Unhappy With How You Look? - Watch This! ᴴᴰ ┇ Must Watch ┇ by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan ┇ TDR ┇

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    Unhappy With How You Look? - Watch This! ᴴᴰ ┇ Must Watch ┇ by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan ┇ TDR Production ┇
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    Speaker: Sheikh Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan
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    Unhappy With How You Look? : Watch This! ᴴᴰ - by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan
    'He molded you.' Allah says, 'He created the rest of the skies.' He could have added, 'He created you too.' But He's already said that before; He changed it; He said, 'He molded you.' 'Sawwara' in Arabic is to fashion something, to mold something, to sculpt something, make a sculpture that's perfect and beautiful. He says, Allah Himself says, 'I did a really good job making you!' He Himself is telling us! He takes pride in how beautifully He made us.
    You know what the ungrateful says?
    'Why am I so fat?'
    'Why am I so skinny?'
    'Why am I so short?'
    'Why am I so...why do I have freckles?'
    'Why do I have this? Why do I have that?'
    'How come I am not smart like my brother?'
    'How come that one's rich and I am poor?'
    'How come I don't have this?' and 'How come I don't have that?'
    And you know what happens in this society, especially in modern society? And it's happening globally, not just in America. People start getting old; the hair starts going; starts turning grey a little bit, Right? Then you notice, you know...wrinkles on your skin.
    And this entire multi-million dollar industry to make sure that you look like you did when you were 20, and you end up looking like a zombie, Right? But they'll put hair implants on you, and they'll stretch your skin for you, and they'll tuck your belly in for you, and they'll do all these things to you, so maybe you can pretend you're still 25.
    Allah is saying, 'Accept who you are. I think you're beautiful. Why do you think you're ugly? Why do you have to be so unhappy with yourself?'
    He did a beautiful job with you! And molding is not just in the physical sense. Even in our personalities, or capabilities, Allah has given each and every one of us certain strengths, certain abilities, certain talents. He is the One who gave them to us. So when we don't appreciate what we have been given, then we are not appreciating Allah Himself! Because He's the One who gave! Just like when somebody gives you a gift and you don't appreciate it, its disrespect to the one who gave you the gift. All of what we have been given is a gift from Allah ('azza wa jal).
    And if you don't recognize that...
    'You'll all be going back to Him anyway.'
    Whether you take advantage of these gifts or not, they will have to be returned to their original owner. To Him is the final return eventually anyway.

Komentáře • 67

  • @whenyousmileismiletoo5419
    @whenyousmileismiletoo5419 Před 6 lety +66

    I always think my life would be better if I only looked a little prettier. Even if i catch a glimpse of my reflection my self esteem suddenly drops to the ground. I dont want to be thankless to Allah but these feelings and thoughts won’t go away 😔

    • @sajidpathan6429
      @sajidpathan6429 Před 5 lety +4

      Same for me

    • @XD_SPIDER
      @XD_SPIDER Před 3 lety +2

      In front of Allah swt al Human beings r equal.....That means we all r created equally with the Same CLAY....Know this NO human is a perfect...if u feel u Lack something then know this u r also blessed with something unique......so if u r ignoring ur uniqueness u will.definately Fail in ur Life...So Be Grateful to Allah swt That He Created U....Also never look a person LOWER or SUPERIOR Than u..cuz all r created equally an know this What u can do perfectly He/she cant....so at The end ENJOY ur Life as u r and Be grateful to Allah swt...😇

    • @laylaadan9963
      @laylaadan9963 Před 3 lety

      You might have body dysmorphia disorder
      It's a mental health issue and you can see a sicoligest there is nothing wrong with that .

