What the Bible Says About Sex | Little Light Studios Podcast S1EP6
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So what does the Bible really say about sex? Why do we have to wait until marriage? What practices are allowed according to the Bible and what aren’t? Any question about sex you could think of are answered in today’s episode with Dr Derek Heldzinger, MD, and his wife, licensed therapist Elmamarie Heldzinger.
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The solution for sexual sins is surrender to God. 11 years I fought by my own strength against sexual sins in my life and l failed again and again. When l hitt rock bottom l gave my life God and asked Him to make me pure, make me an overcomer, give be the victory for His glory. And He did! Oh, how grateful l am, how much l love Him!! Outside force/control will cure the symptoms, but a new heart will bring healing.
You should not be kissing before marriage. That's why the minister says, "You may now KISS YOUR BRIDE." Think about it. Keeping your mind pure will definitely help with your sex drive.
Yea I kissed a woman I was not married to I was lusting after her hard. Eventually I started disliking her and myself and ended up addicted to masturbation. Ugh sexual sins eat you alive.
Well said.
Moralist like you get out!
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Not just for young people, older people need this as well. All these programs focus on young people, older people also have and want sex as well and also need this information, especially when they previously went about it in a wrong way, sex first, marrage, maybe, later.
I am so glad that you all are having this talk! More churches need to have this talk in the church openly understanding that everyone is an adult, of course having the kids in children's church, but this needs to be preached in the youth groups as well!
Will you address having sex on the Sabbath?
yes please! I tend to lean towards no, you do without doing your own pleasures but I've heard things that make me think maybe
I still struggle with if having sex on the Sabbath is wrong
Do you really think God said to Adam and Eve after He created them on the 6th day not come together and then said you cannot break the Sabbath by having sex with your spouse? God created sex to be enjoyed in the confines of marriage on any day of the week just like He created us to enjoy food on any day of the week. Food is pleasurable; so does that mean we must avoid enjoying food on the Sabbath; something He created for us to enjoy. I do not think it is a sin for married people to engage in sexual activity on the Sabbath.
I can't believe you said hugging a woman is adultery just because she's married to someone! That is utterly rediculous! That's like saying a guy hugging his mother is incest!
That`s why i don`t listen anymore to christians/pastors when they talk about sex and marriage, on one hand they have an idealistic portrayal of marriage and sex which reaches the realms of fantasy, and on the other hand we have fanatics such as this guy with their fanatical views saying that hugging a woman is adultery because she's married to someone.
Because of such extreme teachings many people have been disappointed, wounded and damaged for life, and it`s all done by so called christians. It's awful and sad because it doesn't bring glory to God.
My solution to this is to read the bible for yourself and apply it`s principles on sex and marriage in your own life regardless of what other so called christians/pastors are saying, and simply please stop listening to such people for your own good.
That`s why i don`t listen anymore to christians/pastors when they talk about sex and marriage, on one hand they have an idealistic portrayal of marriage and sex which reaches the realms of fantasy, and on the other hand we have fanatics such as this guy with their fanatical views saying that hugging a woman is adultery because she's married to someone.
Because of such extreme teachings many people have been disappointed, wounded and damaged for life, and it`s all done by so called christians. It's awful and sad because it doesn't bring glory to God.
My solution to this is to read the bible for yourself and apply it`s principles on sex and marriage in your own life regardless of what other so called christians/pastors are saying, and simply please stop listening to such people for your own good...
I think the context definitely matters. there is scientific evidence showing hugs between nonmarried people causes a "spark" it is the beginning of it. they talked about 12 steps of touch and needs. a hug is a physical touch and can be an opening for satan and may not mean something to 1 person but maybe another. I can tell you just being a kind human being and looking at a guy in high school would Have them thinking I was interested in them. listening to this I understand why. connection starts long before sex..
@@childofthemosthigh958 Still: Jesus isn’t going to get mad at a married person just for hugging a friend of the opposite gender.
@@bubbajames2157 I think you're missing it, it can definitely be. not that it is everytime without exception. sometimes it is, maybe its not both parties, just one..
This was extremely helpful and informative. I've been married for 32 years and the sex is still there and I'm still learning.
Excellent ... So incredibly honest. Wow ... Thank you so very much ♡
Thankyou so much LED for clearing up some questions i have had.
I have heard all kinds of things that are wrong so now i know whats right.
Praise God for bringing the GIFT OF CORRECT BIBLICAL KNOWLEDGE to us all.
Love your channel sda in Australia 🇦🇺
Thank you, little light studios for sharing this.
Friendly suggestion: When doing these podcast, please stop with all the corny sound effects, (for example the police car siren) it isn't necessary. Thanks!
Question at the 1:30:08 mark, I understand the Biblical reasoning against anal penetration, but the doctor stated that this area wasn't made for penetration, so answer me then, why the male “g-spot” is located about 2 inches inside the rectum, in other words, the prostrate?
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Thanks for speaking the truth to young people, even if it's not the most comfortable subject! 👌
I’m one of those people who experienced pornography at 11,can’t say I turned out well.
