What I've Been Going Through | Dominique Sachse
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
- I think we’re long overdue for a chat. So much has happened in my life lately, I just feel it's necessary to sit down and open up some more with you. I appreciate your patience and continued support as I try to navigate my "new normal."
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I am a woman in my 70’s and this video has left me speechless. You are beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. All I can say is that you are the epitome of class. There is not a woman here who can’t be empathic to what you are going through right now. You are the ideal modern woman who faces life with class and grace. Don’t ever try to justify living your life as you are.
Beautifully said. I agree with you
I concur!
@@tionneterrell Agree 💯❤️
Ditto! You are awesome and strong. I have walked in your sneakers and with far less grace than you are mustering under the added stress of a public persona. Hang in there, darlin, you are just fine.
Yes! Well said.
Dominique I want you to know that in late 2019 my eldest son passed away, he was a firefighter medic. It was the beginning of the pandemic. I became very overwhelmed with grief. One late night I was on my phone and came across your channel. You saved my life, you saved the rest of my family. You made me get up, get dressed, put on makeup, and so much more. You are a beautiful soul, a beautiful daughter to your Heavenly Father. We are all perfectly, imperfect. Thank you for saving me, from my despair. Hugging you through the cloud
I don’t know why you haven’t got more likes! My heart goes out to you,I’m so sorry for the loss of your son..
How brave of you to tell us your tragic story..God bless and keep you ♥️🙏🇨🇦🇺🇸
Debie, you are a wonderful woman. What a survivor!!
Debbie, as a grieving mother, I completely understand what you are saying. I lost my son John in 2016. What Dominique is saying rings so true--we MUST carry on. People depend on us. We need to get up, get dressed, and show our faces to the world, no matter how much pain we are feeling. Sending you hugs.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing and your kind words.
I’m so sorry for your loss.❤️
I've been a marriage and family therapist for over 30 years. Believe me when I say that outside of your immediate family, you don't owe anyone else an explanation or justification for decisions made in your personal life. Sharing too much just opens the door for judgment and criticism from those who don't have a clue. Be true to yourself, talk to God often, and don't allow the noise to drown out your spirit.
Well stated. Thank u 4 sharing. I hope she sees your thoughts on this.
"Influencers" and others in the public media walk a fine line in terms of giving personal information. The desire of the content creator to be "relatable" combines with the interest of some viewers/listeners for personal details. When too much personal information is given, and especially when the information involves family members, the unintended consequences can be very painful. Often, young and innocent people are affected. As a public relations professional, I have seen the result of poor boundary choices and (worst) TMI, "letting it all hang out in public". No healthy purpose is served, in these situations.
God bless you an I pray that the Lord heals you and that you are able to pick up and continue to be the amazing woman of God that you are
I so agree…. This kind of video irritates me… I clicked out of it ! Though I don’t wish her any ill will
Exactly🌸🌸😄👍🏻
You do not owe anyone anything Dominique, this is YOUR life, thank you for your wonderful content 🥰
Dominique u r such an inspiration frm first time I watched . U r perfect in what u do in many ways. I personally thank u frm bottom of my heart for sharing. I'm 61yrs old.
Είσαι έξυπνη,όμορφη και επιτυχημένη τι περιμένεις λοιπόν να μην σε ζηλεύουν?Αν αυτό σε πληγώνει εσωτερικά πρέπει να το ψάξεις….γιατί επιτρέπεις να σε επηρεάζει,τι είναι αυτό που θίγεται μέσα σου μικρή,χαρωπή Dominique?
The love of my life walked out on me about 4 months ago, after nearly 38 years of marriage. I was blindsided, shattered. I cry in private, I smile in public. I don't have another 38 years to build a new life. What the rest of my life will look like is entirely up to me. And, that's how I discovered your videos, while searching for things to help me be a better me, for me. Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart. Life goes on, so shall I, and so shall you.
Be brave 🌹
Well, when you go to the grocery store, you can pick out exactly what YOU want for dinner. I always thought of my husband. Now, you can think about what You want! Please treat yourself to some nice experiences, and buy yourself a snazzy, new outfit that makes you feel like a million dollars. I suggest you get involved with a good church, volunteer to help the poor, needy. God bless you. You are in my prayers. Oh, my mom said, if you want a husband, go to church, talk to people over coffee and donuts. You can make some new girlfriends too!
I know that feeling of just being totally shattered, and the fear inside of me thinking how would I survive in all ways, and starting again..I am not with anyone, and I dont need anyone and I dont have time to find someone that I can love, trust and share my life with, I enjoy having my own place, enjoy having the whole bed, to myself, I enjoy making decision just for me..I am scared to meet someone, as I could not go through that horrific pain, again, physically and mentally..THANK YOU
The best part of this sentence is "what the rest of my life will look like is entirely up to me" Exactly. Enjoy it. Embrace the pain you must feel....feel it, and move on. Live for you and only you for a change. I love my husband of 34 years, but there are many days that this doesn't sound so bad.
Dear Signum
I wish you all the best for your future. Whenever you feel bad, remember this „ where a door shuts, there is always a window that opens“. Good things will come to you, you will see.
Often it‘s only later, that one realizes, what opportunities turned up because of certain changes, which are definetly sad and painful at the timethey happen.
Stay positive!
My oldest daughter, 31, passed away in November 2019. By the grace of God, I discovered your CZcams channel at some point during lockdown. I live in a remote, isolated area on Lake Superior in the Upper Peninsula, Michigan, so I'd never heard of you before. And because I live in such a remote area, where winter lasts 6-7 months, there are no resources, such as grief groups or gyms. Winter is a very long, dark, lonely time under the best of circumstances.