  • @daoudkhamush2069
    @daoudkhamush2069 Před 7 lety +41

    unfortunately, through my childhood, I was treated differently, called ugly and left out because of who I was. to this day as a very young adult, I can tell the same people still think of me like that. although I've met new people growing up and some accept me and take me as their friend, and some just see me as another person

    • @ebrahimqazi5963
      @ebrahimqazi5963 Před 6 lety +2

      same with me

    • @nabilahamdani
      @nabilahamdani Před 6 lety +6

      Same here. Even my aunt called me ugly and compared my looks with my cousin. Just so she wants me to get married.

    • @afreen8035
      @afreen8035 Před 5 lety +4

      Relatable, honestly sometimes I used to hate myself but beshak Allah is the best creator and alhamdulillah his creation is way more perfect than peoples opinion..Allah's creation is level above our imagination. We all look good in our own way..🙂

    • @amaanmd8519
      @amaanmd8519 Před 2 lety +2

      I cant explain my mom and dad also call me ugly . At that time i was broken

    • @aiuchiha111
      @aiuchiha111 Před rokem +1

      @@amaanmd8519 same here bro😊

  • @theboredperson9312
    @theboredperson9312 Před 10 lety +50

    :'( I feel very happy to know that Allah. himself , thinks I'm beautiful. It's means alot to me and Alhamdulilah I am VERY happy with how i look.

  • @cherryblossom2332
    @cherryblossom2332 Před 10 lety +29

    Jzk, as I am forever complaining about silly things, May Allah SWT forgive us all for our sins which we commit x

  • @MW.1986
    @MW.1986 Před 10 lety +10

    Alhamdulillah!!! I'm happy and satisfied with my looks. I don't need anyone to compliment me to realise what I've got. I always look and feel good.

  • @MA-rb9ye
    @MA-rb9ye Před 10 lety +23

    This made me feel so much better!! Alhamdulilah for everything i have. We alll need to be grateful to Allah.:D

  • @adnankaukovic2042
    @adnankaukovic2042 Před 10 lety +20

    be happy with yourself brothers and sisters,like brother said,Allah Almighty Himself created you,how can you be unhappy,thank Him for nose,ears,mouth...etc

  • @crashban4t.f.s.b783
    @crashban4t.f.s.b783 Před rokem

    Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala gave me more than I deserve. If he gave me what I deserve then I wouldn’t exist.

  • @TheDailyReminder
    @TheDailyReminder  Před 10 lety +1

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  • @Lewaneee
    @Lewaneee Před 10 lety +3

    i love the background clip as much as what Nouman Ali Khan is saying :)

    • @NomanAhmed53
      @NomanAhmed53 Před 10 lety

      روح البطولة | محمد المقيط(Background audio)

  • @SagheerAlNajid1
    @SagheerAlNajid1 Před 10 lety +2

    i am happy with what i hav but it just people who put u down, ridicule you, this is why i question myself why im so and so

  • @stonezzrollerr5445
    @stonezzrollerr5445 Před 4 lety +1

    What is with you must vanish, what is with Allah will endure. (QS Al Nahl: 96)

  • @cristhianc5580
    @cristhianc5580 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Allah very cool of u, i'm sure brad pit is feeling the same way as much of us

  • @muhdalfian87
    @muhdalfian87 Před 10 lety +2

    Allahu Akbar!

  • @sannasonson8778
    @sannasonson8778 Před 10 lety +8

    Wow this really help now i think am beautiful and should be very thankful

  • @saimamir9771
    @saimamir9771 Před 7 lety +1

    Allhamdulilah for everything O Allah ....

  • @followislam9383
    @followislam9383 Před 10 lety

    SubhanAllah! Allah is al musawwir and we must not complain!

  • @ikhlasuddin1340
    @ikhlasuddin1340 Před 5 lety +1

    ALLAHU AKBAR.
    May ALLAH (SWT) give us "TOUFIQH" to understand.
    May ALLAH (SWT) guide us.

