Why You'll Hate Living in Finland (7 Reasons)

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  • Finland is one of the best countries to live in, but some things just suck. And even the bad things can be seen in a positive light!
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  • @rubyfisch5077
    @rubyfisch5077 Před rokem +1398

    On communication: I'm American, but my dad's side of the family is from Finland. The big joke I heard growing up was, "He loved his wife so much that he almost told her." lol

    • @ChristopherX30
      @ChristopherX30 Před rokem +14

      😅😅😅😂

    • @AlfdisGoodman
      @AlfdisGoodman Před 11 měsíci +7

      😂😂😂

    • @rubyfisch5077
      @rubyfisch5077 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@victorytothepeople3426 lol

    • @reasonerenlightened2456
      @reasonerenlightened2456 Před 8 měsíci +8

      It is the same in the UK. They would lick your butt-hole but would not hold hands with you. It is all very cerebral and mechanical ... like visiting an adult worker or a medical doctor.

    • @umerahmmesoma4010
      @umerahmmesoma4010 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Lol...😂😂😂this is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @Murp_
    @Murp_ Před rokem +536

    “Hard to make friends.”
    Me, an introvert: perfect 👌

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +29

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @sallyedwards3872
      @sallyedwards3872 Před rokem +7

      ahhh the good life 🎉

    • @Paxmax
      @Paxmax Před rokem +15

      "Finally my time to shine!" 😁

    • @aakka-p
      @aakka-p Před rokem +11

      A perfect place to be alone in

    • @theskilllessgamer5795
      @theskilllessgamer5795 Před rokem +2

      So, you dont want to have any friends at all? Because "hard to make friends" = hard for extroverts and impossible for introverts. He even said that in the vid, advising to be an extrovert on steroids to get any contacts.

  • @AleksiHimself
    @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +398

    Many people are writing negative comments against me because of this video. I want to remind you that the whole point of the channel is to promote and share useful content about Finland. While Finland is a great country, it's not perfect and it is possible to have negative experiences here. The goal of this video is bring potential negative aspects to your attention.

    • @aimcuk
      @aimcuk Před rokem +14

      Its perfect for me, you have my attention.

    • @taavilahti8240
      @taavilahti8240 Před 11 měsíci

      suomalaisena löysin tän aika saatanan hyvänä huumorin lähteenä. kaikki mitä sanoit on totta

    • @nylesgregory2120
      @nylesgregory2120 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Aleksi - in fairness to you and in balance of all things virtuous on Finland (esp. owning the top Happiness slot year after year) - when something is worthy of merit and value - that thing is treasured, cherished and also worthy to defend. You can't blame the Fins for wanting to defend their cultural spirit and National treasure. You did good. Don't cave to the Haters. You were just being objective and no one can fault you there. Terrific job. Keep posting. You're doing just fine 👍

    • @warriorkoaanuenue
      @warriorkoaanuenue Před 9 měsíci

      USA is much better than Fin’. Deal with it.

    • @dubaiproperty5028
      @dubaiproperty5028 Před 8 měsíci

      You can come back to your scotostan and stay live in the shit.

  • @herika006
    @herika006 Před rokem +277

    My solution when I was learning Finnish and people would reply in English: I simply continued talking in Finnish - avoiding telling them what to do. It worked, they eventually switched to Finnish as well.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +27

      That's a great move! 😃🙌

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +11

      If You never use Your suomi - You never learn IT ! Minä olen ulkomaalainen ja puhun vähän suomea... The KEY words !

    • @rsamom
      @rsamom Před 5 měsíci

      Well seeing that the fins are so spares on words I say you saved them😂

  • @IrishinFinland
    @IrishinFinland Před 2 lety +876

    I remember first time I visited here, About 2 years before I moved here permanently, Sitting in a bar waiting on my Girlfriend, dude walks in sits on the table next to me, I see he's wearing a Mercedes F1 tshirt, I notice he's about the same age as me 30ish, I just turn around to him and say " Valterri it's James, Would you like a drink?" I got a good laugh from him and we then went on talking about F1, and happy to say now we get together here in Oulu when F1 is on watch the races in my place or his ✊🏻👌🏻

  • @MarssiKaivo_Melanrez
    @MarssiKaivo_Melanrez Před 2 lety +510

    Finland is the best country for introverts. If you like making friends, but you are not extravert, you will have friends sometimes, but not fast.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +28

      True!

    • @riddlezastra1496
      @riddlezastra1496 Před 2 lety +33

      Well that is heavenly for folks like me.

    • @suja605
      @suja605 Před rokem +25

      i found a country that I would like to live. i always knew i was born in a wrong place. this place is too loud. nah not for me.

    • @roxanaquiroga311
      @roxanaquiroga311 Před rokem +10

      Minä olen ekstrovertti ja minä olin onnellista Suomessa. Se riippuu mistä Suomen kaupungista sinä asut. Esimerkiksi minä tapasin ekstroverteja suomalaisia Kuopiossa, Tampereella, Jyväskylässä, Rovaniemellä ja Lappeenrannassa

    • @neverbesinglenoway6611
      @neverbesinglenoway6611 Před rokem

      but if you agree have sex with them,they can come very fast,even in frist day!

  • @kennethfrank2663
    @kennethfrank2663 Před rokem +379

    1. Difficult to make friends 0:20
    2. Challenging to find a job 2:11
    3. The Language 3:56
    4. High taxes 5:09
    5. Winter 6:36
    6. High Prices 7:48
    7. Awkward Communication Culture 8:52

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 Před rokem +16

      Thanks...I'll stay in Florida.

    • @neverbesinglenoway6611
      @neverbesinglenoway6611 Před rokem

      no the biggest reason is:stingy man!

    • @neverbesinglenoway6611
      @neverbesinglenoway6611 Před rokem +10

      for me1 :man so stingy 2: women same man not too much emotion just hard worker 3:food is shit 4 :family culture is horrible,if you get marriage with them you will know 5:weather 6:language. 7high prices and people change to stingy...8 vicious circle

    • @EEcem-ht6dn
      @EEcem-ht6dn Před rokem

      Thank you.

    • @UltraCasualPenguin
      @UltraCasualPenguin Před rokem +7

      Then go to US where you can give away even more of your pay check, unless you want live without health insurance which is "free" in Finland.
      Or just go to Bermuda. 0% income tax. Just don't complain about how expensive it is to live there.

  • @marlenaeva3813
    @marlenaeva3813 Před rokem +1173

    I lived in Finland for 11 years. I left in 2019 because of unemployment and lack of friends/cold culture. The first reason was tougher for me than the second. Back in my country, I used to work and never depended on social benefits. But in Finland, especially if you're a foreigner and don't know the language perfectly, it will be harder for you to get a good job (not any job eg a cleaner or part-time restaurant worker-although these jobs are respectable but who wants to do this forever?) once you become unemployed. Personally, I felt bad being on social benefits and needed to do something useful. The thought of not working for years was too much for me so I had to leave. However, now I find myself missing Finland a lot. There are many, many benefits of living there.
    One that is unique to Finland is the seriousness and lack of corruption. My country is deeply corrupted and people love working around rules or manipulating them to benefit them. People are also very sincere. They will tell you exactly what they think, no embellishment, he he. Then there is the isolation of nature. You have so much space that's full of forests and waters. Walking in nature is amazing for your mental health so this helped me a lot when I was there. The Finnish winters were really tough for me. The cold, coupled with the darkness made me quite depressed.
    I was thinking if I wanna move back there but perhaps the downsides will again be too much for me. Maybe I'll visit the country for a few months and see the places I couldn't see while living there. (there are so many) It is true what a commenter here said. You need to adapt to the culture and accept it the way it is and not try to change it. Finland is such a different country all onto itself. There's nothing like it. You need to live there to understand it. Cheers!

    • @andr_sh
      @andr_sh Před rokem +50

      Spot on with unemployment. I have a degree in AI and a few years of industry experience yet on benefits.

    • @andr_sh
      @andr_sh Před rokem +15

      Feels like I could ve built a better career in Russia. Who's gonna reimburse these expenses to me?

