a negative way, he was a nice guy sober and a nice guy drunk, it didn't destroy his social life or his professional life. Except it killed him. Took him too young, thanks to Cirrhosis of the liver. There's no winning with alcoholism, I'm happy you're overcoming it
Thanks for beeing around and overcoming your addiction for us (the viewers) and your family i know how bad it can be. Im happy that your back and btw as an car addict i love the drivedaily idea â€â€â€. Greetings from austriađŠđč.
I never comment on really anyone videos but this made me really happy. I have watched you for years and loved your content. This was the most real video I have ever seen on here before addressing what its like to have a problem. I really respect you and keep being a great dad.
I've been watching you for years now, always coming back. I'm proud to hear that you've overcome this struggle, and you're not alone. As a certified auto technician I'd personally love to see DriveDaily pop up too đ
You were the original reason i ever found war thunder in the first place! I was on a huge 1-2 year hiatus, but I've been no life-ing the game as of late. Ive missed it. And ive missed you. Glad you're back, best of wishes!
I'm glad you took the time to heal and better yourself for you and your family, and that you are okay. We missed you yes, but you were taking the time to heal for yourself and your family and thats what means the most. We wont go anywhere Phly. You've been here to help me get through some tough times and gave me enjoyment in life when I felt hopeless. Now supporting you the best I can is my way of showing my thanks, Through the toughest of times and hiatus your community will always have your back! Much love from Canada!
Not knowing you personally in the slightest, I do wish you all the happiness in the world. From some random person online I am super proud of you and what you've done in acknowledging your addiction and how it effected you and your family. Super cool to hear! Again from someone just happy to view your videos I am glad you are in a better place. You have created a very kind and beautiful community on this little slice of the internet. Congrats on dealing with your problems! Love from Sweden
I am rooting for you bro, you can do this. Everyone has their demons, we all suffer, important thing is to keep pushing forward. Hoping and praying for your success in this battle!
Thank you so much for realizing this early and doing what's right for your phamily. My dad was apparently an alcoholic (Marine Corps habit), but he was never drunk in front of my brother or myself, and it never directly affected us but he started going to AA meetings around when my brother graduated high school. He's been sober for, heck I don't even know how long. Easily over 10 years, maybe 15. Since then, I've noticed a massive change in just how present he is and how attentive he is. Looking back through my childhood, I can easily see the difference when it seemed like he just wasn't there. He was, but not at all the same. He seemed distant. Maybe he seemed depressed. I don't know, I wasn't very attentive then either. But since he got sober, he has been the absolute best dad I could ever ask for. Always there. Always looking out for us. Always checking in. Just being exactly what a dad should be. I am so happy your family gets to experience the real you for such a long time. And I am so happy you get to be there for all of the little moments that make life worth it. Please remember, family first. Sober you is the real you. Let it shine.
My dude you are an inspiration to so many of us out there, just the way you are and act. Remember when you think that there is nothing good in life, you are whats good for a lot of people out there. Very few can say the same thing about themselves. Keep strong man!
Reallt glad you're doing better, been watching your old videos recently and it's really a good thing that you've overcame over drinking and all that bad shit, i know how that can feel to have something control you and let yourself disappoint the people who rely on you. You sound like a great man who wants whats best for his family and your community is very grateful for you and im sure everyone is glad to hear you're taking steps to become better.
Iâve been subbed to you for a minute and to hear that you were dealing with your issues makes me happy Phly, That should always be top priority so you can take care of your family and live your life to the fullest, I hope you continue to stay on the safe road to recovery â€
Your the reason i started war thunder you are the goat to come back and say all of this it means the world to me that your back keep pumping out amazing content đ«Ąđ«Ą
Kudos to you man for recognizing the problem and dealing with it. I know it couldn't have been easy. My fiancee died from her alcoholism, so i understand your fear and frustration. Hang in there man, you got support all around you.
