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  • @sneholic
    @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +235

    To everyone who watched this video and took the time to comment on it , thank you so much 😊 I’m glad that atleast a few of you’ll liked it and I’ll make sure to refine the upcoming contents into a better way . Also let me know your suggestions on other topics that you’d like to hear about and I’ll definitely do it ❤️ And to all those beautiful souls who went through the things you’ll didn’t deserve to , it’s okay and it is what it is .

    • @LakshikaHema
      @LakshikaHema Před 4 měsíci +1

      I would like to suggest you talking about ..
      There's this group of people saying after u completed 12th only study for engineering and doctor .. so can you talk about that it's our opion and choice to take the course we lyk and are interested❤ this is my opinion snegu .. if u have ur free time and can make this content I feel it would motivate many students completing 12th and in a dilema to choose their future course and even if they have no interest on that course for there parents they study .. thank you 🙂
      Love you snegu ❤❤

    • @sindhiap682
      @sindhiap682 Před 4 měsíci +1

      You are literally me... Facing the same thing since my child hood , I thought I am that only unlucky person but not, we are authentic than we think❤

    • @Harshitha596
      @Harshitha596 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thank you for your videos
      It was a eye opener to me

    • @user-gy9bx2qo9g
      @user-gy9bx2qo9g Před 4 měsíci +3

      One of the best video ⭐. Treasure 🌝

    • @Nish20088
      @Nish20088 Před 4 měsíci

      Please make more such videos like this

  • @Shanita-vq5vl
    @Shanita-vq5vl Před 3 měsíci +14

    I used to be a extrovert
    Now i am a introvert
    Love everyone and me
    Hate everything
    I used to be fat from a kid , everyone make fun of me, i got acne
    All i want to lose my weight and look pretty but that never occurred for me,.
    Due to my look i focused on studies
    And everyone called me padipus, gundachi,kuthani
    I used to cry in bathroom
    I used to have a friend who is my bestie but she just used me for my brain and to look pretty standing near me then she always left me alone when i need her . One day i should bring a girl on my birthday to give candy i asked her she told no and she called my in a bad word
    the same time my brother is my opposite he is a all rounder good at everything. My parents always compared me and scaled-down me .
    At lockdown i become plus my size and none in school talk to me .
    Now i makeup stories to my mother that i am happy and i am best to avoid scolding and beating.
    I got none to share this but after hearing your story u always been my role model
    I hope this story is inspiring .it is always been my secret today i can't control it alwqys the pot will overflow one day.😢
    Pls do a video on body shaming pls
    👇( like so she will see this)

  • @ramyaasp9447
    @ramyaasp9447 Před 4 měsíci +137

    Hi ma.
    Bitter truth about friendship.
    1. Betrayal never comes from enemies.
    2. Self respect vs friendship -> self respect
    3. School phase, college phase, friendship are like train journey. Once their destination reaches, they'll get off.

  • @shalomnissi5649
    @shalomnissi5649 Před 4 měsíci +102

    People will hate and hurt you, when they can't beat you. 💯💯

  • @hithisish
    @hithisish Před 4 měsíci +297

    i literally had tears hearing you go through the same shit i went through, going through. i had very bad friendships in school. i wanted things to change but unlike you, i didn’t build a guard around me when i came to college, instead i let everyone in. it was all butterflies in the start, but history just repeated itself. ik this too shall pass but its actually v v v difficult coping. Really glad hearing someone talk about this in the right time❤️

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +57

      Hope you’re doing good now 🫂❤️

    • @justforfun5172
      @justforfun5172 Před 4 měsíci +5

      ​@@sneholiccan u post about practicing self love sis ❤

    • @nainaedits.126
      @nainaedits.126 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I thought I'm the one going through this 😪 this is so horrible still now I'm around all toxic people where I'm just suffering so much. Same to replace the lost life in school I started letting people in without boundaries initially ut was all so good I was so addicted later realized it was all the same and the same repeated in a wrse way now standing all alone

    • @hithisish
      @hithisish Před 3 měsíci

      @@nainaedits.126 i understand how difficult it is, but you’ll get through this and find the right people

  • @Lilyrose648
    @Lilyrose648 Před 4 měsíci +28

    this video healed me in a certain way...i have come to a point where i started to believe it is simply the way people are..i have been more on the giving side rather than the receiving side..being so desperate to be in the receiving side has put me down even more..being around manupulative people,toxic and fake ones,however i somehow got to know what was happening in my absence and how much hatred people have towards me for no reason and because of self assumptions.Your video felt more like a personal call with that one person who will always be there for you.I have realised that it was myself who has been thru all this and i never left my side during the downfalls...each heartbreak is actually a lesson to love yourself!