    • @thecultivatingcactus5640
      @thecultivatingcactus5640 Před rokem +9

      @@andr_sh
      wow Finland must really suck!!..lol (You're speaking AMERICAN ENGLISH) ..when you should be speaking Finnish

    • @andr_sh
      @andr_sh Před rokem +32

      ​@@thecultivatingcactus5640 really? why? In a city where I live most people speak English well

    • @thecultivatingcactus5640
      @thecultivatingcactus5640 Před rokem +4

      @@andr_sh
      Huh? Wtf are you talking about? ..that has absolutely nothing to do with what I just said, obviously you dont comprehend real English well.. I see

  • @jorgepiresjunior
    @jorgepiresjunior Před 2 lety +733

    I'm a Brazilian who has moved to Finland about 3 years ago, first six months I attended to Finnish classes, but as soon as I've got my residence permission I started working and never gave it another try. I've never had the illusion of finding a job here, so I have never applied for a job. I knew if I want succeed I'd have to have my own business, and within 3 years I haven't got rich, but I face no financial problems and make way more money than I was used to make back in Rio de Janeiro. Taxes are high, but I gladly pay my taxes as I know exactly where it goes. Here, what you want isn't cheap, but what you need is cheap. But, I agree about the winter. Every morning when I have to shovel the snow around my car to go work, every time I have to wear those nails under my shoes, when it's 08:00 am and still dark, these are times when I almost regret moving here. But by the end of the day I love 🇫🇮

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +54

      Such a great comment! Thanks a lot!

    • @bakeraus
      @bakeraus Před 2 lety +27

      I'm on that projection now, it's so hard to find a job here as a foreigner so I thought I'll just start my own business in the international market. Congratulations on your business and future prospects :D

    • @Ice_barrage
      @Ice_barrage Před 2 lety +24

      Well said that what you want isnt cheap but what you need is cheap, as a finn i hadnt really even thought of it that way, always taken health care and such for granted

    • @yves.dantas
      @yves.dantas Před 2 lety +8

      Opa Jorge. Puts, sou de Natal e trabalho pra Nokia, às vezes penso em tentar ir pra aí mas cada dia q passa desânimo mais. Seguridade social incomparável mas o frio e as relações interpessoais tbm são relevantes

    • @jorgepiresjunior
      @jorgepiresjunior Před 2 lety +13

      @@yves.dantas rapaz eu trabalho aqui com construção, basicamente reforma de apartamentos e principalmente casas antigas de madeira. Da pra viver muito melhor que no Brasil. Aqui eu foco no trabalho, relações interpessoais so com minha esposa, enteado os pais dela e alguns poucos mas bons amigos. Quando o assunto é amizade o que conta é a qualidade, nao a quantidade. Eu fui e sou muito bem recebido aqui, nunca tive problemas com preconceito, ao contrario, o povo aqui quando nao adimra o brasileiro é simplesmente indiferente, nao tem bronca da gente.

  • @1977ajax
    @1977ajax Před rokem +318

    We had a Finnish film crew come to Australia working in the studio building opposite us. They arrived, blocked out all the windows, and never came out. Never even got to say 'Hello' to any of them. Quite weird, actually.
    They say that if you are talking to a normal Finn, he/she will generally look at their own feet. If you are talking to an extroverted Finn, he/she will look at your feet.

    • @livinginthetropics8470
      @livinginthetropics8470 Před rokem +12

      I think that's normal for film crews, I once worked in an industrial area and there was a vacant warehouse opposite. Over night they moved in to film and had security to keep people away. We never found out what was filmed or who the stars were. They came, filmed and left as suddenly as they had arrived.

    • @1977ajax
      @1977ajax Před rokem +20

      @@livinginthetropics8470 No, not really. I've worked in film for decades, and this was unusual within a studio complex.

    • @meredithsui9532
      @meredithsui9532 Před rokem +5

      bahahahh mate the last part got me

    • @ChristopherX30
      @ChristopherX30 Před rokem +5

      😂😂😂😂

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 Před rokem +5

      That wasn't a film crew

  • @Melih_R_Calikoglu
    @Melih_R_Calikoglu Před 2 lety +170

    I once met with a man from the Finnish embassy here in Turkey. We had quite a lot of jokes in a short time. He was quite fun even we talked only a few hours. He even told me a joke that when the Fins and the Turkish were migrating from Asia to Europe millennia ago, they saw a road sign writing
    To South:Sunny, hot and joyfull vs.
    To North:Cold, Dark and boring.
    He said your ancestors chose the South and my ancestors, well you see what happened. :)

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +11

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +8

      I Dont like +40c - Even at sauna !

    • @bokohara620
      @bokohara620 Před rokem +2

      Finns are geneticly basically balts not ugric turanids, its only the language thats ugro finnic ..

    • @Melih_R_Calikoglu
      @Melih_R_Calikoglu Před rokem +20

      @@bokohara620 It was not a serious talk. We were just making fun!

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +2

      Finland IS The Only country on Europe - that has fewer and fewer People ! Many say that They just Cant learn The Language !

  • @clemencelair1455
    @clemencelair1455 Před 11 měsíci +127

    I met three Finnish guys last week in Paris at a concert, and they actually came right to us and started by saying "Hey we're from Finland what are you guys doing after the show?" So they definitely didn't seem super shy and introverted to me! They actually were willing to go across Paris just to spend the evening with us! And they were the sweetest, most sincere and interesting people I've ever met and we're planning on visiting them in Finland next year! I truly think Finns can be your best friends for life!
    Also a funny thing happened; you know how in France we do "la bise" to say hello and goodbye to friends or family, like we basically kiss the person on each cheeks. So when we were with the Finns, on of my friends didn't think twice and kissed one of them on the cheeks (cause you know, it's no big deal to us and it's totally normal) but if you saw that guys face 😆 his soul was leaving his body

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 11 měsíci +21

      That's great! Some Finns are like that! And we definitely don't do the cheek kisses here so I understand the reaction. :D

    • @moniho6907
      @moniho6907 Před 10 měsíci +12

      Most act different than how they act in their home country

    • @Anticipat0r
      @Anticipat0r Před 9 měsíci

      did u smash?

    • @suvireijo
      @suvireijo Před 9 měsíci

      Or they are from Lapland or Savonia😅

    • @ventsislavpendjurov5563
      @ventsislavpendjurov5563 Před 9 měsíci +1

      It is interesting what would be the reaction if you go somewhere in Finland and do the same what these guys do???

  • @kieranbrooks8216
    @kieranbrooks8216 Před 2 lety +346

    Points 1 and 7 are interesting. I have a friend from Espoo who I met during my first year at university here in Scotland, and he is about as far from the stereotypes as you could imagine. One of the most outgoing people I’ve ever met, very friendly, a great laugh, did tons of extra curricular activities and can talk for ages.
    I wonder if those Finns who choose to go abroad to university are naturally more socially outgoing than those who remain at home? Interestingly he never intended to go back to Finland to work and settle down after university, he preferred life and career in the UK. But after about 8 years here, a couple of years ago returned to Finland permanently, got married and now has a child.
    Completely agree that if you manage to make friends with a Finn, you’ll probably be friends for life. Great people.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +56

      I agree 100% that the outgoing people go abroad. I have the same experiences as you.

    • @Slindi81
      @Slindi81 Před 2 lety +22

      Absolutely, and the same works the other way around. Exchange students who come to Finland are usually very outgoing, I guess they'd stayed at home if they weren't

    • @jorgepiresjunior
      @jorgepiresjunior Před 2 lety +17

      Also it's easier to be open act a little bit more silly when out of your own environment. All "boring" AKA serious Europeans are way more outgoing when they arrive in Brazil, as an example.

    • @bakeraus
      @bakeraus Před 2 lety +5

      "who I met during my first year at university here in Scotland" Ya I met some great Finnish guys snowboarding just over the border in Sweden, hilarious guys but they had travelled which I think helps break the introvertedness (not sure that's a word)

    • @Unknown1355
      @Unknown1355 Před rokem +5

      I remember we were told before going to Erasmus from a Finnish uni, that it is a researched fact that exchange students have different brain patterns that most of those who never do an exchange. I would say from experience that people definitely are outgoing and this might also cause the "exchange student bubbles", where they only socialize between themselves and not with the locals. Which also seemed quite common,
      I emigrated out of Finland due to never fitting in. Never really figured out why that happened, but don't really ponder it now. People say Germans are stiff and hard to befriend, I find the total opposite even in beginning when my German was nowhere near fluent.