  • @thomasparker5249
    @thomasparker5249 Před 10 lety +2

    Thank you for this video it is very helpful will should thank god

  • @faizahossain3511
    @faizahossain3511 Před 4 lety

    Maashaa allah beautiful topic

  • @XD_SPIDER
    @XD_SPIDER Před 3 lety

    In front of Allah swt al Human beings r equal.....That means we all r created equally with the Same CLAY....Know this NO human is a perfect...if u feel u Lack something then know this u r also blessed with something unique......so if u r ignoring ur uniqueness u will.definately Fail in ur Life...So Be Grateful to Allah swt That He Created U....Also never look a person LOWER or SUPERIOR Than u..cuz all r created equally an know this What u can do perfectly He/she cant....so at The end ENJOY ur Life as u r and Be grateful to Allah swt...😇

  • @junkmana
    @junkmana Před 10 lety +9

    The fact that someone is uglier than others cannot be denied. So you cannot say that Allah created everything beautiful. Somethings and some people are not very good looking. But thats the whole deal that someone is rich, someone is poor, someone is strong and someone is week, someone is beautiful and someone is not so beautiful etc. The world is a place of tests and there always be people with differences in both extremes. Its just that if you are ugly, tell your self that thousands of others are too so whats so special about me that I should not be. Allah tests individuals with these things. Concentrate on the beauty of character. A man who is a responsible, reliable characters in your own families appeal more than good looking dumbs. People are quick to make judgements on the character of other by their looks but personally in my experience, that judgement fails all the time when I talk to someone and see whats in their mind. Someone with good intent and character is much more appealing

    • @hussnainkhan3832
      @hussnainkhan3832 Před 5 lety +3

      no if Allah himself says he created everyone beautiful then who are you to say that Allah didn't create everyone beautiful

    • @CK-dz8vt
      @CK-dz8vt Před 5 lety +2

      Beauty is subjective... You may look at that person and say that she/he is ugly while another person think that she/he is beautiful... Allah creates everyone beautiful. It just the matter on how you look at that person

  • @tayyabasarfaraz4900
    @tayyabasarfaraz4900 Před 6 lety

    Alhumdullilah for everything

  • @MuslimAmericanGirlz
    @MuslimAmericanGirlz Před 10 lety

    Alhamdulillah!

  • @dhrDbznaruto
    @dhrDbznaruto Před 10 lety

    SubhanAllah!

  • @Xose8989
    @Xose8989 Před 10 lety

    MashaALLAH!

  • @AbOAdEb100
    @AbOAdEb100 Před 10 lety

    جزاك الله خير

  • @afaafabdallah6992
    @afaafabdallah6992 Před 10 lety

    jazakallah!!

  • @ummehabiba4151
    @ummehabiba4151 Před 3 lety

    Allah Alhum dulilah

  • @sajidpathan6429
    @sajidpathan6429 Před 5 lety +8

    I think my life would be better if I had good looking face I lost everything I think I'm very ugly no one like me I stop studying due to my face due to face my career is ruin every single day I goes in depression I am about to cry why allah why you make me ugly

    • @avitiusrufinus6980
      @avitiusrufinus6980 Před 5 lety +2

      You're beautiful, you can be alone and successful. BE A LONE WOLF

    • @lilifilm5622
      @lilifilm5622 Před 4 lety

      Stop every creation of allah is beautiful .

  • @ahussain1223
    @ahussain1223 Před 10 lety

    SubhaAllah

  • @sameenkhan1102
    @sameenkhan1102 Před 10 lety

    mashallah

  • @iqbarismail
    @iqbarismail Před 10 lety +4

    dear my brothers and sisters of islam.. stop feeding the trolls

  • @bimmerworld6015
    @bimmerworld6015 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow! I suffer from BDD. Just thinking how ungrateful I am. Remember the girl you always wanted but she only liked other guys. So she only likes them for looks! say something happen to him, will she still love him?
    How many funerals we go to and the person passed away had big family lots of wealth everything going well! than a illness hits them. The next minute you know he getting buried and you say to yourself I only saw him week ago. The girl who reject me is with someone else happy and I wish her all the best as it’s planned by allah. So if someone don’t love you because of your appearance why have a broken heart?