  • @user-nb7zg2yq5z
    @user-nb7zg2yq5z Před 4 měsíci +146

    I went through trauma in this friendship track snehaa💔 its better to stay alone than being with wrong one

  • @shiprrakrishnan9148
    @shiprrakrishnan9148 Před 4 měsíci +8

    you just spoke what i feel and kept this trauma inside me .... since childhood i have gone through this and still hitting the same shit in college but your words just made me realize accept it just show love it its mine it will find its way to me 🥺🥺🥺

  • @stevedavid7959
    @stevedavid7959 Před 4 měsíci +7

    This raw video is the real form of every person's heart, not just yours alone, but truly of everyone. Your genuineness became the mouthpiece of millions of broken people outside there just because of this one friendship insecurity. Thank you ma I felt the same and but it's not permanent is what you understood and has given a greater conclusion of peace. Thus it's an open podium of outburst. Last two thing to tell you. Only few people exist forever but then only for a limited time. In terms of justice, every heart gets the true desire whether be the person or thing it's the reward of God once the trials and tribulations are overcome through love and patience. One day you will be surprised to see yourself on top of the world with all the loved ones and things in you and around you in this valuable life.
    Remember, everyone needs people on our last day to carry our coffin.
    I'm sorry, if my words doesn't fit in this real world but every person can make the world fit in his life according to his desire.
    God bless you and everyone with the same struggles. Believe that this troubles will perish one day.

  • @wishdzns3395
    @wishdzns3395 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Tysm for this . ive gone through every single thing uve mentioned and ive been through every worst scenarios a frndship bw two ppl can happen . i wish u best of luck for ur future and thanks once again for this

  • @dianacamili363
    @dianacamili363 Před 4 měsíci +28

    Same feel ,when we think they are friends,but they don't think us , and betray us , leave us time of mental struggles

  • @Sarniyaveeranasamy
    @Sarniyaveeranasamy Před 4 měsíci +27

    Literally had gone back to those traumatic school days while watching your video each and every minute in ur video had a connection with my life especially 6:47 the same i went through and i still remember the date as well😢 and i went on and asked those people but they didn't even treat me as a human and during those i used to cry in my room in a corner using my pillow, even when i am typing my tears are automatically rolling down and the person was more than 11years of friendship she just blocked stopped talking avoiding me during breaks paper distribution and as u thought initially i also thought the same that the problem lies with me and i have to change but no not at all , and the girl she created a big group against me and when i used to go out in the corridor they used to bully me those were really toxic friendship and traumatic days in my entire life, now having no expectations abt friendship in college, i thought that i was the only person who went through all this but i see a lot of comments which i could connect

  • @yogalakshmi9171
    @yogalakshmi9171 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Real friend is one who stays constant throughout your up’s and down’s, kick you when you go wrong , pat you when you are down. It’s not like being together always, roaming around and having a chit chat, it’s all about respect, space, concern,love and care towards each other.
    But always things take time to process and understand. It’s always better to stay alone than ending with fake people around.
    Have a big smile and stay positive 😊

  • @lisa-yq6ep
    @lisa-yq6ep Před 4 měsíci +33

    I had a friendship which I had for 14 years. It broke 2 years ago... Im 23 now. I thought this friendship would continue for the rest of my life.ana enaku theriyala ethunala ipadi achunu.. After she gone like this I think maybe this is a fake friendship. She had a boyfriend.. She was in a relationship for 5 years. 2 years ago she calls her boyfriend to her house, he came from a long distance. Ava aniku vetula matikita. Suddenly she blamed me For her to escape.. She says I brought him, she doesn't know anything. Her mother call me and hurt me in front of her ..like ne enga veetula ithana varshama sapturkala athuku ipditha pannuviya, neyellam oru true friend ah . She didn't say a word. Ellam thittaiyum na vangitu vanthuten.. I don't know why suddenly she did like this.. I couldn't accept this at the time. But after a few days I stopped thinking about it. I still have memories of her in certain situations.. .
    Let what happens happen...
    I have faced lots of situations like this from different friends in different ways 🤐

    • @lisa-yq6ep
      @lisa-yq6ep Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@Crystalshine03🥲

    • @Sivakumar-lh8xr
      @Sivakumar-lh8xr Před 4 měsíci +1

      Soo sorryyy for you 🫂❤️ don't worry bro

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +3

      Hope you’re doing better now 🫂

    • @lisa-yq6ep
      @lisa-yq6ep Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@sneholic ❤

  • @user-wh8og4rx2m
    @user-wh8og4rx2m Před 4 měsíci +77

    Nethu dhan okandhutu aludutu irundeen friends eh illanu.. correct ah inaiku video... wavelength ❤😂 as you said orupadiya oru friend amayala...

