My Missed Miscarriage - no symptoms - no heartbeat.

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • This video is the first of a series about my missed miscarriage journey. I hope this can help some women. I lost my baby at 9 weeks, I had no symptoms of miscarriage. I found out during the 1st sonogram that the baby's heart was not beating. Then started a long journey through grief, abortion, and recovery...
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Komentáře • 404

  • @MsKikin23
    @MsKikin23 Před 6 lety +200

    You have no idea how much this video means to me. I’m going through this exact experience right now. It was so important for me to see this and your strength. Thank you 💗

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety +4

      Thank you MsKikin23 ! The reason why I decided to post this video, was to hopefully help some women who are going through the same thing. Thanks a lot for you comment, it means the world to me. Good luck in your healing journey. Sending you love and strength 💕✨💪🏽

    • @candacebrown1692
      @candacebrown1692 Před 4 lety

      Hope everything went well and you're okay. This video is helping me too. Going through the same thing. Sending positive vibes.

    • @minnie2798
      @minnie2798 Před 4 lety +2

      I'm going through the same thing right now... I heard my baby's heartbeat at 7 weeks ultrasound and all was fine.. at 9th week I had spotting and had a scan again and my baby's heartbeat stopped.. I had a missed miscarriage.. feeling so horrible right now..I miss my sweet little baby..

    • @chernaethomas8075
      @chernaethomas8075 Před 4 lety

      I'm seven weeks pregnant I went to my 7 weeks OB appointment today and no heartbeat 😭😭as well Thank you for this video

    • @suellenfatimafsousa6546
      @suellenfatimafsousa6546 Před 3 lety

      @@chernaethomas8075 stay strong hunnie x

  • @anastasiatsurkan961
    @anastasiatsurkan961 Před 4 lety +32

    Oh my God. This video is what I needed last 4 days after I found out... The fact that my body made a decision that I don’t have to... This healed me and I’m finally smiling and thank God that it happened!

  • @chikitazacatecana6062
    @chikitazacatecana6062 Před 4 lety +47

    I was 11 wks. Pregnant when when I found out my baby died at 9 wks. Of my pregnancy then top it off I was having twins 🥺 cried the whole day. I know what you Went thru 😔

    • @chloesmith4706
      @chloesmith4706 Před 3 lety

      I just went through the same thing and I'm honestly just not coping. It's so hard to get passed this

    • @kyamcture8976
      @kyamcture8976 Před 3 lety

      Just found out that I just lost my baby today. I was 11 weeks 1 day. Baby died at 9 weeks 😢😔💔

    • @tarahusul4109
      @tarahusul4109 Před 2 lety +1

      Was 11weeks 2 days. Died at 8 weeks.

  • @xxblkcherri
    @xxblkcherri Před 6 lety +78

    Going through The Same.. im Supposed to Be 7 Weeks But Doctor Cant find Baby’s heartbeat.. This Is My First Pregnancy So its Veryy Hard to Get Over this But This Video Helped Me Keep A Positive Mindset..💕

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      I am so sorry cherri g . I am happy to hear that this video helped you a little. Sending you love and good vibes. 💕✨

    • @candacebrown1692
      @candacebrown1692 Před 4 lety

      Hope everything went well and you're okay. This video is helping me too. Going through the same thing. Sending positive vibes.

    • @isismoana7469
      @isismoana7469 Před 3 lety

      This now happening to me. First pregnancy as well.

    • @godsfavor6086
      @godsfavor6086 Před 3 lety +1

      Isis Moana this happened to me this past week as well. I had a D&C today. It’s been hard but I’m getting through it and you will too. God is with you through this process.

    • @inikakuttii5938
      @inikakuttii5938 Před 3 lety

      Your baby is safe or not

  • @Chaotic_caitlin
    @Chaotic_caitlin Před 4 lety +31

    I was trying to find some kind of relief as today I went to my ultrasound appointment and there was no heartbeat at 10 weeks. The way you explained everything is such a positive way to look at tragedies like this. Thank you❤️ I needed this.