I just want you to know you have played an integral role in my recovery. You've reminded me to not abandon self-care. You've inspired me with your class and grace. You've helped me not turn to the bottle to deal with my pain. We're the same age, so you've helped me navigate menopause coming at a time when I was already struggling. You've allowed me to pretend we're friends and I didn't have to feel so alone. I admire your beauty, inside and out.
It's almost 27 months since my daughter left, and I can honestly say I'm doing well. Losing a child is our worst nightmare as mothers. I couldn't have made it without my Lord, and He used you as an instrument in my healing. Thank you. This is yet another season in our lives as women and you'll come through it just fine, too. God bless.
Pray your daughter’s soul Rest In Peace. My condolences to you, your family and her friends. God bless you, until your love unites in glory.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My brother died very suddenly at the age of 30. I couldn't even imagine the depth of my mom's pain as she lost her only son. She told me, it's not something you ever 'get over', you learn to live with it. And she did, with love and grace. ❤
I also lost an adult son suddenly in December 2020, just went through the first year without him, prayers to you and prayers for Dominique in healing and moving forward, these videos bring hope, light and laughter❣️🙏🏻
May your daughter rest in peace and may you have a sweet life until God reunites you in Heaven xo
I'm sorry for your loss.
I wanted to share that I divorced in 2016 at the age of 44 after being married since I was 19. It nearly broke me, but I wanted to acknowledge that and you how much I appreciate your candidness and courage. Thank you:)
I agree. I would write the same thing so I am in agreement with Ms. Sellmann
It’s amazing how things can change in two years. I went back in your video list because I haven’t watched in a while but enjoyed your thoughts on life. There is no room for ugly comments. I’m almost 78 and your life will continually evolve. Trust me. So happy for you and where you are now in life. Enjoy every minute. Don’t let anyone bring you down. Prayers going out to you 🙏🏻
We don’t need the intimate details , it’s none of our business. You have the right to have a personal life. I wish you only the best and know with time you will get through all of this. This community will support you and your journey. Thank you for sharing. Hugs to you.
I wholeheartedly agree.
@@ceciliacalabrano Well said.
💙Dearest Dominique, you are and have been a BIG BLESSING to EVERYONE and kept
many of us going in HOPE (me first)!!! I thank God for you because to me you are a
WONDERFUL FRIEND! I know you are hurting because you have a HEART ❤️ and God
sees it. The world NEEDS more people like you Dominique and if people are mean then
they are EVIL JEALOUS!!! You are STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL NEVER FORGET THAT
AND A GOOD MAN WILL COME IN YOUR LIFE WHO WILL APPRECIATE, RESPECT AND
LOVE YOU THATS DESERVED❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️Hang in there and your beautiful community is with you 100%! Can’t wait to get your book❣️❣️❣️❣️ Love You❣️🙏XO
Agreed!!!!
I totally agree.
You do not have to explain anything. This is your personal life and nobody else’s business. You are a wonderful role model and person. God Bless you during this difficult time.
Amen🙌🏻🍑🧡
She gives so much and to give this is unnecessary.
You took the words right out of my heart, Melissa. Dominique, I am joining with so many in virtually hugging you. Much love and support.💜
Agree with Melissa, YOU have NOTHING WHATSOEVER to apologize, for it is nobody's business but yours.
We LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your feed.
Life goes on, and so will you.
I read this comment even before the video started and already 👍 and agree. Now on to the video 💕
Such lovely woman🙌🏻🍑🧡
I divorced at 51, after 28 years. I felt alone even knowing I have people that love me. Please know that what you are going through is very personal, and do what you need to do for yourself. No judgement, do you. I am with you in spirit.
I follow your videos and enjoy all for the special person you are and your delivery is wonderful..thank you
Life is a journey and no one has the right to tell you and others how to look and feel especially when going through difficult challenges. The fact you strive to be the best you can be for yourself, for your son and to your subscribers in the midst of things is truly inspirational. May the Lord give you strength and peace. Much love and respect. ❣️🙏🏻❣️
A wise TEXAS woman told me once, after a rough situation my family was experiencing, "Lean forward in the saddle, honey." It's been my motto now for more than 25 years! You are inspiring and we love you.
I love this expression. Thank you for sharing. ❤
That is a brilliant life motto. I hope you don’t mind if grab on to it.
@@jms7300 Please do! It always feels right.
I like that!
Oo I like that motto!
Dominique, I once was very near you in a hallway at a doctors office. We were not formally introduced but I was so impressed with you for a very important reason. You gave eye contact and a smile to everyone around you. A gentleman held the door for you and your baby son in a stroller. You looked him in the eyes, smiled and said thank you. You looked at me too with a smile. I was struck by how polite and genuinely nice you are to everyone, no matter how we’re dressed or have makeup on, etc. I wish everyone would treat you that way. I don’t know why anyone would want to be so unkind.
I wish you all the best.
Hi Monica, how are you doing?
Creeper alert
@@user-lv4ok9vo5o Are you calling me a creeper?
@@monicawilson896 I think Dan is referring to Wayne Smith.
I'm so not surprised. She comes across as such a lovely, geniunely kind person. Thanks for sharing the story!
My ex-husband was having a 5-year affair while I was battling aggressive breast cancer. He was the love of my life, and it was devastating for me. A loss I’d never felt before..only when my dear dad passed suddenly 3 years before I was diagnosed with cancer. My faith is what gave me strength to continue battling major health issues. I am a survivor after three cancer journeys and the loss of my husband. God bless.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s affair. And I’m very happy to hear you are a cancer survivor. Stay strong. God bless. 🙏
@R T Thank you for your kind words!