  • @shylapriyadarshini1899
    @shylapriyadarshini1899 Před 4 měsíci +4

    The best topic you have spoke for now....and really needed this on the beginning and ending of my first year 💯

  • @madhumaddy5495
    @madhumaddy5495 Před 4 měsíci +14

    I have never commented in a CZcams video before...i think I must do it this time ...I thought this shit happens only to me i have cried my whole life about this.once i have got hurt and never believed in friendship again and built up a wall just like you ...after few years i have got a set of friends who changed my perspective...i have always been loyal and I just need only that set of friends my whole life but friends changed and they found new friends but i still think about only them ...they were my happiness still living with our memories ..I am in tears rn someone actually spoke about this and I can totally relate I don't know if anyone can relate the amount of pain I'm going through but anyone out there who is going through the same pain ur not alone...thanks a lot for this video sneha kudooss ❤️

  • @ishabhairavi.s2992
    @ishabhairavi.s2992 Před 4 měsíci +3

    One of the best videos❤Soo much relatableee. Spoke my mind.💯 Thanks a lot actually.. ❤❤

  • @Kookiedivv1213
    @Kookiedivv1213 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Okay i found this at the right time 😭😭. Was going through some issues in my clg due to friends and I wasn't really able to cope up with it as it drains my energy and makes me look depressed as i always start overthinking even for the slightest and petty things they do. I often find fault in myself for their behaviour towards me. I can't wait to get over this clg life as i have just 4 months left . Thanku for this vedio it was just a eye opener ❤️❤️

  • @nandhini99961
    @nandhini99961 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Its soo good to hear u alwayzz ❤. This kind of open talk will definitely give clarity to a soul that they are not alone ... keep going ❤

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +2

      Thank you so much 🤍

  • @yakshidiaries8626
    @yakshidiaries8626 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Omg!!!,this vid just literally made me cry!!!!my whole school friendship broke and i couldn't move on it's been one year I have kind of but that pain is still there...but they have moved on!!!!I loved my ex besties so much!!!en school le I had many friend aana avanga thaan enakku besties AA irundhanga!!!naan vaazhakaile nenikile that andha friendship break aghom nu!!!but I was literally heartbroken!!!now they hate me!!!!!...yen school last year le I was not ok mentally or emotionally.my last year of school was like hell...and I felt like they were changing...adhu naan poi confront panne ...so namakulla oru manakassappu vandhurchu....nesama solren..naan adhu Sheri panrathakku romba try panne...aana yen efforts e avanga ignore panitanga yen munnadi ok nu solli veliya poi they told Ava kooda Ella meendum friend a irk mudiyadhu....sneha akka sonna words were so relatable...but I still miss them!!!!

  • @i_am_nerd_alert
    @i_am_nerd_alert Před 4 měsíci +2

    I feel you, Im 25 now and I don’t have anyone to call my bestie. I feel hurt when I see people hang out with a close knit circle but me here being a loner. I have had the same thoughts and I came to terms with it. I have beat myself up with this for a long time and now I have accepted it! Don’t worry! Being alone also teaches you how to be strong!

  • @winterbear216
    @winterbear216 Před 4 měsíci

    I literally felt every things that you've just said!!!! But yeah life goes on nu pogano.As a person who went through few friendship breakups i felt very bad but as time goes on it seriously healed me and then i realised who is the true one.True ones never leave and if someone leaves you we should just take it as chapter of our life,when i went through a friendship breakup i seriously lost hope in friendship but there was few people who hade hope for me and that made me realise who are worth for my love❤

  • @soundaryay7950
    @soundaryay7950 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I'll agree to your point sneha much needed in my childhood have faced alot of awful memories from school people anga irundhu higher studies ku move on anadhuku apro i got my pillars ❤

  • @Shaddy_0008
    @Shaddy_0008 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This vdo is sm relatable !!!! Thank you for posting it Sneha !!... And I cn able too see so many ppl like me, in the comments section... without a good friendship. Don't worry guyz... This too shall pass and let's focus on our future rather than thinking abt not having any frndz... Just maintain a distance with ppl and don't take too much advantage... Avanga edhachu oru naal vittu thn poga poraanga...😒

  • @sifra08
    @sifra08 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Sneha this video is very relatable. And I'm looking forward to seeing more of these videos.
    I actually thought I was the only person who was going through such a thing in life cuz it really affects in many ways and now I know there are many ppl out here who feel the same way.
    I've always wanted a friend who has my back and be friends forever or smthg but I've been hit so many times and still try to find ppl to stay with. I had a friend in my old apartment i had just met her in 2022 Jan or smthg and by dec we became so close, that we realized we had so much in common and became best friends and thought she was different from others, at least i thought she was until I shifted. First few days we txted and then as days go by she stopped txting me. now she doesn't txt me until i do but i still like her cuz she is a good friend.
    I've gone through a lot more worse stuff before so I don't even care if smthg happens now.
    Thank you sneha for this video.