You shouldn't tear yourself down like that. The funny thing about demons is they love to talk you into just about anything, then they love to beat you up for falling for it.. Our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ is the opposite of this.. They love and pursue us no matter what 😢 They forgive and empower with The Holy Spirit ❤
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“They forgive and empower with the Holy Spirit”
Brother please explain what you mean by that
@@Reformed_Borzoi I mean our Heavenly Father watches us grow and change but His love for us never does. Much like a devote earthly father no matter what our child does, we will love them. We might be upset and disappointed at our child but we never stop loving that person. (By loving I mean actively pursuing that child's best interests no matter what it takes. There is this Bible verse that eludes to how much better gifts will your Heavenly Father give than your sinful, error ridden earthly father) that's the point not exact wording.. Nevertheless, it's the same contrast with your Heavenly father's love vs anybody else's really. He will never stop loving and pursuing you.The very second you turn to Him with a contrite spirit He will forgive, He will redeem, and He will empower you with His Holy Spirit to guide you in all your ways. He is a gentleman and you will still have a choice but trust Him the old will be made new.
Eh, I was exposed to it at 9 in a Christian school. But I'm almost done with my masters and a top student. The Lord makes you new again as you develope your relationship with him. Let go of the past and do what your good at!
Awesome resource friends… will use in our church youth group🙏🏼
God bless u all
This was a really good episode. Thank you
I have learned a lot and heard a lot :) here is what the woman of God had to say to us as Gods People, remember this is Christ speaking.
The Expenditure of Vital Energy-Many parents do not obtain the knowledge that they should in the married life. They are not guarded lest Satan take advantage of them and control their minds and their lives. They do not see that God requires them to control their married lives from all excesses. But very few feel it to be a religious duty to govern their passions. They have united themselves in marriage to the object of their choice, and therefore reason that marriage sanctifies the indulgence of the baser passions. Even men and women professing godliness give loose rein to their lustful passions, and have no thought that God holds them accountable for the expenditure of vital energy, which weakens their hold on life and enervates the entire system
I wish there were more people like you guys in the sda church thank u for this.
You can be celibate until marriage and the sex can be miserable 😩 There are men and women who are selfish or uncoordinated or unwilling to try different things or make weird requests during the sex act. And then there are people who do not wait until marriage but are the most amazing, giving, fun, lovers. My point is, waiting until marriage does not equal a good sex life. It wholeheartedly depends on the person you’re involved with 😊
However, I do think it’s wise to wait until marriage. You will honor God and it won’t corrupt the process of decision-making.
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You are purposely and wonderfully made! God will never stop pursuing you.. He wants you with Him for eternity and I know this in my heart because loves a broken piece of garbage like myself no matter what.. don't quit resisting the devil
So what if someone is not married but gives small compliments to people of the other gender?
That's the definition of marriage. Not a ceremony or paper. Dating isn't biblical. Fiance's aren't either. The bible verse for marriage is literally explaining sex. It's staying with the same person your whole life
Praise Him!
Sex cannot be the definition of marriage, otherwise why would God tell us not the Fornicate or commit Adultery?
I mean I have to disagree, finance would just translate to betrothed. Like Mary was to Joseph when she was told she would by Jesus' mother
@@danniellaboling3890might be right. But don't think anyone dated for years to figure out if he or she was the one. What happened to the Guidance of the Holy Spirit and Discernment?. There were some that waited for years Because they KNEW They were the one. Which is different 😂
Is oral sex acceptable in a marriage or is it sodomy?
incredible!! thank you so much!!
What about that verse where God tells David he would've given him more than the wives he already have?
Which verse is that?
Say what?....which Bible say that?
2 Samuel 12:8
@@danielgeoffrion9655 2Sa 12:7 And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;
2Sa 12:8 And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things.
2Sa 12:9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon.
2Sa 12:10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.
@@danielgeoffrion9655 that verse doesn’t say that. Why lie? In those verses God is reproaching David for killing Uriah and taking his wife. Shameful.
I, for one, am grateful that He didn't make it so that we have to "spit in a bowl together", LOL. 😅😂 I mean, it could have been literally ANYTHING but He chose to make it what it is and it is PERFECT. 💫🙏
1:38:15 I would much rather have a family affair vs a lust affair
I love you guys. Thank you for the show
She say 97 octane in the gas tank!? women, amirite? 😂
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14:09 since covid came and went people forgot about std's. People who sleep around create soul ties with each of those people. Ive seen some genders go crazy because of the other leaving after giving it up and wondering what wrong with them while the problem is right in front of them. When you say something you're the bad person. All you can do is pray though.
Humans are not animals.
Every single love movie has had lost in it that has been brought out of Hollywood some sort of cheating or some thing of that nature. 54:25.
Really? Spiritual adultery is grounds for divorse?.....🤔
Kudos to the interviewer! Great Questions…..BUT you missed one! What about sex on the sabbath? lol. Most CANDID Adventist program Ever!….
4 to 5 times lol ok. On the respect thing I disagree. If one has to Earn respect I personally can’t trust that person or vice versa.
I don’t understand. What do you mean?
@@sebastiensmarth3479 I believe they are referring to the part where some people masturbate 4 to 5 times a day which I can confirm to be true for multiple people and it's genuinely concerning, and scary. It's no joke because as they said they are never satisfied