  • @SanaRazaChahal
    @SanaRazaChahal Před 10 lety

    link to thw whole lecture please! JazakALLAHU KHAIRAN

  • @daushero11
    @daushero11 Před 9 lety +6

    sharks, i don't get it

  • @saleem2724
    @saleem2724 Před 4 lety +1

    As-Salamu-Alaikum, brothers and sisters.
    Can anybody, for the sake of Allah (s.w.t) give me the reference or the source to what Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan has told us in this video, or something similar to it, from the Qur'an or Ahadith. That would be greatly appreciated.
    May Allaah bless you.

  • @malikusama8781
    @malikusama8781 Před rokem

    We need to chill together plz

  • @mohammedabedin4617
    @mohammedabedin4617 Před 10 lety +1

    Where i can find that background sound

  • @Dust2Turaab
    @Dust2Turaab Před 10 lety +2

    Love what Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan is saying, MashaAllah so true,
    But the background made it really difficult for me to concentrate... shark-phobia! :$

  • @oioloxo7282
    @oioloxo7282 Před 3 lety

    I get it that we are supposed to worship Allah regardless of what we look like. Life would’ve been much better if marriage wasn’t obligatory because although you’ve gotta be like this whole perfect beautiful woman to be married off. And I’ve seen women cry over on their looks because men refuse to marry them and I’ve thought to myself that people wouldn’t care what they look like if marriage didn’t complete half the deen.

  • @afiyahashmi7525
    @afiyahashmi7525 Před 2 lety +1

    These videos just make Me feel Uglier😐😑

  • @essaathar
    @essaathar Před 8 lety

    which surah and verse is this?

  • @dylangucciano3141
    @dylangucciano3141 Před 3 lety +1

    this information did not help me at all

  • @sorkarsorkar5474
    @sorkarsorkar5474 Před 5 lety

    I've acne and that makes me anxious :(

    • @farahakhankhan1366
      @farahakhankhan1366 Před 4 lety

      I also have acne on my face and I feel inferior and some times embarrassing

  • @noueruz-zaman7894
    @noueruz-zaman7894 Před 6 lety +1

    Yeah.but still
    Isn't it the case that if a man/woman is beautiful they will have good life here and if they follow the iman will face jannat in the afterlife
    But the ugly guy,will face discrimination and racism/disliking in this life but even if he goes to jannat in the after life
    Good looking guy would still win in the .win/win situation for him
    Look...I know thanks to ugly people good looking people will look handsome, if ugly people don't exist the word beautiful would not exist
    So, I get it i am dog in this life to make people look handsome..
    So i am not saying anything to so called God,why am I expected to pray and do all that shit, it should be the white guy who should be grateful for how God made him

  • @rorschachdaws7505
    @rorschachdaws7505 Před 6 lety +1

    I wish i was born as a white caucasian man but now i can't i'm very disappointed.

  • @elviejavellana1394
    @elviejavellana1394 Před 4 lety

    Mosque masjid

  • @MsRi7an
    @MsRi7an Před 10 lety +1

  • @hyperhybrid7230
    @hyperhybrid7230 Před 4 lety

    Interesting point, certain western societies are confused with the material world and stereotyping. So relationships suffer , or should I say lack of relationships, why have sex when you can stimulate it with electronic media. so the ugly or unhappy look question the gender Gay and LGBT. Islam is clear in this area and so promotion is not the ideology. Statistics show a lot more depression and suicide in this area. Unhappy with your look ??

  • @noueruz-zaman7894
    @noueruz-zaman7894 Před 5 lety +2

    it is easy to say then to go through it
    the worst thing is guy who is losing or lost hair ..he lost the looks/charm but guy ith hair would always look better
    so, stop this bullshit, once you go through hair loss nuaman then we will talk