16 Personalities at the Therapist
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- 16 Myers Briggs Personalities in Therapy
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Did you mean to make the intj look sarcastic?
An intj would say that, but not sarcastically
Which personality did you mean to represent after ISTP? The fellow who was exploring Victoria’s Secret?
Just realized I think we need to memorize the outfits since you’re going back & forth between personality types this time...that might be confusing, it’s 16 types. 😬 but let’s see what the people say.
Liolia It’s INTP
Holly N yeah, thanks, I realized that upon re-watching. INTP shows up again like 2 more times.
Meanwhile, ENFP can’t seem to get over whatever meme fully expressed his emotions, and appears to have nothing more to say, which makes no sense, considering ENFPs are known for being verbose and long-winded (as I am demonstrating here 😆) The meme would have been the start of like 5 tangential thoughts. I get the sense Frank hasn’t had the best experience with us ENFPs, we tend to be represented as flaky in his videos. 🤷🏻♀️
Anyway, I watch these not only to look for my own personality type but to learn about other types, and found the switches back and forth for only some of the personality types to be a bit confusing. May just be me.
Hey Frank, this is gonna sound weird but a fellow MBTI CZcamsr(Geek Psychology) is looking for an INFJ to help him whittle down his super cool MBTI gaming character concept for your type. I'm an INFP and can't help but you were the first person I thought of that would be, like perfect for the task! Lol Check out his very latest vid from today, if you're down. Hope you guys connect! It would be an awesome collaboration! (I told him the same in his comments) Hope it works out! 😊💚
Therapist: tell me your problems
INFJ: no. Tell me YOUR problems
So me. 🤣
I know right and that’s almost what it’s like to be one, because in the past I’ve be to a therapist and because I knew less about the Therapist I would tell them less about me
Dude, this is so truue.. The other day I had a online counseling session and I constantly need to fight the urge to make sure the counselor has been doing fine counseling people from home
@@hanimoon1422 lmao 🤣
I LITERALLY got my counselor to tell me all her problems, had her cry to me, and even after a year she couldn't figure me out 😂
me, an infp: it all started when i was born
I’m pretty sure I have said that a couple of times 😂
A computer fell on my head when I was a baby 😍
So accurate
LOL YES
LEGIT!!
INTP: "I already figured out exactly whats wrong with me, I just need you to confirm that I'm right"
HOLY CRAP THATS SO TRUE
YES
That's actually exactly what happened with me... I'm an INTP and i figured out a long time ago that I had Chronic Depression, ADHD and GAD and in my very first session with my therapist i told her that that's what I had and in the next few sessions she was like "Yup, you were right"
“I already figured out exactly what’s wrong with me and I know how to fix it, but I won’t for some reason and I need you to help me even though I will treat you with extreme skepticism whenever you disagree with me, tell me something I didn’t know and/or tell me to take an active role”
@@SpawnOfYogSothoth2387 that was where i really connected with my therapist because she was a master's and was genuinely able to tell me things i didn't know before
As a INFP, I can confirm I always search the origins of everything of my life in the past and analyze it to comprehend myself
Same-
omg i also do that
still coulndt find-
Fr when he said it all started when, I just knew it's INFP Hahahha
Spoiler: it's always about parents
INFP is just 4% of the earth
The whole comments section : *INFP*
Yeah... But why?!
@@cosmic_life infp is introvert, we doesn't like to communicate in real life more than we love social medias... We feel much comfortable...
It's hard to find an INFP in real life...
We prefer staying home and not going to social events and stuff...
Sorry I'm bad at explaining
We are uniting 💪
This comment section can't even total to the 4% of the entire population (7 billion)..... So that is kinda a possible ~ an ENFP
same with INFJ. It´s 1-2% of the population and everyone is like: same..
INFJ slowly sinking into the seat while explaining how figuratively heavy things are. YES.
Patricia Bansil so accurate!
We keep moving while we talk like idiots 😂😂
Stop exposing me like this
So very accurate 😂
Yes 😂😂😂
“I wrote everything down in my notes app-“
oh it’s INTP isn’t it
“INTP”
*sigh*
ikr 😂😂😂😂
Yep thats me lmao
Considered therapy. Is that normal for an INTP? I've got partial notes on like pretty much every part of my life. I think I'd treat it more like a sanity check and sounding board. That's what therapists are for, right?
i felt so attacked, my notes app has basically my whole life in it lmaoo
i fear intp notes could be not theraphy related all.
no events listed where they felt anything..
INFP being depressed because of every tiny little disappointment in life. Accurate.
I think it is more INFPs see through the lies which others are oblivious to or just ignore.
I mean, I'm INFP but I'm 0 percent depressed.
@@BumpDev :0 impossible
@@user-gm5xi9no9l little did I know that I will start feeling depression 1 week later... I started getting depressed from quarantine like 2 days after commenting..
@@BumpDev there you go, now u r officially one of us ( not that it is a good thing )
I love how INFP's Fi already knows exactly what the problem is and how it started...we just don't know what to do about it 🤷♀️
Anna Dohanich exactly!
Yep!
Fi?
Exactlyyyy
@@gabrielpascual9986 Introverted Feeling. It's an INFP's first cognitive function
Therapist: Tell me about your problems.
INFJ: No.
"No, you wouldn't understand, and I don't want to be patronized."
@@anival9576 i felt that!
Thats me
me
Same
“The very fabric of reality has become worn and frayed like a worn cardigan sweater” -INFP
Haha so accurate
Indeed... let the metaphors commence
I think I'll be using that metaphor in the future...simple but beautiful in its deep meaning...
why do I relate so deeply to this 😭
Accurate-
My father: Santa Klaus don't exist!
7 years old Me: I already knew that! I love fantasy worlds but this worlds sucks. If you don't mind I will spend my last 14 years playing videogames because this is more easy than try to overcome my fears and envolve social abilitys.