Phly Iâve been a fan since the 2015 Flying Fortress custom lobby days. Honestly, nothing but love for you man. I hope you get to where you want to be. You are always posting videos for us to enjoy so Never forget we are all here for you. And that goes for anyone else. You are never alone while you are part of this channel.
Just want to let you know man Iâve been in that same hole and itâs hard to get yourself out. But it takes a real man to admit when he has a problem and to fix it. Glad your back dawg fr đ€
I'm sorry for the super long intro, but I needed to explain myself. Thank you for keeping the channel alive while I dealt with my addiction. I'm embarrassed to share this, and disappointed in myself that I let it get a hold of me like it did. Even though it's hard for me to share this, I needed to be transparent with you as I owe much of everything I've built in my life to the viewers and supporters. Here is to a new era of the Phlydaily Channel! Healthy Channel Healthy Life. You guys rock, thank you again for checking in on me and the channel.
Oddbawz was supposed to post his video today as well, but he forgot to clear out his SSD and it didn't record đ Playing with him later today so a Phly and Odd video should be out on this channel this week.
Also if anyone wants to pre sub to DriveDaily here it is :P - czcams.com/channels/5F8ol5G50od7UMpPYfzrdw.html
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Keep tracking in the right direction, and keep your head up!
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The only vice you should have is a crippling Golden Eagle addiction! :)
Hows your voice? Wanna see you with spookston and phly playing .
I completly agree with you
Forever shall we been bonded to the snail.
Hey bawz where have you been?
I'm glad to hear you saw you problem and decided to change it. Good job man, keep it up.
Great to have you back man, wishing you the best
Please do a big collaboration â€ïž love you, Odd and Phly, weâre one big suffering war thunder family !
Spookystone!
Yikes. Zoophile support.
Spooks and Phly, my 2 favorite wt dudes. I wish I could play at least 1 match with you guys. I've been around when WT was freshly released
So how much to have your children fr fr?
Reading all the comments have been the biggest pleasure I've had all year on CZcams. Thank you for sharing all of your stories and situations you're going through... I hope my journey and story can help you when you finally want to cross over to the other side. o7
Great to have you back! We all missed you
Missed u phly glad ya back man!!
We all missed you, but we would gladly miss you again to hear that you've made the progress you've made. You're a great guy and we all love you!!
You got this amigo - youâll find out that you donât need it - I made the same changes back in 2020 after my alcoholic dad died. Hit me up if you want to shoot the breeze. T-4-6 and T-2-4 my dude
Love ya Phly
From one dad to another, absolutely respect everything about this. Keep it up, man. You got it.
The whole war game community is showing up to this comment section
We are so back
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WE'RE BACK BABYYY
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A true man recognizes his faults, and then even tells his 1.3+ million viewers about it. Coming clean is on the path to being clean. Best of health and the best for your future. I have so much respect for you, and I hope you and your family will be able to rebuild happily and healthily.
I hardly comment on anything. But. I wondered where you went. I always pop your videos on the second screen while i play. And sometimes when i drive, I just to listen. You always seem to be a positive person, and it helps me relax. You got this man.
He really does have a cool personality. I never watch people play games, but I watched this man starting a long time ago play a game... that I didn't even play. I didn't touch War Thunder for years. I was into DCS: World, and that community memes on War Thunder. But I loved listening to this man just talk and watch him play and all that. Weird.
man this is really wholesome but dont watch youtube while drivingđđ
Addiction is a bitch. I'm an addict too. I'm happy you found a reason to tackle your problem.
You are your own reason
@@rahjah6958 sometimes it's not that easy. Sometimes and for some people, it's easier to do it for someone they love.
@@rahjah6958 if only it was that easy there wouldn't be any addicts.
The first step to solving your problem is admitting you have one. I wish you godspeed in your recovery. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones, but don't take that as a burden. Everyone goes at their own pace.
Michael, you are more than your addiction. You always have been and you always will be.