@@Sunshine-hv6mg I am grateful to be here to enjoy my family…God is good.
God bless you 💕
@@ItsSheaWhoElse Thank you!💞
Maybe I am selfish, but I love your transparency on this channel whether it is a lot or a little. It is so beautiful. Marraige is complicated, life is pure pain sometimes. There are things that you talk about that really help women and for women that do not have a positive female influence, you are it! I believe you have a gift in this work and you share that gift with the world. We need you! Please ignore the negative and hate. I watch , but I don't comment much because I am not brave, but lately I am so exhausted of the hatered and misery in people willing to go slap another. Love is truly from God and the gift in you is being attacked. Stand strong and stay steady, you will navigate your way through this!
My husband died suddenly in December 2021. My 31 year old son died suddenly on February 2nd. As I heard you talk about life going on and getting criticized for smiling or talking about something happy it occurs to me that the pain and judgment is similar. The pain of losing my husband was so bad. But losing my son is just a horrific nightmare that I can’t wake up from. I can’t control what happened. But I can control washing my face and brushing my teeth and putting on makeup. Wanting to look as good for my son as possible, I went back to a video of yours from years ago … the KVD Shade and Light and used it as a reference for putting on my eye shadow. I didn’t follow it exactly, but I want you to know that your videos, this one and countless others, provide help and even comfort to hundreds of thousands women. I am one of them.
I understand why you felt the need to post this video, but I also hope that you never put out this type of video again. You don’t owe anyone
an apology or an explanation. You said it best … if they don’t like you they can unfollow you. If they don’t, I hope you will unfollow them. The people who post such things are not worth your time or space in your head. And I know that those people are just a teeny, tiny, minuscule number of your followers.
I miss my son and my husband every minute of every day. I have discovered what it is like to have a panic attack. Whether you are doing a video or tutorial on blowing out hair, makeup, skin care, whatever … the kindness that you exude is a comfort. And that far outweighs the morons who post insults. When we smile or take care of ourselves, we are not diminishing our pain. We may live in pain, but we don’t have to put it on display for the world.
God bless you that is so sad .Sending love ,hugs and prayers 💔
I am so sorry for your losses and losing a child is the biggest test of all times, may their souls rest in eternal peace. May God grant you patience too.
God bless you. Praying for you
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I cannot even imagine what you are going through. Take care of yourself.
You taught me how to blow dry my unruly, wavy hair. Now you are teaching me how to face life’s challenges with grace and courage. You make a difference.
I don’t expect you to share your intimate details of your life. I totally respect that. You are a very awesome person and I have learned and grown so much through you. I’m 73 years old and have been blessed to be married 58 years. Yes I was 15 we I married but thank God we made the right decision. Has it been easy absolutely note! Each day even now there is a struggle for me. I retired 5 years ago and worked 51 years. It has been very very hard to retire and have a 24/7 relationship with my husband. Some days I just want to have me time . Everyone has their own personal struggles. God Bless you and prayers for much better days ahead.
You should be entitled to privacy at any level. People should just be respectful. You do not have to explain yourself at all. It's those people that feel entitled that need to do a check in. You go girl!
THIS! THIS! and THIS!!!
This is the first time I have commented here. Watching this video I just wanted to give you a big hug, what is going on in your life is private and has nothing to do with anyone else. I absolutely love watching your videos, you give so many great tips with everything, hair, makeup, lifestyle.
Unfortunately life has its ups and downs, this is also the downside of social media, but you will come out of this an even stronger women, sending you big hugs and love from 🇬🇧
Take care 🥰
Agree 100% --- you ROCK
Here, here totally agree with you.
I never comment on video either but love my heart goes out to you. You always have such style and grace. You are a inspiration to me on a regular basis. You have lifted me up more times than I can count. So I hope my simple I love ❤️ you lifts your spirit today.
Totally agree with this comment. You don’t have any obligation to share your private life, regardless if you shared some in the past.
It breaks my heart that you felt you had to come on here to defend your life, your choices and your situation. You offer so much positivity and grace to this community that YOU have created, it saddens me that at a time when you are the one needing lifting, that people feel the need to comment in a way that is intrusive or disrespectful. Transitions are difficult and personal. I wish you a lightness for your journey and strength on those days when it feels tough. ❤️
Thank you for your words. I so wanted to say something similar and you hit my thoughts spot on.
Well said
Don't read the mean comments
Don't even take it in.This is a
Broken world.Thank you for all
Your content they are inspiring
And help us improve our lives
People who comment in a
Negative way are jealous, they hate themselves because they
Know you are way ,way better
Than them.They are not good
People. They think they are better
By putting down someone. But it
Only reveals the ugly content of
Thier heart and who truly they are.
You are s role model no fakeness
In you.Their might be weeping in
The evening,but ,rejoicing comes
In the morning. Our Father in heaven
Is near and in control .I know how
You feel.Walk confidently for the
Lord.
Well said! 👏
Beautifully said. As others have said, you've conveyed my thoughts better than I could've 😊
Nothing is worse than a broken heart, especially around the holidays when the world seems to be so happy, and you’re the only one that isn’t. It doesn’t matter your age, it is always gut wrenching. One day you will feel “normal” again, but in the meantime, do whatever you need. Anyone can see that you are going through your private turmoil. Why do people have to be mean and judgmental? I wish you all the best as you navigate through this maze.
ThaWishing you all the best.
Keep our eyes on Christ.. He is faithful and He will give us the desires of our hearts..
