Shadi K Baad Hony Waly Gair Islami Kaam - Sahil Adeem - Urdu/Hindi
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- We as a Pakistani Nation are doing many non-Islamic deeds in our marriages. Specially when it comes to the responsibility then who is a major responsible? What are the major causes? Why Sahil Adeem gave the major blame to men because of the many reasons? Watch full video to understand the whole message and share the cause. JAZAKALLAH.
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As a married woman since 8 years. I have applied these rules and system in my life and I am telling that I agree with Sahil sahab on this point ( bcz i listen everything as a critique and later on come to a certain conclusion). So, yes reading and Understanding Quran was our duty when we were very young and now is the time for application. But as far as Namaz is concerned you have to offer it at any cost whether you have to skip your daily house chores. Once a person is well practiced everything bcms easy to perform. And I agree girls unfortunately are not aware of what rank and status Islam has given to women as wives as sisters as daughter.
He is creating family crisis instead of creating harmony. You are trying to implement European culture where ,every family member asserts his/her own rights.If you teach helping saas & susar as out of Islam. This will create another level of family clash in the name of Islam.Islam is name of peace and submission, but you are asking to create hue & cry if namaz is delayed.Yes namaz is farzana,yet this has to be offered with peace & not fighting with family.I am afraid ,how to request you to guide innocent people patience, respect, harmony, rather than ignite Women desires of liberalism for the sake of winning their social media likes.Sorry for any harsh words,but I just want to show a sirat e mustaqeem.
I am facing these all things from 15 years but I can't find the way out I have attempt suicide I have said for separation but my father too is belonging to that state of mind he forced me to live in the psychology of bralveyat not Islam and my brother too forced me to think that your husband is the God of earth for you and he don't want to live according to Quran than he is responsible God of sky's knows take it easy and enjoy the life and meet all the guys of his family don't worry and leave hijab in tha behalf of your husband
And when I go to molana for fatwa he said leave the husband and family and marry to me.
Oh gosh my sweepable story😢😢😢
Beta ..pehlae Mera bhi yahi khyal hai laikin 'Ilm hasil karnae ke baad m'aloom hua ke Jo bachpan SE humaen sikhaya gaya thhaa woh GHALATH thhaa@@muhammadyousufkhan8463
The problem is that we can read any story book 📖 but not the holy Quran . May Allah guide us and understand the teaching of Islam, Ameen
"Agar mard Islam me londiyon ke huqook padh le to wo apni biwi ko munh nahi dikha sakta"
Kya level h aapki soch ka sahil bhai, ma shaa Allah. Kis unche level pe Jake aapne baat ki h. 👌 ❤
Ha aur tumhari feminism b yehi kr rhi ha
Ab Mard mun ni dikha skta
Wo seedha court jaye gi aur Mard khallas
If I can have a option of londi or wife I will choose londi
No drama no headaches no worries no nagging nothing
Tu b nikal
@@ahmadtariq4573 teri maa bh londi thi kia?
He meant to say k hum desi apni wives ko itnay hawooq nhi de rhe jo us dour mein sirf londiyon k hote thay.
@@ahmadtariq4573 bhai londi k hakook pta hy?
@@ehtshamulhassan5923 hahaha mat bol esy bechara Loundi se bhi haath dho bethy ga pehly hi jala howa koala lag raha hy
Brilliant researcher and Islamic scholar.jazakAllah,,,, for being so Much honest according to Islam....
Masha Allah you are a great man. May Allah pak give you long n healthy life. Ap biwi k huqooq py bht acha bolty hain I really appreciate you ❤❤
Yeah, wife ki actual responsibility bachon ki daikh bhal or tarbiat he na k ghar k kam. But hmari society mein bus kam wali chahye, bachy to pal hi jaen ge sath sath. After listening this clip i literally feel like crying jo mard zyadati krte hein apni bivi, behan or betion k sath. Being a woman, how can I stop it? Apne bachon ko achi tarbiat de k to pta he. But what else?
Good Luck Aunty!