  • @Lucy-go6cr
    @Lucy-go6cr Před 6 lety +42

    I had a D&C yesterday, after finding out at my 16 week appointment that my baby died 2 1/2 weeks earlier, I had no idea , I watched this video the day before my D&C and again today. You don't know how much your outlook has helped my heart. I also refuse to live with guilt, and blaming myself , I will not drag , or let myself sink in to depression. I will accept what happened ,it is part of my story. I did the best I could do, I don't have control over what happened, I will give myself the opportunity to heal. Thank you , thank so much . ❤️

    • @rachelmahlako260
      @rachelmahlako260 Před 3 lety

      Hi have you had mucus/ phlegm stuck in your throat after the surgery

  • @afirmos1429
    @afirmos1429 Před 5 lety +10

    Hello, Luisa! I’m just passing through the same and the way you think helps me a lot! You said something so important “I’m thankful that I didn’t have to take this decision by myself”! This changed my way of thinking about the miscarriage! Thank you very much! Wish you all the best!

  • @WHOtheELLEareYOU
    @WHOtheELLEareYOU Před 3 lety +3

    This is such a Beautiful mindset that gives me a Lot of comfort! I was pregnant with fraternal twins, lost one by 6 weeks, and lost the other by 11 weeks. So to hear you say that you trust your body so much that it was okay.... it gives me the faith in my Higher Power is taking care of everything.
    Thank you SOOO much! ❤💖💝💖❤
    It was the hardest to tell my children- 9 and 11 years! Bless you and your positive outlook! 🙏💝💖

  • @Jessica_Pettis
    @Jessica_Pettis Před 4 lety +7

    You have a beautiful mindset. I am currently going through this as well, and the pain feels unbearable. But my faith is what’s getting me by.

  • @lalisessions9847
    @lalisessions9847 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you so much for being brave enough to post this video as you shared your own personal thoughts about what you went through. It definitely has made me see a different positive side to miscarriage and I am more hopeful than I thought I could be.💛

  • @stephaniekay112
    @stephaniekay112 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you for this video. Your positive outlook is exactly what I needed to hear right now as I am going through my own miscarriage.

  • @elemental-realtalk78
    @elemental-realtalk78 Před 2 lety +8

    Same happened to my wife, the fetus was late, we went back 3 weeks to a month later and the fetus is now there but no heartbeat 😭😭 couldn't burst out crying then... Went back home re-looked at the ultrasound and tears started running down my eyes 😭😭 this truly hurts!! Wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.

  • @linneamickey6510
    @linneamickey6510 Před 5 lety +5

    Today was my first sonogram, and there was no heartbeat. I'm 10 weeks pregnant and devastated. But watching your video, I feel a little better. I'm so. Hurt, been crying all day. My husband and I haven't been pregnant for 16 years. Our daughter is 16. And this was our " miracle Baby". But God had other plans. Hopefully we can try again and come out successful. Thank You for sharing.

  • @stephaniemoya3495
    @stephaniemoya3495 Před 6 lety +6

    I am in the same boat. You said it best, your body knew something was wrong and made a decision for you... that is a very important piece to the puzzle. You also said you refuse to carry more than you can.... true words spoken! You’re such a motivation. This video has helped me feel so much better. I am sorry you went through this. Thank you so much for sharing your story. 💗

  • @tia4160
    @tia4160 Před 6 lety +33

    This video helps me a lot and makes me look at my missed miscarriage differently.

  • @samii170992
    @samii170992 Před 6 lety +50

    That is a beautiful way of thinking of it. You’re incredibly strong!

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Thank you Samii McCaffery. We are so much stronger then we think. ❤️

  • @taiblack3905
    @taiblack3905 Před 2 lety +1

    Your message here is so beautiful. In May I went through the same thing and i was devastated and fell apart in the OB office. We found out we are expecting again now and have our first appt in two weeks at 8 weeks. I have been so worried. This will be my last research/comfort seeking video. I am manifesting that I can carry your same outlook and trust my body as you have. Thank you so much for sharing. You have truly touched, warmed and calmed my heart with this video. ❤❤

  • @phenry1984
    @phenry1984 Před 3 lety +3

    Man this video hit different. You just confirmed to me that my attitude about what I am going through is correct. Just trying to lead with gratitude and positivity. Thanks.

  • @priyankaharbolacreatives9592

    Im so at peace after watching this. You have really done a noble work by sharing this..Thanks a lot

  • @jjpp1629
    @jjpp1629 Před 2 lety +3

    Your way of thinking helps me a lot to have trust in my body again....After going through 2 miscarriages this year I was a bit lost. And now 5 weeks pregnant...hope for the best (for you too)🙏🏽

  • @misse7154
    @misse7154 Před 5 lety +7

    This just happened to me today. Your response and attitude is exactly how I feel and much of what you said I conveyed already to my BF. It sucks, but I refuse to feel any shame or guilt. Life goes on.

