Man Confronts Daughter’s Ex-Boyfriend Who Admits To Physically Abusing Her
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- čas přidán 11. 11. 2018
- A father confronts his 20-year-old daughter’s ex-boyfriend who admits to physically abusing the young woman - and he doesn’t hold back his emotions.
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Why dont you cover the pimps?
The father is shouting in lowercase
Ik 😂
Boss move
Me agreeing
So true
It would be funny if this wasn't edited and you just knew you were gonna get a lot of likes.
The fact that this father is speaking so quietly. I can hear the restraint... damn
he's clearly a boss.
i actually had him as my math teacher and he would always speak like that.
@@evan-5227 No you didn’t.
@@evan-5227 nah he was actually my science teacher stop lying
@@samyoyoyo555 you're the liar he was my history teacher
The arrogance from that boy, and yes he is a boy not a man, is astounding. He's proud to be an abuser from what I can tell and that's not only disgusting but frightening.
i honestly think this dr.phil show is fake. like what man in his right mind will go on national t.v. and admit to abusing a female right to her father?
@@kodyscot9360 A narcissist.
@@kodyscot9360 I was thinking that also. While I believe Dr. Phil himself is a good guy and possibly holds the unique knowledge needed to help troubled people, I think the drama is highly staged.
@@jeffreymeeks4051 Honestly i can say this is kinda real sadly
@@dx_n3774 I figured it was. You don't fabricate this kind of thing. Honestly I hope the father stayed true to his word and found an opportunity to kill that bastard. It's exactly what he deserves
"That you still draw breath"
This line being said in a calmly manner... you know the guy can actually take out someone with little problem.
No matter what happened. He threatens the wrong person he’d better be watching his back. End up dead
You know the guy is mentally unstable. You understand how come he was violent with his own daughter.
Or maybe his voice is just too soft
@@exabys nah
The way this dude is looking at the father is so irritating! 🙄
@@phraudd the side of the guy who beats his girlfriend?
@@phraudd fr lots of people seeing one clip and making a judgment, i personally think he’s still a wanker but with context it’s not as black n white mind the pun;)
@Different 1 because...
Well it’s just a normal look
@@phraudd i watched all of it and nothing she did is the equivalent of him hitting her
How calm he is, that’s louder than anything . A calm angry person is dangerous
I'm learning from him
So is a loud angry person
Deffinately . He doesn't want to be a suspect when he comes up missing.
@@Terrifier0909 I beg to differ, I believe a loud angry person is actually scared and they are trying to scare you by being loud. A calm person, such as this man is very scary. He knows what he can do and it's only because of Television that he's still breathing.
Hi Sean Rowe what is my assistant principal my eighth grade year and believe it or not he really is not dangerous when do his office one time and he wasn’t even rude he was really nice actually
This young man needs to understand how much danger he is in .
He is too cocky for that.
@@laken1804 hes never experience that type of violence before. And he thinks he can't be touched...if he keeps testing his limits hes gonna ruin his life.
He is in danger because he is speaking the truth: the father is a mentally unstable guy.
@@dl5014 Yup. He only knows what it's like to pick on women so that's why he's got that smug, piss-eating look on his face. He's yet to have a real man put the fear of God into him and when that finally happens, it's gonna be ugly.
@@dl5014 no the father thinks he’s a badass and that’s cool and all but people always forget this is America and everyone has guns lol.
Threaten to kill me now I’m thinking of ways to kill you.
Let me ask you this how many guns you have in your house? And how many do you have on you when you leave the house?
As someone who’s been through abuse, I can look at this dude and tell he’s the type. High and mighty, thinks only what he says has value, fakes respect by saying “yes sir”, he’s smiling, thinks he’s charming… so many signs.
@Freddie the daughter is a person. People make decisions, parents don’t control us
@Freddie … ok
The way the father talks reminds me of my own violent father. Very well spoken and makes you feel small. I think they are both people you should not surround yourself with.
Narcissist
@@stuff1784 u peep the bs laced in the post also
“And it’s only through my inability to do so that you still draw breathe”
That says a lot
Aka a homicidal threat
all talk !