  • @MoshiurRahmanGFX
    @MoshiurRahmanGFX Před 2 lety +4

    I always enjoy your videos. It's fun, full of information, and helpful.
    Thank you, brother Aleksi. keep up your good work.
    (one of your fans from Bangladesh)

  • @vilidious
    @vilidious Před 2 lety +420

    As a Finn, I'm glad we got some proper negative stuff about us out there.
    I feel comfortable Finnish mentality (at least to me) is best described with the lyrics of an old Ismo Alanko song: "Työnnä positiivinen ajattelu hanuriisi, kierrän kriisiryhmänne kaukaa".
    Loosely translates to "Shove your positive thinking up your butt, I'll steer far away from your help group".
    Nothing like proper doom and gloom to make you feel like home. :)

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +22

      Haha good stuff Vili! :D

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 Před rokem +1

      Niiiiiiiiiiiiiice!!! Is there a reason you dont think positively??

    • @vilidious
      @vilidious Před rokem +49

      @@mistersniffer6838 well, it's probably hard to explain.
      It's kinda like excessive positivity feels hypocritical and fake.
      You know, people giving fake smiles to keep things full of sunshine and to appear like they want others to see them.
      Or this constant need to sugarcoat everything and be peppy and full of energy just for appearances and to avoid, god forbid, hurting anybody's feelings.
      It kinda feels disgustingly fake... like you don't see people for who they really are.
      It's also like looking straight into an irritatingly giggly sun all the time... when you know life sucks, the last thing you want is someone to tell you to "turn that frown upside down" *giggle*... being miserable together feels much better.
      Sadness, melancholy, disappointment, sarcasm, dark humor, etc. are also an equal part of what we humans are and make me feel that I'm interacting with real and honest, imperfect and crude, people.
      So it makes me feel more at ease.
      I don't feel that (only) positive praise is trustworthy or even necessary.
      Or something like that anyway. :)

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 Před rokem +8

      @@vilidious - What if I am a generally happy person and like people to laugh and smile around me, so, I am somewhat peppy and happy all the time, or try to get people to be the same. What if I want my new Fin woman to smile all the time (because smiles are nice) and try to be positive to have what I have?
      Dont get me wrong, I have my times where I am dark and gloomy, but, most times I am happy and bouncy.
      Is my Fin love/friendship life doomed??

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 Před rokem

      @@vilidious - "It's kinda like excessive positivity feels hypocritical and fake.
      You know, people giving fake smiles to keep things full of sunshine and to appear like they want others to see them."
      Welcome to America.
      I might actually like Finn people then, as I sure dont like the fake Americans!!

  • @TravelingisFREEDOM
    @TravelingisFREEDOM Před rokem +2

    This seems to be a very interesting place, I hope I can visit sometime in the future. Seeing and sharing places like this is why I love traveling and make videos so much! And please keep up the great job! Subscribed!!

  • @Aidan_Au
    @Aidan_Au Před 2 lety +28

    Happy for your Albanian friend. It's a much better love story than Twilight.
    Thank you for sharing the story.
    Also, as always, I appreciate your comedic effects and the skits.
    Hope that your "fall in the show" didn't hurt much

  • @brentlocher5049
    @brentlocher5049 Před 2 lety +76

    Aleksi, I like your videos that are done in this format (kind of your old style). They are entertaining and informative.

  • @RossTFarnsworth
    @RossTFarnsworth Před rokem +30

    I lived in Finland in 1989, Yes I loved it, but it was hard also, but once you get to know the people, (which can take some work) you will find them to be some of the greatest people you will ever meet and they will effect how you see the world for the rest of your life.

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Před rokem

      how did they affect you?

    • @kotare86
      @kotare86 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@onemillionpercent They Finnished him off

    • @ro--M
      @ro--M Před 4 měsíci +1

      That is like the kindest compliment for us Finns I've heard. Really nice of you. 🙏

  • @johnaashmore
    @johnaashmore Před rokem +120

    My mother, an Australian, found the Finns distant and not willing to talk to her until they found out that her grandfather was a Finn merchant marine, who migrated to Australia, then they were willing to chat in a friendly manner to someone who did not speak Finnish.

    • @deen2027
      @deen2027 Před rokem +8

      Lmao

    • @suvireijo
      @suvireijo Před 9 měsíci +6

      Storytelling makes finns listen. It's our cultural pass time in the old days. Now days it's 100% maked up gossip about other people. Old folk are more interesting than any finn born after the 80s.

    • @reasonerenlightened2456
      @reasonerenlightened2456 Před 8 měsíci

      Nazi? or just nationalists?

    • @suvireijo
      @suvireijo Před 8 měsíci

      @@reasonerenlightened2456 weeell your case a court jester🤣 Good luck with the classism, wokeism what ever h*ll -ism your sprouting. My finnish ingermanlander grandmother use to say: Shove it to your b*tt hole! Hopefully you do it literary. Good day jester🥰

    • @TheImmilky
      @TheImmilky Před 8 měsíci

      @@reasonerenlightened2456 That is the most dumb question I've ever heard. Finns (mostly older ones) need to have a reason to give you their attention, that's all. It's not nationalistic to be distant or cold, that's how people living in such cold countries tend to behave(which is a stereotype and younger Finns are more outgoing), it's a cultural thing! And it definitely does not make someone a nazi! Learn what that word means and be ashamed, cause you definitely don't know the severity of this word!

  • @erkkiboy
    @erkkiboy Před rokem +41

    The finnish smile, love it. That's me in all photos unless I'm drunk or something 😁so many truthful stereotypes here. From my five years living in Finland I definitely recognize most, haha. Very good video, I laughed a lot 😁

  • @claudiograssi1037
    @claudiograssi1037 Před rokem +65

    I'm italian, I've been in Finland 2-3 times as vacation or business trip. I've never been resident for a significant period of time. Well, it's different from South Europe but, frankly speaking, I've never had problems in the relationship with the finnish people. Which are the main differences? 1) what we call "movida", i.e the habits for us to "live more on the streets, in restaurants and pubs". 2) the dark winter. 3) the relationsip with alcool (that for a souther european is a mean to be together and not to drink alone). A curiosity: the two languages, finnish and italian, have nothing similar, not any historical connection. Nevertheless when I hear finnish people speaking on the road, the sound could be similar to italian.

    • @petskup4
      @petskup4 Před rokem +4

      Historical connection is that same side in the WW2. 😄👋

    • @mpc_bismarck
      @mpc_bismarck Před rokem +3

      Analisi interessante. Ci torneresti in vacanza? Andresti mai a viverci per tutta la vita (o quasi)?
      Inoltre volevo dire che probabilmente il consumo di alcol fatto da soli in Finlandia (ma alla fine un po’ in tutto il nord Europa) è dato dal fatto che in tutti i paesi freddi si tende a bere di più, un po’ per riscaldarsi, un po’ per far passare i giorni freddi più velocemente, un po’ per non annoiarsi; almeno questo è ciò che ho pensato

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +2

      IL Solo Italiano - has been recoded by KARI TAPIO - as Olen suomalainen ! Toto knew this - that His Song was Real Popular in Finland !

    • @claudiograssi1037
      @claudiograssi1037 Před rokem +2

      @@mpc_bismarck A viverci non andrei, in vacanza sì. Il loro rapporto con l'alcool (come in tutta la Scandinavia) non mi piace molto: è individuale e non "sociale" cioè divertirsi assieme ad amici.

    • @claudiograssi1037
      @claudiograssi1037 Před rokem +1

      @@holoholopainen1627 I've just listened: so nice the "joint-venture" Italian-Finnish!

  • @aasthajha7872
    @aasthajha7872 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this informative video .

  • @jadedequeljoe3283
    @jadedequeljoe3283 Před rokem +15

    I am a professional tattooist,American,living in Holland. Before the pandemic,I used to go frequently to Finland to work at my friends tattoo shop or at conventions. I always had a great time and made good money. People drink a lot in Finland,but that’s true in all of Scandinavia and Europe in general. I don’t really have anything bad to say about Finland.

  • @HeavenSpectrum
    @HeavenSpectrum Před 2 lety +195

    I think I would be quiet happy living on Finland. Learning the language is quiet hard, but it's a wonderful language. I'm lucky my language teacher is focusing on speaking finnish, we learn a lot about the spoken finnish as well as the written.
    I love the way Finns are in general ❤

  • @ZitaGoesToParis
    @ZitaGoesToParis Před rokem +3

    Super cool this vlog! Ive been in Finland a few times, I think that may be its hard being very smily when the weather is insane, 4 months dark, and alcohol taxes so high 😀😀
    But every time Ive been there, people have been very nice with me, they keep distances at first, but you must be yourself (particurally Im from Spain and that seems to be a plus, dont know why), broke the silent barrier and enjoy a nice and interesting conversation. I made a friend in Porvoo once I went on vacation, she was like 60 years old (I was 30), it just was 3 days we met, I barely speak english, but we still write emails and Im eager to see her again. Finland its great, except for the darkness! It makes me feel kinda depressed.

