Why you need an accountability buddy (+ where to find one!)
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Finding an accountability buddy has been one of THE MOST helpful things I've done for my mental health this year. Taylor and I have been doing daily check-ins and weekly calls to keep each other motivated and on track and cheer each other on for every little win 🥺💕 I hope you guys can find a wonderful buddy of your own, whether it's someone you know or on the Vibely app! Have an amazing weekend!!
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0:00 intro
0:53 benefits of an accountability buddy
2:44 where to find a buddy
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5:59 setting up an accountability system
7:43 accountability meetings
8:18 daily check-ins & updates
9:34 communication styles
10:48 ways to make it more fun
11:39 things I’ve learned
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having someone to check in weekly has tremendously helped my mental health during the pandemic!
I love that!! Do you have specific things you talk about each time?
@@TheBlissBean my accountability buddy has been my friend who is also a design student and stayed at home from college. in the beginning, we were both doing personal design projects, so we used check ins as a way to get feedback on our designs and just hold each other accountable to meeting milestones. we also just supported each other through internship recruitment, as well as just ranting or chatting about any struggles or wins that we had that week. we never really had a set schedule, it's just been super nice being able to check in every week, since i have been at home for the last year and dont talk to that many people!
This is probably the most depressing comment ever, but here we go.
My sister was my accountability partner, until she passed away in December. Currently seeking new buddies😊
Hey, I am so sorry for your loss! If you need some random humans to talk to, here I am. Catch up with me if you want! Insta: chxlsxy
feel hugged and just letting you know, that you’re not alone!
I’m sorry for your lost. Sending good vibes your way! 💕💕
sending u love and happiness , life is a long trip where some of us leave earlier to a better place and we're all going together someday :)) i'm making an instagraam group !!! join us :D sending u a virtual hug
God is with you ❤
@@shenicesmith3586 thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️
this camera quality is absolutely IMPECCABLE
Eeeek the lighting really helped me out today! THANK YOU!
I've always had accountability buddies while growing up (to the gym, for studying, doing group projects) and it's definitely something that makes anything that's work/task-related a lot more interactive and therefore smoother for both parties. Side note, you're gorgeous!
love being your accountability buddy ☺️💛
Hi are you still searching a buddy? Maybe we can Text on Instagram 🌞✨
@@miriaml.8742 are you still searching?
be mineeee
I also want study buddy
i was just thinking of how i really need one , my grades are crumbling n IMPORTANT exams re coming in 2 months , i wanna lose weight too and m going through some tough stuff . so i want a buddyy 🥺
Giiirl I’ll literally be your accountability buddy
@@Grace-hv8pr pls be mine too jdjsksk
@@Grace-hv8pr omg yessss where can i contaact uu !!!
@@beautae3533 more than one buddy never hurt nobodyy let's do it all togetheeer
@@tiredbunny909 hi 🥺 (it's not funny how often im on the internet 😭) is there any platform where i can get in touch w you? this may suck bc i dont have much social media platforms but im willing to make an account wherever youre comfortable with :D
Such a cute thumbnail
Thank youuu 🤗
I just want to say thank you Beatrice❤️
A part of me is interested in meeting new people and friends but I'm way to scared and shy to talk to people but I love the idea of having an accountability buddy✨💜
what's your insta name? We could be partners if you like! 🥰
Where can I find accountability buddy?
i was actually so interested in hearing more about the accountability buddy situation, loved this!
Stoked! Always great bits of knowledge in these videos
Seeking for an accountability buddy😇! I enjoy writing, mindfulness, and spirituality. Nature is my life 🌱.
i am too! although i am a youngen lol (15, 16 in june). i do enjoy the same things and if you’re in the same age group and think i could be a good option we could possibly become buddies!
Hi Nataly. What is your snap/email?
Hi! I would like to be your accountability buddy! I looveeee nature too and I can't stand anyone harming the nature, that could make me sad for a whole day sometimes.👋😃
me toooo.
Hey can u be my accountability buddy please
This is such a good idea. This is something which would help me in my mental health. Thank you.