@@bigblue207 yeah yeah this ain’t a 30000 word essay
@@Dctctx a misdemeanor threat for sure but the thing is, charge the boy with BEATING a woman and welp who he wants to also charge doesn't seem to matter as much
@@Cheetah-tz3ut yeah well I would do the same thing if she came at me
That young guy is so arrogant and impossible to speak to. He looks and sounds like a total sociopath or psychopath.
The young guy?
For sure. And he's proud of it.
Pay attention to the young guys POV
His instagram account use to paint a similar picture to here, so its pretty scary stuff. God knows where he is now.
ur mom
The boyfriend is trying so hard NOT to look terrified of the father
He isn’t terrified because they are on the show. The look the boyfriend has wouldn’t be that look outside the studio.
However, if outside the studio, the boyfriend would have the look of trying to be hard, and it would be up to the father to see if he is indeed hard or not. It would be the father who would have to put up or shut it, not the boyfriend!
*The dad's calm. The eye of the storm.*
Kinda scary how calm father is lol
what’s even scarier is how mad he is that he’s calm....
Young man is narcissist
Not really
If someone is angry at you and speaking with a low tone be afraid. Be very afraid. That means their 100% about what they're telling you.
Young man shows no fear bruh. Father can't do anything bout it HAHA
You can tell this father don’t mess around.
Very honest
the father is a coward trying to scare him without having the courage to actually making a threat.
You can tell the father is putting on an act to make himself look like the “good guy”.
@@stevenobrien557 cause he can't, he'd be arrested for somebody as stupid as the smuck on the stage
@@cyrenobonaby2107 so he is meant to convince everyone he is willing to kill and be arrested for something that serious but too chickenshit to get arrested for a threat?
I have never seen someone so calm and yet so menacing at the same time. Props to him, you can see from miles away how much he loves his daughter
If he really loved his daughter, that young fella wouldn’t have made it to the show
He abused his daughter himself, that’s why she falls for abusive guys because that’s what she was taught. The father is acting all holy when he is no better himself. His “menacing” act says a lot about who he is deep down. Both of them are scumbags and should go to jail together. Let them fight it out in there.
The way the father talks reminds me of my own violent father. Very well spoken and makes you feel small. I think they are both people you should not surround yourself with.
@@JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet true, at first it looks as if he truly and genuinely loves his daughter, but there's certainly more here than meets the eye
This guy is young and still feels like a super hero. He's probably going to learn the hard way that he's not.
The boy gonna learn something outside the studio
Pretty dumb too, going on TV to be a proud abuser, now the number of people who want to return a favor has increased😂
If the father was yelling, the message would be way weaker. But because he's saying it so calmly, it's really serious.
Edit: after 2 years I read this comment again and it has like 8;4k likes wth
I mean it still weak the dude is right there.
@@unclerico1106 you expect him to do something to him there? Yeah your the weakest in the room
@@devonsb7891 if your daughter was raped would you make it on national tv to talk to him? I dont think you would because quiet frankly I wouldnt.
His voice, low and direct. Reminds me of Maximus in "Gladiator", when he uses that exact tone as he tells Comedus "Your reign as emporer will soon be at an end, Highness."
Wouldn't have made it weaker
His repeating yes sir like a brat and his pouting smug smile. God I hope he gets his karma soon. Good father I must say too.
@@battyisflatty3176 you don’t honestly believe this smug and deceitful little brat do you? He’s so clearly self deflecting what he himself is guilty of unto the father.
@@battyisflatty3176 It's called deflection, I see it all the time in my job when someone does something awful.
When confronted with this rather than accept responsibility they then try and say this person did this to deflect from their actions.
From the two behaviours with the kid laughing and smirking its written all over his face he's done it and got away with it and is getting off, on now baiting the father.
If you honestly think he's telling the truth you are very naive and I'd not play poker ever because you are terrible at reading folk.
@@wessexfox5197 Totally agree, the people on here saying he didn't do it while he's laughing in the dads face must be terrible at reading people.