After my divorce I met the Love of my life and next month we are celebrating our 36 anniversary. I had to end my prior marriage and I’m glad I did. Dominique, I wish you all the best, you are stronger than I was and I am sure you will be happy again. You are a true inspiration!
First off show yourself mercy, love and the time you need. I can’t imagine what you are going through. But I know you never go into a marriage ever expecting for your relationship to dissolve. Don’t listen to the noise and distractions, stay focused and take one day at a time. There are a lot of us who are lifting you in prayer during this difficult time. Like you always reminds us, stay bold and beautiful. God will guide you through this new journey. Wish you the absolute best.
How beautifully said ! Be kind to your Soul ! 💖🙏🏼✝️✝️✝️
Amen
Such great videos and what makes them so great is that you are so real..loved watching you on the news too..so great...you are totally a sweetheart ❤❤❤
Nobody’s business but yours and Nick’s. No need to say anything more about it. Those who don’t respect that aren’t needed in your personal or professional life. Staying classy is always the hardest road but in the end the best path to take during difficult times. This too shall pass.❤️
I agree.
I agree you are a wonderful and strong woman God bless you stay strong we are all with you big (((Hug))) ❤
Amen.
Came here to offer exactly this ❤🌷
Bingo
I knew that you had separated from your husband and I started watching you because it also happened to me. I admire you and you give me hope.
When you learn that a person’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle then it ever did with you, you learn grace - and you are the epitome of that, Dominique! You will get through this!
Dominique, in November 2018 my husband passed away. I found myself alone in my home, starting anew. During that time I discovered the content of CZcams, and of YOU. My life changed. You became my friend. Almost every night after dinner I would look at not only your current release videos, but I think I watched all the previous videos ever released. You changed my life. You encouragement me to get my life together so that I could successfully reenter the world after a 34 year marriage, with most of those years as caregiver to a disabled husband. I'm so happy to share with you that I now have lost over 60 lbs,, get compliments on my hair style and makeup AND I have the most loving man in my life. Most of this joy I attribute to YOU! We need you! xoxoxo
What a beautiful story ☺️🥰
Way to go Deb….totally agree with you that Dominique is an awesome person.
Wow!! Im going through a similar journey... And i did not know coming back is possible. You are a warrior. God bless 🙏. And yes, our Dominique is amazing, a real lady of iron and grace💞!!
Beautiful! how many people can say that someone change their life for the good. I’m happy for you Dominique!
I know Deb she did it to me too 👍❤️💖
“ If you can’t figure out a way to be kind , figure out a way to be quiet “ Dominique, good luck and keep strong 🙏🏻❤️🩹✨🍀
Love this quote!
Amen!
LOVE this!!! So well said!!!!
So true and so right!
Great comment and very true! I’m going to keep that one in my pocket.
I deplore the sorrow in your eyes, but I resonate with your honesty and wish you nothing but the very best.
I’m so sorry that you have experienced hurtful comments and mean spirited things! You are a lovely and courageous woman and I admire your strength and your creativity and your desire to share encouragement and beauty with other women!
Keep your focus and step by step you will walk through to a new sunshine and a better life. Sending blessing to you!
Oh Dominique, bless you. You most definitely don't owe anything to anyone. I'm here because YOU inspire, even though I know, as an audience, we only have a peephole view into your life. That's understood. Watching this, I can say that your community members just want to reach through the screen and give you a big hug. Sending you so much love.
Lara Alami so well said. Our Pastor always says when you meet someone or see someone you never know what they’re going through in life. I so try to keep that in mind when out and about especially with all that’s going on in the world now. Dominique is such a beautiful and kind person and I so wish her the very best.
@@sharonhenry343 ya Rex m
So very true. Lots of love, Dominique... ♡♡♡
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Yes, well said! I’m here because she’s so positive, inspiring and encouraging. Dominique, you don’t owe anyone anything. Sending prayers, love and hugs your way!! 😍🙏❤️
“Woman to woman…I get you..” Keep going, this too shall pass! We love you Dominique!
God almighty i'm in shock i thought they were the forever after couple but being divorced 3 times myself, there's a lot to it that we don't need to know only that she's okay and we'll help her get through it
Keep doing you. I AM 55 and understand the place you are in. Let go let God. Love watching and listening to someone near my age
I watched this video six months ago and I’m watching it again and listening again and it still warms my heart and also touches me that you have been suffering and yet you are such a brave woman to move forward and explain in such a kind way the things that have been going on in your family. You are definitely a woman of class and dignity, and faith. I wish you well as your journey progresses forward, because truly you do make a difference in the lives of so many that you don’t even know. Make God bless you and your loved ones.
Hang in there. You do not need affirmation from us, you are our inspiration. Your private life should be just that, and it’s not anyones business unless you ask for support. Anticipate the lows ( first Christmas in a new situation for example), and set yourself up to win by making sure you will spend the day with supportive people and being busy. And don’t forget to be there for your kids who will also be going through mixed emotions. This too shall pass. Been there, and as one person said.. it DOES get better, just get through each day with class and grace, not matter what everyone else is doing. Sending you hugs and hugs.
Currently separated myself, my husband actually just left and abandoned me and our young children.... and i was completely blindsided and mourning now the loss, confusion and betrayal. In any case just want to say your video gives me strength. I'm in this season too and i know this journey will bring me to heights I've never thought possible, and waiting and praying between days and days in tears and despair that the light will come at the end of the tunnel....