Yes! Having an accountability buddy can be very helpful. You both can help inspire each other. It’s most helpful having someone who shares a common goal :) that’s pretty cool there’s an app for that.
Absolutely!!
What is the name of the app to find accountable buddy?
this is such a sweet idea and i've never really thought about it before! love that you brought my attention to it 💌
For sure!! Thank you Maddie for watching so many of my videos 🤗
Yea the hardest part is ' where to find one', ive tried facebook several times without result. Maybe my approach is the issue, or i asked the wrong people hahaha
We should try finding buddies in this comment section! I'm also trying to find one:)
hey, i dont know what an accpuntability buddy is but i feel like id like to have one!!
Same! I was using tandem for language exchange friends but they never stick! It's hard!
@Suranvitha Rodrigo I'm learning japanese. You're also studying a language?
@Suranvitha Rodrigo my first language is spanish 👀 you are interested in a lot of languages anf yeah I'm a beginner in japanese. Intermediate beginner maybe.
How is your french going?
the bliss bean community is amazing ✨
Ahhhh I love this video! I've been looking for an accountability buddy for so long, but most of the people I connect with aren't super motivated long-term. Usually it fizzles out. Hopefully this (wonderful) advice helps!
let’s be buddies! i want to find someone who is willing to do it as long as they want and nit just leave right away! my instagram is hannah.r0ss
This is so helpful, thank you Beatrice 🙏
Bruh ur channel is so interesting and very underrated 😤
Second time watching this video... today I LOVE this video, essentially this is a really good way to form any type of relationship.
WOW having an accountability buddy for mental health is a game changer!
yay!!!! i’m so excited!!!!
love your personality and the editing is dope!!! 🤝💓🥰
this is soo amazing topic and I found out that I really need one 🥺
I hope to find one soon 💛
Do still need an accountability buddy ? 🥺
Yay! I’m so ready for this video. :)
This was so helpful because am an introvert and am trying to make friends so this helped alot
This sounds so amazing!
wait this is something I’ve never heard of and actually rlly need (says me while procrastinating by watching this video)
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hey again
Thank you for sharing 🌻 it can helpful indeed if there is a right match. Love the lighting in the video
I have been thinking on this a lot!! I guess this is my remaining for find a accountability buddy!. ✨
i am looking for oneee tooo. study buddy?
Love this 😍 great idea! thank you ✨
Just finished the premiere. Rewatching it. Brb. Haha.
Awesome content, Beatrice! Hope your hand is healing well. ✨🤗
so valuableeeee!!! Thank you so much!!💓💓🥰
Great video! This is so helpful. Thank you! 🙌🏾
loved this video!! 🤩
Accepting accountability buddy applications 😌😌
Hey! I’d love to be your buddy! What’s your Instagram handle?
@@saragaviria6319 yayyy!! It’s @elifbestegul
Hey, what about creating a group?
@@Jessn247 I’d actually be down for that!! What platform would be the best?
@@elifbestegul7035 Insta? My name there: chxlsxy
I just applied to join your Vibely group and I'm so excited, I really hope I can find a workout accountability buddy. I get so over whelmed and busy with work and making videos that I put off my own health and that's something I want to change!
hi, is it possible to send the link cause I cant find it anywhere
@@user-ke2dl9se5l can you send me the link when you get it?
Hey there
Can I also get that link please 🥹🙏
I really like the idea of an accountability buddy!!!!
I enjoyed watching this video you’re so organized just keep it up 👍🙏🍃
Love the vid, very comprehensive. Got myself a buddy for waking up at 4:30 for October. It has worked like magic. Will be adding a discipline for November. Didn't have much of history with this guy so we didn't drag in any baggage into the challenge. Truly been an eye opener. Highly recommended.
that's great! 🥲
@@TheBlissBean ❤
@@jaysilverstone7221 can I join?
I love this. I really do need an accountability buddy. Thanks.
Hey there, me too! What about catching up?
@@Jessn247 Awesome!