I know that the struggle of an addict so often leads to them to defining themselves by that addiction, but you are worthy of so much more than that label. Recognizing your struggle and guarding your life and your heart against it is always the key to overcome it. Just remember that who you are is not defined by the label of addict, and the life that you have is worthy of being lived just as much as you are worthy and capable of being loved.
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My dad died from alcoholism when I was 18. I'm 28 now, and since he died I've been struggling with alcohol abuse. I feel the same as you do, I let every one down, I'm getting old and losing my opportunities in life. i hope I can have your strength to overcome it. Congratulations! And it's great to have you back Phly!
Hey man you got this push through and stay hard.
You aren't old man! Plenty of fun times ahead of you!
My dad was an alcoholic. He beat it and other addictions like smoking. It cost him, triple bypass and eventually cancer, but he lived with some luck into his 80's, having decided to go sober after my mom died in her mid 40's. While you're in for a lifelong battle, the greatest resource is family and knowing that you have a problem. After that every step away and into a healthier lifestyle will get easier. I never started drinking because seeing my dad and his struggle was hard enough. I figured I didn't want to walk in his footsteps. But, like with everything, it did effect me and it did leave a mark on me. While you are doing all of this for yourself, it is good to know that you're helping the rest of the family deal with it as well.
Thank you Phly for fighting your addiction for not only the community, but for your family. They are the most important people in your life and you fought for them real good king.
We are not the most important thing in your life. always remember that your family should take priority, no matter what.
BUT WE ARE BACK!
â@@peterlacey5187 thats what he said
Iâm 3 years 6 months and 24 days sober. I was a blackout drunk for 22 years. Hospitalized 5 times, 2 life flights almost died 3 times all from drinking. Went to rehab and learned how to live life. Sobriety has to be done for yourself. If youâre doing it for others itâs never going to last. Help yourself before you can help others. Alcoholics have to put as much effort into sobriety as they put into drinking. Iâm happy for you Phly.
it always amazes me how an alcoholic always can count in a split second how many days they are sober. if you ask me i would say something like "I didnt drink for some years now" whats up with that? wish you all the best life u can have
Bro congrats! Let's open champagne and celebrate! Cheers đ„
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I have never commented in over a decade, but I wanted to say that I've been watching you since I was a child now, I've played with you ages ago on streams in custom battles and even if I recall a few squaded Historical Battles (yes that long ago). I'm an adult now and I have to say that your life has always in some way seemed parallel to mine. In this case, these last few months have been very harsh on me as well, and I've recently just broken through. To see you upload again and be truthful has furthered my once again happiness, I just wanted you to know that. Even though a youtube/community medium you have always helped me and so with that said, I am sure that you are and will always be the best father to your children. Continue the great work, we are all here for you, even the silent ones like me. Be true to yourself, always improve and be true Phly. :)
/salute
As a young man who grew up fatherless in a alcoholic family, I commend you this is what real men, GOOD men do. I can truly say all young men need to take a note from you and im glad you are such a good influence for your community. Thank you
I spent about 10 years drunk. Blackouts, lost weekends. And I have a memory problem. But sober since 2001, good to be alive...
That's phenomenal to come through and be 23 years in good from that. Random comment who just noticed this amongst the mass, but hope it matters. Amazing work.
25 off the sauce myself. Well done on the 23 years mate, keep on keeping on đđ
your a hero
Steve, I know you'll probably not see this, but I'm a recovering Heroin addict. Been almost 13 years clean from it, but my brother, I can't tell you how happy we are to have you back. As so many others have said, you have so much support among us. I'm glad you're well and I'm glad you realized everything before it was too late. What truly makes the difference is finding something that matters to yourself more than the substance... Something that will get you through and make you realize going back isn't an option... We love you, we'll always be here to support you and I'm so glad and grateful you're getting well. We love you buddy.
Proud of you dude.
@@alexchalmers3886 Thank you man, sincerely. Hope you are well. It's been a journey. Not many of us make it out, I'm just so thankful I did. Life is so much better.