  • @anesidora3084
    @anesidora3084 Před rokem +14

    Im a finn who uses written language as spoken language too. I personally like it. Tho few times when i have gone to doctor (from reasons i dont remember) they have thought it is so quirky that they mention it in my patient description as well. I find that really funny.

  • @olaniranoluwayemisi4707

    I like your style of content creation. You are good. Good job

  • @danalexa1275
    @danalexa1275 Před 2 lety +10

    Came across your channel while doing some research for Finnish life style. Total gem. I like your subtle humour used in your content. A lot of valuable information so keep up the good work.

  • @LadyRavencide13
    @LadyRavencide13 Před rokem +7

    This is great. I love the Finnish stereotypes 😂 I think i missed out of these because i went to Finland with Finnish friends I met in London 😂 we went to 3 different cities/towns, we went to a festival and then to my friends parents cabin in the woods in the North, we went fishing and drank until the silly hours of the morning. They had a sauna and we swam naked. It was amazing being out in the middle of nowhere in the woods. I didn't want to leave! I did appreciate how people didn't try and become your friend when we were out and about 😂 I'm an extroverted introvert - I don't wanna meet loads of new people all the time, but the friends I already have know there will be shenanigans & silliness 😂

    • @johnkilly8049
      @johnkilly8049 Před rokem

      I'm a introverted extrovert. If someone needs a help I'm always there. I always cry around if somebody can call an ambulance and all of a sudden came a couple of Italian medicine Students to my help until the ambulance service came...
      That is the way how to understand humanity and not to humiliate any country....

  • @evm6177
    @evm6177 Před rokem +1

    O good god, this was sure funny and much informative.🍷👍 Loving the whole
    :( Finnish smile thing by the way! )

  • @bruceclark4754
    @bruceclark4754 Před rokem +1

    Very interesting and informative, done with great humour. Love the fact that Aleksi can laugh at himself and fellow Finns.

  • @beckyanderson1297
    @beckyanderson1297 Před rokem +9

    You're completely right. I went to Finland in 2011 to study university. At that time things were good and I will be forever grateful for what Finland offered me. I got free tuition, a lot of discounts and money incentives as a foreign student. Some of my friends decided to reside in Finland, they moved to Helsinki and work for international companies now with good salary and amazing benefits. I think Finland is good for families with children because of the free education and child support. But for those who are single and introverted, maybe Finland is not ideal.

  • @yuyu8267
    @yuyu8267 Před rokem +11

    Watching this video is my first step towards moving to Finland. I'm hella scared but will give it my best to get a job there while being in Colombia. I'll keep posting my progress on this video as things begin to unfold. Wish me luck lol

  • @SoloTravelStory
    @SoloTravelStory Před 7 měsíci +4

    Loved your straight points and honesty about living in Finland. I just got back from my first time visit to Helsinki and fell in love. But videos like yours help me to stay grounded. It's not all roses and sunshine for sure. I appreciate the insights you've given esp on the winter situation and job search for internationals. Whilst I don't mind the introverted culture, the cold and harsh winters would destroy me. I also noticed the job situation and that many internationals love living in Finland but they work mostly in cafes, cleaners, shops...(no offence to these jobs but you can tell internationals aren't present in career jobs). That would frustrate me. Finnish is pretty hard. I will continue to learn it and hopefully can make some more efforts the next time I come for a visit. I vibed really well with the introverted nature of Finns (I'm German) and I'm the same. Keep to myself, not really someone who starts talking to strangers and making sure I don't bother others. I prefer real authentic people over the fakeness that some anglophone nations have.

  • @vladimirprostran1896
    @vladimirprostran1896 Před rokem

    This is a really cool video, thanks fpr sharing!
    On the off-topic, are there any books on Finnish culture and history in English you would recommend?
    Thanks, greetings from Serbia!

  • @giamsouza9286
    @giamsouza9286 Před 2 lety +3

    you are so clear in what you say, and you make Finland so interesting and weird at the same time

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      We Are Not weird - but Different ! I want to talk to You after Your 1st Winter in Finland ! Katotaan että oletko itse muuttunut - sanotaan yhden talven jälkeen ?

  • @gigigiooo
    @gigigiooo Před rokem +120

    I spent 5 weeks in Finland, which messed with my mental health. I do have to say that if I had more accurate information about the coldness in the culture and other specific details from my particular situation I would've been prepared so I would advise anyone going to visit for a long time or move to Finland to really do your research and assess if it will be a good place for you. I got depressed after only five weeks there but I know people with a similar background who love being in Finland.
    It really depends on people's personalities to fit into the country because the coldness is crushing. However, I will say that I did meet sweet Finnish people in my school, they are shy but sweet when you get to know them which is hard in itself.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      Did You learn anything ? As 5 weeks IS a long Time with Friends and FAMILY ! How Much did You watch CZcams videos - before Your journey ? I am sure If You had seen some SALMIAKKI Videos before - You would have had - 2nd opinion - handy to ready ?

    • @FnafSL_BonBon
      @FnafSL_BonBon Před rokem +3

      For people that are not Finnish, Finland can be a little different, and you need to learn more about the finnish culture and that stuff.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      What I meant - Those 5 weeks - to Be Away from Your FAMILY and Friends !

    • @mrolympia2774
      @mrolympia2774 Před rokem +18

      You got depressed in 5 weeks because of a country? No. You need help. You were already depressed. Try to fix this.
      Hope you can find your way.

    • @FnafSL_BonBon
      @FnafSL_BonBon Před rokem +1

      @@mrolympia2774 :)

  • @newtype7188
    @newtype7188 Před rokem +2

    I lived in SUOMI for nearly 5 years. I understand what you told in this video.
    But I still had great great times with the people there.
    And I'm still dreaming to go back there.

  • @foreignereyes
    @foreignereyes Před rokem +1

    Heii! Nice video! I was on holiday in Helsinki this year and I loved it. We got approached by 2 Finnish guys on the ferry and we had a great chat. They were really friendly and not (yet) drunk hahaha Maybe it's the exception that proves the rule. :))

  • @mdrow100
    @mdrow100 Před 2 lety +34

    Some of our Finnish family said university education has been too aggressive so you end up with people who have higher learning degrees that can't find jobs. The other half showed that you could essentially live off government benefits as a long-term student so some stay in university for like 10 years. Of course that's a huge waist because no real skills are gained. I had heard Finnish government was pushing for trade schools instead of engineering degrees because there are simply too many engineers.

    • @SilentEcho9194
      @SilentEcho9194 Před 2 lety +5

      I heard there are 3 types of jokes in Finland: Swedish jokes, Russian jokes and Engineer jokes. Not sure how true that is though 😉.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +14

      It depends entirely on the fields of the degrees. Engineers find jobs but a person with a degree in History will have a tough time. Nowadays, the student benefits are capped to around 7 years. In addition, the benefit is around 500€/month so you can't do much with that.

    • @Faoijhfr4rsgioi
      @Faoijhfr4rsgioi Před rokem +3

      After watching many videos and reading comments about how "Finland is not actually good" "we are not the happiest country in the world" all i understood is that Finland IS great, there are so many people who make videos about how it is bad but all the reasons just show how good it is. It's like you completely don't know how it is in other countries cuz you are complaining about the things that we dream about

    • @northgirl77
      @northgirl77 Před 11 měsíci

      @@AleksiHimself how about architects and interior designers is it hard to find a job as a foreigner?

  • @bhutchin1996
    @bhutchin1996 Před rokem +32

    One of my Russian professors was Finnish. One day in class she said something in Russian and when I asked her to say the same thing in Finnish, she did. The language was different but it had a nice sound. Her husband was a Finn too. He said it would be ideal to spend winters in Texas and summers in Finland.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @remohor
      @remohor Před rokem

      I live in Texas and were getting snow too but im sure Finland is 100000xxx way different. 😍

  • @annikamerimaa7253
    @annikamerimaa7253 Před rokem

    I have never laughed so much watching such video. It has been done with such humor key. Thank you and hope to see more of your videos. Point said lot your points apply to Estonians too☺️

  • @natnaelgetnet4330
    @natnaelgetnet4330 Před měsícem

    like this dude way of making this videos am enjoying this very much. send this guy to every country and let him tell us about it.