@@battyisflatty3176 accuse u hear that
@@grayalun I don’t it’s just not proven
Wow! This could get explosive. A very smug ex-boyfriend in conflict with a calm yet fearless father.
Actually this specific clip falsely paints the guy as bad. He's the real person who was abused. There's more of a story to this. The girl has keyed his car and physically abused him and he's done less. Dr Phil is sexist towards men
The fact that you can hear the father holding back tears breaks my heart.
Holding back rage.
I can’t begin to explain what it feels like when someone you love is in an abusive relationship and you can’t get them out. These abusers isolate, gaslight them until they break down and believe it’s all their fault.
My best friend since high school was in a 13 year abusive relationship. He isolated her so bad she’d see her family maybe on holidays and if she did show up he’d get angry about something and they’d leave in 30 min.
But it was always behind everyone’s back. Whenever he talked to her friends or family he was the nicest guy in the world.
It was fkn awf.
Dr.Phil didn’t interrupt for a reason. Thank you Dr.Phil.
Cuz he couldn’t have said it better himself 😂
Cuz he only cares about views and money. Not helping anyone
@@Jearbearjenkins Dr Phil didn't see any reason to interrupt because he thinks the boy is a good boy....everyone know oprah is a extremely racist person.... yet dr phil has never spoken out against her because she pays for his views....BTW dr phil is not a real doctor...being given a diploma is not the same as earning it...
Never before I've seen a very punchable face. The father is so strong for resisting that urge. Respect.
He was innocent
@@callumwalkee2771 innocent how exactly?
He is actually very attractive but has a ugly heart
He doesn’t have a punchable face. He looks like a model.
He’s worthless
If I heard that my daughter's ex was physically abusing her, Dr. Phil would've turned into Jerry Springer in a second.
That man calmly saying he hunted that boy is scarier than anything I have ever heard. Is the kid still alive today?
He's like a wish version of Chris brown
AHHHHH💀
😂😂😂😂
Ahahaha😭 bro chill
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂This comment deserves so much more..
Father: "I never met anyone as foolish as you."
Dude: "yes sir."
😂😂😂😭😂😂
BHAHAHAHA
Lmao
😂😂
same but also direct opposite energy of that clip of Beyonce on the View and Whoopi goes, “you are Beyonce” and Beyonce goes, “thank you”
Bruh I died at this comment only because I was reading the comment as he was saying it 😂😂😂😂😂
As someone who has met this man, he was one of the best teachers i had ever had. He cared for his students and made my 6th grade better and the stories he told were so great. He had never yelled at my class and whenever I was down he told me to smile. Truly a man that had shaped my life and i’m sorry that he has to see his daughter go through this
“yEtH ThIR.”
Bruhh 😂
Lol
I feel personally offended from that lisp joke
Lol I’m dead
😂 yooo for real
".... its only through my inability to find you that you still draw breath"... that is a real father right there and I salute you, sir
nah a real father would’ve done something lol
How is he a good father? From what the show was saying he apparently physically abused his daughter many times as well. And from the examples, it was not just slaps on the wrist but full on physical force! Neither of these men are good, Jesus.
Just a shitty threat. Surprised people who are impressed by this. All words.
@@biking7747 how do you know that he didn't? 👀 I mean this is national television so I can see why he would try to restrain himself but who knows what could've happened after the show
we all do brother
Clapping the father? Who has hit his daughter and caused mental abuse? He’s to blame too. Do not clap him
This kid is playing a very........very dangerous game with this father
He's sigma male
@@adoniyasamare lol he's gonna get capped for real
@@gregorclegane3674 don't cry bro u will be tall one day
@@adoniyasamare lol what are you 20? 😂
@@gregorclegane3674 I'm 6, 4😂
That guy thinks that if a girl was assaulted by her parents, then instead of giving her help to recover, he should assault her sexually. And, look how shameless he is. Another excuse to blame someone is to call them racist and collect all the sympathy for yourself.
Yea I don't believe anything that guy says. He could be making it all up.
Ur name is literally Karan💀
@@Web497 And...?