Proud of you man. So many times in my line of work, Iâve seen absolutely heartbreaking things that have to do with heroine and usually it ends terribly. Iâm glad youâre here and glad you put that behind you.
I'll be 19 years clean on 8th June 2024. Well done mate. Heroin is the devil. Please, don't do drugs kids.đ
To everyone who has commented, thank you. Itâs great people like you who get some of us through our dark days⊠like I said I just had to decide going back wasnât an option. Iâm so grateful I did, for everyone and everything I have today, I know for a fact I wouldnât have them and everything, or probably even be alive anymore if I hadnât. Everything and every day has a blessing from September 2011 forward.
As a single dad i was in the same spot, had to go cold turkey couldnt let the little guy seem me like that. You got this shit man
and you got it too brother
Everyone in my family has struggled with alcoholism, I'm the only one who never picked up the habit. Big kudos, and much respect, for taking some time to take care of yourself and get it under control - I've seen first hand how damaging it can be.
Been sober 5.5 years. Every day is a struggle. I do it for me, my kids and my family. Keep your chin up, and keep taking steps forward.
Congratulations! Let's celebrate and open that champagne bottle! Cheers đ„
@@francescotenderini1489 you know champagne is alcoholic, right?
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â@@xxtripleokgaming that's the joke, duh
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I'm a alcoholic myself and I got my 2 months chip not to long ago and dam it's hard to stay sober at times. I'm happy that you saw the problems that you had and worked on them
Just for today â€ïž
CONGRATS MAN! Yuuugeeee
â@PhlyDaily Combat Veteran here, 2 years sober. Keep it up man!
@@PhlyDailyphly i love you! Iâm so proud of you!
So strong of you Phly!! My mom is also a recovering alcoholic. It took my sister and me years to build up the courage to confront her and it sort of broke our family. Iâm really proud of you for realising you have a problem before you let it affect others.
Jesus Phly, I just assumed you were being an awesome dad and enjoying your kids while you could. I never would have guessed you were battling addiction.
I'm glad you're trying to get help and make that change. So glad to have you back. :)
Yea same, I thought he was just doing dad things
Hey man. He is doing awesome day things by admitting he had an issue and fixing it so he can fully enjoy the day to day with the kiddos even more.
Phlee phinally getting that AMC Gremlin he's always wanted!
Glad your back man and Glad your doing well Cant wait for the amazing content. Wish you and your family the best of Lucks â„
Hey Phly, thanks for telling your story. Now let me tell you mine. Itâs 100% true. 2020 in March when the world shut down, I was laid off for two months, I ruined a 7 year relationship and picked up a bottle, but at the same time I found your channel. I bought the only laptop I could afford and downloaded war thunder using a mom and pop restaurants Wi-Fi. For the next year and a half if I wasnât at work, I was at the bar and if I wasnât there I was playing war thunder. I was finally able to realize I had a problem, I poured all my liquor down the sink, I quit going to the bars, I played a lot of war thunder. Through you I found Odd so when he told his story I related to it so much. Fast forward a couple years sober and I fixed that relationship and weâre getting married in July. This past weekend my grandfather passed away and once again as I move into a hard time in my life Phly and Odd are back. This is honestly the biggest Iâve smiled on several days, Thank you Phly, for everything.
Keep at it mate, congrats for the wedding and good luck in life
Eyyy nice to know you fixed that relationship and are getting married!! Congrats on that man đȘđ»đȘđ» Keep fighting and lean on those who love you so you know you are not alone đ
im rooting for your relationship, happy marriage !
Awesome stuff! Everyone loves a good comeback story.
Grandpa took the L
Welcome back Phly. Focus on yourself we will always return for you đ
What happen to him
@@yashrawat7682did you even watch the video...
@@MarkoLabi bro I just watch gameplay and just few minutes of first part so plz tell me what happen to gim
@@yashrawat7682 Id reccomend you watch the video but anyway he basically was an alcoholic and he was letting down his family and his community, and now he seems to go back to beeing a good normal person
@@yashrawat7682 nah. watch the video for that or watch your gameplay.