میں تو اپنے گھر کے سارے کام خود ہی کرتی ہوں میرے میاں کہتے ہیں کہ یہ میرا فرض ہے اور وہ مجھے جیب خرچ بھی نہیں دیتے میں پیسے مانگو تو وہ کہتے ہیں کہ میرے پاس فالتو پیسے نہیں ہیں اور میں نے اپنے ماں باپ سے ملنے جانا ہو تو بھی کرایے کے پیسے نہیں دیتے کیا میرا کوئی حق نہیں بنتا ان کے پیسوں پر کیا میرا کام صرف ان کے گھر کی صفائی کرنا کپڑے دھونا کھانا بنانا برتن دھونا ہیں
Ajj app Kisi ka khayal rakho ga
To kal ko app ka bhi koi rakhe ga
Lekin in jaise so called scholars ko ye nahi pata
K kal ko is insan ne Buddha bhi hona hai
To burhapay ma koi Sahara bane
Balance must be there
Kash in sahb ko Kuch A.b.c pta ho Islam ka
Islam itna fragile nahi jitna ye sahb bol Rahe hain
آپ کے جذبات کی قدر کرتی ہوں,,
@@a.bmin-ki3946 phr shadi. Na krn na bacho ki wo khidmat krn apny ma bap ki. At least shadi k nam pr kisi orat k sath zulm ni krn.. Kal ko os orat ny b budhy hona hy jisko apny ghr ly k ay hoty ho. Sorry i don't agree with u.. Bcz sahara sirf Allah ka hota hy aj kal kisi sy eski tawaq rakhna k koi humary sath acha kary ga.. Taqdeer mien jo hona wo to hona he hy.. Hn logo pr ahsan karo. ALLAH ko ye pasnd hy. Lykin os k bdly hum b ye guman rakh ln k hum pr b ahsan kiya jay ga . Its totally wrong concept. Boht sy aysy log b hn jinho ny sari umr logu ki nokri ki hoti at the and wo logu k dabao sy jhok jhok kr mar he jaty. Pagl ho jaty. Bdla kia dia jata. Dafan kar 2 ya pagl khany chor 2
Subhan Allah ! Ma Sha Allah ! Very Nice ❤❤🌹🌹👌👌👍👍👏👏
Kia ap sach mae itne ache hai
Ap ke batain sun kr ankhon sae ansoo girne lagte hai
Sahabiyat bhi apny Ghar ka Kam Karti theen ,shohar bahir kamany jaye ya Ghar ka Kam kary ya apny parents ko Khana bna Kar dei,in deen serving to old people is ahsaan and kindness.
Bilkul, sahabiyat Apne Ghar Ka kaam krti thi, lekin yahan SAAS suser daiver jaith nand in k kaam krney hotey Hain, or Apne bachey b peechey reh jatey Hain, in SB logon Ka ghussa b maa Apne bachon pr nikalti hai bachon ki nafsiyat berbad ho jati hai, Deen k nam p aurat ki berbaad kr dia or Deen Mai aisa Kuch Hai b mai
Respect for elders is desirable but forcing someone to only respect husband’s family and doing the same for wife’s family. Sooo many men and their families go out of their way to disrespect and hurt wife’s family by saying you are obligated to take care of my family while he doesn’t do anything
@@rimshafarhan8493 absolutely!!
@@user-gz5mx2nd5p exactly!!
Sir you have done everything well When a man leaves the house to earn, he leaves for his wife and his home. You said she can also take the broom money it's ok i agree
But Hazrat Fatima Raji Allah , you used to grind mill in the house.
Don't stop sahil sir mashallah
دین کی تعلیم حاصل کرنا سب سے پہلا قدم ہے۔
دین کی تعلیم میں فقہ، حدیث کو پڑھا جائے، تفسیر سیکھی جائے۔۔۔۔ خودسے پڑھنے سمجھنے والے فارمولے نہیں چلیں گے، اس کے لیے وہ اساتذہ سے پڑھنا ہوگا جنھوں نے خود فقہ، حدیث مبارکہ ﷺ اور تفسیر پڑھی ہے۔ ورنہ یہ معاشرہ نہیں سدھرنے والا اور سب ہی گمراہی میں اندھیروں میں زندگی گزارنے کے لیے تو ویسے بھی رازی ہیں ایسے ہی چلتے جائیں۔۔۔
قرآن ہی سمجھ کر پڑھ لیں تو خواتین کو اپنے حقوق پتہ چل جائیں گے
ھر بندہ اپنے فرض جان لے تو سب کے لیے اسانی ھو جائے
Which book should we read to understand rights and responsibilities of husband and wife? In case we want everything compiled at one place
Understand the book Allah gave us. It’s not difficult
QUR'AN AUR HADITH KI BOOKS PARHEN
Mard k hakook jb aurat ko maloom hon to os k b 14 tabaq Roshan hojaen.