@Arion Hill OMG! What's wrong about my name, mate?😅
BTW, thanks for 'trying' to protect me.
I don't know tbh. Even if I'm in the wrong i get all smug if someone calls me out on it and i know they're even worse. The daughter abused him too and the father might be even worse than both of them, don't fall for a showman just because he can orchestrate the crowds emotions, the young man is trying to piss him off and get him to do something stupid.
So you're gonna kill me
Audience:👏👏👏👏👏👏
1:45
Exactly
I caught that too 😂😂😂😂
@Wild X Escape actually hes just saying he nearly killed him on one occasion, he was just lucky he didnt find him while that angry. It was a statement of fact that, had they crossed paths on that day, he would of tried, and given his background, certainly succeeded in killing him. Its not a threat exactly.
@@ryanwalker8843 I think that if the same thing was said to a lady, then it would be considered as a threat. Idk. why dr. Phil let the father continue talking.
@@bogusnowak5771 but it wasnt and he was saying he felt like killing him on that day, not at that moment. Dr Phil let him continue because it's the truth of how he felt and he dosent like abusers like most humans. Also the fathers reaction is pretty typical of any sane father, and its important for him to understand that youd even prefer the police get hold of you than a girls very angry father.
The father's levol of CALM is outta this world.
more like...level of restraint.
That father was just incredible. Wow. I hope he was able to get his daughter away from that little monster.
How the father can keep so calm without snapping the brat in half is amazing. Karma will get you some day, you will see
The father himself abused his girl
Maybe that's why he's calm
@@areejtalha6479 there’s no proof he did except the daughter saying it
@@timmackelvistributeartist4241 maybe you are right, however I didn't watch the full episode so I honestly have no idea but we still don't know what happened behind closed doors
Did you watch the full episode
Do you know who is telling the truth? I hope you answer me
It's the real world Karma doesn't exist
Why isn't he in prison?
The way the father talks reminds me of my own violent father. Very well spoken and makes you feel small. I think they are both people you should not surround yourself with.
@scorpiooooh thank you!
Same, sometimes it's not even physical abuse but more mental.
@@cadenjohnson1137 yup, sadly there are those who are the combination of both. They really do not need to hit you if they can make you feel like that with words already. But I guess it's not enough power for them.
the father is giving death threats to a younger version of himself
@@theskepticcoder7883 exactly.
He is suprisingly calm for a father confronting his daughters abuser
His body language calls for a good old fashioned butt whooping !
The fact that this father is speaking so calm about the whole situation should scare the piss outta this young man. He is completely oblivious to the danger he has luckily avoided.
Most young kids that havent experienced extreme danger or pain are ofcourse oblivious. They think theyre invincible until violently proven otherwise.
The young man discovered he met a daughter raised by a violent father. He had to let her go.
@@dl5014 the other day I met this older guy who was talking so crazy about people. Wanted to punch him in the face. He seemed like he had never been confronted before cause he was bigger than most. I think its just a matter of inexperience as you said. which probably means more younger ppl are that way
He sounds like Winnie the Pooh
Bruh fr fr 😭😭😂💀
@@charlesdonawayiii3396 Swear he does 😭🤚🏼
Frrrr 😂
I'm dying😂😂😂
Haha true 🤣🤣🤣
As a father of one beautiful girl, I can tell you when a man who is a father is speaking to you like this, we hear the calm in his voice yet make no mistake death is behind those eyes just waiting to be unleashed on punks like this.
The disrespect that he has for his ex girlfriends father is disgusting.
Hes said "yes sir" more times in this video than I have my whole life
The father is my principal bro
This father is such a well spoken man
he really is
He’s a POS, abusive and a narcissist
@@9614cp that’s pretty funny he served 20 years in the military leading thousands of men and women to meet him in person he’s really nice he was my assistant principal my eighth grade year of school if you met him you don’t understand
@@macyelizabeth08 According to his daughter he’s abusive, you claim to have been taught by him at school. Well he was being professional there, you have no clue how he was with his daughter at home. His experience in the military counts for absolutely nothing here.