I've watched your channel for years Phly, so proud of you for being honest about the recent break you took, takes balls, takes courage. Never be ashamed to take a step back, reflect, especially if it's something that will ultimately lead to your well-being and the well-being of your family. That is what being a man and having true growth, maturity is about. You're awesome bro, never give in, never give up on sobriety. đđŒđđŒđȘđŒ
Alcohol is by far the most dangerous substance in America. Easy to get, easy to fall into a hole with it. Glad u realized early and addressed the issue. Welcome back!
You couldn't design a more dangerous drug if you tried. It checks every box.
It turns people into the worst most insufferable clowns when you have to be around a drunk they're Sooo Annoying just being around someone like that brings back BAD memories from my s$@%head dad honestly there's nothing that can get me more mad then my dad and people who act like that it's a rage that instantly boils up inside me SMH wow literally right know just typing this and thinking about it is making and hands clinch LOL geez I don't think I'll ever get through this trauma , aaaanywayssss lol keep it up phly I'm so glad you put your children and their needs and well-being before yours from the way I heard you just now talk about them I can tell your a good man and realize you needed to take a different path on working on your addiction but we all have our issues I have addiction issues aswell prob has something to do with the way I grew up it's not drinking its other things and have been working on getting there too so again keep it up I'll be rooting for you man đȘâ
Sorry man, you're wrong.
It's femboy alligators.
Remember; there's no such thing as a recovered alcoholic. You can never touch the stuff again - no matter what! You will always have to be aware that you will always be an alcoholic. Just stay sober! Some days will be harder than others, but hang in there - you'll get through the tough times every time. Never forget why you don't drink anymore. Those kids are a great motivation.
PS. Let's hope the car is not a Cybertruck. đ
I don't think cyber trucks go vroom vroom
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Yeah, thereâs totally such a thing as a recovered alcoholic. I drank for 20 years straight without missing a day, then quit. Drank hard too. Didnât touch anything for about 4 years after quitting and for the last y years or so I might have a drink at dinner, maybe 2, but never drink at home, nor do I even want to. I despise this disease/victim thing. When you stop drinking, youâre no longer an alcoholic.
@@noserly thank you, i hate when people make it sound like youre in a sinkhole and condemned to it. My mother drank for 20 years of my life, and now she is sorting herself out. something like this, would break her into that again
Good on ya, I'm glad you can see how that affects your family and correct it, I hope you have a wondrous time with them as I know my step dad wasn't nearly as strong and we suffered for it. Stay strong my friend!
Youâve got this Phly. From someone who is also a dad as well as a recovering alcoholic, I support and respect you so much for this. Itâs not an easy thing to do, but youâre doing it. That alone takes a lot. And youâve got some great friends and one hell of a community thatâs here for you.
So, now its "Dry Daily" đ
Most underrated comment.
YOURE BACK THE LEGEND IS BACK we are all glad your back and hope you are doing better
Been following you since 2013. I am extremely glad that you realized the issue at hand and worked on fixing it. Addiction in itself, whether if itâs drugs, alcohol or food is helluva hard. But the fact that you fought so hard against your addiction makes you amazingly strong and resilient.
Stay strong Phly. Glad youâre back ole partner â€
Happy to see you back Phly. Respect to you for sharing
Honestly phly is one of the most responsible dad iâve seen in years. Hats off to you phly and welcome back.
I'm an opiate addict Phly. Proud of you for facing your demons mate. Your love for your children shines thru so strong, I love hearing it.
Thinking of you mate. One day you will be proud and stronger than anyone can even dream of.
Never be discouraged by a step back, nobody wakes up strong enough. Be as strong as you can, and you will be just fine :) day by day
Takes a lot to admit this to people on the internet when you could keep this all under wraps. Respect. Wishing you the best on your journey for sobriety. Happy for you, Iâve missed this channel a lot. Godspeed
glad to hear you're doing better brother, glad to see you posting again
Quick tip: every addict is able to relapse. There is no shame in that, it's how you bounce back from a relapse that is of upmost importance! Happy you're back man!