  • @Slindi81
    @Slindi81 Před 2 lety +19

    And remember that the spoken language is different on different areas, for example where I'm originally from, the eastern Finland, minä = mie. So you might learn how to speak in Helsinki and communicate efficiently there, but if you move to other areas, you might find out that you don't understand much :)

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +4

      Good point!

    • @diamondsarenotforever8542
      @diamondsarenotforever8542 Před 2 lety

      I come from western Finland and been in eastern Finland many times (I love the place). I had no difficulties to understand the dialect.

    • @ollihamina9720
      @ollihamina9720 Před 2 lety +2

      Another important regional difference seems to be that in the Eastern Dialects area (Karjala, Savo, Kymenlaakso) people are a lot more outgoing and making friends is not as difficult there. It is still common that people just start talking with strangers for no reason. Unfortunately, this seems to be fading away with the younger generation.

    • @ollihamina9720
      @ollihamina9720 Před 2 lety +1

      Oh, and while talking to Savo people, you have to remember that none of what they say is to be taken literally. Rather, you should treat their talk like you were to interpret biblical metaphors or a philosopher's enigma ;)

  • @xuli3311
    @xuli3311 Před 2 lety +82

    I really appreciate that you dared to mention the true reason why it is difficult to make friends with Finns it is because Finns value their time, which I completely agree and laughed! Because most of people would just say because Finns are shy.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +6

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @marilyncoyne4034
      @marilyncoyne4034 Před 2 lety +2

      Europeans Ireland and Italy seem a bit stoic and private. I see that in first generation Americans from Europe jere in US. It’s not a bad thing

    • @McScara
      @McScara Před 2 lety +4

      It also depends on the personality like some may be shy and others not

    • @catkittycatcatkittycatcat3227
      @catkittycatcatkittycatcat3227 Před 2 lety +3

      I would say they kinda got used to it cause in Finland the population is pretty small and they probably don't make much relationships. But it's just my take on this. It's probably not that true but that's how I would excuse Finnish people.

    • @xuli3311
      @xuli3311 Před 2 lety +2

      @@catkittycatcatkittycatcat3227 I get used of this too. Actually I have integrated this Finnish friend-making style into my own life. By making less fewer but more genuine friends, I appreciate and value new friendships much more than before.

  • @angelaacuna240
    @angelaacuna240 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for the heads up😲😲

  • @BennoLenno
    @BennoLenno Před 2 lety +11

    This was actually really funny and accurate. I'm from Sweden but I'm planning on moving to Finland in like a year or two.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +8

      Good stuff! 😃🙌 WTF = Welcome to Finland

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      Hint - Read a Book - of Suomi - before You take The Ferry ! There Are Videos - from Sweden - Where asked on The Street How Much Swedes know of Finland ! Many Finns know More of Sweden - than Swedes know of Finland - Even The distance IS The same ! There Are some Sports - that does Not exist in Sweden but Finns Master Those ! Formula One to Finnish Baseball to Wife Carrying... Floorball to Bandy ! Take IT easy - IT takes Time to learn - How to Make a sauna FIRE !

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      Have You packed Yet ? Have You ever heard of GAMMALSVENSKBY ? Take a Look - before IT IS too late ! Many CZcamsrs Been there to Film !

    • @totoafrika5568
      @totoafrika5568 Před rokem

      There is nothing to see.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      @@totoafrika5568 Where at ? Gammalsvenskby or Finland ?

  • @openbob6656
    @openbob6656 Před rokem +4

    i have to give you kudos for being honest and addressing the points of difficulty to make friends which is a huge one for most people, and connected to that is dating is not good so there are a lot of lonely single people which is kinda sad but Finish people are somehow managing through and i admire them for that, because i feel i would be a really depressed person if i lived there because i am more of an introvert myself.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +1

      You will find friends if you take action and talk to people.

    • @Atomisti
      @Atomisti Před rokem +1

      Making friends is pretty hard in all North-European countries. Or so I have been told. But, yeah, probably it's particularly hard in Finland, because we don't have neighborhood restaurants, bars or pubs the way they have in Germany, France, Britain and so forth.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Před rokem

      How do you know the single people are sad? Just because you would feel sad does not mean that they would. Maybe they are happier that way; life is a whole lot simpler. Around the world, now that women are being liberated, educated and empowered, they are no longer interested in getting married or even having children which used to mean being supported so they can live; otherwise they would have a miserable life until they starved to death for lack of support not to mention being shunned. Many women are choosing to support themselves now, no need for a man. They even have children if they want one or two and can afford them. If not, they don't; it's their choice now.

    • @micheladerry5681
      @micheladerry5681 Před 4 měsíci

      @@virginiamoss7045 expecially in North Europe, women are more indipendent, thats why there are more single persons up there, with no problems at all. Somewhere else they think theyve problems, but its not true, They simply dont need a companion

  • @anttikuusmetso
    @anttikuusmetso Před rokem +1

    Oli tosi hauskaa katsoa, kiitos Aleksi. 😁

  • @shubham1950
    @shubham1950 Před 7 měsíci

    Bro i am thinking to go Finland and do MBA there but now i have to think about it more, thanks for giving us real and honest information what i was looking for.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 7 měsíci

      Thanks bro. Do note that each country has its pros and cons. Finland has lots of good stuff, too.

  • @Demons972
    @Demons972 Před rokem +18

    Been in Finland for about a year now and here is my insight:
    1. It is kinda difficult to make friends but really depends on the person, i've been a couple of Finns that i can really call my friends but they match my energy and talk a lot like i do and the times that i've hang out i feel rather uncomfortable since people is forced to speak with me in English but they communicate with each other in either Swedish or Finnish and i have no idea what they are saying.
    2. yes if u don't speak the language will be difficult to find a decent job and even people who speak Swedish and Finnish work at places like Mcdonalds or supermarkets, since i come from a third world country the salary i get from a restaurant is not bad but i had a colleague that told me once that the salary is crap.
    3. the language here we go, for people who speak Romance languages is rather easy to learn Swedish mostly spoken in Ostrobothnia but Finnish is a pain in the neck and it will take you years of extensive study to master it, i can saw a few words and seeing how the face of Finns light up when they hear me trying to speak Finnish is really rewarding and motivates you to keep learning.
    4. yeah taxes are high but nothing you can do about it, i make about 18k a year but i only see about 13k the only trick i know so far to avoid high taxation is either working for the forest or farmers industry since the govt offers lower taxation to them or at least that's what i've been told.
    5. winter is a lot of fun but it can be sh*t also, is good to invest in anti slippery shoes so you don't wreck or sh*t and good clothing, my advice to save some money is to go to a second hand store, they always bring new stuff and you can find really good quality clothing at a very cheap price because buying from a department store is really expensive.
    6. everything is expensive the trick is to create a budget and avoid spending money on stuff you don't really need, again is a good practice to buy second hand stuff, clothing, furniture, appliances etc and also supermarkets usually discount items that are about to expire so you can use them asap to cook ur food for the day and get them cheaper.
    7. most Finns do hate smalltalk so it's better to find an interest in common to start a conversation, cars, music, food or even sharing something about your life with them they would rather hear you talking about your life than just start a random smalltalk about something they are not interested or never heard before but be careful as to not offend anyone try to be straightforward and ask if they are ok talking about an specific topic because the issue with Finns is that if they get offended or they are angry at you they would never say it to your face.

    • @Demons972
      @Demons972 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Americaisgreat35 i mean even if i'm a foreigner i understand, no one wants to give their money away to an stranger but i guess you can try and pursuit your pilot career in the USA, that's what my stepfather did because he is an helicopter pilot but that was like 2-3 decades ago, i also have a handful of Finnish friends that have moved to Spain and developing countries in the last year or so, try to do some research but personally as someone coming from a developing country i wouldn't change Finland's stability (economically, socially etc) i reckon that in case the world goes to sh*t Finland would be one of the best countries to be in.

    • @wuhtevah3840
      @wuhtevah3840 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@Americaisgreat35 "I have earned my money, i dont want to give half of it to strangers"
      "Im abusing the fuck out of this free education and then leaving to somewhere"
      noice...

    • @Americaisgreat35
      @Americaisgreat35 Před 9 měsíci

      @@wuhtevah3840 sounds nice

    • @bambae7669
      @bambae7669 Před 4 měsíci

      Noticed the nr. 4 about taxes. Your taxes were way too high, if you really only received 13k out of 18k, i'd estimate the proper net income to be about 16500. I think the disparity is caused by the tax agreement Finland has with your native country.
      This comment was pretty old, so i hope it fixed itself, but if you didn't get a refund, you can always ask the Finnish tax office. Even if they can't reimburse you due to the tax agreement, they might be able to explain to you how to receive a tax refund from your government.