  • @a.g3015
    @a.g3015 Před 5 lety +2

    You are so emotionaly strong and balanced. You are an inspiration to women. Keep sharing this side of you. Thank you for this time.

  • @deanna16jeter
    @deanna16jeter Před 4 lety +4

    This was the most beautiful video regarding miscarriage. I’m possibly going through one, I have to get my numbers checked again but they are pretty sure they are decreasing. But this definitely helped me put things in perspective, and for that I thank you.

  • @partyofnineM
    @partyofnineM Před 4 lety +8

    Wow, this really helped me. I’m going through this now. “My body looked out for me” this is so true. Thank you for helping look at the positive side of things at such a difficult time. 💕

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 4 lety +1

      thank you for your message Party of Seven. Sending you positive vibes and wishing you a healthy recovery.

    • @partyofnineM
      @partyofnineM Před 4 lety

      Luisa Louis Well, I’m going through the possible process. Monday the baby measured 7 weeks 4 days and had no heartbeat. I’m supposed to go back Monday for a check on heartbeat and or growth. Praying God gives me the honor of mothering my child. Thank you for your kind words. God bless. 💕

    • @mbubbles4808
      @mbubbles4808 Před 2 lety

      Feel exact same. In same situation

  • @minshamin7678
    @minshamin7678 Před 4 lety +2

    Hi! Thank you so much for doing this video.. I'm going through the exact thing as you right now. Lost my baby at 11 weeks during my 2nd scan.. when sonographer couldn't find and hear the heartbeat. It was devastating as my husband and I saw our baby heartbeat beating healthily on the 1st scan when I was on week 6.. But then again like what you said, our body knows well than us. Thank you once again for this video. It helps me to get my closure and to move on. Thanks!

  • @ashestoglory2319
    @ashestoglory2319 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this video . I found out today at 8weeks 3 days no heart beat .. God bless you , me and all of us women who have gone through this or who will💕🙌🌹

  • @veronicaramirezvasquez675

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. The way you have described how to take this made me realize and understand so much. Just this past Wednesday I found out that my little one didn't make it. No heartbeat! I walked in with all the hopes to hear it and finally be able to tell my family. Little did I know the news that was coming my way. It was so heartbreaking and I'm learning how to dwell on my own. This is my second miscarriage with a 5-6 year gap. I wish things could have gone differently but if it's meant for me it will be on its own time. All I can do now is grieve at my own pace and get back up without feeling like my entire world has ended. We all have a purpose in this life and if mine is not to have children of my own I will accept that. Most of us know the meaning of miscarriage but we have so little knowledge of the many different types there is. We should all learn to speak of our experiences as we never know how much we can help others.
    Again, thank you for sharing your story.

  • @shelbysummer3875
    @shelbysummer3875 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you for posting; I miscarried in the spring and am currently pregnant again, but was just told yesterday that my hormones are dropping. I am comforted by your outlook, and I can choose to trust my body now. I wish you peace, and send you light and love.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Hello Shelby. I am so sorry to hear that you have to go through it again. I am happy that my video helped you a little. That is the exact reason why I decided to go public. Thank you so much for your nice comment. Sending you lots of love and healing vibes ✨❤️

  • @naghamfarouk3996
    @naghamfarouk3996 Před 5 lety +11

    I had a miscarriage at 4 months and 3 weeks and just a month ago I was 5 weeks pregnant and had another miscarriage it hurts am sorry for ur loss. I have 4 amazing boys am so thankful

  • @TeamSugoiFrog
    @TeamSugoiFrog Před 4 lety +4

    Such a brave and intelligent response to this sort of thing, thank you for giving this perspective

  • @AddiePsRealEstateTea
    @AddiePsRealEstateTea Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I too myself am dealing with a diagnosed missed abortion now. I really can relate to your feeling and explanation that your body knew something was wrong and made the decision that at times us as mother's cannot make. Many blessings and baby dust to you and your family ❤

  • @raynerpropertygroup2383

    Watching that video was so genuine and helpful right now to me. Positivity goes a long way :) 🙏

  • @naomacurtis4803
    @naomacurtis4803 Před 3 lety

    You are so brave for talking about this, I am sorry about your loss

  • @dreyvyenielo6137
    @dreyvyenielo6137 Před 6 lety +6

    I'm so glad I randomly watched your video- so meant to be. Thank you for the positive reminders -trusting in our bodies, nature has a way of knowing and making sure that all is how it should be. "The wound is the place where the light enters you"- Rumi

  • @christinarichards122
    @christinarichards122 Před 6 lety +8

    You are an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Thank you Christina Richards 🙏🏽💕

  • @gvang136
    @gvang136 Před 5 lety

    I am going thru thus right now and I am so happy I came upon this video. Thank you ten thousand times.