Sounds like you're priming the excuse.
your profile pic made me think i had a hair on me screen XD
@@wowplayer160 I'm not, I'm just no trying to shame people struggling with addiction. I think it's better to embrace the fact relapsing is possible and not the end of the road. just a setback.
Been praying hard for you Steve. Man I missed the sound of that voice! Takes a man to admit his weaknessess and address them. Welcome back brother!
I've been dealing with a similar issue - I've been a functioning alcoholic for a while, though I'm finally getting help for it now. Bless you, man, and may you remain a shining example to so many people on this site (including myself).
Keep going strong Steve. Great to have you back and keep the content coming!
I watched your videos during my fight with alcoholism. Don't ever be embarrassed about admitting your mistakes; and if you put your story out there, you'll find there's so many people that will encourage and help you. Stay the course.
Thanks for everything over the years. You rock!
Iâm an alcoholic phly Iâve been watching you since I was 10 now Iâm boutta turn 21 and am over 9months alcohol free. I love you phly thank you for being a role model in my life dude!
You are so early..
â@ThisJitDark addiction doesnt discriminate.
Did you start drinking at 10?
Throw the alcohol away, and get addicted to WAR THUNDER!
Congratulations on 9 months sober.
21 years đđđ
God bless bro!! It's good to be sober! Been clean for almost 7 years now and didn't miss it!! It gets better!
Respect you man. Thanks for sharing your struggleâŠ
That moment of seeing the joy in your kids eyes but knowing youâre not any where close 100% for them is the most heartbreaking thing Iâve ever experienced.
Return of the king đ Welcome back mate â€
Regardless, you are a brave, humble and honest man for sharing. And an excellent father.
No fucking retreat. No fucking surrender. Victory or death!
Hey Phly, been watching you for around 8 years now and playing Warthunder around the same amount of time. Crazy to think that i was watching you as a teenager to now having a kid of my own as well. So, glad that you took the time to take care of yourself and your family first. Addictions like that are no joking matter and you have a great community to support you. Keep Phlying!
Felt like a eternity for real, i wasnt upset at all i thought the family life was the path you chose and no wrong in that, but welcome back and hello again to the pain from wt phly.
Bro, ur intro actually made me cry. Im so happy and proud u are tackling addiction and working in yourself. The way you explained how you want to be the best father and husband was beautiful and just incredible! Way to be an amazing parent, husband, and person! Welcome back brother!
Steve, youâve got a big heart man. Iâve been watching for years, I remember the go avay era (such a fun time on the channel) and itâs just cool to hear you sound genuinely excited again. Keep being you dude.
I've kicked smoking cigarettes for the last 6 months and I used to get black out drunk every weekend and now I have a few drinks here and there, I picked up a few bad habits in the navy. Personal stuff always comes first, you do what's best for you Phly we'll always be here for ya
THE GREAT ONE RETURNS!!!
We are so good 2024 is fire and Phladdy is finally BACK!! Welcome back and we love you!!!â€
I am so sorry that you are going through this Phly. I have struggled and still struggle with certain vices. Stick to it and thank you for reminding me that my family should always come #1!
Been watching for a long time Phly from when you got married to when you first had your little baby boy Banks. I couldn't help but smile when you announced it and felt like I was going through your life with you. I felt connected, these PhloppyWhoppy videos and the cool War Thunder videos were something I felt I could connect with. You're an amazing guy Phly, love having you back, to truly you.
Great honesty man!!! You don't even know how much support you have.
Phly, my father was and is a functional alcoholic. He never had this moment of introspection that you have had. As a result his relationship with my mother broke down and he was not present in my life as much as he could or should have been. I lost the chance to have a normal relationship with my dad because of his addiction.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for starting this journey, for caring enough about them to put the work in. I'm sure that when your kids are old enough to comprehend what you have been through, that they will be so, so proud of you for this moment.