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +8

      I can totally relate to you and there’s nothing that i could say that might make you feel better . But just know that you didn’t go through all of that for nothing . What is meant for you will come to you . Athuvaraikum be you & never lose yourself 🤍

  • @akshayasenthil8940
    @akshayasenthil8940 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are true. Even I am in the same stage now, I again start to pull myself to the same person who I don't want. But again I got the same heart break from certain people. They made a promise to me that we will not do the same things to you. You are so important to us don't worry but. They completely changed when I needed them most. I needed them when I was literally in my bad state. It was a medical issue for me that the doctor said I have an issue with my health if it does not cure I may....... I just didn't attend my college for 4 months. My bad luck It was in a medical emergency near my birthday last year. They know about my issue but they never have been with me when I need them. I just stopped talking to them because of this kind of behaviour to me. They never asked me whether I am ok or not both physically or mentally. They also ignored me after they got new friends with whom they are happy. It's still hurting but like before. But it's really not that easy to move on from everything. And I just lost trust in friendship now 🙂. Just giving them a smile that doesn't matter to me anymore

  • @SumaSuresh-xl6dd
    @SumaSuresh-xl6dd Před 4 měsíci +3

    Ur literally the best influencer I have ever seen.... I'm elder but I learnt so many things from you thank you sheguuu...as you said now I'm molded into a better person and I have shared this videos to my friends tooo❤✨
    Thank you for those valuable words 🤍💪🏻your strong and things will get better soon

  • @Akalya55
    @Akalya55 Před 4 měsíci

    The Last part u said was absolutely true which I was thought before seeing this video and it is related . "If you really love something set it free...." Thanks for making this video

  • @jaslin6647
    @jaslin6647 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hey sis!! You know last week i have faced this problem while seeing your video it gives me good feel nd relax,now i know be yourself dont change yourself for anyone..lots of luv sis❤️❤️✨

  • @saidarshan8042
    @saidarshan8042 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Yess.............❤
    I also went through this trauma and now also being continued in my environment space same 🗯️🧐 thoughts i have 😮 u told as a video 😊 i like ur way of opening up 🥰 same age same situation 🤧 but i think i have a ✨💫✨💫good soul in heart...♥️💝

  • @Its_angelafrxh
    @Its_angelafrxh Před 4 měsíci +2

    Yaah snegu....really a comfort video needed this very much....i thought i was the mistake and my friends made me think i m fake,i m the mistake....becoz of that i went to mental depression from 2024🙂....and this video made me feel better❤...like literally a comfort video dear....luv u lots ❤️

  • @armyforlife5837
    @armyforlife5837 Před 4 měsíci +42

    OMG. This literally had me in tears, akka. I never had good luck in friendship. Like you said, I always thought I was the problem here. In the middle of shifting schools, I really wanted someone to be my friend, but I never had one. People refrained from becoming friends because of my looks (had protruding teeth and alopecia - a very serious hair problem), and I had to go through a bullying stage where random people would literally pull my hair and stuff (don't worry, not getting into details). Now that I don’t have any of the mentioned problems, people are treating me differently. Like you mentioned in this video, I too put up a wall. This year I focused too much on these friendship dramas and ignored academics, which led to me failing in exams.
    To be honest, when I first started watching your videos around the end of 2020, I was under the assumption that you never had to go through any of this. I don't know why, though. But then, gradually, I realized that just because you are a CZcamsr doesn't mean that you never went through all this stuff. This video was so very relatable, and I felt that I am not the only person going through this shit. This video and the last few videos of Momfluencer made me feel so much closer to you guys as a subscriber! Love the idea of this new series and looking forward to this! BTW, this is Aparna from Chennai. Lots of love, guys.

    • @user-wh8og4rx2m
      @user-wh8og4rx2m Před 4 měsíci +3

      omg, you don't deserve to go through all these 🥺💜🫂 have a pet , there'll be your best friends. you are worthy of everything 💖 don't let yourself down .. focus on your studies.. you'll be okay ❤️

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +8

      Hope you’re doing better now Aparna 🫂 thank you so much , this means a lot to me ❤ also do drop your suggestions on what I could talk about next

    • @alishainfotech6034
      @alishainfotech6034 Před 4 měsíci

      Hi akka collaboration pannuvingala

  • @nandhuramesh
    @nandhuramesh Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hey Sneha..❤
    U just Heal me a lot Gurl..😊
    Thank you for the video💞
    And Do more videos

  • @abcd-zi3vh
    @abcd-zi3vh Před 4 měsíci +1

    Its true ..thank you for speaking about this ☺️ 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @subasreek.p497
    @subasreek.p497 Před 4 měsíci +1

    i could see myself from you sweet ! fights and misunderstandings in friendship is common . we can be friends with everyone but when we start to find that best friend vube in friends where the friendship started to get diminisshed . dont worry sweet. ! it will get better ! prioritise your family ❤