Jaisay Mard k hon gy biwi k hakook maloom hony pr.
Aik video aurat or Mard k hakook or bna dain separately to acha hoga.
Aap pahailian bujwaty hain.
Yes Mai na husband ka parha hai and i thought yeh haqooq mera se adda hongien yeh nhi? Like bht zayda hai
Kindly mention the names of those books. It will be helpful for all of us.
Translation of Quran because Allah says it’s the guide book of living your life.
Quran aur hadiths to already kafi login nay parha hua ha with translation. Lekin Jo bat sir kehtay hen wo to m nay Kisi ko practice kartay huay ni dekha. It means k Quran ko samjhanay k lie Kuch aur books b hen.
@@hmchannel7017 dr israr ,modudi sahb , ne exactly yahi baten likhi hui hen or kahi bhi hen or pakistan me ginti k chand hi shaid mil jaen aisi practice walae
Arab ulma bhi yahi baten krte hen or saudia me rehne k bad pta chala k wahan aam logo me practice bhi ki jati he
What kind of books you looking for?
The problem is that we can read any story book 📖 but not the holy Quran . May Allah guide us and understand the teaching of Islam, Ameen
Agr biwi ye kehti hai sir k ye mere kaam nhi to use kaha jata hai k phir tmhari kya zaroorat hai jao or bht mil jaen gi.
Sahil sir Jazak Allah.
Believe me hmara pakistani Koi mard ye batain nhi krta .or aisi baat krnay walay mard ko bilkul barddasht nhi krta.
Sir,99percent pakistani live in joint family if someone speaks about it people are like at extreme. I was against it before even knowing about you but you made my prespsctive strong and clear
Sahil Bhai as a society and as a Deen we ways likes the extreme..... if we maintain balance in both the social fiber and Deen that's what Islam is all about... Don't create another extreme like the other molvis are doing. Try to propagate balance not the extreme....
agreed ... Mr Sahil Adeem is talking on extremes
"Balance " here means....my way of interpretation of Book
Islam to bohot pyara mazhab hey
Me apki bat se itefaq zaror kerti hn lekin orten agr Apne huquq ki bat karengi to talaq de ker bachon se b mehrom ker dijaingi hmare mashre me orat k sirf faraiz or mardo k huquq hote hain Jo k ek orat hi te kerti hai Jo k sas Hoti hai
بالکل ٹھیک کہا آپ نے ۔سر اب تو ایسا لگتا ہے کہ عموماً شادیوں پر گفٹ کی جانے والی 2 کتابوں ( تحفہ دولہن۔ ۔ تحفہ دولہا ) میں بھی ٹھیک اسلامی نقطہ نظر کے مطابق نہیں بتایا گیا ہوگا۔
اس بارے میں کیا کہتے ہیں؟؟
جی لگتا تو یہی ہے
In Islam woman is only to raise kids in the best manner, and men are responsible to take care of home. Our Prophet (SAW), used to work all the house work and even mend his clothes himself
Safai to nisf emaan hai, ghar ki safai aurat khud nai kray gi to kon kray ga?