As an INTJ, one of my favorite phrases is "I'm only half joking" which means I am joking, but what I said is completely true. I am often too blunt with people and try to be generous in the way I explain things so people dont get upset.
omg same I am an intj and that is me as well
Male 100% assertive INTJ here: I don't even bother to explain to people what I meant - I deem them unworthy.
@@krzysztoftrojak9409 If I dont explain myself to people THEY explain THEMSELVES in a way that makes me look ignorant and stupid. In which I respond to this by unleashing my inner knowledge and years of thinking, with arguments and rebuttals I tear their points to shreds making them further question their standpoint. Thus making them look like a fool. But there are always those people that are too pathetic to understand when they are wrong or seeing from the wrong perspective. They resort to anger and threats and it is then that I realize these people weren't even worth my breath. And I realize I was only wasting my time.
"I hate people."
@@apollorook5475 .....How can this be is this...me?
@@Moody.Smiruai Great minds think "similar"....
At the end, I thought the INFJ will be revealed as everyone's therapist 😂
Plot twist! Love it!!
TOO REAL
As an INFP that seems to be my job with everyone I know. Everyone seems to come to me with their issues even though I'm a mess.
Who else is an INFJ learning psych?
Feeling Better lol my INFJ mind was enlightened when I first studied psyc. But then I know I have zero patiences to work as a therapist. U realize its not about reading people’s mind, because most of the time they don’t even want to know either😂. I don’t want to sit there all day just to listen to and find out people’s problems, but then deal with the fact that even they know the problems they still might not want to deal with it.
50 minutes later:
INFJ: So, you chose to become a therapist because you had a difficult childhood. Don´t be afraid. I understand you and I´m here to support you. Next session you can tell me more about this, ok
Therapist (INFJ) : no I'm here for you
So all INFJ have been a therapist’s therapist ? I’m not alone in this :)))
My therapist has to constantly keep me on track 😭
HAHAHAHA ME
IT ME. :O
Me, an INFJ: automatically starts crying when talking about anything remotely serious during my therapy session.
This is one of the main reasons why I haven't gone myself yet. How am I supposed to get better if all I'm gonna do is cry? Plus crying is something that I never want to do in front of my family, much less a stranger I don't know if I can trust.
Today, I cried on the way, before to go see the psychologist for the 2nd time.
At the end when I was outside, i watch my watch, and "What only 30min?" I cry more on the way after in the tramway, when walking, at home.
Cause I wanted to talk and doing so much more. We planed to talk about a thing, we finally talk about an other.
I was deceived, I cried more after than before. And I cried again cause the next session will be in 2 weeks.
Hard to be an INFJ with depression, very hard.
LITERALLYYY
Same!
But it just shows how much we need it... The emotion is still there, it doesn't go away if you don't let it out and keep it to yourself in order to avoid burdening others or because you feel they can't handle it, or what would they think of us or whatever. Therapy is when you have a person who's there to handle it.
@@Anja130195 It's said the problem you think you go for it's never problem that's distressing you. You'll be amazed at how they untangle your soul bit by bit, making questions and wording situations in a way you never thought before, it's like what we do but god's level of expertise. I guess you'll get to trust once you respect their hability to read you
If I ever went to therapy, I would just tell them anything that ever happened in my entire life that I could think of. So I'm not going
~INFP
That's what I did lol, I bet they were extremely confused because I went wayyyyy back also INFP btw
*sigh* I tried to explain my continuous existential crisis and he kinda looked at me like [•⍊•]
Once I opened up to my friend and i started with the incidents that happened when my mother was carrying me in her womb
Edit : I am not even joking. I really did.
Actually, alot happened when my mother was pregnant .The doctors says that a pregnancy where the mother is not mentally okay would always result in a weak child. My toxic grandfather (her father in law) made her suffer emotionally and hence, it affected the baby in her womb more than her. And the baby was me.
Ever since my birth, I am suffering. I am weak both mentally and physically. I don't even know why I am opening up in a comment section but I was assaulted by a man at the age of 5. I knew that something was wrong but I couldn't report because he had down syndrome. I didn't knew whether he did it intentionally or not and it still hunts me..
Now I am 16. I cry to sleep every night. I regret my existence.
@@ichinikochiniseokjinie7361 Please don't say that. You're here for a reason. I'm so sorry about what's happened in the past and even though it may not feel like it, it can make you stronger. I know it's really hard, trust me, but you will make it. You will accomplish whatever you've been dreaming of. It's rough, but it will be okay. You've got a friend in your corner - I'm just a comment but I'm here : )
@@ichinikochiniseokjinie7361 Hi. Sorry I didn't reply earlier.
I'm not sure my advice will work for you, since I'm not good at solving problems and I don't know you well enough, but I just want to tell you that you're only responsible for yourself. You don't have to feel bad for someone who hurt you just because they are in a difficult situation too. It's very kind of you to think about other person's perspective even in a situation like that, but you definitely don't owe him anything. His issues are his and your issues are yours and thus your issues should be more important to you. If you feel like you can't get over it and you need help, don't hold it in. You don't have to worry about him getting in trouble for it. And if you need an altruistic reason to do so, here's one: he might have hurt other people too and he might do it in the future. Even if his intentions weren't bad and he just didn't fully understand his actions, he should not be allowed to keep hurting other people. If it is possible, speak to some professional - therapist or lawyer, or to someone you trust.
Literally last week at therapy:
Therapist: you’re kind of hard to get to know
Me (INFJ): Im scared of traumatizing you
YESSSSS!!!! I have a literally said to people who push too hard early on for me to "open up" that I didn't want to scare them off.
Kimmberly Bowen Im INFP, but that was laugh out loud funny!!!! I love it...