  • @32jayashreej41
    @32jayashreej41 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So relatable.
    I too gone through it . I had frnds as passing cloud. There's nothing to say more , Just live as U want , don't worry for the things which is not in urs control 😊

  • @roshiniramaraj8914
    @roshiniramaraj8914 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Keep it dude.. romba relatable ah irunduchu

  • @nandhinirathinavel2284
    @nandhinirathinavel2284 Před 4 měsíci

    Totally agree with everything you said snehu💯.. Lots of love and tight hug to you grl ❤️🫂

  • @taluzahida51
    @taluzahida51 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I agree..i have lost tons of friendships in my life ..somewhere from being a very sensitive person crying over silly stuff i am now a bit more strong.. believe me it all happens for good..its not like i don't believe in best friends but i do believe that no one remains forever .. every one u have now won't remain the same once u enter into college, after school life u will run out of topics nd eventually u will have nothing to talk so its better not to stay is disbelief.. accept the reality and enjoy the present ✨

  • @aninditajagadhish
    @aninditajagadhish Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good topic... Loved it❤

  • @charunethra6486
    @charunethra6486 Před 4 měsíci

    After seeing this video l just saw mi life story in ur video sis i too felt these kinda shity things and even more i got stressed due to this problem soon after i just letted it go now im feeling proud for being so loyal for mi self in this dark generation and i have accepted these situations and moved up :) love u sistaa❤and this is the best life lesson that the life thought me!!!in thizz eraa😊

  • @kanishka43
    @kanishka43 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sneha ka ennakku ungla maari dha en life la ye oru friend forever nu erundhadhu ella. And na oru person kooda romba close ana oru time la I think she is my everything at that time without telling any reason she leaves me ennaka adha ethukave mudila I just I can't come back to normal.whenever I see her my heart cry for her. but she just like that nu enna romba easy throw pantu another person kuda happy ya erukka . Because of her I just stuck in my life even I cried hardly in my birthday coz of her . Now I understand that nothing is permanent we just have to move on . Thank ka for talking about fake friendship ❤❤

  • @awesomeblossom1842
    @awesomeblossom1842 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Something in me is predicted absolutely correct by you ❤️Enakku mattum thaan ippidi lam nadakutho nu nenache .....but it makes me feel ok to hear that....there are many like this in the same situation 😇

  • @pavakka993
    @pavakka993 Před 4 měsíci +5

    The reason why I don't have good friends in my 8 years of school life...
    I am not aware of people and how to handle them
    I allowed them to USE AND THROW ME
    they thought that I am not fair enough in skin color
    I am topper so they don't like that
    I am a different person like a nerd in studies so they don't like that
    What I did to overcome
    I started to love myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    I build my value in school
    I came to know the 3 things "இடம் பொருள் ஏவல்"

  • @dhanyashreev708
    @dhanyashreev708 Před 4 měsíci

    Its really very true..even i have gone through this phase and now i got a good friend ❤ soon u will get one🥂.

  • @vishali.d6255
    @vishali.d6255 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much 💓 it's so related to mee..U changed My thoughts

  • @bhagyalakshmik4686
    @bhagyalakshmik4686 Před měsícem

    Someone really spoke my heart out ❤❤❤ amazing amazing content delivery…. Should appreciate you for speaking out …thank you … more strength to you ♥️….
    Speak about friendship breakups too …

  • @ArSri
    @ArSri Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanku sneha..it's a needed topic. Nowadays people need companions to hangout rather than friends.

  • @YashiniShree067
    @YashiniShree067 Před 4 měsíci +1

    literally the same Sneha sis .. I am a preteen who is a 13-year-old girl. who really has a light bit lower reputation among teachers because of one damn thing I just did and my friends who were 7 years with me just left me this year with I graduated to 9th grade. of sudden I really mentally suffered a lot of pain which was not easy to take. Every video was relatable when I opened CZcams and now ur content is also relatable from the first sentence. breakup vida broken friendship is bitter and sour to take .. thank you so much for this amazing content.

  • @bae725
    @bae725 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Very clearly articulated ❤

  • @nithishab6041
    @nithishab6041 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is a true incident in my life what you have said , but at the same time now my life is becoming some what better with the right person. So , what. I really mean is things never happen twice. May be in the next era you'll see "Time and him are just right" that kind of friendship...
    Don't worry about it , Love your self and move on

  • @logeshwarimurugan4769
    @logeshwarimurugan4769 Před 3 měsíci

    One of my fav thought ful video... thank you for that 💓✨💝 remember u r ur best friend....💛keep going

  • @dineshkumar-dc1ls
    @dineshkumar-dc1ls Před 4 měsíci +23

    In college days I have lot of friends how i am jobless time l have no friends.
    People don't change options will be changed.