Uff meray ALLAH 22 saal ho gay mjhe is debate ko hr jga chairty huay... lectures ko Search krty huay... mjhe ak jga bhi koi shakhs asa na mila...jo biwi k haqooq bta skay...sb is k faraiz btaty aur shohar k haqooq btaty...main sochti kia meray Nabi saww asay ho skty hain k shohar k haqooq btaye aur biwi k bhul gay ( نعوذباللہ )...wo jo parosion k bta gay...janwaron tk ki bta gay....wo biwion k mamlay ma asa kahain gay jo hmaray molvi kah rhy hain...ma ne bahir ki dunia k ulma karam ko suna wo to bilkul hi mukhtalif bat krty hain hmaray molvion se....lkn ye bat ma apne logon ko kasay btaun , smjhaun...kun k ye to follow krty hain (...) Ab asay molvion ne sach bat kasay btani....inhain to wara ni khati...inhon ne to khidmat lani ha apni biwion se...wo sb Ahadees ye chupa jaty hain jin ma aurton k haqooq ki bat ho rhi ho...aur phr jb yhi molvi bari umr k ho jaty hain...apni beti ki shadi ho rhi hoti ha...to damaad ko kan ma sari Ahadees btaty hain aur.. unhain biwion k haqooq k mamlay ma ALLAH se draty hain...asay hain ye chalak molvi.... shukr ha ALLAH ka Sahil bhai ap maidan ma aye...in molvion ko sahi nukail dali hui ha
Yes buht se mard aesa huta hn. Par buht sari uartain aesi hn Jo APNA bndo ko apni family se Bhan bhiyu se door Karti hn
Ji. Saas bhi ksi zamanay me bahoo hua krti hai. Ap log khud hi aik doosray k dushman ban jaty ho.
Majority of women jo k abhi bahoo hain aur apny saas susar k rawaiyo pr unhein complaints hain, yehi bahowein agay ja kr jab saas banein gi to yehi kuch apni bahuwon k sath bhi krein gi.
Jab ap log khud apny baito ko apni biwiyo k sath khush nhi daikh sktay aur ap se bardasht nhi hota k shohar apni biwi ko izzat day, aur ap ko insecurity ho jati hai k kahin mera beta mere influence se bahir nikal jae ga, to phr ap ko realize krna paray ga where the problem is.
What can be done? We have to live in this society, with these ppl
Be the one to go against the system and dump the system in the trash can
Relatives ki itni involment hotii hai life main ky 90 percent divorce hoty Hain .ourut apny hakooq jan b ly tb b kch ni honaa JB Tk mrd apny hakooq ni janty .gr mrd ny bchana hota .na ky Bs ourut NY .Islam itna asan hai yh pta ni kn SA Islam hai Jo susralii dekhty Hain ...
bilkul Sahii, SubhanaAllah
بہت اچھے اور معلوماتی بیان ہوتے ہیں
shohar. hazrat. jin k affiar. chaly. hoy. han un ka. kia. ho ga?
Ma to khud yae khty hun pakistan to ban gya but still we live in hindu culture afsosssss khuda hmy maff kry or hidayat dy
حضرت فاطمہ رضی اللہ عنہا اپنےمبارک ہاتھوں سے اپنے گھر ۔شوہر اور بچوں کے کام سر انجام دیتیں تھیں ۔۔جو ان پر فرض تھا ۔۔۔اور پوری طرح اسلام کو فالو کرتیں تھیں ۔۔فرائض واجبات پر مکمل عمل اور بہترین اخلاق کے لئے سنتوں پر عمل عورت کی زندگی سنوار سکتا ہے
سسر ساس دیور نندوئی کے کام نہیں کرتی تھیں
صرف ساس سسر نہیں ساس کی بہن بھائی سسر کا بھائی
@@jeenahytojagobilkul thk kaha AP ny yahn to or yahi nai in SB KY bachy bhi
Ya Jo zikar Aya ha uartain ziyda jhanum ma jae GI Jo buri uartain hn wo APNA husbnd ko barri hushyari se us k Bhan bhiyu se door kar dati hn