Last year my uncle became an alcoholic whilst working for the police. 6 months ago he was put on payed leave and in an awful state. Just yesterday he crashed his car into a wall because he fell asleep and when the police arrived he thought he was on his sofa. He tested negative for alcohol and drugs, so i guess it shows how much it can mess you up. So happy you are back on track Phly
Praying for you dude. Just keep moving forward. You did the best step for your family.
Nice to have you back and keep following your path
This only raises my respect for you man! So many people can't face up to their shit and change themselves for the better. I've been in my own ruts. God bless you man, good to have you back!
He's back!!! Glad to see ya man take it easy for yourself and us!
Phly addiction is a big a$$ biasch - what i wanna say is, damn LORD THANK YOU!! THAT YOU HAVE GIVE US PHLY BACK.... also happy that you fight your Demons Phly :) I'm so glad that i've been following you since 2016! We are your community - WE will be always here! Welcome back Sir! đ«Ą
Thank you so much for staying with the channel man itâs awesome to have subs like you! Iâm back to my old self! Pheels awesome â€
Dam right! Good to have you back phly
Man I donât even know how to explain the excitement to have you back man, we all love you and we all want the best for you and your great family so please donât forget your the reason we are here for ya and why we show so much love, thank you phly and keep on truckin, much love
Good to hear you are doing better, I know it can be hard. I struggled with alcohol for decades and was very similar to you, I was a high functioning alcoholic. My problem also was a hold over from college, but then I also had 4 years in the military during peak GWOT which put my drinking into overdrive. I used drinking as a coping mechanism for years, any problems I would have I just ignored and drank it away. I stopped cold turkey 4 years ago, I knew if I kept traveling down that road my problems would catch up to me and the drinking would eventually kill me. I have never regretted the decision I made 4 years ago, the first couple of months were a bit of a struggle, but eventually the cravings went away the problems got dealt with. Now when I think about drinking it literally makes me sick to my stomach, and I am reminded about the way I would feel the next day.
I have watched you since the early days of closed beta in WT, and I have had the chance to see you and your family grow. Take care of them and you first, they are what really matter in this life. The community will be here waiting patiently, while we wait we can spread some love to some of the other creators. I enjoy Oddbawz and Spookston who I probably would have never found without watching your channel. Thank you for update, and I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.
Welcome Back Phly, it's been a while and we miss you.
He lives
I'm so glad you're back and doing better! It's perfectly ok to lose our way sometimes, you're still a really good bean with a level head. It's so lovely to see you and Oddbawz just chilling and enjoying War Thunder, you two make a great team and are both hilarious XD I'm excited for the future!
your never alone brother. remember that you got your whole community behind you! I myself had a problem with alcohol. we got your back king!! where here for you!!!
My dad had an alcohol addiction. He was "lucky" in that it didn't affect his behavior in a negative way, he was a nice guy sober and a nice guy drunk, it didn't destroy his social life or his professional life. Except it killed him. Took him too young, thanks to Cirrhosis of the liver. There's no winning with alcoholism, I'm happy you're overcoming it
Thanks for beeing around and overcoming your addiction for us (the viewers) and your family i know how bad it can be. Im happy that your back and btw as an car addict i love the drivedaily idea â€â€â€. Greetings from austriađŠđč.
Iâm proud of you man. Iâm glad youâre doing what you love and getting better not only for yourself but for the family. Iâm glad youâre back
I never comment on really anyone videos but this made me really happy. I have watched you for years and loved your content. This was the most real video I have ever seen on here before addressing what its like to have a problem. I really respect you and keep being a great dad.
I've been watching you for years now, always coming back. I'm proud to hear that you've overcome this struggle, and you're not alone. As a certified auto technician I'd personally love to see DriveDaily pop up too đ
He's back!.!..!.!.đđđ
You were the original reason i ever found war thunder in the first place! I was on a huge 1-2 year hiatus, but I've been no life-ing the game as of late. Ive missed it. And ive missed you. Glad you're back, best of wishes!