@@louiseavannorden4710 I'm also INFP but think people will be scared off if I open up too much.
TheLadyDelirium I’m also an INFP 😂 and I personally LOVE when people open up to me and talk about their problems, because listening and giving advice is what I do best. And also (idk if you can relate lol) but it kinda takes the pressure off in a way. Like when the other person is vulnerable, you feel like you can be vulnerable too? Idk
@@elliem.9408 It is nice to know that our good listening skills and the ability to see a situation from numerous points of view, can help people we care about. I'm not sure about other INFP's but I'm not the gossipy type. I've got a lot of people's secrets stored in my head.
I think you're right about it taking the pressure off so that we can open up aswell. I either hardly say anything or overshare lol.
The problem of an INFJ is that you end up being the one trying to do therapy to the therapist eventually, in an attempt to focus on someone elses problems. Not to hide your problems, but because it just seems like a more interesting challenge.
Ofcouse... Isn't that the very reason we go to the therapist???
This is so true. I went to my therapist and she suggested I become a therapist..🤣🤣
almost the same thought as me...I feel like the Therapist is not going to be able to help me...if nobody else understands me why would he/she...focus on everybody else...if I fix everybody else I'll fix my own problems in the process😬
@@t.c9537 Exactly!
@@candicecfcl2971 same lol
INFJ struggle: when you realize that the therapist isn’t a healthy person at all by week 3, so you stop going and begin the search to find a different counselor...
Oooooorrrr go to the therapist and help them yourself xD
Feel ya bruh
Yes! Why are they qualified to discuss my emotions? They're a fellow human beings!
Honestly I got more out of talking to my sister than I did out of my therapist.
Or realise they're dumb
I feel INTP would be more like:
“Look, I know you’re just trying to do your job, but I’ll save you some time and hand over the 10 page summarized analysis I did of myself for you to review. I really think I made some progress in discovering the root issue. I’ll be back next week to look over your notes.”
ahhahahaha yes
INTP-A
here we are. If I didn't have as much respect for the profession, and was less productively lazy, I might do that too. But why I should I spend the time to write 10 pages when the that's the therapist's job, and also I can just deliver those 10 pages orally where it can be more dynamic and not so much stuck in personal thought experiments of my own that may or may not have any actual basis in reality and scientific study?
haha as an infp i do this too, i literally have a notebook dedicated to it.
Lololol I do it in my mind but usually don’t say anything cause I don’t wanna self-diagnose and be wrong, or worse, right
INFP saying everything in the form of poetry when comfortable enough is actually uncomfortably true.
INFP here. Can confirm.
INFP here. Can confirm (2)
INFP here. Can confirm (3)
INFP here. Can confirm (4)
Ahhh. Infp here. Confirmed(5) 😳
INTP be listing down all self-diagnosed ‘symptoms’ and be secretly excited to have a discussion about each one of them
Yes, I've never been to a therapist but I've done that with my doctor. I just don't need to take notes to remember the symptoms.
It's refreshing to see someone who has fun with it! 👍
I'm guilty
@FERREIRA 209 same here however when I was done playing that scenario in my head, I realized that after one session, my therapist would need a therapist.
Yes that totally true
Story from me, an INTJ: when I went to the therapist, I stressed so much about what could be wrong with me that I opened a note on my phone and listed every symptom I was experiencing from an objective perspective, before relaying it to my therapist. She asked me if I wanted to be a psychiatrist, and I said “... No. I want to solve this problem so I can function properly, so I listed my symptoms in hope that you could narrow it down. I know something is wrong, but I don’t know what, exactly. That is why I’m here.”
Because, to be honest, if I knew what the problem was, exactly, then I would have sorted it out myself without having to dig up my life story to a stranger.
It's kinda scarry, beacuse it's exactly what I said to my therapist (INTJ too)
THIS IS SO RELATABLE
@August Mi You can't open up if you rationalize EVERY FUCKING EMOTION you experience. The true curse of INTJs - we over analyze everything.
Infj here. I did that with every counselor I've met because I was terrified-yet I knew full well-that I had to deal with an actual problem.
@August Mi this is exactly what everyone says to me too (an INTJ)
When I went to therapy I just felt bad and uncomfortable and ended up saying “i’m fine” to whatever question even if that was a lie ~ INFP
💯
I'm an INFP too and also feel VERY unconfortable in therapy but I'm still trying hard because I really need it
same one day i was so uncomfortable that I end telling the plot of my favorite series instead of how I feel
I stop seeing my therapist bcs the conversation was too overwhelming and he even compared me to his other patients who experienced physical pain like tf?
INTP here, and honestly, same. Once my school made every student talk to the school psychologist and she was really nice but I was like "umm I don't know you? Why would I tell you anything about my life?" so I just said "yeah I'm fine" to everything she asked.
INFP is so true. When I finally realized that life is not a fairytale, it all went crumbling down. Reality... it was all a lie.
Reality sucks balls
As a INFP... Life is more magical an amazing than a fairytale, it just depends of the point of view ;)
Life is a fairytale, life is always a fairytale, I AM STILL WATING FOR MY LETTER FROM HOGWARTS ! (>n
I don't want reality!! I'm not accepting it, going back to my room! ..INFP
So true!!!
INTJ’s be using humour to deflect their deep existential thoughts but are lowkey proud of their disappointment in humanity
Don't call me out. I just find it a creative inspiration to hate humanity.
BRO IAM SO RELATED 🤣🤣🤣🤣
INTJ is the "Dad Voice" of MBTI
"I'm not angry, just constantly disappointed in you"
Bruh
What INTJ doesn't? 😐 (That's my laugh emoji. Get it.)
16 personality at theraphist
INTJ: wait, y'all ever go to theraphist?
INFJ: accidentally became our friends’ therapist
yes
but why is this so accurate?