السلام علیکم۔ ساحل صاحب سے سوال کچھ اوور تھا اور جواب کچھ اور دیا۔ بہر حال ان کے مطابق شادی کے بعد بیوی سے گھر کے کام کروانا گناہ ھے کیں کہ آپ اللّٰہ کے ڈالے گئے فرائض کے علاوہ اور کام اس کے ذمہ لگا رھے ھیں۔ تو جہاں تک میری سمجھ میں آیا ھے کہ شوھر صبح سے شام تک معاش کما کر لائے اس کے بعد گھر آ کر کھانا بناے اور بیوی کو کھانا پیش کرے۔ پھر گھر کی صفائی کرے اور پھر کپڑے بھی دھونے ھیں۔ پھر والدین کی بھی ذمہ داری ہے ان کی بھی خدمت فرض ھے۔ اگر ھم معیار پر صحابہ کرام کو پرکھیں تو وہ بھی پورے نہیں اترتے۔ ان کی بیویاں گھروں کے سارے کام کرتیں۔ بلکہ ایسے واقعات بھی بیان کئے جاتے ہیں کہ چکی چلا چلا کر ان کے ھاتھوں میں گٹھے پڑ جاتے تھے۔ اس کو آپ کس طرح جسٹیفائی کریں گے۔
بیوی کے بہت سے خرچے ایسے بھی ہیں جو کہ شوہر کے ذمے نہیں اسلام میں لیکن مرد پھر بھی کر دیتا ہے اسی طرح بہت سے کام عورت پر فرض تو نہیں مگر وہ کر دیتی ہے اسی طرح باہمی تعاون سے گھر چلتا ہے اور تعلقات اچھے رہتے ہیں ۔
وہاں شوہر عیاشی نہیں کرتے تھے زنانی جوارے نکمے نہیں تھے
sir mera question py plz aik video bnye ga ye ky jo jaeb khrach pocket money shadi ki sharait m shamil hoty h wo bivi ko har maheeny milny chye ya nahi milny chye mera only 5000 pocket money h monthly ki mgr mera shahar mujy 1000 b nh dety or khty h ky jo m tumhy khila pila rha ho whi hi tumhra jaib kharch he jbky apny parents ko monthly lakho ropy deta h
Onle one thing which pakistani husbands love to do towatds their wifr, is... Disrespect
They can not give anything else to theirs wives.
Mery beti ki separation issi waja sy ho rai ha, saas susar aor Shadi shuda nand ne nokrani bna k rakha aor zaleel alg sy krty. Aor uss ka shohar ye Sb jaiz smjhta. Aor kharcha Aik paisa b nai dy raha
YAHI tu waja Hoti hai talaq ki, bachpan Mae Jo buzurgon nae zehen Mae daal diya, beti JIS Ghar Mae سولی jaa rahi hai usee Ghar se janaza niklae gaa
Unn SO CALLED ULEM SE ALLAH POOCHHAE GA KE BACHIYON KI ZINDIGI KYUN BARBAD KI
Main ne jab bahishti zevar main parha ke agar khawand kahe ke aik pahar per charh ke utro to mujhe apne aurat hone per rona aane laga .Bas phir baqi book nahi parhi
عورت کے جو حقوق مرد کے ذمے ہیں مرد اگر پڑھ لے تو اس کو بھی رونا آجاے گا
وہ بھی بہشتی زیور میں لکھے ہیں۔مصنف مولانا اشرف علی تھانوی
Ap ne kisi haq ko mention NHI kia just bataen hi ki haen
Not impressive talk
BOOK he is talking about is HOLY QURAN. I am astonished and shocked as how people are asking which book? If you read Quran with understanding as Allah has meant it to be than you will know he is talking absolute truth and truth hurts.
Jo aurat parda na kare namaz roze se door ho magar joint system ko ghair Islami kahe to us ko kya kahain
This has nothing to do with Islam. This is age old cultural issue has nothing to do with religion. Husband and wife need to respect each other parents as their own. All these kind of issue rise out of pure ignorance.
konsi book parhi ha name pta kara dy please
You r true.but in the same way,In islam this is not a duty of man to provide AC in summers and heater in winters. And not to buy makeup for her
The name of book please that you read about wife’s rights I want to read it and make my son and daughter read it too. Inn shaa Allah Jazak Allah khair
And I have read surah Nisa word by word with grammar and with sehi ahadeeth
Behishti zewar
Mardo k b parh lena
Kia pta aqal aa jaye
It’s Quran.