That’s the same daughter who lets her boyfriend beat her up so why would she run to domestic abuse?
I thinks she means her father is not going to take BS that’s the “Abuse” she’s talking about
Why doesn't his daughter just leave him?
When somebody is speaking that calm... off of a messed up situation, you need to get out of there. He better thank God that man didn’t find him.
@Jaay45🖤 lol
Being this calm is unhealthily.
That boy is going give the father a heart attack!
Never mind a heart attack..That boy is gonna get attacked 😆
he's gonna get his heart attacked 😂
No more like he is gonna die
It should. That father is way too attached to his daughter. And he is mentally unstable.
The way the father talks reminds me of my own violent father. Very well spoken and makes you feel small. I think they are both people you should not surround yourself with.
Just unalive the waste. He’s not worth fixing.
Its HIS humbleness and the calm in his voice that tells everyone he's probably the most dangerous person in that room...
I have a lot of respect for this father
I don't because he raised a daughter who goes for the bad boy probably to get revenge on the father.
@@user-uy1rg8td1v I would stake my mortgage to say that you don’t have a daughter.
soooo.... did you not notice the beginning... the father was JUST as abusive.. if not more... like you shouldn't respect either of them...
No evidence for that.
Well I don’t.
That punk was scared he tried to hide his fear but it came through.
Narcissism at it’s finest. Scary. By that kid.
I love how the father is being calm and putting him in his place at the same time.
He would have never left that stage breathing put your hands on my baby girl its over
Mercy more than half of the time can lead to beautiful things, remember that please.
@@johngallagher9151 When it comes to my kids not even the man up above could stop me
@@malcom4328 Be careful what you say your own words can come back to bite you never challenge God, God is God your just a man. So stay in your place and be humble or pay the price in the end.
@@micktheotter9167 With all due respect we dont all think the same
I’m glad I don’t believe
The Most Scariest Thing In The World Is A Angry Man Talking Calm
Lol
This guy really not understanding that extreme violence towards your daughter's abuser is normal behaviour from a father??
Some people deserve that 5 minutes to be alone with... especially the father.
@Sally Brown yes way, I’m tired of you spamming this. You didn’t even watch the boyfriend’s side. The parents WAS abusing their daughter, that’s why the daughter is so delusional
@Sally Brown you answered to the fact that I’m tired of you spamming, but the rest I proved you wrong. Just accept that fact
@Sally Brown yes, let your brain get some rest
@Sally Brown actually part of my username is my real name, anyways why would I do that? i like to be creative with usernames, who was even talking about usernames too? Don’t switch the subject, you’re wrong
@Sally Brown k
He was right about the cycle of abuse, the father gaslights so since she was abused by him, the daughter in turn will unknowingly attract to someone of the same nature
Yeah I'm going to believe the guy laughing while the abuse is read out, he's having a great time over it.
If anyone believed anything that comes out of his mouth they are a mug.
The father is one of the best people i’ve ever met. He was my 7th grade math teacher and he was amazing. Everything the boyfriend says is false.
@@evan-5227 wait reallly?!
@@SleepingDeeply yeah in TN
@@evan-5227 0o0 cool
"Are you threatening to kill me?" he says with a smug look on his face, yet in another segment he admitted to lying to his ex-girlfriend, telling her he had killed someone before, just to 'scare her' and implying to her that he'd kill her
This man was SO MUCH MORE CALM then I would have been
Its because hes a trained ex soldier. They teach you how to focus & channel your anger/adrenaline and not let it control your emotions. Being emotional in a rage is weakness.
The father failed. The fact that his daughter is such a weakling. Just look at his wife.
Nothing would have made me happier then to see him knock that stupid smirk off his face!
We must protect this man at all costs.
"By the grace of God in Heaven, I was unable to find you and it only through my inability to do so that you still draw breath" DAMMNN
To my young ladies out there, stay away from clowns like this.
Yeah both of these guys are sociopaths
@@busterkeyl.3626 True its sad
From non-white people, yes.