Yep
....
I didn't even ask for it.. But, oh well... I don't have any friends but at least she's nice.
Or our therapist's friend! 😆
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 ISTJ
0:10 ENTJ
0:18 1:02 1:40 2:21 3:20 INTP (me)
0:33 ESFJ
0:42 ISFP
0:49 1:33 ENFP
0:55 ISTP
1:15 ESFP
1:26 ISFJ
1:53 ESTP
2:03 INTJ
2:14 ENTP
2:29 ENFJ
2:35 INFP
2:58 ESTJ
3:04 INFJ
This makes me question why there's so much INTP in this sketch lmaooo
@@Raev222 Because INTPs like me are the ones who need therapy the most. :)
@@amrumufid2218 Yeah man, reddit is a tough place..
@@Raev222 Not as tough as a Xbox live chat.
Because we are curious and need answers
0:00 ISTJ
0:11 ENTJ
0:18 INTP
0:33 ESFJ
0:41 ISFP
0:49 ENFP
0:54 ISTP
1:01 ?? INTP
1:14 ESFP
1:27 ISFJ
1:34 ?? ENFP
1:39 ?? INTP
1:53 ESTP
2:03 INTJ
2:14 ENTP
2:21 ?? INTP
2:29 ENFJ
2:35 INFP
2:57 ESTJ
3:03 INFJ
1:01 INTP
1:34 ENFP
1:39 INTP
2:21 INTP
I cracked up when he went back to these
@@kwphl Same 😂
There's some mysterious people in there lul
1:34 ENFP
Thank you 🥰
Oh my god.. I'm INFP and i was so looking forward to when you're gonna mention me.. Evertime a new character talked i was like no.. Maybe.. No no no.. Then the white shirt guy said : "it all started in the third grade" with dramatic music.. I was like ohhh this is it.. Then he said "the fabric of reality" and i was like "YEP!!" and i laughed so hard 😂😂😂and i just knew😂😂.. Thank you this is great 💙💙
Right? That was also my reaction 😂
YES!
I knew immediately because of the shirt :D
“And how does that make you feel?”
INTP: “processing....”
Result: Curious?
My therapist: “What are you feeling right now?”
Me, an INTJ: “Uh... Could you make it multiple-choice, please? Heh.”
so truee
Therapist: how does that make you feel?
INTJ: I'm not sure, but I think....
AHAHAHAHAHHA...this is painfully true
I usually say, "Nauseated or hungry." My therapist will say she wants to know how I feel emotionally. I then look at her funny and say, "Dehydrated?"
I’m so indecisive I need multiple choices in every aspect of my life
“It all started in third grade...”
Me: “OMG this is the INFP”
Hahaha I know myself too well.
magicpony9 same I was like this ones mine
Same... I just sat there, waiting for the confirmation with a sneaky feeling.
SAME
Same lololol
Samee tho
As an INTP-T who recently wrote my problems in my notes app to show to my therapist before I watched this video I feel personally attacked.
I am an INTP. I feel this personality is misunderstood. The awkward aspect of the personality is played up. Many forget about their theoretical minds and ability to organically evolve. INTP many not really cater to social norm but that doesn’t make them weird. At times they don’t follow social norms because they’ve got more pressing and important things to study. FYI Albert Einstein is also a INTP.
@@janeann3331 true, but I'm no Albert Einstein. I'm an INTP, just not a very smart one.
@@joesr31 as a smart INTP I can confirm I prepared notes for each therapy session- the difference is I memorised them.
@@ClockworkAnomaly I have everything prepared in my head. I am unable to write anything down. I'm smart too, I think. At least they tell me I'm too smart for my own good.
As an INTP who's just started going to therapy I relate so hard. I've rehearsed in my head and organized a ton of stuff to talk about, but doubt I'll ever actually get the time to discuss it all, so I had to organize it into priorities and determine which are probably the most relevant. And I can't tell you how pleased I was in the first session when my therapist said should send her an email before every session with a rundown of what's up and things I'd like to discuss in the upcoming session. She now receives, like, a whole essay ... which I always turn in 20 mins before session start, because procrastination is one of my problems.
This is one of the most relatable comments I've ever read
INTJ: "and that I can't stand humanity" honestly true
ALASTOR HOLMES I relate so hard too
I think this is just rationals in general. INTP and I think this every couple days to weeks.
I say that every 10 minutes, I thought it was just me that think that way, but I guess it's normal in this personality?
That's literally me everyday but I rather help humanity then being useless...
why does every intj say that? are you all stereotypes because I definitely do not feel like I hate humanity
"I'm not depressed.Could a depressed person get up,go to work and deal with everyone else's problems,all day,everyday until you are nearly crushed by the collective emotional weight of it all...I don't think so"
-INFJ
Well...tru-
lol
Therapist: “Oh hey! How are you, it’s been months?”
INTJ: “We meet again at last. The circle is now complete, when I left you I was but the learner now I am the master.”
Therapist: 😦
😂😂😂 I love it.
Only a master of evil, Darth.
As an ENFP I confirm the "I've saved the perfect meme for this" part
Lol, as ENFP, I would go and say, “I really need help, I swear I’ll try to make my situation short when I talk about it so you have time to respond-“
*insert four hour life story*
Yeah, me too 😅..
The best- I wanna stop myself but I somehow don't manage too :')
That was literally my EXACT phrasing before I rambled for a full hour to my counselor 😅
Lmao exactly me
Le me in a nutshell
2:57 immediately reminded me of this:
Therapist: you're overthinking
Me: what if-
Therapist: don't
Me: WHAT IF
Therapist:
Me: what if everyone else is underthinking
😂😂😂
INTP
*but you could be right*
Loraine Christinat hahahahah I have said this before too
The infp is accurate ..... and speaking for myself i'd probably be crying too
i would be doing something weird cause i don't like to cry in front of people so it would be trying not to cry, but crying though, while my anxiety shout in my brain -"don t tell anything u are exaggerating", so i would be talking so fast and without any sense cause i am overthinking while speaking and while i try not to speak... that's why i don't go to therapy.