  • @ingriraknes2406
    @ingriraknes2406 Před 2 lety +2

    Today was the day i was finally going to see my 9 week old baby. I have been so worried, but was beginning too feel so safe. After all there had been no bleeding, and missed abortion happens in only 3% of all miscarriages.
    After the ultrasound, we were going to pick up a "Big sister"-shirt for our daughter, so we could suprise the grandparents.
    On the ultrasound we did not even see the fetus. It had stopped developing weeks ago. I am broken.
    I wish I could have your positive attitude. Thank you for posting. It is healing to see that I am not alone.

  • @annabananerzzzz
    @annabananerzzzz Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you so much for making this video I just found out today I lost my baby as well and it’s so hard going through this as a women and as A mother as well..I feel the exact same emotions you just mentioned as well. Thank you and god bless girl!

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Hello annabananerzzzz. I am so sorry to hear that 😔. I am happy that you found this video and that it brought you a little confort. Sending you love and strength.

  • @MelinaBering1
    @MelinaBering1 Před 6 lety +3

    I am in the same boat now and I am so glad I am not the only one who feels the same way as you. I wish other women could see it this way too. It definitely helps to cope with it mentally.

  • @kimberlyhafey8594
    @kimberlyhafey8594 Před 7 lety +3

    So beautiful. I truly thank you for sharing your story. It brought me peace and strength. I'm going through my first silent miscarriage and will have an operation in the next few days. I thank you for reminding me to not judge my body and to give it thanks for all that it is doing. There is a bigger plan at work here and your story provided reminders and comfort. Thank you again.
    Much Love Always,
    K

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 7 lety

      Hello Kimberly. I am so sorry you have to go through this too. Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot to me. I ended up having surgery too after 2 rounds of abortion pills that didn't work. I've been procrastinating on posting ma last miscarriage update, which is the post-surgery one. Thank you for reminding me that I need to finish what I started. Actually, I will post it right now!
      I hope you will heal well, physically and mentally.
      Sending you healing vibes.
      Best
      Luisa

    • @kimberlyhafey8594
      @kimberlyhafey8594 Před 7 lety

      This means so much to me. Thank you for reaching out. It's nice to have this communication as me and my partner didn't tell anyone that we were pregnant (wanted to wait till after 3 months) so you can imagine the lonely feeling i've been experiencing. I've never gone through anything like this. Your optimism was so help for me.
      In love and light,
      Kimberly

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 7 lety +1

      I understand, and I think its smart you didn't tell anyone. If I can give you a piece of advice, reach out to a couple women that you really trust and share your situation with them. It helps so much to have other women to talk too. I know that my husband couldn't relate to what I was going through and it was hard for us to stay connected at this moment. I talk about it in one of my "miscarriage updates videos". this is when we need to be present for each other and also reach out for support. After I went public about it, i was amazed by the love and support I got back. So many women go through this and no one knows.
      Much strength to you.
      Luisa

    • @kimberlyhafey8594
      @kimberlyhafey8594 Před 7 lety

      I will. Thank you for the helpful strength.

  • @XrenemesisX
    @XrenemesisX Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you for posting this, I’m going through the exact same thing at this very moment. Very uplifting

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 5 lety

      Thank you XrenemesisX. I hope you are recovering well. Sending you love and strength.

  • @ghoshappy
    @ghoshappy Před 5 lety +5

    I am so glad I watched this video !!! Thank you 🙏🏻 for making this video !!!

  • @JeanGenie92
    @JeanGenie92 Před 2 lety +2

    Very very true and beautiful perspective. Just had a 10 week scan for first pregnancy and found out same thing, was the size of 7wk4days. Thank you for sharing, I'm completely with all your feelings of grief, gratefulness to my body for doing it so early on, frustration at having had to go through the worst part of pregnancy for nothing.

  • @suellenfatimafsousa6546
    @suellenfatimafsousa6546 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this video. I was 9 weeks when I found out there was no heartbeat. I was feeling like you but then felt guilty for feeling relieved thats my body sorted itself. So thank you for making me feel that its ok.

  • @em700
    @em700 Před 4 lety

    Gosh, what an incredible attitude. You are amazing.