Always as a young woman I stay away from "men" like that ex. Real men treats their partners with respect and care not abusing and manipulate.
@@yesthatmousyiris4887 Good I always said if I have a daughter I will treat her like a queen from birth and tell her if a boy or man wont treat you like the queen you are then never settle.
Dad's such a badass. I dont know how he raised such a weak willed daughter.
I don't understand why the audience is clapping for the father. It was said that he was also abusive. So it seems to me that they are both monsters
That father is like a Mob boss from a movie
Facts, right before he gives the signal to his hit man to wack the fool
The father is racist ….
@@dont375 Lol😂
@@patriciajin6206 It’s so stupid that it’s laughable, I know.
@@dont375 Me too XD
There wouldn’t be a confrontation on the Dr. Phil show. Because the boyfriend would have been missing without a trace.
@imran the intergalactic beggar i wish he did find him honestly
Can't believe everyone was clapping while the man was arrogantly talking😑...
Legend has it this is the guy that trained Liam Neeson in “Taken”
👍
💀
Impressive restraint from the father. I've learned that it's the quiet ones you should be afraid of...
Young girls do that, they meet a stranger, they want to sleep with him so bad, that they start to put their family down. Big mistake. An abuser looks for victims with no support system to back them up, when he torture them.
Father *breathes * boyfriend: Yessir
the fact that the father is able to say all of this with such a low and calm voice is terrifying. this kid should be scared. this is way worse than yelling
RESPECT .. to this real man for letting this lil piece of shait still breathe
That's a great father..... low key threatening in a way where you cannot get in trouble...bravo!!!!
If there was a perfect picture of “calm before the storm”, this father would be the exemplary definition of that picture. Don’t underestimate this man. I have a feeling the kid he’s talking to, will find out eventually.
Blueface baby...
Yeah aight
Broooooooo ikr
Bust down
HAha yeah!
LMAO I CANT
Girl fell into the arms of someone like her father. The parents shouldn’t be surprised why she’s with him
It's unnerving how calm he was. Other dads, no words. It's just pure primal wrathful rage
You can literally see his whole attitude change when the father just kept going and didnt jump on and off track getting triggered like he wanted
Why is everybody commending the father for showing “restraint”💀 he’s abusive too
THANK YOU
VERY
What did he do?
How do you know?
Has the daughter come forward saying that? Or just the ex boyfriend. That kid's entire attitude makes me belive absolutely nothing that comes out of his mouth.
Calmness before the storm. The Fathers lack of physical emotions speaks Volumes. That little Boy should thank God for not letting the Father find you.
That boy better sleep with one eye open. This man is not playing. Hes a Special Forces kind of guy.
In other words, this is not a threat. It's a simple fact. As cold as the feeling in his chest. This guy is the type of man that any wise person, or any person with survival instincts is honestly just a bit afraid of.
This man was a drill sergeant and you can see the DS kinda sneaking out but he pulls it back in.
The calmness of the father should terrorize that kid.
this kid is the definition of "act tough"
This why I aint having kids bro, that boy would be missing.
The young punk was visibly scared lol
He bit off more than he could chew. What a little punk XD
I wonder if the father is that calm off camera.
This Father hit the nail right on the head! He has my fool respect! I hope his daughter is recovering well from this horror.
Wat a mess. Sad this girl cant escape the monster she's dating.
How can she not escape him? She can do whatever she wants she is partly responsible too. If someone treats you bad that’s their fault so you need to leave once you let them now you are at fault too
He sounds like me when I completely focused upon the object of my intentions. This kid has no idea of the mortal danger he is in.
That was a direct threat. The boy should handle that.
1:45 the complex stare of a father debating murder, I hope in my life I never meet its gaze.
If someone doesn't get it and is OK with being abused then there is nothing anyone can do to help her.
People who weren't raised to recognize that cycle are more easily duped to believe the "real" guy is the facade used in the "honeymoon" faze. This father is no idiot, he saw exactly what games that young man was playing and kudos to him for not shaming his daughter for believing those tactics, initially. He's a true warrior. He protects his own.