I'm glad you took the time to heal and better yourself for you and your family, and that you are okay. We missed you yes, but you were taking the time to heal for yourself and your family and thats what means the most. We wont go anywhere Phly. You've been here to help me get through some tough times and gave me enjoyment in life when I felt hopeless. Now supporting you the best I can is my way of showing my thanks, Through the toughest of times and hiatus your community will always have your back! Much love from Canada!
Not knowing you personally in the slightest, I do wish you all the happiness in the world. From some random person online I am super proud of you and what you've done in acknowledging your addiction and how it effected you and your family. Super cool to hear!
Again from someone just happy to view your videos I am glad you are in a better place. You have created a very kind and beautiful community on this little slice of the internet.
Congrats on dealing with your problems!
Love from Sweden
Awesome to see you back
Iâll be praying for you đ
I am rooting for you bro, you can do this. Everyone has their demons, we all suffer, important thing is to keep pushing forward. Hoping and praying for your success in this battle!
man, welcome back. hope it'll all work out for you. looking forward to future content!
I'm 5 weeks sober! Struggling through the same thing myself. Keep on keeping on, my man.
Thank you so much for realizing this early and doing what's right for your phamily.
My dad was apparently an alcoholic (Marine Corps habit), but he was never drunk in front of my brother or myself, and it never directly affected us but he started going to AA meetings around when my brother graduated high school. He's been sober for, heck I don't even know how long. Easily over 10 years, maybe 15. Since then, I've noticed a massive change in just how present he is and how attentive he is. Looking back through my childhood, I can easily see the difference when it seemed like he just wasn't there. He was, but not at all the same. He seemed distant. Maybe he seemed depressed. I don't know, I wasn't very attentive then either. But since he got sober, he has been the absolute best dad I could ever ask for. Always there. Always looking out for us. Always checking in. Just being exactly what a dad should be.
I am so happy your family gets to experience the real you for such a long time. And I am so happy you get to be there for all of the little moments that make life worth it.
Please remember, family first. Sober you is the real you. Let it shine.
You being open to us helps us grow. Thanks brother. WE are proud of you man. LOVE YOU PHLY!
My dude you are an inspiration to so many of us out there, just the way you are and act. Remember when you think that there is nothing good in life, you are whats good for a lot of people out there. Very few can say the same thing about themselves. Keep strong man!
Reallt glad you're doing better, been watching your old videos recently and it's really a good thing that you've overcame over drinking and all that bad shit, i know how that can feel to have something control you and let yourself disappoint the people who rely on you. You sound like a great man who wants whats best for his family and your community is very grateful for you and im sure everyone is glad to hear you're taking steps to become better.
Iâve been subbed to you for a minute and to hear that you were dealing with your issues makes me happy Phly, That should always be top priority so you can take care of your family and live your life to the fullest, I hope you continue to stay on the safe road to recovery â€
Your the reason i started war thunder you are the goat to come back and say all of this it means the world to me that your back keep pumping out amazing content đ«Ąđ«Ą
Much love man. Takes a genuine person to admit things like this. â€
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Heâs backkkkkk. We are glad you are getting healthy Phly.
Kudos to you man for recognizing the problem and dealing with it. I know it couldn't have been easy. My fiancee died from her alcoholism, so i understand your fear and frustration. Hang in there man, you got support all around you.
Phly Iâve been a fan since the 2015 Flying Fortress custom lobby days. Honestly, nothing but love for you man. I hope you get to where you want to be. You are always posting videos for us to enjoy so Never forget we are all here for you.
And that goes for anyone else. You are never alone while you are part of this channel.
Just want to let you know man Iâve been in that same hole and itâs hard to get yourself out. But it takes a real man to admit when he has a problem and to fix it. Glad your back dawg fr đ€