  • @lovepurpose5210
    @lovepurpose5210 Před 2 lety +3

    You are a beautiful soul. I just went for my appt and am 9 wks and just found out there was no heartbeat 🥺 There were twins and neither had one. I am getting a D&C but I needed a positive perspective because I am torn up right now! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @tearasheriff3325
    @tearasheriff3325 Před 4 lety +4

    Just had a d&c last week this is what I need to hear thank you ❤️

  • @TiMe-sj4hy
    @TiMe-sj4hy Před 4 lety +10

    Thank you for providing such a positive and honest outlook on something so devastating. I’m going to the doctor today because I am also 9 weeks but never had a confirmation ultrasound. Today I had a little bit of spotting and pain and I just had a feeling this whole time that something is off. Mais on verra! Merci!

  • @E.v.a.19
    @E.v.a.19 Před 5 lety +3

    It is very hard for me as my feelings are the exact opposite of what you were feeling.... Now I see that there is a different way of processing something like that and it really helps me to move on... thank you

  • @leiailin
    @leiailin Před 2 lety

    Wow such powerful words. I am having a miscarriage right now and your words are comforting yet strong. Thank you.

  • @hobah293
    @hobah293 Před 6 lety +29

    I love your outlook on this experience. So positive! I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @rcmnetwork
    @rcmnetwork Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing that. 3 days ago, I had a scan at 9 weeks and 5 days, which revealed a dead fetus of about 6 and a half weeks. Last night my body got rid of it. I‘m grieving but for the fifth time in the same situation. Thanks for encouraging me to stay positive and thankful.

    • @shelbynalepa7399
      @shelbynalepa7399 Před 4 lety

      Rhoda Moramba I was 9 weeks and 5 days too when I found out 😔 This was on Wednesday. Fetus measured only 5 wks 6 days. It felt so surreal. My pregnancy symptoms were so intense. Did you have any spotting beforehand? I had some spotting start at about 9 weeks that got progressively heavier but I was told in the first few days it was normal until I knew something wasn’t right and begged for an ultrasound. I’m so sorry for your losses and I hope you have a beautiful healthy pregnancy very soon 💗

  • @elizabethmensah2680
    @elizabethmensah2680 Před 3 lety +1

    This is the video I need in this hard time of mine. Have been trying to conceive and when I did, upon my first trip to the hospital for confirmation was told my baby has no heartbeat, and am 8weeks and 5days pregnant but the fetus has no heartbeat. I also didn't have any symptoms of miscarriage, and am still in shock as this is the first time hearing such news. Am scheduled to see my doctor tomorrow for the next step. Your video has really given me hope to move on. Thanks for sharing.

  • @tati4623
    @tati4623 Před 4 lety +6

    This is me exactly rn at 10 weeks 🥺. i walked into my first ob appointment knowing in my heart the outcome , its saddening but i am ok and i am blessed with a beautiful 11 month old baby boy . keep your strength my love .

    • @rozabasnet5732
      @rozabasnet5732 Před 3 měsíci

      After ten weeks also there is possibility of heart beat please reply i am 9 weeks pregnant with no jeartbeat

  • @nicolevolcy3511
    @nicolevolcy3511 Před 5 lety +2

    This is just what I needed to hear. Different outlook.

  • @candacebrown1692
    @candacebrown1692 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for this video. Needed to know I wasn't alone in this! Strong women vibes!

  • @christinenadarajah552
    @christinenadarajah552 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks it encouraged me so much I am facing the same thing 9 weeks pregnant and no heartbeat. Your video helped me to believe in myself

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 4 lety

      I am so happy to hear that Christine!

  • @ladyskywalker2788
    @ladyskywalker2788 Před 3 lety +29

    10 weeks no heart beat, I’m so heartbroken 💔 but I know god had a bigger plan

  • @sarahk1412
    @sarahk1412 Před 2 lety

    This video helped me immensely. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @maggiem1995
    @maggiem1995 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you for making this video I am going through exactly what you did right now I had that ultrasound two days ago and you have given me strength to proceed with this pain I had in my heart

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Thank you Maggie Boo. I am so sorry. I hope all goes well with the rest of this painful journey.