    • @Demons972
      @Demons972 Před 4 měsíci

      @@bambae7669 nope is even worse, they increased my percentage to 29% and even took more money than needed until i noticed and had to fix it on the tax website to lower it, I barely earn 1.8k euros before taxes and last month they took 500 euros wtf is that bs? And tax agreement or refund from my country? Nah bro i come from a fvcking sh*t hole country in Central America they ain't returning me sh*t, as much as i like here i'm seriously planning to move to Norway or somewhere else the taxes are just ridiculous.

  • @aaaaaaaniiie2993
    @aaaaaaaniiie2993 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I've lived in Finland for more than 1 year. Agree with the comment above about the Finnish language. Originally, I am from Ukraine, I had been a psychology Bachelor's degree student, so I wanted to continue my education, but I found out that in Finland it's almost impossible as they do not have an international degree in psychology, I ask what about If I study the Swedish language, but they said that psy degree is one of the most competitive degrees here, and even locals can't get in. Contrary, in the Netherlands, Italy, or Lithuania I found programs for international students in psychology. So I drew the conclusion that education is a bit closed here for international students...
    I also started to study the Swedish language, as my bf is Swedish-speaking Fin, although it is an official national language, locals didn't understand it well.
    However, I would like to stay here if the situation with language and education was better because Finnish people are one of the nicest I've seen. They always will help, are polite, and are supportive. Also, social equality is very visible, every Fin has access to education, health care, and work opportunities!
    If you want to live in Finland you should really concentrate on learning the Finnish language. I guess only a job in the tech field will be suitable for people who do not know the Finnish language (as it is more flexible).

    • @shelanfernando1647
      @shelanfernando1647 Před 3 měsíci

      Hi i'm also planning to migrate to finland and I have a diploma in Psychology and planning to do bachelors' in psychology. What is the best option for me ? Please help 🙏

  • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude

    Thank you for video!

  • @destovig
    @destovig Před 10 měsíci

    This video made me want to move there more! Nice one!!

  • @cl6260
    @cl6260 Před 2 lety +10

    I like your video. and good to know how the tax is collected in Finland. in Estonia, a person with annual income less than 20k euro still pay 20% tax, but in Finland they only need to pay 14.8%... Estonian poor people even pay more taxes, while the cost of living is not that much different

  • @omarplaceres6924
    @omarplaceres6924 Před rokem +14

    Everything what he says is true. I have been living in Finland for 30 years already and I still don't have any finnish friends. All of my friends are foreigners like me living in Finland.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +4

      Sorry to hear that man. There are also foreigners who have made Finnish friends so it means it's possible.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      Do You Do anything Finnish ? Read Paper & Books - Go to movies - play Finnish Baseball - Ice Hockey - Make Finnish Food... Eat salmiakki ? Go to Public sauna...

    • @roxanaquiroga311
      @roxanaquiroga311 Před rokem

      Joo. On mahdollista saada suomalaisia ystäviä.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      How Much You know of Finland ? Mitenpaljon tiedät elämästä Suomessa - vai elätkö yhä jossakin " kuplassa " ? Monta kertaa olet ostanut suomalaisen lehden ja lukenut mitä muut Suomessa tekevät ?

    • @omarplaceres6924
      @omarplaceres6924 Před rokem

      @@holoholopainen1627 hei, mä kirjotan nyt suomeksi koska näyttää siltä, että et ymmärrä hyvin englantia. Olen asunut Suomessa 30 vuotta, olen jopa pelannut baseballia 90 luvulla, olen lukenut paljon lehtiä. Puhun Suomen kielellä joka päivä työssä ja tunnen paljon suomalaisia, jotka tekevät työtä minun kanssani ja kyllä työssä keskustelemme, nauramme ja joskus pidetään hauskaa, mutta työn jälkeen jokainen lähtee kotiin ja ei kenenkään kiinnostaa kutsua sinut vieraaksi kotiin tai diskoon tai vaikka bariin juomaan pari kaljaa. Naapurit joskus moikkaavat ja piste. Totta kai aina löytyy poikkeus. En sano että on mahdotonta. Minä sanon että yleensä on vaikeaa saada suomalaisia ystäviä ja minun kanssani on ollut mission impossible. Minä olen sosiaalinen, tanssin salsaa, pidän hauskaa, minulla on maahanmuuttajia ystäviä eri maista koska osaan muita kieliä. Tämä on ollut minun kokemukseni Suomessa. Yleensä suomalaiset puhuvat ulkomaalaisten kanssa kun heillä on pari kaljaa.

  • @arielguzman2875
    @arielguzman2875 Před rokem

    Glad I found your channel. Someday I been thinking of moving my family to Findlay to live for a little while for my children to go to school. Maybe cover some of that if possible.

    • @johnkilly8049
      @johnkilly8049 Před rokem

      Make your way. It’s a new experience and some effort on your side it’s also necessary too. However, one thing is extremely important. You must have a proper education and at least ought to be able to speak English well.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 11 měsíci

      I have a video of the topic coming soon.

  • @vasilikitsakiridou7370
    @vasilikitsakiridou7370 Před 10 měsíci

    I don't know if it's a Finnish thing, but I love the tone of your voice! It's very soothing!

  • @RoadRunnerMeep
    @RoadRunnerMeep Před rokem +6

    Interesting about the spoken and written Finnish. I never realised they had formalities too. So basically worth learning two languages so you know both formalities and when to use them

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      There Are dialects - spoken suomi ! Mikael AGRICOLA - was just using One dialect - and never been - to areas with a different dialect !

    • @Atomisti
      @Atomisti Před rokem +1

      I once had an acquittance who always spoke Finnish the way it's written. It was his thing - even in the army and a an officer, I was told. A great personality. But, yeah, it's a mess and something should be done about it

    • @caribcarib4337
      @caribcarib4337 Před 5 měsíci

      they now have also a Finnish slang - which my older Finnish relatives dont understand

  • @blissiimo2064
    @blissiimo2064 Před rokem +2

    I visited Finland from Australia. Nobody knew where that was - but the people in Lapland were very hospitable and invited me to Sauna anyway :)

  • @4URInformation
    @4URInformation Před rokem

    Dude this is an awesome video! 👌

  • @tarey05
    @tarey05 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is a wonderfully entertaining commentary on living and settling in Finland, Aleksi! You have a refreshing sense of humor and direct approach to presenting the narrative. Thank you for that! Does the gov't or private organizations hire qualified and experienced teachers of English who do not speak Finnish? Just a thought. Thanks again!

  • @xanathem7
    @xanathem7 Před rokem +14

    As a Finn, I am delighted to see such a video. I can imagine how this video could be helpful for someone immigrating to Finland. We, as a people, will only benefit from increased understanding between us.

  • @thecurrentthing499
    @thecurrentthing499 Před 2 lety +5

    Omg the bus skit killed me! As a Canadian is Estonia who rides the bus often, I always communicate with others and they just stare at me! HAHAHA

  • @olegzuev1397
    @olegzuev1397 Před 8 měsíci

    You are very nice, and making a quality content! Im a pipeline welder, and always dreaming about working in Finland. Now i working on Serbia and sometimes in Germany, but Finland is my heart. Im understand and feel finnish people, they character, because im always been very shy pearson. Good luck to you!

  • @RA28xx91
    @RA28xx91 Před 2 lety

    You made my day🤣🤣🤣 all the best !

  • @Byronic_Man
    @Byronic_Man Před rokem +11

    No wonder Finnish bands like H.I.M., POETS OF THE FALL,THE 69 EYES and CHILDREN OF BODOM have such deep lyrics,coz they keep the feelings deep inside their hearts.

    • @Hellenicheavymetal
      @Hellenicheavymetal Před rokem

      Amorphis and Insomnium

    • @WardDorrity
      @WardDorrity Před rokem

      Nightwish rules them all. Tuomas Holopainen is a genius and a musical polymath.