This video is what I needed for a long time and just didn't know. I really need an accountability buddy for scheduling time to work together, revise the week, check in daily and just sharing how I feel about everything. I'm studying Journalism and Media Studies and doing my thesis now so it's a crucial time for me. Also, I just started to take care of myself by doing exercise and going to therapy. I would be amazing if my buddy is in European time so we can really keep up. Said that, I'm open to anyone who is very organized and energetic (sometimes I'm the opposite) to be my buddy :)
not living in Europe but I’m also working on my thesis for Audiovisual Communications!! I’m an ambivert so I’m energetic/extroverted and also super introverted! dm me on ig if you’d like to talk! @sofibenzo is my account :)
Hi Leonardo!:) I would to be your accountability partner. My current goals are to study for very important exams, so I would definitely use the help with organisation. I really need someone to check in daily and weekly. Btw. I also want to take care of both my body and mind, so I have the same goal of working out and I have been wanting to go to the therapy.
I'm guessing from your name that you may speak Spanish or Portuguese? I've been learning Spanish for a while:) And I am from the Czech Republic.
My ig is @kristyynar so feel free to text me:)
are you still looking for one?
Never in my life have I heard of vibely... tysm for the recommendation😜
Try Focusmate! I love the accountability :)
oh my gosh i love your nails!!!!
I met you in my dream last night haha! We were both at the airport going to study abroad :)
Everyone is different, but weekly sounds like a good timescale to me. Too much can happen in a month. And there's too much opportunity to let things slide back to the point of no return. Likewise, if you're struggling with time management? Having a daily check in, on top of everything else you have to fit into your day, might be a bit much.
An accountability buddy is kinda like the best type of therapist lol
Android user, I'm 25 and soon to be first time mom in November. Cannot make myself do house chores, cooking, and favor delivery. It's gotten bad. Looking for another female to take this a step further and basically SKYPE/VIDEO CHAT all day and night until our tasks are done. I will stay with you no matter how long it takes. I want to ensure we stick to it and everything gets accomplished for the day. If you study most of the time that works too, just need someone there to give and receive the attitude of, "We are doing this, NOW." I am positive but also strict. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired of my circumstance.
Hey, I also want someone strict.
Do still need an accountability buddy ? 🥺
@@QUEEN-le7ut yes if you are ready
What about forming a group to support and motivate each other? 🥰
I would love to be a Part of that :)
@@morefromalin3832 lets do that! My insta: chxlsxy
yess! we should
so when do we do it?
I would love to!:) My insta is @kristyynar please add me:)
Accountabillibuddy!!!
Great video, thanks!
Very professional video, and nicely packed with interesting content!
thank you! 🤗
i need one for going jogging regularly (currently not a problem, but i doubt it will last long lmao), learning french on my own and reducing my screentime (read fanfic reading)
anyone with similar kind of interests?
@Suranvitha Rodrigo yea im learning russian and chinese as well, but im basically a beginner in both languages so that will take a while. (native german btw.)
haha ive tried to read fanfics in french but ive given up after i like 2 chapters of some hp/tmr because it took me too long to search up vocab/phrases i didnt know. but i think ill start reading more french fanfics (shorter ones this time lmao)
@Suranvitha Rodrigo ahh i dont know actually, mostly everything except real person fics of persons i know about, i mean if i dont know who they are im not gonna care but if i know about them its kinda weird.
the last few months ive been into the kings avatar, hamilton and reincarnation au's, but naruto, fma, hp, the scum villain's self-saving-system, hannibal and ff15 are all-time favorites
im 20 btw, do you read fanfics as well and if yes, what do you like?
now i want an accountability buddy!!
Same over here :)
Let’s create a group on insta? If you’re up with that, let me know! My insta: chxlsxy 🥰
Hey im here
Much needed specially during this pandemic. Accepting accountability partner/s 👀
Hi! do you still need an accountability buddy?
@@okay.5448 omg yeees pleaase!
Hii is anyone available??
Oh yes oh yes oh yessss
im jiya and 16 in age! science is my main subject (physics, chemistry, biology) i prefer both similar and different goals & a strict person.