Stay strong, you got this ☮️❤️💡
You will get there . It’s such a hard road. I have been there and sympathise with all of are having to go through it. Take care of yourself and your kids. Use Dominique‘a self care videos and your faith Nechama..🙏x
Yes! Stay strong!!! You can do this! You will come out the other side stronger and better. Hugs to you!!!🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
The fact that you are willing to share your personal and very private journey is a testament to just how strong you are. Most of us have been in your shoes at one time or another. The fact that you are dealing with this with such grace and poise is remarkable in and of itself. Many blessings to you as you continue on your journey. Really looking forward to reading your book.
💗💗💗 XOXO
We love you Dominique! One of my favorite quotes from Eleanor Roosevelt… “women are like tea bags, you never know their strength until you put them in hot water”.
I have been watching you and being inspired by you for over a year now. Thank you for carrying on even when/especially when things are tough! You’re a great example to us all.
well said!
You don’t owe anyone an explanation. It breaks my heart for you that you feel the need to. I can certainly understand that public perception and private reality can be two totally different things. You do so much for so many people! You carry on the way that you need to and keep being the star that you are and always have been!
absolutely....it makes me so sad to see how AWFUL some people have become. Nobody should judge you on your personal life! Unless they are close friends or family they have no business getting into yours. Just because you watch somebody on social media it doesn't make you their close friend! People have no boundaries anymore. I am so sorry you are going through a difficult time. You are an extraordinary person and have a level of class and sophistication that most people lack. I agree if you have nothing good to say don't say anything. Move on people! Hang in there and good luck to you as you navigate through the social media gauntlet! You don't deserve poor treatment and you don't own anybody with a brain or a heart any explanations!
Dominique, you've made me cry. You had no idea the impact you've made on me. I just went through a sad breakup of 7 yrs relationship. I gave it all my unconditional love & loyalty. He ended in just 10 min with dirtiest words & betrayal. I never revealed my hurts to others. Unlike you, I am not brave enough to show others my cuts & bleeding. Keeping myself busy was the only way I could survive. If not, I would sit cry & asked why. It has been 60 days now, and I feel a lot better. Having you on it's like having a good friend nearby. There are days I wanted to cry, but your videos always me smile & laugh. I'm not just your audience, I'm your friend. You inspired me to live on & be stronger. Your hurt makes me sad. I do know you pain. You deserve a sacred moment for yourself. It's ok to cry when the camera is off. You're beautiful & you're so loved by us all. Thank you for sharing us your intimate story. It's not about exhibiting your life. It's about being courageous & let us see that you are just like us. Everything will be okay Dominique.
One thing I have learned, in my 68 years Dominique, is that in times like this, when one feels at their most most vulnerable, you need to give yourself time to just be you.....give your emotions room to run their course. To me true strength is acknowledging when it's your turn to need support and guidance. Only then can you take that deep breath and put the other foot forward and continue your journey. Focus on the love and support of your physical family and friends and that from those of us who can only be there for you virtually. Just know that we love you no matter what - even on a bad hair day !!😘Christine
Wow, does your comment RESONATE! Thank you 🌹
What a great statement. You are so right that it is difficult to ask others for support. Many see that as a weakness when truly it is not!
Love this
Beautifully said🥰
Amen
“..a part of me needs for life to be normal..” very powerful Dominique, I totally understand this, you are not alone, my heart goes out to you.
HEARTS TO YOU. May you be blessed. COURAGEOUSLY DONE
God bless you stay strong!!
I have been there! Cancer,loss of husband,son attacked at school many things! But you are doing as i did stay strong,pray and move thru the day!!! I worked in travel 15 yrs. It was a passion. I am 77 yrs and still work! You will be fine!!!
I’m so sorry you are going through this difficult trial in your life. It’s no one’s business to know the details of your personal life. That is between you, your husband, and God. I pray only the best for you. God bless. 💗
What a beautiful message. I'm divorced after 27 years and I have so much respect for what you just shared with us. Wishing you strength, optimal health, and so much happiness today and every day forward. Happy Mother's Day! I'm so glad I found you on CZcams! I'm 57 and need your tips and support!
My dear miss Dominique... ♥ we really appreciate you...for being honest ...what ever happened to you...your personal life...your so beautiful inside and out....a very strong woman.... thanks for always sharing .... maybe God have plan for you...no matter what...we're here ...we love 💘 you.and your family too... I'm one of you're millions followers...my idol...staysafe God bless.....
Beautiful girl, you are more than enough just the way you are. Thank you for all the goodness you put out in the world. I hope it comes back to you 10 fold. Merry Christmas!
After watching this video, it is abundantly clear that even at your lowest moments, your grace and class still remain. My grandmother always said, that we can bear the dark clouds in order to grow. For they produce rain and cleanse us. I have no idea where she found that inspiration, but I know I kept it close to my heart during all of my life’s trials.
When did we get to this point in social media that everyone has to know everything, even if it’s not your personal business! Allow Dominique some personal space and privacy that we would all want ourselves! Wishing you the best of what’s to come in your life, D. 😊
Absolutely agreed.
Oh Dominique it's terrible that you've had to say all this. You've already addressed your current issues and any more than that is simply no one's business.
I enjoy your platform for the positivity from you and your followers and it makes me so sad that you've been getting such negative comments whilst you are all clearly going through a difficult time.
Please remember we love you, and brighter days will come 🙏❤️ xx
Perfectly said, i will pray for u Dominique & light a candle for u & u family. Stay well & may u find strength to get u through this sad & difficult time. U are a class act & a gem of a lady, love all u do to bits, cant wait to buy & read your book for more amazing inspiration. Be well💜🤗
Amen Sista;)
People watch too much trash tv (me included) , such as Housewives, 90DF, etc and think that it’s entirely normal to expect every social media contender to also divulge everything in their life. You’ve got to be really daft if you think everyone in the world owes you a detailed explanation of their personal life. We are slowly detonating every last bit of class and grace and it makes me rather sad.