Jin huqooq ka pata he wohi nhi mil rahe
Hur huq k leye lrdna prdta he lrdkyon ko or woh thuk jati he apne leye smjhate smjhate 🥺
اِن اللہ مع صابرین
May Allah bless you always and give you long life Ameen
Is aik buland darjey ki mudakhlat har muamley mai hoti hai 😢. Agar aurat apney haqooq pr awaz uthati hai to usko badzuban, jahannami, badkaar, badbakht, nashukri ke tamaam alqabat se nawaza jata hai aur maikey waley hi support nhi kerte to dusrey kahan se karen gey 😢
Sahil book ka name Q ni btatay?? Konsi prhen??
بسم الله
MashaAllah Sir ji
True true ...
Assalamualaikum sahil bhai. Iv read bahishti zaiwar.i dn knw but i personally feel that, that book doesnt match our islamic teachings. I dn knw but i felt that im themost siner person in ths world aftr readg that book. The way it mentioned that u cant even speak infront of ur husband. Uv to obey him at any cost. And u cant step out of your house.
Sir its vvv difficult to change husband mentality in pakistan. Cz thy hv grown up like this. Unfortunately,Iv seen, relations has been broken up just cz of these issues.
The book you've mentioned , can you please tell me which sect is it from if you don't mind?
@@zakiyaeqbal8939 dewbandi
He said he couldn't read it past few chapters
میں نے بھی یہ کتاب پڑھی ہے کافی چیزیں ٹھیک لکھی ہوئی ہیں عبادت اور وضو اور غسل وغیرہ کے بارے میں پر شوہر کے حقوق بہت سخت لکھے گئے ہیں اس میں اور ایسی باتیں لکھی ہوئی ہیں کہ آج کے دور میں عمل کرنا بلکہ کسی بھی دور میں ناممکن ہے اور ایک عورت کا قصہ لکھا ہے کہ اس کے شوہر کے بازار ی عورت سے تعلقات تھے اور وہ عورت اس کو کھانے بنا کر بھیجا کرتی تھی اور اس کا شوہر کبھی نہ کبھی اس سے خوش ہو ہی جائے گا ۔۔۔۔جبکہ ساحل عدیم نے حدیث بیان کی تھی کہ اگر زانی مرد کے ساتھ عورت گزارا کرے تو اللہ تعالیٰ اس پر لعنت فرماتے ہیں کہ وہ طلاق کیوں نہیں لیتی ۔۔۔۔اور بیوی کے حقوق اس کتاب میں بیان کیے گئے ہیں لیکن بہت مختصر عورت کی محبت و حمایت میں ایک لفظ بھی نہیں لکھا۔ جسکی وجہ ایک عالمہ سے پوچھی تو یہ بیان کی گئی کہ اپنے حقو ق تو عورت کو معلوم ہی ہونگے اسلیے تفصیل سے نہیں لکھے مولانا اشرف علی تھانوی نے۔۔۔۔۔ان کتابوں کے ساتھ ساتھ صحیح احادیث کی کتابیں بھی پڑھیں سیرت النبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم لازمی پڑھیں قرآن کریم ترجمہ تفسیر سے مطالعہ کریں جب ہی صحیح علم ملےگا۔ اسلام میں لونڈی کے حقوق پڑھ کر میرے ہوش اڑ گئے تھے خود سمیت تمام بر صغیر کی خواتین پر بڑا ترس آتا بے ابھی بھی آنکھوں میں آنسو ہیں عربی عورتوں پر رشک بھی آتا ہے ۔ ہمارے یہاں براے نام آزاد عورت کا بھی وہ مزاج نہیں جو عرب کی 1444 سال پرانی لونڈی کا نخرہ تھا( میں دین دار خواتین کی بات کر رہی ہوں فیمنزم کی پیروی کرنے والوں کی نہیں) کیونکہ اس بیچاری کو اپنے بارے میں صرف یہ بتایا یا محسوس کرایا جاتا ہے کہ وہ اس دنیا پر صرف ایک بوجھ ہے اس کے کسی قسم کے چاؤ چونچلے نہیں ہونے چاہئیں اس کو تو بس ساری عمر رشتوں کے بوجھ اٹھانے کے لیے پیدا کیا گیا ہے ۔یہاں جنگل کا قانون ہے جو سب سے زیادہ کمزور ہے بس اس ہی کی گردن دباؤ ۔
Absolutely right about rights of a woman and faraiz but funny, that he mentioned "ghar ki safai kerna bhi farz nahin hay", tou bhai hamsai ko bulwa kay safai kerwani chahiye kia? I think he has slightly gone off the track here :)
Please do provide reference of books you read
Bahishti zewar
Bibi aapko kia ghlt lg raha hai btain aap koi hadees bta do k susar saaas k paon dho etc ya ghr k kaaam kro etc
Behtreen bat ki hai. Jar pakar li apne.