BUT i am a fun person if we need some off time so dw ab me being a grinch :))
I kinda have the same interest as u!.😁
Btw I'm Fathima..(16)..nd a medico aspirant
So?
Hi I am Satyajeet
17 years old and an Engineering aspirant
I am interested to be your bud
Please reply if you are interested
0:28! That's what you call GLOW UP!!!✨✨✨
I would love an accountability buddy. I really want to lose weight & and in general just have someone to check in on me (and vice versa)
Heyy. You can contact me if you want. I lost 50 pound in the last year. So if you need someone to help and make sure your on track.
Hi Jackie. I am looking for a buddy. Let me know your Snapchat handle/ email :)
and reminder settttt
Hey there! I'm really hoping I'm not too late to the party! I'm in search of a accountability buddy to keep me on track with my weekly check-ins. Just a heads up about me: I'm diving into goals involving studying, working out, and building some small habits. I fall in the 26-29 age bracket and would be over the happy to connect with someone on a similar vibe. Ready to kick off this adventure together? I'm a bit of introvert and English is my go-to language for communication! 🚀 Hit me up if anyone is interested.
hi, stil interested ?
I came back after 10 months to try it again. Hello, I'm Luka (he/him) 17 years old and from Germany. I am looking for an accountability partner who is just as keen to improve his life and habits. I currently go to the gym regularly, meditate and journal. I'm trying to learn to program and read more.
I find having an accountability partner really helpful! It helps to keep me on track when I don't feel productive
I need one 😫
I’ll do it w you 😖😖😖
Hi! I'm applying to uni today, which is starting next September, I need an accountability buddy for general motivation which would of course go both ways!
I'll be applying to Uni next year ,
Text me if you're interested
i neeed a study buddy tooo
Hey i´m also looking for someone but i live in Belgium so it´s difficult with timezones bcs none of my friends has intrests to do this
Hi ! I am from India I'd love to be in contact if the time difference is okay with you.
@@priynandinigupta8281 yeah i would love to just tell me where i can contact you 😁
@@yanavandenplas2768 omg that's great !!!! you can contact me on insta my id is @priynandinigupta
Needs a study buddy to work with 🍂
Hi, I'm Geetha. looking for an accountability partner, please respond if you are interested. Will make a study plan and let us begin studying.
Any templates I need help what we do is text eachother in the morning and send a motivational quotes but I feel like I’m not improving and I suppose she isn’t either
You’re awesome 🤩 adorable and reasonable 😍😍
Wow! Last year I even offered 3 people to be paid for a similar thing to this, to just be told in different ways I was dellusional that this would work.
Is the buddy-finding still active in the community?
Created an account on Vibely and applied to the community ^^
very much. im looking for a study buddy
Hello, not sure if the comment section is still as active.. but I'm 17 going into college next year, interested in computer science! Lately, I've been juggling college applications, grades, and exams. I speak Tagalog and English. I'm pretty big on video games and that's where I feel like a lot of my time gets wasted :< Especially in my senior year and going into college, it would be nice to find someone here!
Hey, are you still interested?
@@Crystal_1401 yes!!
hello helloo
Is Vibely not a thing anymore? I tried to download it and can’t find the app for it. I looked on Google and couldn’t find anything either
Update: I found it. It’s under the name Kajabi Communities
Never got to the how
I can’t find the app
currently looking for a study buddy for studying English ..
Hi, I need to study English too
Try to pick a partner that is about equal to you in skill and status. A person that has a million dollar business probably won't want to partner up with a guy that's a one-man show as he has less gems of knowledge to share. I had an accountability partner that had no money and was trying to start an online coaching business. I met him through a networking group. He knew I had an online business so he was trying to latch on to me for free info. He spent his last $$$$ on a training course to start an online biz and tried dangling that in front of me, saying that I can take the course with him for free. It was clear to me after a few meetings that I wasn't going to learn much from him so I canned the meetings.