Just watched…. Months later. You are such a strong woman and your way of handling things good and bad is remarkable!
I have always enjoyed your videos and the variety! This video caught me by surprise! I had no idea what you were going through but, honestly, it's none of my business and there was no need to explain. I think you are a beautiful and classy woman with so much style! Thank you for helping the rest of us "up our game". Sending prayers, love, and positivity your way as you navigate your way through this time in your life!
i'm so sorry, Dominique. we're here for you. stay strong. *hug*
How courageous of you. I don't feel you owe anybody an explanation. This is your personal life and should be afforded respect and understanding, and people should not question or try to get nosy to ask such personal things of you. You are so kind to try to share this all with us, but it is so unnecessary. We all have bad things happening to us in our lives and you do have a right to a private life when you are a public figure. We totally understand that too. Don't feel you have to be so explicit with us, we love you for who you are and for your kindness and sharing all your wonderful beauty tips with us. You are a kind loving woman and we all respect you and wish you the very best in your endeavors.
Despite what people say - there are no “shoulds” about how to heal from sad life events. You do what YOU need for YOU!
After 19 years, my husband and I separated the first of this year. Exactly as you said, neglect/erosion, etc. is exactly what led to this. Not something I thought I would be dealing with in my 50s, but here I am...and doing well, just dealing with change, plus having my teenagers home has really helped too. Thank you for sharing :)
I just saw this video and I have to say I always admired you in so many ways, you are beautiful, strong, & so knowledgeable. I love watch all your videos especially the ones on menopause, which are helping me so much now. I am so sorry you are going through this at this time in your life. As my mom would say “This too shall pass.” Stay strong beautiful Dominique♥️
I was widowed suddenly at age 52. My life changed 180 degrees in one day. Yes, one can “carry on” in the midst of loss and pain. Bless you.
You know your own personal situation, though you're a person with large visibility, you deserve respect when It comes to your privacy. Big hug and prayers from Italy 🤗
Amen!
Thank's Dominique for sharing that do particularité moment. I feel very sad for you but we all understand that is your personnaly life and primate. You know better than everyone that we live today in a world of jalousy !!!! You are beautiful inside and outside , clever, kind and looking to give the best of yourself . I wilk pray vert strongly for you because I had been through that and for me you dont deserve to be so sad!!!! I really hope you will recover very soon. We are all behind you and will try to give you the help you need at the moment. Lots of love from Cannes😍💛🌻🌻🌻
Amen to this!!!
Exactly!
Whoa! Thank you for the grace you displayed today!
It moved me to tears.
Now I am praying for you, Paula Thornton (see previous comment) and all the hurting women that your are helping.
May you and your son continue to see God's peace and hope.
Dominque- you continue to amaze me! I don’t use social media as much so I usually have to come and search for your beautiful vibes. You are a classy lady. Continue to hold your head up high. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Stay strong. We get you!
Just wanted you to know I found you on CZcams when I was at my lowest. I discovered my husband was having an affair with a woman 32 years his junior. You helped me renew my hope for better days and to take care of myself. I never miss a video. Prayers for you during this difficult time.
I can see the pain in your eyes. I too was divorced after a 33 year marriage. I was literally sick with the pain, stress and neck pain that was miserable. You always question yourself if you made the right choice. Take it day by day and it will get easier. We're all with you in this Dominique. XO
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Only 6 minutes in, but I love how you’ve analyzed and are sharing this. You are both brilliant and beautiful, and your efforts at transparency - including regarding being transparent to a limited degree for the reasons you’ve explained so well - are appreciated and commendable
I actually have never worn much makeup and in the last few years none. Ditto with styling my hair etc. but I still check in with this channel on occasion
I didn’t finish the video because I felt I was being intrusive. Your pain is written on your face so I send up my prayer for you that your burden is eased and your heart wrapped in Gods hand.
I enjoy your content and appreciate that you’re not a 20 year old pretending to be a grown up.
Lifting you up.
Stephanie. 57
The saddest thing about this video is that you had to do it. You have a right to privacy and dignity regardless of the job you do in the world and your job is in the entertainment industry and you are great at your job. No life is perfect, all life is complex, you are doing great. Sending hope for the future that life settles soon 🙏
The level of respect I have for Dominique just keeps growing. The way she shares and handles situations like these is graceful despite how obviously painful it is. If someone reads this comment I encourage you to have respect for her private life and please don't be imprudent with your comments or questions. We are not commenting on a soap opera, this is the real life and real pain of a woman. We can all use some kindness.
Dominique i feel for you and what youre going through... i didnt expect you to explain or justify anything. Continue being yourself and take time for yourself. Well suport you ... what ever YOU decide. Bonjour from Montréal.
Very well said rapamo1! Hugs to you Dominique ❤️
You are a beautiful lady with a compassionate and loving heart! I truly feel for you with what you’ve been going through. I have been there. I enjoy your videos and I thank you for your transparency. Being real is so refreshing these days! I wish you the VERY best and look forward to more videos in the future. Congratulations on your book!! ❤️
Beautifully said. May your creativity, resiliency and determination continue to inspire you, and the many lives that you touch. We’re there beside you-through thick or thin, through smiles or tears.
I am a 75 year old woman
Widowed
You have always been an inspiration to me and because of you I have encouraged myself to do better , be better and make me better.
I thank you for that.
I’m sorry for all that you are going through.