Sahilbhai hazrat faitima ka apnay walid say helper ka taqaza app Bhool gy .... Unkay hathon k chalay app Bhool gy....
Sahilbhai orat apny Ghar k Kam Karti hy ... Us k paisy li demand kia BAAT karrahy hyn app!?!?!?!?!?
There are many things that i agree on with Sahil but this is totally wrong about the family system. Only for the parents the rest of the family and relatives i don't consider should be the responsibility of the guy and his wife but Parents are the sole responsibility of the Husband and his wife, just like their children are.
Bohat zabardast baat ki aao Kuch asi books k reference bhi de den to aasani ho jaye gi
Allah hi apko ajar dy sktay hein...hum pakistani nahi dy sktay...Allah apko ibrahim A.S ka hamsaya bnayen...pta hi ab chlta hai deen hai kia...
Assalamu alaikum Sahil please always mention ka names of books and reference , it's important to get to know
Sir please ap jo book ap refer kr rahe hen us ka naam bta den.
Name that book plz
Bohat haq bohat haq kon se haq btaya hi nai
Really need the book name plz
He has mentioned many times Holy Quran
Sahi kaha
Jo problems ye bta rai hain Waisy same problem Meri beti ko face krna pry. Aisy jahil log hain k sapration he laina pr rai ha
Ye kahan hota he ab....yahan to halaat bilkul reverse hain ab...haan un maashron me hain jo social media ni dekhty...aur ab msael badal rehy hain...waqai ab saas ki umar poochi jati he...larka maa ki khidmat kry...bhuri maa ko 1 suit ly k dy de...wo b brdaasht ni hota ab bahu se...in msaael pe b baat honi chahiye...
Chaalain Sab choorain ummahat ul momeenen ki koi bat bata dain k unhon nay rasul Allah say paisy ka taqaza kia....!?!?!?
Nauzubillah
جی کیا تھا
قرآن مجید میں ہے
پاکستان میں تو برائ بہت ہے لیکن کچھ اچھے لوگ ہیں
ماشاءاللہ
Please us book ka naam bata de jiska sahil saheb jikr kar rahe hai
Well said 💯💐👍
Konsi books parhen .. name them plz
Plz mention the haqoq of woman 👩 n one line duties as well ……
Khud prh on apni zndgi sy 1 month nkaal k 5 6 books prh ln
Kon see book peray orat Apnay haqokoq k lay jes mae us ko pata ho mae na apni life kasay gozarni ha kise ko pata ho to please batae thanks 🙏
Bhai sahil yehan app ki sarie baat maan li per ye batain ajka ye implement kaisay hoga 2nd ye batain biwian phir sara din malka bangain tou ghar aur aulad kon sanbhalaiga,zara idher roshni dalain roty hotel say aigi kapray z cleaner say dhulker aingay khana pc say aur bachay tou ghar he rahaingay,baqol apkay biwi ko tou salary daini hogi,so
Wo wo batain bata rhe hain jo islam me actually hain, islam me biwi ko sirf shohar and bachon ka khayal rakhna hai or jab shohr bahr ho toh uske ghar or maal or izzat ki hifazat karni hai. Islam me sirf yahi demand hai aurton se or yahi cheez farz hai, baaqi cheezain ap khud decide karlein or apni duties divide karlein, inke kehne ka matlab sirf yeh hai ke jo bhi hai par FARZ nhi hai. Farz cheez na karein toh ghunaah milta hai baaqi cheezain jo Allah ne farz nhi qaraar di unhein na karne se koi gunaah nhi.