Sorry for bad languaje, English is not my first language
Therapist: How do you think someone would react in that situation?
Me, INTJ, talking to therapist: Well....everyone is different, so I can't say how someone would react. They _should_ do what's best for them, but everyone's idea of "best" is different.
Therapist: *smiles nervously*
As an INTJ i thought it was a completely normal answer but then i saw the *therapist smiles nervously* and i realised it may not be a completely normal answer
@@arfar.m lol yeah. It was an actual experience I had. Afterwards, the therapist said they wanted an answer based off of how _I myself_ would react in that situation. Then just ask how would I react in that situation 🤷
@@KitsuneFyora I understand. Should've asked that beforehand bc those are two different questions."How do u THINK someone would react to the given situation?" vs "How would u react to the given situation?" It'd have saved time and well the effort it takes to socialize lol.
The INFJ was too real, I often think to myself, "I'm okay, my emotions are in check, I can function, etc. etc.", then when I go out into the real world, meet people, that's when it all piles up.
😅😅😅
LOL true
This.
Damn ikr
@@jellyfishi_ I'm so sorry. For me, is the compulsion for helping people the thing that fills me with worries. It almost feel like an obligation to make everybody around me thrive.
I’m INFJ. I used to interview my therapist first and ask her how she was doing. Lol she would respond, talk and then realize what I was doing lol 😆
Niceee haha
that’s such a good idea, i need to use that!
As an infj I love this comment
I did this too and then she stopped answering in depth lmao
sometimes I do that to my teachers and classmates without knowing,but especially if someone is trying to get me to talk about my feelings
Me: (watches ISTP)
Also me: never have i been so offended by something i completely agree with.
Same. On the off chance that I am having feelings, why should other people need to know about them?
Me, a 15 year old INFJ: How can I be AT the therapist if I AM the therapist? 🙃
Can relate I actually wanna do smth related to physchology in the future :) I'm actually the therapist friend in my friend group already haha.
My therapist is helping me connect with human emotions. Apparently hunger does not count as an emotion.
INFP is pretty accurate- knowing exactly what's going on inside, poetic description
I feel ashamed of the poetic description, but it's the only way I can express myself sometimes lol
Yeah but the problem itself I have issue with - it would be something more like an unintentional insult someone said.
Yeah, I'm not depressed, I'm just everyone's spiritual trashcan. (INFJ) 😂
😅😅😅
OMG, THIS.
ENFJ here- I feel this too. . especially since we attract people and they love using us INFJ and ENFJ's!!
Since childhood, OH YEAAA
Came here to say just that. Lol
Me, an INTJ with INTP and INFJ tendencies: "Mom, I have to go to the doctor and here are the reasons, but I won't go to a therapist until I say it's okay for me to go and open to a complete stranger and tell they things that I haven´t even told you. Now that is okay, are you sure that you can take me? Because I don't want you to spend too much money and my scholarship can help if you need to".
Me, at the therapist: "Here is why I'm here, I only know half of the issue because If I knew it completely I would have figured out how to solve it. Here is the list of what's going on and why do I think is happening, I need to have it done as soon as possible because I need to function proplerly. I knew it from a long time ago but I didn't want to make my mom or anyone feel worried so I figured out how to deal with it because It wasn't so bad for me at the point of not functioning. Now I'm not functioning properly. Now I need your help".
Yeah, you're an INTP. Idk if you know functions, but INTPs use a process called "TiNeSiFe."
INTPs lead with a function called "Ti," which personally analyses problems the user deems necessary, dissecting them and removing all of the rubbish until it ends as a logical conclusion. This is often mistaken for the INxJ's tendancies to come to intuitive conclusions, when it is really just the INTP planning out a logical oath dependent on their personal experiences and what they precieve as the best logical course of action.
Their next function is Ne, the assisting function, which focuses on a single point in the tangible world and builds intuitive possibilities from it. It requires past inspiration and concrete information to be used, but it is what makes the INTP so intuitive. It also makes them second guess themselves a lot, which is why many INTPs may have trouble with their MBTI type, probably only behind the xNFPs in this regard. However, this is a bit more limited than Ti, and requires training and honing in order to be fully utilized.
The tertiary, or comfort function, is Si. Si is a sensory function, and requires a certain level of routine and stability in order to thrive. However, as it's lower in the concious stack, INTPs are relatively rudementary with this function. While high Si users like xSxJs would more likely use Si as a means to construct stable, functioning systems and routines to live by, INTPs usually use it to avoid the world in search of physical comfort, living a hermit-like life. This gives them the famous "recluse" vibe that is so often attributed to INTPs. It also contributes to memory in certain ways, but considering it's position, the INTP's sensory memory is often lacking in precision, at least unless it's something the INTP fully values and enjoys. However, this can also be honed into a more stable, moderated function that makes the INTP more responsible.
The inferior function is Fe, a feeling function. It focuses on emotional harmony, and seeks to unite the values of others into a working, efficiently ethical system of norms and customs. Basically, it wants to attend to the needs of others. INTPs have a very rocky relationship with Fe. It can be used well, and it's something they can understand, but they have a lot of trouble acting on it unless given practice. This gives the INTP their infamous "detached" stereotype, which is kinda true. We tend to view people as puzzles, and if we aren't careful, we may end up falling into embarrassing social endeavors. These experiences often leave a scar on the INTP's Ti, in which they logically conclude that relying on social tact and certain ethical principles will solve ALL of their problems. This isn't always the case. Have you ever wondered why INTPs are so common in MBTI circles? INTPs use Ti to understand Fe, and in doing so, they rely on cleverly crafted systems to work around the issue of intense, non-solvable emotions.