Your strength and stature of kindness is commendable and certainly to be admired.
Stay strong and know you are so very wonderfully special and you are loved
Pat from New Jersey ❤️
Hi 👋 Patricia, how are you doing?
Ditto
👏A standing ovation for an elegant woman who shines brightly in spite of darker times. Your brave honesty is appreciated, for it strengthens those that are sharing your path. Blessings.
Marlena
She really is amazing. Her courage to talk about something so private in a graceful way amazes me.
I have been off CZcams for a while and just ran across this video. I'm so sorry for what you are going through and do pray by this time your healing is in a better place by now. I've been a fan for several years and like you, most of us have "been there, done that and have scars to prove it." You are an amazing woman with much to be proud of and the only way through life is to keep going. forward. Anyonw who does't understand that is not worth your time. So, "Keep your heels, your head and your standards high" you'll survive this and be stronger for your future. My prayers are with you. K
I am so sorry you have had to experience this part of life. What a wonderful woman you are inside and out. Take good care! This shall pass and you will remain on top!
Despite the pain and anguish you are experiencing I think you are handling this difficult situation with grace and dignity. Go girl!
You Go Girl! True!
Completely agree! We love and support you Dominique.
she's not a girl Yank
After 43 years of marriage I discovered I wasn’t going to sweep things under the rug anymore and became my own woman. Had to set things straight with my hubs and began a new respect for myself. God bless you that you are confiding with us and hopefully it will help you in sharing. We often put ourselves last and I learned too late that wasn’t right. Wishes for great healing and a renewed you🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love your videos..what’s going on in your personal life is your business and nobody else’s. People don’t understand that we try to go on after some tragedy (my husband died 22years ago)..we can’t just crawl into bed and never get up. You are a beautiful,sensitive woman and should not listen to people who have no idea of what you’re going through. Stay strong..we love you!
Dominique you are a beautiful talented woman and you will survive. I’ve been there and it took many years but I finally found the love of my life. We are celebrating our 37th anniversary next month. I love your videos. God bless you!
My darling Dominique, we have a ‘rule’ when it comes to our friends and love ones; when they are going through ‘stuff’ whatever that stuff is, that THEY control the conversation!! Full stop. Our job is love and support you, if you want to talk, we talk, if not then we don’t. We are praying for you and support you in what ever way YOU need. Love to you and your family.
Couldn't have said it better. When someone is going through stuff, it's your job as a friend to support them however *they* need it. And that includes giving them space or curbing your curiosity, if that's what they want.
Love that Megan!!!
Perfectly said, Megan!!
Girl, I don’t need the whole story to stand with you. You don’t need affirmation from anyone! I know you know that. I love you. This, too, shall pass. You are strong. You are an amazing human! Carry on, sister. You have so many people in your corner. ❤️
I’ve just started following your channel but I wanted to tell you that I’ve been touched by this video. I don’t know anything about this painful time you’re going through but what an incredibly kind, and loving response to your followers.I pray that these past seven months have been a time of healing. for you. You are truly beautiful; thank you for sharing.
Just discovered your channel. This is the third video I’ve seen. I’m so impressed with your authenticity and encourage you to ignore the haters. You are obviously a beautiful soul, in all your humanity.
You are the definition of class, elegance and for being real!!! If I thought I admired you before, but after watching this video, that has increased 10 fold. How anyone could criticize you or have any negative words against you is appalling and is a direct reflection of what kind of person they are.
I commend you for how you hold yourself up and keep moving forward with such grace. Despite what you may be going through, you still fill our need each week to see you put that smile on and give us what we are looking for. And I believe we all watch you for different reasons…makeup, hair, clothing, skin care, exercise, self care etc etc etc.
Please don’t let the negativity affect you! You do you and you take care of yourself! Smile, cry, laugh, scream, what ever you feel is okay. I personally hope it’s a whole lot of laughter!!!!! Thanks Dominique!!! 😘🤗
I see the pain in your eyes....I wish you the best in moving forward..You are beautiful inside and out!
I saw it too, I wish we all could take her out for a drink and hug her and let her know we are here for her.
I've just started watching your channel and you have been such a blessing to me and such a inspiration to me. Thank you so much. I've been in such a bad place in my life right now. I've had to stop working due to my multiple sclerosis and watching you has made me want to get up and get dressed and do my hair and makeup. I've always believed that your not supposed to talk and anyone unless you're on your knees talking to God and praying for them. We shouldn't judge anyone cause we haven't been judged. You are a beautiful, loving and kind person. Thank you for your channel and what you're doing.
It takes a lot of courage to speak about your personal situation right now in front of your audience. I have gone through the same situation 5 years ago and I completely relate to what you said and what you are doing to go through this. Keeping on working has helped me a lot and and it will for you too. Life goes on and a few years from now, you will realize that it was a bump on the road and you will be fine. I am convinced about that. Stay strong!!
Dominique, you’ve always been the epitome of grace, style, kindness and elegance. I love your videos. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
I don’t watch you to “get the juice” I watch you for your incredible inspiration.
I am with you! You have so much courage, kindness, and strength. I send you hugs of comfort. 🌸💕
Dominique, you have been and continue to be an inspiration to me. You courage, honesty, and strength are amazing and something to be admired. I wish you healing and all the privacy you need. I’m thrilled you are continuing your work and will be tuning in for the podcast. Best of luck to you!
Dominique, this is the first time I’ve written. You’ve given us all so much. I’ve been widowed twice and at mid nite when I can’t sleep I love to look at your posts. Your love for all of us, your happiness with Nick and your family, your beautiful home and your happy retirement - all lightened my spirits, especially over these terrible two years of isolation.