I agree
Belkul sir ye Islam mein ye Cheez Nhe Hy mgr Islam mein ye Cheez wazia Hy Apny Akhlaaq ka Dairaa Asa Rako k Ap Koh b Woh Izat Mely jiska ap Koh Haq Hy Agr ap Kisi k Sath Akhlaaq k Sath Yaa Muhabbat say peesh Nhe aty toh per Apny Leia b woh Cheez Wasy he Pasand kro Joh Dosron kleia Pasand Karti ho
Uff level ha Boss!
JazakAllah sir, sir please wo books ka name mention krden main parhna chahta hon please.
Sir can you plz suggest any specific book on this topic where we can read the rights of married girl and boy?
Urdu m nhi milen gi bol to rhy hain k urdu m aik book parhi us m bh Pakisraniyat dikha di gai.
Islam pe sahi literature Arabic m mil sakta hy urdu m nhi Q k urdu m likney waley sub male ego k mary huey hain.
@@vs-qf6lo lekin uss arbi wali book ka urdu tarjuma b to ho skta hy k hua ho
Islam achay akhlaaq aur ihsaan ki taleem deta hay
Assalamualaikum
Konsi kitab parhi h sahil bhai ap ne i want to read it too
Main nay Civic walo kee biwio ko mar khtayy dykh hai wo phir bhee kush nazar atee hai or khti hai mard ko roob daar hon chae hai maa baaap say shikayat nahe krti
Or
Middle class 5 digit wali salary walay ko biwi ka khayal rkhty dykha hai par wo biwi ke extra shopping 5 star dinner or ladki k bhyn Bhaio k kharcho walay haqooq poray nahe kr pata to is liyay os k Thora sa lahja kabhee sakht ho jay to phir Duniya ko pta lag Jata hai mard kitna zalim hai
A.a kindly tell us that books which u have read
Well, this is the thing. A woman's mother in law is like her own mother. Spending time away from home responsibilities, under the garb of learning arabic grammar, attending islamic classes, oh come on. thats just running away from responsibility. Remember Haqooq ul ibad is also important. Its basic courtesy to look after your in laws or any guest that comes over.
😂 beta you should read the islamic responsibilities of bahu and what our hinwana shitty culture give...and btw huqooq ul ibad also implies on saas ,nand and on other in laws,what your so called stance on that...
Kuch lerkian b shadi k bad merdun ko un k maan baap or behn bhaion k kareeb nai janay daiti so plz lerkion ko b naseehat karain k kam sy kam khud nai krni izzat ya khidmat kion k un per ferz nai ha is liay ., to plz jis per ferz ha US ko to krny dia karain
Kash jo book apny parhi uska nam b bata daity, but never....
Quran e Pak ki baat ho rahi hai
Kindly mention the name of the book he has been referring to regarding rights of women.
Sahih hadees ki kitaben sari parhen khas Tor pr azdawaji zndgi se mutaliq chapters read kren unme......sb Kuch khula khula likha hai
Assalam o alikum
Sr i want to join ur projects but from where i can join these projects.. plz guide me
Not safe to live without the support of husbands family , there is a sense of security and protection, there are ppl around who can intervene when husband wrongs his wife
Do you think Allah have not been able to think about it. Nauzubillah. Mostly the reasons for divorce lie in joint system
We should not use our intellectual level against Allah the Almighty.
Balance should be in place
Unfortunately this is also happening in western countries where parents bring naive girls for their son thinking shadi ker do beta theek hi jai ga.
Then in-laws treat the girl for their benefit. Funny these people follow a so called renowned person from Karachi Mr Babar. It’s sad to see but no wonder Islam gets a bad name due to these type of people
Yeah this is the main issue, aurat ko sirf apne haqook ki pari hoti hai , mard k haqook pay koi pta nhn.khod mard ko nhn pta hota
Which book is he talking about for rights of wife in islam?
Yar sahil sir say request karian Kay Khuda ka wasta hai books ka naam bhee bataya karain na bahi..???? Saree video Mai aap books books kartay rehtay Hain... Even Seerah takk ke books ka aap naam nae batatay..???? Hamain kia ilham hoga yeh Kay aap konsee books ke baat kar Rahay Hain..??? Bahiiii naam batao takay hum bhee parhain na uss ko...
Which book is it?
Please tell the name of these books....,