I have really crippling social anxiety but i'd love to have someone who can help me cause i have adhd and i am struggling really hard right now
Ini yang kubutuhkan 😍
Lagi cari juga, yang sama-sama lagi berjuang skripsian yuk yuk
Ali abdaal Notion link brings me here 😜
I want an accountability buddy, someone who is into UX/UI design, a female preferably
Hi , guys I wanna ask vibely app is just available on iPhone right?
android too! we'd love to see you 💕
Ooow it doesn't work with me 😞💔 I really wanna to join it
Anyone studying for CPA or similar degree then we can be accountability buddies.
pro tip: all one word, acountabilibudy!
cant find the app on app store, and ive been searching for another similar app, and to be quite frankly I cant find any good one, What would you guys recommend, im looking for an accountability partner for me to be able to improve my software development skills and fitness life.
Would you like to be my study buddy??
I'm down for study buddy please someone respond if you are still interested.
♥️
Hay , thank you for the video 😊, I need an accountability buddy, I’ve been struggling to ready my daily devotions and sticking to my trading Goals . I have no age preference, but if you do I am 28 yrs old and a black male 😊
Hey there ! I just want to be your buddy
Do still need an accountability buddy ? 🥺
Where can I reach you from?
my bf is my accountability buddy HAHAHA
Can you add Turkish subtitles to your videos? Please.
Any android alternatives ?
I'm really in need of an online accountability buddy, but is too shy to ask :--(((
Same here- seems awkward.
Im looking for a buddy
currently looking for an accountability buddy 💐
Hi! Do you want to be my accountability buddy? ☺️✨
@@justlu1735 sure!😊
@@justlu1735 do you have an Instagram account?
heya, Im looking for someone to team up with as well, drop me a msg on ig @aczeq if u r still looking :)
@@aczeq4551 Hey, do you still looking ??🚶🏻♂️
I am looking for multiple cold calling accountability partners. I want to schedule zooms and alternate calling your list and mine and giving feedback.
Hi! I'm starting my online business and I would love to find an accountability buddy 😊
hi! Can I be your buddy? Well though I may not know anything about business but I'm still a physics student so you can trust me. my email in my channel's about section.
:)
I am a medical student and it will be amazing if I find arabic girl to by my study partner
Could it be an Arabic boy?
I am searching for a study buddy if you are down for it means let me know. 😊
Hei, how do i get an accountability buddy noe? bc I cant find it
I can be ur accountability buddy if you're
still looking for one
@@aboredhumann hii! Are you still looking for a accountability partner? I
@@FaithChinedu Yea!
@@aboredhumann for some reason, CZcams always deletes my comment
@@aboredhumann (abcFAITH_UGWUEZEdef) is my in⭐
the letters in capital🥰
Hi , I'm sam and looking for study buddies for long term and we can do schedule together reducing time screen, making our time studying more achievable
Hello, I'm Geetha. Checking out for a study partner. If you are interested please respond to the text.
Hey, I hope I’m not to late, I’m also interested to find a accountability buddy for long time.
Short part to me, I’m 21 years old, studying medical biology.
I would be very happy to have someone to talk about my plans and stay each other motivated ☺️
🌻🌻🌻🌻
hello, i need a study buddy for my studies to keep me accountable - i am 15 yrs old and taking O-level physics, math, biology and english
Hi! I'm 16 and also want someone to keep me accountable because I'm lazy and do everything last minute. I also want to start working out to lose some weight. Are you still interested :) (I do live in Europe so... hope you don't mind the time difference if there is one)
@@matea2721 hey yoo I am also facing the same
@@everythingsucks3451 Hi! Do you have sn'ap'chat?
@@matea2721 yeah
@@everythingsucks3451 can I add you? What's your username
hi, i need a accountability buddy! 🎈
i'm 19 and a university student
i like working out
i love learning new languages, currently learning spanish
and also english is not my first language!😊😊
Hi! I'm also 19 and a college student. I'm looking for someone to hold me accountable for completing my assignments and studying. We can do check ins and motivate each other if you're interested
Hi, do you still search one. If so dm me on insta (eileenah15)
@@tommyparty5129 Hello, do still need an accountability buddy ? 🥺
@@QUEEN-le7ut yeah I do
@@tommyparty5129 cool! can we be accountability buddies then?