  • @dazzlergirl9886
    @dazzlergirl9886 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Inga eruka sila friendship la... Avangala veeda azhaga , thiramaiya erundha pudikadhu... Avangaluku ama saami pota nallavanga nu solvanga..... Enjoy ur life by ur own🎉...even siblings and parents kooda vara pooradhu illa...avangaley varadha modhu friends yum apdi thaan....so neenga adha serious ha edukadhinga...u just be like pesna pesu, peslana poo ..and neenga avanga illa nu feel panni broke aana avangaluku adhu happy thaan...but avanga ungala vitu pooitu aprm happy ha erundhingana avangaluku adhu erium...so jus be u and enjoy urself❤

  • @techb4l
    @techb4l Před 4 měsíci +2

    Literally speaking you spoke all the sorts and aspects of friendship which i thought and even thinking till now. As of now i am in the same situation you are 101% but i am out this by being alone always and speak to person who speaks to you only.And now i am some what ok after finding the happiness being alone and Enjoying with yourself. Great talk to find the similar minds 💯.In my case i lost my mother who was my one and only best friend who heard all my blabbers ,feelings ,literally everything. But you have your best friend i.e.. your Mom and Brother . But i known you already do and continue your true friendship. Finally i found a person who think like me. Inum naraiya solalam but comment box pathadhu🙂❤.

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +3

      Hope you’re doing amazing now and always 🤍 thanks for taking the time to express this

  • @yakshidiaries8626
    @yakshidiaries8626 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Ippo thaan puriyudhu that its not just me!!!!there are many people who have gone through the same pain!!!!!akka nesama solren naan romba value pannadha friendship thaan aana avlo value panni .....avanga kagh yedhu vanalum pannara mari irundhum they couldn't understand me adhu thaan ennaku romba hurt ayidchu!!!!!ippo i have some very good college friends but ippo kooda andha bhayan irk...after that i got trust issues and it kinda changed my personality!!!but i really wanna say that my college friends atleast ippo varaikyum are very good💗🤗✨...

  • @ft.alphazluna
    @ft.alphazluna Před 3 měsíci +1

    @sneholic You were so true when you said I've never believed in friendships and i literally cried through this entire video friendship doesn't did anything in my entire freakin 17 yr life except the depression and trauma but later on i agreed with that and said to myself that not everyone has a good taste right and i moved on but I've literally prayed to have a good friendships that cheers me up when i am at my lowest but seruppadi hits you hard and serupadi makes you urupadi but ngl this comment section is filled with trauma and emotions i thought I was the only one but after this video i felt so bad that you came through the same shit and just wanna say you ilysm🤞( I hope u read my cmnt )

  • @yashwanth0502
    @yashwanth0502 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So much relatable. I thought its only me, Like I've been overthinking pointing myself, suprassing myself by asking one single question myself, "What's wrong with you?" Coz enakumeh there was no point where i had good friends. Everytime I'm with sunmon they just want on that phase of their life aprm enna kalati vitruvanga.. this is what goin on my life too. Since ppl are jus going jus like that, i started self doubting "en mela enna thappu naa enna pannen", tho i didn't do anything!. After a point veruthuten, Podhum da ebhaaa enuf is enuf I'm destined to be so nu i started accepting things. And now to some extent life is peaceful but still there's a gap for a good friend around me. Ughhhh.. I jus want to hug you bruh! Sending you a lot of strength and positivity.. everything will be fine ❤

  • @vidyunmalaumashankar6123
    @vidyunmalaumashankar6123 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hey sis , what u have told from first to last is so trueee… , because of friendship I started thinking everyone is fake out there but some people come to u and become so close and then they disappear, I have cried a lot for that person but there is no use 💔. And thank you for this video sis ❤️‍🩹.

  • @user-dx7mk7tc4e
    @user-dx7mk7tc4e Před 4 měsíci +8

    Seriously, the same thing happened to me. Even today, I cried that i did'nt get the same effort from the other side of friendship. when someone advising me that thas person is doing this and that, and I really fought for them, like, 'No, don't talk about her like this.'(even i lost that frienship for that person) But when i get to know that someone is right,it hurts ....also this video helped to get out of that like i am not the only person .We need more videos akin to these

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Hope you feel better now and I’m glad this helped you in the least way 🤍

  • @ddsaro7617
    @ddsaro7617 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow that was very well said actually 👏🏻 .

  • @user-hv6hw2tu2v
    @user-hv6hw2tu2v Před 4 měsíci +1

    Being along is a gift ❤ rather than being in wrong group.