  • @zainabmt4110
    @zainabmt4110 Před 4 lety +1

    I love your perspective on this, I find it super helpful. It's been a few years, I wonder how you're doing now. Sending you light and love

  • @AngelaCancervive
    @AngelaCancervive Před 7 lety +14

    Very sorry for your loss sweetie. My sister in law is going through this. Went in for her 10 week ultrasound today and no heartbeat. :( we were due just weeks apart and I can't imagine her pain.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 7 lety

      Angela ProudMommy omg! I am so sorry for you sister in law! It's going to hard on her and your relationship with her. I am not sure what her state of mind is right now, but may I suggest sharing my videos with her? I know a lot of friends and a few subscribers told me that watching my videos allowed them to have a different perspective on the matter.
      I hope she gets over this fast. Sending love and strength to the both of you ❤️🌸

    • @AngelaCancervive
      @AngelaCancervive Před 7 lety +1

      Luisa Louis thank you. I will. I am giving her some time to grieve. I told her that I understand that she may need space from me, and that it will be hard to be around me right now. I told her to take all the time she needs and that I will always be there for her. As someone who has also had miscarriages I remember how hard it was to be around other pregnant woman/woman with small babies. I wish I could help her, I just don't know what to do. Thank you, I will definitely send her your way. And thank you for being brave enough to share your story.

  • @Alicewoods000
    @Alicewoods000 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow what a peaceful approach you have about your miscarriage it makes a lot of sense , I love your quote “ I trust my body that much that I know this was for a good reason “ ... I just had a miscarriage yesterday and I still can’t believe it. Maybe it helps that you already have a child, still I know it hurts. In my case this was our first baby and all our plans and dreams were crushed all the sudden, my poor husband almost fainted in the middle of the appointment, and I cried so much that my eyes are so puffy. Your video, the way You approach this helped me lot , like you say maybe things would be even worse. Is so easy to blame myself but like you said: I did the best and this was something that Mother Nature decided, I’m going to move on , I know I will ...

  • @sugahatch7026
    @sugahatch7026 Před 4 lety +3

    I'm going through the same thing as we speak I'm heartbroken but definitely thankful that I know that I can get pregnant being that it's my first time being pregnant . i thank God for always makes a way. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also have to have D&C surgery

  • @ncarrync
    @ncarrync Před 3 lety

    Thank you, I feel the same way! I hope my body take its course as well and listening to you made me feel better about my situation.

  • @Carolegavinriley
    @Carolegavinriley Před 7 lety +1

    SO sorry to hear this Lusia. My prayers are with you and your family.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 7 lety

      Thank you so much The Simple Momma. 🙏🏽💜

  • @sister_sagittarius6205
    @sister_sagittarius6205 Před 5 lety +12

    i just had my 10 week ultrasound... no heart or baby in the sack... i still need to get some tests but this video helped me already! thank you.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 5 lety

      I am so sorry Zodiac Curlz. Sending you love and healing vibes 💕✨

  • @divinelady8
    @divinelady8 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for creating this video. You have a great head on your shoulders about it. It helped me to adopt the same mentality.

  • @alexandrathomas5694
    @alexandrathomas5694 Před 5 lety +2

    Yesterday at my 10 week scan I found out I had a twin pregnancy and that both heartbeats had stopped: one at 6 weeks, the other at 9 weeks. This video has helped me process the science behind it. It’s still incredibly raw and I’m very emotional but I understand and have come to peace with it. They are double checking the heartbeat tomorrow morning but I know they have both flown up to heaven xxx

    • @chloesmith4706
      @chloesmith4706 Před 3 lety

      I just went through this, my heart is really broken, to top it off my boyfriend dumped me after I told him I was pregnant (at 5 weeks), I have had the procedure and I'm still bleeding 5 days later and still getting cramps

  • @shernandab6753
    @shernandab6753 Před 2 lety

    Wow your words are giving me such a different perspective.thank you for that. I am going through a miscarriage now and it’s so hard .

  • @benandbeebrace7718
    @benandbeebrace7718 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing in such a positive way.. I have just had a very similar experience with my first pregnancy.

  • @vanyasaysso
    @vanyasaysso Před 6 lety +3

    I’m so glad you posted this I just had the clean out op. Although I had started bleeding the night before the operation and it was super painful. But listening to you I feel EXACTLY the same. I feel like I’m listening to my self this is exactly how i told my friends and family. ❤️ hope you are doing good ❤️

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 6 lety

      Thank you Vanya Say So. I am doing great. It was a little difficult around the time of my due date, but once I pass that hump, all was good. I hope you are coping well too. Lots of love and Happy Holiday to you!