As an INFJ going to therapy i can relate this haha, also the therapist end talking more about him than me who im paying to be heard, yeah infj things
Therapist: So you're here because you're burned out...tell me how you feel
Me INFJ: Enough said about me...how are you doing
Lol literally me, except I didnt get infj when I took that quiz thang.
@@themoontalks focus on the cognitive functions...online tests are not flawless...I've got INFJ, INFP and ISFJ after taking the test several times...but I can't run from the fact that I'm an INFJ 😬
@@t.c9537 I'll have to look into it all more tbh, but I do resonate with infp, except that they seemed to be a very walked on class IMO
@@themoontalks not all INFPs are the same and that goes for INFJs too...I'm no magical Unicorn and I'm not psychic...I have a strong Intuition and I care to much for others and so on...but there're a lot of things I don't resonate with so search for your type without thinking so much about how you would be as a person if you were this or that type 👍
@@t.c9537 thanks xx
INTJ t-shirts: "I'm sorry I'm late, I didn't want to be here." "I'm not shy I just don't talk to stupid people"
J Mart felt that oh my god
I felt that as an INTP myself lol
I love the 2nd one :D that would be great in a t-shirt
I have that shirt. I am an Intj.
That was on point. 😂 make them and post the link
INFP: the moment I knew Santa Clous is not real... Something snap. I don't feel the magic in christmas morning anymore
Honestly, I never believed in Santa Claus or the tooth fairy. I just waited until I could catch people in their lies.
Me: Hm. This kind of sounds like me if I ever go to a therapist.
Video: INTP
Me: So that's why.
Nobody:
ENFP: hold up there's a meme for that
can relate
I have done that in therapy before, not gonna lie
FINALLY AN EXXX COMMENT!
Or a gif 😂😂
Hey, but that's pretty accurate
The INFP one is extremely accurate. We carry so much trauma with ourselves goshhh! 😂
We understand it after having spent time overthinking and scrutinizing all the evidence but its hard to be comfortable around people enough that you can share your discoveries.
@@saroojanvasanthakumar1510 until you found someone you're feeling comfortable with and then scare them away by telling them EVERYTHING
Vic indeed ahah xD
@@Lileiny Hahahaha story of my life 😂
That aco taco moment when you never tell anyone about your past trauma and your always the therapist friend for others and then when someone is the therapist friend for you you dump ALL of your trauma and family stuff onto them and scare off your friends
ENFP: "OH, u know, actually i saved the perfect meme for this, hold on".
I literally said the same thing to my therapist once.
This is so funny. I'm an INTP and I had some therapy and the lady told me that i did all the work for her by analysing all my 'issues' finding their relative root and linking them together and figuring out a way to 'fix' them myself. But then we managed to find an two issues i was suspecting and 'solving' those riddles was fun, even though i cant really change them XD. I over thought and analyzed myself so hard out of boredom and just an inability to stop that i did her job for her so i basically had a hour a week to gossip. The good old days, that was also the time i realized my trust issues don't stop me from over sharing, i give immaculate advice and i should probably not try to be a therapist coz im not sensitive enough to 'it will be okay honey' people that i think are being so unimaginable irrational wit their feelings. : )
So basically the INTP psychoanalysed himself before he even got there and is already prepared with an itemized list of topics.
Yeah that's me. (Only I keep the list in my head.)
Ikr except i CANT keep the list in my head, its too difficult to remember, ill go on tangents and forget what i wanted to say 1 second later or mid-sentence, the things always get lost in the clutter of my mind and thoughts and what to say next😂
By not needing a list youre already the most superior INTP of all of us 😂😂😂
Literally me, I think I know everything the therapist would want to know so I'll just skip that lmao
I will keep the list in my head, go through each point, go on tangents and then get back on road again.
Edit 3:20 But man, did I feel that.
Exactly, that was the off part. I don't make lists.
In reality INTJs sit quietly and wait for the Therapist to start a small talk
I would comply with the small talk as I learned to do and the therapist would get nothing from me at the end
@@side832 agreed from experience
"Why would I go to therapy? To sit for an hour? That's a waste of my time. I don't talk about problems anyway." ~ INTJ
Completely true
I hate that awkward time when I'm waiting for my therapist to say something helpful and she doesnt. Like, is it her that need the help in socializing?!
As an ENFJ, I can confirm that was incredibly accurate😂 like I don’t know what to do! Tell me!!😂😂
Me toooo!
For real... cut to the chase
So true- bold of the therapist to assume I can think for myself haha
Hahah omg same. I have when people go around the issue. When I went to my therapist she was like what do you think about this and this and I was like explain this pain and tell me what to do!!
Even though deep down I know the problem...
INFP is so damn accurate, you know why you're like this, you know how to get better but 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ It just feels nice to talk about it sometimes
As an INFJ, my therapy sessions usually start with us talking about how I should be more social and ends with me giving my therapist advice about her home decoration blog. Sinking in my seat while dying inside as I talk is also extremely accurate.
Inês Serra I always tell my therapists that I’ve had the displeasure in meeting “why do I know more than you”. Maybe we should switch places? Oh and I won’t be back. @Frank James
@@laraoneal7284 yeah ahaha I know exactly what you mean
Inês Serra Thanks Ines. If u check out Daniel Mackler Here on YT , a former therapist he will tell u therapist are so incompetent bc they don’t work on themselves FIRST. Daniel is amazing bc he’s done so much work on his family of origin dynamics which I have done so much of that right now I’m sick of it. Loved your post. Be well.