  • @vaishnavi.k1053
    @vaishnavi.k1053 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you sister nega sonnadu elame enaku na enoda experience pati pesaramari iruduchu ❤

  • @avinash2593
    @avinash2593 Před 4 měsíci +1

    We are there for you 💕 love you sneholic

  • @vaishnavik3461
    @vaishnavik3461 Před 4 měsíci

    This vedio is so relatable ... expecting more vedios like this from you .

  • @rachitar4217
    @rachitar4217 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I to faced a lottttt 🙃 still now not getting over it🚶🏻‍♀️ thanks for the video snegu!🫂🥺🙃

  • @dhivya0768
    @dhivya0768 Před 4 měsíci

    I can relate to this topic I also in this phase snegu it helps me a lot from your words I have a lot of friends in my school and colleges but till now there is no one to talk to heel my self from my point of view so thank you for your valuable words to me I'm happy to share your opinions in unfiltered please talk about overthinking it will more helpful to me and others also I'm suffering from this so many months I can't take some solution from this please snegu i think you are my sister and friend♥️

  • @zhotyazoel6205
    @zhotyazoel6205 Před 4 měsíci +2

    So so so relatable comfort vedio😢❤

  • @hemalatha5029
    @hemalatha5029 Před 4 měsíci

    I like ur videos sneha but this is something I love and took my time to watch it til end...
    Everything u said made so much sense and felt nice knowing iam not the only one...
    Pls continue this series!!❤️✨🥺

  • @chandrapeter960
    @chandrapeter960 Před 4 měsíci

    Hello akka this is so nice of u doing a video like this every single word u said i can relate it with me i guess it was'just me who saw people as a true friend i was hard for me to come over it but after seeing this video it made me feel so better thx 😊

  • @estheralisrose
    @estheralisrose Před 4 měsíci +2

    I was thinking about this today you posted❤

  • @Sassy_50
    @Sassy_50 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I am waiting for these kind of videos in yours ❤️✨

  • @Candy-mb3wn
    @Candy-mb3wn Před 4 měsíci

    True sneha I felt the same and feeling now too.this feeling hits really hard

  • @suphoria7uv
    @suphoria7uv Před 4 měsíci +1

    Words would never be enough to explain how much your words have hit me hard. Seeing you only on screen from the very beginning I've never ever thought you would be going through phase sneha. Idk how to put it into words but the only thing is, you deserve much more better and I hope you are doing alright now. Have anyone told you before? That your eyes shines when you smile...that's such an beautiful thing that you own. so please don't let anyone or anything take that from you. I love wht you are and the way you are now. Anyways keep shining

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci +1

      This has to be the most heartwhelming comment that I’ve received , thank you 🤍

  • @swethaswethaswetha431
    @swethaswethaswetha431 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great said da ❤

  • @Nisha07_06
    @Nisha07_06 Před 4 měsíci +1

    One of the best video from sneholic ❤

  • @catherinel2967
    @catherinel2967 Před 4 měsíci

    Completely relatable, I am in the same phase as that of you,thank you for sharing yor experience which make me believe that there is someone like me😢

  • @christinajames1854
    @christinajames1854 Před 4 měsíci

    i have faced this so much, thank for talking about it ... but its sad to be alone and being surrounded by toxic people

  • @jayajith
    @jayajith Před 4 měsíci +1

    Papa... Really Thank you so much for speaking about this.. it means so much to me.. Because I'm depressed for something for the last 2 weeks very badly... But today I got a clarity on myself... Even though I'd completed my graduate & currently studying LAW , I can't handle myself when I get broken by someone else

  • @Fasiha.27
    @Fasiha.27 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you❤ Its sad being this relatable for so many. Thank you for making me feel less lonely on this topic❤

  • @radhamohan6564
    @radhamohan6564 Před 4 měsíci

    U choose so so different topics. Keep rocking

  • @Sakthi_Maheswari
    @Sakthi_Maheswari Před 3 měsíci

    Friendship la sogam , sandhosham , rants , ennalum sollalaam , silent ta irukalaam , kovam , sanda nu ellame irukum . Ippo iruka gen la yaarukum avanga pathi personal stuffs share panna pudikaathu but instead romba superficial la fake ka andha time period ku oru person nalla pesa iruntha pothum nu irupaanga that is what is termed as cool and being in good books now a days . Thappu namba mela illa cause namba deep pa palaga nekaikurom aana avangaluku athu theiva illa that's it . I pray and wish you to find friends with whom you will experience the real essence of friendship ✨️💯

  • @Gigi_smiley
    @Gigi_smiley Před 4 měsíci +4

    Yeah there was literally a very hard time in my life too... Where there was a friend for 2 yrs who was more than anyone that I wanted ... But then things happened maybe bcz of me and our friendship was totally over..... The blame was always on me saying that I was the one who was fake and betrayed....I still had hope that aftr few months I could change everything and go back to her... But she left permanently without a word.... And here I am in tears as before but she there being happy with spreading hatred about me.... She never forgave me and now she forgot me ig...but here I am looking at our old photos with a tiny hope that she will talk to me one day