Now you are suffering- and I can’t imagine anyone so cruel as to attack you now. Clearly, you gave your marriage your all. Maybe there are people out there who couldn’t stand seeing you be happy. People who were waiting for the shoe to drop.
But you have been there for us- for me- and I am there for you. It’s OK (and very brave) to be vulnerable. And to share your vulnerability with us. It’s a form of the self-care you’ve taught us.
This post was so raw but so eloquent. As we say in Judaism, “May you go from strength to strength”. You are truly a Woman of Valor. Please never doubt that.🌹💕
Thank you Dominic. Stay strong. You are loved. X
I always look at you and think, "How can anyone not like this talented, beautiful, NICE woman?" Keep being you. You're awesome.
The eyes are the windows to the soul and yours show sadness but also strength and courage. Sharing your story is brave it shows you are vulnerable.Everyone deals with the trials life throws at them in different ways you are human there is no right or wrong way .You have shared your story and no one should judge but we all should embrace you and wish you well to go on and lead your best life.Thankyou💖
Thank you for sharing. I am 44 and never been married but raising a child on my own and care for an aging parent. Though our lives are very different I learn so much from you in your videos and you sharing when you don't have to. I appreciate that you work so hard in making your content. I learn what it is to be a woman in today's world. .... and even though we are strangers I feel a connection and all the topics you explore are meaningful to me from health , beauty, mind, spirituality, confidence, life ........... . I really appreciate you a lot. Sending you love and hugs from Fort Worth.
As an older woman, I understand the difficulty to be open but to protect yourself and your family. Even your ex. Just keep going and share what you want and keep the rest to yourself. Being open and saying your life isn’t perfect is just something that makes you more relatable. Saying you can’t win is so true. People will sometimes judge either way.
it makes me sad to see the pressure you're under and people are so rude behind their keyboard. I married my HS sweethwart when I was 23, had 3 awesome kind, sweet, hardworking kids, and he basically chose alcohol over us. Married 30 years until I had to walk away for my own sanity. I still miss how we used to be. I feel for you and all I can say is take care of you first. Dont worry about the viewers. They have their own issues too and I wonder how much they'd share. Xox BIG HUG!
I am in awe of your class, lady. I have been divorced and realize what a “shock” your body and soul go through when you build a life with someone and then it is “over” and you have to transition into a different life. We, your fans, love you. Whatever your life is, you are loved unconditionally. You are a strong, smart, kind woman and you will make it through this an even better person. So sorry for the loss of the dream of that relationship.
Hi Gwen, how’s your day going with you?
You've taught me so much about makeup, hair care, fashion, organization and so much more. You've inspired me and all of us to be more gracious, thoughtful and kind. I appreciate you and the messages you bring us. Keep moving at your own speed, we're here and we have your back. Love you. xo
This was heartfelt and honest. You are a brave woman. Anybody who is married knows that it's not easy. I appreciate you helping me age gracefully.
I found you at my lowest point when I turned 50 and felt invisible. You made me feel that there is life to be lived. I cut my hair, lost some weight and felt the best I had in years. I am so sorry you are going through this and having to defend yourself. You will get through it and come out stronger xx
Dominique did the exact same thing for me!!! She changed my whole way of looking at myself in my mid 50's. Love her!
Dominique, I am 83 years old and love your show. In a way, I look upon you as a daughter and I'm very proud of you . I admire your ability to just keep going so I know things will get better for you and "you will have joy in the morning." I will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers.. I love you and God does too.
Agreed! 💜
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. I followed you every week during the Covid lock-down. Your videos provided a very welcome distraction to all of the news and speculation during that time. Once school opened back up I became an online kindergarten teacher and that took up so much of my time. I was so shocked when I came across your video showing your new apartment. At first I thought oh geeze I have missed a whole lot. You and your son are in my prayers. Life is hard. However, You are strong and I know this will just be a turning point in your path. We (your fans LOVE you!!!) Keep your head up and Thank you again for being so honest and open!
What a beautiful person. God bless you.
I lost my son, who was special needs, in May of this year. My world has completely changed. Listening to you describe the emotional rollercoaster one feels when losing a loved one is exactly how I feel and that it's ok. Although we grieve, it's ok to laugh. It's okay to feel angry. It's okay to feel some happiness, especially when thinking of them puts a smile on your face. Thank u for sharing.😊
I don’t need to know the intimate details to be able to look you in the eye and say “I get you”. I get you simply because you are an internet friend who is hurting over the ending of her marriage and the fracture of her family. I’ve lived it myself and I get you, Dominique.
That was beautiful, raw, and honest. You didn’t owe us an explanation, but thank you for sharing. You are an inspiration and an example to others even in your suffering, and you can’t get more Christian than that!❤️
You do not need to explain anything! I have been through 2 divorces and yes you must carry on and it is nobody's business but yours! All my love and hang in there one day at a time, it does get better! 🤗
💯!! Couldn’t have said it better!
I can’t say it any better.
I have been watching your videos for a few years now and have learned so much! After watching this video, I was so heartbroken upon hearing how people can be the way they are in hurtful things. People change whenever it finally happens to them. I am so sorry you are going thru this. Yes, life goes on and only God is our judge. I pray you continue on your journey with your positive thoughts and vibes. You are so right, you can't please everyone!
I happened to fall upon one of your videos a few days ago, and was extremely impressed by how you present...woman to woman, who've been through so much, you are handling beautifully. Realistically, rationally & maturely. I am so glad to have found your videos. Thank you for all your hard work. You are a beautiful soul!