  • @user-rh6kl1rc9g
    @user-rh6kl1rc9g Před 5 měsíci +4

    Я живу в 20 минутах езды от Финляндии, раньше я даже раз в неделю покупала продукт в Финляндии на себя и соседей, мне нравились финские товары, хороший народ и страна, но немного деревенский и даже не немного)) в этом и прелесть Финляндии, это очень уютная сельская страна. Был опыт покупки дома в Финляндии)) у меня было 6 квартир и я продала одну и думала что купить? И решила дом в Финляндии. Я ездила пол года как на работу искала , смотрела дома , все были очень милые, участвовала в конкурсе покупки и вот я выиграла конкурс, продавал муниципалитет города дом в городе. Оформление шло долго, 1 месяц, 2 месяц, то кто-то ушёл в отпуск, то бумаги делают, то ещё кого-то ждут, итого пол года мои наличные были были без дела и под инфляцией, это опасно и вот я спонтанно поехала в Петербург и там за один день, один! Я оформила квартиру))) вот разница менталитета страны 5 млн и города .10 млн. При том это касается любого вопроса… как то я покупала телевизор в Финляндии и история повторилась…. Я стояла с наличными в руках и ждала пока продавец поговорит с зашедшим местным жителем прогуливавшим собачку, и продавец и собачник никуда не торопились по деревенски и мило беседовали, конечно он ничего не купил, но это так по деревенски) в Петербурге за это время магазин продал бы всё всем желающим) в то время как мир очень динамичный и быстрый, финны совершенно некуда не торопятся… и даже в словах это отражено, многие слова с двумя гласными и их как бы надо тянуть, говоря слово ты гласную произносишь долго - ооооо

  • @blairhakamies4132
    @blairhakamies4132 Před 4 měsíci

    Congratulations. Well done. 👏

  • @axtrion888
    @axtrion888 Před rokem +1

    I was in Thailand and met a group of Fins --- really nice people, made some great friends, was with them every day for 9 months --- miss them a lot, hope to see them again soon!

  • @ShakespearHD
    @ShakespearHD Před rokem +4

    I've been to many parts of the World. One trip to Finland was enough for me. Traveling through the small towns and cities it seemed to me like there was one there (in the middle of the say in the summer). Something tells me they like to stay at home A LOT.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem

      They are small towns for a reason. Bigger cities have more to offer.

    • @caribcarib4337
      @caribcarib4337 Před 5 měsíci

      @@AleksiHimself they mean there are few people around in those small towns in Finland - and that is true - more forest than people - in the summer the Finns disappear who knows where and in the winter they return and stay huddled at home

  • @Mark_Kuckerberg
    @Mark_Kuckerberg Před rokem +7

    Hey Aleksi, thank you very much for this video. I am living in Germany and was born and raised here. But newest politics showed that it starts to be unattractive and kind of dangerous to keep living here.
    So when I would decide to leave Germany, my first thought of moving was and still is Finland.
    Finding friends or even a partner is not easy in Germany. But now I know that it will not be in Finland either. I was very surprised that any diagrams showing the cost of living in Finland were higher than in Germany. But I think rhat this might have changed now since they were from 2020.
    Maybe there is more information you can give me: e.g. I checked the rents in Cities like Helsinki and Tampere. They are high! But how does it look like when you live in smaller villages like for examplr Nokia or Harjavalta? Are rents or prices still that extremely high? And how is the infrastructure there?
    More Information about living would be very nice 👌

    • @anneofgreengables1619
      @anneofgreengables1619 Před rokem +1

      Rents in the smaller towns are a lot lower than the big cities. Very reasonable I feel.

    • @ro--M
      @ro--M Před 4 měsíci

      If you live with partner or alone and don't want to share an apartment with strangers, you get somewhat ok flat for 400-500€ per month from places that are +50km from the area's center city. In cities you pay about 700-1000€ or even more (especially in Helsinki) for the same square meters.

  • @aRVeesBlog
    @aRVeesBlog Před rokem

    Very interesting and informative video

  • @puhistagram
    @puhistagram Před 2 lety +1

    You good man Alex! 👍🏻

  • @unyielding37
    @unyielding37 Před rokem +4

    i went to a bar in Spain that is common for finnish people, had a great time whit them, and actually motivated me to learm much more about their culture, even i promised them i'll visit finland for sure haha

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @jorgepiresjunior
      @jorgepiresjunior Před rokem +1

      Fins are very communicative when abroad. Completely different when in their own environment, hehe

    • @caribcarib4337
      @caribcarib4337 Před 5 měsíci

      their culture is koskenkorva - vodka

  • @Arkiasis
    @Arkiasis Před rokem +35

    One thing about friends is sure in like the US or other hyper extroverted cultures it seems "easy" to talk and make "friends" but really 90% of those people are acquaintances, not friends and sometimes it doesn't feel genuine really. People don't really talk about their true feelings and it's very very easy for them to simply stop talking to you. Having a long term friend for life is very very difficult to actually do. Many here see that as normal to lose friend groups and lose contact with people but it's also disheartening too. You have work "friends", school "friends" etc. It's mostly friends out of location.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      I talk to Everybody about My feelings - some say that They just Dont speak in Finland ! That really HURTS - so ILL say ILL Get Back to You When You know The Language ! Small talk IS to learn The KEY words in Finnish - joten ei muuta kuin viilistelemään !

    • @anneofgreengables1619
      @anneofgreengables1619 Před rokem +1

      Yes you can never be certain that some Americans really like you because some are a bit fake but most are genuinely friendly.

  • @antoniovalente4643
    @antoniovalente4643 Před 2 lety +2

    Terve Aleksi! I got really interested while I was watching the video, in these days i'm trying to approach myself into this culture with much curiosity. And I've got some questions about the music in Finland and I think you can answer very well: How are the Finnish songs written? In the written form or in the spoken form? And then how are the songs sung?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +2

      It really depends. It could be a mix or just spoken.

    • @antoniovalente4643
      @antoniovalente4643 Před rokem

      @Suvi Eskelinen exactly, I just asked because many months ago I discovered some finnish songs sung by a gorgeous singer whose songs are fantastic even thought i don't understand the lyrics she could thrill me and relax me and I fell in love with her voice, this was the reason why I asked...... by the way thank you!

    • @antoniovalente4643
      @antoniovalente4643 Před rokem

      @Suvi Eskelinen good advise, thank you. I will do that when I can. Thanks;)

  • @DatingBeyondBorders
    @DatingBeyondBorders Před rokem

    Laughed hard at the coconut joke 😂 Great video, Aleksi!

  • @theodorelaurence1790
    @theodorelaurence1790 Před rokem +49

    So, basically Finnish people respect themselves and their culture and don’t unnecessarily put their society at risk? I think their are many other European countries that are regretting terribly NOT having taken this course of action.

    • @mrpickles-hb6zx
      @mrpickles-hb6zx Před 9 měsíci

      They're rapists and animals don't have basic rights.

  • @kundanpandey1321
    @kundanpandey1321 Před rokem +3

    i did my masters in finland ...and its really true.... its a hell for foreign students..it was a miserable experience from day one....by the u r hilarious and cudos to ur acting skills

    • @deusvult1268
      @deusvult1268 Před měsícem

      What were the things you didn't like?

  • @StoveyStoveTop
    @StoveyStoveTop Před 2 lety

    CONGRATS ON THE GOLD! So, Fins are talking with a TON of ANIMATED expression right now? 😂

  • @andruspuusta4230
    @andruspuusta4230 Před rokem +2

    I am one of Estonians haven`t been working in Finland. But I have had many contacts with Finns, and I say that they are nice people. You guys in Finland are all right! :) Had change to make friends in rally event with completely strangers with no problem as well! But smart people are critical with themselves!

  • @jounisuninen
    @jounisuninen Před rokem +12

    Aleksi mentioned that Finnish is not an Indo-European language. He did not mention that Finnish is not a Slavic language either. Finnish is a rather unique language except that there are small groups in Russia who speak Finnish-related languages.

    • @SNegrea
      @SNegrea Před rokem +3

      Isn't Finnish related to Hungarian though?

    • @SoloTravelStory
      @SoloTravelStory Před 7 měsíci

      It's an ugric language and originates in the Ural/central Asia region.

    • @henkvandervossen6616
      @henkvandervossen6616 Před 7 měsíci

      You forgot about Estonian and Hungarian

    • @caribcarib4337
      @caribcarib4337 Před 5 měsíci

      @@SNegrea yes and Turkish

    • @caribcarib4337
      @caribcarib4337 Před 5 měsíci

      Mongolia - @@SoloTravelStory Finns are originally Mongols - they originate from Mongolia - you should see a photo of my Finnish great grand mother - looks like a Mongolian - short - slanty eyes- flat and round face - dark hair

  • @thetuoppi2
    @thetuoppi2 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I find it weird when people say Finland is a great place for introverts because individuals there don't tend to socialize with newcomers and make friends. I would argue it's one of the worst countries for introverts. If you move to Finland with no friends and you are an introvert, it is up to you to step out of your comfort zone and actively try to meet and connect with people who aren't usually open to making new connections. Being an introvert doesn't mean you are antisocial; it just means your social battery drains more quickly, and you don't feel like going out as frequently.
    It would be far better to move somewhere where people are very social and extroverted, so the introvert can be more passive about making friends and is not required to exert so much effort. In a place like this, the introvert only has to politely draw boundaries regarding hanging out with people and can choose to socialize when he or she feels like it.