    • @justforfun5172
      @justforfun5172 Před 4 měsíci +1

      No u deserve better pls forget and stay bold and start self love dear

  • @LakshikaHema
    @LakshikaHema Před 4 měsíci

    I have gone through this friendship betrayals and break ups sneha 💔 but then I thought why should I put down myself just for those people infact to be honest I am really happy now and also feel may be atleast I got to know about them this soon and did not take it too long which would make me a Lott more depressed
    Thanks for this video .. helps me for a come back ❤

  • @yosha885
    @yosha885 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I've been heart-broken many times in friendship more than in relationship.. Seriously kaa, I hated the used and throw concept of friendship.. Everytime we gt attached to them, we get heart-broken.. Many friendships kaa.. One of my 12 years friendship ended 2 days ago just bcz of a third person.. Im done with friendship 😌.. But kaa.. Thank you ❤.. Thank you so much for making me cry and let go all the pain of friendships in my heart.. it has been very heavy to have the pain inside.. Thank you Snegu kaa❤.. And and andd please do many episodes, i will support you!!.. I have your back kaa.. DO IT!❤😊

  • @funwithsan3959
    @funwithsan3959 Před 4 měsíci

    thank you so much ka .....it was lovely

  • @kajanthinikaja1396
    @kajanthinikaja1396 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Am 21 now I have 4 bestfriends .our gang formed in 2021 it's been 3 yrs and we have lot of fights ,lots of misunderstanding but we never thought about break our friendship.when we have misunderstanding we share our feelings and open up our problems without any ego.we got up and downs in our studies and career.we are always be with us in our success and failures so I assums we 5 are luckies ❤

  • @thestar1848
    @thestar1848 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The video was so relatable for me sneha ❤ ! Same like u I too never had someone to say the so called true friend ..... people around me always blamed me n that something is wrong with me bcuz of which I am not able to find a true friend ! But you know what ?! I had faced so many backstabs so many backstabss ... that Now I can't believe anyone around me even if if they are true to me to the fullest ! The fear of losing people is not allowing me to get along ! I found ur video so healing❤ ! Thanks a bunch 💕

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci

      Glad that the video helped you in the least way 🫂🤍

  • @shalinijayakumar8997
    @shalinijayakumar8997 Před 4 měsíci

    Itz actually very nice of you, that you took this imp topic and spoke abt it,, we actually expecting you to post more video in this topic:)

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci

      Definitely, do drop in your suggestions 🤍

  • @rajeshwariperiyasamy0612
    @rajeshwariperiyasamy0612 Před 4 měsíci

    Truely relatable sneha...i also went through this fake friends in all my entire life.literally i got tears 😭...

  • @simrithi11
    @simrithi11 Před 4 měsíci

    Whatever you are telling is all very true...thank you very much for the talk 🤍✨

  • @KirtikaKris
    @KirtikaKris Před 4 měsíci

    Soo relatable akka just now i was going this trauma yesterday . This video just healed me more 😊

  • @user-yu2xi2xr6u
    @user-yu2xi2xr6u Před 4 měsíci +9

    I gone through the same shit at my high school...during my 11th std I had that one frnd who ditched me for an other friend of her..the actual point is i'm the one who introduced her to that Frnd...it hits me alot..and again things went well after I got comfort with a new frnd..but time just taught me none can replace the same vibe...but one thing I could think of and relief myself is..my childhood frnd whom I lost the contact and get back again during 12th and she's the one I was searching for... ❤

  • @yazhinisri.s7098
    @yazhinisri.s7098 Před 4 měsíci

    Heard the right content before going college after losing friends in school ❤... Lots of love💕

  • @sowbaranikaa7819
    @sowbaranikaa7819 Před 3 měsíci

    We relate a lot, i hope you find a person who know you aa you are and made fun memories.❤🎉. Hope this reaches you.

  • @atchyamshorts9873
    @atchyamshorts9873 Před 4 měsíci

    Addicted to ur channel✨❤

  • @akshayahariprakash5445
    @akshayahariprakash5445 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is soooooo freaking relatable to me!!!!!! And I have had this problem for my entire life 🙂😭

  • @Harini953
    @Harini953 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This video came at the right time! Lots of love Sneha for coming up with such a good content ❤

  • @shivani8653
    @shivani8653 Před 4 měsíci

    Really those were the comforting words I needed ❤expecting more contents based on this😊

    • @sneholic
      @sneholic  Před 4 měsíci

      Glad you liked it and I’ll make sure to create more 💛