  • @allysonplautz8327
    @allysonplautz8327 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you so much for making this video. Im also going through this same situation right now. Went for my 8 week ultra sound, my baby measured 5 weeks, no heart beat, no symptoms of miscarriage. My husband and were devastated but kept hope. I went for a follow up at 9 weeks and the baby was still in the same position. I chose to take the pill and that was the hardest thing mentally, physically and emotionally. So many emotions and thoughts are going through me right now, but I never once had thoughts like you. I should be thankful for my body and trusting it. Thank you for this video and this new perspective. ❤️

    • @Leopordelectric757
      @Leopordelectric757 Před 4 lety +1

      allyson plautz i too went for my ultrasound , no heartbeat .. said to go back cause they ruled miscarriage but she wanted me to go back for confirmation ultrasound.. no symptoms at all ... I’m so confused. I thought I would have bled or cramped bad!

    • @allysonplautz8327
      @allysonplautz8327 Před 4 lety

      NEstelle not having any symptoms of the passing is still hard for me to understand. A few weeks have gone by now and overall i do feel better, but still a few things, like this, that I have not made peace with yet. Have you chosen an option (if you want to share more info) and been given guidance about trying again. Prayers and hugs sent to you!

    • @Leopordelectric757
      @Leopordelectric757 Před 4 lety

      allyson plautz
      It is so weird, I have no symptoms I still feel pregnant , me & my boyfriend are devastated, we had been trying & now it’s down to waiting two weeks to find out. I have no cramping or bleeding. Just very nauseas & fatigue.
      We have been praying so much to get through it, the doc said for us to wait awhile.

    • @allysonplautz8327
      @allysonplautz8327 Před 4 lety

      NEstelle I also had all my pregnancy symptoms. You may not bleed or experience cramping at all, I did not either. At your next appointment they will confirm if the baby is still the same or has changed. The waiting does seem like a lifetime, I pray for a miracle for you!

    • @Leopordelectric757
      @Leopordelectric757 Před 4 lety

      allyson plautz really?! It’s such a hard experience cause you feel pregnant , now we are just waiting. .
      Did you happen to experience anxiety ? I feel mine linger but I don’t know if it’s just emotions.

  • @whoistia5030
    @whoistia5030 Před 7 lety +1

    Sorry for your loss ❤️peace & blessings to you and yours

  • @jo-annastephenson5023
    @jo-annastephenson5023 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this. You are an amazing woman.

  • @moumitaroy341
    @moumitaroy341 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Such a positive way of looking things ! You are such a sweetheart ❤! God bless you and thank you 🤩

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you! God bless you too 💕

  • @MsMusicLola
    @MsMusicLola Před 3 lety

    That was really helpful. Just the right words. Thank you very much.

  • @yasminbrown9173
    @yasminbrown9173 Před 2 lety

    Thank you - I really needed this today x

  • @swarnamalisarangasirimanne7860

    Thanks dear actually after listening to your story I feel lot better. Even I had miscarriage n got know yesterday. Thank you so much for making me realise that I am not the one who needed to be blamed cuz I was so angry about myself. Thanks dear God help you to be more courageous on this journey..

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 4 lety

      Thank you swarnamali saranga sirimanne May God be with you too.❤️

  • @faithchemurgor9324
    @faithchemurgor9324 Před 6 lety +3

    i can totally relate with you Iam going through the same thing your strength is amazing ......my heart shuttered a million times went through the MVA process last week u inspire me to be strong....God bless u

  • @IdealThinker
    @IdealThinker Před 5 lety +2

    It really helped me. Thank you so much.

  • @yuddh8190
    @yuddh8190 Před 4 lety +5

    Merci beaucoup. Je traverse cette douloureuse epreuve en ce moment meme. Cette video est tres encourageante. Merci encore.

  • @amishah3095
    @amishah3095 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much..I am facing the same situation right now..at 9 weeks..no heartbeat found. 2nd time miscarriage. Your video helped me a lot to change my perspective..god bless you.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 3 lety

      Sorry to hear that. Thank you and good luck to you Ami!

  • @drucillareneaux3368
    @drucillareneaux3368 Před 5 lety

    I love the positivity you give out ..... Godbless.... I just got to know of my missed miscarriage ... and was disappointed but we got to move on n try there is always a next time

  • @Wangmo0716
    @Wangmo0716 Před 3 lety +1

    Omg your story and mines so similar. I too find out yesterday when I was 9 week pregnant that the fetal heart rate stopped at 6 weeks. I was shocked emotional and definitely cry. I was wondering too what could have gone wrong from my side but after hearing your talk it encouraged me to keep mys

  • @laurenconconi6081
    @laurenconconi6081 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for this, your strength has guided me to a better place. Trusting your body is really healthy way of rationalizing your emotions. I found out at 11 weeks that it stopped growing at 8 weeks 💔