@@laraoneal7284 thanks, you too! I'll check it out. And it's so true, that's why I gave up being a therapist. I think I would be great at it, but I don't feel I can do it right without fixing myself first.
Inês Serra Right. At least you have the introspection to understand that. They say us INFJs are natural psychologists bc of our high intuition. Anyway glad ur going to check out Daniel Mackler. He is wonderful and so authentic. I have the same issues as him with my toxic family from which I went no contact, same as Daniel. Great talking to you.
lol INTP here and I literally wrote stuff from my past in my notes and talked about it (bonus: we DID run out of time)
I've never written out a list, but I definitely make one in my mind.
Yeah, same. Also, I always forgot what I was supposed to talk about in the next session with my therapist because there was so much going on in my head and new shit always came up. So in the end I ended up talking about nothing, until I started writing those things down for reminder. And oh boy, how the time flies when I started talking about all that.
You did not get into a combative argument demanding an explanation of what possibly could not be found in a textbook?
I write down lists of things to talk about in therapy months in advance just in case i DO get a therapist
Same
As an INFJ, this video has no business being so accurate
All that would make INTJ more accurate is adding "You believe me, right? Because I really wanna go home now, but my family told me I have to come to these until I 'get better', whatever that means."
INFP approves the message that the fabric of reality of fraying. *looks off into distance* I just know that it is. I can feel it
Ah, it's all an illusion anyway - the fabric of reality -one big reality. There is no such thing.
@@aniokay I mean, there's no way to be sure. I mean, we could be living in a computer generation for all we know
I new it was INFP when he used the fabric shirt metaphor. We love our metaphors and simalies.
INTJ here, you guys are just personifying your negative world view with an abstraction. Perhaps you should look towards improving your own life so that it doesn't feel like reality is falling apart at the seams. Reality isn't falling apart, your sense of stability is. Best of luck.
@@WithinAnonymity I'm an infp and i agree with you. I would like if my fellow infp would look more into cognitive functions, and i suggest checking "personality hacker" and "a little bit of personality" website for that. INFP in their best, is inspirational!
INFP realizing life is not a fairy tale : "OMG what could possibly be WORSE than this ?"
*years later*
INFP realizing life is not a tragedy either : "UUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGHHH !!"
Wtf is this so relatable??
Stuck in an endless limbo of mediocrity no where to go but to float between realities 😔 what is it universe? Make up your mind
oof
@@Kiki-uz9ur wow man...
@@Kiki-uz9ur ouch right in my insecurities
INTJ on his/her deathbed... "Finally!"
I'm only seventeen. I'm ready to die😂 INTJ life
@@apollorook5475 Wait and see. Maybe the annoying people will go away with time. 😉
@@Kimbp85 Wishful thinking. 😂
@@apollorook5475 GL bro im 21 INTJ and it will get even worse 😂
Damn, why is this capture my emotions so well? I mean it’s ok if I keep living, but if the universe ends things I’m not complaining 😂
“It was so expensive, it was like 20 bucks”
The accuracy is astonishing
So I started the hear about the tooth fair story and thought "this is totally me." Yep, INFP. 🤣
Me too! I was like I know this is INFP. 😂😂😂
I almost died laughing, I was like this is so me😂 #infpproblems lol
Yes, called it. 😫
Reminded me of finding out about Santa
This is why parents shouldn't lie to their kids. Their INFP kids will be completely crushed when reality sinks in lol.
INTJ: “I’m only joking when I say that life is an excruciating exercise in futile misery and that I can’t stand humanity. Get a sense of humor. Jeez.” Only I’m not joking at all, and only said that so you wouldn't be crushed under the weight of my misanthropic cynicism.
I stopped saying I am joking. It is funnier.
"im only joking" was the joke.
dont you know the way, of tricking other people, by telling the trues, but acting like lyling, so they believe in a lie?
I always say I'm joking when I am not. Or that I made a bad joke because I give up on people understanding my words
Spot on
I find this mildly distressing that I identified with his statement. I find not telling others that I am joking makes them uncomfortable and gives me a sense of satisfaction. I know I shouldn't be amused by this. If you find my feelings, do keep them. I have no use for most of them. I am retiring back to my mind. It is tolerable there and not filled with peoples.
That depiction of an INTP was só congruously on point that it managed to meet all of my vastly high expectations.
I regularly explain my emotional state as "that vine where it's Goofy and he's singing Evanescence" so yeah. ENFP
Why doesn’t this have likes? I gave you a like, have a nice day.
I’m an INFP with an ENFP best friend and she deadass started pulling up memes when she was sobbing about her life.. your description is not far from reality lmao
😭😭😭
I am confident I can communicate better with memes, GIFs and Vines better than I can with normal texts.
Therapist: Hello
Me: H-hi?
Therapist: How are you?
Me: Good.
Therapist: What’s wrong?
Me: Nothing.
Therapist: Ok.
I’m an INFP, and we over think things in our head. But in reality, it would be this.
hahah, INFP here too
In reality thats exactly how it goes. INFP who has been to therapy here lol
Or
*hands sketchbook to therapist*
*crosses arms and waits*
This is the accurate version. Even though I am feeling extremely depressed and suicidal, I go there and tell her that I'm doing fine, every session.
I used to have a therapist and I just blabbed about irrelevant shit and deflected all mentions of feelings. I mean, I was a kid back then, but it's not like things have changed that much.
That INFJ is so relatable. I work on a legal aid hotline helping person after person in crisis and have two children and a husband with mental illness and it's both invigorating and soul crushing at the same time. I tried therapy and just talked about everyone else's problems the whole time. My preferred coping mechanism (I am not recommending this, just saying it's what I do) is to go out for a run by myself, play music with a peppy beat and horribly depressing lyrics about how we're all doomed to live lives of desperate, meaningless loneliness and sob violently and then come home and pretend everything is fine to those on the outside because I'd hate for them to worry about me.