    • @micheladerry5681
      @micheladerry5681 Před 4 měsíci +1

      i totally agree with you.

    • @gianlucagiusti6174
      @gianlucagiusti6174 Před 4 měsíci

      Problem is, social friendly countries (Southern Europe I suppose) have shitty government and economy. You must give something to have something 😂.

  • @gregoryechekwube2242
    @gregoryechekwube2242 Před rokem

    Informative and funny 🤣

  • @ivanr2304
    @ivanr2304 Před rokem

    Hi from NY. Awesome videos, man! I'm going to Finland in 3 weeks. What bars, night clubs, or place to go during this time of the year in Helsinki?

  • @gunstercz
    @gunstercz Před 6 měsíci +8

    What I found after living in Helsinki for half a year as a foreigner was, that the expat community is very strong and friendly there. I think it's probably because we were an island in the sea of Finnish people who didn't want to mix with us very much. That being said, I also made a few Finnish friends, you have outliers in every sample group.

  • @slamberg84
    @slamberg84 Před rokem +5

    Im Finnish and I consider this a friendly culture. I know all my neighbours and we help each other. We do talk to strangers and so on. The only thing is that finnish people generally feel akward around foreign people. Its not that we are racist but i think its the cultural differences in how small talk is done and the superficiality of the conversations.

  • @barkasz6066
    @barkasz6066 Před rokem +2

    I'm Hungarian and we are the same way. Or at least I am and most of my friends. My greatest issue has always been approaching people without "a good reason".
    If someone just starts talking to us we get guarded too lol. Events where you're kind of expected to just talk to people were a godsend.
    Now I've learned not to worry about it but still, it can be difficult. The only friends I consistently talk and hang out with are the my friends from primary school lol. 24 years and counting. I don't know how people make new friends as adults. Definitely not through work. Work friends are separate, it's shallow and we both know we only care as long as we work at the same company.
    The only thing about the language that sort of scares me is the difference between spoken Finnish and written Finnish. I don't think we have that difference in Hungarian. The only thing that the few foreign students of Hungarian complained about was how fast people speak but not entirely different ways of expressing yourself in writing or in speech, even though there is "formal writing" which was traditionally reserved for school and jobs.

  • @sebastiancastro848
    @sebastiancastro848 Před rokem +2

    I met my Finnish Snow Queen in Mexico, now we live in Bogota, she loves My culture, and I love her. Now I understand why I make her so happy. Love this video man!! Love you Essi!!!

  • @anniemm7285
    @anniemm7285 Před 2 lety +3

    This was humorous🤣 I cracked at every reason why not. I love it here though 😅

  • @arpitachiddarwar5223
    @arpitachiddarwar5223 Před 2 lety +11

    I moved to Finland 8 months ago and this video feels so relatable. I laughed so hard on the bus situation, lol 🤣🤣🤣

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      How Have You managed ? Do You know More about Finland - that You knew before ? Have You Been to Public sauna Yet to tell that You Are finally here... Taste SALMIAKKI and remember to buy some to Your Friends too ! Have You started with Your Suomi Yet... Remember that in One Year - You know everything You need to know ! Cheers

    • @desimalanginscotland
      @desimalanginscotland Před rokem

      hello mam we need your advice please ,we are from india. my wife have IT degree and i have b. pharma degree. we have 2 small babies. we like to move to finland for better study and job opportunities. we dnt have any frnd in finland. we have canada and uk admission offer letter also. but we like to move finland. can you please clear us about job in finland.if you dnt feel comfortable in comunicating with me then no problem my wife can contact with you. we have only 4-5 days for canada to apply. but we are really confused about finland and canada. in canada we cnt move together. thats why we like finland. please help us

  • @tanvirahmadsourav7729
    @tanvirahmadsourav7729 Před 9 měsíci

    Very informative

  • @viridianms
    @viridianms Před 9 měsíci +1

    at work like five years ago i had two customers from finland, one didnt speak english but i noticed their names were finnish from the rewards account and i was like "oh! you're finnish?"and they were all excited like "yeah! howd you know!?" and i told them i had studied a little bit of finnish and one of them told me to keep studying (encouragingly) and i have learned maybe two new things in 5 years lol i listen to a lot of sanni and viivi though that has to count for something

  • @Xc31
    @Xc31 Před rokem +2

    Hi there!
    My wife and I are looking into moving to Finland from the Netherlands. We have 3 young kids aged 6, 4 and 1 and I was wondering how much of a hurdle its going to be to get them integrated into Finnish schools.
    I'm looking into jobs in farming and forestry as thats where my work experience lays (and there seem to be at least some jobs offered in English) so if we move there its most likely going to be quite rural.
    I expect it isnt going to be the easiest thing but on the other hand the young age will propably help in picking up Finnish quite a bit faster than we do once we get there.
    What is your opinion on it? Will they be able to get along and make friends once they get going with the language?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +3

      Hey!
      I believe that anyone who is ready to put the effort to learn Finnish lifestyle, culture and language, have a good chance to have a good life here. Rural Finland will definitely make things a bit harder.
      There are many international schools in Finland and I think if they get exposed to Finnish, they can learn the language.
      I would suggest looking up some online forums (like Facebook or Reddit) and find people who have gone through the same as you are now to get better insights.

    • @Xc31
      @Xc31 Před rokem +1

      @@AleksiHimself first of all thanks for the reply!
      Assimilation is the plan. We want to fit in with Finnish culture as fast as possible. Thats why I'm thinking of throwing them in head first and trying to get them to a school where the lessons are done in Finnish. We have lots of refugee kids here in the Netherlands and while it seems a bit easier for them to learn English first their Dutch takes a noticable hit over the kids that go to the school my kids go to and learn Dutch straight from Arabic or other Middle Eastern languages. Not the easy route but the faster we assimilate the faster we can start our new Finnish life.
      I'll head over to Reddit and see what the goos folks there think is the right course of action. Thanks again!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem +1

      @@Xc31 Best of luck!

  • @pamelakilponen3682
    @pamelakilponen3682 Před 2 lety +6

    And even if you have YKI cert many companies will not take you. The reason why PHD and professionals end up as cleaners is also language as well as Finland does not see their degrees as up to Finnish standards. One person I was in Finnish class was a pediatrician in her country, but here in Finland they said her degree and licenses were not good enough. She is school to become a nurse. This happens all the time. I shake my head all the time when Finland says they want to import more workers. Why? So when they get here get YKI certified, then find out their degrees and professional licenses are not good enough?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +4

      I understand. It's important to note that some professions require recognition from the authorities, such as doctors and physiotherapists because they are restricted to licensed professionals only. If the degree obtained abroad does not meet the standards then they need to do the necessary steps fill the gap.

  • @dixgun
    @dixgun Před rokem

    Well-made and entertaining. Thank you for the interesting facts about the realities. Finland is a beautiful looking country. I read that the Finnish language is like Welsh in that it’s got no known relative.

    • @SNegrea
      @SNegrea Před rokem +1

      Finnish is related to Hungarian

    • @dixgun
      @dixgun Před rokem

      @@SNegrea 👍

  • @World-Wide5
    @World-Wide5 Před rokem +1

    Informative

  • @Paul-eb4jp
    @Paul-eb4jp Před 2 lety +13

    That's brilliant, I visited Finland and wondered why everyone was so glum in the world's happiest country, now I know it's the Finnish smile, he's also so right about trying to strike up a conversation.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety

      Good stuff! 😃🙌

    • @andr_sh
      @andr_sh Před rokem

      Yes. Smile are even more rare than in Russia now . If you look at passers by it seems they are unhappy or worried all the time. Some even look angry.

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem

      Talking to People IS The KEY ! More languages You know is like Have More tools in Your Toolbox !

    • @holoholopainen1627
      @holoholopainen1627 Před rokem +1

      IS like having More tools in Your Toolbox !

    • @andr_sh
      @andr_sh Před rokem

      @@holoholopainen1627 partly yes, but thanks to queen's colonialism we can happily be fine with English at least on territories with Anglo Saxon influence