    • @lucylillianCW
      @lucylillianCW Před 3 lety

      Me too, yesterday xx

    • @mjferrer9405
      @mjferrer9405 Před 3 lety

      @@lucylillianCW hello whats your plan are you going to have the dnc surgery. Me also have the same situation 😭

    • @lucylillianCW
      @lucylillianCW Před 3 lety

      @@mjferrer9405 Hi, I had to go back today for a confirmation scan, they also found a fibroid which might have caused it, I'm not allowed to take the medication as I have a heart condition so I'm booked in for surgery on Wednesday. How are you? Xx

  • @rinag4470
    @rinag4470 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for this video, your words speak wisdom and life to me and really touched me right now. I had my 8 week ultrasound today and had bad news the baby measured 6 weeks and no heartbeat or blood flow. Very devastating as this will be my second miscarriage but doctor did say there could be hope because i am also over weight so BMI is higher than normal so doc is sending me to a different location that specializes in sequent ultrasound and will know more in a few days. Your video gave me hope to be as strong as you

  • @jennamarie2481
    @jennamarie2481 Před 2 lety

    Love this perspective. I feel the same, I trust my body. Thank you sm for sharing.

  • @alison2654
    @alison2654 Před 3 lety

    Thank for sharing your story, you are so beautiful!!

  • @shelbynalepa7399
    @shelbynalepa7399 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with such strength. I just found out yesterday I had a missed miscarriage. I’m 10 weeks but baby was measuring only barely 6 weeks. May I ask what option you chose? Did you pass at home or d&c?

  • @francescapowell1538
    @francescapowell1538 Před 5 lety +2

    I’m so sorry. I went for my scan today and was told there is no heartbeat. I’m 11 weeks and currently in the same position about what the next steps to take are. Not sure as the news is still raw, but I think I want to pass my baby naturally.
    My body still thinks I’m pregnant and would prefer my body to catch up with the news rather than having someone poke around inside me.

  • @mimimukaranga9037
    @mimimukaranga9037 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much its now making sense to me...i also went to the doctor yesterday day and i also had a missed miscarriage with my first child at 14 week its so heartbreaking and am still crying

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 3 lety

      Sorry to hear that 😔. Be strong Mimi. It will get better, I promise.💛

  • @KristaAWoods
    @KristaAWoods Před 4 lety +2

    Your spirit is lovely and relaxing

  • @starlanokovich7398
    @starlanokovich7398 Před 3 lety

    I love your attitude. I am going through a missed miscarriage right now. I appreciate your positive perspective. I am have surgery in 2 days.

    • @sarahlove9830
      @sarahlove9830 Před 3 lety +1

      My dear everything will b fine,I know of a powerdul mam who can help you remove every spirit of miscarriage and you will never experience it again

  • @bose941
    @bose941 Před 4 lety

    Samething happened with me 6 months back. Featus heart beat could not be traced. So I had to take pill procedure. I was so much devastated and sad. Ur video gave me a ray of hope dear. Now I am trying to conceive again. Wish me a good luck. Thanks for d video 🙏

  • @jtdalgaard
    @jtdalgaard Před 4 lety +3

    This video has just helped me so much ❤️ thank you for sharing!

  • @christinathesupermom5240
    @christinathesupermom5240 Před 7 lety +2

    So sorry for your loss I love your channel !!! Keep up the posts

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 7 lety

      Thanks a lot Christina TheSuperMom! I will 😀

  • @BabyGirl-dh6wb
    @BabyGirl-dh6wb Před 6 lety +9

    I can totally relate 😢 my hardest was accepting what happened and blaming myself. It’s a tough pill to swallow. 😔

  • @AleahMiriah
    @AleahMiriah Před 3 lety +1

    I am 11 weeks pregnant and my baby died at 8 weeks. This helps me so much. I feel so lost and scared. This is my first pregnancy and I’ve been so depressed. Im just waiting for my body to do its job, and if it doesnt happen in 3-4 weeks then i will do the pill ): the fact im just sitting here and waiting just hurts that much more. Your words have helped me a lot. 💖

  • @lorannah1
    @lorannah1 Před 5 lety +1

    What a strong woman you are and you opened my eyes to how to view a missed miscarriage. I’m going Thursday because I’m a week late but not having a positive test. I’m thinking this may be happening. This happened to me in 2008 but I had had a positive test at that time. Thank you for sharing.

    • @LuisaLouis
      @LuisaLouis  Před 5 lety

      Thank you Lori Watson. I hope your appointment went well.