Me: INTP
Also Me: loves Naruto
Me: Has facts from the manga, the interviews of Kishimoto, the anime, the database.
Shall i continue?
No i got you i m intp too
I am INTP, And I 1000% agree Naruto is overrated...(I started to agree with this after I watched attack on titan, One piece and many more anime/manga)
@@legendarymaster9005 aot is my fav anime 😭😭 i am a workahipper of aot ,yah and naruto is overrated but i enjoyed it at first
*"NEEEEEEEERRRD"*
-me, an INTP :|
Naruto is pretty good but I've seen some better animes
INFJ - “My therapist is getting more value from these sessions than I am.”
Me (INFJ) with psychiatrist: I'm doing great. Everything is doing well. How have you been?
Watches video and sees what actually goes on in my head.
INFP tho but ya
also with a medical doctor, when seeing how stressed the doctor appears to be.
The School Yes!!!
OMG, EXACTLY. A little smirk on his face in a nondescript answer things quickly pointing back to me
This hit too close home
INTJ here, I walked into my first therapy session with a personally(using a professional test) tested diagnosis(which he agreed with) and a plan for progress
The INFJ sliding down in the chair is so accurate😭 I always do that as a sort of retreat when I feel like my emotional dam
is about to break
INTJ here and my theraphy sessions went like this.
- I came in sceptical on as to how this person is qualified and accurate to help me overcome years of irreversable trauma
- The peasant gave me kiddy tasks to write 3 things a day that gave me joy.
- The whole task itself gave me less joy in live and made me question as to why my therapist gets paid for this bs.
- Throughout the sessions itself I had to spell out my pre self-diagnosed disorders and list of trauma, because he literally asked me nothing of importance.
- Wasted time on someone who got paid to hand out kindergarden-esque questions for grown adults with full brain capacity.
- Realized I studied more about psychological / emotional issues than the person who gets paid for it.
- Better off being my own therapist. Thank you, Felicio.
INTJs truly do better alone/than others and its no joke. Even if others are in reality better than us, we still feel not helped whatsoever. The whole concept of theraphy just does not apply to INTJs, unless the therapist itself is an INTJ or something close to that. INTJs please like this if you agree. Also non INTJs: This is not meant as arrogant. We are truly desperate for better mental health care for INTJs.
As an INTP I think I'd use a shrink more as a sounding board than anything else. "How off base does this sound? What's your take on such n such methodology over this methodology." etc.
'unless the therapist itself is an INTJ or something close to that' yes, Im INTJ and doing therapy with an INTJ, is really deep, completely different from the others, in 2 months things changed A LOT in my head, things are lighter now, I do recommend.
I am an INFJ, and this is me. I apparently got lucky and found 2 competent, understanding, and helpful therapists that care.
I'm INTJ too, and I hate talking or thinking about feelings. at all. If I have a problem then I would want someone to ask what is the matter, what happened, and then go right to How can I fix this, and not talk extensively about my personal life and how it may or may not have led to this or that.
@@miacole4952 Except that talking about what might have led to this or that, might help you figure how not to get there next time. That way we're hot having to constantly put out fires.
I am every single one of these people, somehow.
-INTP
yeSss like whenever i watch his videos and i say oh its me :((
if this a goddamn correct
I'm the same as that as an intp as well it seems that i mach the infp and the intj a little to much
I'm an INTP, but I felt ISFP on another level.
Me an infp - ‘I don’t like telling people how I feel’..my therapist - ‘ok then we’ll work on that’...me - ‘It started when I got baptised..’
Therapist: how do you feel?
Infj: *internal world is a chaos everyday with billion of thoughts about why do I still exist and when is my death and what comes after death and whether I will find peace after, I'm struggling but I'm fine.
Infj: "I'm fine, how about you? Are you having any problems?"
INTJ: accurate. Humor makes it easier to bear. Therefore is joke.
dirtywhitellama You don’t know how often I’ve had difficulty caused by this
@@ethanlocke3604 if you're like me, almost every time you talk to someone, so, rarely ;)
dirtywhitellama you speak the truth
Yeah. right.
2:36 starts talking
me: "it's INFP, isn't it? it must be. definitely. it sounds like me."
A few seconds later: "INFP" shows on the screen
me: "ha, I knew it."
Okay so this must be an intp thing because I said the exact same thing
I did the exact same thing. Complaining about the paperwork? That's me. *ISTJ pops up* Called it.
same....is it just me or are infps very distinctive in these videos? i always guess them right...
When I saw the T-shirt, I was like - hmm ... I wouldn't wear that to work or outside, but I would wear something like that to a therapist ... holy shit it is my type.
As an INFP who also lost a tooth in 3rd grade, hid it under my pillow without telling my parents, and woke up the next day with the tooth still there and no money left behind...accurate
The "I'm only here because people tell me to open up" is sooooo accurate. As an ISTP, emotions aren't my strong suit, especially when it comes to admitting shit. Well it's either that or my pride
lol infp is too accurate I always talk about memories that crushed my reality 😄😄 Good video 👍🏻
Wormwood Jones me too haha
Santa for me
I initially misread the title as "16 Personalities AS Therapists" - and honestly? I think that would be an amazing next video!! 😂😂 this was the funniest yet~
As an ENTJ ,I always start and end stuff with the deadline it's much more efficient you know ;)
as a female intj all the male infp here are driving me crazy
Yeah same
What does that mean? :0
INTP making a list of disturbing recent occurrences
I approve
~ INTP in therapy
"I'm only joking when I say, that life is an excruciating exercise in futile misery and that I can't stand humanity." Pretty much sums up an INTJ's entire bio. Lol
The INTP had me cackling :')))) So hilarious. Also as an INFJ, it was soooooo accurate ^^